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If she liked you enough she would find time for you. Not saying she won't ever like you, but as of now she's not attracted which always makes it trickier. Dgaf attitude is the way to go. Don't sweat her and see other women.
/r/seduction02/02/16 06:19 PM
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This sounds like a great ad for Google cardboard.
/r/seduction02/02/16 02:53 PM
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Good job. I envy you for the fact that weed increases your confidence. I go about my day confident in myself, but weed just makes me paranoid. Can't even have a normal conversation with a girl without feeling weird and creepy. It's like I'm a different person. To sum it up when I'm sober (or drunk) I assume people have a positive opinion of me and girls find me sexy. When I'm high I afraid people will think of me as a creepy loser and think or say negative things about me. I can't explain why. I…
/r/seduction17/06/15 01:54 AM
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Another thing that I struggle with is oneities. My game has gotten very good. I can consistently pull girls and charm the shit out of them. The problem is I get really into the hot ones who have cool personalities. Like, any girl who I like hanging out with, is attractive and has sex with me I pretty much fall in love with. I have to reign myself in and act aloof. I'm good at hiding it, but honestly I crave affection and want a girlfriend. Not just casual flings. Improving my game hasn't changed…
/r/seduction18/02/15 08:56 AM
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Exposure, the most you are exposed to women the more comfortable you become. The more you get rejected the less you care. Being good with women is a skill like any other. To get at it you must practice. Studying and reading articles is fine but you have to practice as well. You will deal with fear and anxiety, by once you overcome this. You'll be wondering how you could have ever thought it was hard. When I was a teen from the ages of 13-17. I was very unpopular at school. Very bad socially, did…
/r/seduction16/02/15 11:10 PM
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How to win friends and influence people. It could be life changing to you. By the time I read it I had already developed decent social skills, but it made me realise the things I was doing right and help me eliminate the things I did wrong. If you follow the rules in that book it's becomes incredibly hard for people not to like you.
/r/seduction14/02/15 09:06 AM
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Sounds like your problem is calibration. Practice practice practice and eventually even the most socially awkward person will "get" when it's the right time to take the right action.
/r/seduction01/03/14 02:55 PM
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You gotta realize how little a make out means to most girls (and guys with game and options or just confidence). A drunken makeout at a party means practically nothing. She's acting like it never happened because it means nothing to her and it should matter to you even less. Life isn't a disney movie. The sooner you realize this the better. That doesn't mean you can't experience romance or love, but you gotta be patient. It doesn't just happen because you made out. A girl might start to get feel…
/r/seduction01/03/14 02:37 PM
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Like very1 saidWhen you're really confident or feeling confident or every faking confidence, you project your voice better and have attractive body language. Plus everyone can tell when you're just having your own fun. That's when you get situations like (walk straight up to a girl) -HII, I'M WIL -HI, I'NFKKANFKNANAS -COOL, I LIKE YOUR SHIRT -FNKAENFKAEFHIAIHF -NICE smile [make out] It's as easy as that. Nobody has awesome deep or amazingly witty conversations in clubs, not even with your friend…
/r/seduction01/03/14 02:20 PM
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I'm extremely laid back to a certain point. A girl saying that "when I feel like" line is definitely crossing the line though. That's such a shitty thing to say it's time to give her a reality check. Never met a girl that rude, but if I did I'd imagine I'd say something like "Um, on second thought please don't call. It's fine if you don't want to hang out, but don't ever disrespect me" and leave it at that. Some girls will realize they were being idiots and get attracted. Others will just get pi…
/r/seduction01/03/14 02:12 PM
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I think it's normal. Some girls just don't like it. Some are neutral about it and some love it, but I've found these girls a pretty rare and you'd be lucky to find one. I honestly find it a little irritating, as it adds quite a bit to sex for me, but it feels kinda dumb to make a big deal out of it when we're already having sex. So yeah if anyone has any ideas for getting more head, I'm all ears.
/r/seduction21/12/13 04:29 PM
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Hey bro, I appreciate the long reply even if you don't agree with me. This is based on my personal experience and what works for me, but if you can be successful at setting up dates by text then by all means do so. On the other hand there seems to be a high amount of guys that mess things up often by text, so this is an alternative that works very well for me. It's not about boldness, texting is just flat out more convenient. By calling her you either look like you have nothing going on in life …
/r/seduction20/12/13 12:03 PM
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Yeah, I might have a bias against texting. I've just read so many ridiculous stories about guys completely messing things up directly connected to texting. I myself messing up by overtexting a few years back. Until I switched to asking girls out by phone. Now I'm so used to it, I couldn't imagine switching back. That's not to say I never text. I mean, I'm 24. I'm talking more specifically about when it comes to asking a girl out for the first time. I think absolutely worth any inconvenience to g…
/r/seduction19/12/13 11:29 PM
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Maybe it's not totally clear, but the girl in the example has low interest. A girl that is super into you wouldn't deny getting on the phone with you twice. It's not like you should keep calling her, but offering to call at a better time is not annoying to a girl of high interest. Basically if she has enough interest to talk to you on the phone, she won't be annoyed. If it's low enough to actually get annoyed by the prospect of a call with you. You'd have no damn chance by text either and would …
/r/seduction19/12/13 10:07 PM
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Fair enough. If she had high attraction already she'd probably accept a date offer by text, but why would she be annoyed by a guy she's highly attracted to calling her? I see talking on the phone as a miniature date that leads to a physical date. If she's annoyed by having a five minute conversation with you. Why would she ever go on a date with you.
