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| 63 | How come colorism against South Asian men isn't taken as seriously compared to when it's against South Asian women? | double standards | pachacuti092 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/08/24 07:14 PM |
| 7 | This video explains what the red pill does get right but why it's useless ultimately | pachacuti092 | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/23 04:08 PM |
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| 2 | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?You think men only want sex huh???? This is honestly no different than the comment above just reversed with man bad woman good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 03:30 AM |
| 11 | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?Do they know if the man is happy or not? Why are they making assumptions about someone they don’t even know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 03:30 AM |
| – | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?Not saying I entirely disagree, but someone being disabled and unable to get a job because of that isn't really the same thing as someone with poor social skills who cannot find a romantic partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 12:56 AM |
| – | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?wait how old r u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 12:53 AM |
| 18 | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?It’s a crabs in a bucket mentality and they can’t stand seeing other people happy. Some examples I’ve seen is when a short guy gets married and finds a girl who loves him, some guys will say “she settled for him while being ran thru by chads”. No different is some femcels unfollowing their favorite women influencers after they post their husbands or boyfriends or after they make a post announcing their pregnancy cuz “having a boyfriend is embarrassing” now apparently. Truth is misery loves compa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 12:35 AM |
| – | Men can’t really claim to know “the truth” about female attractionYou know I heard of this book called "Everything Men Know About Women" https://www.amazon.com/Everything-Men-Know-About-Women/dp/0836208196 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 06:17 PM |
| 4 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.This is actually probably the only red pill take that I sort of agree with. I consider myself a pretty liberal guy but I've noticed that a lot of women like guys that "act and dress like an f boy" but aren't one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 05:14 PM |
| – | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by societyI’m curious where in the sub have men said they specifically refuse to do housework? I hear this argument a lot but at least for men I know most have no problems doing chores around the house. I think men here on this sub don’t really understand what women specifically mean when they say stuff like unpaid or “emotional labor” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 10:18 PM |
| 1 | What standards should men and women actually look for in someone they want to date?For women: What traits do you think men should look for in a woman beyond appearance? What behaviors are green flags? What patterns should be avoided? For women, at times, some of them need to be more realistic about their own preferences as it relates to their own traits. For example, a woman who is 4'11 has no business saying she only wants a man who's 6ft or taller. Or a woman who's somewhat overweight and out of shape, wanting a fit man who's also athletic. For men: What traits do you think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 10:04 PM |
| 5 | Even if a large group of men didn't truly had sex it wouldn't lead to a revolution or an apocalypseI'm a little curious, not saying that I entirely disagree, but what solution do you propose for this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Even if a large group of men didn't truly had sex it wouldn't lead to a revolution or an apocalypseGonna be honest here, most ppl, men and women, are pretty normal. A lot of the loudest voices online, like incels, are hardly representative of men as a whole. Also, it's worth noting that ppl in general are having less sex these days. Idk if I speak for most guys, but rn I'm focused on other things in life. That doesn't mean I don't want love or sex, I just see that as a "cherry on top" type thing. A lot of men are going to channel their loneliness into video games, sports, etc, and only a frac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 09:43 PM |
| 8 | Men will only be happy the day that rape becomes legal, and women will only be happy when medicine will be at its peak<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Social circles is a "don't shit where you eat" scenarioThis is actually a good explanation that I think more guys should try and follow. For example: work friends: co-workers, etc School friends: I doubt this needs any explanation Gym friends: Gym buddies or bros you work out with Childhood/close friends: Ppl you grew up with, or have gotten close to, either emotionally or ppl you can vent to. I could go on, but you build your own social networks based on your own interests and go from there. You may not be close to every single person, and that's o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 01:04 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Women that are attracted to ambitious men, are gold diggersPlenty of women don't mind a homebody if they themselves are one. They don't want a guy who just sits at home all day and is unemployed with no goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 12:50 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Women that are attracted to ambitious men, are gold diggersI mean, thugs could have ambition if they wanna make it through the gang ranks or climb their way up as part of a drug cartel to become rich and become their own mafia boss! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 12:38 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Women that are attracted to ambitious men, are gold diggershaving a job can mean a lot of things, but that doesn't mean that a girl won't date a guy who works at McDonald's or drives Uber. I have seen women date men like that but those men have long term goals in mind and won't drive uber or work at fast food forever. Those are just short term jobs until they save enough money to go to college, start their own business, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 12:36 AM |
