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I live in a ski resort town and I’m finding this to be a big problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:03 PM
2

Tell them to stop being so brainwashed over a flu virus with a 99.7% survival rate. Your parents are so selfish stopping you from earning your own money. Jesus the world has gone mad.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:51 PM
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The bike probably helped you. I like to think chicks like bikes
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:30 PM
3

There have been studies done showing men are having less sex than ever before.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:41 PM
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This is true. Do not come to the UK if you’re looking to get laid
/r/askTRP13/05/21 04:36 PM
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Pornography numbs the suffering of sexless men. It’s partly the cause and the solution to the incel epidemic.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 04:31 PM
3

You have zero discipline and self respect. How do you expect other people to respect you when you don’t respect yourself? Start by cutting out toxic people from your life. If someone disrespects you tell them to stfu.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 09:39 AM
2

These rules are retarded and make it so hard to pick up girls now
/r/askTRP13/05/21 09:31 AM
1

Been against lockdowns since day one so I’ll be avoiding anywhere that forces rules on me. Definitely want to check out the free states in the future. In the UK it’s not as strict but it feels like a slow death. Most are indifferent to the restrictions and have happily accepted them as the new normal.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 03:31 PM
3

How did you get 7000? Are they real or did you use a bot? I tried getting more followers organically but mentally felt like garbage being on Instagram too much.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 05:55 PM
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Red flag. Shows she believes in far left SJW bullshit.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:23 PM
1

Girls are addicted to Snapchat. I’ve seen a girls feed once they have like 20 people messaging them at once. It’s likely your message got buried and forgotten about. I deleted that trash app. Try messaging them on something they don’t use so much like text/WhatsApp.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 08:29 AM
2

Tell her covid is the flu
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:56 PM
1

That’s crazy. I swear the majority of girls are on those pills as well
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:51 PM
6

Cheers. My first year on reddit, first year red pilled!
/r/askTRP25/04/21 09:15 PM
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Fair play for calling her a fat whale to her face. I’ve experienced similar especially in the nightclub scene. You try and game a girl and she’s out with her loser university friend group. So many beta white knights go to university it seems. Its usually the fat female friends that stop you taking their hot friend back home. I used to try be friendly with the group to get in their good books. Now I don’t have the patience or tolerance to deal with people like this.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 03:04 PM
1

Sounds like you are spending more energy faking than actually making the effort to be attractive and approach women. You need to light a fire under your ass and do the work. The quicker you do it, the faster you’ll get what you want and the misery will disappear.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 08:53 PM
5

The brainwashing is everywhere you just have to avoid it. Limit social media use. I don’t use Twitter or snapchat. No Facebook except messenger and Instagram purely a tool for displaying SMV. Also avoid mainstream media, the news and radio. The less you use social media the better you’ll feel. I use YouTube a lot there’s plenty of good videos and you can avoid the garbage.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 08:23 PM
1

I cringe at how some people my age dress. Especially British University students. I don’t understand the baggy look either. Try flannel shirts. They are smart yet casual and comfortable without being sloppy. Get a watch. My cheap metal Casio has gotten plenty of compliments from girls. Also wear a chain or necklace with pendant.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 08:09 PM
2

Change social circles. Make new friends who don’t know your history. You can reinvent yourself.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 07:58 PM
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Do you keep your profile on public or private? I think public is better as people can vet you like girls showing your profile to other people. But maybe its better to be more secretive.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:29 PM
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Tinder bad
/r/askTRP13/04/21 05:27 PM
0

Tell her to ditch the orbiter. Why does she need to keep him around if she has you?
/r/askTRP13/04/21 05:26 PM
2

