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It’s like when a guy doesn’t smile and doesn’t talk much. Young women assume he is a grouch. At least that’s my case.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/23 12:12 AM
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Yup… and on TikTok too. I haven’t dated a woman by doing that. But the women do shoot their shot in the comments. I one time took an art class and dated a pretty black girl that was half Cambodian because of that.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 04:30 PM
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Art class, play the guitar on Instagram.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 04:19 PM
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There was several female influencers that did this. And I’m not saying generally young women are like this. But I do think it would’ve been worthy of mentioning.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 09:35 AM
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It wasn’t just one influencer. There has been several that have done this.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 09:29 AM
-8

I don’t see anyone in this group pointing out the toxic influencers recording in the gym for the purpose of shaming men that glance at her for a split second.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 11:37 PM
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There is a paragraph in this article where it says “The Wachowskis actually wanted to make The Matrix’s trans metaphor explicit…” https://www.vox.com/platform/amp/culture/2019/3/30/18286436/the-matrix-wachowskis-trans-experience-redpill
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 07:42 PM
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Alphas were once Betas even in the Animal Kingdom. 🤷‍♂️ can’t be an Alpha without being Beta first.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 11:36 PM
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Women will unfriend/ block for a miriad of reasons. Don’t put too much thought into it. It will give you anxiety. It happens even to me. And that’s another thing, if it looks like you’re in a foul mood or have a resting murder face, women will avoid letting you friend them on social media. If it looks like you are friendless and lonely, they will treat you even worse. And sometimes I wonder why girls have to act like that, but really some girls don’t mature fast enough.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 05:47 PM
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Mostly bad experiences. But we forget that some men act the same way too.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 12:13 AM
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I’ve posted about this before. And the post and comments were downvoted by people that don’t want to believe some women use Instagram for dating.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 08:53 PM
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Finally someone else that confirms Instagram can be used for dating.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 07:21 PM
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To be fair, I run a lesbian themed IG account. And I’ve seen women act like this as well.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 11:52 PM
-8

You got issues. Go get some therapy.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 03:01 PM
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Because I have a large social media following and I’ve noticed that is what women respond to the most. 🙄 If I post about Star Wars. Men respond to it. If I post about the Khardashians. The women respond to it. Yup I’m being so manipulative. 🙄
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 07:28 AM
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Post things women will respond to. Example: celebrity gossip, relationship issues, etc. Later on they will be more responsive when you slide into their DMs.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 02:37 AM
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Not every girl can handle a big one. The size of a vagina varies as well.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 01:50 AM
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Dude you have plenty of time.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/23 12:21 AM
2

Red pillers don’t seem to understand it’s not that she can’t love a man. Its that she wasn’t attracted to you.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/23 07:09 PM
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I know right. I said nothing mysoginistic, or hateful otherwise. I think the downvotes are from people too closed minded to understand what I’m talking about.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 02:09 AM
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Of course I can relate. Not to long ago I was 30 years old, got fired from my job, and still living with my parents. And no girlfriend either. I’m 5’7” and average in looks. The information is out there on how to grow your social media following and monetize it. Social media platforms are directly paying you for posting if your following is large enough. How is that a waste of time? What I did was first create IG accounts around topics people wanted to see including women in bikinis. As these ac…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 08:23 PM
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And by the way, I’ve noticed girls will create a second account to engage in this activity. So you won’t openly know if your circle of friends are engaging in this activity.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 07:16 PM
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Well then you would be surprised. I run a lesbian account on IG with tens of thousands of followers. Sure there are hundreds of men in the DMs trying to hook up with me because they think I’m a girl. But there are many women straight and otherwise sliding into my DMs asking for porn, asking for a hook up. I’ve even done video sex chats with a couple of them once I’ve verified they are not scammers. I’ve started lesbian chat groups. The women are horny as fuck and asking each other for a hook up.…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 07:47 AM
