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Just tell her you're looking for something casual, nothing serious. Just communicate with her, this way she doesn't feel led on.
/r/seduction18/12/14 06:15 AM
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I dont understand your question or what your point is. Please clarify.
/r/seduction30/11/14 03:00 AM
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Why do you feel like shit? Makes no sense. Just brush it off. And just let them be. If they have real issues with you im sure they will let you know one way or another. Continue to act like everything is normal just like the girls are doing. Chill out.
/r/seduction30/11/14 02:48 AM
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Why? Just accept what you have as good. Dont be greedy. Noq if you feel emotionally attached or want more from the relationship than thats different.
/r/seduction16/11/14 10:32 PM
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Just text some random response but always, i mean always text with a "im in the middle of something but we can catch up later. Text me later"
/r/seduction15/07/14 06:54 AM
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What do you mean by "feeling" it was right to kiss her? Kino escalation is the physical part or build up of the date. A hand, shoulder, knee, lower back touch. Or even leaning in to whisper something to see how she reacts. If she gives positive feedback to the above, then you continue with more physical touching, etc. Its just a way to warm each other up physically as well as getting feedback from her. Imagine from the girls point of view. You go on a date and theres no physical build up. The gi…
/r/seduction13/07/14 02:36 AM
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Did you kino escalate? Doing this helps to gauge if you should go in for the kiss.
/r/seduction13/07/14 02:26 AM
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Even more reason to text her.
/r/seduction26/06/14 06:19 AM
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Consequences such as?
/r/seduction26/06/14 01:41 AM
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There you go! Easy peasy. Good job and good luck.
/r/seduction26/06/14 01:21 AM
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Let me ask you this first, who cares if people see you as a player or gay? Does it matter what they think?
/r/seduction26/06/14 01:16 AM
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If you want to hang out with her, just go. Figure out the age thing later. When you get there tell her you're not a big drinker or you are deadly allergic to alcohol. You dont have to tell her "but i want to hang out and have fun". Instead of saying it, just go and do it. Go and have fun. It might be awkward bc you dont drink, so you need to know how to pull off the whole fun thing without drinking. Theres always something to do. Go to a hip coffee shop that does the poetry readings and stuff. G…
/r/seduction26/06/14 01:13 AM
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Are you interested in this girl? If you're interested then text back. If you're not interested then dont text back. Remember to keep things interesting and slightly sexual and fun.
/r/seduction26/06/14 12:47 AM
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Does she know you are younger than her? If she does, then go to the bar. Just bc you are at the bar doesnt mean you have to drink. You're going there to have fun. Who cares if other guys hit on this girl. If shes attractive then you need to learn to getting used to it. And shes not your girlfriend! Just do your thing. If you go, you have a shot. If you dont go, you dont have a chance at all. Also, if you dont go, go somewhere else and tell her you're doing something. And ask her to join you afte…
/r/seduction26/06/14 12:43 AM
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I say you go out and do something. Then text her and see if she wants to join. This way you asked but in a suttle less direct way.
/r/seduction26/06/14 12:12 AM
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If its so ineffective and a waste of time, have an alternative option? What else are you going to do? I hope the answer is something to improve yourself such as gym, picking up your interest or hobby, or music, etc. All im trying to point out is that maybe this is a good opportunity to tweak your game or improve on yourself or even find a wingman. Be positive and think positive. As for me, im not a good looking guy. But i dont care and i have confidence in myself. I make the best of it and its w…
/r/seduction26/06/14 12:10 AM
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I would normally answer your question with a no, dont text her. However, if you did, you can text her a follow up text and ask how the computer turned out. From this point its up to you on how you want to text. I'd be more forward. Tell her you plan to go get coffee or a drink and see if she'd like to join - in a non creepy way. See how she responds. This saves time for both sides. But keep in mind that she may never come back as a customer or think you are a creep. If you can deal and accept bo…
/r/seduction26/06/14 12:03 AM
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Sounds like you need to communicate better with your wingman, or get a new wingman, or just go solo.
/r/seduction24/06/14 08:03 AM
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Shut up or keep talking. I know someone who never shuts his mouth. Hes annoying sometimes and he wonders why he has problems dating girls.
/r/seduction06/06/14 03:15 PM
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So youve kissed girls when your drunk. Remember what you did throughout the night before kissing them? All that leads up to the kiss. You dont necessarily need to say "i want to kiss you". Thats not what i meant if thats what you thought i implied. Youtube kino escalation. Check it out, its a good starting point.
/r/seduction05/06/14 07:03 AM
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Thanks! Gotta love that movie.