Is follower count relevant? I think it is but I don’t have many followers. Like 50 people I know and a couple hundred random. I have good pictures of travel/hobbies. I used to try grow followers by liking/following random people but it seemed like a massive waste of time. It’s hard to fake being popular. The unfortunate reality is chicks love status and some might see my follower count and think less of me.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 05:13 PM
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Most attractive women are in relationships by 30. Tinder is not a good representation of the real world.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 04:42 PM
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Just gone through this. I started self improving and my friend started acting distant. I would try talking about plans for the future and he wouldn’t really engage in the conversation. I hoped he would improve with me but he was content being a loser. I decided to cut contact with everyone in the group I was in when I realised they had no intention of doing anything other than drink and drugs. So rn I’m a loner but I’m okay with it. I’ve got a good family I live with and I hangout with my brothe…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 09:56 PM
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Someone's watched Into The Wild
/r/askTRP10/04/21 06:47 PM
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In a relationship make sure you are getting stuff in return for helping like cooking, BJs. If she’s really into you she’ll do it
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:42 PM
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She used you. It sucks but you’ll learn from this. If you find yourself bending over backward to help a girl you’re probably in love with her. If she isn’t your girlfriend you gotta cut it out
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:31 PM
2

Not the kid laroi or any simps singing about love
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:26 PM
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This is why you need to be wary of being too generous. People are selfish they take what they can get from you and move on. Male or female
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:24 PM
2

Sketching, painting, building models
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:19 PM
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Seems strange to get strangers online to rate you. If you’re not getting matches already just quit online dating. Triggers women’s hypergamy to the extreme. And you can’t use game in photos.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:15 PM
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Where do you live where lockdown ended that long ago god damn
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:05 PM
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Half the posts on this sub are unnecessary bragging
/r/askTRP09/04/21 02:24 PM
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You’re cutting her off because you’re paranoid as fuck. Next post: how do I get her back?
/r/askTRP09/04/21 02:19 PM
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That does sound weird and interesting. Tell us more
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:08 PM
1

Everyone says the US is fucked but theres actually options over there.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 07:31 AM
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Fat female friends are always cockblocks. They get jealous of their pretty friends getting more attention.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 07:28 AM
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Is this serious? You are autistic as fuck
/r/askTRP07/04/21 09:45 PM
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This whole pandemic bullshit is making everything harder. Normal advice doesn’t apply. I don’t think Americans realise how shit the UK is right now (I’m assuming most people here are yanks)
/r/askTRP07/04/21 09:32 PM
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Being an American in London probably helped you with the ladies. I’m expecting it will help me being a Brit in North America
/r/askTRP22/03/21 05:29 PM
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I’m fully aware of the agenda but I live in the UK, it’s even worse and a dump even without lockdown
/r/askTRP22/03/21 07:26 AM
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Canada. Hopefully it’s a decent summer
/r/askTRP21/03/21 08:49 PM
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I don’t really have a strategy, still figuring it out. But yeah I’ll try this
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:44 PM
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Change your situation
/r/askTRP21/03/21 01:47 PM
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The vikings took the good ones years ago. That’s why swedes are more attractive than brits lol
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:30 AM
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Those pub rules will be there this summer like they were last. Check my other comment I left on your post. Shit is about to get a whole lot harder.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 08:29 PM
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When lockdown hit everyone went on apps so the competition is harder than it already was. I got okay matches and at least one date per month when I was 18. Now I can barely get a message back. The dating scene in the UK is so bad it’s one of the reasons I’m moving abroad. The media are now saying 99% of women have been sexually harassed (which I don’t believe). I see girls sharing posts like ‘how to make women feel safer’ which includes stuff like don’t look at women on the street and don’t appr…
/r/askTRP20/03/21 08:03 PM
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And when they reopen they will be a shell a what they used to be
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:47 PM
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Maybe don’t fuck retarded girls then. I know it’s easy pickings bruh but that’s fucking immoral. How retarded are we talking... brain dead or just drooling? Can they even consent?
/r/askTRP19/03/21 09:54 PM
1

Maybe don’t let her use a strap on
/r/askTRP19/03/21 09:50 PM
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Hey dude I have experienced bullying myself in friendship groups, its horrible. The best thing to do is block. I find its the quickest way to forget about someone and it actually makes you powerful. By stopping giving your bully attention makes them powerless. If you are worried about bumping into them in public it will happen. I recently bumped into this guy I blocked in the park and he was angry but also a complete bitch. He wanted me to fight him but wouldn't throw the first punch so I laughe…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 09:25 AM
1

