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You can’t become rock star or change your self over a night. That’s for sure. To become a better person and growth mindset it will take time until it will sit deep down into your head. Then everything will feels natural. Vigilance and consistency is the key. I have been in this game or old pua field since 2012 but sometimes in the life you lose track and question about yourself if you really have those traits when you want to check if everything is under your control. That’s why I asked.
/r/seduction01/09/21 04:12 PM
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Dude I would block her right away and drop her forever after she pulled back from you when you showed you also want a relationship. These girls who are doing these games are not emotionally healthy they are toxic as fuck and you should be glad that she showed her true self so quickly. Don’t listen to guys on internet who trying to convince you to do same thing like “never show a women you want a x or y or z because then she will lose interest”. Yeah probably when she lose interest but it’s huge …
/r/seduction11/08/21 04:16 PM
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My problem is opposite. Women see me as sex object and wanna only I fuck them and back off when I want to meet more. They go silent after first date after they are done with me. I think you have to balance between being alpha and beta. You are far way from being alpha while I’m far away from being beta and women want 20% beta of you while rest alpha. They will never tell you this. They want the whole package.
/r/seduction08/08/21 02:07 PM
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True, so many negative people here who are commenting just to bring down people.
/r/seduction08/08/21 10:59 AM
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Great advice. Do you also mean I gonna ignore the text day after? Or just enough write “thanks for last night” and just wait until they suggest next meet up by themselves? And never ask for meet up again?
/r/seduction08/08/21 10:57 AM
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U ignore her for 2 weeks and hope she will come back to you, if she doesn’t then you send her a light feeling text and start over ie ask how she is doing and from there u ask her out. If she still cold then you drop her. And never text back until she does and you repeat
/r/seduction08/08/21 01:58 AM
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You ignore her until she comes back to you. You are starting to be needy and maybe she are testing you to see how you react when she goes cold. Mirror her behavior.
/r/seduction08/08/21 01:13 AM
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And those who didn’t slept with me wasn’t interested in anything but just interested in me as socializing or just meet new people. I haven’t met anyone who said I’m not having sex on the first date or resist and say we should wait.
/r/seduction08/08/21 12:47 AM
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Omg the first point what you describe I can relate to the last two girls I recently met. The first one didn’t had sex for long time ago, if I remember correct it was 4 years or 1 years ago because of emotional issue breakup. The second one where recently broke up since three weeks ago from his boyfriend. But regarding reason two about slut shame, is that something as man to correct or make her feel not guilty or bad? Or maybe it’s to late?
/r/seduction08/08/21 12:35 AM
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So you mean instead sending message day after wait a week and then send it? Isn’t to late?
/r/seduction07/08/21 11:42 PM
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UPDATE: I texted her last Monday and today I got answer from her regarding the to do list suggestions I had on my to do list. She answered with this message; She replied me today after couple of days with this message: “ Hey! Everything is fine here! Thanks for last, but I feel that there will be no restaurant visits for us in the future. Good luck on tinder & take care of yourself!” What hell does this mean? I just met her once and we where out a took a drink then we went back to my place. And …
/r/seduction07/08/21 05:32 PM
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She replied me today after couple of days with this message: “ Hey! Everything is fine here! Thanks for last, but I feel that there will be no restaurant visits for us in the future. Good luck on tinder & take care of yourself!” What hell does this mean?
/r/seduction07/08/21 05:31 PM
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Perhaps, you could be tall as fuck but if you don’t have the masculine traits to attract a women than your height wouldn’t do much for you. You won’t have get easier to get laid just because she might think you are tall. There are other important factor than that.
/r/seduction03/08/21 03:56 PM
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Yes true you have to maximize your SMV ie your looks and things you have control over.
/r/seduction03/08/21 12:13 PM
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Yeah then I’m pretty sure we have same game plan. Maybe just the difference is our country and maybe you live in a city more than 5 million. I usually book the date on the app and then take phone number afterwards if it’s necessary or if we had sex. Taking phone number does not mean a shit. And it’s better you ask for date in the app and same day on the app for confirmation so she can also see your photo, flake will drop, which will goes up when if you take phone number and also maybe she won’t …
/r/seduction02/08/21 08:22 PM
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the majority either don’t respond to the opener or ghost after third or fourth message or when you ask them out. I don’t think im doing wrong, because my strategy work on some and not other. Someone said that tinder or online dating are so big today that you have more time wasters on these app than women who really wants to chat and meet.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:53 PM
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How does your conversation look like? Mine is like that I open, then I ask some random questions about her or anything else Then once I have send about 6 messages depending on days and time I pitch for meeting up and see when she is free. When it’s weekend I usually go hard direct what’s her night look like and then pitch up for drink at same night. The odds are very low here but sometimes happen. But usually the majority either don’t respond to the opener or ghost after third or fourth message …
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:48 PM
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I do have dates but it’s fact that vast majority of women online won’t respond or meet up. I would say 1-2 of 10 matches lead to meeting.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:12 PM
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Well that’s for if you are not getting matches. But you mean one who are average and getting matches and then women don’t not respond or won’t meet up?
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:52 PM
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Good points, haha I was actually thinking to text how’s your vacation going, but now I can skip it. Is this good? “Hey I found a really good place to tryout wines, you would like it, so we could try when once you are back” Or we both had some to do list to check of places like restaurants, bars and etc. maybe this one is better and write like “I have place written down in my list and I don’t think you u have been there so let’s try it when u are back”
/r/seduction02/08/21 03:05 PM
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Any tip on how I should start conversation now when if I gonna text her ?
