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7

Maybe you'd like it then.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 04:55 PM
0

All I'm saying is that by acting like a cult and promoting hate on their sub, fds only contribute to the already poor image of the incel community. Being women doesn't make them any better than all the other "non-violent" members of this group who constantly spew hatred everywhere they go.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/20 08:17 AM
3

Find evidence of this and not just how you feel inside. ok incel
/r/ExRedPill02/12/20 07:13 PM
0

Except that "bad men" is "all men" to them, even trans-women count as "bad men" to some of their mods. It's true that there's some healthy stuff for lonely people here but not more than on any other mainstream relationship subreddit. I'd preffer to stay clear from those gals, nothing good ever comes from exclusionary communities.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/20 03:01 PM
5

Even though they're still as cult-like and sexist as trp, FDS might actually be the best incel sub out there. EDIT : Which isn't a pretty high bar, I know.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/20 07:37 AM
3

Nah, I just like good movies and I hope OP does too.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/20 11:11 PM
3

With all the force of a great typhoon!
/r/ExRedPill28/11/20 10:48 PM
1

Woops, my bad dude. I thought you were coping.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/20 12:35 PM
1

Is it good for your self-esteem to be convinced that women care about you to the point of being "reviled" by your mere existence ?
/r/ExRedPill26/11/20 08:00 AM
71

Yep. Sadly, their way to "stop puting women on pedestals" is to get even more obsessed with them.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/20 12:50 AM
6

The next step is usually to join a bigger hate-cult only to get even more financially absused by its leaders and not contributing much to society.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/20 12:43 AM
4

Even if women don't lose their rights ?
/r/ExRedPill26/11/20 12:37 AM
2

I think feminism the red pill became the most blatant, visible result from intersectional theory. It offers a great, easy to understand narrative for self-victimization at the same time it makes you invulnerable to accountability or fault. It takes every aspect that involves a hierarchy (gender, ethnicity, etc), significant or not, and it gives you a tool to tailor your own victimized , individual, subjective narrative, at the same time it gives you a quick, cheap authority over others by callin…
/r/ExRedPill23/11/20 11:13 AM
8

A lot of people find racism and sexism just as disgusting as stuff like pedophilia, to the point of it being kind of a social handicap for the everyday life of tons of 4chaners. If you think your opinion/feelings aren't the results of your own choices but still don't want to hurt/annoy other people, maybe you should try and discuss this subject with a therapist. I don't think that it will change you or make you less racist/sexist or whatever, but at least it may help you find a better way to liv…
/r/ExRedPill22/11/20 11:12 AM
9

The wall is just you coping, dude.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/20 10:58 PM
1

I'm just telling it like it is, dude should be man enough to hear the truth. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 02:26 PM
-2

That's a pretty fair point but now I can't see why they would ban you for it.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 01:34 PM
14

Alright so when an insecure dude gets all toxic with everyone to show how masculine he is, what term should feminists use to describe this in a way that doesn't make you feel like a target ?
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 01:14 PM
10

What kind of exclusive language were you talking about ?
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 01:01 PM
29

I think you're confusing feminism with mysandry, the women who use feminism as an excuse to hate and shit on men constantly are called RadFems. Those radicals are most likely the type of people who are pushing you toward the redpill.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 12:05 PM
1

Alright if you say so, I wish you luck dude, keep on having fun.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/20 11:19 PM
1

True. It's not an issue for me either. Oh and this "culturaly enforced monogamy" is way too creepy for my taste, I love my freedom and sharing it with everyone on earth.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/20 08:58 PM
1

Don't you feel like you're setting yourself up for failure by being so focused on women ? You don't find it hard to stay happy with this way of life ?
/r/ExRedPill11/11/20 08:52 PM
1

Alright so, what do you think we should do about all of this ? Oh, and arrogance is actually confidence with success, you're way more likely to fail at life when you think that you're special and your luck is never gonna run out. That's why a virgin who manage to be confident and happy despite all his setbacks will always be more impressive/attractive than any ol' regular Chad.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/20 04:35 PM
1

If that label conforts you, I'll admit that you can be MGTOW and not be a sad and hateful wreck of a person, I even hear stories about radfem-incels on FDS who are also pretty happy with their life after all. It's just that I find this whole thing kinda sad, that's all.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/20 03:50 PM
2

Even if it's for a good cause ?
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 05:29 PM
3

I figured as much, I'll leave you to it then.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 12:29 PM
5

