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Question For Womenonetimeuseaccc/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:55 PM
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Yes. But only because high self esteem comes from social success, social acceptance, and positive attention from women. It's not the confidence itself, it's the things that cause confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:50 AM
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We can't afford to waste any more money. You need to make cuts somewhere else if you really want to. The budget is already far too high above what we make, adding more money to the supply to pay increases the horrific inflation we are suffering from. You cannot increase taxes. No voter would say yes, they'd murder you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:23 PM
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The tall and attractive man who you've had a relationship and/or had sex with in the past. He is usually the only man women actually find attractive, and he is the same guy who gets most of the matches on dating apps. It's just a concept to describe a genetically gifted man who is highly desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 10:14 PM
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Not true. Women have casual sex with attractive men on apps. This is well established. Most people meet on apps these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:18 AM
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Because how you treat other people tells me what me about what you think about me or others?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:54 AM
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I wouldn't ask that on the first date because I wouldn't ask for sex. But if I was that kind of guy, it is a valid response. Why should I wait but Chad didn't wait? Because you see me as inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:19 PM
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No if she has a past I wouldn't even bother. I don't want sex right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:16 PM
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Well if Chad didn't have to wait it would be true right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:05 PM
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Be very choosey. Don't have sex before marriage, but if you do, don't ever have casual sex, don't have too many relationships, don't choose the kind of guys who turn you into a single mom. As you can tell, some men have different desires than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:04 PM
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The billionaires in the US already pay a greater percentage of their share than those in European countries. Zuckman games the stats to make that famous 2023 chart
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:13 PM
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Plenty of studies have shed light on the social desirability bias and actual preferences vs stated preferences. People like to look good and virtue signal. The objective evidence points to attractiveness. On dating apps the top percent of men are getting all the pussy. They're also stringing you all along, just like it was commonly understood in generations past that players string women along to fuck them. They're the most attractive so they have the most power because women want them and they …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:55 PM
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Yeah but the most attractive guys have the most power usually because the women actually want them. But yeah sure, it is about power that is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:28 PM
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It's in mans nature, we can't control it unless you castrate every man on earth. You can't just "decenter sex" it's an innate desire, it's even in innate desire in animals in nature. It's like decentering being loved or having friends. It becomes even worse when we see other guys get it all the time in demand, while others do not. The ones who don't feel worse at the disparity, and feel worth less and undesirable, which is rational and probably true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:39 PM
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It would cost 1.872 trillion dollars... 30 million people with 30hr jobs 40hrs a week, that is hilariously impossible you would nuke the economy. You would essentially double the debt being generated every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:02 AM
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The economy doesn't fit it. The federal government foots the bill, aka we do. But we are already at a deficit, we don't make enough in taxes to feed the government hog. So the dollaridos will be generated via government fiat. This causes inflation. If you have 4 people on an island and they use seashells to buy stuff. Each person has 2 sea shells but there is only one fisherman. He can only catch 3 fish per day. Each fish costs 1 shell. If you give everyone 10 shells this does not mean they can …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:57 AM
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That's 1.7 trillion over the span of months and years. Doesn't compare at all. That one plane costs 100 million.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:50 AM
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Buddy, good luck getting a tax increase and not being burned alive by an angry mob. It is political suicide to raise taxes. If you try to tax the rich they try even harder to do things to avoid it, if you kill them all and take all their wealth it will fund the US government for only 9 months and then it's gone forever. This is why governments like fiat currency and use it to create money and inflation, because inflation acts like a tax, but it can't be fought against and most voters don't immed…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:48 AM
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A small group of very attractive men string women along. There isn't no average joe stringing women along lol. Look around for 30 seconds and look at the guys walking around or doing something. They also exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:43 AM
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Lol where does this money come from? This is fantasy land thinking. If the jobs don't produce something worth that money you're throwing money into a giant pit. Money that doesn't even exist anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:39 AM
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So most women have had casual sex got it. That's exactly what I said. The specifics don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:36 PM
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Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:22 PM
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It says studies range from 54% to 60%, so yes most women have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:38 PM
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Well I'd like to see it if you don't mind
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:34 AM
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What does women winning look like if it isn't +60% of women 18-26 in relationships compared to 30% for men, women in dating apps (where 50% of couples meet nowadays) having infinite and endless options and being outnumbered, women succeeding so hard in school above average men, every possible restriction on your sexual habits has been completely dismantled by society, when you divorce you get a favorable portion of the spoils, when you choose the wrong man the taxpayer bails you out for decades.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:23 AM
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Source for that? still a majority of women don’t engage in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:06 AM
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Because they have to share Chad, that's why they aren't winning. They're in a swamp, every guy below a 7 is a disgusting monster unworthy of life, and endless negative moral values can be applied to him. Thats why.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:04 AM
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Every statistic and study proves that women have it easier dating than men do. I don't care about the one in a million woman who is undatable when there's probably 10 guys for every person like her. Even then, she isn't undatable, women have literally infinite SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:03 AM
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That's the only thing. These guys are in competition with Chad. It's not really about the woman, she's just a fuck trophy. It's about feeling he's at the same level of Chad. No, you just have a twisted idea of relationships, you've probably experienced some wrongdoing and now it's manifested into this. I know you won't believe me, but there is a significant portion of men that aren't like how you're describing them. If you don't believe me I could tell you some personal stories, but I'm not sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:15 PM
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They only want “love” through casual sex. I don't know what this means. There's plenty of men who want relationships. In fact, more men than women want to be married according to pew research. And I also realize why you guys are against asking for hook ups. Not just because you don’t want to admit you want a slut, but because it makes you feel lower ranked because the men you want to be would never have to ask. Women with throw themselves onto this man. This is a broad generalization for a hundr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 09:22 PM
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Guys want the relationship but they also want proof that you actually like them. But you don't clearly like them, because if you did you'd fuck them immediately like you fucked Chad. It's very simple. Your sociopathic tendencies to have double standards are getting in the way for you to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:43 PM
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Don't say that this isn't worth responding to. I'm trying to understand what you're saying. I don't see what's wrong with that. I literally can't go anywhere without my partner coming with me. I wish I didn't need a "guard dog" as they call him. But every time I leave somewhere to socialize without him, I run the risk of being harmed by a man in public. It sucks. It literally fucking sucks. It's been this way most of my life. Sometimes I wonder if there is an invisible target on my back and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:08 PM
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Ok so revise your post. Say men shouldn't look for female validation if they arent attractive. Once this is done, we will all be vindicated. This is exactly what I thought the reason was, and I'm glad you're being forthcoming. Also sex, validation and relationships are not mutually exclusive at all. I guess it would be hard for you to understand, being born with all the validation humanity can provide and having it until death.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:36 PM
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Ok but less women hooking up compared to men is irrelevant. There are women who hook up, if Chad doesn't deserve validation and sex why is it given to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:32 PM
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Alright. So I'm correct. There's nothing else useful to get out of this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:19 PM
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No I'm not. I'm asking why does Chad deserve it but I don't. Because if men shouldn't chase validation why is Chad allowed to chase validation and you happily provide to him? OP said men shouldn't chase and don't deserve validation. Im asking why does Chad deserve it. Now answer the question. The answer is because Chad is entitled to everything because he is attractive. Principles and standards do not apply to him. We are less than human so endless demonization is allowed to be applied to us. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:14 PM
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These people just live in "whatever I want that benefits me" logical gynmastics land, no principles or logic that limits their desires sticks. I think I'm just going to stop talking to these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:12 PM
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The odds of a dude trying something on the first time are almost 100% for me. This is genuinely unfathomable. I cannot imagine a world where this is the case. But I'll believe you anyway. Most of the time it's safer to agree to the sex even if you don't want to. Because being slightly passive about it could keep you alive to see the next day. Where outright rejecting someone could result in you not waking up tomorrow. Are you implying that it's better to give potential perpetrators what they wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:04 PM
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What makes someone like me so bad that I don't deserve validation? That's what OP is saying. Men don't deserve and shouldn't feel entitled to validation via sex. But Chad is entitled and received validation via sex. So I'm confused about this discrepancy. Edit: I don't want casual sex, the question is rhetorical
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:51 PM
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I don't. I never implied that I do. But why does Chad? You don't have to answer the question, I already know why. It's because he was born with attractive immutable characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:48 PM
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You give plenty of chads free validation when you fuck them for hook ups. So why is it that some guys don't deserve validation but Chad deserves validation? Please answer that question before you make it such a bad thing that men are looking for female validation through sex. It seems hypocritical to me that you think men looking for validation is a problem but you're willing to have casual sex with other guys and actively feed their validation. So it's clear by your actions that some guys do de…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:38 PM
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We've already spoke about this yesterday and I'm sure you already understand my position. You can't say you're afraid of rape or whatever abuse when you hook up with hot strangers for hook ups. You can't treat the long term guy worse than the short term guy. If a guy knows you've treated short term like a king then he's going to expect you to treat him the same way. You cannot in good faith argue about fear and caution when you on the other hand admit that you've fucked guys the first night you …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:36 PM
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A lot of women are equally bad as well. It is not uniquely men. Philosophers have been talking about the inherent immorality and selfishness of human beings for centuries. Yes, you're supposed to see the red flags from bad people and seek the good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:35 PM
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Studies prove when one partner is far more attractive than the other, regardless of sex, the relationship tends to fail. I remember Macken Murphy (harvard researcher who studied this stuff for a living) said it was either because the attractive person could easily get an upgrade or because the less attractive person became way too defensive. I think it's safe to say if someone is in your league you feel more secure they won't leave you for a hotter person and you're also less likely to seek some…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:14 PM
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I can't even deny it. What can I say? There's a lot of bad people in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:11 PM
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Go to your husband right now and tell him "I enjoyed having casual sex with other men" I'm sure he'll feel great about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:06 PM
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When the hell did I say men give sex to show love???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:49 PM
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Some men demand sex right away because they want to have short-term fun and can't think past the next 2 days. Other men want to have sex right away because they know you've given it to other dudes for free and feel like if you don't give it up then you don't like them (this is rational). If it were up to me I'd say women, pick the right guy, don't have casual sex. But men overall are more sexually detached from relationships. Or they at least have more capacity to do that. Yes you did, and you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:31 PM
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It has nothing to do with culture. These are deeply ingrained behaviors. Culture always works around these, humans are not a tabula rasa. Women traditionally require so much investment from men because when women get pregnant they're helpless, and require resources. Modern shifts in culture and technology do not completely influence behavior and desires. Women are still, on average, more selective than men. Men do not have more associations with emotions and sex. Read some studies on the subject…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:22 PM
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Lol. I remember reading about the sexual revolution, when women started having casual sex they reported struggling to keep emotions out of it like men can. I've heard this is also a comment sentiment in the modern era. You're either an irrelevant exception or lying. Anyway people who have casual sex are more likely to cheat and to divorce, they're generally shit people who live like impulsive animals. Sorry if that bothers you but it's the truth, proven by many studies. Sex is inherently an impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:09 PM
