Living in U.K., fourth and final year of university, pretty much a ‘kissless virgin’, used to get invited to parties when I was younger by few girls but I decided to be stupid and a pussy about it and not go to them.

Past- Moved to U.K. at around 10, naturally I was shy because I didn’t know the language and didn’t really have a popular friend group for most part. At around 16 to 18 was the worst time probably due to bullying which sucked to say the least and made me lose (social) confidence in return for not caring what someone says, and it got to a ridiculous point (not going to parties as previously mentioned, etc).

Currently I’m much better, need to workout more, but thankfully I’m slim so the results are easier to see. In terms of hobbies, I started playing the guitar and cooking. Can’t do sports currently due to the lock down, but when I could I would play 5 a sides with my friends. My main form of relaxation is playing games but putting less hours into them.

In terms of socialising, throughout the uni period I’ve went clubbing a few times with my course mates but not often at all. I’m sort of a ‘tag along’ or just a uni mate to most people. Not only that, but the U.K. culture is definitely less friendly/open to just approaching random people and the only way to meet more people/girls is through social circles, which in my case aren’t large.

What should I do? Ideally milestones would be great, and overall, just ‘rate’ my situation, if that makes sense.