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I have a subtle accent, lived abroad from elementary school to high school, and I’ve only gotten compliments on my accent. I guess as long as you can speak clearly and communicate well your accent will matter less and less. Also if it bothers some shallow girl, who cares? Your win if you ask me
/r/seduction04/06/22 01:13 AM
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You shouldn’t think they like you even if they act like it, it’s literally their job. Also, don’t give out your number to a girl, you’re putting the pressure on her and it’s almost never worth it for her to bother. Now that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t talk a girl YOU LIKE just cuz she’s working. Respect the protocol, ask her for her number, if she agrees great, if she rejects you, never show your face at that establishment again. If for whatever reason you want to keep going to that place again, …
/r/seduction05/10/21 05:52 PM
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Well I gave you the line, just go say it. It’s a lot less awkward than you think, and it’s definitely not nearly as awkward as flashing your neighbor who thinks you hate him. If it doesn’t work with this man, just go to a bar on a weekend night, and sleep with any of the guys that hit on you. You’re living alone, so I’m assuming you’re at least in your early/mid 20’s if not more, grow up! Good luck
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:51 PM
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You’d rather flash him than say “hey, I’d like to get to know ya” sounds to me you’re not shy, you just don’t know how to talk lol. I mean that could work, but it seems really immature.
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:32 PM
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I already have, but like most introverts, almost all of the things I enjoy are solitary by nature. I’m just going to the bar cuz I wanna grab a drink and meet people, I usually have no interest in games or whatsoever. I know it’s not my scene, but it’s the best place to make meet people, and it’s stupid not to take advantage of it.
/r/seduction21/09/21 01:21 PM
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It’s easier said than done, how do you even have fun on your own? I mean even if you strike up a conversation with a group or something, that’s just that. When I go out alone I tend to find myself bored a lot of the time so it defeats the purpose lol. I’m also new to this but I’m trying, so plz don’t over simplify it like that
/r/seduction21/09/21 12:33 AM
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My ideal weight is 200, cuz I also have a big head lol. Being 180 was better with woman, compared to 240 that is, but I wouldn’t say the difference is huge. I’m aiming for 200 again, going from 265 to 240 I did notice a difference, and I’m expecting to notice SMALL improvement until I hit the ideal. But yeah dude, work with what you’ve got while improving, go after what you want if you get it great if not no harm no foul.
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:09 AM
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Yes there will be a difference. Just don’t listen to all the BMI talk, I’m at the same height and weight as you, I was 180 lbs once “which is max weight for normal BMI for my height” but I was considered underweight and had malnutrition for some reason when I checked with a nutritionist. At 240 I wear I wear size L & 34 pants, which isn’t really that big no matter what BMI says. I was at 260 and dropped to 240 recently, main difference there was honestly the confidence boost. What I’m trying to …
/r/seduction16/09/21 03:56 PM
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Thanks, that’s the most helpful answer. And of course I’ll never tease about such a thing, I’m not that heartless lol
/r/seduction10/09/21 12:18 AM
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Well that’s just an example, she could have a big nose or broken teeth or whatever, can’t really say didn’t notice such a thing
/r/seduction09/09/21 10:41 PM
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I’d reflect back on the approach. Were you sweaty and in your pjs when you did it, were you shaking of nervousness, did you talk too fast, did you feel embarrassed talking to her, etc… If you don’t think you did anything wrong, perhaps you misread the situation. Maybe she’s not used to getting approached and you just caught her off guard, maybe she’s shy and felt embarrassed or a one of a million other reasons. Some people suggested you use indirect approach, it might work, but you’re more likel…
/r/seduction19/08/21 08:13 PM
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Meditate buddy
/r/seduction19/08/21 02:28 AM
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He might not be the best person, but she’s the cheater/ bad person in this story. He’s not taking advantage of her, and from what he said, he didn’t even try to seduce her. Op, let her take the lead in this case, if you’re the one who pursues her, you’ll be the bad person “I know she already cheated with you, but still” And if it happens just keep having sex with her until she leaves, just make sure not to catch feelings.
/r/seduction18/08/21 01:32 AM
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“Do you wanna do this?” “Should we spice things up?“ “Should we move it to the bedroom?” Are ok I guess. Just don’t be weird about it, something like “May I insert my holy Excalibur in your hole of glory?” Will get you slapped on the face, you don’t need to know how I know this.
/r/seduction14/08/21 11:35 PM
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Do you wanna break the law because someone on reddit said so? Good luck using that excuse in court lol. But seriously, ask during foreplay, so before you undress her, and read the room. If she feels uncomfortable during, step back and ask.
/r/seduction14/08/21 11:22 PM
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I personally like a whole bunch, but Dior Sauvage is without a doubt the #1 complement magnet!
