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50	Mens rights are equally as important.		orcada	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 06:05 AM

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1	Mens rights are equally as important. You referenced nothing. In our discussion, you had no interest in the idea of women having an equal amount of positions of political power, and the fact that you are happy to quash the women that are fighting for this speaks miles about your character. Not all these women are crazed man hating feminazi's. We have a very legitimate cause. I replied to the answer about women voters. I did not disclaim the idea that most women vote. I have no idea if this is true as you didn't reference the claim. …	/r/MensRights	13/02/17 03:58 PM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. You are dissmissing women's right to equal political power. That is, a gender balanced government. It is a very simple concept. You say you have 'refuted' me, yet you have not shown anything to back your observations, and much of what I said was quickly dismissed or ignored. Therefore I refuse to continue answering your questions. If you can't understand the concept of women wanting equal political power, that is, a gender balanced government, then you are contributing to patriarchy. You want me…	/r/MensRights	13/02/17 11:54 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. OK, everything that has came from my mouth was basic feminist theory. Again you have not addressed the issue of women holding less positions of political power. Men did indeed struggle for women's rights as well. You have took what was omitted from my statement, which made sense in context, and you have made that into a statement in itself. :/ I feel like you are picking at my words, and trying to turn them into an attack, despite getting the jist of what I am saying. You have done this twice in…	/r/MensRights	13/02/17 10:53 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. I'm sorry but I feel like are not getting anywhere. We live in a patriarchy and not a matriarchy because men hold most of the political power. Men are top of the hierarchy, in a political sense. Yes this does not equate to representation in terms of issues, rights, etc. I literally just said that several times. :/ Pater, father, a role which society forces upon men. A role which is oppressive and damaging to both men and women. I never said all men, or male politicians, enforce or have the power…	/r/MensRights	13/02/17 10:10 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. I'm sorry but I really have to disagree with one of your statements, I'm afraid. Not in essence. I agree that men holding positions of power does not translate into equal representation, in fact I don't believe I've argued the opposite. If I had, my wording was incorrect. A lot of this comes down to semantics. I would have meant representation in terms of power, but not in terms of issues/rights. However, my issue with this statement is not what you said, but the the way that you put it. "I know…	/r/MensRights	13/02/17 06:28 AM
2	[NSFW] Apparently a grown woman sexually abusing a male child doesn't violate Facebook's community standards. Huh that's interesting. I did not know that. Thanks for the info. I always thought it was pretty harmless. A bit annoying maybe... Thanks for the heads up.	/r/MensRights	13/02/17 06:14 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. For one thing it depends on the situation. There are many situations where if a women steps out of her role, she will recieve huge backlash. For example if a woman was to pass her parental rights over to the father, she would be considered to have abandoned her child. There are still huge societal pressures on women, motherhood, and reproductive rights. We are making progress but there is a lot to be done. I was reffering to gender role in the sense of how we present ourselves to each other. I f…	/r/MensRights	12/02/17 04:38 PM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. Hi. I disagree, I think we can change our image around and I will keep fighting to, and to get mens rights on our radar. There are so many other women like me, honestly. Controversy makes the headlines. So I suppose we might have to agree to disagree there. I identify as feminist instead of a women's rights activist, because I believe in a lot of feminist theory. If you read into it with an open mind, it will offer many explanations. I am not a religious person, so I don't stick to the word of e…	/r/MensRights	12/02/17 03:36 PM
2	[NSFW] Apparently a grown woman sexually abusing a male child doesn't violate Facebook's community standards. Maybe I'm wrong but I think they're referring to lolita. It's women dressed to look like little girls really, is a specific look, sometimes sexualised, but mostly not I would say. It's usually just a sort of anime and cosplay thing, I don't take it too seriously but still. It's easier just to Google 'lolita'. It's the history of the word that is worrying. It comes from a novel that addresses the topic of paedophilia. A bit too close to the bone for me, but people should dress as they please I gu…	/r/MensRights	12/02/17 11:54 AM
