ont_anon Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Lowering plates gently?		ont_anon	/r/askTRP	09/05/14 01:39 AM
0	Being her rock - another example of how to be in LTR game	Red Pill Example	ont_anon	/r/TheRedPill	15/07/14 05:46 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Do not be dragged down by women's passiveness. This sounds similar to an ex of mine. Pre-TRP we bought a house together. The price of the house was $185k and we had made the minimum downpayment when purchasing it. Less than a year later, we were in splitsville. I wanted to keep the house and she couldn't afford it, so that was an easy decision between the two of us. I told her that I'd pay her back her portion of the downpayment, essentially buying her portion of the house from her. But no, she wanted $92,500.00. No matter how I explained it…	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/15 07:10 PM
5	King White Knight Beta Leader on r/relationshits fiancee wants and asks him to take more control in the relationship. "Ordering his wife to do anything would be vile" in his own words. I saw this yesterday. All of the comments that I read, albeit very few of them, were equally as ridiculous, e.g. "You should agree with her and then command that you are equal partners, demand that she is equal in the relationship and tell her that you're the boss and therefore she gets to make 50% of the decisions." Good work. Turning those tables would have really gotten her wet between the legs, I'm sure. Way to use your grade 6 logic. After reading that shit I was going to post something whi…	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/15 06:15 PM
32	Law Enforcement Officers guide to dealing with women the post-fuck text. I'm lucky that I did this a few years ago, pre-TRP. Saw a girl by herself at a coffee shop and ran a bit of day game. She goes to college but still lives with her mother, blah blah blah. After a while we end up back at her [mother's] place and mid-thrust she blurts out "I'm not comfortable with this." Immediately stop, get dressed and leave. As I was driving home I message her: "I'm glad that we stopped immediately when you asked. I wouldn't want you to feel uncomfortable." N…	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/15 04:45 PM
1	What do you feel when someone cheats I'm not sure why this comment is getting these downvotes. You're clearly new here, are wanting to learn, you aren't defending her actions and were even slightly self-deprecating in your "call me a faggot" line. You're simply being open and honest about the situation. It's like if you joined a running club and on your first day were told "Clearly you aren't an expert on running and haven't read the Runner's Guide yet. Can you run a marathon?" "No." "OMG YOU SUCK!11!!!"	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/15 04:19 PM
2	15 Reasons To NOT Date A Single Mom Same with me - never once posted there, then once posted a message which was essentially a very short, above-board 'Similar thing happened to me. Stay strong' type of post. The OP even responded to me saying thanks. Next thing I know I have a message from a Moderator saying that I was banned. For how free and open these moderators and Reddit feel they are, they hate on us for simply being members of TRP; practically the definition of bigotry.	/r/TheRedPill	10/08/15 04:36 PM
9	Cheating wife tells her lover (me) how loyal she REALLY is. ...my dad specifically told me if it was between " my mother or myself" it would be my mother. Well there goes trusting family. Trust is earned, just as respect is, regardless of whether it's family. If you were being delinquent during your "angry teen years" then why would you expect to be trusted? As an example - and I am not suggesting that you did any of these things - if I was a father whose teen son was "angry" and stole money from my wallet, borrowed his mother's car in the middle of the …	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/15 06:59 PM
4	Plasticity: Remnants of Old Conditioning you need to focus your RP thinking until it becomes sub-conscious. This 1000%. I've been coming here almost daily for about a year and a half now. Been through the sidebar a few times just to stay sharp. Not that I would ever support resting on your laurels, but it's an amazing feeling when you instantly know what to say/do/how to act in a situation. Where I see autonomous TRP responses the quickest in myself is while watching movies - probably because what they show is so bad. Back in my old se…	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/15 05:10 PM
6	If you think you're being cheated on... ...I mean she's been in my life for 4 years Sounds like the sunk cost fallacy? You're in college which is the prime A1 location for pussy. It will never be this easy or plentiful in your life. Ever. You might not hate her or that mad at her, but if she's taking her life in a direction which doesn't work for you then say sayonara. You don't have to be a dick about it, either. Don't even mention her "lying", because to her it probably isn't - that's just what she felt at the moment. Just say that …	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/15 07:15 PM
5	Whisper: An app for seeing true unfiltered thoughts I deleted this app about a year ago, but I'm telling you, for the 6 - 8 months that I had it, it was like shooting fish in a barrel to hook up with these chicks. There's something about it that seems to attract damaged women, so 99/100 you probably would NOT want an LTR. But great for plate acquisition. You could set the app to only view local Whispers, so you knew that they were in the area. If anything sexy caught my eye I'd send the poster a direct message and the game was on. I know the rule…	/r/TheRedPill	05/06/15 07:09 PM
2	Anyone see the "Hot Girls Wanted" Netflix porn documentary. I watched it the other night. I enjoyed when the girls were going on about their freedom and the glamour, but the house that guy - their "agent" - had them all living in? It was a dumpy shithole. Multiple girls crammed into one bedroom, mattresses with no sheets, holes in the drywall. I can imagine how far they had to drive for the real glamour of Miami, because where they were living? It definitely wasn't there.	/r/TheRedPill	31/05/15 07:41 PM
52	FR: Married Guy and The Family Vacation to Disney A buddy of mine has been practicing the following for years: he gives his wife two options to choose from (and only semi-jokingly says to her "Don't fuck this up!"). She loves it, because she feels like he values her opinion, when in reality he would have been happy to go to either place. The bonus is that if they get there (whether it's a restaurant, or anything) and she doesn't really like it, she can't complain. He just says, "Well you're the one who picked this place!" and if she continues h…	/r/TheRedPill	27/05/15 05:07 PM
1	I've been banned from another sub I never posted to for being a "supporter" of a "hate group" -- redpill -- "thought police" mods are thriving on Reddit I just got banned from the exact same group! Someone posted that they were dumped because their SO's friends/family didn't like that they weren't white. I responded in support, saying that the same thing happened to me years ago. Actually, here's the post that got me banned: Same thing happened to me years ago. I'm white but my gf at the time is Korean. Even though we had a great relationship her parents HATED that I wasn't Korean. They were nice to my face, although her mother would sometimes m…	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/15 08:02 PM
2	Well, not that it was required really, but TRP is now underwritten by the University of Guelph. Thought some may get a kick outta this. I live about an hour away from that city. Although they have many other programs, they're known for their exceptional agricultural and veterinary schools. I think that the people who are attracted to those programs are more conservative than, say, those attending a school known for its enlightened thinking and top-notch womynz studies programs. I know a few people who went there. They grew up on the family farm, went there for the agricultural programs and to get a degree, with a plan of eventua…	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/15 07:45 PM
1	FR: University Plate-Spinning Huh? In the country where I live the schools are actually called "such-and-such College" or "University of [city name]". There is a difference here between colleges and universities; the two terms aren't interchangeable.	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/15 07:34 PM
2	New guys: TRP is like a salad bar - take what you want, and leave the rest. Definite upvote for this post; I've been feeling the same way for quite a long time now. It speaks to the indoctrination of the Feminist ideology, that you have to do things a certain way or you'll get in trouble, get your wrist slapped, have to stand in the corner, etc. As OP mentioned, not only are guys at different states of unplugging, but we all have our own personal goals about what we want from TRP. I've long believed that TRP is simply a framework from within which you can structure your…	/r/TheRedPill	24/03/15 03:41 PM