I'm sorry, you just seemed butthurt to the point of writing a wall of text under a random post and I was wondering why, that's all.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 11:36 AM
8

I don't understand, are you hating on this website because it makes too much fun of you or not enough ?
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 10:35 AM
5

Your existence is no less valid than the one of any harem enjoying Chad/Stacies, those people wouldn't survive a mile in your shoes so don't let them think that they're any better than you. You're a good enough person OP, I think you should start treating yourself as one.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 07:42 AM
1

Or just do what you want, stop hating yourself and go see a therapist to treat your depression. Don't polute the sub with this whitepill bullshit Kirk, you're not helping.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 07:29 AM
1

There's a huge difference between growing past and moving on. TehJimmy was mature enough to share his story while SuperApster tried to make fun of him for it.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 07:13 AM
2

What loss ?
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 01:31 AM
0

I don't know, have you tried not posting on their sub ?
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 01:26 AM
3

Anyone with family and friends can feel love and belonging, you're just putting sex on an undeserved pedestal. If you can't explain why I'm wrong about the popularity of happy guys toward the opposite gender, I'll just assume that you're lying to protect your belief in the cringy stuff you must have spent too much time reading on ppd.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 01:20 AM
7

Just like "Human Nature".
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 12:54 AM
5

I'm not telling you to lie down and rot like Japan, or to get even more obsessed with women like MGTOW. Just to enjoy life, for once. Also lots of girls like happy guys who don't need other's validation in order to live their lives, so win-win really.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 12:32 AM
5

Sex and romantism are just a very small part of love as a whole, isn't there some female artists you admire for exemple ?
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 12:18 AM
15

The solution for young males is to stop seeking validation from girls as the only way to value themselves. It's as simple as that. That's why most don't need the redpill, and why those who took it just dug themselves deeper into a hole, looking for solutions to a problem that was never one to begin with.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 12:09 AM
2

Life isn't a race
/r/ExRedPill08/11/20 11:44 PM
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Sorry tl;dr, but Just sayin : we're no "anti-redpill" movement, we're just normies who want to help. This war is only in your head dude.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/20 07:44 PM
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I don't find it contreversial, single dudes end up as incels/MGTOWs for the same reason usualy. Some people just don't want to lower their standards and that's alright, as long as they don't complain about it all the time.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/20 08:49 AM
1

Me neither to be honest. I'll just do what I can for as long as I please.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/20 04:27 PM
1

Because that cause is good ? I know everything isn't perfect for the exredpillers on this sub, I often engage with incels (men & women (that includes the radfems who come here thinking that they can bully people)) in hopes to help them recover. Yes, they often troll and shit-talk but that's still the best way to reach them since they all get baited by the mere existence of the place. I don't know if it'll convince you to stay, but at least that's why I like it here.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/20 02:45 PM
2

Dude, all you said was "garbage post" on a post that is mocking a redpiller, we can't all read your mind. Hell, I'm an ex rediller and I didn't get offended by it, so why are you all of a sudden ?
/r/ExRedPill04/11/20 06:24 AM
1

Welcome to exredpill then, we're all here to improve. :)
/r/ExRedPill04/11/20 01:21 AM
2

So you just don't like women ?
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 10:47 PM
1

Why didn't you say that in the first place ?
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 08:39 PM
0

A FDS has read 2 books this week. Have you ?
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 08:23 PM
2

lol Admit it, you'd have grown past it, you wouldn't have ended up in a cult.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 08:19 PM
1

Dude already has. Have you ?
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 12:30 PM
1

That shit must have really hurt, I hope you will grow past it one day ❤️
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 09:54 AM
1

Your stepsister is making you look bad ?
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 09:36 AM
6

I think MGTOWs and FDSs should take a long look at eachother one day and realize how much in common they have with one another. I mean, at least MGTOW should go on FDS, at first to cringe at the irrationnal hatred of men, but stay for the advices on self-love and self-value that I think are way better on this side of the 'conflict' than on theirs.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 09:31 AM
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No need to vote on this one. What's your story OP ?
/r/ExRedPill02/11/20 07:28 PM
5

Nobody is to blame in all of this, not even you. It's the hatred that's hurting you, that's why you redirect it unto others. I know it's normal to feel that way at first, it keeps you alive and it energizes a lot, but there'll come a time when you'll need to let it go for your own health and the people you care about.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/20 11:15 AM
1