2	Why One-in-Four Modern Women Have Mental Health Issues and Take Drugs. Fair doos.	/r/MensRights	12/02/17 11:32 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. That's fair. I understand causation and correlation. I can agree with that. I can agree with the concept of women making healthier lifestyle choices due to being less likely to take to take risks. I can also agree that some men participate in self destructive behaviors. To self medicate, because we live in a society which expects men to keep a 'stiff upper lip' and not talk about their emotions?	/r/MensRights	12/02/17 11:27 AM
0	Why One-in-Four Modern Women Have Mental Health Issues and Take Drugs. I thought you were here to fight for equality, not to put women down.	/r/MensRights	12/02/17 10:58 AM
2	Why One-in-Four Modern Women Have Mental Health Issues and Take Drugs. I'm a woman, a feminist, and I have mental health issues and take drugs, but I'm not going to pretend men don't either.	/r/MensRights	12/02/17 10:52 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. Also I agree, women have a lot of power to change this. Hence why I am so interested in encouraging feminists to have an interest in mens rights. We have had a lot of success challenging female gender roles. Now I think it's time to focus on how these gender roles are oppressing men as well. It was always within the theory, now we need to act upon it. I think the feminist movement may have the most power to change it, if it gets its act together. I have to say, there is still a lot to be done fo…	/r/MensRights	12/02/17 09:32 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. That is something I take very seriously. I see it as being highly tied to constrictive gender roles, and societies expectations of men. I hope both our movements can do something about this. (The ones I'm my movement who are not completely insane, that is.) We need rid of any preconceived notions about gender. We need men to feel like they can speak out, without being ignored, judged, and made to feel 'weak' for having been taken advantage of. I care a lot about this, and I'm trying to encourage…	/r/MensRights	12/02/17 09:03 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. Your movement has arseholes too, and the sooner you admit it, the sooner you will be able to do something about it. Every movement has its extremists, some more than others. I take death threats very seriously, especially when someone attempts to track down my location through my ip. I literally use reddit through tor now. How dare you tell me to grow up. You are making yourself look immature. I'm afraid you are wrong. The true, basic, feminist theory is based around the concept of gender roles …	/r/MensRights	12/02/17 08:48 AM
2	If men are so privileged and women have it so hard why are so many men choosing to live as females? I'm sorry but while your theory is incredibly interesting, and I will look into it later, there are many other factors that will skew these results. For example low sperm count could quite easily be explained by the drastic change in diet over the years. It is common fact that a low sperm count can be caused by a poor diet. Maybe the increase in people identifying as trans has changed due to societies view on the matter relaxing over the years? Men that identify as trans are more free to step ou…	/r/MensRights	12/02/17 08:35 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. Hiya, off to bed, I'll be back but I'd like to start with the top point. We do not live in a true, total, patriarchy. To say so would be simplification. Women now hold many positions of power within western society. It's not a balance but it's something. We have more power to speak up about these matters now, and more power to fight these 'gender roles' than before. Men have as much power to fight these 'gender roles', that is, in the political sense, but just because we have power, does not mea…	/r/MensRights	12/02/17 02:52 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. I am gonna head, but before I go I would like to ask, what makes one sides death threats serious, and another's not? Do you share the same beliefs about women as everyone within your movement? I stand behind feminism because of the basic concept, that gender roles are constrictive and destructive towards society, for both men and women. I am not the only feminist who's interested in advocating for men's rights. I have already said repeatedly that I am aware of the rotten apples in our movement. …	/r/MensRights	12/02/17 02:34 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. The article is far too long and complicated to go into detail about, but these suggestions are strongly backed by real studies and data. Everything is a theory in essence. Data and evidence can be interpreted different ways, but when it's pointing strongly in one direction, as suggested in the article. Edit: I do not know how to interpret this article fully, references and all, but I was hoping you might.	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 11:32 PM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. There are biological theories as well, hormonal theories, etc. It doesn't make them responsible. They were born into it. Yes men have the capacity to change it, and so do women. Women don't have to continue to fit in with gender norms. They can choose to fight it. (Or not. Gender norms fit some people.) Neither do men. They can fight it too if they so choose. We should all be fighting for a society with no preconceived notions of gender.	