/r/seduction19/12/13 09:34 PM
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Everyone can be a big pimp in the right situations. If you were on an island with 50 chicks and they all respect you and wanna get with you because you can catch fish or some shit. You'll act like an attractive dude because you are a valuable dude in that situation and can get anyone you want. The funny thing is if you acted the same way in a situation where you don't actually have any tangible value like fish, you'd still be a big pimp. It's confidence itself that is the value. It's not even fa…
/r/seduction18/12/13 01:01 PM
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I've had the same problem with drunk sex. Being drunk in combination with wearing a condom makes it really tough for me to get up sometimes. My best advice is just relax. Don't rush things. Have long foreplay, girls like that. Maybe get her to give you a sexy massage or you give her one. Sometimes guys need some comfort building too before sex. If it's still not working, don't be embarrassed. It's only embarrassing if you make it. Once I had taken this work out supplement called jack3d before a …
/r/seduction18/12/13 12:03 PM
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Why would you even want to deal with this. Eject that shit like batman.
/r/seduction14/12/13 06:34 PM
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So share your advice on how to get that kind of game.
/r/seduction11/12/13 09:17 PM
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Care to elaborate on your thoughts? After all, the only kind of jockeys over 150lbs are the keyboard jockeys.
/r/seduction11/12/13 08:29 PM
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Yeah, I'm surprised when some of my friends tell me they actually prefer day game, but I'm starting to see it's merits. It's either that trying to figure out a away to inject alcohol directly into my veins :) Oh I'm 24.
/r/seduction11/12/13 06:33 PM
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I agree with you on everything. I always figured hot drunk pussy was better than a long dating session, but I'm starting to feel it's a little immature, not that I want to rule it out completely. Time to step up my game I guess.
/r/seduction11/12/13 06:22 PM
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I'm kidding. This is why I don't text ;)
/r/seduction11/12/13 06:17 PM
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Are you going to blame me for liking drunk and hot girls?
/r/seduction11/12/13 05:45 PM
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I know right. I still cringe at the thought of it. I guess I could call her, but it's been like a week. Any advice?
/r/seduction11/12/13 02:58 PM
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The only time I text is to set up logistics. Not saying it will fuck you over every time, but there's just too much room for misinterpretation. She may read you as being needy even if you're not. I hardly ever text with my friends either though, so that's just my preference. I'll tell you this; No girl has ever lost attraction from me not texting. These days picking up the phone and calling her is actually pretty impressive because nobody does it. It hasn't happen yet, but if a girl complains or…
/r/seduction11/12/13 12:14 PM
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Hey man, I'm not going to do you the injustice of making light of your problem. Whatever your perceived disadvantages are can become your strength though. Take pride in who you are, including you height. If you're not letting it bother you and stop you from doing things. With confidence anything that by itself would be considered unattractive become insignificant or just an endearing quirk. There will always be people who trying to bring you down, no matter how you look, but that's more a reflec…
/r/seduction09/12/13 11:26 AM
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I hesitated That's where it went wrong. Physical escalation is a must and in a high energy environment of a party it can go FAST, as frat boy proved. As soon as her friend left, you should have gone in closer and said something silly like "We're all alone now". That doesn't even make sense at a party I know, but it doesn't matter it creates a fun back and forth like "Oh yeah, I didn't notice". Fun vibes = easy escalation. Leading her somewhere with physical contact is a good one. "Let's get a dr…
/r/seduction09/12/13 10:42 AM
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There's no trick or tactic anyone here is going to tell you that will make it easier for you to approach her. You're afraid to talk to her. Just accept it. It happens. That "not much opportunity" stuff is self-delusional bullshit. If you wait the "perfect" opportunity, you'll be waiting a long time. Besides, approaching before or after class sounds like a pretty damn fine opportunity to me. You're nervous, but do it anyway. You might fail, but the benefits of trying and failing or infinitely hig…
/r/seduction09/12/13 10:16 AM
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The problem is when virgins believe that they can't get laid because they're virgins. As if once you put your dick inside a girl you'll magically have game. It's the other way around. You're a virgin because you can't get laid and have no game. If you keep improving your game and you yourself are willing to have sex, you will get laid at a certain point, whether you're a virgin or not. That's what seduction is for, to improve your game. It's like saying you're no good at basketball because you'r…
/r/seduction09/12/13 07:49 AM