/r/seduction02/08/21 02:20 PM
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I don’t get what you mean
/r/seduction02/08/21 02:07 PM
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I did it the day after and she said “thank you yeah it was nice and then she also write her number” I haven’t send any more message than that. the problem is she is now on vacation and not in the city. And coming back Thursday and then she travel one week more after 2 days when she’s back. Should I wait until her vacation is over and she’s back to normal
/r/seduction02/08/21 01:46 PM
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Shut a fuck up your fucking incel. Why don’t you just write your address so we can stone beta males like you to the death ?
/r/seduction28/07/21 03:39 PM
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Submissive beta males love older women because they love when older women put leashes around their necks and lead them like dogs
/r/seduction28/07/21 03:38 PM
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Shut fuck up incel before I take your mom both in anal and in vagina in a front of you
/r/seduction28/07/21 03:16 PM
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Maybe not true for virgin, religious conservative, incels, beta-males, submissive, losers guys out there. One day once they understand women and have abundance choice of women and can relate to the reality instead of care about their ego then they will understand the concept.
/r/seduction28/07/21 01:33 PM
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None care of virgin like you.
/r/seduction28/07/21 01:04 PM
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Glad you can relate or discovered. I’m in my mid 30 and stopped to date women over 33 years old.
/r/seduction27/07/21 01:50 PM
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I don’t write for beta males or losers. I write for those top 1% guys who have fire in them to play the game of life.
/r/seduction27/07/21 01:46 PM
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I can assume that but better to give a shot a least. Some women are strange and wait to be strong leaded and that you gonna dominate her well. She was also one who said let’s grab drink some day and asked for my Instagram even tough it was me who approached her.
/r/seduction22/07/21 02:59 PM
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Well I did. She said she think is free next weekend. And she will probably come back and write if things change. That’s far away. And there’s chance she will flake. I usually treat every girl they have 7 days expire date if nothing happen. Longer wait until meeting or to sex more chance she will flake and fading out. I’ll leave until next weekend and if don’t hear back from her until next Friday then I’ll send last message to see then if she don’t confirm I’ll drop her forever.
/r/seduction22/07/21 02:57 PM
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What are a example to not be needy on tinder? I don’t compliment their appearance but I do ask for meet up after 3-6 messages back and forth. Or usually open some girls with “hey let’s grab a drink tonight”
/r/seduction21/07/21 09:25 AM
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Yeah it’s seems like that less attractive girls are more DTF. But more sad is the fat and less attractive one on tinder think now she is a ten who deserve a model looking guy.
/r/seduction21/07/21 09:23 AM
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Sad but really true what you describing. Now I can relate why they don’t answer when they open the app. But do you think tinder has lose the control of what mess they have created and can’t really correct it or don’t have idea how to make it fair for both sides?
/r/seduction20/07/21 11:52 PM
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Ok I get what you mean but it’s what I don’t understand how I can get attention from all hers matches? I don’t have issue to get matches but only issue with getting response or setup the date. What are the new “tinder game” to learn any resources I can read and learn? Isn’t all about ones photos that make the hot lady to answer and willing to meet up? Or it’s more than that?
/r/seduction20/07/21 11:50 PM
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Okey thanks
/r/seduction21/06/21 09:31 AM
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So I gonna stop responding and then let them take contact again and if it never happen just let it be so? Or contact them after 3 days again ?
/r/seduction21/06/21 12:44 AM
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I assume my sexual market value or how I look can make them invest and with my game. And I also give them reason to meet up but usually they say “not today” then I ask when it will work for you then they stop responding. Then I usually delete all contact information after that. Don’t like to chase with messages if there’s not any mutual interest.
/r/seduction21/06/21 12:13 AM
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This is forum and people come here and discuss things. Just because I started a thread it does not mean I’m insulted or I’m affected. Maybe I wanna look for advice or see how other guys doing since now days everything gets difficult when approaching women. Just because you live in a negative frame and are a loser doesn’t not mean everyone are like that.
/r/seduction05/06/21 06:32 PM
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It’s not about I’ve issue to move on I just want to make it clear that girls don’t care if you dare to approach them no matter when and where and how.
/r/seduction05/06/21 04:53 PM
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Well I don’t really care what other people do or not. And this is not about guys who dare or not this is about women and why they are afraid or uncomfortable to meet guys during day but ok to meet up random guy from a dating app or at the bar. Do you really think that women care about if you have balls to approach them or not or even think about it? They might it’s fun at the beginning. Like today girls she was very open and friendly and forward and we talk for 5 minutes and then I took her numb…
/r/seduction05/06/21 04:22 PM
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I agree that game is game. But if most men don’t have the balls then why would those ladies reject one? I just believe I maybe approached wrong ladies and they already chasing some other guys in their social circle and don’t really need to hook up with a random guy from the street.
/r/seduction11/05/21 08:48 PM
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It’s worst written book ever. Inclusive Atomic Attraction by Christopher. Snake sales oilmen are now everywhere to sell you there bullshit.
/r/seduction08/04/21 12:11 PM
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So how can’t narcissist or dark triads fall into that “nice guy” category? They also manipulate and are nice to people until they get what they want.
/r/seduction24/03/21 09:45 PM
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You are beta. Guess who reacted first to my comment.
/r/seduction27/12/20 07:25 PM
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If you can’t handle the high flow then pause or stop swiping and talk to your current matches before swiping and overload with a lot match. But I know girls do so because of all validation and attention they get from guys.
/r/seduction27/12/20 07:21 PM
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What have self respect to do with that? It’s not about I’m frustrated or hating people. Seriously if you don’t have anything useful input or are only here to bring people down then don’t comment. I don’t need comments from beta males or losers.
/r/seduction27/12/20 07:15 PM
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