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This. HB8+ are always in demand. Whether social media or irl, they will receive plenty attention and other hot people. Unless you're a Gosling, don't bother with Tinder or IG for the hotties. Your best bet is to delete your social media and work on irl skills. You most likely won't stand out in terms of photos, but you might in terms of social skills.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 06:35 PM
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Of course, being the presupposition that all relationships must are purely expedient.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 06:27 PM
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Dude, female friends for one can connect you to new girls. Also, they give you smv. Third, a fair female friend can give you insight in girl brains, as well as she can give you insight into your own. Point out flaws and such. I've had platonic relationships (where I didn't want to fuck her and she didn't want to fuck me and we were aware of this) that had great benefits.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 03:54 AM
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Everything that forms in your spirit will manifest in your outside world. Be sad, see sad people. Be happy, see happy people.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 08:36 PM
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Well, explain away instead of being negative without context. You can't expect me to read 2 books for an Internet argument. Summarise so I can understand your point.
/r/seduction26/12/18 07:09 PM
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In spiritual terms, women don't seek the man with the great outer life situation, but the man with the great inner life. Inner life means your inner self worth, your confidence, your presence. That comes before your life situation that is status, promotion, car. Like some dudes are so irresistibly attractive to girls even though they seem to be jobless and living with their parents at 32. It doesn't matter half as much what the outer life situation is. If the woman feels that your inner life, yo…
/r/seduction26/12/18 06:47 PM
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If your really were alpha, you wouldn't be thinking in this dichotomy. Also, there's lots and lots of people longing to fulfill a management / leadership position because that would give them status, while in reality they're unfit to lead. It's attractive when you know your strengths and play to them. If your strength is in a specialty, then embrace that. People think only the guy who leads is the alpha and attracts women. But they fail to understand correlation. You see, it's the confident man …
/r/seduction26/12/18 06:33 PM
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It's confident to admit that your not confident in some area. This 'alpha' thing is just another persona, mostly a facade. Every man talking about alpha and beta tries to force these characteristics, but they'll always feel fake. If you have to force it it won't work. It has to come from within. And that happens when you gain experience for example. Summarised, a confident man is not afraid to admit thing he can't do or is afraid of. An alpha is an afraid man lacking the confidence to admit it.
/r/seduction26/12/18 05:28 PM
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The basic line of thought you should ingrain, is: "if you feel the need to distinguish alpha from beta, you bet your ass you're on the wrong side". It's an oversimplified dichotomy. Some people are insanely skilled leaders, but are bad with women. Some people are good with women, but suck in their professional lives. There is no standard alpha. That's why it's bad terminology. It all comes down to owning who you are and having the courage to talk about your feelings and desires, and accepting th…
/r/seduction26/12/18 05:25 PM
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Lose 'my money's on 3' and you're good to go.
/r/seduction24/12/18 12:37 AM
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Also, the fact that this post got so many upvotes tells me that a lot of seddit thinks that way. And it is precisely this attitude that prevents them from growing.
/r/seduction22/12/18 03:26 PM
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Them against me mentality. Way too many people have this.
/r/seduction22/12/18 02:43 PM
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Thanks. The post is a victimised piece of work. Fix your shit. Start with diet first, because if you don't nail your diet, you might as well give up on the rest of your habits. Perfect diet is 80% of the work in restoring your neurochemistry. As for people with mental health issues, look into low carb diets, mainly keto and carnivore. Carbs and sugar mess with your neurochemistry, and you need to get them out of your diet.
/r/seduction22/12/18 01:11 PM
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"society wants you to be addicted." this is so not true and so victimising. Society is made up of people just like you who don't know they're eating bad foods and don't know how to stop addictive habits like Internet. Man up. You're reward pathways are faulty? Fix them. Eat clean. Quit social media. Go exercise. Do something. Diet is the most powerful effector, look into keto / carnivore. Low carb is the way to go for a healthy neurochemistry. You can blame society all you want, but you know wha…
/r/seduction22/12/18 01:02 PM
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Also initiate smalltalk yourself! At the checkout, in a queue, waiting for the bus, wherever you go. Some people do go out of their way to strike up conversation, but remember that you are gonna want to be the assertive one.
/r/seduction21/12/18 06:08 PM
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It's cool that you got into the zone and owned your moment, but, as per the others, your post is written to gain validation. It's more of a showing off thing, with a very short 'summary' at the end to compensate for it. Showing off in disguise. Lose that, and just work on your game.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 05:44 PM
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I really hate meme culture. I think its a waste of life. The only thing you're doing with memes is showing each other that 'yes I'm funny' and 'yes we think alike'. And so many people my age do this stuff.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 05:40 PM
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If he sometimes posts stuff on Facebook, you use that as your hook. Comment something witty, he replies, another witty comment and you can transfer conversation to messenger. It's an easy switch. From there on out you already established witty banter, and that can easily develop into flirt.