/r/seduction05/06/14 07:00 AM
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You said you're going in for a kiss. Do you know how to escalate to get to that point? Its not like the movies where you dive in for the kiss. Gotta build up to a kiss. Flirt throughout the date, touch her frequently (plz dont do this in a creepy way), build attraction. If all signals are green, then you go for the kiss. Whats that gosling movie where he's a smooth player type? Watch that movie. I know, i mentioned kissing is not like the movies, but watch this one. Lol
/r/seduction04/06/14 11:21 PM
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Remember this: whats the whole point of a date? Its to get to know someone, build attraction, etc. You need to communicate to achieve this. In a movie its very difficult to achieve any of the above objectives. Dont ever go on a movie date as a first date!
/r/seduction04/06/14 10:46 PM
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When you told her you x'd her out, did you do it in a joking way or were you serious? If yiu did it seriously then i dont understand why you had to x her out. If you did it in a funny joking casual way then i can see that as good banter. Gotta give us more context of how the convo went.
/r/seduction04/06/14 10:38 PM
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Age is just a number. Some girls like the older age, some girls get creeped out. Wont know til you try. Hope things work out and let me know how it goes. By the way, my girl is in her 20's and over 10 years younger, im in my 30's.
/r/seduction04/06/14 10:33 PM
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Sounds like you enjoy the chase more than the prize so to speak. I was like that too, actually im still like that but very happy with the relationship im in now. I think its a personal thing so its hard for anyone to give you the right answer. But for me I made a conscious effort to continue to find things attractive with my lady. That works for me. Just try to always have the "chase" mindset with that special someone, even after you "get her".
/r/seduction04/06/14 04:43 PM
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I feel for you. No one should ever go through this. But you need to realize that chasing girls is not going to make you happy. You're missing the whole point of all of this. You need to be happy with yourself. Do things that make YOU happy. Exercise, take a dance class or guitar lessons. Whatever you are into just go out and do it. Build confidence in yourself! Be comfortable with yourself! Love yourself! How can you expect others to love you if you cant love yourself. Take these words as words …
/r/seduction31/05/14 02:10 AM
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What are the reactions you've gotten from them at that moment?
/r/seduction31/05/14 12:33 AM
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I wonder if guys know this and become pushovers. Just thinking it could a cultural thing.
/r/seduction31/05/14 12:31 AM
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Cant help you as I am in the U.S. But i did have a question. I've heard Shanghai women "wear the pants" in all male/female relationships. What they say is the way its going to be. Is there any truth to that? And if so, why? Is it there culture?
/r/seduction30/05/14 08:35 PM
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If you build it they will come. -Hire a locally well known dj. -Bring the girls and the guys will follow. So hire some girls as bartendars or waitress. Bam! Problem solved. Its sarcasm for people who will get offended.
/r/seduction30/05/14 08:20 PM
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Her: i have a boyfriend You: Thats nice. As i was saying.......
/r/seduction30/05/14 07:56 PM
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Being critical is good. Question is what does one do with it. It can hurt you if you make it a crutch. Or it can help you if you learn from it and improve.
/r/seduction30/05/14 03:16 PM
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Look at it this way. She is hot, she knows it and everyone knows it. Use this to your advantage. I bet the majority of guys she goes out with get suckered into doing whatever she wants and follows her command like some lost puppy. Be different. I think she sees you differently because you stood your ground. If anything, think of this as a good opportunity to do your thing so you know what to do in future similar situations. Back to my point. She probably wanted you more because you showed her yo…
/r/seduction30/05/14 03:13 PM
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Keep doing what you are doing. Exercise, take classes that you enjoy, watch sports, etc. Also try things outside your comfort zone. Take a cooking class or go to a spin class. Who knows, oppotunities are everywhere, you just have to look out for these. Doing activities that you like doing is a great start. Also, keep up with your appearance. This means to groom yourself well and dress sharp/dapper. Again, i do this for myself because it makes me feel good/nice when i dress sharp. Point is, do th…
/r/seduction19/05/14 11:43 PM
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Im just basing from my life experience. A little background of me. I hated going on dates. I would be nervous, dont say stuff, or if i did say something it would be awkward. When i talked the girls would know im nervous by the quivering of my voice. So all of this made me hate dating even more. I decided to make a concious effort to improve myself. First i had to be comfortable and confident with myself. Exercised and did things that I wanted to do. And do things not because of some girl, but do…
/r/seduction19/05/14 08:31 PM
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By going on a date you did more than a lot of guys would do. Keep it up. Keep investing in yourself. No ones going to do it for you. Remember to enjoy the journey because one day you'll look back. Thats the day you may have regrets. I try to think when that day will come. Its motivation so i can minimize my "what ifs" and minimize your regrets.
/r/seduction19/05/14 03:25 PM
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Be comfortable being uncomfortable. You worked it to get the dates, you already did the hard part. Now its about going out and having fun. Sounds easier said than done. Do or say or think of something to make yourself go.
