orographicallyfaded Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
42	Not feeling needy feels GREAT, try it sometime!	Field Report	orographicallyfaded	/r/seduction	27/10/21 04:28 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Most Effective & Creative Quick Openers? "....id be kickin myself for the rest of the day if I didn't find out if the contents match the package."	/r/seduction	29/10/21 04:21 PM
1	Not feeling needy feels GREAT, try it sometime! I have friends and people to talk to, but I don’t have the gift of gab. I’m sure you know the type of people who can just talk and talk and talk. There are ways you can extend a conversation and I’m learning how to do that. When you’re with someone for 6 years, you don’t really casually talk to other women as much, and also the things you talk about with an SO are different than what you talk about to a stranger you’re into.	/r/seduction	28/10/21 12:19 PM
2	Not feeling needy feels GREAT, try it sometime! I’ve been reading “don’t overshare.” I don’t think you’re wrong with what you’re saying here, I probably did talk to her too much. Appreciate your comment :)	/r/seduction	28/10/21 12:13 PM
2	Not feeling needy feels GREAT, try it sometime! Haha, I like that. I deleted her number and she texted back so I waited for a couple hours and matched her energy. Already over it 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/seduction	27/10/21 11:15 PM
7	Not feeling needy feels GREAT, try it sometime! When you’re into someone and they’re into you, it just happens. I don’t disagree with you though.	/r/seduction	27/10/21 11:13 PM
2	Not feeling needy feels GREAT, try it sometime! If you're avoiding your own thoughts and being alone, you may be avoiding something and it might be subconscious. Ok let me preface this by saying I don't assume this about you, but maybe reframing your perspective could help you WANT to learn how to be happy by yourself.. "If you don't want to spend time alone with you why would someone else?" I understand this doesnt directly translate because you're probably fun to be around one on one and I'm sure you have people in your life who want to be …	/r/seduction	27/10/21 09:37 PM
1	Not feeling needy feels GREAT, try it sometime! There is no simple, short answer. I think in general I was always sort of ok being by myself. I had more of an anxious attachment style though. Self-love and being present were the two things I really gained understanding of through my breakup. Simply being happy for being alive! Yes, it is actually amazing we're all here and have the complex thoughts and emotions we have. You can take it for granted or you can make a point to truly appreciate its magnitude. Another thing that helped me be more …	/r/seduction	27/10/21 05:57 PM
5	Not feeling needy feels GREAT, try it sometime! The Reddit community helped me a lot during my breakup. The way I feel right now is new to me, and it feels really good to not care the way I would have used to. The me 2 years ago would be obsessing over what I did wrong, why did she just stop talking to me, trying to over-compensate and text her more. Now I'm just taking the hint and moving on. It feels good to feel this way, like I don't need her. I'd imagine there are others who would like to feel that way and they may not even know they nee…	/r/seduction	27/10/21 05:08 PM