1	How to deal with a clingy girlfriend? I'm not letting her take up too much of my life and my goals. When my girl gets like that, I just plain out ignore it. I don't even acknowledge the passive-aggressive pissiness and just go on as if everything's fine. She'll go to another room. Or if she's mad at night she might get up out of bed and go to sleep in another room. If I make the BP mistake of chasing after her and asking, "What's wrong?" it not only implies that her 'mood' is important, because I've acknowledged it, but also acceptable.	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/15 04:22 PM
0	The irony of this self-congratulatory #likeagirl nonsense is that most women would be crushed to be told they are anything #likeaman. Interesting article on Return of Kings recently entitled "Football is no longer a masculine pastime" has a contrary viewpoint. I'm sure you wouldn't be surprised to hear that women LOVE the Superbowl because it's another chance to invade an otherwise male-dominated area. Friends' wives have no clue about football, but as soon as one of our Superbowl parties is "guys only" (due to available space, depending on who's hosting) then the hens are up in arms that they're not able to attend.	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/15 03:47 PM
2	Beware of the envious white knights Many friends have worked in bars/restaurants as servers and bartenders. That job is a whole subculture of people. It's practically expected that you're going to screw around with your co-workers when working in a restaurant. Note: Possibly not at fine dining or McDonald's, but if you're working at any type of sports bar-we're laid back-throw your peanut shells on the floor-steakhouse kind of chain restaurant, it is what it is.	/r/TheRedPill	26/01/15 09:24 PM
1	Taking care of your face I'm not too up on the world of lotions, so I can't speak to the pros & cons of applying other lotions to your face. That being said, those are vitamins which are beneficial to your skin and help prevent aging. And this lotion in particular is non-oily, so after I've applied it to my face there isn't a greasy shine on my skin. That's unlike many hand lotions which leave my hands feeling slippery and greasy after I apply them. It's inexpensive (just checked and it's $1.99 for a 2oz container on th…	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/15 08:12 PM
1	Taking care of your face I changed my face washing routine a few months ago after reading a similar post on Christian McQueen's web site. I used to just lather up the soap bar in my hands, then wash my face and the back of my neck. Now I do the following when I get out of the shower: Use a cleansing product, like Oxy power pads Apply a vitamin E, A & D moisturizer from GNC I use an exfoliant in the shower a few days a week, but only on my forehead, nose & cheeks. I shave almost daily which exfoliates the parts of my fac…	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/15 07:39 PM
-2	Do Men Suffer from "Peter Pan" Syndrome? I think it's because women are used to guys who'll loaf around the house playing their console for hours straight. I understand defending playing video games if they're played in discrete moderation, but it's a different story to justify it by saying "I played these as a kid and grew up with them so it's totally fine that I'm avoiding sunlight and other people by spending hours/day on something which, in the end, might be constructive to me in only the least measurable way as an adult." While I …	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/15 09:01 PM
2	Had some trouble digesting a TRP concept. Now that I swallowed the pill I'm struggling on how to put it in action. This x1000. I own both of those books and go back and study them periodically. I was lucky enough to also take the Carnegie course. Although it is a lot of money (employer paid for it), I would strongly recommend it to anyone. As /u/TheEverlastingScar pointed out, although it's Dale Carnegie, I've also read the biography of Andrew Carnegie which I think is a worthwhile read.	/r/TheRedPill	07/01/15 05:51 PM
1	Redditor's wife of 16 years has emotional affair with coworker, skips their anniversary dinner to spend time with said coworker Norwood's "Women who love too much". I'm not sure which study that the author cites in that book, but that is my source of that information. It's written for women, but gave me a tremendous amount of insight into the nature of women. I won't get too much into the long story of how I came to have it (female friend read it, said that it changed her life, she suggested it for my then-gf who was acting 'off', turns out gf was cheating on me). I had already purchased the book when things hit the fan.…	/r/TheRedPill	22/12/14 01:18 PM
4	Redditor's wife of 16 years has emotional affair with coworker, skips their anniversary dinner to spend time with said coworker I read something once which struck me as a gold nugget: Women are attracted to what they feel they were missing as a child. They want to provide what they were missing. So if dad was missing, didn't hug her enough, etc. she'll go looking for guys who are closed off, cold, don't seem to let love in because she wants to provide it to them so as to fulfill that need in herself. In the book in which I read that information it said that a survey was done of a large number of nurses. It was found that…	/r/TheRedPill	19/12/14 05:39 PM
1	Keep TRP to yourself 1 on 1 usually the guy will agree with you, but in mixed groups the guy will want to impress his GF or other women Don't even get me started. I had some company for dinner a few weeks ago and one of my friends' husband started spouting on about "happy wife, happy life". I shut that shit down fast. Not in a really shitty way, I just laughed it off, applied some A&A and then finished with something along the lines of "....although I take my SO's suggestions into consideration, in the end it's my w…	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/14 05:18 PM
37	acting like boyfriend material before you have sex almost guarantees failure I've told girls that I'm the Chief Toast Maker at a local breakfast diner. "All you do is make toast?!" "Yep." "Wow, I didn't even know that was a job!" "It's killer. So, where were we..." Also, I've been known to say that I work at an aquarium training great white sharks to jump over alligators. Even though that is obvious bullshit, it sounds manly and the ladies like it.	/r/TheRedPill	05/12/14 05:47 PM
3	Black Knighting 5 ...chart the menstrual cycles of all of the women in the office for your amusement. A girl that used to work for the same company that I do told me that she saw a study that women who spend a lot of time together in close proximity will start to menstruate on the same cycle. She worked in a room with three other women and told me that it's true - that their cycles had all synced up.	/r/TheRedPill	05/12/14 05:04 PM
5	A woman giving advices to my classmates in college about their careers As pro-TRP as I am, even asking that question during a job interview is illegal - at least in the United States, as well as in my country. The woman giving the presentation should have been fired for her ignorance of basic employment law in answering that question, not b/c she wants a job which she won't be there for because she plans on having kids.	/r/TheRedPill	27/11/14 03:02 PM
1	Women don't reject you because you fail or were not successful, they reject you because your handling your failure like a bitch. Reminds me of a rant that I posted a while ago re: tenet vs. tenant. You're / your isn't so bad, but when it's two words that have such completely different meanings, no matter how well-intentioned and informative the post is... you lose me.	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/14 05:24 PM
6	How is it really like being a single male in your 30s? Confirmed. 39 yo here, found TRP very early this year. Was banging 18 - 27 year olds through the spring; most were 23. My current SO is 21. Guys actually shake my hand when they find out her age. And no, although she is my SO, I do not believe that she is a unicorn and I do believe that to many extents, AWALT. Which is why I'll always be reading up in here, improving my SMV and continuing my personal improvement and RP education.	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/14 05:02 PM
5	How do you become a more confident speaker? I can't agree with this more. My first suggestion to a lot of guys in a similar situation is to read How to Win Friends and Influence People (and the second suggestion is to practice what is read). And the Dale Carnegie course itself is fantastic. I was already an extrovert before taking the course, but I still learned a lot about 'social dynamics' (lower case) there. The people in my course ranged from those who regularly stood up to give talks to companies, to one woman who was so nervous that…	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/14 02:54 PM