| 32 | CMV: Women that are attracted to ambitious men, are gold diggersI think what they mean is that they want a man who has something going for them, like a job or career, or that they have actual goals in life. This doesn't necessarily mean they all want a rich guy, but they don't want a guy who just sits at home all day and does nothing. A lot of women are attracted to blue collar men, first responders, etc and those guys aren't necessarily rich, per se. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | The red pill ideology does not hold true for most high status individualsI think regardless of your social and SES, if you are a confident high earning man who’s well respected in his field then most of this red pill stuff is moot. True “high value men” (if that’s how they get described) don’t need online red pill bros telling them what to do cuz they already have the confidence and social skills to navigate most situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Modern dating’s freedom of choice is an illusion, and most people are miserable for it.You actually make a good point. A good chunk of the traditionally Muslim ppl I know actually practice what they preach in that sense. They don't do premarital sex, birth control, etc, and they wear the hijab and don't do the LGBT stuff. The same can't really be said about American "Christians" today. Even the most hardcore evangelical Christians in America openly support a man who cheated on his wife with a pornstar and have been caught liking porn tweets (i.e. Ted Cruz). It's funny cuz these ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 03:25 PM |
| 1 | The entitlement of certain autistic men is bafflingHate is a pretty strong word but think about it this way: 1. You can’t always invite everybody to everything, there are ppl that are gonna be left out sometimes. 2. Unless it’s a big ass party, if I have a big friend group of 20+ ppl I can invite a bunch of ppl but if I’m doing something like going to a restaurant with friends I can only invite at most 5 ppl cuz you can’t bring everybody to a small table at a restaurant right? https://plausiblydeniable.com/five-geek-social-fallacies/ Reading thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 01:06 AM |
| – | Modern dating’s freedom of choice is an illusion, and most people are miserable for it.Do you belong to any religious community? If so, I'm sure you can find ppl there, like your church or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 04:55 PM |
| 7 | Modern dating’s freedom of choice is an illusion, and most people are miserable for it.“just find a woman who isn’t into short term mating,” they say. But they are riding on the statistics of another demographic. You def aren't wrong about this. There are plenty of women who are religious and date for marriage, but they aren't just going to date any man. Oftentimes, they'll date a man who shares their same religious beliefs, ex. Muslim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 04:52 PM |
| 2 | The entitlement of certain autistic men is bafflingtbf I never really dated autistic girls. All of the openly autistic girls I knew growing up were the purple-haired they/them types, and I never found them attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 10:53 PM |
| 8 | The entitlement of certain autistic men is bafflingso no DEI for autistic guys? /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 10:51 PM |
| 22 | The entitlement of certain autistic men is bafflingLemme chime in with my perspective as an autistic guy myself. A lot of the frustration for autistic guys may come off as "entitled," but it's more so it's a reaction to a lot of confusing social situations that are hard to navigate. A lot of Autistic guys know that they are not entitled to a romantic relationship, but they lack the self-awareness to understand why some of their traits may be off-putting. It's the lack of self-awareness that leads to frustration and anger, but it's not always abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 10:40 PM |
| 5 | The dating frustration that gives men the most hopelessness in the modern dating era is that the lack of "levers" he can pull to attract this "equivalent" in the modern dating eraI think it's the autism and the fact that many of them aren't self-aware about it. As an autistic guy myself, I was blessed to get a diagnosis in childhood, which gave me more time to work on social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 04:43 PM |
| 8 | The dating frustration that gives men the most hopelessness in the modern dating era is that the lack of "levers" he can pull to attract this "equivalent" in the modern dating erayeah that's pretty much it. A lot of these dudes who talk about "hypergamy" and 80/20 religiously have poor social skills, which is why they can't get laid or into relationships. This isn't to say that looks don't matter but most ppl don't have model-tier looks, and that goes for both men and women. Most ppl are mid af if you really think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Female teachers are largely responsible for systematic misandry in the educational system.The one where the F students run the show obviously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Female teachers are largely responsible for systematic misandry in the educational system.If a college professor made a joke like that it’ll be funny but not a high school or middle school teacher cuz kids are super impressionable at that age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 09:07 PM |
