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75

Reading your responses in here it’s clear you’re not respecting yourself.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 11:45 PM
2

Yeah, and they all have sociology, lit, history, psychology, and anything ending in “studies” degrees, while you’re going to be an engineer. Grind in your career, grind in the gym, force yourself to be more sociable, and slay puss. You’re 22 man. You haven’t missed anything yet. Plus, lifelong friends from college is mostly a myth. Once people go separate ways, the friendship typically goes too. It’s just life.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 12:04 PM
15

But that’s not what you were asking. As he said, the more fit you are yourself, the more likely you’ll attract a fit woman, therefore not needing to necessarily look for foreign women.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 12:02 PM
5

The point is, you don’t say it being serious. You say it jokingly with a smile on your face. I’ve used some variation of this (“uh oh, I don’t think we’re gonna work out”) many times to good effect, as it gets the woman to qualify herself to you.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/21 02:48 PM
1

If you’re looking for values: honor, leadership, integrity, courage, protection, provision, strength.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 11:41 AM
4

If you enjoy it, eat it.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 03:17 PM
2

This is all that needs to be said.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 06:16 PM
2

Not funny, but kind of funny
/r/askTRP25/05/21 03:16 AM
2

“Leaving her more damaged than she already was.” Who cares. She’s responsible for her own actions, not you. She made her own choices. She has to live with the consequences. Get this line of thinking out of your head.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:40 AM
1

Thank you
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:39 PM
6

Ignore her. Give her the “space” she wants. Then recalibrate your mindset. You DEER’ed, you apologized, you got her a gift. This was all wrong. Your text explaining that you were still out at the event was appropriate enough and sufficient. If she was 100% into you, she would welcome this, and honestly it would’ve turned her on, seeing you on your mission and grinding. Your value in her eyes had already deteriorated long before this incident. Get back on your purpose and find other girls.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 12:04 PM
1

This. Its what I do. It doesn’t always work, but you know she’s interested when it does.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 11:54 AM
8

Typically, once it’s flipped, it stays that way.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:05 PM
3

It’s been a long time since I’ve read it, but what Glover is against is establishing covert contracts with women. You’re right it’s transactional. Nice guys do things for women in hopes of getting sex in return. When you do something to help out your boys, it’s because they’re your boys, and you’d do anything for them, and they for you. I don’t think you can confuse the transactional nature with which betas help women, and someone helping a friend out because they’re a good man, and that’s what …
/r/askTRP20/05/21 01:20 PM
2

“It’s a red flag and you know it.” Answered your own question.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 06:26 PM
3

Who cares what you call it. Meet and proceed as usual.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 06:25 PM
1

Dick and dip.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 06:24 PM
1

That’s why when I initiate a meet up I say something like, “Let’s grab drinks soon so we can get to know each other better in person.” Strike first.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 06:15 PM
4

“Dubai Porta Potty”
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:11 PM
1

They know
/r/askTRP16/05/21 06:52 AM
7

Who fucked her later that evening?
/r/askTRP15/05/21 12:28 AM
4

Why did you delete the post you made earlier today asking the exact same question?
/r/askTRP13/05/21 06:41 PM
1

So, if you’re meeting tomorrow, text one more time to finalize logistics for meeting up, then leave it at that until you meet. Don’t overtext.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:49 PM
1

Timeline?
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:24 PM
10

Nothing wrong with preferring long-term relationships over hookups. Not with this woman though. That doesn’t mean you settle for any old tinder ho. Yes, you’re being insecure. Incredibly. “Everything was good.” Are you serious? This is a mess, and you have massive oneitis. You got her on tinder, so I’m assuming she’s not the only one you’ve pulled. You need to fuck some other girls and get over your oneitis, and give this one back to the streets. You’re not “throwing away something good.” She wi…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:21 PM
1

When are you able to meet?
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:12 PM
2

“Dubai porta-potty” is a thing for a reason. In this case, Dubai dudes were literally giving her “all this shit.”
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:06 PM
7

Have you fucked this girl yet? Are you getting beer for when you all hang out or what? Regardless, you’re overthinking this. A simple, “I’ll think of something” will suffice. Then, hang out, smash beers, and smash puss.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:02 PM
1