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 11:17 PM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. Not at all. Patriarchy is a construct of society. I think it started around the time of agriculture. Before then humans were assumed to be relatively egalitarian. I'll try and get more info on this. Edit: Oops it was in the Wikipedia article. I've read it a few times. Anthropological evidence suggests that most prehistoric hunter-gatherer societies were relatively egalitarian, and that patriarchal social structures did not develop until many years after the end of the Pleistocene era, following …	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 10:22 PM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. I am a feminist because I believe in one of the core beliefs, that 'gender roles' oppress both men and women.	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 10:16 PM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. Hiya here is something I quickly found on Google, when searching for gender and lifespan in the animals. It's from an incredibly reputable source, and it was top result when I searched: male female animal lifespan https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2688912/ I thought it might add another explanation to the mix.	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 10:10 PM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. I agree, that is an issue within our movement. :/ It's not everyone, but it's a fair few. It angers me more than anything else tbh. I would love to see that change. It was always a basic tenet within feminism that 'gender roles' oppress both men and women. Thanks for reading. :)	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 09:26 PM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. Yes. Absolutely. By fair I mean, in joint agreement, women and men. :)	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 09:21 PM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. Thank you, support here means a lot. :) I was led to believe by many MRA's that sexual harassment was a large issue for men too. I have heard many stories of men being sexually harassed, like my boyfriend who came home from a club one night looking nervous. He told me a girl had kissed him. I asked him to elaborate, then it became apparent it was unwanted sexual contact. :/ He was in a relationship, and she was not in any way attractive to him. He was very nervous about telling me, which was a s…	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 09:16 PM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. You're support means a lot. I'm sorry that it comes from a place of experience. I hope we both find the equality we are after.	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 08:34 PM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. Hi. Patriarchy has many definitions. In its purest form, yes it is the theory that men hold a position of power. Hang on, would you be offended if I pulled up Wikipedia? Just so we're looking at the same thing. I know you're intelligent enough to understand the word but we're getting into the details now. Wikipedia, Patriarchy, paragraph 1. Patriarchy is a social system in which males hold primary power and predominate in roles of political leadership, moral authority, social privilege and contr…	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 07:44 PM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. Thanks for all the information. I will take a look later. Yes I do agree that patriarchy has benefited women in some ways, as it has negatively affected men in others. And vice-versa. Yes, I have recieved several death threats. I do not align myself with these women, and neither do many feminists. You seem to have made your mind up so I am just going to end this discussion, as I don't see it going anywhere. Goodbye, and I hope we both find the equality we are looking for.	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 07:27 PM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. For the record I think everything you have mentioned above is disgusting, and does not represent me or my beliefs. Nor does it fit well with basic feminist theory. :/ However not much these people do does fit well with feminism. These man hating/fearing women have a victim complex. It depresses me that these women call themselves feminists, and yet act like they want to oppress men, and quite often reinstate the gender roles, or create new ones. Trust me most of us feminists love men, and want e…	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 06:58 PM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. By mentioning patriarchy I was not trying to negate from your experiences. I genuinely believe that patriarchy is part of the issue. I don't think patriarchy was the reason those women or men abused you. I think they abused you because they were, yeah, bitches, dicks, whatever you wanna call it. I think patriarchy is what stops men from speaking out. The idea that they are stronger than that, that they should suffer without not complaining. These are gender roles which stem from patriarchy. Thes…	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 06:26 PM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. Hiya! I have been made feel so welcome here. I mean, yeah, a lot of people disagree with what I have to say, but that's to be expected. I was surprised at how willing everyone was to let me speak. I've been badgered quite a bit but compared to the rest of the internet, not too bad. The thing is, I feel the MRA movement, I really do. If that sounds patronising, bear with me. If I talk about feminism anywhere on the internet I get a torrent of hate. If I search for feminism on YouTube, all I get a…	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 05:15 PM