Your mindset is so similar to mine. I became fully redpill when I learned the truth about the pandemic. I now know 100% I am not going to spend the rest of my life in the UK with endless lockdowns, constant propanganda and no freedom or opportunities. Because you are young you should try traveling or living in another culture for several months. Like South East Asia. Ideally get out the west for a while. For long term if you want to live off grid you should learn fishing, hunting, growing food e…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:07 AM
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What country did you move to?
/r/askTRP16/03/21 07:48 AM
2

I don’t get laid regularly but I actually get turned off by these ‘loser girls’ with no personality. I want more out of life than Netflix and takeaways so I want a LTR with similar values
/r/askTRP14/03/21 04:25 PM
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What benefits have you noticed? I'm considering quitting or changing how I use social media. One of the things I hate is the social expectation to follow people even if you don't talk anymore. I unfollowed a bunch of people I used to hangout with because I don't want to see their names on a screen everyday but I know if I ever see them in person again its gonna be awkward. On the other hand I enjoy taking photographs and posting them. I think Instagram is a useful tool for showing off SMV.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 09:23 AM
0

Shocking to see it in person isn’t it. Luckily for men women aren’t only attracted to looks. They also like status, wealth, personality, game. You can’t really show these things off on tinder
/r/askTRP08/03/21 05:56 PM
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I have cool pics and get poor results too. Tinder is the worst it’s ever been. Lockdown has meant more men are using the app than ever so the competition is high. Also online dating triggers women’s hypergamy to the extreme. So those factors make it basically impossible for the average guy to get good matches + meets. I was with a plate and we went on our tinders as a joke and she matched with every guy she swiped right on but said she found 99% of them unattractive even though some were better …
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:12 AM
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Amen. The majority of people are blue pilled to the way society is heading. It’s fucking beta to let the government brainwash you and take away all your freedoms. There’s a rough road ahead, only thing we can do is to find a way to make life less miserable.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 02:48 PM
2

One of the benefits of not being in a group is that you don’t have to compete with people like this. If you go out together in a group all the girls are going to gravitate towards him. Nightclub environment is the worst for this. Try pulling solo or infiltrate groups where you are more attractive than the average person.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 02:31 PM
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At least you’re getting matches. I’m in the UK where Covid bullshit is insane. Impossible to meet new girls irl and tinder is full of fat single mothers or brainless beauty queens. We’re trapped on this miserable little island not allowed to leave. It’s a horrible time to be single.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 02:09 PM
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Just own the baby face. There is a market for it. You don’t have to be a bearded meathead to be ‘alpha’ or get laid like these autistic repill freaks think.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 08:50 PM
2

Word of advice. Seriously consider taking a gap year before going to uni in September. I think it’s very likely there will be another lockdown. I went to uni a couple years ago in the hope of a better social life and it’s not all it’s made out to be. Sure I had some good social experiences but also experienced a lot of loneliness. I ended up doing a lot of drugs and fucked myself up so had to drop out. The competition for girls at uni is hard if you are young and inexperienced. If you are lookin…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 08:41 PM
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Plot twist - you are the fat beta orbiter
/r/askTRP02/03/21 08:54 PM
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Yes. Corona lockdowns have shown that the vast majority of people are dumb sheep who quiver in fear over a flu virus and do not question anything as their freedoms are stripped away by the government. The ‘stay home stay safe’ messages that the media and government relentlessly push are making men weak and lazy and avoiding taking risks. I could go on...
/r/askTRP24/02/21 09:08 PM
1

Filming and editing YouTube videos
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:14 AM
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British guy here. It’s exactly the same this side of the pond. Hinge is much worse than tinder in terms of female looks. My theory is that if girls can’t get matches on tinder they move to the smaller dating apps so those small apps become filled with trash.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 08:55 AM
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Looking for orbiters* If a tinder girl is looking for male friends when she has a boyfriend it means she wants orbiters or is planning to monkey branch
/r/askTRP21/02/21 08:44 AM
2