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Well I don't know if this has been studied or surveyed but I'm speaking from my experience. Don't get me wrong, a lot of guys are like that. I've seen them. But many aren't as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:26 PM
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You can continue to say whatever you want but actions speak louder than words. There are studies, hundreds out there. You can even watch videos from experts in the field if you don't want to read through shit. The stated preferences and actual preferences are clearly seen. I don't know your exact thoughts and desires, but if I had a gun to my head and had to guess correctly or I'd be shot, the accusations I am giving out are vastly in my favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:26 PM
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I have never met or heard of a woman who wouldn't want a long term relationship with a guy she had a hook up with if he was willing. Women in this very subreddit have admitted this. If you're hot enough for a hookup you're definitely also qualified for a LTR. Anything else that you say contrary to this is a purposeful lie to make men feel better or you being completely unaware of your own thoughts and desires. The moment a woman has had a hook up, it means that if she doesn't fuck you soon she d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:00 PM
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Sure, but don't act like that's representative of most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:55 PM
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Nothing. But hopefully a relationship is built on trust. And I feel like eventually the truth will come out, if you refuse to condemn the same behavior in someone else or in our children (if there's any), if I hear what you said to someone else related to that kind of behavior, if your friends ever decide to tell me, etc. I feel like most of the time it's hard to keep lying about things. Eventually you can figure out things based off how you're treated, observing behavior and as you get to know …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:28 PM
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The way I see it is "you had sex with that guy immediately and you aren't willing to do that with me, I don't want to be with someone who doesn't like me." Not "you had sex with that guy immediately and you aren't willing to do that with me, now you owe me that treatment as well!". I'm sure some guy has that mentality. It seems fair, although it feels wrong. But that's just my sensibilities. Sometimes we can acknowledge something feels wrong but haven't figured out why that is. Also this is just…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:44 PM
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That seems like a normal thing to do. If you're going to spend the rest of your life with someone and trust them with everything, I think it's normal for them to know. Also that isn't just me saying that, knowing these things isn't some crazy idea I just made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:41 PM
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I'm just giving examples of how past behavior can determine many things, including future behavior. You would know through more dates, getting to know her, asking her opinion about these things, and what you hear from her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:05 PM
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Everyone is beholden to their past. Criminals past may tell a story of redemption or recidivism. Your past history of domestic violence may indicate you are a danger to society. A racer with a bunch of podium medals shows that he may be a good driver. A driver with no accidents on their record is proof they may be a good driver. A driver with multiple DUIs indicates they may not be a responsible person. Someone who spent 10 years sitting at home all day tells you important information about them…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:06 PM
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No that isn't coercion. No one is forcing you to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:02 PM
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No. You're misunderstanding. If a relationship oriented man knows you gave sex to another man instantly, it is reasonable for him to wonder if you would do the same for him in the same circumstances or if you aren't really attracted to him and he's just going to be a beta bucks deluxe. Also having a spine and wanting casual sex are not mutually exclusive. Having a spine refers to having confidence and the willingness to stand up for his own interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:16 PM
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So women should continously risk having hookups with shitty guys who give them subpar sex? No. Don't have hook ups. That is what I'm saying. A relationship-minded guy would have no problems with this. Lol. A relationship minded guy with a spine, principles and options would definitely have a problem with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:11 PM
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He's thinking about it because the past matters. It tells someone about what you do and it may allow them to see patterns to determine if you are the right partner for them. If you've learned from your past mistakes, or blame your exes for everything, or have sex with a different man every week, all these things are important in determining the viability of a long term partner. "She realized hookups were a bad idea" is a charitable interpretation. It is also possible she doesn't think it was a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:37 PM
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No. If he knows you gave it to some guy immediately he'd know that you found that guy very attractive. He'd probably feel you see him as less worthy/unattractive since you aren't giving him the same treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:29 PM
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You're right. But if you did have sex immediately with some man in the past, this now this means that no man that you try to have a long term relationship with will be able to know if you actually are attracted to him and if you actually like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:14 PM
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Women have more money now, and since every study as proven they are not really attracted to most men, they would rather be alone or settle with being used for sex by men they are attracted to than date men that they are not attracted to (80% of men). Dating apps also helps them ensure they get the best of the best at all times. Most young men are single, most young women are not. Most gen Z men want marriage and kids, most gen Z women do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:16 PM
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Sure but those aren't incels, those are guys who get women anyway. Incels have been well documented by the likes of William Costello and it has nothing to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:19 PM
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I'm saying things that I believe are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:51 PM
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Choosing to suffer? How so? By continuing to live you mean, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:30 PM
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Of course a woman wouldn't understand what it's like to be totally and entirely unattractive and unwanted to the opposite sex. It goes so far beyond occasionally getting rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:07 PM
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Reaearch shows men who hate women often have been rejected by them first and/or overwhelmingly. This is some self righteous fantasy people make up to make themselves feel morally superior. I remember even Macken Murphy admitted this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:42 PM
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Of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:57 AM
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Dude you don't even get a chance with 90% of the women on an app if you're under 6 foot. They have filters. Like please get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:18 AM
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Not everyone is Gigachad McThunderCock ok bro And yes women 25-40 want to be approached by Chad not by subhuman manlets.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:12 AM
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Don't expect any man of any value to be with you then, and don't be upset when people like me criticize you then. Idk why someone would willingly be ok with you valuing some short term stranger more than them. Actually every guy should just ask you for short term. Who the fuck wants to play second fiddle to chads who fucked you before?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:25 PM
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No, but if you give the hook up guy better treatment then the relationship guy then that means you value the hook up guy more. Providing sex is some of the highest treatment a man can receive. It is sociopathic to not understand why a man may feel unvalued in this situation if you gave Chad sex while he has to do a "song and dance". It signals to him that you see him as less than.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:28 AM
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S-shut up and just pretend that it makes sense incel!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:14 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:08 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:19 AM
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It isn't necessarily a lie. But imagine you're rich, and course you can afford love Ferraris and you buy a few of them. But then you gamble or something and lose all your money, and you lost your Ferraris. Anyone looking at you would have some doubt that you all of the sudden are serious when you claim "I love my 2002 Honda Accord!" Now it is very much within the realm of possibility that you actually realize that this basic and old civilian car is actually far superior to whatever Ferrari you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:23 AM
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Women have one night stands with the most attractive men, and they do it because they want to have sex with men they find attractive. Pretty obvious stuff. So when they don't want to have sex with you immediately like the attractive men they had one night stands with, it logically follows that they don't find them as attractive. This is degrading and it means she doesn't value you. I agree with your assessment that a disciplined man is better, waiting to have sex shows if he really likes you or …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:16 AM
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I never mentioned led on. Are you like a bot or something? You can't even respond to me correctly. If you have sex with one guy immediately and the other you make him do a bunch of things before it becomes an option, it makes the second guy feel like he's worth less. People usually want a life time partner that likes them and values them, especially compared to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:12 AM
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What are you even talking about. I do not want hook ups. I am against casual sex. I want a relationship. If a girl offered sex early on to me I would be repulsed. But if you give sex early on to men, you should be prepared to give it to men you want a relationship with as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:56 PM
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If you have sex with a man early after meeting him, that means you value him more. No amount of mental gymnastics can disprove this. Your disengenous questions will be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:42 PM
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Same as my first answer to your first question
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:27 PM
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I don't have a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:08 PM
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Of course it would. I don't see how it wouldn't. It isn't some crazy thought in my head, it's logically consistent to feel that way. I wouldn't even enter a relationship with the first person, this hypothetical second person would be even less appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:07 PM
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Exactly. I'm glad you understand. Actions speak louder than words. You can flounder around and cope with bullshit but I already know the truth. Statistics and apps have shown us what is really true, everything else is moralizing and PR.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:02 PM
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Then it wouldn't be as heinous, because it would rule out that I am being settled for. But then that brings up new problems and that's still pretty gross. People who have short term sex outside of relationships are usually bad for long term relationships and are more likely to cheat and divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:50 PM
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I doubt that. Women here even admit the men they have casual sex with are usually more physically attractive. It's because everyone values physical attraction and women can afford to be in the fuck zone for Chad but never in the marriage/monogamy zone with Chad. So you have a night in paradise but you know it won't last. And that's why the men they marry or end up being long term with are usually less attractive. Because less attractive men are the only ones who would stay. You can't say I'm wro…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:46 PM
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No. If you could settle with him you would. You just know he has better options. Every other girl in the room thinks he's hot too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:42 PM
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I agree. But I'd like to add I only despise these things if you gave it Chad in after one interaction then it's just humiliating. I know who you really value based off your actions. Imagine how humiliating and damaging it is to your self worth if some guy could get sex from you very easily when I have to work at it for months to get to that same point. Of course sex isn't the only real reason for the relationship, of course companionship, being heard and values and spending time together is impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:35 PM
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They don't exist. It's either be settled for or be alone. The tiny few that do exist I'll never find them. It's not like you, a woman, everyone wants you everyone values you so its easy to get through life. "Just don't be alone, alone person!" So idiotic. "Just eat some food" you say to the starving African child.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:14 PM
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Now what? Live whatever is left of my life until I can finally die. I'm not sure if the world is so fucked up or if my birth was a mistake, but either way it should not be repeated. I was born to feed the lions so go speak. Or maybe I was just some excessive thing that would've been discarded early on like other animals when they have a runt or deformed child they just let it starve, a waste of resources to be kept alive. But we have so much abundance that I was kept alive. I'm not sure which. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:04 PM
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The problem with a single mother is that she lowers her standards for someone she doesn't really like. I don't know why you can't understand this. The idea is that she doesn't really love her new BF she's just adjusting her standards and settling with someone she doesn't really like. She only started dating short men because she got pregnant and the father left. So we find it dishonest. If I could mind read a single moms brain and she actually liked me then I would consider it. But actions speak…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:26 PM
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I have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:23 PM
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Women say they just want X or X but statistics and personal evidence prove otherwise. "Just be a good person", "Height doesn't matter it's your personality", "I don't care about looks that much", etc. Horrible people get girlfriends all the time, height is the single biggest factor in determining a mans attractiveness, looks are consistently rated as one of the most important aspects of getting with women casually or otherwise. There's also some stories where you can look at post history and see…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:58 PM
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I come here to try to spread the truth, many women just bullshit and lie about what they want and I don't want anyone to believe. But also I have to be honest and also admit I come here to vent my frustrations into the void about the misery I am enduring and how horrible the world is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:42 PM
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Height, hair, face
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:31 PM
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Ok but what about the actually important things. Height, balding, facial attractiveness. No sane person is saying the standards you provided are not reasonable, but we are looking past your stated preferences (which tell us nothing). Just for example, only 15% of men are above 6 foot tall. 80% of men are considered unattractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:30 PM
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I was never using it as a moral condemnation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:27 PM
4