You just put words in my mouth. I never said that all divorced women are “living high,” but the narrative that divorced men make out better than woman, is patently false, and frankly laughable. Having your children ripped from you, and then weaponized against you by a bitter woman, losing your house and half your assets, and lifelong alimony are not anomalies.
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/21 12:53 PM
1

Lol. A lot to learn.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 12:33 PM
1

Why did she get fired?
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:34 AM
4

If things are going well, and she’s being good, adding value to your life, and making it easier, then no reason to not continue down this path (if you can mentally get over it). There’s no need to rush things. Just keep vetting and take it slow, while enjoying her.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:24 AM
1

I bet you thought you proved something with that heavily researched, statistically accurate article from legalzoom.com didn’t you?
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/21 02:59 AM
8

Since when have women taken “financial hits” from divorce? More accurately, it’s akin to winning the lottery.
/r/AntiFeminists09/05/21 11:43 PM
9

Next. She’s not interested.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 08:50 PM
2

Yes, bad idea.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 08:39 PM
7

Good luck fucking.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 07:44 PM
8

Whey
/r/askTRP30/04/21 07:43 PM
2

It’s typically taken alongside trt to help men remain fertile when their natural production shuts down. Never heard of it being taken as a stand alone.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 07:03 PM
9

They’re already here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 09:24 PM
1

Ain’t that the truth
/r/askTRP20/04/21 08:18 PM
2

Go ahead and lose the opportunity to go on a date with a woman you’re interested in because you’re worried if it looks “alpha” or not.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 08:12 PM
17

Larry always gets em wet,
/r/askTRP19/04/21 06:19 PM
2

Psychopathic energy
/r/askTRP19/04/21 06:12 PM
2

If you want to have a kid, then why wouldn’t you want to raise it? This doesn’t make sense. Have a kid for the sake of having a kid?
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:42 AM
1

If your girl and this friend spend a lot of time together, be very worried. Females rub off on each other like you wouldn’t believe. It’s only a matter of time.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:30 AM
1

Iron Rule #7
/r/askTRP18/04/21 06:38 AM
1

I think she meant 1.5 weeks
/r/askTRP18/04/21 04:37 AM
22

Never argue with a woman. Even the sane ones.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 04:26 AM
5

Without knowing the dynamic of your previous conversations, on the surface this is a compliment. Although most females will deny it outwardly, they’re attracted to this type of man. It’s pre-selection. Remember girls want to be with men who other women want to fuck. Play off her comments with amused mastery, don’t outright acknowledge that’s she’s correct, and whatever you do, don’t deny it either. Let her think she’s correct and you’ll caffeinate the hamster.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 02:58 AM
2

Now, ask her to tell you about the other 20 flings.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 06:30 PM
1

Why would you fuck a girl that you’re not physically attracted to?
/r/askTRP17/04/21 03:48 AM
2

The public school system, in addition to what others have said.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 03:47 AM
19

Best thing that ever happened to me. A true joy that you cannot fully put into words. That said, this is true and it’s gospel: “The most important decision a man will make, is who he decides to make the mother of his children.”
/r/askTRP15/04/21 02:00 AM
2

Yikes
/r/askTRP15/04/21 01:58 AM
1

Those were shit tests and you failed. I’ve used these three responses in the past with success: “No worries, I’m saving myself for marriage anyway.” (Amused mastery) “We just met and you’re already thinking about having sex with me?” (flipping it back on her) “I’m not that easy. You’re going to have to wine and dine me first.” Then proceed as you were with escalation.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 01:00 PM
2

Rainman levels of autism.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 02:29 PM
1

Either make a comment about something you see in her room or don’t even acknowledge it. In the past when this has happened to me, I’ve simply responded, “Hey, how’s it going?” Whatever you do, don’t simp over a ho that sent the same pic to 10 other dudes. Stand out from them. Plus, don’t validate these hoes.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:20 AM
1

You should’ve A&A the “confused about a relationship” bs.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:11 AM
1

Amen
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:09 AM
1

Bro
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:05 AM
2

Zero
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:44 AM
2

Will you elaborate?
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:39 AM
1

Yep. This. RP incompatible with modern progressivism.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:32 AM
2

This means you’re letting a girl that you’re not even fucking have influence over your life.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 02:27 PM
3

How long have you been together? How long were you together where she wasn’t worried about being so “careful” with her phone? Continue to observe carefully over the next few weeks, but it’s a red flag no doubt. If it continues, or gets worse, something is definitely up.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:41 PM
4

