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| 7 | Vent post on attitudes towards DV | misandry | orion-7 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/01/22 07:09 PM |
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| 2 | Economist: Height preferences in relationships are just as strong today as they were two decades agoIt also seems the tallest aren't picked. Average height is the winner here | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/06/26 06:49 PM |
| 19 | what the fuckHe's also a war criminal, he machinegunned German survivors in the water during ww1 | /r/EverydayMisandry | 22/06/26 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Ever noticed how the patriarchy is the only system of oppression to backfire on the "oppressor"?Eh, it's not the only one. The first victims of the British empire were the British working classes, who were displaced from their homes or killed multiple times throughout the empire/industrial revolution. Things like the peterloo massacre | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/26 05:10 PM |
| 21 | Good Response to the Video About Male BabysittersWomen lead in infanticide by a long margin | /r/EverydayMisandry | 05/05/26 07:45 AM |
| 1 | At what point should we start questioning evolutionary psychology perspective on the left wing male experience?Evo psych can only give broad trends. The edge cases and outliers you mention, those who exhibit different behaviours, area in fact necessary. Diversity of characteristics is a driving factor of evolution, so you'll always get those that buck the trend by nature. Nature is constantly generating new characteristics and "testing" them. Those that are beneficial, survive | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/04/26 09:30 AM |
| 3 | What’s wrong with a woman dating an older man if it’s an appropriate age gap?How have you moved the goal posts to young girls? We're taking about adults in their 20s, 30s and 40s. Those are not the same thing. I think you've mistaken what you have as "moral" rather than "moral panic" | /r/EverydayMisandry | 11/04/26 04:25 PM |
| 2 | What’s wrong with a woman dating an older man if it’s an appropriate age gap?Older women are lovely, sure, but if you dated one then by your standards they'd be a predator | /r/EverydayMisandry | 11/04/26 04:23 PM |
| 12 | Mostly Women, Like Women Are Mostly Assaulted by MenWe still don't have gender neutral rape laws, in the UK, that have a differently named crime that conveniently doesn't enter the rape stats | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/04/26 08:50 AM |
| 17 | Does the left not understand they're inadvertently validating what the manosphere has been saying about them when they make insults regarding men's bodies?People without legs take mobility devices from the more deserving people of size, this is literally erasure of fat people /s | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/03/26 07:18 PM |
| 63 | 'Evil' woman who used dating apps to meet men then falsely cried rape at least 19 TIMES faces jailMy dad found a woman desperately in need of help one night when driving home. He called the police and asked permission to pick her up and drive her to the station, and left the phone running as they drove. Only way to be safe | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/03/26 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Conscription Horror in Ukraine -and what you can do about it.Honestly, I think at this point that needs to happen to both the great federations. USA, russian fed, they all need breaking up | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/01/26 02:15 PM |
| 17 | Men parentingYes, let him learn. If your never let him parent without being there to give orders, then he'll never be able to parent without orders | /r/EverydayMisandry | 23/01/26 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Switzerland Has Voted to Not Draft WomenOh absolutely. Just thought people might be interested in the history | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/12/25 05:26 PM |
| 13 | Switzerland Has Voted to Not Draft WomenWe used to have that concept here in britain, called scutage. Nobles could pay a tax to hire a group of men militarily equivalent to a knight instead of going themselves, if they were infirm | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/12/25 11:40 AM |
| 2 | "Educate your son."Thank you very much | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/10/25 12:19 PM |
| 3 | "Educate your son."Can you link the source to this one? Because this sounds a really important argument for us to use | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/10/25 09:42 AM |
| 1 | This post frames suffering as a competitionWho wants to tell her the 1in6 stat? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/10/25 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Gosh, the replies on the second and third slides are horrible. the third one is especially brazen in tone.Plenty of both. And I'm amazed how many women, including those I know, will campaign against rape, but then say that the men in their lives either weren't raped, or deserved their rapes | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/09/25 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Gosh, the replies on the second and third slides are horrible. the third one is especially brazen in tone.It's horrific how many rape apologists are women. It's just weird how those ones will only accept if of it's their own who are doing it... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/09/25 09:42 AM |