Alright, sorry for yesterday, I got tired. Disrespect them. Show them it won't be tolerated. Otherwise, you give credence to them. No one has ever changed their minds about a cult by agreeing with them. If they want to change then fine I am happy to help, but he doesn't so he gets disrespected. You're either in or out. That's the problem, you're not disrespecting them, you're just doing exactly what they want you to do. Trust me, if you want them to be really angry at you, just don't put them on…
/r/ExRedPill02/11/20 07:28 AM
2

It's hurting you dude, of course it's easier to believe. If you've been through negative experiences, please talk about those and tell us how you really feel instead of repeating the talking points of other people.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/20 07:10 AM
2

No worries dude, it's just a talking point. I'm the one who should be more civil when I discuss it, thanks for the kind reply.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/20 07:05 AM
2

True enough. That's even the healthier/normal way to do it, actually.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 11:14 PM
6

Getting hurt by other people also work that way. Have a little empathy.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 10:51 PM
3

The black pill is no science, it's just "the truth hurts" taken up to to the point of thinking that anything good happening in your life is actually fake and that only the hurtful stuff is real. You're actually self-harming your brain with that suff. Your opinion of women is really not what's important right now, you may be suffering from depression and you should warn your relatives so they can help you get through all of this.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 10:47 PM
9

Women already are equal to men, it's the red pill who disagrees with that.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 09:30 PM
7

Dude has such a low opinion of himself that he needs to feel superior to at least one group of people. Women are just the easy target.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 09:09 PM
8

That's the point. He's not happy, he's just pretending.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 09:00 PM
27

Ask them if they're happy and watch them go through the five stages of grief in one convo.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 08:23 PM
-1

Alright, I can see that we're not speaking on the same level here. Continue to make us all look like angry soyboys then, by "owning your shit" the way you do, I don't care anymore. Next time some incel come here and and say that we're all just a bunch of whiteknights man-hating fds sympatizers, I'll know it's because of guys like you. Peace.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 06:14 PM
0

What's your end goal then ? You want to e-bully redpillers until they all take you seriously and commit suicide, liberating the world from their filth ?
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 05:58 PM
0

My problem is that you make all the sub look bad by acting that way, this kind of attitude only leads to more harassment.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 05:45 PM
1

Yeah I know the feeling, I grew up poor too. Listen, I'm not telling you that it's weird to hate guys like him, just that it doesn't work. He has nothing but contempt for you because he needs to feel superior to someone in order feel good about himself, your hatred just validate that feeling in him. He's posting here especially for that, no matter if it makes him look like a loser overall, as long as he gets to have your attention, he'll always be able to suppress the rest.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 05:40 PM
1

Alright, tell me what's your issue exactly. I'd like to understand.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 05:30 PM
0

And so you guys are perfect for each other.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 05:26 PM
0

No, but you're the one who's giving it to him.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 05:25 PM
-1

And he doesn't care about yours either in case you haven't notice. I swear, you two are perfect for eachother.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 05:23 PM
1

Of course he isn't looking for help, he's mentally ill to the point of harassing people on the internet, that doesn't mean that we should turn a blind eye to what he represents. This sub is about helping people like him, not bullying them. You do realize that he got tons of very insightful response to his posts already and that he only replied to yours because he knew that you'd be the one to provide him with the hatred he's looking for. You're the one who's not helping here.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 05:17 PM
1

You're just enabling him dude, he feels validated by your hatred.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 05:05 PM
3

Atractiveness and push-pulling when you flirt is something that comes naturally by being confident and genuenly attracted by the people you like. If you try to apply 'techniques' because you read those in a book without understanding the how or why they're supposed to work, it just make you come off as more uncanny to the people you subject them to.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 04:06 PM
0

Feel free to browse then :)
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 01:45 PM
5

Well hello there, welcome to the sub ! To answer your question, I broke up with the red pill because it was making me depressed in my relationships, I also found tons of unicorns since I stopped wasting my time with snowflakes so yeah, for the most parts, things are going pretty great now. How is it going for you pal ? You seem to be needing our help.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 01:02 PM
0

Dude looks pretty insecure actually, deppressed people like this tend to fap themselves to comments like yours because it makes them look like exactly how they wanna appear to the world (even if if it's far from the truth). So just saying, Kirk obviously needs our helps, I think you should be nicer to him.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 12:14 PM
3

Yeah. You do you. Even with the fear of that person betraying you at the first hint of a drop in your current value ? At this point it's more a matter of logic than opinion. Just because there is a sex market for dumb people, that doesn't mean that you should follow them.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 11:25 AM
5