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You can become an interesting guy if you can teach a woman how to improve her life. Maybe teach her how to make more money. Teach her how to be more social. Take me for example. I run an IG account with pictures of girls in bikini and it has a large following. That puts me in a position where women are sliding into my DMs and asking me to promote them. I’ve even done photo shoots so it gives me more access to women to date.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 05:35 AM
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I get what you are saying. But for that reason you need to create a way for women to come to you on social media. I run several social media accounts across TikTok, Instagram and Facebook with 100s of thousands followers. I have met many people, both men and women through these accounts. And ultimately dated a few women once they became more acquainted with me. So social media can enhance your social circle and even grow it. That’s been my experience.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 12:03 AM
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😏 your last sentence is very ironic. If anything it’s the women liking my bikini posts. I run a couple of adult themed social media accounts. One is an account with bikini girls and the other is a lesbian themed account. So this way the women are coming to me. And I am upfront on the accounts about being a dude. Some women are looking for friendship and that’s fine. I’ve made friends with women online. I have met many women through these accounts Other than those two accounts I have a large pers…
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 11:02 PM
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💁‍♂️
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 07:00 PM
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It’s also for making money. Which is mostly how I use it.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 02:31 PM
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I understand that but some girls do use Instagram for dating
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 02:20 PM
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Seems like you can’t criticize the left on any platform.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/22 04:34 AM
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I don’t how anyone can be single in this world unless they really want to be. I find there are as many horny, lonely, desperate women as there are men. And these women aren’t always ugly either. And really dating apps are the wrong place to look for these women. Go take dancing lessons or go social dancing. Or start a social media account around a topic women like. You will find those women.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/22 06:17 AM
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Perhaps we’re not complex and we are just over complicating things.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/22 05:07 AM
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I’ve come to the conclusion women are attracted to either one of 3 guys: Funny Guys, Hot guys or Rich guys. Some women want all 3. I find as long as you fit in one of those 3 types you don’t need to be an asshole.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/22 06:22 PM
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More than anything women are attracted to fun. That’s really where it’s at.
/r/MensRights12/09/22 11:01 PM
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Dude none of what you said matters if you appear lonely, desperate, and weird. I thought the same thing. That being college educated with a good job was going to mean something. But if your not social and not fun guy to have around girls will avoid you like the plague. And they won’t even care to get to know you.
/r/MensRights12/09/22 04:13 PM
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The only way you can pull off a cold approach is if you are good looking or a celebrity.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 01:49 PM
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Exactly I know plenty of men who act like this too. They are impulsive, don’t think ahead, don’t stick to a plan, live in the moment. and they can’t truly love you. They see people as objects. They’re called sociopaths.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 01:38 PM
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Yes. There are plenty of studies that show 6’+ people on average don’t live beyond 70. And it’s because tall people are at a high risk of cancer.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 02:24 PM
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Also if you’re 6’+ you’re not likely to live beyond 70. I would rather have a long life than be tall in that case.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 02:03 AM
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It’s hard for intelligent men to think abstractly in order to be funny. We are to used to thinking in serious, logical ways. It seems the less intelligent you are the more funnier you are. Something most women find attractive.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 05:30 AM
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Dude I’m 35. Every once in a while I get hit on by a 19 year old. Either because they think I’m younger or they see the lifestyle I live on social media. Either way, it’s not uncommon for a young girl to get with an old dude.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 02:34 PM
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They used to live in New York City. There are plenty of good looking millionaires in that city and she chose the fatest weirdest looking one. Some girls also appreciate emotional support.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 02:26 PM
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You’re over generalizing but there are still couples like this https://youtu.be/H94tl18A-d0
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 04:36 AM
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It’s sucks I know. And just by giving them that face the girls will make sure you stay hundreds of feet away from them. And won’t even accept your follow request on social media or may even block you.
/r/MensRights15/08/22 08:39 PM
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And sometimes it’s girls that aren’t very attractive.