| 8 | If men had period painMan imagine if we had shorter life expectancies or something and nothing was done about it | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/09/25 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Trans-man Shane: "Talking over others and not letting them talk is a masculine trait. It's toxic masculinity bullshit."Trans men are men | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/05/25 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Trans-man Shane: "Talking over others and not letting them talk is a masculine trait. It's toxic masculinity bullshit."I know one like this. I don't consider them to be a man, because they seem to think that they don't have these traits but they're inherent to cis men. Because either TMAM, and they're just as bad as us, or it's not in fact inherent and they're just a bigot, or it is inherent and they're therefore lacking the unifying trait of men. As they're so insistent that men are inherently evil but they are aren't, then they're denying that TMAM and so aren't a man. Someone like you who is on side and under… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/05/25 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Another Day, Another Insane GeneralizationNow imagine if that same straight guy on a night out did complement them. What would the reaction be? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/04/25 09:19 PM |
| 9 | What do we think of Starmer asking for adolescence to be shown in schools?It's funny how that works isn't it? I met someone who I thought had a nice body, but looked ugly. Got to know her a bit and within a few months she was irresistible to me, looking at her yielded nothing but beauty, because her personality and our friendship had influenced my very perception of her | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/25 08:35 PM |
| 20 | What do we think of Starmer asking for adolescence to be shown in schools?Which may well indeed create a self fulfilling prophecy, given how the kid in the show turned after a bad childhood and bullying | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/25 08:28 PM |
| 10 | Much like how Sarah Everard was the "perfect" crime for feminists to capitalize on when it comes to women's safety in public, what would be the equivalent for anti-misandrists along the lines of men being falsely accused or misinterpreted?Emmet Till. Falsely accused black man in the US who was lynched | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/03/25 04:29 PM |
| 18 | My "the convenience of not all men " theory is proven in these screenshots.When most of the crews are male and familiar with how safety equipment and possibly how to swim, whereas passengers who know nothing of maritime survival are a mix of men and women, it makes a lot more sense that the results are skewed | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/25 11:43 AM |
| 14 | My "the convenience of not all men " theory is proven in these screenshots.Let's not forget also that lightoller was very fast and loose with the law of the sea, having machinegunned sailors in the water during ww1 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/25 11:41 AM |
| 28 | My "the convenience of not all men " theory is proven in these screenshots.It also didn't originate with the titanic, it was the HMS Birmingham, a troop ship where all the men were stood to attention under orders as it went under, as the lifeboats left with their families | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/25 11:40 AM |
| 5 | My answer on why men actually hate feminism.The woman who raped me is an aggressive feminist, who will shriek about a guy hitting on her in a pub, but also complains that I "made her feel like a criminal". Yeah | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/03/25 08:31 AM |
| 1 | User who calls out double standards favoring women gets downvoted and called sexistBiologically there's no such thing as a fish. It's not any kind of viable classification | /r/EverydayMisandry | 22/02/25 04:25 PM |
| 1 | User who calls out double standards favoring women gets downvoted and called sexistExcept sharks aren't fish. -signed, two degrees in biology | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/02/25 07:59 AM |
| 4 | She is not going to find anyoneI know someone who would say shit like this. She raped me. Yet still goes on about how bad men are | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/02/25 12:26 AM |
| 50 | Some studies on female sexual aggressionIncredible isn't it that people still see this as a male only problem | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/02/25 01:40 PM |
| 4 | The unparalleled depravity, hypocrisy, and toxicity of these people is on full displayIt's remarkable isn't it, how posters like this trend to forget who the main caregiver tends to be. Who raises the majority of boys. Who massively dominates the education sector that teaches boys. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/01/25 03:23 PM |
| 28 | But..but MGM is not worse than FGM:There are multiple different kinds of fgm. The worst and rarest of which are unsurprisingly worse than MGM. However the most common is clitoral hood removal, which is exactly the same as male circumcision. However this is legally and morally classed as no different to full on clitoral excision despite the obvious increase in actual severity. So if even the least barbaric FGM is unacceptably barbaric, it holds that's MGM is just as bad | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/01/25 08:15 AM |