Personally, I think my attactiveness is based on my ability to not care about nonsense, I'm also very attracted to people who think the same way, but it's mostly for mental health reason. Like, can you really be happy with someone if you think they only like you for the superficial stuff you provide ?
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 08:37 AM
1

Not gonna lie, your aunt looks kinda redpilled, you do well to distance yourself from people like them.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 07:24 AM
2

You guys should kiss ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 01:18 AM
1

I have never been in a relationship. But, I had a very tense relationship with the elder women in my family. I had to compromise on every aspect of my identity for them, and I am just too tired of it. What aspects of your identity exactly ?
/r/ExRedPill31/10/20 01:07 PM
1

No worries, you can go your own way dude, just don't blame women too much next time you hurt your foot on the table.
/r/ExRedPill31/10/20 01:04 PM
1

It's like racists who say that they don't "hate blacks" they just "despise their race and culture". Like okay, you wanna stay open to the idea of meeting a women who will be exactly like how you wish they should be (like self-hating of her "female nature" or something) but in a meantime, why be so ashamed of how you feel ?
/r/ExRedPill31/10/20 12:59 PM
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Our parents are never good enough for us. I hated my dad for the longest time for all the things he didn't do for me a as a kid, but I stopped doing it when I realized all the sacrifices he did do so I could get a basic education, food on the table and a good starting budget for my own career. I mean, we're both alive and not in jail, at least we can thank them for that, right ? And yes, we may have become redpillers along the way but I don't blame my father for it either, swallowing the pill wa…
/r/ExRedPill31/10/20 08:46 AM
1

lol thank you Stabilo but I'm already sexy enough as is. ;D I'm doing it because it's what I like to do for fun and I'll keep doing it just for that. Edit : But huge thanks again for the compliments and the award, I really wasn't expecting that in my notifications !
/r/ExRedPill31/10/20 08:06 AM
2

You're not wrong and I think we can agree on that point : toxic feminity leads to more toxic masculinity, wich leads to more toxic feminity et caetera That shit is just a huge circle of crazy people hurting eachother.
/r/ExRedPill31/10/20 07:58 AM
1

Well I appreciate it nonetheless. ;)
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 10:56 PM
1

Ouch. Alright. I guess I'll work on that then. Good night to you too. :)
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 10:29 PM
1

And you don't know me either but we're still having a discussion right now, isn't that great ? Listen, I know I'm not a women and I shouldn't dare to assume that I know anything about what you've gone through but I'm primarly here to learn, helping is secondary. So please : don't hesitate to reach out to me or to anyone on this sub if you wanna hear less depressing advices for a change, at least not coming from circlejerks like trp or fds. You're not just a woman, you're also a human being and y…
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 10:08 PM
1

Nope. In all seriousness, I'm here to deradicalize incels and you just happen to be one of them.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 09:34 PM
1

Why are you here then ?
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 09:13 PM
4

Ironic isn't it ?
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 09:04 PM
0

Alright and sorry for this question but why do you nonetheless seem so obsessed with men ? I mean, it looks like you're coming here just to bully people so I wonder.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 09:03 PM
1

Ooh, does it mean that I'm not low value ? That's the nicest thing anyone has said to me today ! Thank you so much !
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 08:31 PM
2

Yep, that's why I say that both of those subs are redpilled, they're just way too paranoid and obsessed with the opposite gender to ever realize it.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 08:11 PM
2

I can explain if you want :)
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 08:04 PM
-3

A very low standard yes, yet nobody ever seem to reach it. Do you see the contradiction ?
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 07:45 PM
4

It's an excluding community turned into a circlejerk that use cultish terminologies, anyone who disagrees with you is either a LVM or a pickme.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 07:15 PM
1

lol Well that's great news then. Good job mate !
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 07:05 PM
2

You have a right to not like girls, the fact that you're not even attracted to them makes it all the more valid. As long as you don't harass/hurt them and stay nice to the women in your own family, there's nothing wrong with your ideology. I just hope it still makes you happy, being blackpilled is really hard sometimes.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 07:01 PM
2

Alright, I'm guessing that you're black, but how old are you ?
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 06:53 PM
1

Same thing. They all got redpilled first before all of this.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 06:39 PM
2

No problem, I know you girls are way less crazy than us males. Just be careful with excluding communities like fds, those cultish slopes are very slippery.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 06:22 PM
2

See ? Now you're acting just like the fds members justifying themselves in the comments of this very same post and you can't even realize how much in common you have with all of them. That shit is sad, man.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 06:16 PM
1

