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| 197 | Casual misogyny on reddit once again, I still don't get the cat lady trope... | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | ooftaboofta3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:32 AM |
| 174 | Legal advice OP says she was convinced against her will to have a blowjob, some scrote tries to gaslight a sensible comment. The audacity. | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | ooftaboofta3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 10:59 PM |
| 164 | Men, please stop doing things for me. | RANT | ooftaboofta3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 05:58 PM |
| 145 | How sick does a whole state have to be to have a statute of limitations on child molestation?? | MALE DEPRAVITY | ooftaboofta3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 03:32 AM |
| 78 | Thank god I broke up with my ex. | RANT | ooftaboofta3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Found on Quora. Sorry honey, I think you do have an adult child 🤡 | PICKME CULTURE | ooftaboofta3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Got banned from r/twoxchromosomes | DISCUSSION | ooftaboofta3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:52 AM |
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| 42 | mAyBe hE's dEpReSsEd, yOu sHouLd bE HeLpiNg HiMI hate the "ride or die" mentality. IM a ride or die bitch, but that doesn't mean I take shit. It just means I'm with my man through thick and thin, the same way he is with me, and that I have great levels of love and respect for him- just only as long as its fully reciprocated. People need to stop using "ride or die" to justify being with garbage men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 09:41 PM |
| 7 | They will always make “single mothers” the villains to shift blame from male predators or male parental child neglect.Oh my god. It's so bad. Check out these stats | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 02:39 AM |
| 4 | That's on that - period.Youve got this. Life is long and full of opportunity! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 04:15 AM |
| 8 | That's on that - period.Same here. I'm lucky that my boyfriend is incredibly understanding and always here for me, even when my mental health issues flare up. I have a tendency to get very emotionally dependent on people I'm in relationships with but he does a great job of helping me stand on my own two feet without letting me 100% rely on him. There are men out there who will be just right for you, never settle! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 03:55 AM |
| 5 | That's on that - period.Youre right, you can just date for fun, but casting a wide net like that means you put yourself at risk of getting into shitty relationships and you make the likelihood of that happening much higher. Relationships mean tying yourself emotionally to someone else, whether you like it or not. What it sounds like you want is friends with benefits, no strings attached, but those rarely truly exist. I dont understand why you would take the chance of getting abused, cheated on, or otherwise hurt. And m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 03:48 AM |
| 10 | That's on that - period.Honestly idek if id take a "will you be my girlfriend" at this point. An active relationship is a serious commitment and I would consider it to be something important to discuss, think about for a little while, and have a mutual agreement. Anyone im getting into a committed relationship with will understand that dating is meant to lead to marriage and should be taken just as seriously as something like a proposal, the only difference being that with a proposal youve had months or even sometimes … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 03:40 AM |
| 8 | Diguising anger and frustration with humor...In my opinion, though I know this isnt every case, HVM are the least likely of the bunch to do online dating. Because they arent needy and anxious to get into a relationship, they dont "need" another half, even if theyre trying to pursue relationships. They would rather it happen organically, as im sure many women would like too! Its a shame so many people give up on traditionally found relationships thinking random people on the internet will be better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 05:55 PM |
| 4 | Diguising anger and frustration with humor...HVM are 1 in 1000? Then be that 1 in 1000. Whats stopping you? Thats what id say anyway, sounds like a load of bollocks to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 12:45 PM |
| 9 | People are starting to seeThere will always be exhibitionists and thats ok, but the issue is that almost all sex work, including in america, is due to economic inequality and life hardship. I think assisting people who really need the help is more important than allowing porn to exist unregulated, as it has for so long. Just because theyre uploading it online doesnt make it all that much better, is all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 12:44 PM |
| 27 | My ex was right in all of the wrong ways. When I begin to miss him, I remember that sure, we share nice memories and he isn’t an evil person but he didn’t treat me the way I deserved to be treated. No settling, ladies!We need to stop treating mens actions like reddit karma. They cant buy us back by being nice after they did something bad! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 06:56 AM |
| 13 | Diguising anger and frustration with humor...Idk why women like to brag about being "realistic" about relationships. Why do they brag about settling to other women like its what theyre supposed to do? (These are rhetorical questions obviously, we know why they do) Like... Be idealistic. Theres no reason its bad to want a complete relationship. Maybe we shouldnt be settling for halfmeasures in relationships. There can be a such thing as having too high of standards but most people think high standards means "he loves me AND he cleans after … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 06:49 AM |
| 20 | Sad how a lot of young girls in the comments are missing the point though...I forgot, guess I need to start setting reminders 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 01:52 AM |
| 43 | People are starting to seeIt isnt sex negative to say these things, its sex negative to promote porn in spite of these things. I cant imagine anything more sex negative than promoting a system that benefits from human trafficking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 01:50 AM |
| 12 | (idk if this was made already!) Shout-out to the mods cause I'm sure they read through a whole lot of bs to shield us from it, so THANK YOU💖Totally agree. People railing against "intersectional feminism" have no idea what theyre talking about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 08:36 PM |
| 6 | What are some questions you ask when dating, or things you look for, to determine if you're dating a decent human?Not music, the music videos. Though i wouldnt be surprised to hear about that either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 04:53 AM |
| 3 | What it says on the tin.Thats because theyre only interested in sluts who arent actually sluts, and who they already want to fuck before they prove they really are sluts (I use "slut" rather loosely here, as I am speaking from their perspective) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | As much as I love her take I also have to disagree. Alot of women suffer from anxiety, PTSD and general fear of confrontation. Defending yourself physically isn't always an option for most women. Especially when you have a panic attack. You're not weak for walking away or calling security insteadI want to agree but we ALL know this would get spun as a "women are so violent attacking a man for trying to say hi!!1!11!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 11:23 PM |
| 19 | Why don’t they understand this lolThats why I expect my boyfriend to do all of those things. If I ever feel he isnt reciprocating, I make myself heard, just to remind him. Of course i do all of these things for him too, but we already knew that. I do these things to show him i love him and he does them right back for the same reason. Thats the real 50/50 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 07:10 PM |
| 30 | The Tea ☕️You know what? Im convinced. Women literally never work. I'm gonna walk into work today and sit at my bosses desk and he will be totally ok with it since its not like i was going to work anyway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 03:34 PM |
| 21 | What are some questions you ask when dating, or things you look for, to determine if you're dating a decent human?Oh yes. You can always find patterns in the way men defend porn. I bet if you did a study, the response one gives when defending porn could indicate how addicted they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 12:09 PM |
| 18 | What are some questions you ask when dating, or things you look for, to determine if you're dating a decent human?I know right?? Men truly have no limits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 12:07 PM |