/r/seduction16/12/18 12:43 PM
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Exactly. People vastly underestimate their bodies. Your brain is part of your body. Very simplified you can say, "your brain is inside your body, therefore your body is of bigger influence on your brain than the other way around. Of course it's more complex, but you bet the gist.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 08:56 AM
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Could be, but depression is more so caused by a bad diet. Lots and lots of people curing their anxiety or depression by changing their diets. Two questions. 1) why is everyone depressed nowadays? 2) why is everyone obese and cardiovascularly sick nowadays? Two sides of the same coin.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 01:29 AM
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Don't avoid meat, meat is very good for your neurons and brain.
/r/seduction11/12/18 02:50 PM
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Conversely: pick a schedule and stick to it. If, due to your working schedule, 2am-10am suits you best, pick that schedule. I suggest buying Swannies blue light blocking glasses for in the evening, and buying Luminette light therapy glasses for in the morning. Those two will adjust your rhythm so fast that you'll feel like a totally different person in just a week.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 08:20 PM
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That's cool!
/r/seduction22/09/18 05:06 PM
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The guys that don't know anything about seduction, are the ones that creep you out. The ones that are willing to learn seduction, are the ones that are trying their best at making good interaction with you. They might do it mostly for their own purpose, but the added advantage is that they're thinking about your viewpoint. And be fair: the more men learn seduction, the less bullshit/creepy interactions you'll have, and the better men you will encounter. Seduction isn't purely saying some witty l…
/r/seduction22/09/18 10:33 AM
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From my own experience, the internet and reddit are a goldmine for anxiety. You have all the resources and all the experiences in the world to pick apart, so that you yourself don't risk being exposed or failing at something. ​ The crutch is that reddit has also helped me grow. It's given me a better diet, for one. But at some point in your life, you ought to wonder whether you already possess enough knowledge to, from that point on, solely build onto it by experience. ​ For me, that point has c…
/r/seduction28/08/18 04:47 PM
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You're absolutely right. Reddit is great for learning new skills / diet info / gym routines etc etc, but most of us stay on reddit for too long reading 'new' experiences and thinking "if I just read one more piece, then I have enough information to act". It's mental masturbation. Thanks for showing me the mirror. I'm going to delete reddit off my phone to live in the real world again. Because, yes, experience is the best teacher. Good luck on your journey, cheers.
/r/seduction28/08/18 08:28 AM
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"put your number in my phone"
/r/seduction21/08/18 07:56 AM
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As someone struggling with RSD: what's your remedy for it in normal activities? Like I can get depressed when I get enough rejections in my line of work. It's not everyday and it depends on my mood, but it's there sometimes. I get this empty feeling from the RSD and don't feel motivation anymore to continue.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 07:20 PM
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Why take the time to complain for 10 minutes? You could've read 10 pages of a new book. Yes, inner game is amazing, and you should work on that. No, outer game is still as important because you will build character by learning to perform techniques on your off-days. Because you will have off-days. Also, hardly anyone is truly confident. Many people fake it by putting confidence in their persona. Many people didn't have confidence growing up. It's just that you weren't aware of that part of you y…
/r/seduction15/07/18 01:46 PM
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Take this advice from an aspergers-diagnosed guy whose successful in attracting beautiful women: Confidence, confidence, confidence. Its the number one thing aspergers are lacking. Secondly,: anxiety, anxiety, anxiety. Its the number one thing aspergers seem to have. I'd suggest the following steps to gain confidence, lose anxiety and attract girls. Eat very well. Your body is your temple and your minds vehicle. Read Ultramind Solution. Magnesium citrate + vitamin B6 (PLP-5) + Zinc picolinate, t…
/r/seduction02/07/18 11:15 AM
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Golden! Imma write this down real quick.
/r/seduction02/06/18 09:32 PM
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/u/daveyonebite has a point though he's a bit harsh. You have to actively approach in order to overcome your anxiety. I do want to give you advice about your state if mind: the thing is, if you think something is cool/funny/whatever and exude that energy, other people will absorb your energy en think its cool/funny/whatever as well! This also translates to your state of mind. If you think that your bothering the girls, they'll feel that energy and think the same thing: he's bothering us. If you …
/r/seduction02/06/18 11:36 AM
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Best advice
/r/seduction22/05/18 08:54 PM
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Hahah oops typo
/r/seduction21/05/18 07:28 PM
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I'll elaborate: met this girl at a party last Saturday. We kinda hit it off for 20 minutes but had to go seperate ways in the end. I hit her up on IG the day after and threw some witty comments and flirty banter. Not a lot of physical contact, but still she's interested. But I unfortunately won't be back for a few weeks. So in short I've had minimal interaction with her, she does show interest, but I'm thinking it will die off pretty soon if I don't go about this correctly.
/r/seduction21/05/18 06:09 PM
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I already am bro, but I just haven't had this kind of situation before where it can take 3/4 weeks between meeting and chilling! Thanks for the advice
/r/seduction21/05/18 06:04 PM
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Second one champ. I want to keep interest but don't come across as the dating and settling down type.
/r/seduction21/05/18 05:05 PM
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You sound more shy! Try to go for physical touch when you're close to each other, like stroking her hair or squeezing her shoulders shortly. Just start with a simple, short touch and increase throughout the interaction.
/r/seduction03/02/18 05:35 PM
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