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Thanks for continuing to remind members of this. I agree with the motto that it is better to stay single than in a bad relationship. I just get so frustrated when I see WGTOW comments/posts. (I report some of the more extreme posts- acknowledging the scope of the subreddit.) This is a dating strategy. This is not the place for women who are "no longer interested in dating men ever again." edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:01 PM
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Oh my god, what is happening? Where are these women finding these men? This is so bizarre. I have no words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:06 AM
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To answer that last question: yes. I do feel like I wasted my time. I dated a man who was super sweet and super into me. After a while I started to fall for him. We slept together and it was terrible. But I liked him as a person and he continued to be a sweetheart and go out of his way for me so I kept seeing him. I thought maybe it was awful because it was the first time with a new partner and we didn't know how to please each other yet. The sex continued to be absolutely terrible for me despit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:38 AM
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I opened reddit to check the covid news for my hometown and this is the first thing I saw. There are tears pouring down my face. I am so upset. I was about to make lunch because I am starving but I know I won't be able to keep anything down for a few hours at least. I am so sick to my stomach. This brings to life everything that was said on the FDS poscast. I am so hurt and so angry at what happened to the victims. I promise will fight for them and our sisters and our future daughters. I'm in nu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:25 PM
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Imagine being so mad that someone's standards are different from yours and taking it personally. It doesn't affect them! If you aren't compatible, move on like that guy said! Do they think that gay people don't deserve rights, either? These are things that literally do not affect them. Let people have their preferences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:40 AM
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I support you. I believe that we need to find a way to transition off this website. The misogyny is extremely depressing. Our community is not welcome here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:21 PM
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I have never been asked this question. If it does in the future, I might say: Me. I bring myself to the table. I bring myself, an independent woman who is happy and satisfied with my life and where it is going. I promise I will not fill any voids you have. I bring a woman who can provide for herself and will not put the burden of my own self-care onto another person. I can do all the things that make me happy by myself. I date because, what else does one do when you are so completely satisfied w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:22 PM
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Not gonna lie, I glanced over this post and before I actually read it, I thought it was gonna be a post shitting on a guy who asked for a batman party from his gf. That's the kind of stuff I'm used to seeing here. Just thought my thought process was funny. This is kinda cute to see though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:56 AM
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Here is my personal experience with gaslighting. Both my male exes have gaslit me. I do not believe it was intentional. I believe these men genuinely throught I was crazy. I believe that these men have been conditioned by society to believe that women who question their abusive (male) behavior are not sane. I believe these men genuinely thought there was nothing wrong with their actions and that they could never be considered wrong by a sane person. These men genuinely believed it possible that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:28 PM
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Good luck! This was my second year applying to accelerated nursing programs all over Canada and I got accepted into a school really far away from home. My advice is to keep your options open and apply to as many places as possible. I applied to triple the amount of schools as I did last year because of the massive spike in nursing applications this year due to the pandemic. I had As in all the prereqs and my GPA was 3.02. Though the school I got into only looked at the most recent year of credit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:24 PM
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Oh, that is good information to know. And thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:15 PM
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Hi ladies, I just wanted to share that I just got into nursing school! In two years I will have a BScN and I will be a nurse!! I can't believe it. I am entering the last few years of my twenties and I have consistently felt like a failure throughout my early twenties, when I was a pickme. Everyone here has been so inspiring. I have never felt so confident. Since discovering FDS, I have found purpose within myself. It is so liberating! I cannot wait to go through school and become an RN and a HVW…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:04 AM
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I don't have any names, but if this is podcast-appropriate I think it would be really cool to hear from other former FSSWs who now practice FDS principles and hear their stories, like how they got here/levelled up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:23 PM
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CRY ME A FFUSVJCKNG RIVER. No one is forcing you to do anything. It's called dating. If you don't want to date, don't date. HELLO??? EARTH TO MAN??? "A guy who is priviledged enough to actually get dates...I don't want to burn ... through that sh*t..." Okay, so don't? There is so much to unpack in that post, but I am just so tired...of these..entitled PRIVELIDGED men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:16 PM
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There is literally no reason for a man to be a gynecologist in our modern society. In fact, all male gynecologists should have retired/passed away by now. Any male gynecologists still practicing must be required to hire additional staff so that a female tech/nurse can be in the room at all times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:59 AM
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He told me was going out with his brothers. I helped him get ready. He said he loved me before he left. Oh my god. I am absolutely disgusted by this pathetic excuse for a man. How much of a monster can he be? Hell, I don't know you, but I know I love you more than he did. Fuck him. He is nothing. He was always nothing. You are so much better off without him. You always felt secure with him? Never questioned any of his behavior or the things he ever said? Looking back, was there even the slightes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:34 PM
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I would love to start doing this for myself. Do you bring a book with you? How do you pass the time in between waiting for menu/drinks/food? I really want to dress up and go out by myself sometimes, but I'm always nervous about looking like a sad person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:15 AM