| 76 | What are some questions you ask when dating, or things you look for, to determine if you're dating a decent human?Kinda overlooked, but music tastes. The kinds of music they listen to and why can be super telling! Had an ex who likes marina and the diamonds... Because he liked to jack off to it. Red flags! As well as artists who are really misogynistic (this is true for some music styles more than others, but there are artists of every style who dont dehumanize women in their music) Just ask them what they really like about it and listen closely to their explanation, you'll get a good feel of how introspect… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 05:36 AM |
| 3 | Thank god I broke up with my ex.Thats a good point, on all fronts. I understand that I'm lucky, thats why im so happy i got out when I did. I have some general information (he agreed over text he owed me a certain dollar amount) but nothing to confirm the amount he owes me as most of it was verbally agreed upon. I will probably take this to legaladvice, thank you for your response! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Thank god I broke up with my ex.Lol. "Hey ex's mom, I just wanted to notify you im garnishing your sons allowance. Its ok, he can go without his smokes for a little bit." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Thank god I broke up with my ex.Are there reliable websites for that? I know the address we lived at before, but I know hes moved since then, and theres a possibility hes moved since that move as well, which might not be on paper because he may have moved in with his parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Thank god I broke up with my ex.Garnishing his wages would be pretty sweet. My biggest issue is I dont know where hes living now, and i heard you cant file a claim against someone that you dont know the address of | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 10:28 PM |
| 8 | Thank god I broke up with my ex.Yeah. I dont want to shell out for a lawyer (I dont think the amount would exceed lawyer fees anyway, and its all small claims court) Fortunately the statute of limitations is something like 4 years so I have some time to figure out if he really is stringing me along or if he will eventually pay me back. He hates the communication far more than I do, so theres great possibility he will pay me back to get me to leave him alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 09:42 PM |
| 51 | I want girls and young women everywhere to experience this epiphany!"Im not like other girls" = "im not like the barbie girl society says all girls are supposed to be" Cultural misogyny back at it again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 03:43 AM |
| 15 | My county’s prosecutor basically decriminalized sex work and now I’m paranoid that men I date will be see sex workers.I can totally get where youre coming from and I can see how that is a real fear of yours now, but (unless there are reasons here i am not aware of, this just speaks from my own knowledge) oftentimes the pushes for decriminalization have to do with sex trafficking because its difficult to save the people and children caught up in those rings when youre trying to prosecute them. I'm sorry you have to deal with this though! Maybe date out of county? Not long distance but just put some distance betw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Legal advice OP says she was convinced against her will to have a blowjob, some scrote tries to gaslight a sensible comment. The audacity.I just checked back and it seems the comments I put in this post were removed despite being the only one telling her to take it to a local legal sub and being the only one advocating counselling! 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:43 PM |
| 96 | Beware of Loser Gold-Digging Men"The red pill helped my relationship" lmao all the red pill helps you do is abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:35 PM |
| 9 | Legal advice OP says she was convinced against her will to have a blowjob, some scrote tries to gaslight a sensible comment. The audacity.Precisely. Honestly id try to get the most incriminating evidence on him. He clearly isnt stable so i bet if you recorded a phone call between the two he would say something super incriminating And honestly the fact that filming sexual acts without consent isnt just flat out rape is abhorrent. Its the closest thing to rape involving the removal of bodily autonomy and consent that doesnt include penetration but the social ramifications can be just as horrible. People like him deserve to see bars … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:20 AM |
| 13 | Legal advice OP says she was convinced against her will to have a blowjob, some scrote tries to gaslight a sensible comment. The audacity.It is only through the diligent work of women that marital rape was recognized as rape. Men dont understand that legal definitions dont mean Jack shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 03:18 AM |
| 8 | Legal advice OP says she was convinced against her will to have a blowjob, some scrote tries to gaslight a sensible comment. The audacity.I'm no expert and I wont pretend to be one, but in my personal opinion this is undoubtedly rape. Coerced sexual acts while under the influence are 100% rape, the only "difference" being that it could be technically sexual assault because there wasnt any insertion, but however you feel about it is totally up to you, no one can tell you it was or wasnt rape. Legally there are obviously stricter definitions but in an interpersonal sense, you are the only one allowed to determine whether it was rape… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 02:51 AM |
| 4 | Legal advice OP says she was convinced against her will to have a blowjob, some scrote tries to gaslight a sensible comment. The audacity.Facts ^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:58 AM |
| 29 | Imagine rejecting a proposal and the first thing a man says is “I am rich, I have a lot of money”. So you can agree to marry him.Men who propose in crowds are 100% emotionally manipulative bastards, barring the unlikely circumstance they have discussed how the proposal will go prior to the event at some point. If you have to depend on a crowd for your proposal, youre probably an asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:53 AM |
| 16 | Men who say "past her prime" = LVM/Incels"He wants a young fertile partner" Guarantee this man has half a head of hair at 30 and is 50 lbs overweight because "dad bods are in" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:51 AM |
| 47 | Studies find that dangerous sexual behaviors are more likely to be performed by girls with a history of abuseOh my GOD. The sheer number of "Men Tooooo!!!!!" Comments. I cant stand this thread | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:38 AM |
| 28 | Legal advice OP says she was convinced against her will to have a blowjob, some scrote tries to gaslight a sensible comment. The audacity.I completely agree! Plus she mentioned he was very large and that can definitely constitute a fear of threat when a much larger person tries to force you to give them a blowjob "He didnt touch her!!! It cant be rape!!!" Like bruh shut the fuck up. No one cares about what you think. Thats not your place | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:32 AM |
| 71 | Legal advice OP says she was convinced against her will to have a blowjob, some scrote tries to gaslight a sensible comment. The audacity.Because no man wants to admit its rape, otherwise it means he might be a rapist, and his friends might be rapists, and that cant be right because they couldnt be rapists. Like when girls find out in 8th grade that asking girls to go out with you all the time is sexual harassment. "Oh that cant be sexual harassment" "it happens to everyone" Uh, yeah. and its sexual harassment..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:23 AM |
| 64 | Legal advice OP says she was convinced against her will to have a blowjob, some scrote tries to gaslight a sensible comment. The audacity.No kidding!! She needs real legal advice ASAP. Not this bullshittery | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 11:41 PM |
| 27 | "A Medieval Device for a Medieval Act" [Truly sad it got to the point of a Queen inventing this though] OldieButGoodie"B b but what about the men falsely accused of rape" Yeah, what about them?? This nonexistent group youve created in your head that can do no harm 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 08:30 PM |
| 7 | "He cheated on me and then cried about how life is hard" men: "wow you're abusive for not letting him speak about his feelings, thats why ur single"."Let your boyfriend serially cheat on you or you dont uNdErStAnD their fEeLiNgS" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 05:11 PM |
| 13 | This almost makes me want to redownload dating apps to do the same!Gotta do something with all that roid rage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 05:49 AM |
| 12 | This shit just wreaks of self hatred.Yeah, unlucky but "deep down well meaning" guys exist. Guess what? No ones patting you on the back for giving him free therapy. Someday all of that "player" shit will come back because he never got real therapy and worked through his problems. Well see who he picks then... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:37 AM |
