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I have seen this happen in person so many times with men around me. She wasn’t the right woman, she was just the woman he happens to meet at the right time, the time when he decided that his super important genes needed to be spread for the good of mankind. All of them are now in miserable marriages, with children, and I feel so bad for the women they married who thought they were getting a fairytale. In reality they found themselves mothering children plus one manchild who now blames her for “r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:23 AM
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That’s the annoying part - they won’t. They’ll just complain that women shouldn’t take part at all because they menstruate. Men don’t want to go up against women in competition because they’re afraid they’ll lose, and that will be extremely emasculating for them because they still see women as inferior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:54 PM
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This is my experience as well. I’m a huge horror fan, and other female horror fans always like a wide variety of genres (I personally favour technohorror and sci fi horror!) but ask a male horror fan and it’s always - Saw, Hostel, Bunny Game, Donkey Punch, or any of the five million films that involve a woman being chased and/or held captive. Barf. GTF outta here, wanker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:54 PM
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Wait, so this wasn’t just me?? I got sat beside the class bully in primary school (I’ll have been around seven) as a deliberate attempt to ‘calm him’. I’m physically disabled and was already an outcast in my school and relentlessly bullied. The fact that this led to me getting punched, endlessly teased and screamed at by him on top of the existing bullying was obviously secondary to the need to soothe and influence a psychotic young boy. Any attempts to Google his name come up with nothing. I’d …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 03:11 AM
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I think most of us recognise ourselves in the pickme behaviour even if it is past us rather than current us. Even though I’m married I’ve still found so much wisdom here that is relevant. For example, I realised that the fact I don’t pay 50% of the mortgage isn’t something to be hard on myself for - my partner earns a hell of a lot more than I do, and we each pay the same percentage of our wages on the mortgage. I learned to value the contributions I make that are not financial that help him pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 11:00 PM
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I’m happily married to a HVM and already was when I discovered FDS. For me honestly it’s made me realise that if something happened to my relationship (god forbid) I doubt I would bother re-entering the hetero dating game, I would stick purely within the queer community. It’s kind of a blessing to have that option. I’m really glad you asked because I’ve been wondering the exact same thing! I can’t wait to see the replies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:21 AM
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Maybe she’s wearing thirty thousand weaves at once? Like, her hair must reach halfway to space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 02:03 AM
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I remember my first ever proper experience with another woman - I kissed her in a nightclub, we were both very drunk, she invited me to her dorm room (I lived in the apartment below) and by the time we got to her room she was so wasted she couldn’t even walk properly. She pulled me into bed and I sort of laughed it off and hugged her until she fell asleep, then I removed her shoes for her and tucked her in and left her to sleep and went home. Decades later I think back on that incident and reali…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:40 AM
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It’s definitely tough and pretty scary to transition from making an excuse to telling the truth, that you just don’t feel like it. The excuse feels kinder but in the long run, the truth is always kinder. He will eventually see a pattern if you don’t and will appreciate it if you just come forward with it. The issue is often that as a woman you’re not used to valuing your own needs enough to ask for them, so that’s the first step. Recognise that you have as much right to say you’re not in the moo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:38 PM
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Oh my christ I cannot shout this advice louder. It’s a total horse shit brainwash and it drives me insane to think how many days, weeks, months I have wasted on feeling guilty to the point of thoughts of suicide because I don’t “keep my husband satisfied” every time he wants it and I don’t. Thankfully for me I’m married to a HVM and when he found out I felt this way he was horrified and helped me pull myself out of it. “Why would I want to have sex with you when you’re not in the mood?” It’s so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:06 AM
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They think they’re smart. This is exactly it. They’ve been raised to believe their mediocre asses are something special by virtue of being men, that they’re smart and important and wily and pLaYaZzz because that shit used to work and still works on TV. There is almost nothing funnier to me than watching these men discover that they are not actually as smart, interesting and important as they think they are. It’s top lols. It’s the toppiest lols from the top of Mount Lol itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:22 PM
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Seconded. Literally never, EVER ignore your gut feeling about a man. Unfortunately it’s the only smart survival choice we have; unfortunate as in that we even need it at all I mean. If you listen to your gut and you were wrong, the worst that can happen is…well, nothing. The other way around? We all dread to even think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:07 AM
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I struggle to think of a bigger red flag than a man who gets off on his partner being afraid of him. I’m so glad you got out of these.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:07 AM
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What gives it away definitively for me is the word males. They imagine we call them males because they call us females as an insult, it’s a dead giveaway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:32 PM
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He failed you, not the other way around. You can do better on your own than with this douche. Let him have the space, and erase any signs he ever existed while he’s gone and never answer his calls or messages again. He wants space, he can have it. Permanently. You didn’t fail anything, it’s a journey. You will recover.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:10 PM
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I promise you there is nothing wrong with or weird about your feet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:51 PM
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I’m not being cute but I legit can’t even see what the problem is, am I missing something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:45 PM
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I snortlolled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:13 PM
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Right? Oh the things I would say to sixteen year old me if I could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:29 PM
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Shout it from the rooftops. This says it way better than I did. Concentrate on you and maybe at some point finding a partner who shares your values might enter the picture. But by then you’re already happy with who you are, you don’t need a man to validate it, and at that point you’re better poised to welcome the right people in to your life. PS I’m insanely proud of you for doing this so young. I was a pickme well into my thirties. You’re amazing already!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:23 PM
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I’m white but close to forty, and I wanted to give you one thing. I think your focus needs to shift from them to you. One of the major keystones of FDS is to become the best and happiest, most successful you possible, and that dating and meeting men is a side project. If you’re worried about turning bitter, maybe it’s time to just stop thinking about them altogether and concentrate on the other things you have in your future. Do you want to go to college? Do you want to start your own business? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:32 PM
