optimusderp Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Dealing with possible stalkers		optimusderp	/r/seduction	16/10/15 09:34 PM

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3	Nobody Spends Like An Inadequate Man Just adjectives man. I think any kind of self help should be limited. Constantly looking for problems and trying to guage wheter you were being beta or being alpha is more harmful than than the helpfulness of the advice. Study the basics, assume your part of the in/cool crowd and follow the path you think is most important, whether thats focused on career, saving money, travel, learning new shit. Thats how i live my life.	/r/MGTOW	16/01/17 12:21 AM
4	Hitting The Wall of Reality If this was 1959 i probably wouldnt get laid, but thanks to feminism women can sleep around without feeling guilty. But once they hit 30 their ability to get married is significantly lower because guys arent looking for successful girls. They want young, pretty and fun. If i meet a fun 30 something woman i immediately think shes creepy if shes single.	/r/MGTOW	16/01/17 12:11 AM
3	Nobody Spends Like An Inadequate Man Or focus on career and money management, be cool with who you are and traveling, while becoming who you want to be and suppressing urges with hookers and club sluts until your 35 and ready to settle down. Just make sure you plan for the feelings of jealousy on that path as that can be a real fuck up.	/r/MGTOW	16/01/17 12:00 AM
5	Hitting The Wall of Reality The point is that women, for the most part, latch on to the success of men. So if they waste their primal years they are pretty much stuck with either the beta shit males or the desperate trying to relive the 1985 state championship guys.	/r/MGTOW	15/01/17 11:44 PM
0	>after being independent for so long >going from man to man >does not compute I get my penis sucked on the reg, so i know what im talikin about	/r/MGTOW	15/01/17 11:25 PM
4	Status, the most important thing no really knows much about it, and what it actually is. Q: How do I obtain status? A: There are many ways; become a celebrity, rockstar or a pro athlete. Wow, what an asshat.	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/16 04:43 PM
4	Gibson Doesn't Have to Pay Grigorieva To cut tips?	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/08/16 12:17 AM
3	Gibson Doesn't Have to Pay Grigorieva Your right, we secretly control everything and are trying to brain wash everyone into our beliefs. I bet your even circumsized	/r/PussyPassDenied	17/08/16 04:53 PM
47	Man's daughter accuses him of molesting her for 6 years but a clever attorney discovers the big 'fifty shades of grey' lie and saves him from prison! Her rational? To teach him a lesson ... PP denied! is it legal to put your kids in foster care or an orphanage just because you dont want them?	/r/PussyPassDenied	15/08/16 09:51 PM
16	Gibson Doesn't Have to Pay Grigorieva you were on a roll until you got to the jew part....	/r/PussyPassDenied	13/08/16 08:05 PM
2	Amy Schumer gets called on the way she milks double-standards and more she steals jokes i wouldnt be surprised if she steals the innocence of the meek.	/r/PussyPassDenied	12/08/16 10:05 PM
11	Statistical proof that more men are raped in US than women when including prison sexual abuse Yeah but he had a small amount of pot. He deserved it	/r/PussyPassDenied	23/07/16 07:17 AM
5	Shit test: She says she's to busy to date? Just be a little more assertive man. Its not a big deal, believe me you'll have thousands of dates. The only advice i have is when you feel like theres that "moment" go for the kiss. Be relaxed dont actively look for it, but you will see it when its time and again its better to go for it and mistime it than to wait for the perfect moment Sorry if thats a little convoluted.	/r/seduction	29/04/16 01:28 AM
5	Shit test: She says she's to busy to date? If you've been on 2 dates and still havent kissed her, its pretty much over. Can you recover? Sure but it would probably be easier to recover from a negative reaction to a dick pic. At least if you get rejected for the kiss it shows her your confident and go for shit.	/r/seduction	28/04/16 10:58 PM
1	The best way I found to getting girls Your a better man than I. It took me a couple years to figure out that following game rules blindly will hurt my game.	/r/seduction	07/04/16 02:43 AM