| 17 | I've decided to not date or sleep with men for an entire year.I dated a dude for several years. At one point after a long summer away from him we met (reluctantly on his part, even though I was paying for food) and it basically turned into "if we arent going to have sex at the end of this, I'm going home because there isnt anything for me here" I broke up with him the next week. He spent some time simping over me and now he hates my guts. I couldnt care less! Lol Its been almost 2.5 years since then and I can honestly say im so glad I broke up with him bec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:32 AM |
| 9 | I’m new to FDS but I have already been made aware of the men who absolutely despise this sub. I think this tweet sums that matter up nicely.I'm jelly. I want to be harassed :/ /s ofc but it would be hilarious to get some good dm screenshots | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:24 AM |
| 2 | If he does not support your career, he does not respect you and sees you as his competitor.Exactly. Hes there for me in so many ways, emotionally and financially, that my exes just weren't. I'll never take him for granted, thats for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 09:24 PM |
| 1 | If he does not support your career, he does not respect you and sees you as his competitor.Oh yes this. Me and my bf had a conversation about maybe moving in with his parents while we finish up school. At one point he suggested entirely on his own that he could pay all the bills while i go to school and get my degree. I cant overstate how great it feels to have a partner who is willing to fully back my career Edit: dear unauthorized account, I know you have my best intentions in mind. But the reasons why we would move in with his parents are numerous and important, and above all the (… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 07:11 PM |
| 21 | Actors that played Xena and Hercule in the 90s. She looks AMAZING, aged gracefully. Can’t say the same of the racist old scrote 🥰✨The other comment summed it up as well, but the original tweet is discussing the (false) narrative being pushed that the people at the capitol were antifa or some other sort of left wing terrorist and not right wing terrorists. So yeah, they arent patriots, because they are terrorists, but Sorbo was agreeing that they dont look like right wing terrorists, they just look like left wing terrorists. Of course in his mind "conservative" = "patriot", so he wrote "they dont look like patriots to me" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 06:54 PM |
| 12 | Peak pickme reiterating "men right, women crazy"Yeah no kidding. I used to know someone who was "poly". She "dated" a dude 3 years older than her who lived in a different state (she was a minor and he was an adult) and from what i know about him he was on antipsychotics for extreme bipolar or something. Like couldn't even get it up antipsychotic levels. She was shocked when he turned out to be toxic but now shes convinced shes """poly""" to the extent of justifying her flirting with other people while in a relationship while her bf openly kne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 04:31 AM |
| 38 | Peak pickme reiterating "men right, women crazy"True but at least lots of women are disillusioned to the promises of so called "open relationships" I cant wait for these fads to die out of the mainstream. Its ok if you wanna subject yourself to it but dont try to normalize something almost nobody wants. All theyre doing is telling impressionable young girls that its ok and making them feel bad for not wanting it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:40 AM |
| 130 | Peak pickme reiterating "men right, women crazy"Look, as unfortunate as it is, shes allowed to mess up her dating life however she so chooses. Maybe she can take down multiple lvm at once so we dont have to deal with them... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:02 AM |
| 17 | Another day, another cautionary tale in the relationships sub.If I have something important the next day and my bf wants to stay up, I pointedly say "dont wake me up when you come to bed" He either finishes what hes doing to come to bed before i fall asleep or he sleeps on the couch no questions asked. My sleep cycle is notoriously bad so I dont want any unnecessary interruptions (I often wake up in the middle of the night for no reason, full nights are great but hard to come by). Of course he knows this and understands that I really need my sleep. Just li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:19 AM |
| 17 | Why do males target these 3 groups of women/girls so harshly?Pop on over to r/fatlogic for some Grade-A misogyny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:48 AM |
| 45 | Scrote is mad in the comments 😂No, not because of the ring style, but because despite being tiny it still looks too small If my man cant get my ring size right he doesnt deserve to propose | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Stats about women killed by men in "sex game gone wrong/BDSM" defense cases. (Age gap relationship, man had previous criminal record, women often worked in caring professions that pay low wages, etc.)Ugh that sounds awful. I wish you the best of luck! And good call stashing away that information. People like that deserve to see the inside of a cell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 04:13 AM |
| 5 | Someone make this into a T-shirtDamn, thats the hottest take of the century -some incel somewhere probably | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 06:25 AM |
| 28 | With ‘I Hate Men,’ a French Feminist Touches a NerveYeah I noticed. I got banned off of twoxchromosomes bc I was honest about bella thorne hurting the only fans sex work industry. I would like a website, but idk if you remember, a couple of weeks ago there was a post on here about a man with a rape fetish infiltrating a website for rape survivors. I dont want that to happen and reddit is a decent way to filter out people (karma and account age limits, heavy moderation, as well as viewing their post history) Reddit isnt perfect by any stretch but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:00 PM |
| 86 | I just got flashbacks of a bearded man on a "date", talking about his beard for 45 minutes, while stroking his beard... also why do they make that facial expression?Guys get upset when a girl says beard covers a mans face and you cant tell what it really looks like Also guys: take your gf on a pool date so you know she isnt wearing makeup! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:51 PM |
| 111 | With ‘I Hate Men,’ a French Feminist Touches a NerveI strongly desire a woman only subreddit where we can discuss fear of men and how it affects us because I really want a community where me and other likeminded women can talk about male centered PTSD I know I dont have the time or energy to moderate it though so :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | OMG. I saw a post on here about our opinion on male gynaecologists.. listen to thisIts crazy too. My parents were never medical advocates for me. I spent almost all of my childhood not going to doctors unless something was seriously wrong because I was never taught to listen to my own body. I had this bv for years at least because I never felt it was weird. But once i really started taking care of myself and started growing uo, it just felt wrong, but considering my parents didnt want to take me to the hospital after I vomited all throughout the night and couldnt keep down wat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 04:26 PM |
| 2 | OMG. I saw a post on here about our opinion on male gynaecologists.. listen to thisMakes sense. My bv diagnosis was kind of crazy actually. I'm into microbiology and I have a really basic microscope, so after the doc said nothing was wrong I looked up online to see if there was any public information about what it looked like after being processed with dyes. Sure enough there was stuff so I looked at my samples under the microscope and I confirmed that there was definitely bv there. I was so proud but so frustrated that he hadnt believed me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 04:18 PM |
| 1 | OMG. I saw a post on here about our opinion on male gynaecologists.. listen to thisIn the us I dont think you even have to do that. Im lucky, my utis go away if theyre in their very beginning stages if I jist drink tons of water, but I think you just enter your symptoms and theyre like "here you go" It was like that for my bv anyway. You describe your issue and what you think it is and you request a specific type of medicine and a doctor reviews it and sells it to you with a prescription, but marks it up ofc since you arent paying for an actual visit or anything, then they mai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 04:12 PM |
| 19 | This whole post is a dumpster fire of immeasurable levels but the amount of red flags in the background info alone is mind blowing.Oh my god this is insane. Both people need to go to an insane amount of therapy. Mom clearly has extreme self esteem issues and is willing to do anything to appease her baby daddy. The baby daddy tricked s woman into thinking she was in a committed relationship with him when he clearly has no intention of commitment or care for their children. And on top of that he insists of keeping momentos of their relationship while making it clear to his "girlfriend" that he will never love her the same way… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 04:59 AM |