2	Mens rights are equally as important. Women have literally thrown themselves in front of racing horses in protest, to defend their rights... Your reply shows a real ignorance of the feminist movement. There are MRA's that want feminists to die, that want women to get in the kitchen and bake them all pumpkin pies. I've been on the receiving end so I would know about that. I try not to let it colour my judgement of their movement, and their cause. I know most men are not like that. I know we are both after the same thing, equality. We…	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 04:36 PM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. Hi. I'm so sorry you've been abused. I am disgusted that you were not listened to. This whole 'privilege' argument is misunderstood by feminists. Feminism is about getting rid of gender norms. Yes the are privileges to being a white man, but there are huge drawbacks. Women and men need to feel empowered. I'm gonna use the P word here, but it's not what most would think it means. Patriarchy: Comes from the word pater, or father. It is a belief that men should be a father like figure, hold authori…	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 01:58 PM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. Hiya I will reply to the first two points later as there are some things I would like to add to that discussion, but it will take me a bit to gather my thoughts, etc. Don't have enough time to word myself fully. For the last one, I know how it looks. It appears to be named after men, but it isn't. I hate when things are gendered for no reason, but in this case there is one. It comes from pater meaning father. 'Father' is a social construct. It comes from the idea that men are father-figures that…	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 11:44 AM
2	Mens rights are equally as important. I'm sorry that happened to you. It's not fucked up at all. You do what feels best. Don't feel bad because you didn't react the way society expects you to react. If you don't want to put a man in jail, that's your prerogative. If you are able to find peace without retribution, then you are the better person for it. You sound to me like a very empathic person, which is the greatest thing you can be.	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 10:21 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. This is all very interesting and I will look at it later. Thanks for the name of the study. :) I'm curious to see how male/female lifespan compares in other animals as well. Thanks for explaining the 'taking risks' bit, I always wondered about that. I certainly take more risks than my brother but he literally doesn't leave the house if he doesn't have to. It does seem to be true in general. Fascinating. I have to say, when it comes to health care, from my experience and from what I have read, wo…	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 10:02 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. In terms of lifespan, women have always outlived men in general, for biological reasons. I'm not sure why, sorry I'll look that one up, but there are certainly biological reasons at play here. Although there will be other factors as well. Then there are psychological factors. For example men are apparently more likely to be risk takers. I don't know the reasons behind this, where this theory came from, or how true any of this is. But it is supposed to affect how 'healthy' our choices are. I am g…	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 08:25 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. I know. I'm sorry. :/ I think it's disgusting. I think we need both perspectives on the issue of sexual harassment, because naturally our experiences will be different. There are often different thought processes going on behind the crime. That's why, although I'm a feminist, I'm very interested in mens rights and tackling similar issues but from many angles. I see a place for both feminism and MRA. We both have knowledge and perspective that the other does not possess. I hope that in the future…	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 07:34 AM
2	Mens rights are equally as important. Thank you that means a lot. :) It's just my story but some people see it as a bit of a personal attack, because it clashes with their idea of how society treats women. I don't expect to get treated like a Disney princess, in fact I didn't even like that stuff as a kid. I don't want chivalry, in fact I find it patronising, but they say chivalry is dead for a reason. Unfortunately most of us women are used to a bit of unwanted contact. I imagine men don't fare much better. It is intimidating when …	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 07:18 AM
