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Be careful with this going down the rabbit hole of just making fun of somebody in that style of flirting can come off very wrong to a lot of different types of people if you are not careful with it. I think the overall point though is true that it's just being about having fun about little things the topic doesn't really matter as much as the playfulness. Something as simple as a scenario where somebody has a few pens on their desk and walking over and grabbing one and then just giving them a lo…
/r/seduction29/03/18 02:11 PM
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Flirting for women can be tough but I would say just the general more generic type B S of making sure to pay attention when he's around and try to just make good conversation and be playful and flirty. But if this is an office setting may be saying something about oh I like to usually go to some bar or place for drinks and try to take it out of the office and maybe things will just go from there. But I can say personally if you were direct depending on the situation that could go either way
/r/seduction28/03/18 10:08 PM
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You are at the stage of figuring things out..let your hormones do more work and your mind do less. You are a teenager and so was she..there are no "rules". You could have joked about it, played into it and had fun, said "hey get off" , anything. Just have fun and see where it goes! It's natural. People like to have sex and fool around. Just let it happen
/r/seduction24/03/18 01:52 PM
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You are both so young and she probably does not know what to do either. Don't try too hard and just be yourself. At this age don't worry too much about one girl or focus on her too much. Just focus on doing fun things and the rest will fall into place. Definitely do not write her a letter.
/r/seduction18/03/18 03:32 PM
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You need to reflect on WHY you are doing all of this. To me? It sounds like you are tired of the same old shit but too afraid to look at yourself deeper. I am sure a lot of here subscribe to the whole "AWALT" type of logic of "don't fall for a girl too much or its over!" etc.. logic that requires you to get laid all the time. But really? It is about finding someone that is a good match. I had a lot of fun in highschool and college and post-college, finding girls and having fun in general. It is …
/r/seduction05/02/18 05:07 PM
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once you start realizing there is no one right thing to say and that there are infinite right things to say, you will not worry as much. you think you are super attractive, which may be true, but you are probably using it to get inside your own head. we are literally biologically made to have sex and be attracted to one another. just. do. it.
/r/seduction03/11/17 08:52 PM
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I think 9/10 times when I thought "I want to kiss her" it worked out. so, be direct if you want, or just go for it.
/r/seduction27/09/17 09:57 PM
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is that where you take the girl to a private place to have sex? You have a lot of work to do OP.
/r/seduction19/09/17 09:56 PM
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I don't always recommend this. but just do it. if everything went well, don't be a dick keep doing what you are doing. but if you go to the same gym, you WILL see her soon anyway. if she really wants to see you and knows she will soon, delay a little. it will make her second guess "is he really into me" and won't cost you anything.
/r/seduction20/08/17 05:03 PM
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don't show up Monday. make some legit excuse
/r/seduction20/08/17 04:29 PM
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I don't want you to take this the wrong way, but that is a super douchey way to go about things. and unless you are in no way connected to the girl this will eventually backfire badly on you. there is nothing wrong with being flirty and having fun, but if you begin to be the guy that just goes for anyone, single or not single, it will catch up to you. it is MUCH better to just be playful and tease in a situation with someone who is in a relationship than to go for the gold. it will pay off overa…
/r/seduction27/06/17 10:25 PM
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It definitely helps to not be "expecting" anything. People are very perceptive to miniscule differences in the way we interact. if someone perceives you as trying something on them, even if it is "pushing" to get a new friend etc.. it can be offputting So one of the keys is to try and recognize that someone can walk away at any instant and you have to be perfectly okay with that and focused on your next move. That is why people always say "be the life if the party" in a sense. Life is your party…
/r/seduction20/02/17 08:03 PM
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Yeah maybe switch your logic and instead of thinking of how you meet new people, think of the people in your life and how you met them. Sometimes BEST FRIENDS of like 20 years met because of the dumbest shit. We are all spinning around on this rock in space, looking to find connections with people. It is all an illusion (not like conspiracy level just in your head)
/r/seduction20/02/17 07:57 PM
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You should try to let it happen more naturally. Stranger approaching does not mean going up to total strangers that you just see and trying to get them to go out with you. It is more, "Look for a small but simple connection to people around you and use those as ice-breakers so that you can get an introduction and in doing so show them that you are normal and are worth a second look and even possibly some time out of their life to spend a little more with you to see if you are worth it" Go to mor…
/r/seduction20/02/17 07:21 PM
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Yeah this is a big one and something I had to work on myself. hahahaha If you are saying "hahahaha" after something, pause and think, "Why am I saying this?" hahahha A lot of times I bet you will notice it is to fill an "void" or to show "I am just being fun and casual" etc..well unfortuantely, it actually shows the opposite. hahahahah If I say "Hey would you want to go out for a drink or something sometime? hahah" It comes across as if I am trying to "defend" my statement against some sort of n…
/r/seduction07/02/17 05:32 PM
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I'm in a book? Woah!