| 3 | Singlehood is "deserved" if you dont pay for coffeeAnd if he has a high body count he's an exploitative misogynist | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/01/25 12:50 PM |
| 11 | Why Does Reddit Allow Subs (the one with 15 Million women and others) That Promote Open Misandry?You know as well as I do that that'll result in at minimum a tirade of "why did you bring up men in a women's space", with the potential of a ban for heterodoxy | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/11/24 10:30 AM |
| 21 | Why Does Reddit Allow Subs (the one with 15 Million women and others) That Promote Open Misandry?Take a look at this conversation. Apparently they're "too small to be moderate correctly" https://www.reddit.com/r/science/s/egO44uFzMn | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/11/24 10:17 AM |
| 7 | Why do feminists feel the need to overinflate rape statistics? What's the real number?In my life anecdote out of my friends and social circle A broadly equal amount of each have been raped A broadly equal number of each sex perpetrated the crime. Same sex rapes were equally common for both sexes A slight tilt towards women on both categories but nowhere near high enough to be of significance considering the sample size. But the very fact there's parity, let alone the slight tilt, show that there's a serious problem with the way we focus only on male perps. This approach is harmin… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/10/24 11:46 AM |
| 2 | "Male Positivity"Overton window init. If a compromise like this can plant the seeds that "most men are actually good" behind a façade of buzzwords, then it's a necessary step. We're not going to make progress if people don't read things because they disagree. But if you can get them reading what they think they want to read, with seeds of a different viewpoint, this is how you affect change | /r/EverydayMisandry | 25/10/24 11:28 AM |
| 1 | "Male Positivity"I'm not gonna let perfect be the enemy of the good. If this is the kind of thing that gets through the Overton window and helps to shift perspectives then yes, I'll take it | /r/EverydayMisandry | 25/10/24 11:25 AM |
| 6 | “Women can’t rape men because law!”I bet this is the same kind of person who will say in the next breath "yes but men are a problem because the stats say only they commit rape" and not spark two brain cells together to realise that this law is the reason | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/10/24 01:05 PM |
| 6 | Feminist lies about male rape and domestic violence victims and other stuffAlso with a woman, you're forced to pay 20% of your income for 18 years as a fine for being raped | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/10/24 08:56 AM |
| 5 | “Rape apologists!”Best thing is when you mention those of us guys who've been raped by women. Somehow it either didn't happen or it's okay that it did, BUT they're still somehow not rape enablers or apologists. Make it make sense | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/09/24 11:43 AM |
| 14 | I’ve just found the most fucked up case of misandry in the mainstream media that I’ve ever seen… and nobody is talking about itIs it the one where the defence of "I'm too lazy to forcibly obtain sex" was used, and the article only shows her side of the story? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/08/24 08:26 PM |
| 8 | Misandry from the asexuality sub about not all men (please don’t start attacking asexuality as a concept here either)- as a woman on the ace spectrum who loves men and knows many wonderful ones, this hurt to seeIkr? The irony here is palpable. We don't like being generalised as men and having to "not all men" our way out, so let's not generalise women and make them "not all women" their way out. Let shitty people be shit based on their own actions | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/06/24 10:10 AM |
| 7 | I was telling my sister that I’d been engaging with lots of feminist groups *and* men’s rights groups, but she was saying she doesn’t think calling them men’s rights groups is the right terminology because there’s a lot of rights that men have had over the years that women haven’tSome women got the vote in the UK before most men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/24 09:15 AM |
| 28 | Misandry DOES KillIt's bizarre. Misandry driving men to suicide is the fault of the dead men for being weak Transphobia driving people (who at one point were men) to suicide is considered an act of violence tantamount to murder | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/05/24 09:07 AM |
| 5 | Thoughts on this?And therein lies the danger. I have friends, both male and female, who have been sexually assaulted or raped by cis women. I also have been raped by a woman. By viewing they problem as a problem isolated to men, and being hypervigilant to the point of paranoia over men, whilst viewing women as posing zero threat... Then that lets the female predators operate with impunity. The worst bit is that after the fact, the victims will struggle to find to terms with what happened to them because they hav… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/05/24 05:20 PM |