2	Mens rights are equally as important. For a second there I though you were calling me a false rape accuser, before I spotted that tiny s. Boy did my heart sink there. False rape accusations make me sick to the stomach. It is a very sick sick minority that think that is OK. Unfortunately it doesn't take many people to ruin a mans life. Therefore I do think we need people to stand up for men's rights as well.	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 06:46 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. Hiya. I would slap, and I have, but unfortunately things have gotten violent before. Of course people step in then but it is too late. :/ I'm too scared to just go ahead and slap someone now because I know what can happen when you slap a large drunk man. It is absolutely an issue for both genders. Therefore I believe it needs to be tackled from both perspectives. I don't expect anyone to defend me, and I never asked anyone to, but the fact that no one does makes a statement about our culture and…	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 06:40 AM
2	Mens rights are equally as important. Absolutely. I see sexual harassment as an issue to be tackled from both perspectives. A 'womens issue' as well as a 'mens issue'. I am not trying to negate from sexual harassment towards men in my story. I simply don't believe we can treat this problem without both perspectives on the matter. I'm not sure if women are any better or worse off than men. I don't think that's something you can measure. I see us as both being oppressed in different ways. Gender roles hurt everyone, bar the lucky few …	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 06:23 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. I'm sorry I actually meant that reply for someone else, but you get what I was going for. People brush away sexual harassment in general. I explained a bit better in other posts. Sure if it happened in broad daylight... But once your in that pub, or club, and everyone has a drink in their hand, the mood shifts. It's all a good laugh. Nobody cares until things get violent. Some people literally see sexual harassment as a dating technique. This is not to negate from sexual harassment against men. …	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 06:20 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. Thanks that feels good. :) This is a widespread problem which affects both genders. I still see this as a women's issue as it is so widespread against women, but that doesn't make it any less of a mens issue. I see it as a problem that needs to be addressed by both sides, separately and as a unit. Both feminists and MRA's are going to have different ways of tackling the subject which is a good thing. We need everyones perspective on the matter. I hope I've worded myself better here. :)	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 06:06 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. And I would have already been attacked. I'm sorry but I've been in this situation before. People only react when things have gotten violent which is too late.	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 06:00 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. I'm sorry but I don't understand how your questions relates, but no. Islam, Christianity, and Judaism are all Abrahamic religions therefore they all come from the one man, who believed in the one God. They all stem from the the same place, but they have different schools of thought. Most people don't realise how closely the three religions are connected. I'm not sure if this was the answer you were looking for. :)	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 05:58 AM
2	Mens rights are equally as important. "Your story looks like you learned how to deal with compliments and sexual attention" My story was entirely about sexual harassment. My boyfriends reaction brought attention what had used to make me angry, but had normalised over time. My self esteem is fantastic now that I'm not getting felt up and left to feel less of a human, because I don't go out much anymore. I'm happier with close friends and immediate family.	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 09:31 PM
8	Mens rights are equally as important. Hello. :D I identify as a feminist because, although I am an egalitarian, you only have so much time in the world. You have to pick an area that is very relevant to you, that you know the most about, can say the most about, and have the most effect in. I care a lot about mens issues. I think they are just as important. I care a lot about animal rights. I think they are just as important. (No disrespect meant. I see humans and other animals as equals. I care a lot about animal rights.) However, a…	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 09:04 PM
2	Mens rights are equally as important. I hope they asked you beforehand. That would have made most of the men I know feel very awkward.	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 08:26 PM
5	Mens rights are equally as important. I did not expect a thing from anyone. I purely made an observation on our culture from the lack of response. You seem very bitter towards me. Tell me about your feelings? :)	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 07:45 PM