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I was painfully shy and awkward as well until I started improving at 18. Not because I was plain or ugly, but I was picked on for being and looking different cause I'm half Asian and moved from China, so that gave me a lot of issues and false beliefs. Physically I was actually attractive. 6ft2, black hair and a handsome face. These days people ask if I'm a model, but back then I was just the awkward Chinese dude. That's how little looks matter if you don't have game. If a girl comes up to a guy …
/r/seduction08/12/13 08:28 AM
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Yeah, many people get that including me. Tyler from rsd talks about it a lot. He calls it being in state, which is like being in the zone. Before learning about it I thought it was so strange, when I'm in zone I've gone up to a hot girl fearlessly and was making out within 20 seconds, but when I'm not it's scary to even approach. Don't know what to say, etc. You know how it is. Basically what you have to do it take control of your own mood. If you're letting your moods be controlled by external …
/r/seduction06/12/13 07:28 PM
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It seems to me that you were not so much oblivious as you might have a subconscious fear of getting rejected later on, so you bail while you're ahead. I used to do it all then time when either I approached a girl and she's immediately extremely receptive. A girl approached me really interested. Get a hot girls number, but don't follow up. The second was the most common and I cannot tell you how frustrating. I mean holy shit this hot ass girl is approaching me and I'm acting totally stand-offish …
/r/seduction26/11/13 06:23 AM
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Apologize for being a dick, not for your sexuality or hitting on them. You gotta learn to to make a distinction which can be hard. They sometimes overlap. A lot of people take "never apologize" as "start purposefully acting like a dick and never apologize for it". If you're hitting on a girl and the stuff you're saying is coming from a positive place, you should never apologize cause there is no reason to no matter how direct or sexual you're being. Unfortunately, nobody's perfect and we all end…
/r/seduction24/11/13 08:34 AM
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Yes, I agree with this. Some girls realize that if they put out too easy, they guy will lose interest, so they add a little extra challenge. It's true too, how many girls have you had one night stands with that you wanted to start a relationship with after? Often you don't even care to see them again. That's why they're called one night stands. I wouldn't be worried unless she keeps doing it. Then it's probably a sign of low attraction.
/r/seduction23/11/13 01:42 PM
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All girls need a certain level of comfort with you before they'll have sex. Basically, you have too build crazy physical attraction, high escalation, push-pull, intense making out, all that jazz, but she'll only go home with you if add some comfort building to prove that you're "normal" and not a serial killer or a rapist. A lot of things can factor into how long this takes. Depends on her personality, level of attraction, who you're there with, mutual friends, drunkeness, how her friends feel a…
/r/seduction23/11/13 01:33 PM
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Getting too hung up on one girl. Guys have wasted weeks to years obsessing over one girl they'll never have when they could have been meeting hundreds of chicks who are just as good and getting better at meeting them.
/r/seduction23/11/13 12:16 PM
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It might have something to do with those factors, but realistically who makes eye contact with every single person. I think it's weird if you're just walking down the street and are making eye contact as eye contact is often followed by smiles or nods or conversation and most people just don't really want to get into that while walking to the grocery store. I think it's good to do as practice for people who have trouble making eye-contact, but it's not your end goal to stare every one down. I ev…
/r/seduction23/11/13 11:47 AM
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Hey man, I can relate to that feeling all too well. Lost my virginity at 18 and didn't have a girlfriend until 20. I'm 24 now and I have success I could never have dreamed of when I was a super shy and quiet teenager. I still have some anxiety when approaching a girl I don't know, but in every other aspect of interacting with women I'm totally cool. They key is first hand experience, force yourself to approach and interact with a bunch of women regularly and force your brain to realize nothing h…
/r/seduction23/11/13 11:12 AM
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You can flip the script on them. Dress up as a slutty nurse/schoolboy/police officer/playmate, whatever. If you have the confidence to do this, it's great. Last year, I was a sexy cat with a couple of guy friends and a girl friend who was the sexy cat mistress. We went out 3 nights in a row and it worked wonders. Really simple and cheap too. Cat ears, bow-tie, tail and draw on some whiskers. Rest of your outfit is just your normal going out clothes.
/r/seduction02/10/12 02:40 PM
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Something a lot of people don't realize is that our brains are very selective on when to be confident. Someone can be extremely confident in oone situation, yet totally lost in another. Just like I don't have an issue approaching girls anymore, but if I had to clear out a hospital in Iraq, I'd probably shit my pants. You have to learn to be confident in different situations. Seems to me like your biggest issue is "approach anxiety". Every single guy has this to begin with. It's instinctual and i…
/r/seduction17/04/12 03:36 PM
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