I’d hate to see the responses. Let me guess, you’d get majorly shamed for having standards as a man.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:33 PM
2

She wanted to fuck. Always, always remember: “rejection is better than regret.” You’re feeling regret right now. Go for it!
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:55 PM
25

This question pops up here almost everyday. It just goes to show that men have a hardwired, biological, innate disgust towards commitment with women who have slept around.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:07 PM
1

It’s not simping to let a woman serve you, the exact opposite, actually. That is you “being the man.” Plus, it makes them feel good to serve an alpha. Let them.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 12:25 AM
1

Nofap? Never heard of it.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 02:29 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/askTRP28/03/21 06:22 PM
4

Lowers testosterone
/r/askTRP28/03/21 06:19 PM
1

You’re correct. Couple the kegels with breathing. Correct breathing is a big aspect of stamina.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:15 PM
2

It was a shit test, she even acknowledged that it was a shit test, and you failed. You didn’t maintain frame but admitted that it bothered you. It’s fine that it bothered you, but never let her know. You should’ve played it off confidently and cocky. If you had frame before, it definitely took a massive hit by showing weakness. The tests are now gonna come hot and heavy to see what you’re made of. Anyway, if she’s constantly bringing up other guys to you- red flag.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 02:19 PM
2

Pretty early on, actually. Once you understand the breathing techniques you can immediately apply them when having sex. Obviously, you’ll have more control the longer you practice, but the introductory benefits should be immediate.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 02:12 PM
2

Stamena app
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:18 AM
1

Train her
/r/askTRP22/03/21 11:27 PM
5

Bro, you did it to yourself.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 11:26 PM
8

“Let’s finish what we started.”
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:38 AM
3

Then just be aggressive. The worst she can say is no. Tell her the name of the food place, and then pivot tell her that you want to get to know her in person over drinks and suggest a place/time. Rejection is better than regret. But, i agree, that I don’t think this chick is interested.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:35 AM
2

You became the woman by pursuing commitment. Be masculine again. If you really want to ltr her, give her bits of comfort here and there, especially after sex. This doesn’t mean be beta, but subtle reassurance. If it’s true she’s only seeing you, then most likely if the comfort is there again, she’ll eventually hit you back up with the talk and you can go from there.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:58 AM
39

She does things for you. Volunteers to do things and errands for you. Buys you random gifts. Cooks for you. Cleans for you. Initiates sex on her own. Wants to please you. Hates to displease you. Submissive. Follows your lead. Looks to you for guidance. I could go on, but you get the point.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:52 AM
0

Is it a date-worthy spot? If so, tell her where it is and that you want to show it to her. Then suggest a date and time.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:49 AM
3

So you’re basically demoting her to a sometimes fwb?
/r/askTRP16/03/21 04:14 PM
4

If you’re not feeling it anymore, then you’re not feeling it anymore. Why offer to keep seeing her if you don’t really want to? Break up, and go date this other girl.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:31 PM
5

Maybe with your boys (I still wouldn’t), but women view it as weak and unattractive. Also, why put yourself down? In my opinion, it shows a lack of confidence and a low view of oneself. This doesn’t mean you can’t take a joke, or take yourself too seriously. My friends will rag on me, and I them. If you can dish it out, you should be able to take it, but there’s a difference between purposely putting yourself down for laughs, and rolling with the jokes from others.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:25 PM
8

You’re simping. She blocked you, then you texted her, and called her.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:10 PM
3

Don’t be self-deprecating like that.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:06 PM
3

This is the definition of solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 09:18 PM
2

The only thing a period ever stopped was a sentence.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 02:09 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 06:37 PM
2

Pleasant, gentle, not loud or brash
/r/askTRP21/02/21 07:47 AM
1

Why lose your cool, and show your emotions, over a crazy ho? Laugh it off.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 03:25 PM
9

“Weight”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/21 04:32 PM
10

If she talks about others, she’ll talk about you. Still smash and dash, but not ltr worthy.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:30 PM
2

How old are you all?
/r/askTRP05/02/21 01:14 PM
1

Nice. Don’t overtext and ruin it. Two days is a long time in the mind of as fickle a creature as a woman.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:50 AM
1