The unicorn would be the concept of the tradwife by now yes, just an "idealized" version of what "every women should be". But the true unicorn, at least for incels and other blackpills, was the belief that at least one women in the whole world wasn't "hypergamous, evil or stupid". And that's the vibe I'm geting from fds types when they discuss the existence of the fabled HVM, in all of his perfections and other contradictions.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 06:08 PM
3

You're coping, dude. Sorry to make fun of you. My point is that your belief are more based on feelings than they are on facts, the proof of it being that you apparently need to challenge them on reddit instead of living by them and be happy with it.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 05:32 PM
4

lol what logical statement ? Stuff like "the earth is round" ? "Women aren't evil" ? "Nobody cares about what you believe" ?
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 05:12 PM
-1

That's why I've placed the High Value Male in front of the 'unicorn' concept. Because everytime he's mentionned on fds, commenters are either always doubting, denying or seething about the OP's mate.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 05:07 PM
13

FDS is obviously better managed and way less dangerous than TRP, that's true, but it's all due to the fact that it's just the female version of the very same cult.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 05:00 PM
2

Wait. So you're really a flatearter ? That's AWESOME dude ! I can't believe how based you must be. Do you have other theories ?
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 04:50 PM
-1

Makes sense, but it's still just as much as a cope for them than for all of our "alpha male" buddies.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 04:44 PM
8

Nah dude, you're in the male version of FDS and you just haven't realized it yet. Are you a flatearther or something ? Why need to do ressearch on something this obvious ?
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 04:32 PM
1

Thanks for this clarification, I'm taking notes.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 04:12 PM
1

It still the same basic concept, they wish to feel above other people in order to cope with their issues, not realizing that it makes them look even more insecure.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 04:10 PM
5

Yeah. This is also exactly what I thought of trp at the start... At least be careful with those people.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 03:22 PM
8

Hey, no judgement but we're still here if you ever need to talk about your issues with men and other people who like them.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 03:12 PM
7

FDS claim as much falsehoods as TRP, they even have the same type of toxic terminologies for everything : HVW = Alphas Pickmeishas = Betas LVM/Scrotes = Roasties/Femoids HVM = Unicorns
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 12:59 PM
9

I agree, that's why MGTOW is still good as a concept, but absolutely not as a subreddit.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 10:57 AM
8

Yep, it's basically just MGTOW for women. Still not a good thing though.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 10:15 AM
9

Yep, and become all the more unhappy in the process.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 09:56 AM
11

Definitely. That's why FDS are just as much redpilled as other incels and why they'll always be welcome here if they ever get tired of hating.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 09:41 AM
1

I'm sure your next mashup will be better than this one, we're here if you ever need to talk about anything else.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 02:07 AM
8

Borat is the ultimate Chad, I'd be a proud redpiller if those guys were half as manly as he is.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/20 06:01 PM
9

Feminism isn't about seduction. Why confront the two concept ? I don't see anyone asking PUAs about humanism, egalitarianism and moral philosophy. That shit is beyond stupid.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/20 05:33 PM
4

I see, that may be a way to reach out to incels. They're often made fun of but they're the ones who are most likely to end up in terrible relationships because of how they feel about this question.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 10:37 PM
3

This isn't a hard question, even for redpillers.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 10:10 PM
9

Everytime someone judges you over stuff you didn't choose, it says more about them than about you. So don't worry bro, they're the ones who should be anxious about that sort of things (some of them even already are I bet).
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 10:08 PM
1

And you had to take the red pill to figure that out ?
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 05:19 PM
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I don't know man, there's a lot of things in life that you can't explain with just "monkeybrain". People especially.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 03:31 PM
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Can't a woman just like big dudes because she likes big dudes ? Only sex work is about choosing your partners based on what they can provide. This has nothing to do with attraction.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 03:13 PM
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I'm a guy, dude. And I also know what it's like to sometimes be treated as an amalgam of stereotypes by some girl during a date. That's why I try to not treat other people this way, that shit is just concentrated cringe.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 02:47 PM
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Because you can't judge individuals on the basis of stuff they didn't choose. Love isn't about market or politics. When you meet a woman, you meet a free thinking individual, not a collection of stereotypes based on her gender. Treating her as the latter only leads to even more isolation since you're doing all the dialogue in your head instead of listening to anything she has to say.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 02:29 PM
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I don't wanna waste my time discussing bullshit. The earth is round dude.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 02:16 PM
1