Sounds like you have low self esteem or an anxiety disorder. I would say try to stop comparing yourself to other people. Understand that a lot of people bullshit about how good their life is, especially on this sub. Also getting surgery is extreme. You should see a therapist before you start hacking away at your body.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:18 PM
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Fuck that high thc sativa weed. Even a tiny bit makes me loose my mind. Weed is an unpredictable drug. If you are going to smoke it choose a low thc/high cbd indica. Although you only have that luxury of choice in Canada or US
/r/askTRP18/02/21 09:28 PM
1

Damn easily offended people who watch an offensive comedy. Bunch of PC babies.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 02:35 PM
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Block them on all social media. People like this feed off negative attention. If they have no way to harass you they will get bored and move on. Speaking from experience
/r/askTRP06/02/21 11:33 AM
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I plan to. Don’t have much tying me down here so when borders open in the summer imma leave and never look back.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 08:39 AM
2

Girls who put their insta on tinder are just collecting followers. You go the their profile and they have thousands. I’ve been working on my account. My posts are good but I only have 300 followers. I need to get like 1k+ for girls to notice I think
/r/askTRP04/02/21 11:05 PM
4

How high is your smv honestly?
/r/askTRP04/02/21 10:59 PM
0

I don’t believe in the pandemic at all.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 09:39 PM
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Yeah I will in future. Although there isn’t ‘plenty of pussy’ the uk dating scene is non existent rn (lockdown)
/r/askTRP31/01/21 06:26 PM
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Because of my age, I tend to go for uni students who I’m not a fan of. It is impossible to meet new girls rn (lockdown) but when it’s over I’m looking at moving into new social circles.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 06:23 PM
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Oh boy you’re new here aren’t you... yes this society does judge people by the way they look so you have to adapt to that
/r/askTRP31/01/21 03:42 PM
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If everyone dressed for comfort all the time we’d wear nothing but tracksuits and look like slobs. I’m just saying if a guy dressed like this on a date the girl wouldn’t look at him twice.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 12:47 PM
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What happened to dresses and skirts
/r/askTRP31/01/21 12:45 PM
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Is status more important than looks for attracting women but yeah that’s a good answer
/r/askTRP26/01/21 11:00 PM
2

Fair enough
/r/askTRP26/01/21 06:20 PM
1

The guy generally plays the role of a wimp or nerd in his roles I should have mentioned
/r/askTRP26/01/21 06:19 PM
2

She’s a gold digger, he’s a clown that doesn’t see it
/r/askTRP26/01/21 06:16 PM
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‘Quite literally having a plate blow me as I type this’ yeah sure you are mate. That’s why you’re on reddit talking about a girl that rejected you
/r/askTRP24/01/21 09:31 AM
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Read his post history
/r/askTRP23/01/21 12:27 PM
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You have skitzophrenia. I’m sorry dude but your mental illness is so severe that you won’t be able to live a normal life UNLESS you get on medication to reduce your symptoms. It’s not weak to take medication in your case its necessary. You keep refusing this advice. have you always had this mental illness or was it triggered by something?
/r/askTRP23/01/21 09:12 AM
1

Was it work or a hobby you were doing where you met people?
/r/askTRP21/01/21 09:53 AM
0

What type of photos are you posting? Could they be better quality or of more interesting activities?
/r/askTRP20/01/21 10:35 AM
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Enjoy your psychosis you fucking basket case 😂
/r/askTRP20/01/21 08:28 AM
2

I read your post history. You need medical help. Red pill is not going to save you.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 07:25 PM
2

I can’t watch porn without feeling jealous or bad about myself after. Seeing other men get pleasured when you’re not getting laid. It is voyeurism. It’s this realisation that is helping me stay away from porn.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 11:01 AM
2

Just keep it in check dude. Don’t use porn as a crutch if your life spirals into a bad place for whatever reason. Speaking from experience.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 07:22 PM
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Yes. Read your brain on porn. You are overstimulating your brain with too much dopamine. Try quitting for a few weeks. If you experience withdrawal symptoms you have a porn addiction.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:03 PM
2