Ok. Sorry were born short and ugly? Dunno how else to respond to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:21 PM
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I agree, but only better as in measuring your social value. But if you are FWB/Hookup material but you don't act in that life style and choose to get married and be monogamous then that is peak virtue and a superpower. I wish I had more opportunity for casual sex id deny it every time and bask in my moral accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:41 AM
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I thought about castrating myself but the health effects are far too extreme. You become super weak, lose tons of stamina and motivation, start losing bone density, you just start rotting away. That's not a life worth living, my job and my hobbies involve physical activity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:41 AM
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They have insanely high standards for attraction. Only chads are attractive. They get hit and quit by chads. Then they try to get Chad to commit and he never does, whether by having sex with him first or trying to get him to take her seriously and he just leaves. Then they decide to settle with being single because nobody is good enough or they marry an ugly man they have no respect for by their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:38 AM
1

You're right, but technically the kibble is made with meat. But sure. I'll change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:03 AM
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This is like telling wolves to decenter eating meat from their life. Sex and romantic companionship is a pillar of our life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:12 AM
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I only know the opposite. If he demands sex early on, if he doesn't care about what you say or think, if he says "idk where I'll be in X months", if he just nods and agrees with whatever you say and by the end of the day he gets sex, I'm sure there's many more
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:41 PM
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So do you honestly expect a straight answer from women regarding this question? Half of them are probably settling with a safe dude while thinking of their best guy they won't be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 11:27 PM
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Because women find most men unattractive. Although it'll never be as easy quick as most men if they see an attractive woman , I believe most women would have sex with a man quite quickly if he was attractive it's just that most men are extremely unattractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:23 PM
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It's because the Redpillers think they have more value when really the woman are settling for them because when they get old they have money (so unattractive only money could make you datable).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:26 PM
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Because most men have realized the red pill is just cope and in reality you cannot change the real reasons why women do like you; genes. No amount of self improvement can change height, facial structure and race. Those are the only things that actually matter to women in order to get your foot in the door (whether in an LTR or hook up). The red pill is mostly just gurus scamming lonely and naive men into buying their course which will do nothing for their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 07:09 PM
2

Because it is important and they know it is but they only resort to acknowledging that truth when you see through the bullshit cope
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 07:07 PM
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Because I know I have no chance. Why does the soldier complain about having no way to attack the enemy trench yet he refuses to run through no man's land?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:41 PM
6

