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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Ah yes, because unsolicited touching gets us ready to be raped 🤮Happened to me too... 😓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 09:22 AM |
| 13 | I got banned from a subreddit for saying I prefer big dicks. Reddit is full of easily offended incels.This needs to be highlighted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 03:38 AM |
| 7 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂Hahahaha. Such fragility! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 04:34 AM |
| 6 | Update: His girlfriend left him after I told herHugssss. I'm sorry for what you went through Sister. But your courage to leave and expose the asshole that he is, is very admirable. I hope that you will always remember to be kind to yourself throughout the healing journey. Huggss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 09:10 AM |
| 3 | Wife Accidentally Burned By Scrote Husband Claims He Split Because He Couldn't DealThere is relief in knowing that non-human asshole is out of the woman and her daughter's lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:07 PM |
| 2 | A few reasons you should say no to the Hobo-sapiansI'm so angry. I'm so glad this chapter of your life is over. That's not a human you had to deal with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:20 AM |
| 1 | “My boyfriend thought we’d been engaged for two months. I had no idea.”Yikes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:55 AM |
| 18 | 2021 is for me and me onlyI also just spent the ultimate last night with the liar and gaslighter I've been seeing the past couple months. I'm moving forward alone to 2021 and while it's daunting, I am truly excited about the genuine love and care I am starting to receive from myself. Things can only get better from here and I am at peace. Thank you, Sisters. ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 11:38 PM |
| 2 | There is always societal pressure to be ~attractive to men~, but breaking down this standard to the individual guys themselves takes a lot of the pressure off. The average guy is not worth pleasing.Thank you, Sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 03:16 PM |
| 17 | #betterchoices2021Lol. This is spot on. 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:23 PM |
| 2 | My latest match on hinge.. I have no words. I have never encountered something like thisThinking about how much he shames himself is so satisfying. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 03:49 AM |
| 36 | I have no words.after dousing it with boiling water, yes. 👸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:18 PM |
| 112 | I have no words.Pour boiling water on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:53 PM |
| 12 | It’s the “active in” communities for me 🤣 (blocked this rumplescroatskin immediately after my response)Any FDS Newbie like me who feels honored to get this message too? Lol. It makes me feel like a true Queen. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:14 PM |
| 4 | Hi Queens👑! This is the 3rd baking I am sharing here! Made a cake for myself to outgrow all the birthdays my absent, narcissist father never celebrated throughout these 21 years, as my therapy of nearly two years is coming to a smooth completion this year.Beautiful Birthday Sister!! My heart swells for your triumph! And aaaaah! That cake looks amazing!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:43 PM |
| 26 | See ladies... we are called Gold Diggers but when it’s about a man and his kids, we are unfair.The Audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 01:19 PM |
| 74 | I don’t understand men who hide important stuffs on their OLD profile(divorced, kids, height etc) and claim that they aren’t insecure about itThat guy is good at deceiving himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 01:13 PM |
| 6 | If your man’s place looks like this - run. Don’t walk. That apartment is a reflection of his inner state.It's beyond me how people can live like this. Sadly, this problem is not exclusive to men. I had female friends and relatives who allow their places to turn into a dump. I think culture can also be a factor, i observed that there are countries that are more accepting of this kind of living situations. Nonetheless, this is absolutely disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:22 AM |
| 7 | If your man’s place looks like this - run. Don’t walk. That apartment is a reflection of his inner state.Hahaha. Me too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:17 AM |
| 3 | Just sharing this set of reminders. :)Your version of #6 is very uplifting. thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 04:57 PM |
| 11 | Just sharing this set of reminders. :)Thanks again Sisters for putting your thoughts forward about this post. All I can say is I have so much to learn as a journeying pickme, and given the diversity in our experiences, I imagine it is a long process to grow into the language that's inclusive and inoffensive for all of us. My apologies to everybody who might have been offended by some items on the list. As it is, my intention in sharing this was to encourage us all to grow and better ourselves, by ourselves for ourselves, and to remi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 12:53 AM |
| 57 | Just sharing this set of reminders. :)i realize you're right Sis... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:01 PM |
| 2 | In one of our Negotiations classes, our professor made us read this story, and asked us one question: Among the four characters, who is to be blamed for the girl's death? I initially thought the old man was responsible, but now I feel it was the guy's fault. Btw, 75% of our class blamed the girl.I appreciate your sharing your opinions Sisters. I worked in the NGO sector and was exposed to stories of women driven by tough circumstances, manipulation, false hopes, etc. to make similar decisions (entering prostitution). When majority of our class blamed the girl, I felt enraged for the lack of empathy and for holding the girl responsible. Unfortunately, class was so focused on holding someone responsible that we failed to question how and why the story was written. Nonetheless, I've read t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 03:13 AM |
| 7 | In one of our Negotiations classes, our professor made us read this story, and asked us one question: Among the four characters, who is to be blamed for the girl's death? I initially thought the old man was responsible, but now I feel it was the guy's fault. Btw, 75% of our class blamed the girl.I believe it was about learning to withhold judgments. I remember professor reprimanding everyone for the arrogance of deciding who to blame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:35 PM |
| 5 | In one of our Negotiations classes, our professor made us read this story, and asked us one question: Among the four characters, who is to be blamed for the girl's death? I initially thought the old man was responsible, but now I feel it was the guy's fault. Btw, 75% of our class blamed the girl.It was about withholding judgments, really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:03 PM |
| 2 | How has she stayed for 4 years of this... NVM. I have no words.Disgusting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 11:53 AM |
| 20 | Yas KWEEN! Thanks Tik Tok and @soul.igMe too, today! :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 11:50 AM |
| 5 | Thank you, FDS.Way to go!! Happy for your awakening, Sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:11 AM |
| 6 | Thank you, FDS.Thank youuu! I'm looking forward to it! I have a friend in desperate need of FDS and it's been really frustrating how I still lack fluency with what we stand for. I so want to help her wake up and get out of a toxic relationship but sometimes I struggle to explain everything. So I just screenshot posts here and make sure she reads them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:08 AM |
| 3 | Confessions of a Former Pickmeishai am truly grateful for this community. i am a pickme learning to love myself more everyday. i look up to all the women here who have learned to stand for themselves. Thank you for sharing your story, Sis. It encourages me to keep striving to shed all pickme-ness from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 02:26 AM |
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