Are you edging to porn?
/r/askTRP18/01/21 02:25 PM
1

The skitzo who refuses medication
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:20 PM
1

Me and my brother have dumbbells, pull up bar, static bike. Just need bench press now. And you’re right. I hate the phrase but this really is the new normal. Just gotta figure out ways around it.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:20 AM
1

I live south east
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:16 AM
2

Can do most except get a haircut
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:15 AM
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Thanks dude
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:14 AM
1

I’m no expect but put your tinder location to max ten miles. Follow girls who put Instagram in their bio. If they have thousands of followers don’t bother. Like a few photos send them a dm.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:10 AM
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My tinder been dry since pandemic hit
/r/askTRP06/01/21 09:24 PM
1

Agreed. I made a post about this the other day. Lockdowns are making men weak. It’s disgusting really if you compare the men of the world wars to men scared of a flu virus. I want no part in this dystopian nightmare.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 09:24 PM
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Agreed. People think by handing over more freedoms we’ll get them back sooner. So dumb. This is going to go on for years. I can’t catch a match so instagram is probably better for me. I’m planning on living abroad this year. Find a country with better weather, hotter girls and less restrictions.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 08:29 PM
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Yep. I hate lockdowns and don’t give a shit about catching rona
/r/askTRP06/01/21 08:15 PM
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Thanks dude. The UK has gone into a two month lockdown. I’m determined to come out a better man. There’s a lot of things I can do on that list, some I’m already doing. One thing I don’t have is a good social circle or abundance. That’s hard to develop rn. Dating apps don’t work for me and I hate the process anyway. It’s probably going to be forced monk mode for me for a while.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 03:36 PM
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It’s terrible in this country and it’s only going to get worse
/r/askTRP05/01/21 11:22 AM
2

The great reset has just begun
/r/askTRP05/01/21 11:15 AM
3

What your key to success?
/r/askTRP05/01/21 11:00 AM
2

99% survival rate
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:04 PM
1

How did you first get into bar tending? I’m interested in this but I don’t have any experience in it, and you often need experience to get a job
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:51 AM
1

I recently cut off my main group of people I’ve been hanging out with for years. More like drinking buddies than friends. I started improving myself and one guy in particular turned into a bully with the amount of ‘banter’ he gave me. It got so bad that I blocked him on everything. He’s an alcoholic who got kicked out the army and sleeps with homeless women. I’m annoyed at myself for hanging out with someone like that for so long. So I’m starting the year a lone wolf but I’m okay with that as I …
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:24 AM
0

What remote jobs do you do? I like that idea. Is it something you trained in?
/r/askTRP01/01/21 02:58 PM
2

I’ve been reading a lot about porn addiction recently. By this time your brain would have definitely healed. I wouldn’t start jerking to solo nudes as that’s a slippery slope. I’ve tried to convince myself that’s okay before, it’s not. Maybe you find more value in fucking a girl you have an emotional connection with? If your dick isn’t into it, your heart isn’t. That’s what I came to realise when trying to fuck girls I wasn’t really attracted to just to get my numbers up.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 01:55 AM
1

Maybe you’re on a porn reboot?
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:46 AM
1

Does paying for a boost do the same thing?
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:08 PM
3

What is the main sub called? I thought it was quarantined
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:34 PM
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make a post dude
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:14 PM
2

Only got laid twice this year from meeting girls through social circle. Tinder is completely fucked. I can barely get a match. I got way more matches when I was 18 and at least one date per month. That was 4 years ago. I don’t understand, I look better now and have better photos. My only idea is way more people started using tinder this year so the competition has gone up. I’ve coped by fucking a prostitute every few months to stop me going completely crazy but it’s so meaningless.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 05:50 PM
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Quit porn Beat anxiety Get in shape Learn videography Learn how to edit on Premiere Pro like a pro Live in another country for a few months Do more adventurous activities such as urbex and rock climbing Have some kind of relationship with a girl which is longer than a one night stand I spent most of this year working boring jobs, hanging out with toxic people, not getting laid, porn addiction and poor mental health. I took a solo holiday earlier this month and it really opened my eyes to the fut…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:59 PM
1