| 17 | OMG. I saw a post on here about our opinion on male gynaecologists.. listen to thisYes. I completely agree. I get angry when I get dismissed! I was told by a male doctor that because I was having unprotected sex with my bf that there was a "20% chance I was pregnant" and that I needed!!! to take plan b. Ive taken it before and I didnt like it and i was certain i wasnt pregnant because we are very careful. He insisted multiple times even though I said no, and when my pregnancy test came back (idk if its related to what I was there for at all because i was there for bacterial va… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 04:42 AM |
| 5 | OMG. I saw a post on here about our opinion on male gynaecologists.. listen to this"You're 29" damn that doc must be RLLY worried about her hitting that wall | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 04:27 AM |
| 87 | Disturbing yet not entirely surprisingIf we started endorsing real sex ed and not this nonsense we have now, it would go a long way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Casual misogyny on reddit once again, I still don't get the cat lady trope...She said she based it off of some other girl she knows. But this is a starter pack, intentionally designed to paint the broadest picture of the subject as possible. So her explanation doesn't check out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 07:10 PM |
| 6 | A thought on male beauty standardsHaha I getcha. It really is, and men dont wonder why we dont go after beer bellies and couch potatoes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Casual misogyny on reddit once again, I still don't get the cat lady trope...Fr. I eventually went back once it had a bunch of comments and at one point she said there were a couple of things she wouldve put if that wouldnt make it "too misogynistic" Like it... This is already misogynistic? You gotta be kidding me lmao. Shes telling on herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 07:10 AM |
| 25 | A thought on male beauty standardsPersonal preferences are important but my "men" and "women" was more like "societal expectations from men and women", in regards to the opposite gender Trust, ive never had a woman in my personal life say "a man with under 18" biceps isnt right for me" but i have heard several men allude to a womans waist being over 24 inches was fat and practically obese. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 07:07 AM |
| 27 | A thought on male beauty standardsToxic masculinity sucks? Who wouldve guessed. Maybe they should do something about it instead of bitching to women who didnt do it in the first place?? Lvm scapegoating as always 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 02:35 AM |
| 90 | A thought on male beauty standardsWomen arent telling men "you have to have a perfect bicep to waist to chest ratio for me to date you" but men are always on about breast/hip/butt ratios! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 02:34 AM |
| 25 | If a man says he was abusedExactly like one of my exes!! I pitied him bc he was depressed (due to a variety of circumstances I needed to move in with him because living with my parents was a no go) but it ended uo with him 100% of the time making excuses and me mothering him. I cant stand sleazy dudes like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 02:33 AM |
| 23 | Really?Idk about UK but in the US higher level bio doesnt include anatomy. But 6th grade science does! And even if he "didnt know" he rlly sounds like dump material | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Casual misogyny on reddit once again, I still don't get the cat lady trope...Yeah but I heard the person who made this was a woman 🤢 pick mes just dont get it do they | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Casual misogyny on reddit once again, I still don't get the cat lady trope...Omg was it?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Casual misogyny on reddit once again, I still don't get the cat lady trope...Its the "left on read" check mark | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:02 PM |
| 11 | Casual misogyny on reddit once again, I still don't get the cat lady trope...Very adorable and understandable alternative | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 06:02 AM |
| 40 | Casual misogyny on reddit once again, I still don't get the cat lady trope...Hes on reddit posting bad things about women so probably not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 06:02 AM |
| 32 | Casual misogyny on reddit once again, I still don't get the cat lady trope...Its the "left on read" blue check marks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:40 AM |
| 51 | Casual misogyny on reddit once again, I still don't get the cat lady trope...Well they had to throw in one true thing! Who doesnt like cats??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:20 AM |
| 65 | Casual misogyny on reddit once again, I still don't get the cat lady trope...It's a "left on read" checkmark. One blue check and one grey check means sent, two blue checks means sent and read. Theyre upset she doesnt want to talk to them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:19 AM |
| 121 | Casual misogyny on reddit once again, I still don't get the cat lady trope...I went to view your comment and some scrote had already downvoted it. They're already here malding about it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:09 AM |
| 13 | Circle the LieMust be that wandering testicle syndrome i hear so much about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:02 AM |
| 4 | Casual misogyny on reddit once again, I still don't get the cat lady trope...Yeah fr this is SUCH a projection!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:01 AM |
| 3 | Circle the LieTrump is my president Found the lie. Soon, anyway. Heard theyre trying to get him impeached again. THAT will be historic. 🇺🇸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:52 AM |
| 59 | The delusion. The scrotacity lolOh my god. A coworker of mine is being consistently hit on by a 30+ man with a wife and a NEWBORN at the ripe old age of... 18. Luckily I get in the "I have a boyfriend" before any moves are made | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:28 AM |
| 11 | Don’t be a roommateSigh. Youre right. I was totally wrong. Maybe forever gf isnt so bad after all. I mean, even if I eventually lose custody of my kid in a vengeful breakup, at least i got to take care of a manchild for a decade, right? I dont think i need a /s on this one lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 02:18 AM |
| 27 | Don’t be a roommateHonestly. More than 2 years with no serious talks of marriage, why are you even together? Exclusive fuck buddy privileges? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 01:52 AM |
| 12 | Don’t be a roommateI dont know many who dated that long before marriage (the ones that come to mind are my parents, who married because my mother got pregnant and later divorced) but I wouldnt be surprised if a lot of women who get engaged in the first year of dating are religious. Especially here in america there is a very large religious presence, and I know many people from my former church days who were engaged months after meeting/dating. But to be fair, when you meet at a church you know your partner likely … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 12:43 AM |
| 38 | If it's not a hell yes, it's a no. We don't accept sure if, but if or maybe. Image credits - @HiddlstonFan on Twitter.D; I hate it when my bf says "if you want to" in response to something. I know its how hes communicating the sentence "it doesnt affect me so youre free to do as you like" but I have a very difficult time interpreting responses like that and it makes me think hes mad lol But for reference, I am potentially on the spectrum as well as dealing with a host of issues regarding mental illness, and I often perceive negativity or malice where there is none. He helps as much as he can but it took him a l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 03:48 PM |
| 13 | My abusive ex who stalked and harassed me for years after dumping him posted this. He never dated anyone else after me because he really let himself go and only goes after attractive women who are out of his league. So glad I dodged this bullet 😂For real!! My boyfriend helped me replace my car radio for about $50 for all of the parts and did the work himself since hes done it before, for free of course. All so i can use an aux cable instead of just radio! 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 08:31 PM |
| 39 | My abusive ex who stalked and harassed me for years after dumping him posted this. He never dated anyone else after me because he really let himself go and only goes after attractive women who are out of his league. So glad I dodged this bullet 😂To be fair- never date an obsessed car guy. My bf is a wonderful mechanic and i love that because hes teaching me how to operate on my car, keeps me from going to the wrong shops for repairs, let me know the little things (like free diagnostic reports from auto zone- life saver btw!) Plus he will never be out of work. He wants cars but always waits til he has the money. But obsessed car guys... Man I worked with one of those. He tried to tell me i should remove my crown vic engine and replace it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 06:48 PM |
| 301 | What a lowlife smhYeah because my uber driver always makes me get gas a a pack of newports for them 🙄 no matter what way you spin it theyre a POS. Doesnt excuse the total depravity of the situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 06:42 PM |