5	The best way I found to getting girls Thats good advice man. In all honesty i think reading too much pick up hurts alot of people because they are so text book that a girl could be good to go but they read something and totally mess it up by playing too close to the rules. You gotta develop a sense for when the rules can be bent or even broke.	/r/seduction	07/04/16 01:45 AM
7	how can chicks just bounce around to different guys and not give a fuck about your feelings? You just gotta move on dude. You'll run into female players every now and then. If you think about it too much its just gonna mess you up mentally. If you did everything textbook perfect it would probably still end up the same.	/r/seduction	25/03/16 06:25 AM
3	How do I stop being so angry all the time? It's ruining my life. Find a balance, either cut out all the negative shit you have a tendency to focus on or realize, accept and develop indifference that the world is a shitty place and most people suck. If you think your a fat loser, work out. You could reach your goal and be in better shape than 90% of your peers in a year if you focus.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/16 08:57 AM
3	When do you say "I love you?" Never unless you want her to leave you alone	/r/seduction	15/03/16 05:59 AM
3	I want to be better at pickup/women but I'm afraid of getting too emotional Just go out and approach man, if your that worried about your reputation practice in another city. If you have trouble with anger, meditate and do cardio. Quit reading theory because its hurting you at this point. There you go, thats a gentler version of what i said before	/r/seduction	11/03/16 11:29 AM
4	I want to be better at pickup/women but I'm afraid of getting too emotional Get the fuck over it. You cant be liked by everybody. Quit reading theory, i bet youve allready read way too much theory. Practice, go out and talk to girls. Oh you've got uncontrollable rage? Poor you, better figure that shit out because girls dont like guys who cant handle their emotions.	/r/seduction	11/03/16 10:00 AM
1	Can I just straight up tell her how I feel? Instead of saying dinner, maybe say supper instead	/r/seduction	04/03/16 03:51 AM
10	Can I just straight up tell her how I feel? Or you could just ask her out and leave out the completely honest pretty smart part.	/r/seduction	04/03/16 02:43 AM
3	Flaking w/ Legitimate Reason She could be tellin the truth. Give her one more chance, if she flakes again drop it. From your texts everything seems good, just dont put all your eggs in one basket but you probably allready know that. Sorry if i dont have any more info, you seem to be on the right path	/r/seduction	25/02/16 11:37 PM
-11	Feminists Don't Give A Fuck, So You Shouldn't Either Niggas dont fuck with my video game swag	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/16 10:28 AM
-3	How do I tell a girl I'm no longer interested? Just dont text back	/r/seduction	24/02/16 04:53 AM
-1	Trump is the redpill Doesnt Trump constantly say "theyre laughing at us" ?	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/16 07:24 PM
1	Random question, but can anyone suggest good shoes with a little "oompf" in them for the short guy? You can get a set of lifts for around 12 bucks, just slide them in your shoes like athletic inserts	/r/seduction	22/02/16 06:59 AM
2	how to not shake when talking Progressive desensitization and reference experience.	/r/seduction	22/02/16 01:55 AM
2	How could I have made a move on my friend's girlfriend? Bros before hoes	/r/seduction	17/02/16 04:38 AM
6	[FR] GF found my Reddit account. Put a password on your account so you dont have to upload self congratulating posts about how you should write romance novels	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/16 10:47 AM
1	Looking to have a crazy sex orgy in hs Unless your the most popular dude in school, wont happen	/r/seduction	14/02/16 03:16 AM
1	Feeling ugly, alone, insecure & depressed... Trying, failing and loosing hope about winning a soul mate No problem dude, check out RSDs the natural method by Tim Marc. Be natural, going up to a girl and just introudicing yourself "hey im 'name'" is the best opener. Forces you to focus on eye contact, vocal tonality, posture etc because there's no flair to fall back on.	/r/seduction	14/02/16 03:14 AM
1	Feeling ugly, alone, insecure & depressed... Trying, failing and loosing hope about winning a soul mate Gotta do approaches man, if your walkin to wherever your goin everyday thats perfect. Set a goal to just talk to 5 girls everyday, dont worry about how long the convo lasts, just focus on the initiative. All the info you need is available for free, i would focus on opening and how to keep the convo going and fun first.	/r/seduction	14/02/16 03:04 AM