/r/seduction03/02/17 08:10 PM
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Think of it this way: The only reason we are all here is because our ancestors could not stop fucking. Literally. Every time you go into a room and people are there its because they were FUCKED INTO EXISTENCE. If that doesn't do it for ya, I do not know what will..
/r/seduction02/02/17 09:03 PM
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Oh glad you asked! Never, ever, feel rude for not responding in a situation like that. Think of it like this..If you give her all the attention and immediately fawn over every thing and immediately respond, it will lead to her finding you unnattractive. Now in this particular example since you just met, it really does not matter as much. But keep this lesson in mind as you start to talk to her and other girls. This is why the RP's always talk about 'oneitis'. Or the classic "putting he pussy on …
/r/seduction31/01/17 11:00 PM
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PLEASE LISTEN TO ME: You did well. Good job just taking action and being friendly. If you really are actual neighbors, or close to it, be careful with this one. My advice: Keep being playful but also with her be a little slower than normal. If you felt attraction this time, that is great, but try to hold off on that for a little. If she is your neighbor and you both go to the same gym and work out, it could be tempting to jump right in and go 100%. Start hanging out a lot etc... In my opinion/ex…
/r/seduction31/01/17 02:17 PM
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Hey now, let's not be mean to cancer.
/r/seduction24/01/17 09:50 PM
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I think one of the first mistakes is thinking "What do I need to do to text her to get her interest". The reason this is an issue is because it immediately puts you in a mindset of "Okay there are rules. I have to play by this set of rules. Push this button, then this one, okay! It worked. I am in!" While this mindset is somewhat true (there are some tricks generally) it can be disasterous. Much like how reddit comments differ, some are funny, insightful, etc... your texting game needs to be as …
/r/seduction16/01/17 03:07 PM
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FYI you did in your post what you describe you do in your dates. You had a pretty solid post and then you got freaked out at the end and tried to end it apologetically. Think more about that. Think about why you are doing it and try to reflect and learn and grow. Seems like you are insecure about yourself and your identity/confidence etc..
/r/seduction12/01/17 03:07 PM
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Are you a robot?!?! This is supposed to be fun/sexual. You are not re-setting a router.
/r/seduction09/01/17 08:04 PM
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My point was to say that OPs advice was terrible and that blabbing on and on is not good and makes you look silly. Much better to be able to keep the conversation going by letting your date talk about themselves and doing your best and keeping the conversation playful
/r/seduction04/01/17 08:34 PM
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Are you sure about that? Honestly think for a second..If I just kept talking on a date about myself and what I believe and dream and think and want to do in life and oh yeah last week I went to the store and saw this great t-shirt and then I bought it but I realized it was winter and so I had to go back and return it for a long sleeve but I didn't have a receipt but I remembered I was going on vacation soon. By the way we always vacation in the winter to ski because me and my family LOVE skiing …
/r/seduction04/01/17 03:58 PM
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Yeah exactly! Look at it this way, that stranger on the street over there? They have 20 things in common you and you just don't know it yet.
/r/seduction01/12/16 10:53 PM
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Not so much controversial as just a discussion about different ideas. I don't think he is crazy or anything for suggesting it, I just offered a counter opinion.
