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#JustLVMThingspacachan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:37 AM
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The other day, I was walking in a public park and this guy hopped off his bike and literally pissed in the path in front of me and everybody... there was a kid's soccer game not even that far from us in the same park.. AS WELL AS A PUBLIC RESTROOM. I said something but he basically just ignored me, hopped on his bike, pedaled away. The sheer audacity of these pigs wtf????? My only explanation is that he had to be on something because that's just so antisocial I can't even understand it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:20 AM
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When you confront him on his actions hurting you and he makes a big deal about how he feels SO BAD and he actually starts crying and wants you to comfort him. I've actually said "stop crying, it won't work on me, apologize" in an argument before because I just couldn't take it anymore. Guess who stopped crying lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:00 PM
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It's hard, too, when you try and speak out against grooming and another woman responds with a paragraph about how you were in full control of your actions at the time, just liked the attention, and how you should stop thinking of yourself as a victim.. Then she says she went through something similar and "owns her own mistakes". It's almost like she was defending the people that fucking abused us as some demented little coping mechanism. I'm sooooo sorry that at 15/16 I wasn't smart enough to av…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:49 PM
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After an ex dumped me, doxxed me on 4chan, and said horrible insulting things to me: he sent, "Please just say you didn't regret us..." on a Skype message to me like a year later. The sheer audacity lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:25 AM
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Their excuse doesn't even make any sense. It wasn't a replacement for thepinkpill or any other banned sub, unless I am mistaken? This is just reddit censoring a sub that did nothing but point out their hypocrisy in not banning certain subreddits. How is that against the rules?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:38 PM
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Edit: I shouldn't have read the Youtube comments. People are trying to say the girls are in the wrong for recording the guy and shaming him, or implying she should be embarrassed. Maybe creeps are afraid of their asses ending up on Youtube. haha That reminds me of that vid that went around reddit a couple weeks ago. Some guy groped a waitress, she THREW HIM DOWN, and it was all on camera. He did it while his girlfriend and kids were there and his girlfriend actually defended him on video. "It wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 12:19 PM
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I literally know a guy irl that showed his entire friend group his gf's nudes, like, to brag about her. Would frequently brag about their sex. He was gobsmacked when he got dumped and cried about it for years because he wanted to marry her. Yup, he acted that way while "caring" about her. I bet you she had no idea what he was up to. You can bet in his head he never did anything wrong. You can't trust a male with nude pictures of you, full stop. Males are fully brainwashed by porn and patriarchy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 01:35 PM
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I have to say, though, I knew a very petty and emotionally immature man that bragged to me about discovering the reply of "k". He really would've benefitted from engaging the women calling him out on his bullshit instead of just replying with "k" and thinking he was above it all. He wasn't. His head was up his own ass. Idc if this goes against the grain this reply just rubs me the wrong way and reminds me of that guy. If it's "k" worthy then just throw the whole man away and don't reply at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 11:08 AM
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Throwback to when I was a virgin and got shamed on a date for "being weird about sex". He tried making me feel like I wasn't normal or ultra-prudish for not wanting to sleep with a guy I barely knew a few dates in. And that was in like, 2014. This shit isn't new.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 06:59 PM
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I've learned, through many annoying interactions with male "friends", that most of them simply lack the capacity for platonic friendship with women. The moment you offer any emotional support, as you would offer to a female friend, they take this as romantic intent. Boundaries always being pushed. The men that are mature enough for friendships never push these boundaries to begin with, but IMO it is because there is usually some outside-force keeping them culled (it's your boyfriend's friend, or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:48 AM
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You can download the official Switch app, which also has a voice chat feature for Animal Crossing and lets you type on the game with your phone fyi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:41 PM
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I read their fundraiser page, looks like some people that attacked the woman in the vid are trying to report the founder of nofap's Twitter account and harm his reputation, so he's filing a defamation lawsuit? TBH, I don't see why I should care, even being against the porn industry. It's messed up I guess, yeah, but it all seems really vague. I can think of a lot of better causes to give money to than some organization that helps (mostly men) quit porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:50 AM
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I admire your maturity and grace in not stooping down to his level, especially for the sake of your child. Good for you OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:15 PM
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This dude reminds me of a guy I used to buy pot from. Constantly bringing up a car accident from over a decade ago for sympathy points and trying to use me for emotional labor (acting like a hostile weirdo one second and the next trying to ask me for advice on some girl problem, ugh). God, this shit gives me second-hand embarrassment. He probably views it as shooting his shot and has 0 shame. I like to roll in the mud and argue too, sometimes, but I think her mistake was not blocking him after t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 03:35 PM
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Your future will be like my Aunt's.. buying your own presents for holidays, AND his presents, and wrapping them all.. It's very fucking sad. When I read the line about you buying his mom a present while he didn't I cringed. It must have been apparent during dating that he is like this, I don't get why you married him. You sound like you are unhappy with this, and you've brought it up before, so you should either accept this life or find a man that can give you what you need. It's not so much the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 12:02 PM
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There are a bunch of males in that thread sharing a copypasta trying to discredit her story and calling her a liar. Wish I hadn't clicked, WTF is wrong with people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:33 PM