1	Feeling ugly, alone, insecure & depressed... Trying, failing and loosing hope about winning a soul mate I meant more along the lines of how many approaches have you done, how many days do you go out	/r/seduction	14/02/16 02:48 AM
1	Feeling ugly, alone, insecure & depressed... Trying, failing and loosing hope about winning a soul mate How long have you been going out ? How many times have you gone out?	/r/seduction	14/02/16 02:44 AM
13	Would getting with other chicks help get me out of the 'friendzone'? No, just move on from her. Seriously if you invite her out to a club with the sole intention of getting the attention of other girls to make her jealous....your gonna have a bad time. Its gonna be obvious to her and its gonna be obvious to the girls your talking to. Too much of a validation seeking frame. Im not saying that wouldnt work but the mindset your coming from is definately not gonna be in your favour.	/r/seduction	12/02/16 08:38 AM
3	Girls think I'm cute, and some have called me "super cute". But how do I go from being "cute" to "hot"? You can always lift weights to gain size, not much you can do about height unless you wanna give lifts a shot. Keep the Jason Statham stubble. In all honesty being called "super cute" isnt bad. You can always play the part of the boy next door	/r/seduction	12/02/16 04:32 AM
1	Girls think I'm cute, and some have called me "super cute". But how do I go from being "cute" to "hot"? Stubble?	/r/seduction	12/02/16 04:02 AM
1	How does one actually internalize the inner game taught here? Look up mindfulness. You will never have total control over your thoughts 24/7 but you can be aware of them. so you have to train your mind to be cold/indifferent to them. If a negative thought comes into your mind, acknowledge it but do not engage it. Dont dwell on it and dont even try to put a positive light on it. Just acknowledge it and move on.	/r/seduction	11/02/16 08:28 AM
3	Looks fading due to receding hairline... what to do? You can either shave it or.....go for the george castanza look.	/r/seduction	09/02/16 08:34 AM
2	should I pretend to be seeing other women? To answer your question, keep the ambiguity. You were honest with her allready about seeing other girls, at this point unless shes your girlfriend its none of her business. Dont expect every girl to keep you updated on their dating life and vice versa	/r/seduction	09/02/16 06:40 AM
3	How do you go from wanting to change your mindset, to actually changing it? From my experience you just stop caring. You are actively trying to move things in your favour but you know it doesnt matter. Eventually, deep down, you figure out that the only person who truly honestly gives a shit about how many girls you've been with or havent been with is you. You start to focus on "how can i have a good time tonight" rather than "how can i get laid". Your focus shifts from wanting to get laid to just wanting to have fun.	/r/seduction	09/02/16 06:25 AM
1	should I pretend to be seeing other women? Either option you choose can be beneficial. The only thing i would say is always have an air of mysteriousness to whatever it is that your doing. If your not available be vague. If you are available....be vague. Use your own judgement to which path you take but.....be vague as a motherfucker	/r/seduction	09/02/16 06:16 AM
2	how can you approach a girl that is preforming in a bar ? Even after shes done i can guarantee thats not even her final form.	/r/seduction	08/02/16 08:24 PM
1	Never, ever be a hero, and disassociate yourself from the party life at all costs. Life is random, you cant plan for it	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/16 02:48 AM
-2	Never, ever be a hero, and disassociate yourself from the party life at all costs. Because one has real consequences and the other doesnt. You like to play the victim, you would rather feel violated than putting in some work.	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/16 02:46 AM
1	Never, ever be a hero, and disassociate yourself from the party life at all costs. Im guessing this is directed at me. All im saying is lift a weight or two. People tend to not fuck with people who clearly have muscles.	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/16 02:41 AM
0	Never, ever be a hero, and disassociate yourself from the party life at all costs. It wont magically fix anything, but it helps.	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/16 02:29 AM