/r/seduction01/12/16 10:52 PM
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If you can give me an example I could possibly be more specific, but I guess my answer is, how do you find out where people do anything? Everything from a local subreddit, to a club, to meetup.com to other forums to just going to places that sell the stuff you need to do what you want to do and asking about where people do it, just taking a chance and going to places where you think people may be, etc... It is tough to give a hard answer without a specific example, if you send me one here or in …
/r/seduction01/12/16 09:36 PM
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Tough to say, but as general advice, I would not use that as your first interaction. So as my answer: no, do not message her on facebook. It may come off a little to strong. She may just feel unease about the whole social media "creeping" thing. We ALL do it, but when it comes in your face like that (a guy she barely knows messaging her) it will be blatantly obvious. If you do not have those connections already with her, taking it to "the next level" over the internet or text or call etc.. is no…
/r/seduction01/12/16 08:31 PM
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Yeah I see where you are coming from. I guess here is maybe the difference of how I feel...If someone I know were to ask advice, "Where should I find someone to date." One of the last places I would list would be the place they work. However, if someone had said "oh I met someone at work who I have been dating" I would congragulate them and not really think anything of it. I suppose what I am getting at is I think it is not the best advice to look at work as a potential place to find someone to …
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:21 PM
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I actually just had this situation, moved into a new town after college and was dumped by my x. Here is my advice: 1. Do more of what you already do, but socially Ex: you like to play video games, find a place where people do that or hangout and like that. Ex: you like to go running. Find a group of people that like to run. Ex: you like to play music or guitar. Put yourself out of your comfort zone and go to a open mic night. Etc.. 2. Do things you have always wanted to do, but just have not don…
/r/seduction01/12/16 03:01 PM
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I understand that it is absolutely reasonable and possible to do this, there really is just no benefit to doing so. If the only compatible person you are able to find is a coworker, you are either doing something wrong or just not trying. If someone could tell me a potential benefit to this scenario I am all ears, I just do not see any potential upsides besides it being easy. Just because you can, does not mean you should. Flirt with people at work.. hell even go out and drink with them, but jus…
/r/seduction01/12/16 02:54 PM
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Yeah I am sorry this is a bad idea. People at work should be very low on your list. Many more fish in the sea that you don't have to work with. Edit: I did not mean to be so harsh in my response. Just be careful with the coworkers. It would not be my #1 option but if it happens, let it happen in the right situation.
/r/seduction01/12/16 12:57 PM
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I would play the next interaction depending how it goes but most importantly be non threatening. I think if you continue to show yourself as confident and as natural as possible of "oh hey nice to see you again" As for me though I usually do the very open honest approach. Something like "hey I know we keep bumping into each other and I was wondering if___" I think you need to be aware a rejection is possible for a number of reasons but just ask as a casual type thing. Something that can be frame…
/r/seduction24/11/16 10:09 PM
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I disagree with this not as a whole but as a the "if you didn't escalate immediately you lost it". Not saying you said that exactly, but hear me out.. One of the best things you can do is leave an attractive women interested and then not do anything about it and walking away. It is mysterious it is bold it is etc.. IF YOU PLAY IT THE RIGHT WAY. On one hand she could see it as you being a coward (if she can tell you obviously wanted to but we're to awkward to just come out and say it.) But, if yo…
/r/seduction24/11/16 06:27 PM
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This is NOT a girl you want to do stuff with. Having said that: just keep doing what you are doing. A girl like this wants the affection and knows she can get it. If you play hard to get, she will come after you. But just know, if you date her or get serious, she will do this stuff behind your back. And I bet even right now you are not the only one. proceed with caution
/r/seduction18/11/16 07:46 PM
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No external situations besides your core needs like shelter food and safety will lead to your happiness. Check out maslows heirarchy of needs. In addition to that point I think it is important to anaylze WHY you want to cry. Crying is natural. It is okay. Now, having said that, you should still try your best to understand why you feel this way. To me it seems like you are trying to change yourself externally, and internally, to achieve something outside of yourself. While this is good, you need …