| 3 | I feel like when women fear men it’s viewed as normal and a okay response but not when a man does itBro, I've been where you are. And I'd I let my trauma and fear turn to anger and hate, I'd have missed out on half of the wonderful people in my life. It's natural to have this response at first. But most people are good. Most men aren't going to rape anyone, and neither are most women. People who hate an entire gender for the actions of a few rapists (especially when they themselves have never been raped) are fools, and they hurt themselves as badly as they hurt the innocent members of their ha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/05/24 02:21 PM |
| 1 | (Second response)- you could literally flip this on its head where men don’t know which women are dangerous. Of course assuming everybody from a particular gender as dangerous in the first place *is* extremely obtuse.Now say that about Muslims and terrorists and watch them say you're racist. And they'd be right. But they cannot see that these things are the same | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/05/24 11:28 AM |
| 3 | Rebel Wilson recently revealed she lost her virginity at 35, and she’s getting lots of praise for waiting- men who lose it at that age get the complete opposite reactionI don't think the aim is transphobia here. I think the aim is to be very clear that this man is given a free pass when the rest of us aren't. The emphasis is to show why he got a free pass at the time | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/04/24 08:54 AM |
| 3 | Men can’t have a laugh now…Yeah I'd be pissed if I'd already said don't do this. If you've agreed to it, fine. But yeah if you're going to ignore a very reasonable, clearly stated boundary on the first day of marriage... If doesn't exactly bode well for the rest of the marriage | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/03/24 11:54 AM |
| 13 | This is just my opinion now but this is about the whole “just push her off” mindset when it comes to male rape victims.That fear was worse than the rape. That my life was likely over as a free man, and certainly over if I fought back. In general, women don't seem to be able to grasp that part. Which like , in the case of violent rape yeah okay, I get it, the violence and fear of death is the worst part, which is generally recognised as "sometimes part of" the rape, as it were. That's notwithstanding whether one would rather die or be locked up and reputationally and financially destroyed as that's too personal p… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/03/24 03:23 PM |
| 5 | Can I just take a moment to say how lovely it is that a lot of us on here calling out this misandry are women?OP, thank you. Not just for your genuine desire to listen and understand, which is wonderful; but also by being here and speaking up like this you help demonstrate that the knee jerk misogyny that appears as a reaction to misandry in many subs is equally unfair and daft as the kneejerk misandry that you used to have as a reaction to misogyny. It helps show us that there's no sense in falling into generalisations, the same way you friend showed you. Most people in the world are trying to be good … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 22/02/24 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Slaves weren't allowed to fight during the civil warYes, to me that explains why it was such a problem for the 80% If it was 1% had slaves then the economy might have allowed competition? Individualy the slave owners would have been more powerful, but there would be fewer people able to exploit the slaves and so undercut the workers? Obviously it's all speculative as we can't go back and test it, but it seems like slavery fucks over everyone except the ultra rich members of the favoured race? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/01/24 10:57 AM |
| 9 | Slaves weren't allowed to fight during the civil warBad take. I actually really like your example of the draft having pairs of beliefs that mirror each other, but you seem to have misunderstood the class dynamics of the south. Most whites didn't own slaves. Those white workers were desperately poor because they had to price their labour against a captive class of unpaid slaves. Literally the only thing they could justify their wage was on was using the upper class' racism "yeah he can do the job for free, I'll charge. But ask yerself this: do you… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/01/24 08:51 AM |
| 5 | Structural deplorable results of MeToo, finally in figuresYeah I get where you're coming from, all makes sense. It's why Ive tried to avoid the word in my post, it's a slur and those keenest to adopt it seem to be indistinguishable from straight, and so they'll never be on the receiving end of a beating where that word is uttered | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/01/24 05:16 PM |
| 9 | Structural deplorable results of MeToo, finally in figuresHonestly? QM is actually pretty decent. It just depends on the writer you get on the day. They have a loose editorial policy so you actually get plurality of thought, something that's not permitted in a lot of LGBT spaces. They call themselves the queer majority as they broadly view the twitter loonies you hear most from as a loud minority who ate unrepresentative of what most LGBT people actually think. Of all the LGBT media outlets, this one is actually sane and seems to want to improve condit… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/01/24 02:55 PM |