-6	Never, ever be a hero, and disassociate yourself from the party life at all costs. You play the part of a pussy and you'll be treated like one. Dude shouldve been aware of the environment he was in	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/16 02:28 AM
-1	Never, ever be a hero, and disassociate yourself from the party life at all costs. Its called being smart and assessing a situation with common sense.	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/16 02:24 AM
4	Never, ever be a hero, and disassociate yourself from the party life at all costs. My thoughts exactly, guess we should just sit at home and play the waiting game	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/16 02:22 AM
-5	Never, ever be a hero, and disassociate yourself from the party life at all costs. Dude....all i said was get fucking big. He wouldnt have had to fight a gang of lesbians if he wasnt a tiny man. But you can continue to believe that having an advanced set of language skills will disarm any bad situation, its cool	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/16 02:20 AM
-4	Never, ever be a hero, and disassociate yourself from the party life at all costs. At a lean 160 i got into way more fights than a solid 200. Choose your own path its up to you, im a happy go lucky dude, im only saying people think twice when you look like you can handle yourself.im willing to bet an mma fighter whos 170 lbs lean gets in WAY more fights than a bodybuilder weighing 240 on the sole fact that one can fight but is small and one cant but is big	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/16 02:14 AM
1	No sure if U can Help Look up the law when it comes to rape allegations from a wife certain states are 10x more lenient and require substantial proof. Dude you couldve gone with a public defender, and saved your money if its that open and shut.	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/16 02:08 AM
-4	Never, ever be a hero, and disassociate yourself from the party life at all costs. Take tren and lift weights. If he was bigger thwy wouldve thought twice and this situation wouldve never occurred......alternate dimenision theory	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/16 02:04 AM
2	[FR] Lay report - "Are you going on dates with other girls?" Im doing that now, hell at one point i didnt even have a car and still saw success. It only matters if you think it matters	/r/seduction	29/01/16 05:41 AM
4	How hard is it to get sorority sisters if you aren't a frat bro or even a student at their college? I'd like to here more about this as well, Ive only had one experience with a sorority chick,with friends who were in a frat at a party, she had never seen me before and asked if i was a freshman. I Said i was in the Army and not in school, all i got was a sour face and she didnt talk to me the rest of the night. My game was garbage at the time but it wouldnt surprise me if sorority chicks only mess with frat dudes. Thats pretty much the epitome as far as cliques go before people realize no one g…	/r/seduction	26/01/16 03:21 AM
1	Picking up girls on Tinder is hard work Not too shabby man in omy opinion. From my experience its better to go for the number within the first 4 messages. Find a way to use your opener as a segway into asking for the number. Tinder is a numbers game at its truest form	/r/seduction	24/01/16 08:57 AM
5	Is sex is one of the hardest things to accomplish these days for young men? Girls today are super loose. You're overthinking it, no amount of knowledge and skill guarantees sex. Just relax dude, if your not havin luck on campus or college bars then change location. Looks only matter to an extent or you wouldnt see all these hot girls dating guys with dad bods.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/16 08:52 AM
2	Help: Why would a man in a relationship be subscribed to the seduction sub reddit? Could be a number of things. Curiosity, Maybe he wants to be more confident, better at sex or develop his conversational skills. The key to seduction is becoming the best version of yourself,that could be why he's here. Or there could be problems at home and he's preparing for the worst. I suggest you ask why he joined	/r/seduction	22/01/16 02:35 PM
2	Social circle or cold approach? Just as long as you dont choose bulbasaur	/r/seduction	15/01/16 03:42 AM
