oktomato2 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Is it better to keep escalating/pursuing until you get a hard no?	oktomato2	/r/seduction	20/06/18 02:05 PM
3	Short guys who do solo night game?	oktomato2	/r/seduction	04/06/18 03:58 PM
2	Women avoiding you after you talk to them?	oktomato2	/r/seduction	05/07/18 01:38 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	If a girl sees you when you don’t look good does she make up her mind about dating you? Well there's a good chance she doesn't even know or remember who you are.	/r/seduction	07/02/20 09:02 PM
-1	I’m done trying, there comes a time where you need to get your foot of the peddle. Exactly. That's how I've noticed it as well.	/r/seduction	07/02/20 08:55 PM
-1	I’m done trying, there comes a time where you need to get your foot of the peddle. Like just being friends with women, don't push for dates, hang out in groups, make her comfortable with you. Could take months. Seems to me that the most effective strategy for regular-to-ugly guys is to slowly chip away at girls.	/r/seduction	07/02/20 08:53 PM
-4	I’m done trying, there comes a time where you need to get your foot of the peddle. Have you tried putting yourself in the friend zone and waiting it out? Lotta girls don't want to be locked up these days unless your good looking.	/r/seduction	07/02/20 08:42 PM
2	Taking advantage of being in supermarkets all the time Watch the youtuber, Evolution Daily. He did a bunch of pickup videos in the grocery store.	/r/seduction	19/07/18 05:56 PM
2	I messed up or is she Shit Testing? It doesn't seem like the first date went as well as you thought... She sounded willing to give you another chance but you came off butthurt with the "my weekend is now full" line. People aren't going to suddenly change their mind when you didn't make a good first impression and then you tell them you are hanging out with someone else. I think you took yourself out of the game... I'd drop it and re initiate after a few weeks or if she contacts you again.	/r/seduction	19/07/18 01:43 PM
1	As a young person that doesn't want to use tinder, dating apps etc - am I severely limiting myself? If you are successful on tinder, then keep using it. It's the easiest way to score women. Personally I have no luck on there and its too much work for little success so I don't even bother.	/r/seduction	13/07/18 01:50 PM
5	Study finds women -- including feminists -- are more attracted to 'benevolently sexist' men So women prefer a guy who puts them on a pedestal vs guys who don't? Why do the 'nice guys' keep getting friendzoned then?	/r/seduction	11/07/18 04:18 AM
3	Why "game"? So how many women have you been with?	/r/seduction	08/07/18 01:45 PM
5	Do you need to be perfect, these days? So this guy has a good career, he's attractive, he has his life together... great! But does he know how to talk to women? Make them smile? Laugh? Turned on? Lose her senses? Sorry to say that going up to a girl and telling her "Look at me, I have lots of money, I'm attractive, I have 4.0 GPA from Harvard" is not going to do that. I'm not saying these things don't matter. The better your base is, the bigger the pool of women is available to you. But what good is a pool full of women if you can't …	/r/seduction	07/07/18 03:06 PM
2	Girls who flirt with you, frequently text you, ask you to "come out with [her] friends"... but dodge dates like no tomorrow Alot of girls (even guys) dislike formal dating. Too much pressure, expectation, commitment etc... You should stop seeing these interactions as a stepping stone to that "magical" date and start seeing them AS the date. You don't need to be in a 1-to-1 situation to get to know each other or seduce.	/r/seduction	06/07/18 03:02 PM
2	Does seduction work for shy guys? Typically you gain confidence through experience. It's good that you are putting yourself out there but you need to focus on your exact goals. Do you want women? Spend more time talking/approaching them. Talk to 1 new girl every day for a year. I guarantee you'll feel a lot more 'confident' on day 365 than day 1. Good luck.	/r/seduction	26/06/18 06:12 PM
1	Does seduction work for shy guys? Well first tell us what you've been doing for 6 years. Talking to women? Approaching? Improving conversation skills? Expanding social circle? How many sets have you done over the years?	/r/seduction	26/06/18 05:17 PM
3	Does seduction work for shy guys? Being shy is not a good trait to get women in the same way that being overweight, ungroomed or broke is not a good trait. Part of seduction is self-improvement. Getting over your shyness is part of that.	/r/seduction	26/06/18 03:54 PM
2	Have I messed up with this guy? Was he ever interested in the first place? Please help. It seems kinda normal behavior for him considering you messaged him first, asked to meet up, initiated physically etc. Maybe you should consider that if you want to continue this relationship you'll probably have to be the one leading most of the time. Wait a few days, then ask him out again.	/r/seduction	26/06/18 01:38 PM
2	Difficulties with finding receptive strangers to talk to in public C'mon man, you're not just gonna walk outside and see a girl with a big sign saying 'talk to me'. Groups are kinda intimidating, but any girl by herself is prime to talk to. Just walk up to her, wave your hand and say hi. Worst is she just straight up ignores you.	/r/seduction	26/06/18 01:58 AM
10	Shows interest then goes completely cold. Shit test? TBH I don't think he's feeling it or he's going after someone else. I just don't see why a guy who is interested and has a girl giving him green lights would do that.	/r/seduction	25/06/18 05:31 PM
1	Short guys who do solo night game? This guys great haha gonna watch more of his stuff.	/r/seduction	04/06/18 05:09 PM
1	How do you guys deal with being serious in a dating culture that's not? What do you mean by 'not serious'? Do you go on dates? Hang out? Hook up? Why not keep it going until she asks or hints to get serious?	/r/seduction	01/06/18 02:03 PM