| 12 | Men and consentMood, same here | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/01/24 04:30 PM |
| 22 | I believe Men are severally underrepresented in animated media that challenges sexism.That's an interesting point. When you consider the idea behind all the race swapped Disney characters is that "it's vital to make sure that young black girls can see themselves in characters", why does that only apply to race and not sex? If it's true for one, it's true for another, so why are young boys not getting relatable role models in such films? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/12/23 01:08 PM |
| 0 | Boys are falling behind in education because of their testicles apparentlyBecause you've eaten the entire onion. This is a joke based on a pre-Victorian belief about women and their wombs | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/09/23 07:29 PM |
| 12 | Thoughts on these studies claiming men are at fault for women divorcing men?I mean, I had couples therapy and wasn't at all one sided. It was zero blame, simply recognising where we were failing to communicate, and helping us match our communication styles | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/08/23 03:59 PM |
| 15 | What's up with Feminists claiming that women are mostly unfazed by muscular men?Course you're welcome here :) This isn't a male only space, it's just a space to discuss men's problems without being dunked on for how we were born. There's no dunking in your post so you're good as far as I'm concerned. That's a really odd set of reactions, even by Reddit standards though | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/08/23 03:41 PM |
| 52 | Question for the peeps in this sub: Do you want the bonding nature of men to change for the better or should we respect the way most men socialize, but encourage more “bromance” culture?Have you heard the phrase "women talk face to face, men talk shoulder to shoulder"? I find it's a really helpful description to people who don't get it. The idea that when men have a deep conversation, it's not the "main" thing they're doing. They'll be working, or some other activity together. And through that, they gain emotional support and processing. And through this mechanism, much can go unspoken, yet be understood. But a lot of these opportunities are gone as society changes, and now a l… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/05/23 09:27 AM |
| 28 | After Student’s Suicide, an Elite School Says It Fell ‘Tragically Short’Worth pointing out just how much filler text there was before the paper finally mentioned why exactly he felt the need to kill himself | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/05/23 06:29 AM |
| 14 | lack of sexual violence warning in Beau is AfraidPreaching to the choir :( I fully agree with you, was just telling what the film shows as the girl's motivation, and how fucked up it is. It's Iran levels of "you were raped, that's adultery so die" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/23 11:13 AM |
| 20 | lack of sexual violence warning in Beau is AfraidDoubly so as she wants him burned for cheating on her. Yet to get him to cheat on her, the cult fed him loads of drugs and basically roofied him into impregnating one of their members. It's extreme victim blaming | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/23 08:01 AM |
| -6 | "men aren't men anymore"That has similarities to how I view it. Some males aren't men. They're boys who never achieved manhood despite their age. These are people who weaponise weakness/incompetence, or who lack any emotional regulation (be it always crying, or be it always angry in a parody of manhood). You can be weak and be a man. You can have emotions and be a man. Are you forcing those issues on others? You're a child. A mere boy. The same applies to women/girls, but my lines are less clear as I'm not one so don't… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/23 10:24 AM |
| 1 | is sex really a sign of status?Yeah you've got the right of it. They might be having sex now, but with no education and a small town, along with being wankers, their future dating options will drop FAST. They'll be alone and prospectuses by 30. Whereas you've got more options, able to change towns because of your education, a stake income. Sex won't be a problem for you later. They're smoking pure copium with their insults, because they've already peaked | /r/MenSupportMen | 05/12/22 02:38 PM |
| 44 | "ENOUGH" - UK Gov pulls a Gillette (yes, *another* one)I got an advert "worried about abusive behaviour?" I clicked it, because yes, I am worried. I have a family member in an abusive situation and want to help him. The link led to that website. Basically saying "admitting you have a problem is the first t step" No you fuckers, I'm trying to stop a woman abusing a man , not myself. Found my way through the site to "help a victim" and it was all for women and girls | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/10/22 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Shower thought: If a woman lies about her intentions during sex, for example by secretly not wanting to have sex, does that mean the guy was unable to give informed consent, and was raped?I've had it where someone pulled this. And it fucked me up hard tbh | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/10/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Meat, masculinity and bullshitSo, I'm male and vegan, and in my experience is men who get offended when they find out. Add to that the popularity of soy memes on the internet "soy contains phytoestrogens so therefore vegans get sissified" and for once, I can actually vaguely agree with them | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/09/22 12:12 AM |