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The doll can’t cook, clean and stroke his ego, that’s the only reason he still has a girlfriend at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:39 AM
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Nailed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:40 PM
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I’ve been wondering for years why female empowerment always seems to involve getting naked in Hollywood. Lost some weight? Get naked. Pregnant? Pose naked. Oh you were in an amazingly clever and cerebral Oscar-nominated film? Haha cool come be naked in our magazine. Bizarre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:23 AM
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It’s also very emotionally draining to know that every time you’re having a work or business or just casual conversation these guys are probably not listening, not taking you seriously anyway and are only talking to you because they think showing fake interest is like putting pennies in a machine that vends sex. I used to give them all the benefit of the doubt but I just don’t bother anymore. They’re just assessing what they can get you to do and what flavour of manipulation will work best to ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:58 PM
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I think this is because the behaviour is tolerated when they’re younger as just some normal part of young manhood. The sooner we become zero tolerance towards it the better, it will force them to adapt or die alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:24 PM
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We’re expected to be grateful he’s marrying us at all. It’s hilariously bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:37 AM
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Ugh I’ve seen this happen a scary number of times with men I know. They don’t meet the right woman, they reach the “right” time and will accept any woman who will put up with their shit. Once they were in the settling down mindset they basically waited for the first woman who fell into their lap, lovebombed the shit out of her and were married and pregnant within 18 months of meeting. I could literally see them scanning the women in their social circle like hmm, I’m tired of dating and I want to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:30 AM
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I’m physically cringing at the realisation that I would have agreed with this when I was in my teens and twenties. Thankfully this sub exists for the women in that position now. But I can think of very few memories more embarrassing that the ones of me being a pickme. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:24 AM
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I keep saying this. Men need to realise and respect the sacrifices we make for procreation, because we could pretty much end the human race in a generation if we were just like nah*, which is what myself and many others have done. Why the fuck should I, tbh. The other thing I’ve stopped doing is making excuses for why we don’t have kids. If anyone asks, I say “It sounds like a lot of work and I simply cannot be bothered”. I would like to normalise this. Not every woman is childless because of so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:53 PM
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This sounds like some pickup artist bollocks they probably read somewhere about how to engage with women, written by a gimp in a fedora who makes YouTube videos of himself grabbing women’s buttocks on public transportation to show how they’re all “up for it” because they all laugh nervously, afraid for their safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:12 PM
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So they’re what, sacrificial lambs? Jesus men really do not see past the end of their own dicks do they.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:39 PM
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It’s exactly this. All of them think they have such premier grade genes that they simply must pass them on for the good of mankind. Fuck off, you’re just a normal boring and deeply flawed human like the rest of us, put your weak sperm in a tissue and do us all a favour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:59 AM
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And then they complain when we don’t want to play with them or be involved in their hobbies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:26 AM
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I winced in sympathy reading this, and it fills me with such rage that this is considered normal in so many relationships. Don’t feel bad that you “let” it happen, you were only one person versus an entire society that normalises this behaviour. Be proud that you survived it and that you have changed your mindset - that change will make your future so much better and you won’t make the same mistakes again. Your story and your new outlook will also help other women see the light. Welcome to your …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:09 AM
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This has literally changes my outlook on a ton of things, thank you again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:55 PM
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I didn’t see it this way when I first read it, you are totally right. She is financing him as much as the other way around! Thank you for making me see this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:43 PM
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One of the biggest revelations of my life was to never, ever trust a man who refers to his exes as “crazy” or “psycho”. I used to believe that line every single damn time, and now I know what it really means - this. His ex called him out, got sick of his shit and put down firm boundaries, and he’s a big fucking baby who can’t handle having his fee fees burnt. Thank you for putting it so eloquently for all to see!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:02 PM
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“Hahahaha it was just a joke!” “Unless...?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:08 AM
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I think the major problem is that women are required, by biology, or expected, by society, to do most of the work of child creation and rearing. But we also place very little value in these jobs purely because they are seen as “women’s jobs”. If society elevated pregnancy, childbirth and child rearing to the high status task that it should be, then I think things would improve for everyone. Generous paid maternity leave, respecting women in general, would put us on more equal footing and if pare…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:47 PM
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“She has to put in the effort to look a certain way and work full-time, but obviously she also has to clean up after me like a good mommy. She will basically have three jobs but I’ll still have the stones to call myself the breadwinner!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:12 AM
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Adding on to this - “My other partner is totally cool with it” = my girlfriend has no idea I’m sleeping around and calling it polyamory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:48 PM
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I really want to emphasise this point - this relationship has run its course. He may have been your best friend and confidante and everything like that for the first few years, but not anymore. Now he is your child. Remember how he used to make you feel, right at the start, all those years ago? When was the last time he made you feel that way? Does he make you feel shit way more often than good? Despite what they may think men do not get to pay in to a little bank of good deeds at the start of a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 01:29 AM
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Thank you to this sub for making me realise how many of my exes wanted a live-in therapist instead of a partner. Scream it from the rooftops ladies, you are not a maid slash therapist slash sex toy. Make him do his own god damn emotional labour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:57 AM
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Scrotes are so used to just getting what they want just by virtue of being a dude that they don’t put any effort in to it anymore. “Oh, it’s not an issue”. Like that’s the best you’ve got? Really dialling in your douchebaggery today huh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:04 AM
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Fasten your belt at your side or at your back. I wish this wasn’t a tip I had to give.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:45 PM
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