3	I like that we have an alternate website in case SJW mods shut this subreddit down, but "puerarchy.com" is an awful domain name and brand attempt Agreed. Plus, one of the core tenets of TRP is that a man doesn't care what others think; he doesn't seek external validation. If you know you're on the right path, then why care what others think? So in that vein, I agree: we should be proud and stick with The Red Pill, not try to hide away from it. Besides, that would be one of the first arrows an attacker would fling: "They're so embarrassed about TRP they have to hide behind another name!"	/r/TheRedPill	03/11/14 08:20 PM
3	Woman drops boyfriend because he lives frugally. Later finds out that he's a heir to a fortune based on oil. Agreed, but no one should expect to be taken seriously if they live in a first-world country and brag about/announce that they're making a 5 figure job. I mean, yes, making $99,999/year is impressive, but most 5 figure earners aren't in that part of the stratosphere.	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/14 04:15 PM
1	Gatsby's Newbie Guide to Nutrition I was with you until you said don't count calories. That's retarded. I think that comment was made with the presumption that you would also be watching your portions. A buddy of mine (who is obese) claims to eat healthy. Meanwhile, any sauce that he uses is out of a jar and the 'portion' of steak that he eats hangs off both sides of the plate. That is probably six portions of meat that he's eating - in addition to everything else on his place, plus the other meals that he's eating through the da…	/r/TheRedPill	20/10/14 04:27 PM
1	To the guys in a LTR, how I've made it 11 yrs. (I'm only 27) I believe that I first read about it in Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People? He goes quite into depth on the subject. There might possibly be something in Cialdini's Influence, but I don't recall as it's been quite a while since I picked that one off my bookshelf. Regardless, you're right - on a larger scope, praise people for the behaviour and reputation that you want them to have and they'll behave accordingly.	/r/TheRedPill	17/10/14 05:01 PM
3	To the guys in a LTR, how I've made it 11 yrs. (I'm only 27) I find it very interesting how it's true that people want to 'live up to' the reputation, or the identity that they have about themselves. Long ago I learned that simply giving people a reputation, even though there is no evidence that they've earned it, makes people subconsciously(?) eager to live up to it. It works whether it's good or bad. For instance, when my girlfriend and I started dating she didn't know how to cook. She could only cook basic things and they all sucked. Seriously, how do …	/r/TheRedPill	17/10/14 04:07 PM
1	So I'm now paying double for my health insurance due to new laws to stop gender discrimination against woman in health care plan costs Don't even get me started on texting and driving. SO's mother hit the same PARKED car a half block from her house on two different occasions because she was texting while driving. But I'm told it's not that big a deal. "Accidents happen! HARHARHAR!" It's not often that I'm left speechless, but jeezus...	/r/TheRedPill	16/10/14 07:18 PM
2	Excuse me. Why does everyone assume you guys are abusive assholes? There is a short parable in a book that I own which, unfortunately, I cannot find online. To paraphrase: A gentleman was sitting on a park bench, enjoying the day and feeding the birds when another man, dressed in a fine suit and appearing well-mannered stopped to ask if he might join the man. After sitting down, the two began a lengthy and lively conversation on a variety of current affairs. The first man, utterly impressed with the second asked politely, "If you don't mind telling me, sir, wha…	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/14 06:18 PM
2	TheRedPill is delusional about age First off... ...defeat your autism... Admittedly, I didn't read the original article, so there may be some context there, but huh? Second, 39 yo here, my SO is 21. She's a hot, perky little bi, natural redhead and I upgraded her from plate to SO back in April. Before then, after I found RP back in January, I was hitting 21 - 28, but most of my plates were 23. Although I live in my own house and own my own car, I'm paying off a mountain load of debt, so I spend very little on any of these girls. …	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/14 07:57 PM
6	You shouldn't post if you are new. You should STFU and get learning. Agreed wholeheartedly. So many guys come in here and the problem - without laying the groundwork and reading the sidebar, prerequisites, etc. - is that they don't know what they don't know. They seem to think that this sub is /r/ relationshipsPLUS, where they'll get the REAL, behind the scenes answers from men to their relationship problems. And so we see "New to TRP as of 5 minutes ago! So I just stumbled into this sub and my single-mother gf of 2 months who's cheated on me 5 times just cheated…	/r/TheRedPill	06/10/14 07:31 PM
1	My conversational skills are like walking through a minefield. Read Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People. I've read it multiple times, have taken the Carnegie course, and I think that book should practically be a high school text book.	/r/askTRP	03/10/14 07:28 PM
2	A woman's inability / unwillingness to communicate during a sexual encounter now deserves a new "rape-ish" label. The other night before falling asleep I told my gf that I was too tired to fuck her. She sleeps later than me in the morning because she works afternoon shift, but responded, "Just slide my panties over and fuck me in the morning when you wake up, then." Now as much as I have faith that she honestly would have loved if I did that, after reading as much on here as I do, I know that something as simple as that could easily open up a world of hurt for a lot of guys out there.	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/14 04:12 PM
1	A woman's inability / unwillingness to communicate during a sexual encounter now deserves a new "rape-ish" label. I watched the movie "What's your number?" last night, b/c of yesterday's post about TRP in the movie (which I barely saw any RP behaviour, but that's MHO). Regardless of that, at one point Anna Faris is in a dress shop with her sister and the other bridesmaids. She makes a comment about bringing Chris Evans as her +1 to her sister's wedding. The other women get all up in arms and then start throwing around that he had "rape-eyes" or seemed "rape-y", based solely on the sister sitting on a couch …	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/14 04:05 PM
2	A Legal Primer to Common Law Relationships (Canadian Edition) This is of interest to me, as I live in Ontario (hence my username, though I guess I'm only slightly 'anon' now) and own my own house. My SO and I have been having the "when are we going to have the let's move in together" conversation, which I've simply been deflecting so far.	/r/TheRedPill	02/10/14 04:11 PM
2	Won't Red Pill theory eventually lead to guys being left bitter, childless, and lacking companionship? Currently, the majority of newbies in TRP now do not have this understanding. I think that's because a lot of readers of this sub have an 'All Alpha All The Time!!1!!' mindset, whether that be because of age, they're new to TRP and are in one of the earlier stages of resentment, they're only looking to spin plates right now, etc. But what a lot of men here aren't appreciating is that, just as the 100 yard dash and a marathon are both running, you need to use slightly different tactics; just as i…	/r/askTRP	19/09/14 08:25 PM
2	Voice record your hookups. Her voice saying "Oh yes baby fuck me harder!" is hard to argue against if she turns psycho and accuses you of raping her Was thinking this as soon as I read OP's post and was going to post it here. You beat me to it. Here's to living north of the 49th!	/r/TheRedPill	18/09/14 03:30 PM
2	She wants you to be her little bitch. Even after you've done all that she's asked. Yeah, I wasn't even half done reading the post and thought "Wtf is this shit?! You put up with her telling you what to do, throwing a cup into a fireplace which should be totally unacceptable, ask her permission politely if you can have a drink, tried to play some type of school girl mind game by trying to trap her by dumping out alcohol (and don't even get me started on the 'alcohol abuse' if you dumped it down the drain instead of saving it elsewhere)..." I couldn't even get to the end of the …	/r/TheRedPill	17/09/14 04:07 PM
2	Amazing girlfriend but need help! Agreed, and besides not splurging cash on her all of the time will act as a quality filter. If she's into you for your RP You, then she won't care about the money. But if she starts getting bitchy because you're not buying her things then you know she's a gold digger. At that point you can next her, treat her like a plate, etc. But at least you'll know. And better to find that out earlier than later.	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/14 02:39 PM
2	Why I'm Quitting The Red Pill. Agreed wholeheartedly. I found TRP earlier this year and I agree with you, that TRP is simply a framework from within which to operate. It's a look behind the curtain as to how women operate, but it is not a line-by-line book of rules that must be followed exactly. You apply the tools as necessary for your situation and you need to be socially aware to do so. I recommended some LTR TRP to a buddy of mine a few months back (married over a decade, 3 kids). Yes, I know that you cannot force TRP ont…	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/14 05:11 PM
