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It's okay. Hes just doing his moderator duties of ruining the conversation for everyone. God, this website is pathetic. I wish somoene would start an alternative where overzealous moderators dont come to the rescue. One that people would actually use.
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:17 AM
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Wow, this seems accurate. When I hooked up with a hot girl on vacation and talked to plenty of others, I was riding SO high for several days. Thought I was cured of all of my issues. Then after maybe 3 days back home, BOOM, lower than ever. ​ This is some good advice right here.
/r/seduction08/03/22 11:36 PM
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I did tell her that I'm coming back into town in 2 months. I told her the dates. I think I'll just not be first to txt her anymore.. if she reaches out to me I'll respond but otherwise , for the next 7 weeks I'll just focus om work, and maybe we will have the same type of fun time we had last time when I get there! If not, shit, I'll still enjoy a vacation and the beach.
/r/seduction05/03/22 07:27 PM
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ok thats what I thought. Lol I thought that maybe since I havent had a lot of hookups, maybe Im just not used to what girls say. I did think she had caught some feelings after she told me "im so glad I met you" like 5 seperate times when we were cuddling. Then when I was at the airport, I txted her a sad face. She said "why you sad?" and I said "cause its sad!" and she said "Cause you miss me?" and I said mhmmm... she never responded to that message but she did send me a few photos of herself wh…
/r/seduction05/03/22 03:54 PM
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THIS is correct.
/r/seduction05/03/22 04:19 AM
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Yeah, i completely agree. Idk why people have to act like it has to be so drawn out and complicated. I have seen my buddies try to do these long conversations with women, and it just comes out kinda weird. Girls can tell when you are "trying to be smooth" , even if you sort of ARE smooth. Most of the girls I have gotten with have told me that they were attracted to how I was, which was very opposite of a lot of guys trying to be like the dude above. It's so Tryhard. Much better to ask for the nu…
/r/seduction05/03/22 04:18 AM
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Yeah I've noticed this. I have lived in both Hawaii and indiana in my life. Just went back to Hawaii for a week, easily got laid out there. Literally can not get any in Indiana.
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:31 PM
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I was pretty drunk off a few IPAs. She was not drunk. She was actually driving me and she had like 2 drinks maybe.
/r/seduction02/03/22 06:53 PM
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I mean, this girl has no problem getting whatever guys she wants, and lives a pretty exciting life. There is absolutely no men scarcity when it comes to her, from what I could see.
/r/seduction02/03/22 06:52 PM
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Haha right on man. That's awesome. I was feeling so high off my hawaii experience. It was really hard to come back home, I kinda crashed for a few days and felt terrible about myself because now I'm just alone. But I already booked another trip to Hawaii 2 months from now, hopefully my opportunities there will still be available. Lol. If I can't get a lot of chicks in the mid-west, I'll just take a few trips out there every year and have some fun.
/r/seduction02/03/22 12:15 AM
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wow thats fucking awesome. that guy seems like he turned out to be a real douche. My friend was trying SO hard to get me laid, lol so i really appreciated that. I think he felt more badass than I did after he did an A+ wingman job.
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:45 PM
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/r/seduction01/03/22 06:44 PM
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I might add that I keep my hair trimmed with good style, always keep my scruff on my face maintained, wear retainers to keep teeth aligned perfectly, do teeth whitening, even had my eyebrows plucked to have the best shape. I also wear clothing that is fairly tight fitting because I am a thin dude, it makes my shoulders look broader compared to my hips, even though Im not ripped. I also wear nice clothing, nothing over the top, but Im usually wearing some chukka boots with athletic fit jeans and …
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:43 PM
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Honestly, I struggle with this too. All of my best friends are spread across the world now. I also run my own business, by myself, and its very isolating. My plan is to pick up another job on the side, just purely to meet some new people. Also I am just going to check out the cool little breweries and things like that in my small town. Another thing is, anyone who asks you to have a beer or anything, always accept it. There are a few customers that offer me a beer after I work for them, and now …
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:35 PM
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exactly. I think this even works for tinder as well. I forgot to get photos with me hanging out with my friends and girls out there, but Im sure whenever girls see photos of you looking like the cool guy around a bunch of girls, they want to be a part of that too. Rather than just a bunch of selfie shots where you could be a total weirdo that no one hangs out with.