| 1 | The gender war epidemicchatgpt ahh beat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 12:25 AM |
| 15 | The gender war epidemicLol, I do agree with your premise that the men who are terminally online and super into the manosphere subculture need to touch grass. That being said, the manosphere itself is most def not a monolith but is in fact, incredibly broad and encompasses everything from red pill, PUA, male self-improvement/dating coaches to MRAs and the Black Pill/"incel" subcultures. I do think the manosphere has problematic elements, but I cringe when ppl boil it down to just "Andrew Tate incel shite" as it is a ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 12:23 AM |
| 2 | What would your contribution look like to efforts to raise the birthrates ?How are you gonna achieve having a higher birth rate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | What would your contribution look like to efforts to raise the birthrates ?The reason why "those cultures" outreproduce more is because of extremely traditional family expectations, and men and women are forced into getting married and having kids regardless of whether they actually want to or not. If you have a society where women and men have a choice in their marriage, the birth rate is obviously gonna go down cuz you can't force ppl to have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 09:36 PM |
| 8 | Do men believe that nice guys finish last ?Me when I’m 69 in the nursing home and Betty with Alzheimer’s chooses Brad Thunder cock the Vietnam veteran 😡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Do men believe that nice guys finish last ?I don't think being a "nice guy" is a problem if a dude is just genuinely a kind person. I also think men and women have different definitions of the term "nice guy". For women, I've seen them use the term "nice guy" to describe men who are only nice to women they wanna f*ck or are only being nice as a way to get into a girl's pants. For women, a "nice guy's" facade of kindness quickly fades away when he gets rejected and starts acting bitter/mean. For men, I've seen guys use the term "nice guy"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 06:09 PM |
| – | Q4E: Do you think some men are spreading this redpill rhetoric to make more men give up on women so they increase their chances at dating ?I've heard the new red pillers are just grifters and that the old red pill was actually more about self-improvement, confidence, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Women want socialism in professional life and capitalism in personal livesDon’t most ppl regardless of gender want capitalism in their personal lives? Like you can’t force people to be together if they don’t want to, and you can’t force ppl to become friends if they have nothing in common and don’t vibe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 11:31 PM |
| 5 | Q4E: Do you think some men are spreading this redpill rhetoric to make more men give up on women so they increase their chances at dating ?You actually have a point. The moment I stopped watching red pill YouTubers like hamza and other similar content my dating life improved significantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Q4E: Do you think some men are spreading this redpill rhetoric to make more men give up on women so they increase their chances at dating ?Yeah that’s it for the most part. Self confidence and having high self esteem are arguably more important for relationships than anything else in the end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4E: Do you think some men are spreading this redpill rhetoric to make more men give up on women so they increase their chances at dating ?To some degree yes but a lot of guys who get absorbed into red pill end up making it their whole worldview and they start to show resentment towards women which can spill out into the real world. IMO it’s the dose that makes the poison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 11:25 PM |
| 3 | The idea of marriage and family is dead for womenTbh I think the idea of relationships in general are basically being de-romanticized for both men and women. It’s not necessarily that women suck or men aren’t mature but rather that more ppl are realizing the amount of work it takes to actually maintain a long term relationship and start a family and this goes for both men and women. Ppl in general are realizing that it’s better to be single and alone than be stuck in a relationship that doesn’t benefit either partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Your Geography dictates your dating.Yeah this is actually a big thing a lot of ppl don’t realize. One of my friends from my med school grew up as a 1st gen Indian American dude in rural Texas and was straight up the only person of color in his entire high school class. The only other Indian girl in his area was his cousin. Grew up having no prom date or first kiss or any quintessential “high school experience” but all that changed when he went to Dallas for college and hooked up with a bunch of girls in the first 3 months of start… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?I would actually kinda disagree. Many of them are somewhat socially liberal but the economically conservative types. They like tax cuts and pro business policies but mostly don’t care for feminism or lgbt stuff, but they aren’t necessarily actively against it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 07:54 PM |
| – | It's very rare for a man to be with a woman who isn't primarily interested in getting money, resources or free food from him.Most women have jobs/careers and make their own money. In fact, they're even outearning men in some areas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 06:41 PM |
| 7 | Men want women to have LOW standards, not consistent standards.There's a difference between a "good man" vs a guy who is a "pushover". A lot of dudes think being "good" is synonymous with being a slave in this type of context, without realizing that it usually just means being caring and giving a shit about the other person. It is possible to do that and not be a pushover at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 06:30 PM |