1	"#WasteHisTime2016: The Feminist Hashtag We’ve All Been Waiting For?" Hate to say it but if a guy is dumb enough to fall for stupid female games then thats his own problem.	/r/TheRedPill	07/01/16 05:18 PM
1	"If you made more money, we would have more sex" DONT MARRY HER, its a trap man. A comment like that should be sending red flags.	/r/TheRedPill	07/01/16 04:50 PM
2	New RP term--Be a 'BONE COLLECTOR' Im just saying, thats way too much effort dude. Youd be better off if you just went Kevin Spacey in American Beauty on her and get zen instead of the petty sitcom nonsense	/r/TheRedPill	07/01/16 04:45 PM
2	New RP term--Be a 'BONE COLLECTOR' If you hate her so much why did you marry her?	/r/TheRedPill	07/01/16 04:05 PM
2	RSD Luke is Fat. No offense. He's awesome. I'm just not motivated to workout anymore. Help me reframe :) He probably just doesnt care, im sure hes a great pua, but just be aware of marketing techniques. All im saying is dont be a fat slob just because you can still get results as a fat slob	/r/seduction	07/01/16 07:04 AM
2	RSD Luke is Fat. No offense. He's awesome. I'm just not motivated to workout anymore. Help me reframe :) Ok well besides doing it for yourself (confidence, health benefits) it trains your mind to stick with a routine and to not give into resistance when you dont want to do something. You do it because its right, in the same way that you approach because its right.	/r/seduction	07/01/16 04:57 AM
1	RSD Luke is Fat. No offense. He's awesome. I'm just not motivated to workout anymore. Help me reframe :) With that mindset you'll just be fat and not good with girls either. Work on willpower, if you cant stay focused on something as simple as lifting weights you probably wont stick to game.	/r/seduction	07/01/16 04:38 AM
2	Giving up already, because I'm aware it's all a fucking lie. I'm the opposite of everything women want. Fact. I get the feeling youve never done a single approach.	/r/seduction	18/12/15 10:36 AM
1	Podcasts recommended by Seddit Sleepycabin and Smodcast	/r/seduction	15/12/15 01:48 AM
1	Where can I buy 'The Style Guide for Modern Men' in the UK? Book store	/r/seduction	14/12/15 10:25 PM
1	Pill vs Condom - Whose responsibility is it to prevent pregnancy? Its because your too smart. I suggest joining r/iamverysmart you might do a little better there :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/15 08:23 PM
1	This is how you respond to a girl when she talks about another guy infront of you Be like neo in the matrix and when it comes to passing shit tests....in the end, you wont have to. Just dont respond, give the "oh yeah cool" response. The same response youd give to the crazy homeless guy who says he was a navy seal.	/r/seduction	12/12/15 08:14 PM
1	Looking to learn Thats awesome your looking to improve yourself dude! Working out and going out are the 2 best things for improving game. The best book i can reccomend is the "book of pook"	/r/seduction	12/12/15 08:06 PM
3	Hello, seddit. I'm a 26 years old guy, and i will kill myself in the end of this year. Seems like i have only two weeks to lose my virginity. So, what's the plan? Chances are youll be too afraid to get a prostitute and die a virgin. Sorry bro, truth hurts	/r/seduction	12/12/15 07:57 PM
1	Hello, seddit. I'm a 26 years old guy, and i will kill myself in the end of this year. Seems like i have only two weeks to lose my virginity. So, what's the plan? Your gonna kill yourself for being a virgin? How about man the fuck up and quit looking for sympathy or validation to get a prostitute. Thats like saying your a hunter for buying a steak. Seriously go out and crash and burn like we all had to do. Quit being so fucking safe	/r/seduction	12/12/15 07:48 PM
2	A real guide to seduction Jesus....believe in him	/r/seduction	12/12/15 07:45 PM
0	I like a Co-worker help You gotta play hard to get. You said she wont consider any guy that confesses to her, thats a pretty clear indicator to not do that. Look at all the guys shes dated in the past, what kind of behavior did they show? Figure out how you can implement that into your personality without losing congruence or trying too hard. On a real note though, it sounds like oneitis, date other girls, be patient. The best book on game is "book of pook" its got some good insight that might help.	/r/seduction	12/12/15 05:53 AM
1	How to take the perfect dickpic You belong in r/iamverysmart	/r/seduction	12/12/15 05:26 AM
3	I cannot get it out of my head. This regret is killing me. I feel like I am dying inside. Thats borderline stalkerish, and not a smart idea	/r/seduction	10/12/15 06:48 AM