What is your book about?
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:30 PM
1

Fair enough, I won’t post questions like this in future
/r/askTRP30/12/20 06:14 PM
2

I live rural so the number of girls I encounter on a dog walk is usually zero. But I used to live in a city and my dog would get attention. I think I will take my dog to a busy park and see what happens. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:52 PM
1

Hahaha
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:39 PM
1

I have a dog so I might have to try this
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:37 PM
1

What are your tricks then big man?
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:23 PM
1

Tinder in UK is fucked mate. And the country is fucked in general. I just went on a holiday to Europe to have some normality. Way easier to meet girls irl and my tinder did better. I would suggest taking a short solo trip and staying in a party hostel. Although I think barely any countries are letting in brits atm.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:20 PM
1

Was thinking of getting a large bpa free plastic container to store my filtered water in and drinking out of a metal water bottle.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:10 PM
1

I have to do my research on fluoride. I’ve heard it can have some negative health effects
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:07 PM
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Trying to ban me over a question related to health. Not everything red pill is about sex. Prick
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:05 PM
1

You live in a great city for tinder. I’m 21 in England. I think American girls are easier than British girls but I could be wrong
/r/askTRP29/12/20 08:28 PM
1

How old are you and what country do you live in? Probably affects your success
/r/askTRP29/12/20 08:22 PM
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Good to see someone on red pill talking about this. I follow these subreddits too.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 08:14 PM
1

Dating apps are rigged. Everyone who follows red pill knows this
/r/askTRP29/12/20 08:03 PM
3

Your situation doesn’t sound so bad. Just wait it out. At least you have someone to fuck over lockdown. Meeting new girls is impossible right now.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 10:11 AM
4

Why don’t you leave her then?
/r/askTRP29/12/20 10:08 AM
0

Stay in hostels dude. It’s cheap, tons of international chicks who are up for hooking up. Easy place to talk to new people as usually know one knows anyone.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 10:02 AM
5

Car. Or go on hikes and shag in the bushes.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 09:54 AM
4

Bruh. You really think she just cheated once? You’re lying to yourself because you want to stay with her. If you had any self respect you’d have already kicked her out the door. Maybe you’re the beta one here...
/r/askTRP29/12/20 09:52 AM
1

I find it unusual that you’re not interested in anything other people do. That’s one of the traits of narcissism. I agree with you that lots of people use insta to show off SMV. It’s certainly what I’m trying to do.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 04:17 PM
1

You sound like a narcissist
/r/askTRP28/12/20 08:47 AM
-1

You’re jealous of seeing other men’s success? You’re not interested in anything men do? You have no actors, sportsmen etc you take inspiration from? You sound like a misandrist...
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:56 PM
2

How many likes/comments are you averaging on your posts? And why do you only follow 4 men? Sounds like you use Instagram purely to chase pussy.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:40 PM
1

Depends how old you are but I’d keep it hidden
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:25 PM
4

Can’t be holding hands with sweaty sausage fingers 🤢
/r/askTRP24/12/20 09:33 AM
1

Congrats brother. What helped you keep off it for so long?
/r/askTRP21/12/20 05:31 AM
1

Whoops my mistake
/r/askTRP21/12/20 05:30 AM
1

I have just come to the end of a solo holiday and I have learnt a lot about myself, what I value and what I need to work on. My first priority is my mental health. It has been bad for a long time and is holding me back in many areas of my life. Second priority is to do more activities where I feel most like myself. These are things such as scuba diving, rock climbing, riding motorcycles. Adventurous activities with an element of risk and challenge. Third priority is to get in shape. Fourth prior…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:41 PM
1