Nice. Don’t overtext and ruin it. Two days is a long time in the mind of as fickle a creature as a woman.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:50 AM
2

Stick her panties in her mouth and fuck her.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:43 AM
2

The sad truth is, a lot of the posts aren’t trolls. Take a look around, or jump on social media for 5 minutes, and you’ll see the sad, sad state of men in 2021. I believe a lot of these questions, while yes pathetic, are genuine, and if they’re genuinely turning here for advice, I want to give them the best advice I can. Whether they take it or not, is up to them. Where else can they turn to if not here?
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:41 AM
3

Someone here has already said it. The men here, and your bros, respect your honesty, the fight, and the struggle to overcome. Women literally couldn’t give a shit about what men overcome. They don’t want to hear about the journey, they just want to see the success. They will not sympathize with you and reignite their attraction. Let these go. Stay clean and get some more. Good luck.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:36 AM
1

His book “Bang” is out of print now that he went full Christian. He pulled it, but I’m sure you can still find a used copy somewhere. It’s a little dated, but it has great practical information on going on dates and escalating, if you need help with that. Also, the opening section on inner-game is excellent, and drives home the point that you are the prize. I can’t vouch for any of his other books, but I’d say that one is worth a read if you can get your hands on it.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:31 AM
2

At the moment, you shouldn’t be thinking about plating her. That’s not even a possibility until you fuck her. You should be thinking about getting her to your place, and any logistics involved. You’re looking too far ahead. Think short term and close the deal. Make sure it’s a good experience for you both, where she wants more. THEN it’ll be time to think about making her a plate. To answer your question- keep it short, don’t turn into her girlfriend, or she could lose attraction and it’ll all b…
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:18 AM
1

Leave them
/r/askTRP04/02/21 09:10 PM
11

If you haven’t fucked, then you currently already are an orbiter.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 08:18 PM
3

If you meet up, it will literally do you no good, and no favors. You are correct that she will most likely use this opportunity to let loose on you. Her saying that “she deserves it” is classic female all the way. You already told her why- you don’t see yourself with her long-term. That’s good enough and honest, to boot. If she won’t leave you alone, you may need to block.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 08:15 PM
22

A girl said this to me once over text, asking me to be a little more gentle. Instead of saying, “sorry, it won’t happen again,” I responded, “sure, no problem.” I played it off cool, and it worked.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:23 PM
2

I am now in my late 30’s. I adamantly avoided fiction for 15 years. I thought my reading time was better spent on non-fiction. Actually, I still agree with that in theory, but it wasn’t until a couple of years ago when I picked up my first novel in those 15 years, that I regretted avoiding literature. It was a massive hole in my learning. Only you can decide where your time is best spent in reading, and I’d advise you to choose subjects and topics that you’re interested in, or have a deficiency …
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:19 PM
1

If she knows that it makes you uncomfortable and does it anyway, it means she doesn’t respect you. I would say just treat her like a plate, but it sounds like you caught feelings for her. You’ve also been amog’d by a gay dude. Work on your frame, big-time.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 03:46 PM
3

These hoes are wild.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:34 PM
1

Did not give a fuck.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:31 PM
8

If they’re a plate/slut/bitch, then yes, that’s what I see them as. They belong to the streets. If they’re an ltr, then it’s ok, and even necessary to have some emotional connection with them, especially if you want her to stay. The problem with most men is that they get too emotional, and this leads them to be needy, supplicating, and showering them with too much affection, compliments, etc. 80% alpha/20% beta is a good rule of thumb. If she’s losing interest when you do this, it’s a sign you’r…
/r/askTRP29/01/21 05:12 PM
1

I’m glad it works for her, but that has not been my experience whatsoever with the women I’ve known and hormonal iud’s.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 08:48 PM
4

Just ask how she’s doing. If you all have a good rapport together, jokingly ask her if she got the COVID. When she asks how you’re doing, tell her your good and that you’ve been busy.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:15 PM
1

Just ask how she’s doing. If you all have a good rapport together, jokingly ask her if she got the COVID. When she asks how you’re doing, tell her your good and that you’ve been busy.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:15 PM
5

It’s a libido killer. See if she’ll try a copper iud. No synthetic hormones involved.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:44 PM
6

“Alright, take care.” Then hit her up in two weeks to hang out, but nothing in between.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:36 PM
1