| 1 | The lie regarding nice guysWhy is Bob even entertaining Alice if she kicked him in the balls? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 06:26 PM |
| 3 | The lie regarding nice guysSounds like someone’s mad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 06:00 PM |
| 1 | As a final year medical student, I believe that most people should avoid dating current medical students and residents, due to the personality flaws inherent within the profession and to protect their own health.But I always get furious internally when people either enter medical school with kids or end up having kids during the medical school/residency process. I hate it with a passion. Ok this is legit the most retarded take I’ve seen. Most doctors who have kids have it after they complete residency. Even still, there are a couple moms in my class and they balance things just fine but they end up going into less demanding specialties (I.e peds, psych etc) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 05:42 PM |
| 2 | As a final year medical student, I believe that most people should avoid dating current medical students and residents, due to the personality flaws inherent within the profession and to protect their own health.lol exactly and this is coming from another med student too. Yeah residency’s tough and it is a big time commitment but as another poster said, people in healthcare tend to date other people in healthcare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 05:38 PM |
| 1 | As a final year medical student, I believe that most people should avoid dating current medical students and residents, due to the personality flaws inherent within the profession and to protect their own health.Then don’t go to a doctor then problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 05:33 PM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 07:33 PM |
| 1 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)You're just bad at picking men.” “Maybe you're the problem.” “You’re a shitty person.” Gonna be honest here, if anyone (be it man or woman) is constantly complaining about the opposite gender, then it sounds like a them problem. I get the frustration, but if you came here to vent, this is most def not the place. And if a guy made this same type of thread (which they do many times), they'd also rightfully get clowned and maybe even called an incel or misogynist who "hates women". > But the truth … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Can’t believe this has to be said: yes, in order to date you need a social outletlol I've seen tons of homeless guys as patients who've tested positive for chlamydia, herpes, syphillis, gonorrhea etc. These dudes be fuckin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Why are you having trouble dating, in your earnest estimation?I see where you are coming from, but you have to understand that a lot of North African/Middle Eastern women may be conservative Muslims who only want/or are allowed to date other Muslim men. Afaik, Muslim women aren't allowed to be with non-Muslim men, but it depends on the family. As for South Asian, I am a south asian guy, and most of the South asian women I know prefer to date within their culture. However, I do know that many Indian Christians (especially Maliyalis) are open to dating someb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Overall. Getting women as a man is entirely too much work.Is this women in general, or maybe just the women you seem to want/are attracted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Overall. Getting women as a man is entirely too much work.ye, this is the thing a lot of dudes here seem to be forgetting. If she's making you jump through hoops or expecting you to take her to a fancy restaurant for dinner for a first date while also expecting you to pay for her nails, hair, makeup, etc, then you are well within your rights as a man to not pursue her any further if that's not something you feel comfortable doing. I feel like some of the guys here have low self-esteem and think that this is the only way they can get women to like them,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Overall. Getting women as a man is entirely too much work.Gonna be 100% honest here, I feel like this is pretty much a "mindset" issue and not a skill issue. You seem to view dating as a video game or a math equation where you have to make all these calculated decisions in order to get a girl to "like you". Real life dating and relationships are never going to be like that. It's not as simple as flowers+dinner= gf. Also, I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that you seem to go into the date hoping that she "likes" you instead of trying to build a connect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 07:52 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men on here underrate the importance of personalitybro did DJ Khaled so dirty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 02:32 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men on here underrate the importance of personalityIf you believe a guy is in the 3.0 row why would he be shooting for top tier women when he is not top tier himself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 02:22 PM |
| 4 | Apparently women just magically turn “demisexusal” around average menNobody's shaming men for simply wanting sex. It's the entitlement and the ability to not handle rejection well that people clown on. "Be honest about enjoying casual sex with hot men and not wanting to touch average men," you mean, be honest about not wanting to date men they aren't attracted to? Cuz they pretty much are honest about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 12:23 AM |
| 12 | Apparently women just magically turn “demisexusal” around average menYeah exactly. It’s not that deep, she’s just not that into you which is OK. You’ll find someone else who is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 12:06 AM |