| 6 | Examples of mentality we should never tolerateUsed to know a girl who was underage with her high school graduating class number in her bio. She gets dms from dudes asking her to be their sugar baby. They back out when she says shes underage but sometimes she thinks about catfishing them out of their money and i love her for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 06:40 PM |
| 39 | Exclusive but not in a relationship...seems like not a good ideaDating but not exclusive relationships too! Relationships dont go dating->exclusive->together, it should go exclusive->together. Why would I want to date someone who has practically told me hes dating other women too? 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 06:37 PM |
| 67 | A male family member has hacked my Google account.It sucks that this is happening to you, I would highly recommend researching how to make super strong passwords, especially if you live with him. Though i would love to laugh at the fact that youre making an incel mad by being happy. Thats really all it takes nowadays isnt it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 06:35 PM |
| 4 | What are they even thinking when they send messages like this??"Sorry not sorry" ugh im over men who cant apologize. Or worse, parade apology like this one. If she reports him he would be all "but i said sorry!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 04:49 AM |
| 41 | The final boss PickmeishaOh dont worry, she gets picked a lot. For one night stands anyway. Oh you meant for a boyfriend? Yeah shes never had one of those 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 08:33 PM |
| 4 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏I learned how to measure peoples heights compared to mine in HS because I dated a guy who was 6'4 and my hands could only just reach the top of his head (im 5'2) My bf is 6'2 and i love the 1 ft difference between our heights but its still easy to measure people based on my height | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:42 PM |
| 123 | “porn is healthy”"If he doesnt watch porn he will cheat" Telling on yourself much? Then I don't need him in my life. Sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 08:44 PM |
| 94 | She was at least 11 so he shouldn't face consequences for sexting her! If anything, she should be registered as a sex offenderI was a victim when I was 11 and when my parents and school found out I told everyone i lied because i thought i was in trouble. Not a single report to the police because why waste their time if this 11 year old girl with no reason to lie is just making everything up?? I really feel like i was failed tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 08:41 PM |
| 33 | Can We Drag Sex Workers For Contributing to Racism, Misogyny, Pedophilia, Incest, and Rape Culture? Why do they think they’re exempt from criticism?I totally agree with this. This is a top down issue and should be addressed in that manner. The individual women who fall into sex work arent so much to blame here as the demand (the customers) or the provider (CEOs, pimps, useless people like the link provides who still try to say women are empowered by sex work). They themselves are victims | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 06:25 PM |
| 7 | An LVM will say anything to get what he wants from you. Talk is cheap.While i doubt Carnegie lives up to our current standard of feminism, there is plenty out there in addition to the wiki article op provided, as hes a pretty well known figure in american history | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 05:27 PM |
| 65 | An LVM will say anything to get what he wants from you. Talk is cheap.Imagine paying attention to what men say. If they arent in a relationship with me its usually just some kind of mindless drivel | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:18 AM |
| 22 | I can’t tell you guys how many times this has happened to me lmaooooo!Wow, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:37 AM |
| 34 | I can’t tell you guys how many times this has happened to me lmaooooo!I know yalls jobs must be hard, so thank you, but honestly I think itd be hilarious if there were a sister sub to this where y'all could post all of the funniest ones | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:32 AM |
| 46 | Porn addiction can cause men to become desensitized to sex. Wonder why he doesn't want sex with you? The answer is porn. This is a scrotes' own admission.I wait until I feel the need again "Yeah so now i feel the need every other hour and I almost lost my job watching porn in the bathroom. Has this become a problem yet?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 07:28 PM |
| 5 | TBH, I think I found wokefishing worse than sexual assault.Fr emotional abuse is awful dont get me wrong but theres nothing quite like the physical removal of bodily autonomy. Wokefishing didnt give me a fear of men is all im saying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 05:35 AM |
| 18 | From mildlyinteresting - the OP (appears to be male) said he and gf got each other the exact same gift. Nope, the one from her to him is show accurate and therefore better, ofc 🤣How much do you wanna bet she gave him other presents too and that was his only gift to her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 04:18 AM |
| 6 | What are our thoughts on social media?Im lucky my bf doesnt even have social media (not lying about it either, we live together and i have open access to his phone, he just doesnt care for it) Yeah if he posted stuff when hes out with friends but doesnt post stuff when he goes on dates that would definitely raise my eyebrows | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 09:48 PM |
| 4 | What are our thoughts on social media?Well I was just assuming the idea that if we're heading towards exclusivity, i would first like to know what his definition of "exclusive" is. If that doesn't involve talking to snap chat thots because social media isnt cheating id really like to know Edit: im gonna leave this comment but i reread the stuff and realized I didnt quite understand the premise, my bad! I see what youre saying now. I just feel like the discussion should happen before the whole going steady mark | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 09:04 PM |
| 6 | What are our thoughts on social media?Idk if id even wait that long, better to never get your hopes up of a real relationship without understanding the way your man truly is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:52 PM |
| 15 | "NOt aLL MeN!!!!!!" *also 3K likes 🤔Average redditor 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:50 PM |
| 8 | Online dating in a nutshell; heads men win, tails women loseNSA just means theyre schrodingers fuck buddy. If im nice to you dont take it for granted. If im mean to you what did you expect hoe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:14 AM |
| 125 | Is it an American men thing or?I dont know if its just American, but as an american this is very prevalent. The idea that men are able to party and act crazy in their 20s and its ok then they "settle down" with some poor girl who inherits him from where his mother left off because they did more drinking than maturing in their 20s. Plus women never have this allowance since we're taught from an early age were supposed to take care of everyone around us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 06:56 PM |
| 62 | A lesson on feminism"Ok, send me your tits" then leave him on READ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 06:52 PM |
| 173 | TDLR Scrotes is finally dumped but clueless why gf no longer wants to play mommy.She realized she could have a bf treat her like the queen shr is instead of her mothering a manchild | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 06:50 PM |
| 15 | I genuinely don’t understand why male redditors have a sub for every specific type of genitalia 🤢🤢Im sure it exists somewhere 🤢 Its like r/ jailbait all over again. At least the girls are actually 18 this time... Not that its all that much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 06:15 PM |
| 21 | Sex Pozzy Columnist Nadia Bokody defends PornHub and says that our conflicting feelings on porn are because we’ve been “taught women couldn’t be powerful & sexual”(link in pic#5). I took screenshots of all the “EmPoWeRmEnt” from the hottest US videos on PornHub.Women can be sexual and powerful, but not while we push for the normalization of broadcasted rape. She has no clue what shes talking about and its obvious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 04:18 PM |
| 49 | I genuinely don’t understand why male redditors have a sub for every specific type of genitalia 🤢🤢I also heard that the subreddit "aa cups" doesnt allow anything but the smallest of breasts or smaller, and that posts where people post with slightly bugger breasts get shamed in the comments. Its actual misogyny and honestly, borderlining pedophilia... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 04:13 PM |