/r/seduction11/11/16 06:14 PM
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Yeah ideally you shouldn't have to worry about it. Really your #1 enemy is over texting . Just try to think of it from her perspective. If you just met someone and they come on way strong, what does that say? It is all about letting her know you are interested without being clingy and really into her. Mystery, suspense, fun etc.. It's all a dance. You will do fine. There will be fuck ups and not every girl will work out. You gotta accept that
/r/seduction14/10/16 09:58 PM
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Absolutely! Don't focus on that part of what I said, I was just suggesting it. Don't stress, don't be needy and just be confident. You can play it 100 ways
/r/seduction14/10/16 09:47 PM
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Oh, I meant that if you talk to her do not be afraid to acknowledge the fact that "you had just met her and gotten her number quickly" she may be thinking about it too "like I barely know this guy" so if you acknowledged it at some point it wouldn't hurt. and that's not a bad idea actually! try and think of a comfortable place to meet with her before if she says yes and possible plans after. but yeah sure! YOU MAKE THE RULES. just do not seem desperate/needy and generally you will do fine
/r/seduction14/10/16 08:50 PM
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Yeah and I struggle with that a lot. I am a personable and happy person and I NEVER would want to make a woman feel uncomfortable. and I am confident if you asked those who knew me in person they would agree. I do not think the "game" should come above respecting women/people. But I may not be the majority
/r/seduction14/10/16 08:35 PM
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Not a bad idea at all! And as a last bit of advice, and this is tough: But you just need to balance communication as a whole. Now you will be thinking "okay, she texted me...now do I wait 1 day? do I seem needy? wait, okay dont be needy...set timer for 1-hour...okay now text her ..." If you start thinking like that you will just sabotage yourself. The key: once again, texting too much is needy. Communicating too much is needy. When not talking to her, you need to focus on you. That is why most "…
/r/seduction14/10/16 08:25 PM
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wait at least 24-48 hours to talk to her. When you do text her, be casual and do not be too intense. I would almost acknowledge the fact you got it quick, because she will be thinking about that a bit. maybe something like "Hey , it was great meeting you. I am going to be going to tomorrow if you want to come with, I think it would be fun"
/r/seduction14/10/16 08:21 PM
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yeah it is FINE to like a girl a lot but that should not mean automatic stream of texts. Being in a relationship/liking a girl/etc... is all fine. just do not get too needy. Its not good for anyone. You will be fine
/r/seduction14/10/16 08:19 PM
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Yeah I mean, in a truthfull but slightly to the point way: You are on a forum, worrying about her. You clearly worry about her outside of this. You are trying to figure it out. Do you honestly think, given what you know, she is even coming close to doing the same? Now, that doesnt mean you are not a good dude etc.. honestly I do not know ANYTHING about you. But what I do know, based on what you said, is you are likely texting her too much to get her attention in one way or another. no matter how…
/r/seduction14/10/16 08:01 PM
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I like the sentiment of your post. I agree that you should be "the life of the party" in a sense. This is my ship and it is sailing to party-town with you or without you, type mentality, Absolutely agree. I think however, this is in addition to that philosophy. This post is to see which women are actively interested in you. Not simply finding the ones that dont/do like you, but rather exploring that interest further. Lastly, I think maybe rephrasing the line "unless they make it clean they dont …
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:57 PM
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So, I used to struggle with this a LOT through college: You get an idea in your head "haha this is funny, I should send it to her!" or "Eh, she might not have texted me back..maybe she is busy, ill just send her one more text!" In order to stop doing that you need to ACTIVELY attempt not to. So, in a literal sense, at first you may have to actually set some sort of time or number restriction. "I will NOT text her back for 1-hour" "I will NOT text her 2 days out of the week" etc... YOU NEED TO FI…
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:53 PM
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Just saw this, there is a lot to talk about, but just remember when it comes to text "game": YOU WILL NEVER WIN A GIRL OVER THROUGH TEXTS and YOU WILL VERY OFTEN LOSE A GIRLS INTEREST OVER TEXTS. What this means? Usually, it is best to text less. Overall use it as a means of communication to hang out but also be flirty occasionally and tease. This goes for most people too, not just guys/girls talking. Texting too much is just too much.
