I’m 35, balding, socially awkward. Though I do go out salsa dancing, play guitar on social media, run my own construction business. And still never had a girlfriend either. And there are certain girls that will turn around and walk away if they see me coming. There are girls that will block me on social media if I follow them. And that’s that I run social media accounts with 100k followers. You would think that would give me social proof.

There are a few girls I was close to in the past and but I never spoke up mostly cause different religion. Or because I was young and wanted to get my life in order first. And it frustrates me to think I let stuff like that get in the way. And in the end I probably can’t complain either. A girl recently slid into my DMs straight out told me she wants to date me. And I rejected her for being a single mother.

But something tells me I should’ve given her a chance cause that’s probably the best I’m going to get at my age. Thoughts? Maybe I should lower my expectations?