4	I cannot get it out of my head. This regret is killing me. I feel like I am dying inside. You need to work on your confidence and inner game, I say this because it isnt healthy to obsess over a girl you dont even know. In all honesty if you had gotten that girl it wouldve been the worse thing to happen to you because it would have reinforced a shitty belief system and given you the excuse not to improve yourself.	/r/seduction	10/12/15 06:46 AM
2	How to take the perfect dickpic Its actually a TV show, you wrote a pretty hefty review for only having seen a trailer for it, which tells me your just a grade A bullshitter who knows how to use a thesauras.	/r/seduction	08/12/15 11:43 PM
2	How to take the perfect dickpic Careful, its dangerous outside of that safe space	/r/seduction	08/12/15 10:14 PM
1	Can/Should you approach a girl on a train? I dont see why not. Go natural dude, if you dont have any material prepared go direct. Any anxiety you have will come off as congruent and confident because no other guy has the balls to do that.	/r/seduction	06/12/15 01:26 AM
1	Body language vs voice vs height In order of importance: Money, facial symmetry, body fat percentage, dick length	/r/seduction	27/11/15 09:33 PM
1	How does RSDJulien say the things he says without getting kicked out of the venue? Its usually predicated with "what would you do if a guy came up to you and said...." your saying it to her but its hypothetical. If youve hooked, it becomes an inside joke between you and her, so you can say it again later without it coming across as wtf	/r/seduction	18/11/15 09:12 AM
2	How to handle a chick who tries to put me down for my short height and turn her wet for me instead? Dont acknowledge it, you can do what the stereotypical cool kids do and make the "fuck thats a weird thing to say" face or you can just smirk and pause like you heard it and then just move on with "anyway...words"	/r/seduction	18/11/15 09:04 AM
1	I absolutely hate women. Maybe focus on both simultaneously	/r/seduction	18/11/15 08:55 AM
3	21 year old virgin, last semester of college, tired of reading pickup books, heavy course load, how do I lose it? Need ideas. Exactly, talk to girls	/r/seduction	05/11/15 06:49 AM
4	21 year old virgin, last semester of college, tired of reading pickup books, heavy course load, how do I lose it? Need ideas. Good point, i was referring more to random girls you'll never see again rather than girls you have a chance running into on your way to class	/r/seduction	05/11/15 06:45 AM
14	21 year old virgin, last semester of college, tired of reading pickup books, heavy course load, how do I lose it? Need ideas. Go out and approach for 30 days straight, do not read any material during that time or watch any videos. You've allready got the knowledge and genetically as a man you're allready wired to get girls. Dude i know the struggle, i didnt even get my first kiss till i was 21. Just approach every day for 30 days straight, doesnt matter if its day or night. Always attempt the number close and set up dates. Even if your game is weak, statistically your going to be some girls type whether or not your smo…	/r/seduction	05/11/15 06:36 AM
2	I feel like I've read so much and understand more, but have made zero progress. What do I do/how do I improve? It just takes time, everybody knows the frustration. You can read all about flying a helicopter and understand the mechanics and how aerodynamics work but unless you are actually practicing and puttin in the hours you wont be able to fly it. Same goes for game, you can have all the knowledge but its a completely different animal when you put it into practice. If all anyone had to do was read a book to get good with women then everybody would be gettin laid left and right. Practice young grasshop…	/r/seduction	15/10/15 11:35 PM
0	I'm over this. I reccomend talking to a girl. Like you said you dont get nervous so if you cant talk to one..well then i guess theres no hope for you	/r/seduction	15/10/15 03:11 AM
1	Casual relationships and FWBs Thats a good question, i found out about game at 17 and although it helped alot with weird limiting beliefs i had, it also messed me up a little bit by making me slightly self concious causing me to micro manage every social interaction. My advice is focus more on inner game and natural game, tactics and routines work but right now you wanna build confidence around yourself moreso than the material. best way is to just go out and get reference experiences. Hope that helps man	/r/seduction	14/10/15 09:56 AM