5	Women give us synergy Funny story, my main plate (I'm 39, she's 21) called me last night and she was telling me how she spent the morning watching documentaries (she works afternoon shift). I don't remember which documentary it was, but she started to explain to me why men prefer much younger women, how it's biological and it's been that way for millenia, etc. and how interesting she found it. I thought to TRP and just said "Oh yeah?... Hmmm... Wow... That's really interesting." She's also the plate who explained to …	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/14 03:57 PM
2	FR: A Unicorn She Was Not, LDR/LTR Ended/AWALT Confirmed/Critical Frame Loss Error Agreed. I'm 39, found TRP around January of this year. I've spun up more plates and gotten laid by over a dozen girls since then, ages 18 - 28. Most of them were 23 or younger. And I still feel like I'm only on Level 1 of TRP.	/r/TheRedPill	10/09/14 02:50 PM
1	Moving to Canada. What to suspect? Many people from western Canada have a big chip on their shoulder for Toronto, thinking that everyone in Toronto is a snobby, stuck-up, douchey asshole, i.e. "Toronto thinks it's the centre of the universe and it's not!!" I dated a girl a few years ago who lived in B.C. I live in Ontario, but about 2 hours away from Toronto. She would regularly bring up these stereotypes about Torontonians and eventually I had to ask what the seeming inferiority complex was that these people out west have. It wa…	/r/trpGAME	08/09/14 06:41 PM
1	Textgame: good girl teaser "You've just answered my question and that's all I need to know."	/r/askTRP	08/09/14 06:36 PM
6	If this doesn't Red Pill you, nothing will. Guys on Reddit explain why they asked for a divorce. Family courts do not care if the wife is unfaithful. Agreed. A buddy of mine was in a situation where he and his girlfriend bought a house together, i.e. both their names on the mortgage. They hadn't lived together for a year and he cheated on her. She found out, the relationship was over, she threatened to sue him, etc. He went to a family lawyer just to find out where he stood. The lawyer (a woman) told him to that the law doesn't care how the relationship ended. Whether he cheated 500 times, …	/r/TheRedPill	08/09/14 03:18 PM
15	Dude Dumps Cheating Girlfriend on the Air Similarly, when recording phone calls (i.e. a tech support line), you're informed that the call is being recorded. You have the option to not take part in the conversation.	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/14 07:31 PM
0	Easy trick to keep frame around pretty women. A buddy of mine in high school used to say "If you think she's hot and can't build up the balls to go talk to her just picture her taking a big shit. That oughta help." Somewhat along the same lines... lines that are very far apart that can't see each other, but still a similar 'cool yourself down' thought. Thing is any time I think that it just starts me laughing.	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/14 03:55 PM
0	The single biggest misunderstanding between men and women. How to go from a Beta mindset to an Alpha mindset in minutes. That's why he knows that he needs to be on top of his shit all day, every day or else she WILL leave. I was on the phone last night with my girl and I asked how her day was. She went on to tell me about problems that she had with some of her clients, etc. She then asked how my day was. I responded, "Fine. Always a great day." She said, "You never have anything to complain about. I need to be more like that. You always seem to have everything managed." Now, she knows that I am going through some …	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/14 03:50 PM
2	TRP success: Drunk GF gets dread game. Now, if Angelina Jolie had autographed your monitor she really would have gone apeshit.	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/14 03:35 PM
5	God it feels good to get turned down! I love this. I used to do the same thing in university - pass notes to girls in class, or those sitting next to me in the library. Worked like a charm. Another great one is having a Pez dispenser on you. Nonchalantly whip it out (the dispenser) and take one, then offer her one. The response I got was always the same "Ermygawd!!1!! I haven't seen one of those since I was a kid!!" and you're off and running in the conversation.	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/14 02:29 PM
1	I understand now, but it sucks Dude, normally it's tough for me to wade through the posts of new people in this sub, but you played this very well considering your newness to TRP. You got an upvote from me. First off (well, I guess not really), welcome. Secondly, read, read, read the sidebar and the posts. Third, once you've progressed a few stages, get out and apply what you've learned. TRP is simply an awareness of how people (women) truly behave, accepting that is the reality and then having the ability to work within that…	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/14 07:18 PM
6	Redpill Trueism: Step 1. Be high SMV. Step 2: Don't be low SMV I had fairly high SMV prior to TRP. Coincidentally, just before I found TRP I had also joined Meetup.com. As much as seemingly everyone asked me at the time, no, its intent is not for hookups or for dating. It's to get out and do interesting activities. I had just found out that my [instantly] ex-gf had been cheating on me for two years and I needed something to get me away from the bottle. I had heard of meetup.com before and thought I'd check it out. One of the groups that I joined meets at a …	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/14 06:49 PM
5	Why you should ALWAYS be confident around women ...see fine bitches that you'd give the mushroom tip to all day until your waist broke off... Good advice overall, but I started laughing as soon as I read this line. Upvote for the post, and if I could, upvote for that line alone.	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/14 06:32 PM
2	Why you need "beta" moves like the Grand Romantic Gesture in your Alpha playbook. Great post, especially in detailing the logistics required to get you where you needed to be, i.e. job-wise, specifically. "Example 3" is very Mark Manson and I definitely agree with it. Only reveal as much of yourself as necessary for the outcome that you want. I'm sure that's one of the 48 Laws which, despite having re-read it a few times, I can't remember which one. ...one of the key Red Pill tenets... I wish that I could give you an extra +1 for not saying "tenants", as we so often see in th…	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/14 04:58 PM
1	Any other life changing Reddit subs? You can also buy a good, off the rack suit, then take it to a tailor and have it fitted for you.	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/14 03:42 PM
1	Are there any movies or people who are aligned with the RedPill mentality? My sub actually suggested to me that we watch the movie Secretary (2002) a few weeks ago. It stars James Spader, who I think is awesome, and Maggie Gyllenhaal. I'd never heard of it before she said that we should watch it. Quite a contrast of behaviours for Spader throughout the movie. I won't give it away too much, but definitely worth watching.	/r/askTRP	08/08/14 04:54 PM
1	My weakness: Low hanging fruit No way, what you've said is too logical. A woman could never come to this conclusion. Agreed. I think the mental response would be: "What's he doing hooking up with her? She's not as hot as me.... then if he's hooking up with her... what's wrong with me?" The hamster will spin and her interest will be piqued.	/r/TheRedPill	07/08/14 08:09 PM
3	FR: How could she think that this would work? That sucks about your situation, but why did I have to feel like I was reading the program for a renaissance faire to read this FR? I could see you wearing a fedora while typing this out. I presume you're sending this because you're blue pill (based on the language) and are making a turnaround to ditch it - along with your girlfriend - and become more red pill, which I applaud.	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/14 03:36 PM
-1	Anyone else unable to read other parts of Reddit and other forums anymore Plus, using a 1 - 10 scale for anything is ridiculous anyways. Because what do you do if she answers "5"? Does that mean that she's leaning towards going for dinner or against it? You're worse off than when you started. That's why whenever I ask people "On a scale of.... how do you feel about..?" I always say 1 - 11, or 1 - 13, etc. If you use an odd number then they can't sit on the fence; at worst they have to state that they're slightly leaning towards, or against something.	/r/TheRedPill	04/08/14 02:50 PM