I have just come to the end of a solo holiday and I have learnt a lot about myself, what I value and what I need to work on. My first priority is my mental health. It has been bad for a long time and is holding me back in many areas of my life. Second priority is to do more activities where I feel most like myself. These are things such as scuba diving, rock climbing, riding motorcycles. Adventurous activities with an element of risk and challenge. Third priority is to get in shape. Fourth prior…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:41 PM
2

Leave the country
/r/askTRP16/12/20 10:48 PM
1

some countries are better than others. South east Asia is good for it
/r/askTRP16/12/20 06:54 PM
2

It’s been really good as I’ve been able to meet other solo travellers at the hostels I stay at and do stuff with them
/r/askTRP16/12/20 06:37 PM
2

Life hasn’t been easy for me trust. Only recently has my life improved and that’s because I left my stale life in my home country.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 05:41 PM
1

It all depends how far you fly and where you go. I’m from UK so it’s cheap to fly to Europe. Choose a country where the food and drink is cheap. I budget £50 a day including hostel accommodation.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 05:34 PM
1

It’s not that much money to take a short trip. Earn some more coin.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:23 PM
5

Your Instagram posts are coming across as boring. I’m on holiday and have been posting lots and a lot of people have been replying saying my life is interesting let’s hang out. Go on a solo holiday to a party hostel it’s easy to meet loads of new people and get laid.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 10:12 PM
1

Fucking neck beard 😂
/r/askTRP09/12/20 08:01 PM
1

Why the fuck are you even here? On a subreddit dedicated to asking QUESTIONS
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:30 PM
1

Thanks for that useless contribution bro
/r/askTRP09/12/20 04:40 PM
1

This must be a troll
/r/askTRP05/12/20 08:23 PM
0

You’d make a good house wife 😂
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:59 PM
1

I saw pictures of a guy who just went to Bali, Indonesia. Looks sick. I don’t know how he got in though because the borders are still closed to tourists.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 08:33 AM
1

Living in a small town probably doesn't help. Maybe move to a bigger city or go travelling to some cities as a short term solution.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 06:29 PM
1

Those places are trashy af. Full of British chavs. But they are easy to travel to so I’ll probably go anyway.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:46 AM
1

That would be last on my list. Hate the place.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 07:15 PM
2

There’s got to be a balance. Talking about something you’re passionate about shows you have intelligence, goals and you take your life mission seriously which she will pick up on. But you’re right you’ve got to gauge when the right time is to say it. Drunk girls in a club won’t give a shit.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 04:40 PM
9

This is why the whole ‘let her do all the talking’ is bullshit. You have to be the interesting one.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 07:13 AM
1

Get out the UK. This country is going to shit. Go on holiday somewhere warmer.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:34 PM
0

A little embarrassed yeah but it’s more about how they reacted when I told them. They really didn’t give a shit about what I was dealing with so they’re not real friends
/r/askTRP21/11/20 12:23 PM
0

No it isn’t. The only dirt if you could call it that is my mental health problems and medication I take which I don’t want people knowing about. Was a secret until it came out when drunk one time.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 12:15 PM
0

Try propranolol low dose like 10-40mg. Non addictive and little side effects except making it harder to exercise while taking them but they wear off quick.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 11:54 AM
1

‘It’ll look good when I’m pulling it’
/r/askTRP19/11/20 04:08 PM
1

Do you find weed improves your stamina?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 06:00 PM
3

I can relate. Feel like I had my awakening recently where I realised that I am capable of so much more than the people I hang out with and that’s why I have trouble fitting in. Sick of relying on other people to have experiences or meet girls. Using this month during uk lockdown to stay sober, quit porn, cut off toxic friends. Booked myself a long solo holiday to a warm country to see how many cool people I can meet and experiences I can make. You need to take action right now and plan something…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:58 PM
1

No don’t reward bad behaviour. You need to have a stern word and tell them to back the fuck off. Do this in some sort of public setting so it can’t backfire on you. Who do you value more, your girlfriend or these women...
/r/askTRP10/11/20 07:39 PM
2

The women are obviously jealous of your girlfriend. Or they are those toxic single types.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 06:29 PM
1