| 8 | "Happy Wife Happy Life" is the relationship version of trickle down economics.My relationship counselor was excellent. Focused on communication efficacy target than behaviours. So like, when we argued, she pointed out that quote often we were actually agreeing with each other, but had such different styles of communication that we thought we were disagreeing, and so had pointless arguments that couldn't be resolved. Likewise, where we thought we agreed on certain things, she pointed out that due our styles, we actually meant totally different things; which led to frustrat… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/22 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Gender experts finally admit the obvious: "toxic masculinity" is harmful languageThanks, I've been trying to vocalise this forever! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/06/22 11:35 AM |
| 5 | UK: Turns out that not only are women exempt from rape charges but the maximum sentencing for sexual assault is much lowerThat's just how English laws are written Everyone is a he | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/05/22 07:06 AM |
| 5 | On the topic of dress codes...Which begs the question about bathroom genders. As someone who dresses in a manor, I find it abhorrent when the riffraff use the Gentleman's toilet. No title, no gentlemen. Peasants out of our bathrooms | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/05/22 09:42 PM |
| 21 | this article is seriously one of the most disturbing things I've ever read, she thinks that even defending any man is conditioned into her by "patriarchy" and also seems to think that more masculine women should reject it just based on the fact that masculinity is associated with menSo it's clearly man the gender, not man the sex that's at fault. Except "but then I think of my trans man friends" as If they couldn't possibly be abusive. So either #notallmen is correct, or site doesn't think her trans man friends are real men I say pose that question to her on twitter, and watch the mob cancel her whichever way she what's | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/01/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Coming up with an alternative phrase for "incel"?Wait really? I'm which case I retract. I didn't realise there were knock on effects | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/01/22 10:18 AM |
| -2 | Coming up with an alternative phrase for "incel"?Ah, see I saw that in your initial part of your post, but later on I read it as falling into Incel (capital I for the subculture) talking points | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/01/22 05:51 PM |
| -2 | Coming up with an alternative phrase for "incel"?The problem is that at its core; what would solve your problem is getting laid. And there's no ethical way of doing that other than legalising prostitution. Rejection sucks, but what your asking imo isn't in line with the sub goals. This sub focuses mainly on negative rights, with a equality with women on positive rights. What you're asking for is a positive right, with a massive investment from someone else; and unequal to boot. If you expand your problem to include "lack of intimate companions… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/01/22 12:17 PM |
| 6 | LWMA Lounge January 2022moved from main sub at mod request Just a vent post after I got absolutely dragged , then caught a 30 day mute in a FB group after objecting to a joke about an FoM domestic violence victim Comments included "It's necessary to joke about men being advice abused because we're called hysterical and ignored when we are abused" "Yeah it would be wrong if men and women were on the same power level" "Yeah but society accepts and laughs at women who are domestic abuse victims" "Women victims of DV are t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/01/22 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Vent post on attitudes towards DVOh brilliant. Thanks, didn't know about that | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/01/22 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Vent post on attitudes towards DVSure. What's the lounge though? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/01/22 12:13 AM |
| 14 | Encanto: Does putting the expectations of masculine gender roles onto a woman perhaps help them make better sense to a general audience biased toward sympathy for women?Wow. Good catch. That summarises very well However, the tricky part is that if you raise it, you'll just get victim blamed that "it's patriarchy that says you have to be this way" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/12/21 03:13 PM |
| 1 | I hate how sexism and body shaming is accepted against men in leftist subredditsMight be crossed wires here, the commentyou replied to used an example of "White" alongside Christian. So I assumed we were talking about inherent characteristics too | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/12/21 02:50 PM |