That's great ! Do you let your 10/10 smoke show also have fun with other guys ?
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 02:12 PM
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Love and attraction have nothing to with sex work. It's not for the milk that we like the titties.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 11:46 AM
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Seeking validation in general is just the lamest shit. Not only does it keeps you from geting laid, it also keeps you from enjoying sex. That's why TRPers write so much field reports, they can't cum without the upvotes.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 11:09 AM
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That shit is the flat earth of gender theory. Like, it's pretty obvious at first (especially if your unlucky in love, it helps to make sense of things) then it takes more and more space in your head until you become unable to trust or even like anyone you meet, hurting other people in the process and spreading the idea that love isn't real because men/women are evil. Wich is obviously false. All it does now is serving as a marketing device for TRP products sold to tons of lonely people everday, …
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 08:17 AM
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Happiness in slavery
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 12:57 AM
5

Condoms exist
/r/ExRedPill25/10/20 01:13 AM
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Meh. Prostitution is less degrading.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/20 12:41 AM
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I'm not anti-porn but it's true that redpillers tend to approach every issue with a gendered approach and usually a way to blame women (or men if they're FDS) for them. Just like a conspirationist with an unhealthy obsession with jewish people, it's just easier to find someone to accuse of everything wrong in the world than to work on yourself and improve everyone's life in the process.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/20 09:31 AM
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My life is going pretty great, even though I really don't like Tinder/okc/etc and I kinda ghosted the last girl I've been with, I still feel pretty good about myself and I focus on being happy. You'll realize one day that when you view dating as a way to meet new people rather than a trial you must succeed, things get pretty easy with girls, no matter how it goes.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/20 08:40 AM
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I'm neither a lefty nor a feminist, and FDS members have way more in common with guys like you than anyone on exredpill.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/20 08:34 AM
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Hm, it's just a guess but I think most women are way more terrified to end up married to a redpiller than to be alone for the rest of their life.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/20 10:35 PM
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Idk you can also love someone for being brave, talented, funny or just because they're nice and you can count on them. I know you can put all of that in the "interesting" cathegory but by this point, it's not being unfair to not being attracted to people with zero quality to begin with. I mean, I don't like shallow people for exemple and I don't think it's unfair of me to feel that way about them. I also think that you should realize that, by being able to question how the world works, you're st…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 01:02 PM
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So, can we assume that you'd prefer to feel validated by society rather than just being loved by someone ?
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 12:31 PM
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It's the same for me, dude. Don't worry.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 09:35 AM
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Hey, the goal is for you to be happy, not everyone. I find that pretty realistic actually.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 09:29 AM
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Oh and sorry for my jumping to conclusions shit, it was unfair for me to do.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 09:28 AM
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Be the change you wish to see in the world, dude.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 09:23 AM
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Or the shitty Tinder game will get so shitty that most individuals (men and women) will stop engaging in it and try to meet new people through less toxic means (discord servers, online gaming... Fuck, even reddit is better than online dating.)
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 09:20 AM
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Dude. If all women are hypergamist whores, why bother with them ? Prostitutes are cheaper after all. If your goal in life is to be happy, you should focus on doing things that make you happy, not wait to feel validated by people you obviously resent.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 08:53 AM
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you can thank social media and online dating for that. We're nothing but numbers on a woman's "likes" tab, so we have to respond in a much more calculated manner. Or just don't engage in it. You should know by now that a lot of women feel the same way about online dating after all, so you're far from being the only one to think that (except for the "blaming women" part, of course).
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 08:37 AM
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In order to be happy, do you need to meet the standards of "many other people" or just one person ? The response should be interesting because both answers are way more valid than you think.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 08:24 AM
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Well first, you should stop listening to advices that say "women do this" or "women do that", everyone is different and individuals (including you) tend to preffer being treated as such, not as statitics of the fraction of the population they're in. Secondly, I haven't said that "Women develop interest over time", just that dating (aka spending time with someone you like) should be fun and that you shouldn't force yourself to endure the dating "market" because of it.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 08:16 AM
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You don't need to be perfect to be liked back by anyone you like. Hell, you don't even need to be "liked back" when you really like someone, in the sense that you only want what's best for them anyway. Does a person need to be perfect for you to like them ? EDIT : I'm french so I should be sleeping right now. I'll continue this discussion tomorrow dude.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 12:45 AM
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Maybe the point of dating is just to spend time with someone you like. I'd never advise to date someone as a way to meet them, a lot of people do that everyday online and look at where we all end up. Newsflash, most people online are shit so most online dating is shit. Just meet people you like irl, then ask them out when you're ready. That's all, really. Do you like someone Rose ? If the answer is 'No' then why are you worrying about any of this shit ?
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 12:30 AM
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On that, we agree again.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 03:05 PM
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I'm not so sure about that. You can feel love and belonging from your friends and familly for exemple, it doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 02:35 PM
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We're agreeing from the start then. I'm just saying that the mistake of the incel is to equate "having sex" to "being loved and to belong" wich is, in my opinion, the real source of their resentment toward women and society.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 12:52 PM
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Please don't hesitate to report or call out mysandrist posts everytime you see them dude.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 09:05 AM
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It's true that being a man is hard, but sex isn't water dude. We can talk about the need for love and belonging all you want but please don't equate being horny with something as important as this. I'm tellling you, the more you put that thing on a pedestal, the more it will control your life and the less people will be willing to share it with you.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 08:11 AM
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I feel like this is kind of a huge cope to keep the sad teenagers into the flock.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 03:46 PM
2