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:24 PM
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yes, and thank you! I know im not some instant ladies man or anything. But it all gave me a new persepective, and I am already planning my next trip out there, because I know I already have a woman who is down to hang out and bang, and it also makes me more comfortable around women in my hometown as well. ​ I also struggle with tinder, even still. But now, I dont take it so harshly. Before, I felt totaly rejected anytime I couldnt get matches or get a girl to actually show up. But now I know tha…
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:40 PM
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Exactly. I just say that male friends are good, if they know a lot of females, which my friend does. Whenever I lived on the island and didn't know people before, I would sit at a bar and not really talk to anyone. But when I went this time, I knew my buddy, the bartender, knew another guy next to me, and then obviously knew the pretty girl I was with. This made all kinds of girls come up to me and talk and flirt around. It's that social proof that girls notice like "oh these guys like this guy,…
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:38 PM
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To be fair, this was my best friend since childhood, who was trying to make me have the best vacation ever. Also the girl didn't set me up with anyone else. But whenever we would go out together, women would come up to both of us to flirt. Like trying to take both of us home for threesomes and what not.
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:25 PM
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I have had several girlfriends in the meantime as well. It's not like this is the only girl I've banged. It's just that this is the first time I realized having friendships that went way back made me get laid by a hot girl that I didn't even know, that also took 0 effort.
/r/seduction01/03/22 02:47 PM
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I didn't claim to develop amazing game. Lmao. I claimed that going out with friends and being more sociable got me laid. Pretty simple, holy shit. Also, I can GUARANTEE that if I would've met this girl a few years back, I would've totally fucked it up by coming across awkward or fake. Whenever I say that I'm "dorky" now, I don't mean excessively. I just mean that people will poke fun at me a little bit at things I say or how I say it, and I don't take offense. I just kind of confidently laugh at…
/r/seduction01/03/22 02:44 PM
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Im not sure if youre being sarcastic. But yeah, when I was talking to women in my early 20s, I would usually not say a whole lot and act kind of weird. I always felt like I didnt know what to say to get them, so i just would say stupid stuff and stumble over my words. but after living life a little and going through some hard shit, deaths in the family, breakups, etc. I just realized that we are all people who have been through shit. And girls are no different than guys. they just want to have t…
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:26 AM
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Exactly. and dont come off as the person desperate for a girl. I was lucky to have a friend whos like "glad to see you man, im gonna get you laid" . You need to act confident around your friends so that they are confident in you and dont see you like a puppy dog who wishes he could score.
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:17 AM
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Well yeah, if you are super short and 100 lbs overweight, its not going to work out great. But if you can be fit, whatever that means for you bodystyle? Youre probably fine. I am not even super ripped or anything, I just have a thin physique and dont put on much fat, naturally. But no one would think Im some ripped chad or anything.
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:15 AM
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In my experience, it has. If you are the guy who is just out having a good time, and not looking like the "guy who needs a girl", they are going to be attracted to that.
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:10 AM
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Dude honestly, Im not smooth at all. Im trying to give other people some insight who may have felt the same way as me. I dont say the right things, Im not super quick witted. I am just saying that it seems to me that girls are charmed by a laid back attitude and not trying to be something youre not. Im not one of these super buff chads who effortlessly pick up girls because Im so alpha. Im just a tall dude who is now more open to anything after going through a terrible heartbreak, and I dont rea…
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:09 AM
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People who can cold approach are badass. Im not at that level. Im just letting everyone know what works for me. I went from just sittign alone in my garage looking at the internet drinking everynight to going out and having wild sex with a hot girl, all just from a friendly introduction. To be fair, i only had sex with the one girl. But when I was with her, I had plenty of hotties hitting me up left and right. This is all not because of me. Its because of the social proof of hanging around peopl…
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:04 AM
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just depression and low self esteem. Also I didnt seem very "adult" at those ages. For instance, my high school sweetheart and i messaged a bit and i showed her a picture, and she said "i know those arent your arms, whos that?" and it was my arms. It just took them until my late 20s to look more large and manly and hairy. lol, I notice a huge difference with women now that i am 28 vs when I was 21-25. There is something that happens that kind of ages you that just seems to attract more women. A …
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:02 AM
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he is a friend with a girlfriend. not single.
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:01 AM
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I mean, I don't know what it's like to be shorter. Maybe it would've happened, maybe it wouldn't. I know it is a plus being taller, but it's nothing that shorter guys cant make up for by getting ripped. I have a good friend who is SUPER SUPER short for a dude, but he makes up for it by being absolutely completely shredded. He has a super hot girl. It's just all about rolling with whatever style you can pull off. be the short badass bulky dude if you are shorter. I'm the tall slim dorky guy who c…
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:39 AM
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I had a similar thing happen on a date when I was about 22. I could not take a hint and was so nervous. Laying on the beach at 1 am after hours of dating. Girl told me her coworkers asked if she was gonna wear panties and she said she wasn't. I didn't even go in for a kiss. lol... 28 now . Live and learn. It's quite possible that the guy posting this is completely for real, and not pulling our leg.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:34 AM
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