Men are always more likely to respect and partake in competition
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:40 PM
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No it's because you're ugly. They make the move on hot guys all the time. Stop coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:38 PM
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Humans are very good at rationalizing their behavior, when the underlying reasons are ugly to acknowledge. The age that the preference shifts is definitive proof of the motive, regardless of what you actually say. In many instances stated motives and actual motives are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:06 PM
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No but it isn't exactly great that the moment it's possible the woman wants to or would leave her less desirable man for the man with better genes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:27 PM
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You're supposed to be honest and say I don't respect the man in a LTR because he will never measure up to Chad, and Im only settling with him because unlike Chad he won't leave me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:26 PM
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No, not a miracle, a nightmare. It's been far more suffering and pain than any satisfaction or happiness. And my problems aren't even that big of a deal compared to some other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:40 PM
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Idk tbh. I was hoping for an early death. I just go here to spread the truth and scream into the void.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:52 PM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:17 AM
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There's also a non zero chance you'll win the lottery or survive falling from the top of a building. And no it isn't being desired. It's being settled for, usually for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:09 AM
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Ancedotes mean nothing in the face of calculated facts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:08 AM
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I can't I'm not tall or attractive, next question
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:57 AM
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No because you're a friend because you aren't attractive. If you were attractive you wouldn't be friends you'd be together or fucking. When a friend expresses feelings it's like the woman is offended that someone with insufficient genes is trying to move out of his position.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:52 PM
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Nobody wants to rape lmao, at least not many. Your first few sentences were mostly true, but this is equally a delusion of the same scale when you men are upset they can't rape and subjugate women anymore. We just feel unvalued, lonely and pathetic because objectively we are. Women don't want us and romance and companionship is a basic human desire. And no, women aren't en masse removing bad men from their lives. Plenty of misogynistic men still slay pussy, plenty of men beat their girl friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:49 PM
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Latest data on that is changing, and fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:57 AM
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Those women probably reminisce about Chad every day and look at their husband with disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:01 AM
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Why would women admit that they're Chad widows? Women love to play PR online. Look at what they do, not what they say. And what do they do? 33% of women 18-25 are single. 66% of men in the same age are single. Look at who gets all the msgs on dating apps. That's all you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:00 AM
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Dude, shut the fuck up. Women have fantasies of tall violent chads beating and abusing them, it becomes best selling novels. Women are just not attracted to most men, stop with mental gymnastics, stop coping. For fucks sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:18 PM
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Only when you're a sub 5
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:26 PM
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Do not meet him in bars, clubs, or casual sexual relationships. These are places for people who are incompatible with a lifelong marriage. Did he only start long term dating (settling down) when he's gotten bald or fatter or uglier in some way? If so, he is settling for you and will probably never love you. If he's had other girlfriends, does he acknowledge the mistakes he's made and can be explain why it didn't work? If he blames her for everything he's going to do the same thing to you. If he …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:33 AM
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Studies have shown that if you're partner is attractive, women are more likely to report satisfaction during sex. So being tall and attractive are probably some good answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:20 PM
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We do the same thing to women all the time. Women often say things to maintain moral high ground or superiority but really believe and practice the opposite things. For example, many women will say height doesn't matter and we're over exaggerating but then you see them saying the truth somewhere else or in their actions. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:51 PM
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As you read these comments, remember that people with privileges or luck will always attribute their success on their own merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:26 PM
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But that's simply not true. Men argue against other men they dont like when their politics misalign all the fucking time, I don't know why it would be different if women were more likable. Also you're assuming that most men who say these things want casual fucks when that simply isn't true. Men want to get married more than women do, look at the stat on that. Men also are more likely to be dogmatic religious fundamentalists which means no sex before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:27 PM
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That means that AI slop is also popular. AI slop is popular that's why it gets so many views. If the Algorithm feeds people something and they engage with it then that means it's popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:25 PM
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I didn't know a "black pill website" existed. It is very decentralized. It is very popular in other ways. Look at tiktok and all the looksmaxing going viral every day. And Clavicular isn't a full blackpiller but he's immensely popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:23 PM
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The black pill is all the rage now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:21 PM
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I mean half of these insults come from women both here and in real life so... The purpose for the Redpillers is to point out a problem so you can fix it (or convince you to buy their stupid course)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:19 PM
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Women have more social "power" in society. People like them more, people find them more attractive, the government provides them more aid than men, most men want women but most women do not want most men. So women are free to act however they want and they will experience less, or no consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:00 PM
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Women have to give birth to more people or our society will cease to exist. When women get careers they have far less children or none at all. This is in every part of the world, from every country to every culture. So someone still has to work, and that's men. Of course, women could (and if they want, should) have careers after child birth or maybe other jobs before and after, but as it is right now we won't last at these current birth rates. And no it isn't because of the economy or money, far…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:06 PM
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Sometimes doing one positive thing results in unintended negatives. I don't know what's wrong with pointing out some of the negatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:39 PM
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I don't know why that's wild. I know someone is going to immediately reply with "so what do you want to strip women of rights and make them slaves?!?!?" because it's happened to me a million times.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:31 PM
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I don't know why I even bother trying to communicate with you people. Talking gets us nowhere. It is actually impossible for women to take accountability for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:31 PM
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Women are not net taxpayers, men are. Some studies I read years ago had teachers grade papers without names and with names and without any identifying information the grades were similar between boys and girls but with identifying information the boys were given lower grades, indicating potential discrimination. The government and institutions in the recent past and currently give women many benefits in careers or education. Feminism has done a lot to ruin the dating landscape by normalizing sel…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:19 PM
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Well it makes sense men would complain about it more since they're the ones being fucked over
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:26 PM
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Lady, we have a widespread and extremely relevant "looks maxxing" culture all around the west and social media. Gym membership is up and men unlike any generation before are obsessed with trying to look better. Of course all of this is irrelevant because it's bones that matter, not things that can easily be changed (unless you're some 400lb acne faced smelly person) Also I don't know many man personally who likes when women get "dolled up". A significant portion do not care. I also do not like o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 09:23 PM
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It's true, but of course just like for women there are a few exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 09:12 PM
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This is stupid. An actual man would say "there's no skincare for your leg bone" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:37 AM
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Seeing the pretentious and 5 paragraph euphemism essays really just makes me so angry, I don't think women lie anymore they just aren't even aware of their own minds thoughts and feelings. The real answer is simple. Short, fat, ugly, and autistic. Those make a low value man. Anything else is bullshit and your lying will be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:02 AM
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You forgot the actual traits which are short, autistic and ugly. Please answer the questions truthfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:59 AM
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The answer to that is because you're unattractive and the mean person is attractive and they can get away with being mean
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:51 PM
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There will be a massive population crash. Disenfranchised men might cause a lot of problems in society whether it be crime or violent acts. Then they'll all die off eventually if the civilization survives this period. There's a possibility of some upheaval or revolution but admittedly there's a lot of distractions in the modern era. The remaining people will then reproduce and their preferences and way of life will propagate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:52 PM
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The childless part is a mistake but now I realize it doesn't effect any of our arguments so it doesn't matter. Stop including data from old people, old people are obviously much more normal and functional. The new generations are the problem. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/ 63% of young men are single. Only 34% of the women. "Single men are more likely than their female counterparts to be searching for romantic experiences. Ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:24 AM
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Less people are getting married than ever before. Male sexlessness is on the rise. Studies are reporting more and more single, childless women will enter the economy and become a huge voting block.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:24 AM
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https://www.morganstanley.com/ideas/womens-impact-on-the-economy Projected 45% of women 25-49 will be single and childless by 2030. Current stats aren't too far off either. Last time I looked pew said 35% of young women are single. There are more male virgins than previous years, vastly more women are in relationships than men (lol), and a few others. These last few all reported by pew research.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:21 AM
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What the hell does that vague bullshit mean? You gain confidence with proof. An expert boxer has confidence because he's trained and competed and proved himself. An veteran mercary soldier has more confidence in battle than a new conscript because he's proven himself in battle many times already. I need a fucking reason to stick my neck out. It's that simple. Until I have a reason that success may be possible I won't budge. All throughout my life I've been proven time and time again that I am un…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:56 PM
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Ok bro so what's the solution for these people should they just blow their brains out? Keep it to themselves for the rest of their life? You get confidence for a reason. Am expert boxer is confident he'll win a fight because he's won fights and trained. A powerlifter has confidence because he has trained and seen himself lift big ass weights. A chad has confidence because he's been fed validation from women and men around him for his entire life, and the actions of women prove it to him. You can…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:22 PM
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I've never had a friend like that before and I've never openly been like that with anyone. And the insecurity goes away when affirmation is provided. If you ever played Fallout 4 do you remember the wimpy radio guy who ends up confident if you help him in a fight? It's like that. A kid is afraid of water until he swims in there enough to become a competent swimmer. People have no confidence for a reason, and people gain confidence for a reason (or stupidity). If you give a person a reason to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:16 PM
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How the hell is that gay? If I want to spend the rest my life with someone, and trust and be vulnerable with them, it follows that I would care about what she thinks about me. It has nothing to do about validation from other men. I don't care what other men think if I have a wife to come home to that loves me. I care if she feels like I am second rate, and it's not just with sex. If she compares me to someone else and finds me lacking, that will be devastating to my self esteem but also it may m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:59 PM
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You don't have to be attractive to women to be with one. One can easily settle for you. But they usually will have a past, and reminisce positively about the man that came before you. It's like someone who's eaten a steak every day now has to settle for vegetables every day because she can no longer afford steaks so she is now eating vegetables, and if she seasons them correctly they're good enough to eat. That is me to another woman. I am actually a genetically inferior man in the eyes of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:02 PM
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Self improvement only works when there's good genes already present. If you're a short man, you will always be far less attractive to women no matter how much fat you lose or how well your hair is. If you're already 6 foot but you're a fat slob, if you lose weight, get ripped, and take showers, you will see massive progress. I only believe in self improvement with a caveat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:29 PM
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Yes. Thank you. That's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:25 PM
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Significantly more prosperous than the rest of the developed world. Meanwhile, religious Israelis continue to pump out children like crazy, along with Christians in the US have significantly higher birth rates than the secular population. It's because most people don't want to have kids, the economy is an excuse. The Helots in ancient sparta got tortured and enslaved on the regular and they still decided to pump out kids. Anything else is just a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:15 PM
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At least getting my head bashed in let's the agony end earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:50 PM
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I love this logic honestly, it's an evolutionary protection against inferior genes. Man has negative life experiences, has poor self image as a result, then women just happen to not want to date him because of his mindset! It's his mindset guys. Totally not because of (X reason why he's on the bottom of the pecking order). It's because of his personality. How convenient right. Fucking lol. The inferiority complex comes from poor traits, and taught life experiences that result from those traits, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:49 PM
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Well women have been lying on the internet for decades about what they actually find attractive, so you really can't blame us. "Height doesn't matter!" When it clearly does in every measurable way. "It's all about personality!", dark triad is more attractive to women. "Intelligence!", the higher a man's IQ the less chances he has to reproduce and to even have sex. It's like a constant barrage of misinformation and nonsense and it makes our heads spin, causes resentment, and misery. I wonder if w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:41 PM
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Well I don't know who would willingly admit that. But the body itself doesn't lie. Studies have proven that young women have higher standards for "good genes" in mates and then lower their for smooth jawed "providers" when they're older, and the implication is obvious. Secure the quality genes early, then seek a provider once the genes have been secured and the beauty is fading. I even learned this in psychology class at a state college so you can't even say it's pseudoscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:38 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:19 PM
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Yes but women do it by choice because there isn't enough men they like to go around
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:52 PM
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It's like clockwork 😃 All you do is present the truth but without making women look bad and they all accept it. People are so self serving it's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:37 PM
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This is sophistic bullshit made to make people who have been wrongfully deprived or harmed believe they deserve what happened to them, it's almost like victim blaming. Shut up, karma is stupid and doesn't exist and I refuse to respect such an awful belief system.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:32 PM
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Ok but, men WANT marriages. Nobody wants a marriage with no depth. I find it unlikely that someone wants a marriage and intends to have it have no depth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:41 PM
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Ah yes, God. The God that decided to make me shorter than most women for some reason, masterfully craft humans to have certain discriminating preferences, and then have me endure humiliation for my entire life. And maybe I'm being too dramatic... what about kids born with horrible disfiguring diseases? Kids born and soon die of cancer? If God isn't willing to spare innocent children from being spawncamped I doubt he'll give a shit about men not getting pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:19 PM
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You need genes first. I clearly said being a good person, a responsible person, matters for maintaining a relationship. But if you are genetically unfit to a woman she will not entertain the idea of being with you unless she is older already, and even then this is becoming less common. It is a necessary condition, not a sufficient one. You're also wrong, many men do want an "in depth relationship". Look at pew research on how many men want to be married someday, it is substantial. You are right.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:02 PM
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Nordic countries, and some other counties in Europe have great economies and benefits for having kids and their birth rates are still far below replacement. It has little to do with the economy or financial incentives, or at least this is not the biggest factor. Most governments respond with those programs because what else are they gonna do? Ban women's rights? Mandate that children must be conceived or you go prison? That's what they do because that's the only thing they can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:46 AM
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Because the blue pill is far worse than the red pill The blue pill says silly things like "just be yourself!" and "it's your personality!" and "it's your fault women don't like you because youre a bad person!" While I agree that a good personality helps maintain quality relationships, it is not a necessary condition at all for women's attraction. There are plenty of men who are abusers, they pump and dump women, and they get fawned over constantly because they have a combination of height, statu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:44 AM
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I think that much more men want a spouse than women do. Pew research has plenty of evidence to support this claim. Men overwhelmingly want kids, women don't. Men are also overwhelmingly more desperate and seeking for women than the other way around. Men overwhelmingly report wanting to be married, much less women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:26 AM
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Usually what studies show what women in peak fertility find most attractive: tall, square jawline, attractive facial features, lean. Women's preferences after that doesn't matter because women usually lower their standards as they're older because it's pragmatic and they can't barter as high anymore. This is evident in a study where mothers were asked to rate attractiveness after their daughters made ratings and the ratings were both very similar. Women in the past and sometimes in the present o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:46 AM
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But they aren't delusional. Vast majority of men have no standards so what would be considered a below average woman is still extremely valuable in the dating market. Women recognize this and try to leverage their value as much as possible to get the best deal they can and if they can't get it (chad) then they'll happily remain single now since they can, unlike in the past when they had to settle with men they didn't find attractive. Women are much more selective than men are and have very high …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:36 AM
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Nobody cares. I'm not saying that to insult or be mean, I'm just saying it as a matter of fact. We are the faceless grunts of society. Droves of us will suffer and/or die and it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:51 PM
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Women just aren't attracted to most men. That's all it is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:42 PM
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Please tell me where to find them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:29 PM
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Only if she hasn't been around the block. And no single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:28 PM
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Many women here seem to disagree with you. I find it very hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 05:37 PM
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This makes a lot of sense. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 04:12 PM
3