Do you need help or something ? Feminism doesn't mean anything nowadays and we don't like FDS types anymore than you do if that's what you fear.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 12:23 PM
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idk dude, do you have a tldr version ? I'm male and I don't like to read.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 12:20 PM
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OP, you're a good writer and a very good person. The only advices I'd dare to give you is to take a vacation every once in a while, far from politics, just to ease your mind and enjoy a bit more the life you have.Also don't compare yourself to others, even other good people, this sort of hierarchical point of view is often what can lead you to depression. Your life experience is valid and far more interesting than you think, the only people who'd tell you the opposite are the ones who are acting…
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 08:43 AM
1

A redpill "alpha man" who's rediscovered christianity and wants to settle down and have babies with a "virgin" tradwife.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 12:30 AM
2

Hm. 'Tradwives' are more of a conservative fantasy than a redpill one, even though both ideologies are very well tight together. I sometimes wonder if the 'whitepilled Chad' is the fabled 'High Value Man' that the 'Female Dating Strategists' are all searching for... Oh well.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/20 08:28 PM
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Dang it. I knew I should have put quotation marks on those terms.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/20 05:33 PM
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When it comes to individuals, all I know is that stats don't mean much. You can never judge the values of a person on the basis of thing they didn't choose for themselves. Even if 89% of all white men were Absolute Chads, I wouldn't like to be qualified as such based on stats alone instead of what I really look like.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 01:16 PM
1

Nobody here wants to fuck you, we just wanna help.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 10:27 AM
1

Aaah so it helped you overcome your approach anxiety, I get it.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 10:25 AM
3

It's true, PUA is about selling the easy charms to the easy chicks and the stupid courses to the stupid dudes.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 10:23 AM
1

Nobody's better than you, don't be so insecure, dude was just talking about happyness. If it makes you happy to be the way you are, you shouldn't even be wasting time trying to have debates here.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 10:19 AM
2

And it's bad optics for you to talk like an incel, I may not be a fat old woman but I understand how you feel. Edit : nevermind then.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 10:13 AM
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By reading all yours comments I figure that you're just experiencing sunk-cost fallacy for all the time and money you lost in this PUA thing. MAybe you should start selling your own courses to cover the expanses.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 10:03 AM
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You're right, it's bad optics for us to make fun of you like this.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 10:00 AM
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This dude isn't angry, why are you lying ?
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 09:56 AM
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Then welcome to exredpill
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 09:39 AM
5

If homosexuality is a mental ilness, I wonder what is homophobia to them.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 08:24 AM
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I think that it's mostly fear and that acting on that fear will just spread even more fear for everyone including women. I know a lot of them are genuenly scared of being recorded unknowingly by their partners for exemple so, for what it's worth, you're not the only one with trust issues on that particular subject.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 01:21 AM
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I don't know man. If women are so dangerous, why don't you just leave them alone ?
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 12:49 AM
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Yeah (sorry to use the term but) a lot of "pickme feminists" will be overt racists and transphobes in order to pass up as "one of the good ones" to white conservatives. There is a privilege in submissiveness after all, where you get to be "spoiled" by your man for being the "prize" that you are. Those people are scum.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/20 08:47 AM
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The men are as much to blame than the women on that front, that's even one of the primary sources of white racism : the fear of getting cucked.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/20 01:56 AM
1