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:43 PM
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yeah but all jokes aside the DENNIS system is about mentally manipulating a woman to hookup with you. This is all about looking for signals and having fun with a woman! (although I do LOVE IASIP)
/r/seduction14/10/16 04:48 PM
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ha thank you! As I was writing it out as a joke..then after typing it I realized it actually makes sense.
/r/seduction14/10/16 03:15 PM
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TL;DR: Women will not come out and say to you right away that they find you attractive, you need to look for signals. Most people think "X" signals tell you but really it is these other signals. But more importantly, Talking to women is like a dance, "too many missteps and they are out of there!" SO, LET's (meta) break it down (doublemeta): Laugh, Eye-Contact,Touch,Ask or "LETS" Dance. Okay, so the author did not actually use that acronym, but he used all the words and should have because its fu…
/r/seduction14/10/16 02:58 PM
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This is a biggest fear of yours? This should not even cross your mind. A bathroom break, at most, would take like 10mins. Assume you came in RIGHT after he left. That means you have about 10 minutes to game a girl with a boyfriend who she knows is going to come back very soon. This leaves three scenarios: A. If you are somehow doing such a good job seducing a girl in this situation, to the level of worrying about pissing off her boyfriend, then you have crazy good skills. B. On the other hand, t…
/r/seduction12/10/16 05:44 PM
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Highly dependent on the country. you need to know what is expected there to some extent. Not every country or woman etc.. is the same. A little more info may help. What works in the USA may well not work in Europe and vice versa. Want to make sure you dont do anything perceived as creepy etc..
/r/seduction27/09/16 06:06 PM
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First of all, yes, you should have ;). But most importantly, stop and pause. Slow down. Is it a lot too get attached that quick? Yes. Is it weird or messed up? Nooooo. That is natural. I have made that mistake countless times and still do!! It is tough. You make a good connection etc and you like it and it feels good. That is fine. At first you need to realize you won't win someone over via texts. You can be flirt and stuff but you won't get a girl that way. Then you need to slow down and say mu…
/r/seduction23/09/16 09:21 PM
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Numerous reasons. Mainly to build suspense. Think of it this way, she met you. She seems to like you. In our mind If you text her a whole bunch before then you could build a great connection etc.. But really it is unnecessary. If you Don't text her you can build up more suspense. Women love suspense. Is he thinking about me, does he like me, wait why is he not texting me, hmm maybe I should wait, wait should I text him etc.. Your goal is to get her thinking about you. If you text her, it is coun…
/r/seduction17/09/16 04:56 PM
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Trust me on this. Please. Please. Do not text her until Sunday morning or early afternoon. Under any circumstances. If she texts you before them just say you had a busy day yesterday. Please please trust me. This will help.
/r/seduction17/09/16 02:01 PM
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Woah, woah woah...calm down here. Judging by how worried you are about this one text, you are going to freak her out soon. You are WAY too concerned with this situation. Girls find it a HUGE turnoff if you are really really into them at first. Some would even say that texting her that night was a bad move, I say it can go either way. No need to play hard to get or any mind games at this point. Do not over think this text. The worst thing you can do right now is overthink this text, text her agai…
/r/seduction25/08/16 02:42 PM
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there is a HUGE difference between faking who you are and having a good idea like this as a starter. no one is saying you should not be yourself here..it is more like, "hmmm I can think of anything interesting right now, let me try talking about relationships" Just because women love talking about them does not mean it is fake to bring it up/making stuff up.