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My mom would always play devil's advocate if I came to her with boy problems. It made me have bad boundaries and doubt my own feelings for a long time before I moved out and life kicked some sense into me. This place is so valuable to me OP, I agree. I also feel very happy when I am able to share an experience I think might help another woman, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 12:04 PM
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Probably newbies or lurkers bristling at a "gold digger" connotation when that's like.. a bare minimum. Yes, my bf should pay for me.. I'm not ashamed to say it and know my worth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 02:54 PM
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"Letting", the verbiage says it all. You "let" someone take the last cookie or sit shotgun, as a courtesy, to be polite. That word should never factor into the bedroom, wtf? This shit is insidious and erodes boundaries. I really hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 11:09 AM
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Reminds me of a depressing study I read the other day that found, "men are more likely to leave when their wife becomes seriously ill, even if they were highly satisfied beforehand." "Women with serious illnesses are seven times as likely to be left by their partner than men in the same situation." The article is over a decade old with a sample smaller than 600 people so all I can tell myself is that hopefully that isn't so accurate.. I don't want to believe most men are lower than a crow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 02:57 PM
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I knew he rubbed me the wrong way when a line in one of his standup specials was about "scoring one for my ancestors every time I bang a white chick". Very disgusting. He is a little cretin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:16 PM
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I did the best I could at the time with the tools I had. Posts like this are appreciated. I know intellectually that I was deceived and taken advantage of, and others in my situation might have been fooled as well, but sometimes I don't feel it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 04:06 PM
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This was my strategy for handling breakups, even really young. I knew it was fruitless to allow them to keep in contact with me and it would only hurt me more. Even when you block, some make new accounts to contact you, and you have to be strong. I admit I stooped to their level a couple times and it ended up making me feel worse because I got emotional and nasty. I felt best when I just blocked new messages until they well and truly moved on. Doesn't work with a stalker but works with LVM's tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:37 PM
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Guys love it when you don't hug back so it feels like hugging a pillow tehe. It's also so fun to pretend you don't want to cuddle and blur consent boundaries hehe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:58 AM
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I can't vibe with this "re-appropriating words for empowerment" thing.. I'm not a "proud hoe" and I'm gonna side eye anyone that parrots something like that. I feel similarly about the word queer, just can't see it as anything other than a slur. Also reminds me of that guy on legaladvice whose mom's church is trying to "take back the swastika" (lol)... I just don't think it's realistic or productive. I know language is fluid but it feels forced, to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:14 PM
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Irma Thomas - Anyone Who Knows What Love Is "You can blame me, try to shame me, run around, even put me down, I'll care for you and be there for you and pity everyone that thinks I'm foolish and anyone who knows what love is will understand" The melody is great but lyrics are hot garbage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:02 AM
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"No, I'm down with the clown, woop woop." then block would be my response in the shower 8 hours after I sent something lamer than you. Nicely handled, what a weird line.. these men aren't even trying. His icon looks normal, too. That's just strange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:16 AM
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I've been called boring or bad at sex in discussions so many times for being antiBDSM/antikink/antiporn in general. It's an immature rationalization from pornsick people and shows a lack of basic respect. I also think the "kinkier=more enlightened/fun" mindset is boundary-pushing and messed up, makes no sense to do sex acts for the wokeness component
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 07:43 AM
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Arguing with someone that your mocking them is fine and then weeping on the couch after being forced to apologize is like how a spoiled 5 year old bully would react. What the fuck? Imagine actually having the balls to try and get someone to comfort you for hurting their feelings. This lady needs some better friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:43 PM
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One time, I was duped into thinking I was some guy's girlfriend.. for over 6 months. He even made it "facebook official", met my parents, went on a vacation with me, talked to me daily, supported me, everything. And he had a girlfriend that he had a child with. When I told her the truth on the phone, she just went "oh, again?". She apologized to me for his behavior and explained she is "stuck with him". She made him get on the phone and apologize to me, like he was her naughty child or something…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 03:27 PM
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When my ex posted about our relationship problems on the relationship advice sub and how I was frigid and wouldn't have sex anymore, he left out any details that would make people see my side. You know, the part where he couldn't get off unless I roleplayed being his mommy and he acted like a little boy and I was uncomfortable with it and didn't want to do it. At the time I was too ashamed and angry to post and now I wish I had responded and put him on blast and embarrassed him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 04:43 PM
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I have had multiple exes try to contact me again after blocking them. They had to create new accounts to reach out to me. My mistake was becoming ANGRY and actually entertaining the things they said to me, actually engaging in conversation. I felt like I still had something to prove to them. I gloated about my current relationship and how happy I felt. I thought I was sticking it to them and being strong. But I was being weak. The me right now would say "You responding to them is showing them th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:28 AM
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That bottom paragraph is so fucking accurate and made me go from loving oral to dreading it. It's like any improvement tips I give, even a step by step "eating pussy for dummies", advice goes in one ear and out the other and he just does the same crap over again. Why bother..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 02:14 PM
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A highschool? At my old highschool, no one was allowed to hang anything up without an official stamp by the student council. That paper has nothing to do with the school and looks to be shoddily put up by a student with too much free time. Just rip them down, if they are still there again. Nothing will happen to you.
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