That's true, but I'm not black so my own experience can't really help you on that front. I know what mysoginy and mysandry is but racism is a whole other beast. You have my sympathy though, if it's worth anything. Just for the anecdote, I've met white women who often express how racist and ashamed they feel when they get inconsciously scared of black men. But in the end, it's still mostly about themselves so you shouldn't bother with it, it's their prejudices, not yours. I wish I could say more …
/r/ExRedPill15/10/20 01:41 AM
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I understand the feeling, as dudes we're either dangerous or invisible, but it doesn't have to matter all that much, we're not the ones who are the most anxious about it after all. When I meet people and they try to evaluate my "value" or if I'm either one of those two types : I just stop caring, because I already know tons of men and women who are better than them and I don't need the validation of people I don't know or care for. You can't please everyone anyway so why bother ?
/r/ExRedPill15/10/20 01:16 AM
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I know this might look sappy but : being at peace with your friends and yourself is its own reward when you're a good man. I appreciated reading your post and I look forward to read the discussions it'll spark.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/20 12:54 AM
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lol yeah, they still have a long way to go.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/20 01:59 PM
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White pill is when black pill turns to intelectualism, philosophy and religion to heal from their "truth and skepticism" induced depression. It's always a bit ironic to witness but it's still progress I think.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/20 08:36 AM
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What redpill does is telling you that evrything positive in your life, women and society is a lie. One day you'll notice the pattern, every "truth" they share are always about hurting you or someone else. For them, it's "the truth hurts" taken up to eleven, to the point of rejecting any positive advice and ideals as "bluepill bullshit". If it hurts it's real, if it helps it's fake. Like, imagine a mental-masochist constantly hurting his mind with "hard truths" to the point of desperation, thinki…
/r/ExRedPill10/10/20 10:48 PM
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You can date whoever you want dude, just leave the minors alone.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/20 08:44 PM
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Thanks dude, not only for this post but for everything you do for this sub.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/20 11:20 PM
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MGTOW is fine as a principle, just don't post too much cringe on their sub (and ours, if possible).
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 12:20 PM
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Dude. If you say AWALT at the first sign of conflict on r/AmItheAsshole all I can say is Happy trails partner. Go your own way o/
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 12:03 PM
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I'm just saying. If you can tell how FDS is mysandrist/toxic against men, you should be able to recognize how TRP invented that shit the same way against women.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 11:21 AM
2

The dating world being shit is a people problem, everyone feels insecure after being rejected, it's not a gendered issue.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 10:50 AM
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No, It just stems from insecurity. When you lack confidence, it's easier to dehumanize others to feel better about yourself and get a feel of love and belonging from people of your own gender. That's what TRP and FDS do.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 10:29 AM
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Maybe when you'll have spend as much time on the subject as we have then. You can keep digging, just remember that you're free to stop when you want.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 10:21 AM
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Another important thing I’d like to mention is a subreddit called Female Dating Strategy. Now, when I saw that subreddit, I was quite frankly shocked. The amount of hate towards men and manipulative tactics that women discuss there deserve much more discussion and controversy than TRP and it generally seems incredibly toxic and sexist. Where TRP teaches men self-improvement, FDS teaches women how to emotionally manipulate and abuse men. Yet, I do not see nearly as much talk about that sub, compa…
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 10:14 AM
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Dude. Women hating men is misandry. Men geting depressed over women is a whole other topic.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 08:23 PM
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All I know is that the pinkpill misandrist types you can find on other subs are just as redpilled as the rest and that they're all welcome here if they ever need to recover from hate.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 03:41 PM
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It was more imposed on me but yeah, for a lot of kids, trp is a way to cope with the feelings of rejection and lack of validation from others. In the end, they either lose tons of time and money without making any progress, or they become completly obsessed with sex and wealth as a way to "elevate" themselves above others, no matter if they don't like the person they're with or even the life they live. It's all about appearance by this point, same for the ones who still struggle, they'd rather f…
/r/ExRedPill06/10/20 07:20 PM
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I also learned about the redpill philosophy from a toxic ex-girlfriend and I had to go through a lot of stuff to get out of her mindset. As a man, from what I gather, it's mostly a cult based on anti-intelectualism when it comes to relationships. Everything is about aquiring value based on superficial and materialistic stuff, the catch is that it's never enough and it sticks you in a vicious cycle of damaging Envy and underserved Pride. Followed by tons of cycles of depression, whatever the stat…
/r/ExRedPill06/10/20 06:38 PM
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