| 5 | A list of some things feminists seem to not understand due to having female privilegeYeah also #6 applies to men too lol | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/06/25 04:30 AM |
| 2 | A man who can effortlessly get sex is exalted. A man who desires to have sex but is unsuccessful is seen as disgusting.I will say that it probably was easier for me to be secure about my lack of experience, cuz I was raised in a somewhat conservative Indian culture where dating wasn't really prioritized. In college, I had a lot of Indian friends who also didn't have much dating experience so being a virgin in your early 20s was sort of considered "normal". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 12:45 AM |
| 2 | A man who can effortlessly get sex is exalted. A man who desires to have sex but is unsuccessful is seen as disgusting.In the grand scheme of things, not really. It's normal to want sex and intimacy, but to make your entire identity revolve around not getting sex and intimacy is pitiful. Ppl are so much more than that, and you also have your own goals and aspirations that you are working towards, so don't let that part get you down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 08:08 PM |
| 1 | A man who can effortlessly get sex is exalted. A man who desires to have sex but is unsuccessful is seen as disgusting.I get what that feels like but once you actually do it, you realize it's not this magical experience that society and porn make it out to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 08:32 PM |
| 1 | If Men Should Accept Women’s Preferences, It’s Fair for Women to Accept that Men Prefer Young WomenThat’s the exception not the norm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 04:36 AM |
| 1 | If Men Should Accept Women’s Preferences, It’s Fair for Women to Accept that Men Prefer Young WomenThe two ages have completely different levels of maturity and life experiences. Do you really think it's going to be a healthy relationship if they're life experiences are vastly different? Also not to mention the obvious power dynamic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 03:44 AM |
| 8 | If Men Should Accept Women’s Preferences, It’s Fair for Women to Accept that Men Prefer Young WomenThe problem is that dude is twice that girl's age, and is old enough to be her dad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 01:50 AM |
| 9 | If Men Should Accept Women’s Preferences, It’s Fair for Women to Accept that Men Prefer Young Womenyeah nothing wrong with wanting a younger woman, but it does become creepy if there is a large age gap. Like if a 40 year old guy wants a woman who is in her mid/late 20s early 30s that's fine and understandable (esp if he wants to start a family) but it becomes weird when he wants a girl who's 18. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 01:47 AM |
| 1 | A man who can effortlessly get sex is exalted. A man who desires to have sex but is unsuccessful is seen as disgusting.I’m in grad school now and I still know a decent amount of ppl who are in their mid 20s and still virgins but they’re more so for religious reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 11:09 PM |
| 1 | A man who can effortlessly get sex is exalted. A man who desires to have sex but is unsuccessful is seen as disgusting.I guess it depends on your background but in my friend circle at least in college most of us didn’t really start dating until we started college. Being a virgin at that age 20s wasn’t considered a big deal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themNot really dude most ppl don’t care or give a shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:59 AM |
| – | American men are becoming disinterestedYou also seem to be forgetting that many women voted for trump too lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 04:19 AM |
| – | American men are becoming disinterestedSounds like there are terrible women just like there are terrible men wow gee what a shocker! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 04:16 AM |
| – | American men are becoming disinterestedAlso, there are pages like mugshawties that show hot women criminals that guys fawn over, like that one cartel assassin lady (I forgot her name). Not to mention the countless predatory female teachers who get a pass for SA'ing teenage boys by other men simply cuz she's "hot". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 04:01 AM |
| – | American men are becoming disinterestedand how exactly are "women" "abusing" sexually unattractive men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themThe way OP words it makes it seem like he thinks all women are the same. Not saying that there aren't women who act like that, there are, but a chunk of women being shitty like this isn't an indictment of all women lol. Think of it this way: If woman 1 says: Just be confident, she means the dude should be secure in himself and not take it personally if she rejects him. now if woman 2 says; "ew, I can't believe that dude had a chance with me" and posts it on her story or something, then we can al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 10:08 PM |
| – | Men ages 18-29 should not go after older women to date.I disagree unless there is a more than 4/5 year age gap. The oldest girl I've dated was 30 and while I enjoyed it in the short term, I believe that it's not good for a LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 09:54 PM |
| 5 | A man who can effortlessly get sex is exalted. A man who desires to have sex but is unsuccessful is seen as disgusting.yeah exactly. They act like a woman turning them down for sex is the same as a woman "bullying" them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 09:52 PM |