/r/seduction16/05/14 08:51 PM
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People need to get out of their comfort zone. Best saying i've heard is "be comfortable being uncomfortable". This goes a long way. Will take you to places in life you would never have guessed.
/r/seduction16/05/14 05:40 PM
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Tough spot. Ive been there. Never knew what happened. But you have 3 dates lined up so focus on that. You'll never really know. It could be that shes just a nice girl but dont know how to say no so in her mind its better to ignore you. It could be that she just wants a date for whatever reason from getting a free dinner to free drinks or just to get out of the house. Maybe she did not feel any chemistry. Who knows. Just brush it off and move on.
/r/seduction16/05/14 05:00 PM
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Think of it as not being evasive. Think of it as leading the conversation to where you want it to go.
/r/seduction16/05/14 03:01 AM
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Only reason why i mentioned the above is bc i go through the same thing. Im about to hit 40 in a few. They always ask how old i am. Doesnt hurt to give it a try. Its worked for me so far.
/r/seduction16/05/14 01:04 AM
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Whats your end goal? Your answer will help give proper advice. Are you trying to just be more social or need improvement with girls or dates, etc. What is it exactly you want to work on?
/r/seduction16/05/14 12:57 AM
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I see your situation. How about this, dont mention your age until you feel its necessary. Meaning to tell her if things get serious. If you and the girl is only dating, it shouldnt be an issue. If they ask about age, just brush it off. If they press, dont cave. Again, this is assuming you just met a girl. You dont need to do anything for a stranger. If a stranger comes to you and demands to know your age, i doubt you'll cave and tell. Remember, a girl you just met is still a stranger.
/r/seduction15/05/14 09:55 PM
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You really cant think of anything witty or fun to say to that question? Anything?
/r/seduction15/05/14 12:50 AM
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I agree. You can tell her you're going out to x bar or coffee shop and see if she wants to join. Or if you want to be more direct ask her you can to take her out for drinks or take her out on a date, etc.
/r/seduction14/05/14 02:41 AM
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Any place really. Starbucks, target, and of course bookstores like barnes and noble. I dont know your age, but even any college works for daygame. Depending on the person, but for me daygame was more fun. Good luck and keep us updated on your venture.
/r/seduction12/05/14 04:40 AM
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Seems like she hasnt done anything blatantly wrong. BUT if you feel otherwise wether its all in your head or not, distance yourself from these situations. If you feel shes close, continue to take a step back from her, if she puts her hand on you try to smoothly walk away. Otherwise,nothing good comes from your situation.
/r/seduction11/05/14 04:35 PM
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Try and find some fault with the girl. Then the girl wont be "perfect". Because in reality, there probably are a lot of faults with her just like you and me. Remember, shes a human being too...not a goddess. So what makes these girls "perfect" in your eyes at that moment you have this thought?
/r/seduction10/05/14 02:39 PM
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Might be best to tell her you are not looking for anything serious. Clear the air. By doing so you two will not have a misunderstanding. Honestly, alot of guys wouldnt mind having your problems..lol
/r/seduction08/05/14 02:58 PM
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No need to rush. I personally wouldnt have befriended her on fb. Seems beta. Remember, you will probably see her again because this group meets every Wednesday. So whats the rush? Relax and enjoy the high from this experience and keep practicing.
/r/seduction08/05/14 02:47 PM
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Thats why i think its brilliant. Im trying to help my friends out and this seems like a good way.
/r/seduction06/05/14 06:34 AM
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Thats a good strategy, I like the sound of it. How successful has it been for you and others thats taken this approach?
/r/seduction05/05/14 09:33 PM
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Easiest way is to introduce some sexual tension. However it may be, ie look at them a second longer, or have more touching/physical escalation, etc. Girls are much better at getting hints/signals. I bet right now theres no of that. Give it a try. Good luck.
/r/seduction18/01/14 06:45 PM
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The way I see it is the guys who don't seek validation already are validated by the market (girls). I disagree with this. My self worth or validation has nothing to do with girls. Im comfortable with who i am (but always trying to improve myself). I live my life daily and be happy. If a random girl comes across my way, our interaction (successful or not) doesnt affect me and how i live my daily life. Its just a certain mindset required in some situations. I say go to a store. Lets say you are in…
/r/seduction04/01/14 11:37 PM
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Rejection is part of life. Dont take rejectuon so personal. Think of it this way, if you meet a girl and shes not into you i say dont think too much about it. She only met you for a very short time. She doesnt know who you really are. You might be an awesome person. Its her loss. Point is, dont take rejection personal because shes a stranger. How much of our self worth based on a strangers view of us? Should be none...why? Because they are strangers, they dont know us SO...who cares what they th…
/r/seduction04/01/14 12:32 AM
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