1	new members, this is fundamental If you've ever run a forum/discussion board, you would know this is a bad policy. I would agree with this on any other type of forum where you are actively recruiting new members to post questions, get your traffic up, etc. However, IMHO, there do need to be some barriers to entry to /r/TheRedPill, just as there are to actually living the ethos. We are looking for quality over quantity. Lowering the barriers to entry seems to me an almost feminist way of letting the new people get good feelz so …	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/14 04:02 PM
55	"I don't get physical until I've known the guy for a while" This. It's a simple shit test so that she still feels like the good girl, despite what she wants to do. Don't directly acknowledge it; simply agree & amplify then keep on talking, not waiting for an answer from her. When you ask "Why?" that all of a sudden makes the topic the awkward elephant in the room and kills the vibe. Don't be that guy. You need to guide the conversation along and help her feel good about the decision she's going to make. If it makes you feel any better OP, the reason that…	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/14 07:50 PM
1	Don't make the same mistake I made. Burn the books and get off seddit. This is a great post (not only for the mention of Hogan's book, which I would have upvoted you for anyways). In this arena, it is waaaay too easy to get buried in theory (and all of the opposing theory), what you should do, what you shouldn't do, how to look, what to say, how to smile, how to touch, etc. All of that theory, combined with approach anxiety, would have someone so built up with expectation in their mind I wouldn't be surprised that they'd be trembling like a leaf with their brain dr…	/r/seduction	24/07/14 08:56 PM
6	Agree + Amplify - it's science I agree and I love doing this. I was texting with a new plate last night (yeah, yeah, I know...) and she asked how many women I'd been with. I responded "In the Western Hemisphere?" She LOL'd and said that she wanted to know in total. I responded that technically, I would have only been with roughly HALF the Western Hemisphere, then I changed the subject mid-sentence and we never came back to it. Later on she asked if I'm as smooth with other women as I am with her and I told her she's the only …	/r/trpGAME	24/07/14 08:48 PM
3	Wherein a guy's GF suggests cuckolding, and he drops her instantly The difference, though, to be honest, is what TRP Men expect to be held accountable for their "being honest", e.g. your saying that you have a reputation for being an asshole as a result. You are up front with your honesty, knowing that you might get burned at the stake for it, but you're ready to face that firing squad as being the cost of being true to yourself and others. When a woman says but I was being honest!, she is using it as a defense, grasping onto it as a last straw. She feels that …	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/14 08:41 PM
3	My friend's girlfriends are trying to give me shit for hooking up with 18-20 year old girls off of Tinder I wish I had some material for you! The trip fell apart, for reasons outside of my those above, although somewhat related: It was the typical story of everyone thinks it's a great idea and says they'll go, but won't confirm specifically one way or another. Then as the date gets closer guys don't ask their wives (yes, you read that correctly) until too close to the date, or they've put off saving money for it and suddenly can't afford to go, etc. It's interesting because, despite the story above,…	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/14 01:50 PM
3	My friend's girlfriends are trying to give me shit for hooking up with 18-20 year old girls off of Tinder Before TRP I was already fairly outgoing, would easily chat with strangers, etc. TRP started me on the path of honing those skills, while continuing reading/studying to add new ones, into a finer point. And so while I may have thought that line before, TRP has put me in the place of an abundance mentality where I will now say those things without worry about what others might think. And I gotta tell you, as much as I liked the old "me", the new "Me" is a way better version of myself since starti…	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/14 01:41 PM
5	My friend's girlfriends are trying to give me shit for hooking up with 18-20 year old girls off of Tinder I'm not really sure... having coffee with the other "busy" stay-at-home moms? Again, my buddy owns his own business and brings in good money. Nothing crazy like hedge fund manager money, but I'd say that they're upper-middle class (he's an electrician and has a few guys working for him).	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/14 01:31 PM
3	My friend's girlfriends are trying to give me shit for hooking up with 18-20 year old girls off of Tinder haha see the "Funny story" in my response above. It was bizarre because we, his friends, all liked her and supported them being together. He was obviously into her enough to move in with her. And we're all upstanding, socially mobile, contributing members of society. It's not like his friends are all unemployed deadbeat drug addicts... but whatever.	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/14 01:27 PM
5	My friend's girlfriends are trying to give me shit for hooking up with 18-20 year old girls off of Tinder When I said all of that to her I was calm and had the biggest, friendliest smile on my face; it wasn't with any malice or anger (see: being stoic, as per TRP). She just gave me a blank look at first and then sputtered "Well, I think you should think about dating women your own age instead of children." Thanks for giving me your opinion when what I do has zero direct impact on your life. At that point I maintained my smile, took a sip off my beer and responded, "Thanks, [name]. I'll think about t…	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/14 01:24 PM
72	My friend's girlfriends are trying to give me shit for hooking up with 18-20 year old girls off of Tinder I'm with you, my man. 39 here, plates are 21, 23 (x2) and 25. Funny story, my buddy's wife can be a crusty bitch and definitely wears the pants in the family. They're both 40. He owns his own business and makes good money, she stays home doing "the hardest job in the world". Even though they have a housekeeper. And the kids are all in school. Needless to say, the wives don't like it when I tell my friends what's going on in my life. There was some talk of the guys going to Vegas for a few days. …	/r/TheRedPill	15/07/14 05:13 PM
41	Guy allows his 4-year long girlfriend to post to GW. Pretty obvious what happens next. ...unless you treat a woman like she is your woman, she won't be for very long. Since finding TRP earlier this year I will say that this is one of the biggest truisms, at least in my experience since then. If I could upvote this x10, I would.	/r/TheRedPill	15/07/14 04:51 PM
3	Guy allows his 4-year long girlfriend to post to GW. Pretty obvious what happens next. Similar situation, same boat, same outlook on life - although the situation was shitty for me at the time, in the end it's the best thing that could have happened to me. Now that I read that... it's probably the same story for most of us here!	/r/TheRedPill	15/07/14 04:49 PM
1	i fucked up an easy shit test. What woulld you have done? Apropos of this, one of my plates was over and I was showing her the training clicker that I got for working with my puppy. I explained that you click it when the dog does something that you desire and, obviously, do not click it if they're misbehaving. As we were talking she made a snide comment about something. I made a visible show of looking at the clicker in my hand, my thumb visibly inches away from the clicker button. She then came over to kiss me and I clicked it a few times, telling her…	/r/trpGAME	30/06/14 06:22 PM
0	This generation of women are just undatable ...I've developed quite a taste for young, nubile sluts utterly debasing themselves... I agree wholeheartedly. I'm almost 40 and through TRP I am regularly banging cough "women" cough under the age of 23. This reminded me of a recent conversation. One of my plates was over at my house. She was getting a bit of an attitude out of nowhere when I offered to get her a drink (Arnold Palmers, a delicious drink for anyone who hasn't had one, are a mix of half lemonade and half iced tea - a great summer…	/r/TheRedPill	30/06/14 03:36 PM
5	How do people find TRP misogynistic? I think that it is in the way that TRP ideology is executed by some of its followers. I believe that TRP has two distinct, although not necessarily separate goals: Better yourself as a Man, e.g. lift weights, read more, pursue new hobbies, continually educate yourself, get a better job/start your own business, etc. Lift the blinders which we, as men, have had placed over our eyes as to the motivations and desires of women. From a psychosocial standpoint we are then able to behave in a manner whi…	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/14 05:11 PM