| 21 | A man who can effortlessly get sex is exalted. A man who desires to have sex but is unsuccessful is seen as disgusting.Gonna be 100% honest here, literally no one cares. And this is coming from a guy who didn't have his first gf or lose his v card until his mid 20s (22-23 ish). I'm not gonna sugarcoat it and act like being autistic is easy, but at the end of the day, if you are insecure about your lack of experience, either own up to it or lie about it. It's not that deep. If a girl is giving you shit because you are a virgin (and not by choice) then tell her to kick rocks or cut her out of your life. "They see … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Why don't men want to date single moms?I see. I think regardless of the personal story, the biggest reason is not wanting to put your time and energy into a kid that's not yours, especially if that kid is super young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Why don't men want to date single moms?I think it’s easier once the kids become older and more mature | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 08:43 PM |
| 0 | Why don't men want to date single moms?What if she’s divorced and/or a widow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 08:36 PM |
| 8 | If you are a late bloomer / socially stunted, you may never fully catch upehh, friend groups are always changing and very few people are still friends with the people they were friends with in high school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 01:09 AM |
| 20 | Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy.Yeah it’s like saying “I hate misogyny and Andrew Tate (btw I’m 6’3”)” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 04:17 AM |
| 10 | The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debateYeah there’s a lot of whack ass men and women out there. Social media has made it seem like everyone is either a kween boss babe or some high value alpha male | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 01:14 AM |
| 2 | What is the real reason some men are able to have success with love and some aren’t?yup exactly. A lot of these dudes think girls only want "Chad" but fail to realize that "Chad" is different depending on the girl you're asking. Not all girls are "Stacy" and not all guys are "Chad". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 05:30 PM |
| 6 | What is the real reason some men are able to have success with love and some aren’t?I think a lot of guys here either have undiagnosed autism or do not understand the concept of niche appeal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 09:12 PM |
| 10 | Young women are the most progressive group in American history. Young men are checked out. (Young men are increasingly voting conservative and as a Young man myself I’m not surprised, lots of male issues are ignored, invalidated and scoffed at. The left need to fix this)Young men are still overall progressive it’s just that a higher percentage of them are becoming more conservative. Compared to previous years. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/08/24 07:12 PM |
| 3 | TW: Indian actor & activist Shivam Patil was sexually assaulted by white woman in Canada, highlighting the power dynamics of racial misandry and the selective biases within the #MeToo movementEspecially considering it’s a brown man who are already stereotyped as being rapey. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/08/24 08:39 PM |
| 12 | Misogyny is terrorism, so says the misandrists.What counts as “misogynistic” to them tho? Are they gonna report some edgy teen boy who watches Andrew Tate videos? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/08/24 04:31 PM |
| 2 | How come colorism against South Asian men isn't taken as seriously compared to when it's against South Asian women?def might check it out later! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/08/24 09:19 PM |
| 4 | The wonderful people on blatantmisogyny are calling one of your threads "misogyny"depends on the context, but a lot of white feminists will say stuff like "Muslim men oppress Muslim women" to justify the invasions of Iraq and Afghanistan. There was even a twitter thread about male loneliness in India, and a lot of white feminists replied to that thread saying that Indian men deserve it with how oppressive the culture is and how horribly Indian men treat Indian women. As an indian guy myself, I damn well know there are serious problems in my culture that need to be fixed, but … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/05/24 06:01 PM |
| 2 | How frequently do you think bears commit sexual violence against people compared to men?lol you’d chose the bear but when the bear attacks you you’d def wish a man was there to save you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 04:11 PM |
| 2 | How frequently do you think bears commit sexual violence against people compared to men?can’t a bear literally maul you to death tho? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 03:56 PM |
| 19 | The wonderful people on blatantmisogyny are calling one of your threads "misogyny"It’s pretty amazing to see how blatantly racist a lot of white feminists are, especially to MOC | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/05/24 04:56 AM |
| 1 | The absolute state that is r/menslibbWhat do they actually say about menslib? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/04/24 01:28 AM |
| 7 | The absolute state that is r/menslibbHonestly I stopped taking menslib seriously after they went mask off in their racism towards south Asian men | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/04/24 01:27 AM |
| 6 | As LWMA's, how do we respond to posts like this one?as an Indian myself, we see so many of the r/canconfirmiamindian types. It's like an epidemic of collective guilt and it's embarrassing. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/03/24 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many gay men get along with straight women?Same reason why straight guys get along with lesbians | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 05:26 PM |
| 10 | Is the the old cliché “you’ll meet someone when you’re not expecting it” true for men?Yeah this advice only works if you already have your shit together in terms of career, mental health, social life etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 03:58 PM |