What is warm approach? I thought warm approach was friend first then date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 04:29 AM
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I think it's safe to conclude that women do not want to date their friends then. Is that correct? If you want to date women you have to be upfront about it and don't try to be friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:24 AM
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I don't understand why you think if a man shows romantic interest and you say no, so he avoids you, that means he only wanted you for sex. He's looking for a relationship so he's not going to waste unnecessary time on someone who won't give him a relationship, and if he does find a woman who wants a relationship she may not want him to be hanging out with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:20 AM
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So you shouldn't try befriend a woman before dating them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:46 AM
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Women in a nutshell, well dumb and bad women anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:49 PM
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Well I would not like them. My emotions cannot always be quelled logically. But it is good that they do not have children. I still think they're wasting their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:43 PM
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Stupid analogy that doesn't come close to being similar. Marathoners only have the potential to harm themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:40 PM
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It's quite well established that children from single housholds or divorce have worse life outcomes. No I didn't say all of the world's problems, but you must acknowledge lots of suffering can be prevented. Divorce is also more likely with promiscuous people, meaning the children they have may be more likely to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:12 PM
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Because I feel like their behavior makes the world worse. More single moms, more miserable children, more criminals, more divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:32 PM
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I hate promiscuous women and I refuse to have sex with them. Everyone should save sex for life long relationships, otherwise you are dysfunctional or are partaking in self destructive behavior. Man or woman. I've denied myself the opportunity in two occasions, although one time it wasn't a real opportunity but I thought it was. The reason is because the only sexual relationships that matter to me is a lifelong marriage and family. Being promiscuous is antithetical and goes against the attainment…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:49 PM
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Humanity needs to go extinct if we want any semblance of morality
/r/BlackPillScience05/09/25 09:42 PM
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We're genetic dead ends
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:40 AM
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Feel free to label it however you want, I don't care. Men have their own shortcomings too, but if you point that out it doesn't make you sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:40 PM
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I don't think so. I don't have proof right now if something could even be proven but I've spoken to many men and I am a man myself and I feel like men are more straightforward and realistic with what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:44 PM
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I feel like the only time they do that is when they want to fuck you and then bail. Women used to do things to prevent this from happening but if they did that then they'd also have to settle with men they do not like, which isn't an option. Consider it a risk of doing business. Anyway, I suppose men do "pretend to be someone they are not" but they do not have a subconscious directive to get online to spread misinformation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:34 PM
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Yes and it's because women love to virtue signal and feed us bullshit, whether intentionally or not. Height doesn't matter! Statistics prove you wrong time and time again. "You have a to be a good person!" Plenty of studies and observed reality prove otherwise. "Just be funny", studies show if you're ugly people find you less funny and if you're attractive they find you more funny. I'm tired of arguing the same points over and over so I'm ending it there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:22 PM
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Where did I say it's women's fault? I even said "rightfully so". No one should be forced to be with someone they aren't attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:26 PM
11