3	Serious question? How do you initiate anything while she's over? Tv is an acronym for tyrannosaurus vagina. Do the math	/r/seduction	14/10/15 06:52 AM
1	Serious question? How do you initiate anything while she's over? This is why every guy needs a tv in their room. Easiest excuse to get a girl in bed, from there just cave man	/r/seduction	14/10/15 03:13 AM
1	Need help on neediness and One-itis (Long Read, Please Help Me) Talk to other girls	/r/seduction	13/10/15 03:06 AM
1	Watched & Read so much content, still can't even approach Dude it took me a year to man up and do it so your not alone. I conqured my fear of it by going to a busy mall 2 hours from where i live and where i knew no one would know me and approached as many girls saying "i have a huge fear of rejection that im really trying to get over so could you please say the meanest thing you can come up with". It sounds awkward and weird but most girls will actually try to hold a convo with you. Mainly because you come across as genuine in what you say because you …	/r/seduction	13/10/15 03:00 AM
2	I can't approach because I don't want to blush Thats why approaching in nightclubs is perfect. For one its dark enough no one can see you blush and secondly after going out for x amount of time you eventually just stop blushing as hard. I know this from experience because i was that guy whos face would turn bright red just from thinking of something embarrassing	/r/seduction	12/10/15 11:14 PM
3	What to do when girl shows interest but never initiates texting? Most girls dont initiate texts unless their dating you. When you text her have a purpose,( are you trying to set up a date, build rapport, screen her for potential? ) never text because you just want to talk because you are bored, thats needy and she will see right through it that you have no other girls to talk to. Also once your purpose for the text is completed make an excuse or better yet have an excuse to have to go and youll talk to her later	/r/seduction	11/10/15 06:19 PM
3	As I'm improving in every way I can't decide if I want to be with the perfect girl or a bunch of girls please some perspective please... "If you dont know what you want you will end up with alot you dont" I hate to say it dude but to me it sounds like you are looking for path of least resistance. She likes you right now because you do your own thing and have your own shit going on and you are being true to yourself, if you disregard who you are right now for someone else thinking "i changed who i was for you" i can almost guarantee she will lose interest. Just know what your purpose in game is and dont get caught up in the outcom…	/r/seduction	11/10/15 06:07 PM
1	Smart to fuck someone I work with? My advice is be cautious when it comes to sleeping with women that can affect your job/money. That goes for relatives of coworkers as well. Before you sleep with her make sure you tell her your intentions up front (one night stand, fuck buddy, relationship etc.) Last thing you probably want is a pissed off girl trying to get you fired. If i were you I totally would but again dont do anything or send any texts that could be used against you.	/r/seduction	11/10/15 05:45 PM
1	No car Totally agree, just sayin its not impossible to still get girls when you have to bum rides if you frame it right but you will definitely miss out on opportunities. Best bet is get a car	/r/seduction	10/10/15 02:31 AM
1	I'm so anxious/scared of getting sexual that I start to dread hanging out with a girl, even though deep down I WANT to get sexual Harsh truth man is you're just going to have to push through that anxiety before you become desensitized to it. The best advice I can give you is to not put so much pressure on yourself. Dont worry about being smooth right now just focus on taking action, being fun and moving things forward. You can smooth out that other shit later.	/r/seduction	10/10/15 01:14 AM
1	No car Yeah Im currently without a car right now. You just have to spin it in your favor. Im allready into cycling so i just tell girls its an excuse to train more. If they can tell it doesnt bother you then they wont tend to care. The only problem is (for me at least) that there are girls that you couldve gotten but a car is a deal breaker when it comes to a date. Haha a junker is better than nothing because telling a girl what time to pick you up isnt very masculine.	/r/seduction	10/10/15 12:59 AM