| -1 | Society is finished, terminal stagePpl are still getting married and having kids, they’re just doing it at a later age which isn’t necessarily a bad thing in itself. Most ppl at least in my culture who live in the west try to get married before they are 30 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Who is the most romantically/sexually unsuccessful woman you know? What’s their personality like? Describe her.lol did they end up dating? I think autistic guys and girls miss each others signals and struggle with showing romantic interest which is why we end up dating NTs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 12:54 PM |
| -3 | What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences?lol if I said you looked like lizzo would you take that as a compliment considering lizzo is “beautiful” in your eyes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 07:05 AM |
| 2 | What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences?I could say the same thing about women who “look like the female version of Watto” but want a Han Solo. The point is there are delusional mofos in all genders but somehow women get all defensive when called out on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Who is the most romantically/sexually unsuccessful woman you know? What’s their personality like? Describe her.Nice. I’d consider myself more high functioning and I was friends with a couple autistic girls but tbh I just didn’t really find them attractive, physically or personality wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Who is the most romantically/sexually unsuccessful woman you know? What’s their personality like? Describe her.lol why is that? As an autistic guy myself most of the girls I’ve dated have been NTs too. A couple of them had ADHD but that’s about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Who is the most romantically/sexually unsuccessful woman you know? What’s their personality like? Describe her.That’s actually interesting in a way. Do autistic women date autistic guys? Have you seen that happening before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 11:15 PM |
| 9 | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredBeing kind is the bare minimum. You shouldn’t be nice just for the sole purpose of getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 02:46 AM |
| 4 | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredlol the nice guys aren’t actually as nice as they think they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 02:45 AM |
| 4 | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredMaybe the girls he’s getting with are also ugly af? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 02:45 AM |
| 36 | I Think It’s Okay To Reject A Girl Based On Her Weight.Yeah. If a girl can say she doesn’t want a short guy, a guy can say he doesn’t want a fat girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Men who realised that they were conditioned to be Beta Bucks...So in order for men to be promiscuous doesn’t that require women to also be promiscuous? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Debate Most Women aren't "trash wh**es", but it seems that way because off all the Redpill content/Podcasts where trash women get handpicked to make views.The podcast is for entertainment purposes only you can’t convince me otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 11:13 PM |
| 4 | One sided open relationshipsIt’s just dumb cuz they complain about women being “cheaters” and having high body counts, yet these same red pill guys are the ones banging multiple chicks. For men to be promiscuous, there also needs to be promiscuous women willing to have sex with them. Red pill guys can’t complain about hookup culture if they’re the ones actively participating in it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 05:29 AM |
| 1 | 12 reasons not to work in women-dominated industries, using Healthcare as an exampleI guess my perspective might be a little different as a south Asian guy, but besides Doctor, SWE is another one of those stereotypical professions that were “pushed” into. There are plenty of SA SWEs that fit the stereotype of shy, socially awkward but there are a good amount of South Asian guys in tech that have a good salary and are physically fit, confident, and have great people skills. I know these guys get swoon over by south Asian girls, especially those in medicine and that seems to be t… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/23 06:02 PM |
| 3 | 12 reasons not to work in women-dominated industries, using Healthcare as an exampleA good amount of my lady med school friends are dating software engineers rn so that’s clearly not the case | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/23 03:02 AM |
| 31 | 12 reasons not to work in women-dominated industries, using Healthcare as an exampleAlso a lot of us are drained because of the burdens that admin puts on us and the fact that medicine can be stressful because of the heavy workload. It has nothing To do with women lol | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/23 02:54 AM |
| 8 | 12 reasons not to work in women-dominated industries, using Healthcare as an exampleIsn’t healthcare decided In part by insurance companies whose CEOs are mostly male? I don’t think it’s fair to blame female doctors for #1, considering a lot of clinician burnout is due to unnecessary stuff from management and insurance companies | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/23 02:47 AM |
| 5 | 12 reasons not to work in women-dominated industries, using Healthcare as an exampleThat’s some greys anatomy type shit ngl | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/23 02:40 AM |
| 22 | 12 reasons not to work in women-dominated industries, using Healthcare as an exampleYeah no point in applying for residency cuz you’re gonna treat patients which requires empathy and that makes you a beta male /s. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/23 01:54 AM |