5	Do Women always seem to come out of break ups better than Men or is it just me? Is it possible that she had been thinking similar thoughts and had already mentally/emotionally checked out of the relationship before you ended it? Women, generally, have the next guy(s) lined up before they'll end things. They've already moved on from the relationship that they're currently in, despite saying she loves you, fucks you, etc. Unless it was a complete out-of-nowhere breakup where she was expecting you to get down on one knee and instead you punted her, it's rare that women are as …	/r/seduction	24/06/14 06:58 PM
8	[FR] How I turned a flake into a successful date I've used a similar line before at a party. I was introduced to a young woman, we were flirting and at one point she put her hand on my shoulder. I gently shrugged it off then said (with a smirk, motioning towards myself) "Whoa, hands off the merchandise. This shit ain't free!" She had a beaming smile on her face and wouldn't stop flirtatiously touching me the rest of the night. [To answer the upcoming questions: no, I didn't. She was married - forgot to mention her husband the whole night - and…	/r/seduction	20/06/14 02:21 PM
4	Advanced Body Language - Signs of Deception I was telling a buddy of mine about this; that you don't mirror people EXACTLY, otherwise they'll think that you're mocking them, but do it either a few seconds later or mirror them in a similar way, e.g. if someone scratches their chin, scratch another part of your face. The magic of this is that after a very short period of time, you can start leading them: they will then start to subconsciously mimic your actions after you've done that to them. It is an incredible way to build rapport. My bud…	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/14 04:41 PM
1	I'm busy right now. This right here. On Tuesday I discussed taking a week's vacation this summer with one of my plates. I said that we'd go to my family's cottage for most of it. She asked what we would be doing together the rest of the time. I responded, "I've got lots of projects and reading that I want to catch up on." Knowing that the answer to this next question was going to be no I asked it anyways, "I presume that you'll have lots of stuff that you'll want to be doing, too?" "Mmmmm... not really." "Oh. Well,…	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/14 03:02 PM
8	Men are not happy I read that as if it was a motivational speech from coach before the big game! Loved it!	/r/TheRedPill	05/06/14 04:51 PM
1	Rules different for those of us in our late 30's early 40's? I'll humbly accept your thanks, though I would never consider myself a totem of seduction/TRP. I read The Game an eon ago, then actually came into The Red Pill/seduction like most - got screwed over pretty hard in a LTR in November last year. I was looking for a way to get over that relationship quickly and move on with my life. My Google-fu led me here, as well as to Corey Wayne's site, Return of Kings, Real Christian McQueen, etc. I had already read/owned much of the 'required reading' and my …	/r/seduction	03/06/14 03:50 PM
3	Rules different for those of us in our late 30's early 40's? I came across Corey Wayne's site just before Christmas and it is a gold mine of information. I bought his book, have read it multiple times and emailed him right after Christmas (wasn't looking for advice in my email, was simply thanking him and telling him where I'm coming from). He read my email "on air" the next day, which was pretty cool. As per the OP's question, I'm 39 and my plates are 17, 21 and two of them are 23. Any time the age difference has come up it's been them asking me/worried …	/r/seduction	02/06/14 04:43 PM
1	“This only works on sluts.” This is very How to Win Friends and Influence People: give someone a positive reputation (at least, in your mind) and they will try to live up to it.	/r/trpGAME	29/05/14 07:19 PM
-3	How I incorporated TheRedPill to my life. A black guy is far more likely to commit a violent crime than an average dude. Pardon? Aside from the racism that the wording of this comment smacks of, statistically, there's probably a lot more black people on the planet than white people, who I assume you're referring to when you say 'average' (If only there was a globally interconnected network of computers where I could look that up...). I believe that would make the black guy the average. I liked your post, and I understand that comment mo…	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/14 03:48 PM
1	[FR] Bar pickup # close, follow up date 4 days later F-Close Agreed wholeheartedly. I'm spinning up an 18 yo virgin (turns 19 in a few weeks) and it is shit test after shit test from her. But I can tell it's all just hurdles to see if I'm worth 'giving it up for'. Similar to OP, I'm enjoying the mental gymnastics, and I turn it around and throw them right back at her which she just eats up.	/r/seduction	25/04/14 02:16 PM
2	10 Commandments for Being a High Value Man Your coach was right. Our brains only function in the "positive" and don't know how to move away from behaviour (because there's no defined alternative). So when setting goals or using affirmations, always frame them in the positive, i.e. the direction that you want to be moving towards - which sets up a defined goal - instead of what you want to move away from. If we tell our brains "don't be needy", "don't chase women" all that the brain processes is "be needy" and "chase women", setting up a …	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/14 01:51 PM
11	Feminist girl shared this article, about "what the fuck happened to dating in college" This is too funny. I was texting with a girl yesterday and she was griping about guys checking out girls and that guys should have some class. I told her to stop wearing black yoga pants and unbuttoning the top 4 buttons on her top. She responded that it's disrespectful for guys to stare/be checking out girls. They should approach and pay a verbal compliment; that girls aren't just flesh and bones. Part of my response to her was "...you can't tell me that you get zero gratification from a guy ch…	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/14 04:19 PM
2	[Long, rant] text and life issues, how do you meditate?	/r/seduction	18/03/14 03:12 PM
1	Husband to blame for woman teacher’s affair with 16 year old student... When I was in HS we had a student teacher doing her practicum for my french class. It was last year of HS and she was regularly sleeping with me and two other guys that she taught. Realistically, she was probably a HB7 but when you're 18 and she's 23 and you're getting it on the regular she looks like a HB20. I remember one morning I showed up at her place just as another guy was leaving. We high fived as we passed each other. No complaints about those three months of my life!	/r/TheRedPill	12/03/14 01:03 PM
3	A question on "The art of seduction" by Robert greene I first read The 48 Laws of Power before Art of Sed. and the book is structured in the exact same way. I found it to be a very insightful way to provide additional supporting information to the theories being discussed. That being said, I would only read some of the sidebars. I had faith in what was being discussed in the content of the book and so, for me, the supporting examples were not necessary.	/r/seduction	11/03/14 01:57 PM
1	I have a chance with an incredibly hot woman in my workplace, what do i do? Agreed. I'd say use push/pull to draw her in, you can decide what you want to do later (although I do recommend against dipping it into company ink, if this is just a McJob that you don't care about then do wtf you want). When she's standing there and people walk by tell her she owes you $50. When she asks why tell her it's because standing next to you made her look good in front of those people. If she ever touches you or playfully hits you tell her to keep her hands off the merchandise, it's n…	/r/askTRP	12/02/14 04:30 PM
2	How can compensate for my silent nature and improve on my conversations? Agreed wholeheartedly. The most interesting thing to anyone is themselves (c/o Dale Carnegie). When someone says that they do something or are interested in something simply ask questions like: What is it about that that interests you? How has doing that made you the person you are today? What brought you into doing that/being interested in that in the first place? How long have you been interested in this and how has it changed/changed you since you started? etc. From there you'll be able to as…	/r/seduction	06/02/14 03:19 PM
1	Why you can't let her go... Agreed. I've unfortunately been reading less of this sub lately b/c a lot of the posts are the exact same thing. If someone posted "I layed the foundation and read the sidebar, Book of Pook, attempted what I learned in 48 Laws, got hammered when I tried some of the rules in Art of Seduction and here are the details..." that would grab my attention. Or, conversely, "I layed the foundation... and was successful when I tried some of the rules and here are the details" I'd also be into that. It's li…	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/14 02:48 PM