I don’t know, but this ones done. On to the next.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:30 PM
2

This is a mess, bro. I’m sure other people will address the bigger issues you are presenting, so I will point out one thing. Obviously, you really like this girl, and you presumably want to keep her around. Ironically, the lack of any validation whatsoever will eventually push her away. LTR’s need comfort. Try and keep it 80-20/alpha-beta. It’s ok to compliment your girl every now and then, especially when she pleases you and goes out of her way to try and please you. If you like the dress she i…
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:25 PM
3

Read up on stoicism. No woman will ever take you seriously if you’re incapable of controlling your emotions. Blowing up is feminine energy. The masculine is a rock. He is not fazed, or at least doesn’t show it, when something as minor as plans changing happens. Control yourself. As for this one, I don’t see how your frame isn’t shattered. She wants you to stay, but will she respect you at all afterwards?
/r/askTRP28/01/21 01:10 PM
2

Everyone here has made them. That cringe feeling should be a motivator to work on yourself so that you make them less and less, and then, hopefully, never. Good luck.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 01:04 PM
2

That also works. Be decisive.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 01:01 PM
1

Did you all fuck at your place the first time? If you want to give her a little comfort, invite her over for a nice romantic dinner, and then fuck afterwards. You’re definitely overthinking this.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:23 AM
1

Don’t give a fuck what nobodies think about you. By nobodies, I mean people who you’re not invested in and vice-versa. This confidence is overtly communicated to people in your presence.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:21 AM
5

Your her orbiter. She’s friendzoned a former fwb and now uses you for validation. Your frame became weak when you caught feelings, and her pussy dried up. You most likely won’t get her back. It also sounds like you have oneitis. Respond: “I don’t have time for female friends.”
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:18 AM
1

Have you met?
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:12 AM
1

100%
/r/askTRP27/01/21 08:49 PM
12

She sounds insane. I would avoid. You’re life will not be benefited in any way by re-engaging.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 04:55 PM
141

She broke up with you, and now she’s suicidal. Female “logic.”
/r/askTRP27/01/21 03:54 PM
1

Be needy. She’ll disappear quickly.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 03:09 PM
2

It means it sounds like you’re still obsessing over her.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 01:38 AM
5

Sounds like he was the text slave, but I like your pun.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:55 PM
1

1, 2, and 4 are dealbreakers on their own, let alone taken together. Also, add a 0 to the end of that number and you’ll be closer to the actual number. Run.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:54 PM
10

You actually have to have sex for her to qualify as a “sex slave.”
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:41 PM
1

I got this once and responded, “They’re big enough to get the job done.” This was years ago and I wasn’t thrilled with the response at the time, but in the end I ended up pumping and dumping her a couple times, so whatever. The point is to net let it look like it phases you. Let it roll off your back, and continue to treat her like she’s your cute little sister.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:38 PM
19

It tastes of truth.
/r/AntiFeminists23/01/21 08:14 PM
1

Blame nature. We didn’t make the rules.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 03:56 PM
31

Anytime a girl says she doesn’t deserve you, she’s either cheated or she’s getting ready to. This is an immutable law of nature.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 07:16 AM
2

Don’t tell a girl you like her. Show her. You dried her up.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 05:05 PM
2

What this guy said.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:09 PM
33

LDR’s aren’t a thing. It’s over. On to the next.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 08:00 PM
3

You’re young. If you want women to respect you, you first have to respect yourself. Hanging out all the time with an older dude is the ultimate disrespect to your relationship. Dump her. Tell her, “you don’t date women who date other men.” Again you’re young, you have endless opportunities for women in your future. Work on yourself, read the sidebar, read NMMNG, and WISNIFG. Become a man that women respect and want to be with. You’ll get there. But there’s no salvaging this one. Good luck.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 07:34 PM
18

If this is real, she’s cheating on you. 100%.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 06:29 PM
6

Do you love this woman? Do you have feelings for her? I’m guessing no, since she’s only a plate. It doesn’t matter then. Fuck her and be done. Use amused mastery. Ask her if she’d like to invite him over so you can both blow her back out. But you’re right, any man who complains to a woman about his non-existent sex life is a complete loser.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 06:13 PM
4