/r/MensRights15/08/22 05:50 PM
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Sometimes I zone out and before I know it some girls creeped out because I was looking in her direction.
/r/MensRights15/08/22 05:58 AM
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Women out number men 105/100 and most women are going for the top 20% of men so no surprise here.
/r/MensRights13/08/22 05:22 PM
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How sad… being 5’9” means you’ll likely live longer than the 6’4” Chad. Since you’ll likely live longer go out and enjoy life. You will get to enjoy it longer than the 6’4” Chad you’re complaining about.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 12:39 AM
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Well as you age it does become harder. But no worries. Check out this couple hehe https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRUWouUN/?k=1
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 04:40 AM
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Of course I do. I can accuse women of not seeing men as human. Otherwise I would still believe red pill.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 04:55 AM
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Sounds like she has Borderline Personality Disorder
/r/MensRights06/08/22 08:01 AM
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A lot of women lack empathy. It’s terrible. I feel bad for the guys this happens to because a lot of times the guys don’t mean any emotional or physical harm. I’ve been in that place where women will avoid me, remove me as a follower on social media, or block me as soon as they notice I’m following them. It’s not nice behavior. And I have done them nothing wrong.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 11:39 PM
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Same here. There are girls that will stay hundreds of feet away just because of my face.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 02:52 PM
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That guy giving you a “resting murder face” isn’t going to kill you. He is just socially inept and bored. Maybe even zoned out.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 06:47 AM
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There is also Delta Male, Gamma Male, Sigma male, and lowest male according Red/Black pill is Omega male. I’ve seen women get with “Omega Males” anyway.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/22 12:53 AM
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Don’t worry about how to flirt. Learn to read body language. You don’t choose the girl. The girl chooses you. Body language is the best way to figure that out. I recommend the book “the definitive book of body language.” It’s helped me a lot. As soon you walk into the room the girl is already aware of you and checking you out. If she likes you she will send signals your way. Just be prepared to have a conversation ready.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 02:58 AM
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Of course there are some Caveats. A short person must maintain a low BMI and not stress out so much. Otherwise they will not live long either. But the correlation is there. The height of most centenarians is under 5’-5”.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/22 01:03 AM
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Us shorter guys have an advantage over tall men. We live longer. If you’re a dude that is 6 feet tall you are highly unlikely to live beyond 70. I’m 5’ 7” I would rather live a long life than be tall.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 11:10 PM
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Used to be a term for virgins that couldn’t get laid and decided to give up getting a girlfriend to the point of becoming violent. Now it’s used as an insult for any guy that goes so far as to criticize women’s behavior.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 04:12 AM
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I do regret not taking a chance when I should’ve. It’s not easy to put yourself out there especially when you belong to a religion that is so restrictive. And a couple of these girls I could’ve had were pretty but I’m not model chasing either. But like I said do regret not not taking the chance.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/22 06:07 PM
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In that case some women are making the same mistake Redpill gurus make by saying “all women are X”. Not all men with a “resting murder face” are mean and angry. Some of us are nice guys who are depressed and bored.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/22 05:21 PM
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A female friend once told me the girls find me intimidating and a little bit scary. I don’t smile much so I think my “resting murder face” scares the girls. So according to this girl they are stuck with the first impression they have of me be cause I was too serious. And believe it or not there are girls that I was never rude to them but will avoid me because of the 1 or 2 times I looked at them in an intimidating way. When it comes to religion I used to belong to a religion that didn’t allow me…
/r/ExRedPill09/07/22 01:51 PM
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I tried Facebook Dating once. But the few girls I matched with weren’t easy to talk to. I’ve also had difficulty starting a conversation and keeping it going. And it’s seems like once a girl feels like it’s going to be difficult to communicate with me they move onto someone else.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/22 03:03 AM
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Been to China and Mexico. Plenty of women working in construction
/r/MensRights02/07/22 03:10 PM
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You could act like the Tinder Swindler. The guy is 5’7” but the women loved him because he was charming and they thought he was rich. I’m being sarcastic of course. Don’t be like the Tinder Swindler. But the chance you have is to be either funny or make a lot of money.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 02:41 AM