| 39 | 12 reasons not to work in women-dominated industries, using Healthcare as an exampleYeah medicine is difficult but if you’re going into it thinking you’ll get hella bitches you’re dead wrong. I’m saying this as a second year med student. No woman actually gets her panties wet at your white coat pic just cuz ur going to be a doc… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/23 01:49 AM |
| 14 | Women criticise men for having reasonable boundariesYeah this exactly. If you don’t like onlyfans girls Just don’t date them lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 06:47 AM |
| 8 | Women criticise men for having reasonable boundariesTbh it’s nothing wrong with wanting to have a partner that doesn’t dress provocatively but as a man you should be going for a girl that doesn’t do all that already (yes they do actually exist) instead of trying to forcefully change a girl that does (goes clubbing and wears revealing clothes). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Western Women are the luckiestIt’s usually the opposite, except it’s western guys who try to find a non western women which is why passport bros are a thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 06:05 PM |
| 2 | What exactly does it mean to be a "modern day woman," and what kind of alternative women does the RP community prefer?You’re acting like every woman is like this. Maybe stop giving these kinds of women attention? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Super amazing and inspiring breakdown of the “red pill lie” Literally cried at one point for the hope restored. Hope it reaches more peopleBased. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/23 07:14 PM |
| -1 | This video explains what the red pill does get right but why it's useless ultimatelyI just showed this specific video not his other videos. Ur just dismissing him cuz he doesn’t fit your world view. I don’t even agree with a lot of the stuff he says but this video is spot on. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/23 06:11 PM |
| -3 | This video explains what the red pill does get right but why it's useless ultimatelyJordan Peterson actually gives some decent solid advice. You do realize that you can see the merits in people while disagreeing on some things right? Also why are you censoring the letters in his name? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/23 05:51 PM |
| -2 | This is my list of Redpill/MGTOW beliefs. I need help with challenging them- the world right now seems to confirm them.Again you do you but more often times than not, many women’s actions haven’t met up with their words. Of course every individual has different preferences but I know far too many men that have blindly listened to 100% of what a woman says and they end up falling flat. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/23 04:26 AM |
| 3 | This is my list of Redpill/MGTOW beliefs. I need help with challenging them- the world right now seems to confirm them.There is some truth to this but from my own experience plenty of guys that subscribe to these red pill talking points have no problems getting matches on dating apps and going on dates and smashing. Many of the girls they get with are def very attractive. However what they don’t show you is that many of these women that they end up attracting are very shallow and downright bitchy, not the kind you’d want for an actual relationship. The red pill is great if you’re just trying to hook up but not g… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/23 10:06 PM |
| -5 | This is my list of Redpill/MGTOW beliefs. I need help with challenging them- the world right now seems to confirm them.I agree with some of what your post is saying but the whole “dad bod” thing is cope. If given the option I’m willing to bet that the vast majority of women arguably find a muscular guy more attractive than a “dad bod”. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/23 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Is it really true that women are born high value? And what do you think of guys trying to “escape the matrix”?obviously women should be confident too, but in a society where you as a man are expected to make the first move, learning confidence and game can go a long way. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/09/23 05:30 PM |
| 0 | Is it really true that women are born high value? And what do you think of guys trying to “escape the matrix”?The whole “escaping the matrix” stuff is dumb tho. The only sort of universal truth is that as a man at least, you should be somewhat masculine and confident in yourself, but don’t overdo it | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/23 08:26 PM |
| -1 | Is it really true that women are born high value? And what do you think of guys trying to “escape the matrix”?I do think there is some truth to this, as your value as a man is determined by a combination of looks+ status and somewhat same for women too. There is some degree of superficiality but most people would want a partner that has something going on for them | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/23 08:24 PM |
| 3 | I’m scared of cheating in this generationI agree with this. This doesn’t mean you should treat women badly but don’t make her your main focus in life at the same time. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/23 04:08 PM |
| 1 | is there a link between autism and red pilled men?Why should I trust someone named daddyslittlefuckslut? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/23 07:59 PM |
| 1 | suggestions for anti redpill books or podcast youtuberSome ppl say Hamza is a red pill youtuber but recently he's actually made some more recent videos where he talks about how damaging the red pill is. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e5gTOhFztko&list=LL&index=101 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lBBkXOZCQ9E | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/23 07:48 PM |
| 14 | The less I care about a women, the more interested they seem“Treat her like a queen and you shall be left on seen” | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 05:18 PM |
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