1	Viewing the movie A Serious Man (2009) through TRP lens should make you cringe to your frozen, bitter hearts Along the lines of Daniel Craig movies, I also have to recommend Layer Cake. Fantastic movie, yet I'd never heard of it here in North America. Sort of the typical 'I was a bad guy but really I'm a good guy and I want to get out of the business but they're trying to drag me back in for just one. last. massive deal.' story, but done differently than I've seen before. He's definitely The Man in this movie, plus there's a great twist at the end.	/r/askTRP	06/02/14 01:28 AM
2	Girls who have trouble holding a convo? I'd agree with this. I can see the flip side of this story being her talking to a friend of hers saying, "This cute guy in the lunch line started talking to me and I was so nervous that I could barely talk. He probably thinks I'm an idiot who can't speak."	/r/seduction	05/02/14 03:10 PM
1	I recall someone asking about TRP cinema. Although there is some TRP in it, it's not worth watching the whole thing. I read about The Tao of Steve a few days ago here. I watched it afterward and it didn't really blow my skirt up. Even the woman the main character is trying to get with is MAYBE a HB6 (and yes, I'm discounting the cut-off jean shorts and army boots which would have been the style at the time when this movie was made but look horrible now).	/r/TheRedPill	02/02/14 12:20 AM
1	Guy finally wakes up after girlfriend cheated on him multiple times Dude, my ex has two university degrees in social justice, i.e. fairness, she wanted to work with charities, thought about going to law school to work for non-profits, always rooted for the underdog, etc..... and in our 2 year relationship she first cheated on me literally 8 hours after we got together! You can review my post history if you care about the whole sad saga. Hoes be hoes...	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/14 03:49 PM
2	Proof that "if you're 'friends' with a girl you can't date you can get with her other friends" is a lie! I think that she said "...just saying" as a way to simply end the conversation, but the point that I took from it was that she was implying that her friends were out of my league. It was funny to me b/c although my buddy/her husband makes solid coin (he's an electrician who owns his own business, gorgeous home, she doesn't have to work, they have a maid come to their house a few times a week) it's not like I'm living in a cardboard refrigerator box down by the river. I own my own home & cars and…	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/14 03:08 PM
2	Proof that "if you're 'friends' with a girl you can't date you can get with her other friends" is a lie! I'm laughing because a friend's wife said the exact same thing to me. The type of person she can be will come out in the story. A bunch of the guys were talking about going to Vegas this year to celebrate a few guys' 40th birthdays. You know, a solid Guy's Trip where you stay out drinking until noon the next day, lose a ton of money at the casinos, hit the strip clubs, golf and smoke cigars, etc. I was at my friend's place and his wife says to me, "I've decided that I'm going to come, too (ummm,…	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/14 06:39 PM
2	How to improve social skills and make friends? Upvoted. I think that this book seems to generally be ignored by TRP, despite the benefits which it can provide. I've read the book twice (once in high school) and was lucky enough to have my employer pay for me to take the Dale Carnegie course. This book was my first insight into the fact that there are social constructs which, when implemented, give an excellent framework for communicating with people. The insight into the fact that human interaction is not just a bunch of random words and sen…	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/14 04:06 PM
3	The RP will make you hate betas and white knights I'm the same. Although, admittedly, after starting to swallow TRP I find myself getting frustrated at movies and music when there is clear beta/white knight behaviour. I'll either skip the song, or the movie will suddenly start to lose its appeal. I was watching $50k and a Call Girl: A Love Story the other night. [No spoiler alert since this won't ruin it for anyone]: At one point a character rides up to his fiancee's house on a white horse, all dressed up. I thought, "That's bullshit" and skipp…	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/14 03:41 PM
3	Women don't understand the Seriousness of Violence. I'm the same. Very civil (but definitely not weak or wimpy) outside of the bedroom, physical violence against someone would be my last resort for settling any conflict. But my ex LOVED being chocked while I was fucking her. She loved when I'd spit in her face... and a lot dirtier things that we did together. And I loved it all. We both loved when I'd just take her. The aggression, the being in control, the dominance.... it was a high for sure.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/14 03:01 PM
1	[FR] Passed a Shit-test I've been guilty of this many times in the past as well. And I say guilty because when doing this, even though you feel like they really had it coming, you end up looking weak. It's the whole 'don't feel the troll' mindset and I've been successfully working on it since discovering TRP. Going back to treating women like children: when you watch children the only time a kid who is antagonizing another is satisfied is if they can get a reaction. If the kid being poked or called names is calm and do…	/r/TheRedPill	26/01/14 08:27 PM
1	What to say when she asks about other women? If she knows that you're seeing other girls respond simply, "Hey baby, I don't kiss & tell. But I will tell you that none of the other girls are as sexy, funny, charming, beautiful, yada yada yada... as you" with a James Bond smirk on your face. Give her a kiss and change the subject.	/r/askTRP	25/01/14 03:44 PM
1	How to be alpha when you're forced to be in a group of people who don't like you? You might consider a good read of Greene's 48 Laws of Power. If you're a Game of Thrones watcher I'd say that two characters who abide by these rules are Varys and Littlefinger.	/r/askTRP	23/01/14 01:41 AM
1	Brother is nearly 26, has never been on a date, what can i do to help? Depending on his personality, you might want to have him read The Game as a starting point. That's how my eyes were opened years ago to the reality of things. Although PUA and Red Pill are different, I think they're only different sides of the same coin. I haven't read it in years and I'm re-reading it now, simply for entertainment. Although there isn't much in the book as far as 'Say this and do this and she'll sleep with you' I think it's a good introduction, in a broad sense, to the Red Pill …	/r/askTRP	23/01/14 01:35 AM
2	How to handle a bitchy game-ruining witch I think, too, if you simply ask "Are you finished?" and say nothing more, looking at her expectantly because you're waiting for an answer, that'll definitely knock her down a peg. Because everyone in the group who heard her and then heard you is also going to be waiting for her to answer your question. She'll be put on the spot. The key is to say nothing else after that question. Just look at her, waiting. People hate silence in conversation and they'll look to fill it with whatever, probably in…	/r/askTRP	19/01/14 10:52 PM
1	Am I basically screwed for high school? In addition to all of the great advice that everyone has offered, I can tell you a great, potentially motivating story of a guy I went to high school with. All through HS he was a button-down, straight laced, nerdy, always had a laptop with him, was never at any of the parties (and definitely no girlfriend) kind of guy. Then one year he came back after working for his Dad's trucking company for the summer. Contact lenses. Aviator sunglasses. Blue jeans & Harley Davidson t-shirts, cool belt buckl…	/r/askTRP	19/01/14 10:35 PM
4	How to handle a bitchy game-ruining witch Agreed. A similar option the next time she goes on her bitch tirade is to stand up straight, fill the space around you with your presence and calmly wait for her to finish. You can even look around as though she's wasting your time (which she is) and you're impatient. When she runs out of things to say simply ask, in a condescending, parental tone of voice loud enough for those around you to hear, "Are you finished?" Similar to what you'd say to a kid who's throwing a tantrum.	/r/askTRP	19/01/14 10:23 PM
14	Pathetic creepy men apologise on behalf of our gender. Comedy gold. Repost from r/cringe. I couldn't get past the first 18 seconds of this and had to close the tab in my browser. To watch the entire video someone would have had to force my eyelids open and tie me to a chair like in Clockwork Orange.	/r/TheRedPill	19/01/14 09:48 PM
2	How I get girls phone numbers. I had two great openers that I used in unversity. One was to write a note to the girl sitting next to me in class or in the library - just a simple "hi" to get the conversation going. As you said, it brings them back to public school. The second was to always carry a full "cool" Pez dispenser on me. Same tactic - sit next to a girl in class or in the library. Pull out the Pez dispenser as if I was going to take one for myself, then turn and offer one to her. The respone was either "no thanks", o…	/r/seduction	19/01/14 09:27 PM