| 264 | 😂😂He's def the kind of dude who would leave a tinder match after a one night stand then block her when she gets pregnant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Men, please stop doing things for me.No dragging, its fine to accept help, just that not once have i been offered help so much as given help for usually literally no reason. Though I do want to say, if you felt out of place in a warehouse because youre a woman, you shouldnt have to feel that way because women belong in every space, and you shouldnt have to feel that way. I work with lots of women btw, and none of them offer to help me unless i really look like I need it. They know I'm competent. It really is just men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Men, please stop doing things for me.Thats the kind of help I want not this passive aggressive bs lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:28 PM |
| 4 | Just think of the relief the ex wife must feel. How utterly embarrassing for everyone involved.The kind that moan like little girls can cost a pretty penny... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Men, please stop doing things for me.Oh my god I feel for her. I bet female personal trainers always get the creeps too, the ones who eyeball women in the gym until they get kicked out. But a personal trainer cant really escape it unless she works for the gym and has a good boss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:27 PM |
| 0 | Men, please stop doing things for me.There is only one real limitation women have when compared to men and that is volume size. If something is heavy but also far bigger than my hands ability to grasp it reliably, even if i could handle that weight, thats when i ask for help. None of my situations were like that and i have no doubt none of yours were either. Men really do love perpetuation the "weaker sex" lie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Men, please stop doing things for me.Im not active atm but i do love my weight lifting and boy that wouldve set me off. I would've straight up said "dont touch my shit. Get away from me" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:22 PM |
| 6 | Men, please stop doing things for me.Damn! Hope you didnt have an allergic reaction to that :( (u/ allergictoscrotes) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 10:18 PM |
| 5 | Men, please stop doing things for me.It doesnt impact my performance score but it definitely takes longer and since a lot of what I do is very time based (has to be done as soon as possible) it only slows down my ability to get to all my other work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 08:10 PM |
| 24 | Men, please stop doing things for me.We seem to have A LOT of 2s. I can definitely tell the difference between a 2 and a 3 because a 3 will just ask, like hey, need help? And ill say no and go on my merry way. But instead I get them saying "here ill just do it" or walking up to me and abandoning their work to do the incredibly minor task that i just look like im struggling with like I'm a damsel in distress. Very frustrating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 08:07 PM |
| 7 | Men, please stop doing things for me.It isnt even to show off it just actually seems like men think that when I am even just looking like I'm struggling at a task its their job to help me. Or I have offered to take things that were heavy and they were like "well.. Idk its ok i can do it" when it isnt their job or it would be more difficult for them to do that instead of the work theyre supposed to do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 08:05 PM |
| 2 | The update is that she "communicated" and who knows what she ends up doing.Can you imagine one random person telling a story that might not have even happened being the ONLY reason you dont leave your man? And tbh proposing multiple times unless theres some ridiculously specific reason to do it more than once sounds like sexual harassment that the woman has just resigned herself to... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 04:14 AM |
| 103 | Just think of the relief the ex wife must feel. How utterly embarrassing for everyone involved.I cant even imagine what 25k worth of porn and sex toys looks like. Honestly poor parents too. Shouldve kicked him out more than anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 04:03 AM |
| 4 | How sick does a whole state have to be to have a statute of limitations on child molestation??"Separation of church and state" my ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 03:15 PM |
| 11 | How sick does a whole state have to be to have a statute of limitations on child molestation??"Oh Doug? Yeah hes great with kids. Hes in charge of pre school. Hes so engaged that he always helps the special education kids extra. He dedicated a lot of 1 on 1 time, just for them in fact. Sometimes he even goes over to their house, for some extra education time. Strange though that many of them are regressing, but thats just 2020 for you I guess" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 12:09 PM |
| 10 | How sick does a whole state have to be to have a statute of limitations on child molestation??Fr. By setting a statute of limitations on child abuse, you create a system which causes children to run out of time before theyre even adults. The men at the top are heavily into this stuff. I'm still waiting for all those women led pedo rings to come out. Oh wait, there arent any? Crazy. Who wouldve thought its just men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 12:06 PM |
| 22 | This is another level of depravity...if the child's not mine im not a bad person for leaving Mans should see how he would feel if he got traumatically raped and his wife left him for fathering a child with his rapist in the process. "Im so crushed I cant believe she would be so selfish" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 03:30 PM |
| 16 | I am losing faith in this society. I can't believe we are in 2020 and people still think like this.Girls are underage women from 12 and up didnt you know? Oh an why do any of them want to vote? Women are like LITERALLY children :))) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 06:05 AM |
| 108 | This is another level of depravity...Therapy goes both ways...🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 06:04 AM |
| 86 | I am losing faith in this society. I can't believe we are in 2020 and people still think like this.Man I once knew someone (male ofc) who tried to play "devils advocate" saying that the girls involved in the Jeffery Epstein sex ring were at least partially at fault because they shouldve "known what they were doing" as if they werent literal children! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 02:49 AM |
| 37 | “Why aren’t my OLD matches comforting me over my ex’s death??”Men who need therapy really do be like "hmm lets start a podcast 🤔" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 05:22 AM |
| 8 | It's the signs of affection and support in the little things over a period of time that makes a man high value. Don't settle for neglect and then lovebombing - the real deal is out there.That'll stop the nausea ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:39 AM |
| 62 | It's the signs of affection and support in the little things over a period of time that makes a man high value. Don't settle for neglect and then lovebombing - the real deal is out there.In my experience the best hangover cure is plenty of water before bedtime and electrolytes if you get reallly drunk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:22 AM |
| 235 | “Why aren’t my OLD matches comforting me over my ex’s death??”I need female attention I need a therapist* Fixed that for him... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:20 AM |
| 3 | Vetting: advice needed please. He is very devout orthodox Christian. Liturgy for him was at 0700 today. To make it clear, he seldom forgets I just don’t tolerate this behavior.Exactly this. His family wont approve of you and he knows it. Youre a temporary piece. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:19 AM |
| 1 | LOLThere are plenty of stories here so I figure ill add mine. I went to planned parenthood and intentionally scheduled my appointment with a female doctor. She explained the general information, and she told me i would probably have cramps that feel like period cramps and bleeding. Now to be fair, i have a pretty high pain tolerance. My tattoo artists have been impressed. But even I have my limits and when they offered me otc pain meds (I think I got ibuprofen) i took them. As they widened my cervi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 08:25 PM |
| 33 | How exactly is being forced and exploited to do all the housework and childcare on top of full time work by a po-faced git who hates his own children NOT abuse?Document his apathy and take his ass to COURT. That score shouldnt be allowed to paint her as the enemy when theyre in front of the judge. You know he would too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:58 PM |
| 33 | Men of reddit live in a fantasy where truth and lies are reversed. 90% of people who suffer from anorexia are women but I guess society is kinder to overweight women.I understand there are so many reasons this post is wrong but like how about the fact that losing weight is significantly harder for women than men? Like maintaining the ideal sex doll bod he wants women to have is definitely harder than getting an ok-paying job for a dude. Women have to work for that shit every day, eating only the right foods, never drinking alcohol, exercising CONSTANTLY, and needless to say about old age and having children? What that shit does to your body? And even if all … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 11:13 PM |