In my experience when a girl asks this they are always looking for a relationship
/r/askTRP10/11/20 06:25 PM
25

Instagram is a useful tool. Use it for posting your own shit and don’t spend time looking at other people’s shit.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:30 PM
1

You are a lost cause then
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:04 PM
1

You’ve been posting the same thing every few days and ignoring any advice given. You need professional therapy and medication.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 08:42 AM
1

Finish uni then move back to your home country or another country, get a job with your degree. Or have a gap year, travel, stay in party hostels and you’re guaranteed to get laid. I’ve lived in the UK my whole life and have a poor social circle currently and it’s now really difficult to meet new girls with the perpetual lockdown restrictions which I don’t see improving anytime soon. I would get out if you don’t have much tieing you down here.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 08:56 PM
25

Do your motorcycles help you get laid? Motorcycles are one of my passions but I dunno if girls think they are cool or dumb and dangerous
/r/askTRP03/11/20 08:38 PM
2

Experiences over money. Think what you will remember on your deathbed.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 08:15 AM
7

‘Don’t be a pussy’ isn’t advice
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:29 PM
1

It was hard to meet guys and girls in the UK even before the pandemic but it’s so bad now I’m moving next year. University life here is so isolating.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 10:06 PM
3

That must be tough to deal with man but you don't have to be isolated forever. Get on medication and get therapy. Go out into nature alone if you can't handle being around people. Its better than being at home all the time. Stay off social media as it will make you jealous seeing other people bragging about their lives.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 07:36 PM
1

I do yeah. I’m open to giving it a go. I’ve only tried it when drunk.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 06:11 PM
1

Well I have a British accent which might help me stand out in Canada. I know American girls love it. Colombia would be cool for a holiday, can’t see myself living there long term. I’m considering an extended holiday in the Philippines when the borders open.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 02:45 PM
1

Damn, I need to up my game
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:54 PM
1

Honestly dude Covid is gonna make dating even harder. I live in England and it’s so hard to meet new girls now. Bar gaming is basically not allowed, nightclubs shut. All that’s left is online which I don’t enjoy and do poorly on.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 07:23 AM
3

Most of us do poorly with online dating though
/r/askTRP22/10/20 06:38 AM
0

Have a few beers? Works for me
/r/askTRP22/10/20 06:27 AM
1

Damn, I need to learn a lil Spanish and visit Mexico
/r/seduction02/10/20 10:10 AM
1

Where do you live out of interest. The UK is shit
/r/seduction01/10/20 06:26 PM
5

My social circle has really stagnated the last year. I have a few friends but they are all male. At my work I only mix with a couple guys and don't meet any strangers. It sucks because I am a pretty social guy. Any advice on how I can improve this? I'm 21 and live in England.
/r/seduction28/09/20 07:58 PM
1

I’ve experienced this. I’ve found it much easier to become friends with individual people who will then invite you to group activities.
/r/seduction25/09/20 08:51 AM
1

I’m in a similar boat to you. See my recent post. Covid has ruined university culture of parties, drinking and clubbing. That used to be my way of meeting girls when I went to uni for a year. You live at home and not with housemates so no circle there. Have you considered moving out? I made a lot of friends that way. Try and find a house with a lot of people of a similar age. Do you have any hobbies? You could meet people through that. Something you can do solo without having to rely on others i…
/r/seduction25/09/20 08:45 AM
1

That’s your experience. You can’t assume this for the entire world
/r/seduction24/09/20 07:40 PM
1

Debatable
/r/seduction24/09/20 08:41 AM
2

I don’t chase and it’s got me nowhere. I have a job and a busy life and nothings happening so I have to make a bit of effort to make it happen.
/r/seduction23/09/20 04:32 PM
4

These people aren’t really my friends tho. They use me for money and the other day I was being sick in the park in the middle of the night and they just left me without calling.
/r/seduction23/09/20 04:29 PM
0

The UK government are determined to destroy the economy and peoples social lives it makes me so angry.
/r/seduction22/09/20 04:52 PM
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