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The last man I had sex with was small, but not a micro; however, I did not notice it the first time we had sex because he was such an incredible lover. He always asked for verbal consent before anything we did, he made sure he's doing what I like, and he always made sure I had at least one orgasm first. During intercourse, he always took care of me via clitoral stimulation. I didn't notice how small he was until after a few times later when I decided to top. Couldn't feel anything. Got off him a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:32 PM
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I was reading through this and thought 'hm when is he going to start to describe himself as a goblin' and then I got to the last slide. That picture absolutely SENT me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:58 AM
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I watched it and felt kind of sad. Then again, I get annoyed/sad every time I hear about an unplanned pregnancy. Pregnancies should really be planned. Bringing a child into this world is no joke. Though, I truly admire her for showing that raw vulnerability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:17 AM
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I won't watch this because it's too hurtful. I'm not strong enough to watch things like this yet. I am a victim of pornhub as well, except in my case there's nothing I can do about it. I hate the porn industry so much. It needs to be taken down. For every one actor/actress who wants to be there, there are thousands who don't. Thousands. It's disgusting. Consuming porn is toxic and only hurts women and children, and not just those in the films. It disgusts me and I have very little faith in human…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 09:34 PM
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I faked a orgasm ONE time in my life, for my first boyfriend. I was 21 and unexperienced. Ugh, cringe. He didn't know any different, but to me it was the stupidest feeling in the world. I felt so stupid and annoyed at myself. There was literally no reason for me to fake an orgasm. I felt like I betrayed myself, and for what? I did't get anything from it, and he would not have noticed. Dumbest thing I've ever done, coming second to me staying with his abusive cheating ass. After that time, I swor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:33 PM
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Thank you for this wonderful post. A user here recommended the Lelo ora 3 so I ordered it and it's arriving soon. I can't wait to use it and put some of these tips into action.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 06:27 PM
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I want to move out of the planet, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:44 PM
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"...any topic of discussion with a potential partner." As if he's never heard of romance, courting, or the basic concept of dating and actually getting to know someone, which includes building up emotional attraction in order to earn such intimate discussions. I'm so annoyed by this moron. I hate everything about his message and your analysis is spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:38 PM
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This is so funny to me, only because my NVX claimed to be a star runner so we would go jogging together and he always speed off. One day, I caught up to him and he was leaning against a tree, face redder than a tomato. He said he felt his calf "pop." I told him to stop running, but he put up a stink about being able to run for 4 hours thoughout any pain. Over time, I kept telling him to stop running and see a damn doctor, but he did not listen until it got to the point he could not run for more …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:53 PM
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I will not bear my own children, but I would consider adopting a boy once I'm around 40. Teach boys that women should be respected and make sure they understand that girls+women are human beings. Make sure they are aware of the harmful sterotypes that exist and that there are women suffering. It is my hope that, if they are brought up to respect and admire women while knowing of the adversaries many women face, porn would not sit well with them. They should avoid porn for themselves, not because…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:14 AM
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I hope this kind of comment is ok. I have a really hard time believing men would be ok with their gf/wife getting off to porn. Here's my point of view. I like men. I am sexually attracted to the male body. IF I were to watch porn, it would be a solo man. I'm going to limit the details of my fantasy, but it is something I have asked most of my partners to do and they are more than happy to oblige because it's easy and they already feel comfortable doing it. You mean to tell me the man I'm in a co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:21 PM
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I know what you're going through. This is such a difficult thing to do and it takes an insane amount of courage. You know it is the right thing to do. You also know that things will get better. Try to focus on how happy you'll be once time has worked it magic. This will be a great time to build a social circle! When I left my ex, I had no friends or family or any kind of support because, like you, my bf was my one and only. The first thing I did was get on Bumble BFF. It's a great way to meet ot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:47 PM
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The receptionists were always these big strong women who were able to get him to go away. Though yes, it was dangerous for them too so there was an on-call security guy that the owner of the spa told to hang out between the three spas she owned and he did come in handy every so often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:03 AM
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I am a former FS spa girl. This is absolutely terrifying. If a guy got banned, all the parlours in the city knew about it. If a banned guy came in, the receptionist would send a mass text and tell us in the back to be quiet and do not come out. I'm glad I got out of the industry when I did; I didn't know it at the time, but not everyone does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:56 PM
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I listened to this whole episode on the way home from the gym today. This is audio I can actually pay attention to! I loved the whole thing! I laughed out loud and smiled and nodded at parts... Yes, to the weekly thread!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:48 PM
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If I'm going to have sex with someone, I intend to orgasm. I will explain to the guy what I need him to do and he does it. There have been instances where a man will "attempt" to do what I'm telling him to do, but immediatly goes back to doing stupid sh*t, at which point I get turned off so I stop the whole thing and tell him "this isn't working/I'm not into this." Good sex=a man who is attentive to my needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:10 PM
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The men commenting have no brain. It's just not possible. They literally think with their penises. This proves it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:23 AM
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I found FDS in October last year. I already feel like I am becoming a stronger woman. In January I told this guy I no longer wanted to hook up with him and he proceeded to ask "what if I miss that peach" 🤢 Blocked. I've been keeping a journal by my laptop with tips and quotes from FDS. I still have two more years of school left and FDS has helped me become more focused than ever. I will not date (AKA put myself in a vulnerable situation) until I finish school, start working, and am able to suppo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:21 AM
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