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| -1 | [LR] - Token ResistanceOkay. So if such activities are happening, and then IMMEDIATELY one starts taking off one's pants, it's probably an indication of escalation. Where that escalation stops (manual, oral, vaginal, anal) may be up for grabs, but yes, there's very very likely some escalation there. But if there was some sexual behavior, it has stopped or slowed, and there has been an explicit "no"-- hours later, if I want to sleep, one might take off one's pants. And I think that's what DrKinkenstein was trying to po… | /r/seduction | 23/05/11 03:58 AM |
| 3 | To the guy who posted that thread about token resistance, please read this.Err, could you explain this a little further? I don't want to read into this too much, but are you implying that unhealthy women don't put up token resistance? Is this bad? Why do you think women you identify as "healthy" tend to put up token resistance? | /r/seduction | 23/05/11 02:59 AM |
| 2 | [LR] - Token ResistanceConsenting to some intimate or sexual behavior is not the same as consenting to all intimate or sexual behavior. If a guy takes off his pants, I don't always assume I'm welcome to peg him, even though it COULD mean that. If I'm confused, I ask. | /r/seduction | 23/05/11 02:55 AM |
| 3 | [LR] - Token ResistanceI slept in the same bed as a number of people before I was quite ready to have sex with them. Just because I was comfortable being mostly or all the way naked with them, even comfortable doing other sexual things with them did NOT translate to "please put your penis in me right now". People who respect my boundaries early earn my trust, and my boundaries then expand. Sometimes, when I say something, I do actually mean it. I realize that not everyone is the same, but it is possible. | /r/seduction | 23/05/11 02:47 AM |
| 10 | [LR] - Token ResistanceI still fail to understand why this sort of thing is fun. If someone tells you to stop, tells you they don't want to sleep with you, why is that a turn on? Why wouldn't it always be preferable to find someone who wants to give enthusiastic consent? | /r/seduction | 22/05/11 10:13 PM |
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