Yes, I do not qualify or I only qualify once the women is much older and has been with many men before me, which then makes me not want them, so yeah, it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:25 PM
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Because marriage is beneficial with men they are attracted to. Not the 80% of subhumans. Marriage with most men is awful for women. But for the small percent of men they're attracted to, it's good because it confirms commitment. When women say they don't need marriage or men anymore, it means that they don't need to settle with the average ugly subhumans with poor genes anymore in order to survive. In the past women had to marry average Joes to survive because they had restricted rights or the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:15 PM
2

Damn it's my fault, I should've grown 5 more inches! What an idiot I am! Anyway I never wanted casual sex so this doesn't even matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:00 AM
22

Lmao so the women have no agency or control in the situation whatsoever right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:50 AM
2

Thank you for being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:10 PM
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It does, very much so. Do like 5 seconds of googling, it tanks your ability to maintain a marriage without being divorced. That's just one thing it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:08 PM
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I'm also biologically primed to want to eat all the cakes and junk food I can possibly shove into my mouth but you know I shouldn't do that because it has consequences. I'm biologically primed to club competitors across the head when they beat me at something but you know you probably shouldn't do that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:00 PM
6

Not necessarily. When you're young you're more attractive so you can chase what you want. When you're older you settle with what you can get because you becime less attractive and time is ticking. That's what it really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:10 PM
3

Bullshit. They coincidentally always notice after a bunch of fuck ups and/or after they're 28-35
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:44 PM
3

Really so first of all, why does an overwhelming amount of women says stuff like "my standards for fwb or casual sex is only looks need to be really good", admitting that for someone they marry that standard isn't as high? Second, if an attractive man to this woman is older, he can still date women HE finds far more attractive, which are younger so he isn't likely he'll settle with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:59 PM
5

True. But they don't pull the same attractive men like they used to. The chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:30 PM
1

🙏 I couldn't have out it better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:21 PM
7

Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:39 PM
1

I never said I wanted those things....?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:39 PM
5

I don't try to fuck lots of women. I an actively against having casual sex, for both men and women. It increases your chance of divorce, it can cause mistrust and it can desensitize you from an otherwise important and intimate act. "Red pill" is the closest description to my position but it is not at all my position on these things. It's completely hypocritcal to demand chastity for women but then feel like you have to have lots of sex with many women. That doesn't make sense and it isn't morall…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:28 PM
0

Ok dude, I don't travel so tell me the best tourist place to travel to so I can make the analogy work for someone like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:05 AM
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Let me explain what this means to us. Imagine you live in a small town. Then you see pictures of Paris and you talk about how nice Paris is. You visit Paris for a week and it's a wonderful vacation. You have a blast, but now it's time to come back home. You couldn't stay in Paris, it's too expensive and you wouldn't be able to find work, etc, etc. So now you just have to come back and settle on home and now you have pictures and maybe reminisce about how nice your visit to Paris was. This is how…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:53 AM
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I think the data supports 2. As well. The same study showed that the happiness women had with a more attractive partner faded after 5 or so years. A few other things alluded to that. Too bad getting your foot in the door is super hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:33 PM
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Back then you would be able to narrow it down really fast if you withheld sex when dating them, but now since no one is a virgin they'll think you're disrespecting them or you don't find them attractive if you try that while you've had sex with men before. Oops!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:19 PM
5

Those are the oofy doofy marriages. I remember there are statistics for partner attractiveness and average happiness and divorce rates. But it also seems like short dudes, who are notoriously subhuman and unattractive to women, get divorced way less. So it isn't so clear cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:22 PM
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Horrible piece of shit. Beat me for doing poorly in karate I didn't even like. Whenever he got in an argument with my mom he would come to my room and find something to yell at me about just so what, he would feel better or something? Always wanted to do stuff with us, but would fall asleep halfway through the activity. My mom admitted that she divorced her first husband for my dad, and my dad was living in his car and was a total loser who fucked women left and right. He got my mom pregnant acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:27 PM
3

No because if she cheated on you then that means she doesn't love you back. Simple. There's no if or but.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:16 AM
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Yes, porn is kind of cheating but it isn't as severe as actual cheating, but yes it is also bad. Sex should be between a man and his wife. Any sexual expression or thoughts outside of that is bad for a relationship. Sex isn't just like blowing your nose, it involves trust and intimacy above almost any other act. If a man or a woman is routinely thinking of sex with someone else, it can undermine their appreciation for their spouse and destroy the relationship. Trust and exclusivity shows that tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:16 AM
3

Well I'm one of those men and I do not want a one sided relationship. I would love to do things for my wife, especially if I knew she liked when I did it but still retained respect for me Married faithful men go to stripclubs? No they don't. If you go to stripclubs then you are not faithful. I'm not sure if this is irony or if you truly believe this contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:19 PM
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No? These things aren't mutually exclusive lmao. I love how you just forcefully interpret it as negatively as possible to dismiss us instead of being reasonable. Of course the men would have to do things for the woman in the relationship, that's how a relationship works. Nobody is disputing that and if they are they're misguided. Is it too much to ask for loving wives who don't think of Chad every day instead of me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:56 PM
1

No? We don't want to be begrudgingly dealt with, we want someone who likes us and shows affection and is just as considerate to us as we are to them. This has nothing to do with casual sex. Stop saying that. I don't understand what you don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:52 PM
3

Yep. And everyone will ignore it and act like being divorce and having stepparents is perfectly normal and healthy and it isn't a big deal but it is a big deal and it's ruining many peoples lives
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:37 PM
3

That's impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:30 AM
1

😂🤣🤣🤣🤭 But they do lmao
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/25 09:11 PM
16

No. It's just that most men to women are utterly and indescribably unattractive. Women get aroused by certain men just fine, but it's a small amount of them. This "holistic" and "combine with many other things" attraction is just women forcing themselves to like things they just don't like, like when you dress a vegetable in a million seasonings and dressings, but in the end it's nothing like a steak and can never come close.
/r/BlackPillScience29/07/25 12:11 PM
2

Hardly any women actually gives a shit about what the fuck is this, three Es? Lmao. Please get real man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:56 PM
4

This would be fucking amazing man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:20 PM
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Your lies will not work on us anymore. All you have to do is look at studies and statistics and all whatever this is can be waived away.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:27 PM
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Yes women approach chads, not a subhuman like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:53 PM
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I love it. Don't cold approach women, but when you're friends with women don't approach them either or you'll ruin the friendship. So just don't fucking interact with women at all if you want a relationship. I guess relationships aren't for us though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:56 PM
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Ok so you fired a blank you idiot, the gun didn't jam. Anyway Hi points are actually quite robust and reliable from my experience. If you had real ammunition with actual bullets in the cartridge, it wouldve fired a bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:17 PM
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How did it happen though? I don't understand how a gun jams before it even goes off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:12 PM
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That doesn't make any sense. Once you chamber a firearm it doesn't really jam, unless you put the wrong cartridge or the gun is severely damaged. Guns usually jam or malfunction after firing. Even if it was super fucked up you could probably manually place the cartridge in the chamber to seat it and then fire. And if it did jam, just clear the jam and try again? Cycling the next round doesn't matter in this use case. I've been handling guns my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:09 PM
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We are the left overs, we were supposed to die in a war or something
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:01 PM
0

It's true. But she would probably be OK if you had little experience if you were also young but had things going for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 08:27 PM
1