| 2 | I hate how sexism and body shaming is accepted against men in leftist subredditsI don't think groups defined by innate characteristics can be guilty of anything | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/12/21 02:09 PM |
| 8 | Help us rewrite the agenda on male suicide research.Ouch. Old psych wounds are bleeding, but I've given my full account. As the poster above states, this feminist led awareness campaign going on is harmful. The lens it uses turns the whole thing into a victim blaming game. It's our fault, we oppress other mem for not being manly and stoic. Honestly it's a bad caricature of men, as seen by someone who isn't one. Some men don't talk, and that's okay. We have our ways of supporting them. A hand on the shpulder, arrive by side work, slowly letting th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/12/21 04:40 AM |
| 4 | RIP Bell HooksI didn't get it either. I assumed it was a podcast or YouTube channel | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/12/21 11:11 AM |
| 4 | It's November already, and International Men's Day is right round the corner! Are you ready to help make #️InternationalMensDay trend worldwide? We've made you some leaflets! All you have to do is hang them up, take a picture/video, and share it on social media with the hashtag!I can believe it, just within my own gfriend group that ratio checks out. Of the women, all were raped by Of the men, two thirds were raped by women | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/11/21 03:22 PM |
| 2 | What are your wounds?Oh fuck, are you me? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/11/21 11:40 AM |
| 3 | What are your wounds?Get that boat, live your dream life. A happy man is an attractive man | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/11/21 11:39 AM |
| 10 | what do we think of this spiking story?Having been there myself, it's hard to use it myself, let alone get people to believe me or take it seriously | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/10/21 03:16 PM |
| 2 | I don't think I can handle living as an ugly man.Yeah, some of the worst looking men I know have such beautiful and lovely girlfriends and wives. Because they're well rounded, genuinely nice, competent people. And that got most of that through making mistakes, and leaning from them, growing as people. I also know handsome men who can't get more than a one night stand because they're completely useless | /r/MenSupportMen | 21/10/21 11:35 PM |
| 1 | I don't think I can handle living as an ugly man.This, 100% | /r/MenSupportMen | 21/10/21 11:32 PM |
| 3 | The state of videogames and the impact on boys and young menOooh shit. Yeah that's not acceptable | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/10/21 10:22 PM |
| 2 | The state of videogames and the impact on boys and young menWhat lines? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/10/21 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Autogynephilia, "Transmaxxing" and Chris-chan Are men transitioning to escape male gender roles?Yes, we're expected to make the first move, but in the context of the study, where contact was made, it was irrespective of looks. It's two different issues | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/08/21 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Autogynephilia, "Transmaxxing" and Chris-chan Are men transitioning to escape male gender roles?To nitpick one point, you're OkCupid study does say 80% are found below average, bit also that women have no problems initiation contact with them regardless. That pretty much results in zero net impact in the dating world, even if it's bruising to self esteem | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/08/21 11:27 AM |
| 4 | Providing for children, increasing equality, and why arguments for forcing men into parenthood are bullshit | Paternal SurrenderAlso a good point. Well, that's all my arguments down, I'm going to carefully consider and revaluate my position on this | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/08/21 09:44 PM |
| -2 | Providing for children, increasing equality, and why arguments for forcing men into parenthood are bullshit | Paternal SurrenderThat's a baseless assumption of malice, and the sort of talk that's getting us targeted | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/08/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Providing for children, increasing equality, and why arguments for forcing men into parenthood are bullshit | Paternal SurrenderI read your title and wanted to kneejerk react, but honestly I can respect your position, even if I don't fully agree with it. Your careful consideration of state safety nets eliminates a lot of problems I was going to bring up in a way that I hadn't considered, so thank you for that. However I feel that the idea of surrender is detrimental to the child, having no paternal figure correlates alarmingly with negative outcomes when taken en mass; so I'm not fully on board. But still, good post | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/08/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Women don't feel safe going outside... but I don't either?To help you with this https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/sexual-victimization-by-women-is-more-common-than-previously-known/ | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/08/21 09:01 PM |