The initial asking for a different meetup place, since it was only 5 minutes apart, probably wasn’t a lack of effort on her part, it could’ve been a comfort thing for her due to it being a first date. Give no effort or time to bitches who flake and constantly change times and places, but if it’s something as simple as this, on a case-by-case basis I tend to accommodate as long as it doesn’t inconvenience me.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:15 PM
8

She’s interested. It may be too late, but meet her. She wasn’t being a bitch about it. You’re putting too much thought into it. Not everything is a shit test.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:01 PM
2

It’s over.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:36 PM
3

I was going to say, if you normally hang out at night, she may have thought you wouldn’t want to do earlier, since you usually don’t. But if it’s normally before 5 anyway, that doesn’t make sense. At the end of the day though, she’s only a plate. You may be overthinking this. If you’re busy say so, if you’re not and want to fuck, then fuck.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:34 PM
2

“She was very horny and wet, but she really likes me so she wanted to wait.” -lol
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:05 PM
1

Do you typically hang out in the evenings/night?
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:01 PM
7

No way this is true. But if so, too late, she already does
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:00 PM
1

Use your belt to tie up her hands, or put it around her neck, and hold it as you fuck her doggystyle. Blindfold her with her shirt. Instead of spitting in her mouth, spit on her face. Call her every name in the book. Slap her. Feel it out first with light slaps, and then you can progress. Anal. Pin her down from behind- hold her arms behind her back with one hand, and pull her hair with the other. Ride her from behind and put one foot on her head. Fuck her all over the house. Command her during …
/r/askTRP14/01/21 12:45 AM
1

There’s a way to let a girl know that, “this guy fucks,” without revealing the exact details. Be flirtatious, be sexual, be cocky, escalate. Don’t say, “I’ve fucked 22 girls,” however. That removes the mystery. Don’t be specific.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 12:09 AM
3

Stuff a dick in their mouth.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 04:11 PM
0

You should be picking the day to meet. At the most, give her a couple of options that you’ve chosen.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 04:26 AM
5

Saying, “I got bored so I ended it,” is not the worst thing in the world if you’re just looking to fuck, which I’m assuming is the case since it was a first date. It can make you seem like you have options and dgaf. If you’re down the road and looking for an ltr, absolutely not, because it gives no comfort whatsoever.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:59 PM
17

I just keep it vague and simple, and move on. “She was cool, but we just didn’t work out.” Then change subject. Don’t get caught up too deep in that kind of talk on a first date. It has a tendency to dry the pussy up.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:48 PM
38

Sad to say it’s too late. Not too late to have some self-respect, but too late for your bank account. No matter what happens with your marriage, your money is hers for the foreseeable future.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:16 PM
18

No. They are professional texters. If they do this, then there is low interest.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 05:29 AM
2

You’re welcome. It’ll hurt momentarily, but based on the information you’ve given, you’ll look back in the not too distant future and be grateful that you’ve dodge a bullet.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 04:30 AM
3

Also read No More Mr Nice Guy.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 03:13 AM
3

I appreciate your humility in genuinely seeking advice. Let me tell you, if she really respected you, she would not be in continual communication with a former fuck-buddy. This is extremely disrespectful of your relationship. You should not stand for it. In my opinion, she’ll be “good” for now, but once you get married, forget about it. She’ll no longer need to fake being on her best behavior. Do what your gut is telling you. You won’t regret it. If you stay, you very well may.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 03:09 AM
3

If you want to, yes.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:11 PM
1

King
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/21 01:46 PM
3

“I’m not exactly sure what I’m looking for, but I’ll know when I find it.” For whatever reason hoes eat that up. OR “Friends, maybe more for the right person.”
/r/askTRP07/01/21 03:32 AM
13

Women are the romantic gender.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 01:26 AM
1

Only if it’s one of your boys. If it’s a rando, stay out of it.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:27 AM
4

Rent a dog
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:24 AM
0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WOOoGQ-VzE4
/r/askTRP28/12/20 09:45 PM
30

Do what Ace Ventura did. It’s the only way.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 08:24 PM
14

“She cannot move you, because you already are what you are, with or without her.” -Deida
/r/askTRP26/12/20 08:14 PM
6

You just said, “I don’t think I like this girl.” Case closed. Move on. You’ve upped your smv, and gained some RP knowledge. This woman doesn’t respect you, and it’s extremely difficult to operate the entire relationship within her frame and then try and switch to your frame. It won’t feel genuine to her. Rollo says something about the frame you enter the relationship with will be the one you continue in. It’s best not to dig through old trash. This one is over. Find a better one.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 08:11 PM
3