Well I've never heard of that. Maybe they're just stupid? That's not how the term is supposed to be used, unless they're also assuming she's been ran through. Google the word slut, it's about the amount of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:20 PM
1

I think people are called sluts for having multiple sexual partners in their lives, not necessarily because one partner was low value. If a woman only had one partner in her life but he was "low quality" nobody would call her a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:16 PM
1

I'm sorry, I genuinely don't understand. Maybe it's my fault or the way you phrased the sentence is a problem? Can you rephrase that? Maybe restate the point you're trying to make in response to what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:12 PM
1

It isn't a double standard. Having reasonable standards and not being promiscuous aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:04 PM
2

True. Many women are perfectly fine to be alone if chad won't commit, especially with government subsidies and AA.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:55 PM
0

7 is the average and that is insanely high.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:22 PM
2

Projection? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:14 PM
5

Exactly. That's one thing I can't stand, why do some dudes come here thinking people owe them anything or would care to?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:05 AM
1

You can have reasonable "low" standards and not have sex with 50 men, I don't see how that isn't reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:04 AM
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Why do I have to explain this to you? How can you not use reason to draw this assumption? Whether it is due to circumstances or because he liked you enough, his dating stopped with you. Every woman is attracted to people like him, he just happened to choose you. He could have chosen one woman and stay with her (good) or he could pump and dump all the women he could (bad). He happened to choose the former. But you are just like women the red pill describes, you chase after the top percent men fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:34 AM
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You married an alpha immediately. You didn't have to BB because you happened to bag the alpha. How many women get to bag the alpha? Very few. You went for the alpha and won, but 30 other women lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 10:17 PM
0

The average height in the US is 5'9 for men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 09:30 PM
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Height is attractiveness. Height is a universal attractive trait, especially for women. Redpill claims women chase chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 09:30 PM
2

She is claiming that she married her first boyfriend, so she is not like how TRP describes women. But her boyfriend is far above attractiveness at 5'11. So she is just like the woman RP describes: chadsexual. She went for the highly attractive male, like all the other women do in their 20s. The only difference is that this Chad stayed with her, when most like to pump and dump women over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:51 PM
2

She is saying that she married her first boyfriend like if she is the exception to RP. She isn't, her circumstances were just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:39 PM
1

I just told you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:34 PM
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If you have that specific part of the study on hand I'd love to see it because that is interesting if it's true. But I also want to know if age and other factors were controlled, what if the uglier women were always older or were more likely to be single moms? Then I think it's justified for that. But if it's same age range, same attractiveness level and the ugly men reject the ugly women that would definitely mean something and I'd have to reevaluate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:33 PM
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You're right. Mostly. Just because he can that doesn't mean he will, but if he is a man he probably does want to, and if he can he probably will. Only a tiny amount of people actually have principles and wouldn't cheat, even if they had the power. That's who you need to look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:30 PM
2

No it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:28 PM
1

Acceptance, and then look down at the rifling of a barrel. If we can't get what we want we are miserable and our bitching makes everyone else miserable so the solution is narrowed down quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:25 PM
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Significantly above average height. The only difference between you and the women TRP describes is that your attractive male decided to stay with you while the attractive men the other women had first didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:23 PM
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Dating app data shows most men have low standards compared to women, ugly men are much more likely to find ugly women attractive than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:20 PM
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Unless you're Chad, then he is entitled to your body, even if he's a horrible person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:19 PM
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You're attributing the things one group says to another. The same group of women who say approach more are probably not the ones that get mad at ugly dudes approaching them. Its the same argument when you hear women go "wow I get made fun of and are seen as less attractive for being a prude but the moment I have a body count I'm a whore and I'm a slut!" When it's clearly two different groups of men with different values
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:09 PM
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How tall is he
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:06 PM
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Less attractive woman with zero social media presence easily. Once you meet the minimum requirement of attractiveness (its very low for men), Character > attractiveness. Anyway I speak for myself, but I'm sure a decent amount of dudes feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:06 PM
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It isn't exactly the same activities as manual labor but many of the tasks are similar and related in military PT tests and sports. And what do these activities show between men and women? That the vast majority of men are stronger and can run futher than women can. They get injured less as well. Women have less grip strength than men as well. Imagine handling tools and being much more likely to lose grip when they recoil or vibrate, it happens enough as it is with men already I can't imagine wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:40 PM
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Alright, you're right, but they wouldn't do it as well. I don't know how I could measure that but it just makes sense. Men are better suited for that kind of work due to our physiology.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:28 PM
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In predominantly male operated mines I'm sure a few women doesn't effect much. But if any labor job was with only women we all know it would suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:55 AM
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Mines entirely operated by children? Wow maybe you are right!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:57 AM
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Women have weaker stamina, bones and muscles than men, they would be far less efficient by a scale we cannot even imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:54 AM
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Solar and wind power is a joke, inefficient and not sustainable at our current technology level. Anyway, who installs solar installations and Pull all that conduit? Do you think it's women? What about the construction of the windmills do you think women would be able to do that effectively? Embarassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:25 AM
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Who's going to mine the coal, run the power lines and build the buildings? Do you think women can do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:02 PM
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Either you're the exception, you're bullshitting me on purpose, or you're incapable of recognizing what you really feel. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10429993/#:~:text=Women%20experienced%20more%20frequent%20penile,partner%20family%20income%2C%20%CE%B2%20%3D%20.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:05 AM
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Bullshit. If you're used to good things and you have to downgrade its always noticeable and hard to cope with. Imagine eating private chef cooked meals for 10 years and then having to eat canned food for the rest of your life. Or having used a cell phone for years to then be forced to use a rotary dial phone for a long period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:25 PM
1

Learning from their mistake doesn't mean they won't feel like they're settling when they go for men who aren't "fuck boys" after they're ran through. You become tainted. Once you have the best why would you want to go back? Or rather, you would always compare what you have to what was once way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:58 PM
2

You're right actually
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:34 PM
6

I suppose that's true although its becoming less common at least
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:55 PM
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When women stop having situationships and casual sex with chads and choose an average dude as their first choice and marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:45 PM
2

Ignore what women do and just look at what they do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:16 PM
2

That's why dead bedrooms is a such a common occurrence in marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:27 PM
1

Well if that's all true then I suspect I have nothing to worry about. But I know it is true because okcupid studies both old and new maintain the reality that women find most men unattractive yet they are marrying them. It's settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:15 PM
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Well rule #1 is not to listen to what people attribute as their reasons. Oftentimes when a man is very attractive, women (or men to very attractive women) will ignore the red flags and just go along to get along. Its the same principle when the man is unattractive but instead with negativity. No one will just flat out admit "my husband is unattractive and I resent that I had to settle with him". They're going to attribute it something else. It's like the common understanding when your wife bitch…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:22 PM
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Are you honest enough to admit that you settled with him and you wish you could've done better? Or do you sincerely love this person? I suppose I already know what you're going to say, but I hope you can understand what I'm trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:06 PM
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Men in any significant force of change said nothing about not wanting to be providers... feminism led by women decided to join the workforce, men had little to do with it. And yes marriage is failing. Less people are getting married, they're getting married later and divorces are occurring very frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:05 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:02 PM
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Being married doesn't mean anything to me. You can be married but be a poster in r/deadbedrooms with a wife that doesn't respect or love you because you weren't her first choice. I know that is a possibility for me because I am short. Also the fact that you ended up marrying a taller man doesn't exactly bode well for the point you're trying to make. The only relationship that ended up working was with a tall man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:33 PM
2

Some traits cannot be changed. I can't grow 6 inches for example. I still try my best to not be repulsive but there are immutable characteristics that completely disqualify you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:08 PM
0

Yes I already knew
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:23 PM
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But it is true. I hear women say shit like "our attraction isn't really physical you have to emotionally blah blah" or "Women find 80% of men unattractive but that changes when blah blah blah." No it's bullshit. You're utterly repulsed by us, just be honest. And that's why marriage as an institution is failing horribly in the modern day because women are no longer obligated to be with men they don't like (the vast majority of men). All men aren't horrible, it's just there's a tiny supply of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:03 PM
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Well guess what, I'm so fucking sick snd tired of women telling me one thing but observed reality saying the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:05 AM
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Women don't get orgasms because the dicks are too small and/or the men they are with are unattractive. You have to be deluding yourself if you think it's any deeper than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:43 PM
1

