https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MNVO09bdEMI&t=683s

Watch till the end, I think he gives great insight on why the red pill makes you bad at relationships. I think the biggest thing that men need to realize is that while looks do matter, it's not 100% dependent on that. Looks are what get your foot in the door, but the rest is how you present yourself, your confidence, and your personality. What I find the most ironic is that the kinds of women (superficial, manipulative, overtly promiscious) that the red pill warns guys about are exactly the kind of women that most of these red pill guys end up attracting.