/r/seduction14/08/21 09:37 PM
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This might be a question in the wrong direction, but was there anyone in the bar on a Wednesday night? Obviously aside from sad old men 😂
/r/seduction12/08/21 03:19 PM
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I actually can’t, the college I went to is really small, just one building and everything is inside with security, so you can’t walk around and meet people. I think that’s why I didn’t meet enough people, it was just too small
/r/seduction11/08/21 03:23 PM
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I’m not in college anymore, but idk I might try local libraries. At least I wouldn’t feel like shit if I don’t buy a book after visiting the library lol
/r/seduction11/08/21 01:48 PM
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I graduated when I was 21, I’m 24 now :) And honestly, I didn’t meet that many that seemed smart and into reading, plus I was too busy to approach or date. Most of the girls in my uni were into parties and to be brutally honest, they weren’t that bright.
/r/seduction11/08/21 01:41 PM
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I went to my local barnes and nobles like 7 times in the last 3 months, not a single visit did I find a girl in her early 20’s to approach. I either see teenage girls or milfs with their little kids. What makes the story sad, I’m only attracted to smart woman, and girls who read have a special place in my heart. So yeah bookstores might not be worth the effort lol
/r/seduction11/08/21 04:37 AM
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While you’re right, some people can be in wired situations. I have about 7 good friends, but we never do nights out together, and many of them are married with kids “I’m 24” so yeah sometimes you have to be on your own
/r/seduction11/08/21 04:31 AM
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“Everybody lies” -Dr. House! In situations like the one you mentioned, I think people are lying to themselves rather than others, or they are sabotaging themselves unconsciously, obviously due to deeper issues. Also, don’t forget many people don’t express or even know what they want. Being a better person will mean you can offer more, and that’ll increase how many people desire you.
/r/seduction08/08/21 02:33 PM
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Asking for a friend, how do you get a college girl for $200? I’ve looked into it for the thrill of doing it, but the prices I saw are in the thousands and the girls aren’t even my type. This is near NY
/r/seduction03/08/21 08:19 PM
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I like to try new things, I want to make new friends and meet chicks, but I went to try and let loose a little you know. It was great, shared drinks and danced with strangers, it was my first time ever dancing so that was fun, some little things but it was fun. Overseas is definitely different, plus you might have language barrier and cultural differences, depending on where you go, but yeah. Just give it a shot and see how it goes, you might hate it and decide to never do it again, or you might…
/r/seduction02/08/21 04:38 PM
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I don’t just think, that’s from my experience with chicks in that age. If you truly want someone “nice & respectful” you my dear are a rare commodity. There’re some girls who actually want that, but from what I’ve seen in that age group I’d say it’s maybe a girl in five.
/r/seduction02/08/21 03:59 PM
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Out of curiosity, how old are these women you’re talking about? I’m getting close to my mid 20s and it looks to me like that’s is not the case for girls in my age group 21-25 “in the US”
/r/seduction02/08/21 04:08 AM
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For the longest time I (24m) chose to embrace and be my introverted self that hated the idea of clubs. Coincidently, last night was my first time ever going to a club “went solo right after work on top of that” and I kinda hate to admit it, but I had more fun last night than I did in the last few years. I’ve been thinking about posting a field report so lmk if it might be helpful I’ll do it.
/r/seduction01/08/21 01:37 PM
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How deep she been drilled also has an effect on the matter lol. If she regularly get a 9 inch monster, she won’t feel your perfectly ok 5.
/r/seduction29/07/21 04:40 AM
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I’m pretty sure you’ve never had sex before
/r/seduction25/07/21 11:15 PM
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In this particular case, the biggest red flag was her showing sings that she’s not loyal. I really don’t want to get into details because I already feel stupid enough lol.
/r/seduction30/06/21 03:21 PM
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I’ll be honest, I’ve had no self esteem for most of my life but things are much better now. I have a pretty good idea about what I want in a woman, and I realized even though I’m trying to improve myself, I’m enough the way I’m. You’re right about dealing with women who don’t have what I’m looking for, and that’s why I never did it before. What attracted me to this girl is her having most of what I’m looking for, but with red flags that I shouldn’t have ignored. I don’t go out of my way to meet …
/r/seduction30/06/21 03:18 PM
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Thank you, this was very helpful. I stayed single for most of my life because I didn’t meet someone I like, though I didn’t make it a point to actually look. Not too long ago I realized even though I’m not perfect, I had a lot going for me, and I should be enough the way I’m am “of course I’m still working on and trying to improve myself.” In my mind, what justified the scarcity mindset is that she’s literally the first girl that I interacted with and checked all my boxes in what I’m looking for…
/r/seduction30/06/21 03:09 PM
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Is it legal where you are? If not, how do you find decent services around you? Also, aren’t you worried about possible std’s? I’m not trying to judge at all, just genuine curiosity
/r/seduction28/04/21 12:12 PM
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I really love how everyone is flaming you for trying to cheat, this community if fucking awesome!!!!
/r/seduction23/04/21 03:04 PM
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Thank you for asking this. I feel like people who give this advice “join meetups” are either older or never tried to join a meetup themselves
/r/seduction13/04/21 04:59 PM
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I really hope we get some good answers, this is precisely my type. It’s hard to meet girls like this in public let alone approach them. And if you’re out of school your chances of meeting and building connections with someone like this are slim to non
/r/seduction02/04/21 03:19 AM
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Lies, no one talks with women via email in 2021
/r/seduction26/02/21 06:28 PM
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As long as you’re not a minor!