Look at the orgasm gap, that's should tell you everything you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:34 PM
1

Estrogen and testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:04 PM
1

No I don't want unconditional love. I want to be loved for what I provide and the things I do. If I do things that betray my values I want to be judged and excluded. If I refuse to work and provide why should anyone respect me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:09 PM
12

No you don't need both, not even close buddy.
/r/BlackPillScience14/05/25 08:09 PM
5

To women trauma dumping means showing an unattractive amount of weakness, which is often very little and the justification or the circumstances surrounding the display of weakness are entirely irrelevant
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/25 05:10 PM
1

The first one but I doubt someone who really loves you would be so disrespectful
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 04:36 PM
0

Your gaslighting will not work. We won't fall for it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:51 PM
10

How so? Are you gonna morph into a woman and date me?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:51 AM
1

Just be yourself bro
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:17 AM
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This is such a stupid thing to say. No amount of ego or whatever will make women attracted to you or unattractive men. They are biologically hardwired to find most men unattractive, it's a feeling you can't just will away. Women in the past married average dudes because they would starve or live in poverty if they didn't have a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:01 PM
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Because women don't struggle to get with men and when they lose one it isn't too hard to get another
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:07 AM
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Women don't have sympathy for men who complain about lack of sex and relationships because the men who lack sex and relationships have undesirable characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:30 PM
1

Wrong. Women prefer and or choose men with any combination of nice cars, muscles, height and money. This observable reality has caused men to chase these things. Being vulnerable has caused great suffering and humiliation to every man who has tried, so again, observed reality beats your hollow platitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:28 PM
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Ok let's say it's true. Women have it easier in dating. Now what? What does pointing this out solve? Are women going to change their behavior now and date you because of this information? No. Are you going to get government aid for being unwanted? No. Does anyone really care? No. Do you think pointing out the hypocracy in women who say X but do Y and whatever will make them go "Oh wow! I'm going to date those poor lonely dudes now!" or "I'm going to change my harmful behavior!". No. The reasons …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:19 PM
1

Such as mentioning that it rained today or that the traffic was worse than usual but NOT the fact that your friend died and how it makes you feel or how you were bullied in HS and it still effects you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:19 PM
1

Yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:17 PM
1

I'll answer it for you as the women will write paragraphs upon paragraphs of bullshit because they probably don't even understand what they're thinking. If I like him, it's not whining. I don't like him, it's whining and that's my justification for not liking him. If he shows signs that he is insecure and shows weakness as my rock then I do not like it. It's that simple. Anything else is just noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:15 PM
1

So only sharing superficial thoughts and feelings that don't actually show any meaningful weakness or impact on your life. I don't know why you have to do all these gymnastics and wordy explanations. Just say you don't like it and own up to it. No one has a gun pointed to your head. If people get mad so what? It's the internet. Who cares about the opinion of people who will never effect your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:11 PM
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It's not some alignment in the stars, women just have an extremely high standard for attraction. Remember that study where women sampled found 80% of men unattractive. And no I'm not pointing my finger to shame you or make you feel bad, it isn't your fault, it's just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:06 AM
1

Avergae men and undesirable men are synonymous
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:44 PM
1

Then I suppose you are more willing to stay single than settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:48 AM
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We'll see if you say the same thing when you're 31
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:46 PM
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All that giant word salad could easily be attributed to a lack of attraction. You would be less willing to do anything said because they aren't attractive or attractive enough. I don't know who does the most cheating but I don't think it would disprove anything I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:58 PM
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I skimmed that article and for 5 seconds and I saw titles like "MARTIAL INFIDELITY", "LACK OF INTIMACY", "WEIGHT GAIN". I'm have no idea how any of those are not related to being attracted to your partner or dont have the probability of being related to not being attracted to your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:50 PM
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I wonder if this interest they get really that great and all? It's like being a bloody piece of meat around a bunch of dogs. The attention is nothing but hard coded sexual attraction. Is the sexual attraction from others really anything valuable? I would argue that it isnt. At least I would also want them to like me for my values and behavior, for who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:49 AM
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I'm not sure what kind of data could be used to prove or disprove this. I suppose you could start by looking at the amount of sexless marriages and then the very high divorces rates. Then you can also look at the data showing that the age of marriage being higher and higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:07 AM
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This is the honest truth. Most people have no pricinciples and no ability to defer gratification. It's easy to fall into the trap of believing all of the opposite sex is like that but really it's just people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:47 AM
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No amount of women saying anything will convince me of anything as women often say they like X or dont mind Y but their behavior overwhelmingly betrays their words. The women settle once they've become older as their value isn't as high anymore so they can't act picky anymore. And no, women don't need to lower their standards. They're entitled to filter out people as they wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:14 PM
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Ok so you had fun with the hook up guy but you're getting older and need a better more responsibile committed man so you have to settle with the "husband material" dude who will most likely not be as attractive and or good at sex. This is exactly the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:01 PM
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No it isn't. It means you're to be settled with and you aren't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:59 PM
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Go look at the massive amounts of dead bedroom marriages and how much of a topic it is in popular culture
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:56 PM
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Unless you're a 9/10 of course
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:25 AM
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I know a dude who has the same bitterness and mindset but he got jacked after 2 years of training and now girls hit on him nonstop, multiple times a week at least. I'm tired of hearing this bullshit, do you actually believe this shit or is this on purpose to bullshit us?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:10 PM
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Institution.... of heterosexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:14 PM
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Well you seem to be forgetting that for the last say 300,000 years humanity has been sexually dimorphic. Every successful and widespread culture has been patriarchal to a significant degree. I'm not saying women should be slaves and need to have their rights stripped, but you have to acknowledge that some things are the way they are because of inherent human nature. Men have phyisological characteristics that make them lean toward being dominant providers and women have physiological characteris…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:05 PM
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You're forgetting the part where the man has to play alimony for years and since men usually make more than their wives its even more of a raw deal to split 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:53 PM
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It's not just a personal attack, sometimes you can determine the real intentions of what someone wants by looking at what they're proposing can result in. And sure, women are not attracted to and dislike insecurity. This is basic knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:52 PM
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I never insinuated that you were a "slut" or had a high body count. I insinuated that you may have an ex that you valued a lot more than anyone else that you're getting with now and its convenient for you that they do not ask. I think the red pill term is "alpha widow."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:45 PM
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We really are just animals...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:27 PM
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Literally anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:02 AM
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If billions of women do not find their husband's unattractive why are there millions of men everywhere, even from 20 or 30 years ago, talking about their loveless sexless marriages and how miserable they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:26 AM
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Ok but the culture and the values may become extinct and the survivors will be the cultures of developing or underdeveloped countries. Is that ideal?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:47 PM
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Immigration is a temporary solution. One day these underdeveloped nations will become developed or are already developing like us. Look at relationship between Mexican immigrants coming to the US, the fertility rate of Mexico, it is now below replacement. It also may cause problems with assimilation and breakdown of societal trust if there are many foreigners coming into countries. You either will have foreigners coming in that will turn like us and stop reproducing and go extinct or they will b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:27 PM
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It's because most men find most women attractive and have loose standards. Women have much more stringent requirements for attraction. That's all it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:18 PM
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Ok but these countries still have birthrates past replacement levels. The point I'm making is that economic reasons isn't the answer. The simple truth is that when women are given human rights and have access to modern technology they choose to delay or not have children, even in the most comfortable and prosperous developed nations. I believe that it is also a factor that the women in developed countries no longer need a male provider that a more traditional culture makes a requirement. If we t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:15 PM
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Ok. Now think, what allowed them to have such high confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:08 PM
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Ok and do you think the people in the Gaza strip just have a boon of wealth to afford to have a +3 fertility rate? I'm sure those women in Africa are just swimming in wealth and resources too, maybe I should move there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:04 PM
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So why does every developed first world nation have this dating/fertility problem? Is every single one of them having economic problems crippling the population? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:58 PM
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What if I decide to stop working or taking on responsibilities? I think that's perfectly reasonable for a spouse to leave me for that. What if I do something that puts my virtue into question? Even if it's to someone else but it reflects a lack of character on my part? There should always be conditions, just make sure they're conditions that are actually important. Only an animal can love without condition, like some instinct, and that is a meaningless love, at least to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:22 PM
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