3	Mens rights are equally as important. If you had read my comments you would have seen that I had tried. Nothing happens. :/ In my experience no one cares until things get violent. We are expected to brush these things off, as suggested over here. You'd have to make a pretty crazy scene literally every time you went out... That's why I don't go out. Don't get me wrong sometimes bouncers sort things out but what they miss is massive.	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 07:33 PM
2	Mens rights are equally as important. If groping, assaulting, and removing someone's underwear, are compliments, then I learnt to deal with them when I stopped going out. I had normalised this behaviour in my head because I wanted to socialise with my friends and have a good time, and sexual harassment was the price for me. I never wanted, or purposefully attracted any unwanted behaviour.	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 07:25 PM
2	Mens rights are equally as important. Look, I was referring to the fact that no one defended me out of their good own good will. I did not demand to be defended, but pointed out that I have never been defended. And as someone who had never been defended for being sexually harassed, you expect me to slap the guy?	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 07:18 PM
3	Mens rights are equally as important. Look, I was referring to the fact that no one defended me out of their good own good will. I did not demand to be defended, but pointed out that I have never been defended. And as someone who had never been defended for being sexually harassed, you expect me to slap the guy? Things have gotten violent before.	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 07:08 PM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. Thanks that's awesome and fascinating.	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 06:20 PM
3	Mens rights are equally as important. They are choices, sexual harassment is not.	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 06:16 PM
5	Mens rights are equally as important. Too many to reply, but I would like fair parental rights, and fair rape laws for one thing.	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 12:56 PM
5	Mens rights are equally as important. I do advocate for my rights. That's why I'm a feminist... I also advocate for men's rights.	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 12:05 PM
4	Mens rights are equally as important. What do you think I did the first time, second time, third time?... Things wear you down, and there are dangers. I know better than to go out now. If you don't see how widespread this harassment is, I can pass you to my boyfriend. :) He's sitting right next to me and will vouch. You are putting the blame on the victim, instead of the perpetrators.	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 11:25 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. Thanks. :)	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 11:20 AM
1	Mens rights are equally as important. Thanks for elaborating. I'll take a look at it later.	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 10:56 AM
3	Mens rights are equally as important. You took the bits you liked, ignored the bits you didn't, and made assumptions about my character. I'm talking about repeated harassment that most women, myself included, have normalised in our own heads. It is the repeated harassment which destroys self esteem. Being a feminist has only got me hate. I don't know anyone irl who is a feminist. I don't have any feminist friends on the internet. I hate being a feminist but I do it because I want to be treated as an equal. I want to be able to go on…	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 10:37 AM
3	Mens rights are equally as important. Thank you! I hope to see you around. :)	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 10:24 AM
3	Mens rights are equally as important. Haha what a great quote! I agree with everything here. I think the rape laws need to change. I wouldn't blame -feminism- for their lack inclusion of female on male rape and rape by penetation with an object, as I don't think it was feminists that made those laws. However the current laws in the UK are ignorant, dangerous, outdated and need to change! Edit: I actually see it as a feminist issue. ;) US WOMEN CAN RAPE TOO YOU KNOW!	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 10:20 AM
3	Mens rights are equally as important. I agree (and I have) but in the moment, it can be quite scary or embarrassing for some women. Also after a while you don't want to keep making a scene. Imagine slapping someone every time you went on a night out. Yes it can be that often. I am not a violent or dramatic person so that is not in my nature. I feel like this was quite an unempathic response. Your're frustrated with me for not slapping men who are larger than me and drunk. Shouldn't you be frustrated with the men who harassed me?	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 10:09 AM
2	Mens rights are equally as important. Hiya. I don't see r/Feminism as the epitome of feminism. I was banned before I had the chance to say anything really, which I think is pathetic. Feminism is a collective movement with many schools of thought. I'm a feminist because I care about issues which affect women. A lot of these issues I have faced, and care about on a deep, personal level. I also care deeply about mens issues. In terms of patriarchy theory, I have my opinions and my experiences, but I dont believe entirely in any theory …	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 09:44 AM