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You may not be attracted to men in their 30s and 40s. But that doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. I’m 35, and believe it or not, every once in a while a 19 year old girl does express romantic interest in me. It’s not uncommon. And I’m not pursuing 19 year olds these days either.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 12:06 AM
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There are one or two girls that find 300 pound guys attractive. And the girls are not ugly either.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 09:46 PM
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I only came to that realization recently when a female friend told me girls think I’m intimidating. And then realized standing against the wall waiting for people to talk to me was doing me no good. The girl I want is out there and I have to approach her first.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 12:10 AM
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Dang I thought I had it bad. I’m 35 and still single. I do have an engineering career. And I do go out and dance salsa. But weeks still go by when I don’t talk to anyone but my parents. And sometimes I wonder why no one reaches out to me. It’s not over for you that’s for sure. You may still have another 50 years of life ahead of you to figure it out. Just know that most girls don’t hate you. And they are not judging you to be inferior to them. They just don’t have any social skills and are so fr…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 06:10 PM
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When you are at social events either find your guy friends or make friends with the guys first. You are much less likely to be perceived as socially awkward like that.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/22 12:24 AM
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A lot of girls that call guys “creeps” are creeps themselves. They will stalk a guys social media. They will stare at a guy, but they can get away with it because girls have a wider peripheral vision. They will take notice of who his friends and family are. Who his past girlfriends are. Where he lives. They will chase after a guy that resembles their celebrity crush. All these “creepy” things they call men out for they do it themselves. It’s called “narcissistic projections”.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 02:45 PM
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I feel you man. Growing up I had older women tell me I was handsome and adorable. And that resemble Elvis. I grow up and women are scared of me. I had a female friend tell me girls find me intimidating and a little bit scary. I have noticed girls stop, turn around, and even run away. I have noticed that when some girl I have a crush on, noticed I am within 2 feet of her, she will walk away. It’s totally not nice behavior. And some of these girls I’m not even attracted to.
/r/MensRights18/06/22 04:16 PM
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Common thing from a Sociopathic Narcissist with Borderline Personality disorder. I had a girl tell me “I Love You” and asked for sex. And before we were supposed to meet up she started dating some other guy. After that she still said “I Love You.”🙄 Amber Heard says that because she wants to control Johnny Depp.
/r/MensRights18/06/22 04:11 PM
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I asked a female friend if women thought I was creepy. She said women find me intimidating and a little bit scary. Excuse me if I forget to smile.
/r/MensRights18/06/22 03:57 PM
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To Alexander Grace’s credit, he at least tells his male audience to try.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 01:56 AM
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That most likely your problem. Studies show we judge people that don’t smile as untrustworthy, mean and hateful. Women especially make that assumption.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 08:19 PM
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I’m 5’7”. Been told women find me intimidating because I don’t smile enough and they find it hard to talk to me. If it’s not one thing it’s another.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 02:52 PM
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Well you could become musician. Women love musicians. But it has to be a popular instrument and it has to be a songs that the girl is familiar with.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/22 03:27 AM
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She must like him for his personality. Joking.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 01:06 AM
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The funniest guys I know copy off what they see on the internet. And they are able to pull girls like that. Being funny takes some time learn. You’re not going to do it over night.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 10:58 PM
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There are exceptions. A girl may see the toxic red flags and ignore them because the love bombing feels so good.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 07:07 PM
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This post made me laugh. Women aren’t attracted to nice or mean or alpha or Chad. They are attracted to what makes them feel good. It comes down to three things: your entertaining in a funny way, or wealthy, or a good looking guy. Some women want all three. It’s not that women want a toxic asshole. It’s that these guys provide them with what makes them feel good first and the toxicity comes later.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 04:25 PM
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The girl that sent me into red pill ideology wasn’t even physically attractive. All it takes is for a naive young guy to come across a girl that is a sociopathic narcissist with borderline personality disorder to send him into that ideology. And some girls that are 4s and 5s in looks are like that too.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 03:15 PM