“You, me, and her. Let’s fuck.”
/r/askTRP16/12/20 01:48 AM
1

She’s openly disrespecting you.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 09:17 PM
1

Listen man, you’re gonna do what you wanna do, but this won’t end well.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 09:12 PM
1

Keep your frame strong. Let nothing phase you.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 09:09 PM
1

It’s strange if she’s only a plate. She may be trying to qualify herself to you hoping for more commitment.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:13 PM
7

It’s unacceptable for a woman in a ltr to remain friends with a former fuck-buddy. It sounds like you’re being cucked. Even if they’re not fucking currently, it’s a boundary that you should have established in the beginning. The thing is, she shouldn’t want to be around this guy. It may be too late if you try and establish it now.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:11 PM
1

Well, yes, that is good, because it’s a woman’s main source of validation and attention seeking. It’s a rare woman who doesn’t have it, but I was actually referring to Netflix. Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy it, but too many women these days think that binging Netflix repetitively is a personality trait.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:07 PM
2

Yes. She has a “few male friends” that she meets up with, aka dates. They’re absolutely trying to fuck, or are fucking. Unacceptable.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:06 PM
1

I was kidding about his typo.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:04 PM
7

How do you open? What do you talk about? If it seems like a prepared line, or a set of pre-prepared and memorized lines it can come off as desperate to a woman. If it feels natural, not so much. It appears confident, charismatic, and natural. I’m not saying be a stalker, but observe something about them before you approach, so that it seems natural and off-the-cuff.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:49 PM
0

As everyone else has said, you’re already a date over the 3-date rule. That said, IF you still want to fuck her, text her and set a meet up at a hotel (or better, find a cheap Airbnb to rent, it can negate a little asd that hotels can give some women), if she agrees and comes over, you get to fuck. If she waffles, tell her it’s not working out for you, and next. She is stringing you along.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:37 PM
1

A woman woman deleting her Netflix is a green flag.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:33 PM
2

I don’t date (ltr) women who date other men.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:31 PM
2

Then see my other post. You have to be a man here. And a man absolutely does not ltr a girl who dates other men. And her coffee dates were exactly that.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:38 AM
4

She’s a lost cause, man. She was the moment you met her based on her past. Do not try and talk her out of going. There’s literally no point. She’s always been a cheater, and there is a 100% chance she’s cheated on you. Tell her to have fun on her trip, and that it will be the last time you see each other. Take care of whatever logistics need to be taken care of. Avoid contact with her, and avoid her social media. Then work on yourself, because there is much work to be done. You must stand up for…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:28 AM
5

Lol. This can’t be real.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:24 AM
1

My girl turned her location on for me out of her own volition, because she says she feels safe that way. She has never once even hinted that I do the same. Work on your frame.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 05:43 AM
9

You are correct that you appear to be overinvested, and, to make it hurt worse, she’s underinvested. You said yourself that you aren’t in a “true relationship” yet. Sounds like she’s a fwb. Fwb’s fuck other dudes. It is what it is. Likewise, you should be fucking other women. Again you’re overinvested only two months in, and a lack of confidence in yourself is showing in that last sentence. The biggest issue in all this, is that she lied to you. Ltr is out of the question at this point. Do you e…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 02:09 AM
1

Saxx or gtfo.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 03:33 AM
4

This is way too much drama for a plate.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 03:32 AM
4

Go to his Twitter, and there’s a link in the bio where he gives that chapter away for free.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:16 PM
17

It’s taking pride in wanting to be seen by women as a man who has other women. It’s an ego boost. But the issue is, though, that nothing good will EVER come from discussing your sexual history with a woman. Nothing.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 07:31 PM
1

Feels
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:09 PM
4

Based
/r/askTRP24/11/20 03:24 PM
23

Dr Dre was right: You can’t make a ho a housewife.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/20 03:32 AM
3

“Toxic masculinity” is a myth.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 11:30 PM
2

This. “I enjoyed getting to know you a little bit yesterday evening.”
/r/askTRP01/10/20 05:11 PM
0

Has she responded?
/r/askTRP01/10/20 05:08 PM
11

Dude, unless she was fucking multiple guys from the clinic, she knows it him.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 05:01 PM
1