1	Propper reaction to being told that you are too cool I dunno man, to play the devil's advocate that might have been an opening for you to close. You said that the reason you didn't try to close before was because you didn't want to screw things up at work. Maybe she knew/thought/hoped that was the reason you never tried to close her. Now the threat of work being an issue isn't an issue. She's leaving and (theoretically) never going to see you again. If she didn't care, she wouldn't have made those comments to you. She pointedly wanted to see you b…	/r/askTRP	18/01/14 11:36 PM
5	Interest check on a TRP specific breakdown of Robert Greene's 48 Laws of Power. And I'd say that this is completely understandable. Your proposed project is going to be a big undertaking. But on the other side it will be a huge value-add to the community, i.e. side-bar worthy material if done right. I know how long it took me when I took notes one of the times that I read the book. And I was just copying the points which I thought were valuable by rote. It's like a university assignment where you have to reinterpret a textbook in its entirety so that it can be applied to a …	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/14 10:33 PM
16	Interest check on a TRP specific breakdown of Robert Greene's 48 Laws of Power. I'd be very interested in this and I think that it would be a great benefit to the community. I've thoroughly studied Greene's 48 Laws, Art of Seduction and 33 Laws of War, i.e. read multiple times, made study notes from each of the books, etc. It would be great to read someone else's interpretation and opinion with regards to TRP. Edit: Spelled "Greene" properly. Clearly I didn't take notes on spelling his name...	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/14 02:09 PM
7	What was the event that led you to take the pill? Yeah, it's pretty fucked up. Especially when I've told people who've met her, because she gave off such a loyal, good-girl front. Everyone I've told this story to (and there's much more details when I tell it in person) has had the exact same reaction: 1) They are initially speechless. 2) The very next thing that they say (other than "I'm speechless!") is that they can't believe that the other guy would stay with her. He and I are both very smart people. What fucked me up the most was that she w…	/r/TheRedPill	17/01/14 06:38 PM
7	What was the event that led you to take the pill? Me, too. Great girl, her parents were great (although her 3 brothers are fuckups), hottest sex I've ever had and she said the same to me. Dated for a few months near the end of '11, were on a break through the end of that year, went to her place during the afternoon on St. Patrick's day 2012. She was all "Other guys have asked me out but I've said no, I've been waiting for you to come back, our time off was really hard on me because of how much I fell in love with you, I can't stop thinking of y…	/r/TheRedPill	17/01/14 04:42 PM
2	Hypergamy is killing my game. This made me laugh. When I was in university there was a restaurant right around the corner from where I lived. They were so busy for breakfast on the weekends that one kid's (probably the teenage son of the owner) entire job was just making toast. Years later I was in New York city for a work conference. I was hanging out at a club with some guys who were friends of my boss - they were co-owners in a very successful software company, had tons of ca$h, etc. One of the guys says to me, "Let's try…	/r/askTRP	05/01/14 04:26 PM
2	Does anyone know the song played at 33:50 in episode 84 of the Beige Phillip Show? I don't know how long or clear the song is, but you could try using an app like SoundHound or Shazam to find out what the song is. If you can hear more of the lyrics just throw them into Google: song lyrics [the words that you can make out] From what you typed I just did a quick search and Jay-Z's Big Pimpin' came up, though there's no guarantee that's it.	/r/askTRP	04/01/14 06:27 PM
5	The sluttiest demographic? Girls who spend time with overwhelmingly male nerd crowds. Don't be discouraged. This. Times 100. I just came out of a relationship where this was the exact situation. The girl's hot, had a job in the computer lab in university, has more geeky guy 'friends' than girl friends ("Girls are all bitchy!"), etc. I was confident in us and our relationship and didn't mind her hanging out sometimes with guy friends. I've got female friends and spend time with them, so I figured the trust goes both ways. At times though we'd get in a fight because I'd accuse of her leading these nerdy…	/r/TheRedPill	04/01/14 04:58 PM
18	Dealing with a girl's sexual history. Can a girl reform herself? How do you learn the truth about her past? You really seem to be fishing for an answer that fits with what I'm presuming is the situation that you're in? Since you mentioned high school and early college, I'm guessing that you're in your later years in college or have recently graduated? And the current apple of your eye is someone who opened her legs with little discretion in the past and you're hoping that she's changed? IMHO, I'd stay away. Or hop on the bicycle for a ride, but have no expectation for stable LTR status. I've been lear…	/r/TheRedPill	02/01/14 02:57 AM
4	Gene Simmons of Kiss shows NPR's Terry Gross how he has been able to sleep with 4,000+ women Yeah, I think that if you have to explain to people that you're famous, /u/theragingwalrus, then it's not going to work for you. It's pretty much the definition of the word. On a side-note, if you LOOK like someone famous you might be able to work it to your advantage. A buddy of mine looks like a spitting image of Toronto mayor Rob Ford (and we live only a few hours away from Toronto). So when we hit the bars and it's late enough for the ladies to have drank away some inhibitions we'll introduc…	/r/TheRedPill	01/01/14 08:06 PM
1	Setting Goals and Progress I think that this is a good question, and I wouldn't think would be so hard to quantify. Since TRP is a philosophy, and therefore, immeasurable on its own, the question to ask yourself would be, "What physical and personality traits do I feel would make me a 'Red Piller'?" You can then step back and make a list, e.g. can lift x weight, be a competent chef, speak another language, be able to speak freely with strangers, etc. Whatever it is that you think - at this point in time - would make you m…	/r/askTRP	28/12/13 04:00 PM
7	RP is great, but it doesn't help me with me being awkward. How do I change that? Based on what you've typed, I'm guessing that you're relatively young? Late teens - early 20s? Many have recommended to keep talking to girls which, really, is a no-lose proposition. Repetition breeds success, as Corey Wayne says regularly in his videos. I think that's great advice. But if you're looking to do some reading beforehand, I have some recommendations (see below), some of which are on the TRP recommended reading list. From my own humble experience, I've found that if you have a social…	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/13 07:12 PM
19	The Essential Difference Between Blue and Red Pill Mating Advice. ...people are puzzle pieces, each a special unique snowflake with a different shape... Each time I hear an opinion like this I think that this negates every psychologist, psychiatrist, mental health professional, any associated prescription mental health drugs, etc. If human beings - and we can then break it down into males and females for the purpose of this discussion - did not function under a similar, albeit broad, umbrella of generalities and motivations, then those professionals would have…	/r/TheRedPill	23/12/13 11:35 PM
1	Where the fuck do you meet women when you're 17? Dude, I'm going to tell you right now - your mad ballroom dancing skillz will come in handy in the future, if not now. A buddy of mine and his dad own their own business and they invited me to the staff Christmas party (over 100 people there). One guy was out completely dominating on the dance floor with the ladies and it was impressive! I asked my buddy what the guy's story was (as we were off to the side pounding down rye whiskey). He said that the guy had taken formal dance lessons for years …	/r/TheRedPill	23/12/13 02:18 AM
1	I study Psychology and girls often ask 'Are you analysing me, What am I thinking' etc. What are some good responses to these types of questions? I think that a cold reading would be perfect! And it can be on the cocky/funny side! Just keep your knowing "put your trust in me" smirk on the entire time. In my first year psych class a half a lifetime ago the prof put up a slide that asked how much you identified with the following information (yes, I know that infers bias). The list was simple generalities which actually apply universally: At times you follow the crowd, contrary to your deep urge to be your own person. Despite what you say t…	/r/askTRP	23/12/13 12:10 AM
2	How to handle beta orbiter moving in This. x100. I'm living this right now, but it's gone well into physically cheating as well. I've created a 'Red Pill Only' account that I'm waiting for time to go by so that I can post the story and get the thoughts of /r/TheRedPill/	/r/TheRedPill	08/12/13 04:25 PM