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If the most unattractive man on earth was the last man on earth only then would they give the guy a chance.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/22 10:37 PM
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I disagree with him in that looks are everything. I do believe looks affect the first impression but it’s not everything. For some girls looks are everything. Especially the younger ones
/r/ExRedPill21/04/22 05:08 PM
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Living in the USA I can see what you mean. Between the ages of 18-50, men outnumber women. You want better odds go down to Mexico.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 10:09 PM
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This will make you feel better. https://youtu.be/EVTXBDuYlKc
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 03:20 AM
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Are you an American citizen? Based on that alone you shouldn’t have a problem getting a girl in Mexico.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/22 04:16 AM
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Yup. I would even let her work at a strip club. As long it’s one of those strip clubs with a no contact rule during the lap dances.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 09:24 PM
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Women aren’t attracted to nice or mean or alpha or Chad. They are attracted to what makes them feel good. It’s your timing and ability to read another girls body language that is probably hindering you. There probably were girls that were interested in you and you didn’t notice their body language clues. And even if you could notice the body language, timing is your confidence. And girls vary about this.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 01:54 PM
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I own the house I live in and another property. But I’ve gotten weird looks from a couple of women when I tell them my parents live with me.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/22 05:51 PM
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Doesn’t explain why some get ghosted. There are plenty of girls that gave me their number throughout my teenage years and early adult years. After 2 or 3 phone calls/texts it was over. I’m 35 now. Still single.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/22 05:44 PM
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And if they do drugs they are very likely to say like that too.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 05:35 PM
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Watched his stuff. Bought into it at some point. Says women live in the moment, don’t stick to the plan, don’t think ahead. And then I realized I know men that live like that too.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 05:01 AM
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Yes. When you go to night clubs, bars, etc. your goal should be to make friends with anyone. Not just with women but guys too.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 02:34 AM
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Your mother is a Sociopathic Narcissist with Borderline Personality disorder. There are plenty of women that are not like that.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/22 07:06 PM
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Even if you got any attention, it wouldn’t just be positive. I have a huge social media following. And sure I get good compliments every once in awhile but still there are those that will still point out the way I dressed was wrong, my hair style is off, what I talked about was incorrect. Even when you are good looking you will attract jealous people.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/22 01:18 AM
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The only way you’re getting young women in your old age is if you are rich. On the other hand I’m 35 and every once in a long while an 18 will hit on me because I look younger than I am. But once they realize my age they lose interest.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/22 04:45 PM
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Half so what? Not every woman is going to like you. Growing up the girls I was friends with would swoon over Vin Diesel and “The Rock”. It might’ve been the muscles that made up for the lack of hair. Fyi: I’m going bald too.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/22 09:13 PM
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I don’t know what this has to do with red pill ideology but just because your going bald doesn’t make you unattractive. There are plenty of women that find bald men attractive. Look at Vin Diesel and “The Rock”. Some women swoon over them. In a recent poll only 47% of women found bald men unattractive so it’s not a big deal really.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/22 08:30 PM
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She is not your property. Its just your turn to love her.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/22 05:27 AM
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That is disturbing
/r/ExRedPill15/03/22 12:52 AM
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If by lost, he means a girl that doesn’t think ahead or stick to a plan. Then yeah. My experience is that those girls will ghost me, flake on me and go from one guy to the next. That’s why I went red pill at some point. And if a girl is awkward and weird early on when I meet her a red flag goes up. My experience is that girl is trying to manipulate me emotionally.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/22 05:20 PM
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There are plenty of women that are quirky, weird, and lost. I’ve caught feelings for a couple. And that is enough to know that is not the kind of woman I want to be in a relationship with.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/22 06:02 AM
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You’re confusing Red pill with Black pill.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/22 04:45 AM
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