| 34 | Woman has tattoo and kids so why would she expect decency?????Thats because when a man says "I know my worth" thats what theyre saying. Theyve never had to deal with abuse and neglect in the same way every woman I know has. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Straight men shouldn't be OBGYNs- what are your thoughts?I went to my local planned parenthood last year for suspected bacterial vaginosis. Saw a male doctor. At the time I was trying to get an IUD so me and my bf were using pull out method. He tried to tell me there was a 1 in 5 chance I was pregnant RIGHT then and I NEEDED to take plan b (ive taken it before and it was horrible). I declined. He insisted. I declined again. He relented. We did an examination, told me he didnt see anything in the sample he took, said they would run STD tests but they w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 01:55 AM |
| 3 | When men lie about their age to get their foot through the door with younger women🤮Go read the age gap subreddit if you wanna vomit your guts out. Awful stuff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 01:36 AM |
| 12 | Daily reminder: If he's not investing in you, you're losing time, money, and energy. Put that effort into someone who gives a sh*tBut Minecraft is so fun ;( Ok now sarcasm aside... Very true. Drop him like he's hot even though hes not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 01:30 AM |
| 8 | Can we finally get rid of this lie "no one cares about men's mental health"? While everyone does. Women get called attention seekers, emotional and irrational for showing emotion. Mental health medicines gets always developed for men while treating women as others.My parents told me as a kid that if I didnt get good grades i would ruin the rest of my life (no exaggeration here) then would tell me that if i went to therapy colleges could see it and wouldnt admit me Obviously i know that bit is false now but telling me that I would ruin the rest of my life for every inconcievably small failure (like forgetting a single assignment in 7th grade) is still ana active topic of discussion in my therapy sessions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 01:28 AM |
| 4 | Can we finally get rid of this lie "no one cares about men's mental health"? While everyone does. Women get called attention seekers, emotional and irrational for showing emotion. Mental health medicines gets always developed for men while treating women as others.An amazing example is Autism. For YEARS people have tied being on the spectrum to being male, saying that girls typically had less but yet more extreme cases of autism than boys. Turns out, they were assessing autism for girls ENTIRELY wrong. They were assessing them like boys and because they didnt meet the (incorrect) criteria they were labeled as just "different" Very frustrating especially since now im trying to get dx'd with autism because I highly suspect im on the spectrum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 01:25 AM |
| 2 | FDS made me quit my Dollar Shave Club subscription! Here’s why you should cancel yours, too! — #DSCHatesWomenYikes! Sounds great. Will have to look into that lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:07 PM |
| 6 | Mom is a pickmeisha - please help me learn to forgive her and prepare for the worst.Those are probably the best places to canvas for roommates. Youve got your whole life ahead of you, and this is just a little speed bump in the road. Youve got this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:06 PM |
| 25 | Mom is a pickmeisha - please help me learn to forgive her and prepare for the worst.If this is an apartment, I'm not sure what contacting the landlords could do for you, but if its more personal (like renting out a house or subletting a mother in law suite type of situation) contacting them could be a good idea. Sometimes making less from rent is worth it in exchange for everything youd need to do to ready a rental for the next tenant, including unoccupied downtime. In that situation you may be able to work out something that you are capable of paying for on your own, should th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:47 AM |
| 3 | FDS made me quit my Dollar Shave Club subscription! Here’s why you should cancel yours, too! — #DSCHatesWomenAwesome I'll have to look into it! Thanks for the suggestion! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:15 AM |
| 2 | FDS made me quit my Dollar Shave Club subscription! Here’s why you should cancel yours, too! — #DSCHatesWomenI use them right now, but my skin is sensitive so it tends to leave my legs feeling a little raw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:15 AM |
| 3 | FDS made me quit my Dollar Shave Club subscription! Here’s why you should cancel yours, too! — #DSCHatesWomenIve tried that foam stuff but in my experience it does about as much as body wash does. I assume its some kind of special soap? I got something like that specifically for shaving around my labia since ya know its ultra sensitive. Ill have to check that out though! Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 03:57 AM |
| 42 | FDS made me quit my Dollar Shave Club subscription! Here’s why you should cancel yours, too! — #DSCHatesWomenThank you for this comment at this point I'm honestly just going through the comments to find quality razor suggestions lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:28 AM |
| 29 | FDS made me quit my Dollar Shave Club subscription! Here’s why you should cancel yours, too! — #DSCHatesWomenOk i read the article. It called them "pro abortion" then links a link that says "we are staunchly pro choice" and explains the concept of female bodily autonomy. What scrotes jesus you cant make this shit up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:27 AM |
| 20 | "females" "men" it's a yikes from me dawgTaking incels out of the dating pool, one homosexual encounter at a time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:09 AM |
| 51 | "females" "men" it's a yikes from me dawgMaybe they should pair up with other incels so they can be together with people who "understand" them 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 08:36 PM |
| 112 | "females" "men" it's a yikes from me dawgOk is it just me or does this seem like he might actually be bisexual? Coming from a bi person myself. He sounds like a bi homophobe who would never date guys because he like girls "instead" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 08:26 PM |
| 25 | Guys need to stop being comfortable about things that don’t affect them....Because they suddenly experience what its like to be at the (supposed) risk of another person hurting them. Men dont fear rape by women because its easier for a man to subdue a woman physically, but with a man they could be outmatched amd theyre terrified at the thought of being victimised. Then they either go and rape women or they tell women who have been raped that theyre lying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 11:45 AM |
| 133 | Guys need to stop being comfortable about things that don’t affect them....Well to be fair, they are terrified of a man treating them the way they treat women, so in their minds its justified 😂 the clownery | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:05 AM |
| 4 | Can you guess what sub this is from?Smart! Get em early | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:37 PM |
| 74 | Can you guess what sub this is from?Stop giving him orgasms and say "no im ok I'm done for the night" halfway through 😂 see how he responds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:34 AM |
| 8 | Pay attention to men with abusive patterns of behaviour, they may just be intentionality trying to to induce a Stockholm Syndrome response in their target.Used to know someone who loved to say she had "trauma bonds" because she went to a therapist once and they mentioned the word. She is hooked on it. This post made me realize she doesnt understand what a trauma bond is. Shes emotionally unstable and it makes her want her past abusers but never did they do the things people here have described, about being abused and then essentially emotionally gaslighted about the event. I dont think she understands but thats no surprise. She needs to go tf back… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:31 AM |
| 15 | Abusive therapist. Should I just let this grudge go?In the US, 2 years is within the legal time limit for these things iirc. It varies by state, but in my state you get 4 years to report borrowed and unreturned items/money as theft, and physical misconduct is much more serious. Even if that weren't the case, certification boards probably go by less strict rules of engagement im pretty sure. Im no expert, but you can definitely get an investigation going at the least, and depending on the scope its incredibly likely you can get his license revoked… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 06:37 AM |
| 11 | If a man tells you that you can do better - BELIEVE HIM.Popping is my new favorite word for myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:24 AM |
| 33 | geee i wonder whyAgreed. Theyre comedies. Youre supposed to laugh AT them, not WITH them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 03:22 AM |