/r/seduction17/02/21 04:33 AM
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Yeah it’ll be a funny thing when you get with someone. You can buy her melons on your anniversary every year
/r/seduction02/02/21 02:18 PM
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I’m one of those people who never had any success or even liked online dating, but I never kept any app for longer than a month so there’s that. I also don’t live in a big city so there isn’t so that’s another challenge. Try grocery stores since this is basically the only place people are going to still
/r/seduction02/02/21 03:06 AM
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You've got a point, but you gotta be yourself within reason! I had a female friend who once told me about a guys that started talking to her "they knew each other for work or something so the guy started texting her." They were texting and not even 10 minutes into the conversation dude asks her if she's into BDSM and torture sex! I bet in his mind he was thinking he's being bold and being his true self, which is true to an extent, but in reality he just scared her straight, never talked to him a…
/r/seduction15/09/20 12:47 PM
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I know what you're talking about, I'm in my early 20s & I felt it several times, probably less than 5 in my whole life, which makes it very special. But this feeling of that special feel will be the main reason you'll feel shitty if you get rejected, as unfortunately she might not feel the same way. I'd say don't cold approach someone you have that feeling for, instead try to build a relationship & discover them more. That way you might find things that makes you loose interest, or figure out wh…
/r/seduction24/02/20 03:27 PM
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Dude, I'm 23 & never had a chick in my house. I still think you are the bigger loser. Damn at the age he stole your girl before he hit puberty, you better keep that player out of your house.
/r/seduction21/12/19 08:24 PM
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My roommate, Pretty cool dude, while he might not be as you described, I know how you feel. If you ever been on Tinder, as an average guy, you know girls never text 1st. One day he was giving me advice on online dating & showed me his account. The number of girls who texted him 1st was so outrageous, way more than the matches I got in my entire life. It's not like he has a crazy cool life or anything, tbh most of his pics were normal. He was trying to help, but after years of being on Tinder on …
/r/seduction16/12/19 05:39 PM
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I know, I just would like to be in a crowd of my age
/r/seduction25/11/19 02:45 AM
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You know, I've been meaning to do that for the longest time "going alone" the thing is I'm 23m, I don't want to go to bars where everyone is ancient. I know the closest college bars to me are like 25 miles away & I really hated clubs!
/r/seduction25/11/19 12:45 AM
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I tried it as a training tool, still a beginner, but it did more harm than good. I found myself constantly checking even though I know it'll notify me when I get a match. I also noticed it would bring me down whenever I go through a patch of right swips & not get any matchs. Overall I think if you're not a supermodel material then don't bother.
/r/seduction20/11/19 05:36 PM
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Totally agree, personally I'm that way. I don't care for meaningless sex, after all, porn is free & no game is needed. I'm trying to understand the game to hopefully find a girl good enough for me to be with. I've been around many women. For 6 years, I worked in retail while going to school. Im all of these years, I only met ONE girl that I saw myself with, & of course it didn't work out. This sub helped me understand that I need to shoot a lot more shots if I'm hoping to land something soon!
/r/seduction20/11/19 02:08 AM
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I can relate to what you're saying, my situation is similar in many ways. It took me until 6 months ago to stop believing, & I'm average at best. Had very few opportunities, but turned them all down. I'm still picky & prefer relationships over hookups, but now I don't care if I don't marry my 1st gf. Enough with that, let's talk about how to fix the problem. Tbh, I haven't yet tried this solution, but many ppl I know did & it worked really will for them, the only reason I haven't tried is cuz I …
/r/seduction16/08/19 12:13 PM
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See, I can relate to what you are saying.... I don't think I have problems talking to new people if there's something to talk about. I hang out in Starbucks fairly often, you know how this place is babe magnet, but I never initiate a conversation. I don't know anything about them, I don't do this often, and I simply don't want to bother anyone, that's why I end up keeping to myself & leaving with minimal interaction. Making conversations isn't that easy for me, & every time I look up what you do…
/r/seduction12/08/19 02:57 AM
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I'll give it a shot!!
/r/seduction12/08/19 02:46 AM
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Gotcha Tried talking to more people, going to clubs & bars, being more open, this kind of stuff. It didn't work in the sense that I didn't get any results, and ended up feeling worst
/r/seduction12/08/19 12:27 AM
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Oh believe me I've been trying to change that introvert shit for years & failed miserably. I really appreciate your advice, but staying longer in uni is not something I would voluntarily do no matter what the reward is. To me personally, uni years were as bad as it can get, and I know like 90% of people find it the best years of their life, but not all do & I wasn't of the lucky majority. I feel like it's something you need to relate to to understand where I'm coming from Thanksñ
/r/seduction12/08/19 12:00 AM
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I think this is great, thank you! I already don't care that much about the looks "surprisingly," I came across ALOT of beautiful women in school & at work " I work in retail" but only tried my luck with one. I do appreciate your advice & will do my best to apply as much as I can!!
/r/seduction11/08/19 11:35 PM
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