2 weeks? Are you sure she’s still alive?
/r/askTRP11/03/20 03:25 AM
6

The only thing a period ever stopped was a sentence.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 04:06 AM
1

Anytime a woman says that she “doesn’t deserve you,” 100% of the time she has either cheated already, or is planning on it. This is gospel.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 02:22 AM
2

Thank you
/r/askTRP12/11/19 07:36 PM
2

Appreciate it
/r/askTRP12/11/19 07:36 PM
4

We’ve fucked well over 100 times and spend a good amount of time together. We just don’t spend the night together often.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 07:13 PM
3

Because I’m doing it right, and not being constantly available. Clearly I agree. I said as much in my post. I’m looking for a good response. It could be a comfort test, and I feel I should either reassure of brush it aside.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 07:07 PM
1

Thank you everyone for your advice. I appreciate it.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 11:01 PM
1

Physical escalation on a date.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 03:48 PM
1

Dude chill. Do what you want. If you’re not about monogamy, then good for you. Make it clear to every plate that it’s not what you’re looking for. Who cares what everyone else thinks/does.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:58 PM
1

If you’re both into each other, why haven’t you fucked yet?
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:58 PM
1

Currently reading the way of men, and forgot to mention I’ve read Pook. Thanks for the recs.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 07:04 PM
1

If she told you not to talk to her, then don’t. Either she’s over you and done, or she wants you to apologize and be beta over something from weeks ago. Either way use dread. If she’s still into you, she’ll reinitiate.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 05:32 PM
1

“No, I’m a man. What’s your number.”
/r/askTRP27/08/19 03:05 PM
1

Thanks brother
/r/askTRP27/04/19 03:14 AM
5

It worked. For now.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:47 AM
3

I like this. I already say this stuff during sex. Thanks brother.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 11:53 PM
1

Thanks. How do I meet her in the middle?
/r/askTRP26/04/19 11:51 PM
1

Thanks bro. I’ve read it. Mainly just pissed at myself for screwing up a good thing. I keep reading these stories of girls giving the talk very early on. All we’ve done is hang out and fuck for the last two months with zero discussion of this shit. Idiot.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 11:00 PM
1

She’s cooking me dinner on Sunday. How do I pull it off? Just text her tomorrow to make plans about when I’ll be there? I know she’ll bring it back up again, if not via text, then in person.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 10:53 PM
1

Use it to your advantage to have them serve you. Tell them to come over and bring you medicine, soup, flowers, whatever.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 10:00 PM
1

Who is she to you?
/r/askTRP17/04/19 09:54 PM
2

Just ask yourself how well you can really know someone after only a month. You’re still in the honeymoon phase. Take it slow and wait many, many more months.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 09:52 PM
2

Only you can answer the first question, but as a rule of thumb, probably longer than you think. How long have you been fucking her? The answer to your second question is an unequivocal YES. If you initiate, the mystery of where she stands with you is gone, and you lose all the power.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 09:47 PM
1

Yeah, you’re right. Obviously she is. My problem is I tend to overanalyze every interaction, and especially overanalyze every text I send. It’s ridiculous and unhealthy, I’ll admit it. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 01:50 PM
2

That’s what I was thinking. And I definitely have the tendency to overtalk it. One thing I’ve been working on and always have to remind myself with texting or in person conversation with women is “less is more.”
/r/askTRP15/04/19 08:17 PM
0

Also never said I wasn’t autistic ha. What would’ve been the obvious response, because I’m autistic of course?
/r/askTRP15/04/19 08:15 PM
1

Apparently not
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:09 PM
2

It’s what I went with. She responded, “good that I’m keeping them, or good that it’s a tease?” I said, “Good that you’ll miss the real thing.”
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:08 PM
0

Never said it was a shit test.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:06 PM
1

Thanks. I needed that “do not try to solve her issues.”
/r/askTRP27/03/19 02:38 AM
1

That makes sense. So being an “emotional tampon” entails listening to a woman bitch about meaningless shit that’s not important? This girl’s dog of 8 years just came down with cancer, so although it seems to me like she’s being a little over the top about It, I realize that it’s very serious to her.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:16 AM
1

Thanks. What’s the line there though? It seems like a fine one to me, and I’m not sure how to find it.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 12:42 AM
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