| 8 | He has no job, doesn't help with the house, nor parents... Why bother???No kidding. At least as a single mom she would have access to things she doesnt have access to while married. Funds and community support, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 02:47 PM |
| 6 | He has no job, doesn't help with the house, nor parents... Why bother???People like this are why our roommate agreement has a clause about kicking people out AND is legally notarized so we can do it if we want to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 02:46 PM |
| 21 | Ain't that the truth!You arent a gold digger for wanting a successful man. You want a man who knows how to get shit done and that is a good thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 06:25 PM |
| 78 | He has no job, doesn't help with the house, nor parents... Why bother???"Bro this is domestic abuse. Here's a hotline. Make sure you file a police report for emotional damages." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 06:21 PM |
| 96 | He has no job, doesn't help with the house, nor parents... Why bother???Set his gaming pc on the curb and watch him get 3rd degree burns on his way to get it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 06:08 PM |
| 29 | Sigh...... block and delete. She made a logical conclusion at the end and still wants to keep him around?!No kidding. I bet the thing that feels off is love bombing that shes excusing as "being sweet" and "respectful" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:57 PM |
| 93 | Pickmeisha on r/offmychest"Hardcore feminist" "conservative" More like "clown" imo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 04:29 PM |
| 42 | That really puts it in perspectiveI know for a fact none of my rapists consider themselves rapists. Its despicable. Knew about this guy in hs who apparently is super sexual and perverted. Raped a friend of mine, in school. She never reported it unfortunately, but I doubt she would've been taken seriously since she was treated at the time like she was super mentally unstable and making up a bunch of stuff (about other things involving her we all believed her about the rape obviously) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 02:22 AM |
| 38 | Beware of men who want open relationships but later decide to change their minds when they see that their partner have way more options than themI once knew a girl on a poly-mono relationship with a dude in a different state (we were minors and he was like 18) who was on antipsychotics. No thanks hun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 08:28 PM |
| 4 | This meme was posted on a particular subreddit and the next slides show the comments. It truly depicts the situation of men's day in today's world. They get all the more reason to be blatantly misogynistic and sexist as if years of patriarchy and oppression weren't enough.Very good point, and a great story! Im proud of you for being so strong. That comment was mainly geared towards the men who complain about having to pay large sums of money to their ex, when their ex is fully capable, but while also dismissing their responsibility as a parent as well. Reading your comment though gives me a greater understanding (as obviously a variety of situations can occur) so thank you for the insight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 03:46 PM |
| 2 | How a real man asks for and accepts help.I do see what I wrote, and I can can see how it can be misinterpreted, it is just frustrating for multiple people to insist their interpretation of what I wrote is correct. Could I have phrased it better? Sure, and that is a valid criticism. But let me assure you, the meaning of the sentence, when written, was playful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 06:50 PM |
| 5 | How a real man asks for and accepts help.As I said, a light hearted comment about my personal feelings toward sewing. I dont lile it, it was just an example of a traditionally feminine hobby I dont partake in. If you think saying that puts down someone, youre probably reading in too much 🤷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 11:28 AM |
| -4 | How a real man asks for and accepts help.I dont see what you mean. I wasnt putting anything down, just remarking the ways in which he and I both differ from what would be considered gender normative hobbies. For example, he loves sewing, quilting, etc. Sorry if my comment came off that way, but there was no negative sentiment in my light hearted comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 11:10 PM |
| 4 | LVM gets girlfriend pregnant, says he always wanted to be a dad, but then asks her to get an abortion after she asks him to help with chores."We are expecting" is fine imo but its so cringey to see women letting their man ride off of their accomplishment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 09:21 PM |
| -4 | How a real man asks for and accepts help.My mechanic bf is teaching me all about maintaining my car properly. He wants to do martial arts with me and loves playing video games with me. I love traditionally masculine hobbies, I'll leave the sewing bs up to him ;p | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 07:01 PM |
| 29 | Saw this floating around on Twitter and thought we could do an FDS version. Please share your examples of non-compliments from LVMOr the alternative my family likes to use, "have you gotten taller?" (No gma im still 5'2, thanks, im just working out now) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 12:13 PM |
| 14 | LVM gets girlfriend pregnant, says he always wanted to be a dad, but then asks her to get an abortion after she asks him to help with chores.People need to stop saying "we" are pregnant 🤢 nah YOU'RE pregnant, HE is a jagoff, don't give the man credit for the labor you are doing (literally) to bring a child into the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 04:30 AM |
| 11 | I posted this in an another subreddit. Posting here to get FDS's opinion.In my experience, there can generally be 2 kinds of people who one would follow on Snapchat that they wouldnt want their friends following: Ex colleagues, especially working in service or retail industry. I still have a bunch of these in my snap, people I barely know, used to work with, etc. I would tell a friend to not follow them if there is no reason fir them to contact eachother, they probably just followed my friend for more Snapchat views or whatever. Drug dealers, especially if you don't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 03:27 AM |
| 83 | Is it illegal for a man to ejaculate in a woman without her consent?Forced impregnation is rape, even if sex is consented to. 100% undoubtedly rape. Im almost certain there's legal precedent to it too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Liar, Cheater, Abusive, Insecure, Porn, Narccissist, No morals or values, Uses women for ego boosts and Sex, Thinks he's god cos he works out, Apparent ladies man, C*m sock, Fakes mental illness, Listens to sexist rappers who he wishes he was, Looks up to toxic men, Thinks he's something he's not.Ive got one of these on my snap and he hits legit every point!! And posts all the time about the girl he loves not loving him back and about being suicidal because of it, or just posting snaps of music playing with "💔"... 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 04:05 AM |
| 13 | Did this the other day to a boy I was ‘friends’ with after he crossed my boundaries, and then tried to act as if nothing happened and I was being over dramatic. Before FDS I would have written an essay and spent hours cOmMuNiCaTiNg with himDid it to a toxic ass ex friend of mine 😔 refusal to get mental treatment while flaunting her problems on social media. Sorry honey im here to live my life im not struggling if I dont have to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 02:06 AM |
| 15 | Perfect!Omg when I was young I was working in my church (minor so I had no choice) and they came around to do individual pictures of the volunteers. I smiled with closed lips like I usually do and the guy kept saying "no shoe some teeth" even though I kept saying I didn't want to. Eventually I did and that picture haunted my body dysmorphia for YEARS once I saw it. And for such a dumb reason too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 10:00 PM |
| 29 | FDS writing exercise: let's practice seeing the truth behind male gaslighting and manipulation by translating this piece of male propagandaLearn to work the dishwasher, youre a big boy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 05:57 AM |
| 11 | Found this gem in my suggested posts. It’s actually crazy how delusional MGTOW are. Do they really think they need this much protection?People conflate FDS and MGTOW a lot and it doesnt make sense when you look at the communities. MGTOW isnt men going their own way, they are obsessed with evil women, which are all of them, but FDS is just about setting standards for relationships and bettering themselves without the need for a man. MGTOW love to hate FDS. Its everything theyre afraid of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Yeah, just think about that 🙈My ex is literally undateable 🤡 he couldnt even get a teenager to see past how much of a loser he is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 05:13 AM |
| 3 | In MemoriamMcConnell has already released a statement saying they will vote on it in this term. Regardless of election cycle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:39 AM |
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