| 7 | Women don't feel safe going outside... but I don't either?Pure victim blaming | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/08/21 08:58 PM |
| 10 | Women don't feel safe going outside... but I don't either?Exactly. I keep seeing "we're justified in our hate because {X group} oppresses us, they deserve it" They Nazi propaganda machine worked overdrive to convince an entire country that this logic applied to the Jewish people | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/08/21 11:30 AM |
| 3 | What does being a man mean to you?Basically this, but with the change that if that stereotype is true to yourself, then it's fine. Toxic masculinity is only that when it's enforced on others. | /r/MenSupportMen | 06/08/21 04:14 PM |
| 2 | What does being a man mean to you?Honestly? Don't worry about it. There's no one way to be a man, and most males I know, myself included don't "feel like a man" in any particular sense. They just exist, and are true to themselves. And that my friend is the manliest thing you can do | /r/MenSupportMen | 06/08/21 03:58 PM |
| 3 | What are some thoughts on this statement?Good point | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/21 10:34 AM |
| 2 | What are some thoughts on this statement?Is that controlled for actually single parent, or is it assuming that lesbian households are equivalent? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/21 08:48 AM |
| 3 | LWMA official statement regarding recent comments on MensLibHe said it! He said Jehova! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/07/21 09:08 AM |
| 7 | Is it true that men are the vast majority of rapists?That was an interesting read, thanks. Also interesting couching of the findings at the end | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/07/21 09:36 AM |
| 18 | Why does my right to get a wedding cake from a single shop so important to people than my right to seek refuge in literally every DV shelter ever?Because liberation isn't about you. Liberation isn't about rights and improving things anymore. Its about brand and image | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/07/21 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Being a woman who challenges feminist views is pretty funny sometimes.That would be fine. Except that's just the tip. The whole critical theory family of philosophy stems from the field of postmodernism. One of the key tenets of this is that there is no such thing as objective reality. Now, that point is arguable, so we'll leave it be. Secondly, there is the second concept that all "sanctioned" means of knowledge production are predicated on the maintenance of power structures. So if you've ever heard anything like "science is white supremacist", that's where it c… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/07/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | On Men, Gender Conformity, and Woke Spaces.Also yes, thanks for expanding | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/06/21 02:16 PM |
| 9 | On Men, Gender Conformity, and Woke Spaces.Its really annoying. Because those words used to have actual meanings, that corresponded to to real things. Fragile masculinity used to be men kicking off when something was implied against their maleness. Emotional labour referred to women acting as a domestic chargehand, organising and delegating chores as well as doing the chores say, 50:50 split with the husband. Male privilege used to be massively advantageous. Now all these things have been warped into making mountains out of molehills. Fr… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/06/21 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Another example of LGBT communities grappling with this idea that men are evil, and how that belief is harmful to gay and trans men: "I'm trans and could date women but I don't want to subject them to that and make them suffer"Its the problem with generalising with small populations isn't it? Like, I only know one omab enby, and what you describe of escaping culpability is their actual stated reason, just in fluffier terms. But that's a reason to dislike the person, not Assume it applies to a whole group | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/06/21 11:29 AM |
| -1 | Deradicalising hateful incelsI'm glad you're alright king. But yeah, don't write yourself off now, it's not a magic Y factor. Honestly, and I suspect this will be controversial advice; but if it's safe to where you live, hire a sex worker, and be honest with them that you're new to all this. It sounds daft, but jumpstarting your engine, so to speak, with someone who's an expert will dramatically improve your chances later on with other women because now your stakes aren't so high. But yeah, stay safe, and I believe in you | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/05/21 08:19 PM |
| 0 | Deradicalising hateful incelsOkay, I was a really awkward kid at school. Didn't go wild at uni, no one night stands. I hit 25 and since then I've been with enough partners that I'm now a shade above average for my age/generation in terms of numbers, at about 1-2 partners a year. If you told me that would happen ten years ago I'd have laughed in your face. Because that kind of progress never happens to guys like us, right? Except it did. I grew into my frame, found my style, found confidence. And my dating life turned around… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/05/21 07:57 PM |
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