5	Mens rights are equally as important. Haha I'd expect so much from the internet. ;) Thank you! I'm genuinely really surprised at how open minded everyone is. I thought yous would take one look at me and go. Troll. Banned. xD Apparently that's a feminist reaction... lol	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 08:41 AM
7	Mens rights are equally as important. Hiya. :) I don't want to discount anything you are saying. I think you make several valid points. However I do feel like there are still some women's issues, as there are men's. For example, when I became sexually mature and started to go to pubs and clubs, I started getting groped. I know everyone gets groped, men and women, which is very wrong, but hear my story. Every time I went out drinking I'd at least get a pat on the bum, or I'd get grinded on, or I'd get my tits cupped. The first time i…	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 08:24 AM
7	Mens rights are equally as important. I was pretty upset at first. I feel very strongly about women's issues. I was looking for a place to discuss them, and to get banned like that was just... And the irony is, that sentence you picked out was simply a summary of MY thoughts as a feminist, that I turned into a general idea. Weird. The irony is I, as a feminist, have been made to feel more welcome here so far, than I have over there.	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 07:27 AM
10	Mens rights are equally as important. On the topic of the bottom point. I've noticed. In fact I was banned the first day I subscribed to r/AskFeminism and r/Feminism when I struck up a conversation with (what I think was a) MRA, despite us both staying civil. I'll get you a link. :) Be back soon. Edit: This got me banned. -_- https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/5svxcf/why_are_feminists_and_leftists_so_big_on_stifling/ddj1jrf/ I got banned while talking about free speech...	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 07:08 AM
2	Mens rights are equally as important. I absolutely agree. I am a feminist because I feel like there is more that could be done for women's rights. However I dislike the idea that by advocating for my own rights, I am dissmissing the rights of others, which is I feel where things are heading online... This was not the way feminism was supposed to be. Human rights ARE what truly matters! I care about the men in my life as much as the women. I'm a vegetarian for Christ's sake, I care about everyones rights, animals included! :D Thankfu…	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 06:52 AM
5	Mens rights are equally as important. Will do! :) Thanks. Edit: BTW I always do. I meant it's hard to speak over them, but I always advocate mens rights when relevant. :)	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 06:31 AM
1	Mantra Great mantra, anyone (of any gender) would do well to follow. :)	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/17 08:38 PM
–	Men and women are fundamentally different. Learn what this difference is and how it applies to you. But I'm not looking for validation from women. Also learn grammar. Same would apply if one was looking for validation in men.	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/17 06:40 PM
1	Think Thoroughly Every Bitch I think trigger thought emotion behaviour is really fucking helpful. I used a similar technique with my psychologist, for anxiety. It really helped me to pinpoint exactly why I was feeling a certain way, and what the cause is. I respect that you are going through therapy and I'm glad that your getting something out of it. :) As for the fact that your therapist is a woman, that shouldn't matter. If your getting something out of it, isn't that what's important? We don't all have an evil agenda lol…	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/17 06:27 PM
7	Think Thoroughly Every Bitch Wait, you had to make a mnemonic for 'Trigger, Thoughts, Emotion, Behavior'? 'Think Thoroughly Every Bitch' is just as hard to remember, and it doesn't even make grammatical sense...	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/17 06:20 PM
–	Men and women are fundamentally different. Learn what this difference is and how it applies to you. What has 'oneitus' got to do with being focused on objects/things/mechanics? Are women things now? lol	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/17 05:56 PM
4	So I got shit tested today, and failed to recognize it, so I failed it. A woman sat on a chair and you think it was a test? I'm confused. If you wanted to sit, why didn't you ask? I highly doubt she even thought about it...	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/17 10:36 AM
1	Women are like the police Please don't compliment my beauty. I find it incredibly patronising. It wears thin pretty fast and comes across as obsequious. I just want to be talked to the way you would talk to your guy friends, treated as an individual. Every girl has their own interests, like guys. I'm a big Cracked reader so I mainly just talk about weird things, and joke about genitals... Try asking a girl what she is interested in.	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/17 09:43 AM