/r/seduction17/08/16 08:55 PM
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Just something to think on, not that you are doing poorly: Sometimes silence is very very powerful. Conversation is very good and if you sprinkle in silence you can really spice things up. Like how you mentioned when you were at the coffee shop and kept saying you were that awkward guy interrupting. If you frame it differently, which you mentioned you will try in the future, you could just be that cool new guy that they met at the coffee shop. In addition to that the moments of silence can be us…
/r/seduction10/08/16 05:48 PM
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Yes, also totally hijacking the top comment to say something I think is important here: You are upset partially because you are looking for EXTERNAL satisfaction. To me it sounds like you did a LOT of great things after you broke up. You started to feel like "wow look at all this great shit I accomplished! Life really can get better". But now that she is back, the old feelings and thoughts crept back in. That is because you were not truly "over it". This is a new challenge that shall face you. I…
/r/seduction04/08/16 05:59 PM
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Okay, this may not be popular advice BUT there is actually a decent chance here. This assumes you had a good connection with her and she was interested. Keep in mind, you can always just wait like the other commenters said, that is clearly a good option. Another option, with some risk, but possibly high reward: Be confident and reach out to her. You will have to play this carefully to avoid coming across as creepy. This is your biggest obstacle in this scenario. You have to text her KNOWING THAT…
/r/seduction11/05/16 07:57 PM
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"You hear about these crounuts? What is the deal with those? it seems like they have gone too far this time..." -some bullshit response from her and some back and forth "Oh hey, so I gotta run real quick and go ________ (walk my dog, pickup a friend, meet a friend, go to the gym) but you seem pretty cool. we should grab a drink sometime" Boom. Done. Casual "opinion opener" followed by basic small talk and capped off with a time-constraint.
/r/seduction10/05/16 05:02 PM
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For me it usually goes in cycles: Flirt with tons of women, do really well. Start hooking up with a few, WOW things are going great! Realize that one of them is pretty cool, focus on her, forget about the others. Get into some sort of relationship for x amount of time with that one. Things are good but start to decline Break up. Feel horrible, insecure, confused, empty etc... Ride that feeling out, start to feel more optomistic...but not ready to date start to feel 100% normal, life is just like…
/r/seduction05/05/16 05:38 PM
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Nothing at all! You are allowed to laugh at things. The point is: try not to use it as just a modifier to your sentence. You can be laughing back and forth, but just try to avoid saying something and then just laughing haha. ^ See what I mean there? What I said was not a joke, but I ended in "haha". It's stuff like that you should avoid.
/r/seduction26/04/16 02:45 PM
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Well then you are working a shorter window. Still operate on at LEAST a few days or a week of no contact/ not showing much interest. Women do not forget how you make them feel. If she wants you, this is your best chance. Trust me.
/r/seduction25/04/16 08:29 PM
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As of right now, there is NOTHING YOU CAN SAY. You need to let time do its thing. Wait a couple of weeks and then CONSIDER reaching back out to her. Women want what they cant have.
/r/seduction25/04/16 08:03 PM
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Funny movies and tv shows help. You do not necissarily have to be the sterotypical "funny guy". Some people are hilarious with completely different styles. Think about what YOU find funny and go from there. The whole point in picking up girls is finding someone that you can have a good time with. There may be entire hordes of girls waiting to hear the type of funny that you are!
/r/seduction19/04/16 06:32 PM
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Can you get a girl while on minimum wage? Yes. Does having more money help you get a girl? Yes. Can you get a girl without being very attractive? Yes. Does being really attractive make it easier? yes. Can you get a girl without being in good shape? Yes. Does being in good shape help you get a girl? Yes. Etc... You should ALWAYS want to better yourself. Whether is so you have more pride in yourself and are more confident, or if it is so you can be successfull and raise a family down the line. It …
/r/seduction15/04/16 03:34 PM
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Woah, calm down there. no need for the "you guys". And yes, you are right, he should just apologize.
/r/seduction15/04/16 03:11 PM
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hahah this is gold
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 05:40 PM
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I like the fact that "Original" is in there. as if there are SO MANY imposter tinder hacks experts that it was necessary to clarify that this guy was the first
/r/seduction14/04/16 02:05 PM
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If there is literally no way that you can see yourself having fun and enjoying yourself out, no $$ required, with a girl...then there is no hope for you. A walk in the park? A long hike? Day at the beach? Watching a movie or tv show? Going for a run or a bike ride? Picking up a girl does not have to be some "sociopathic" exercise? It is about finding someone you have a mutual attraction with. The reason people talk here about "techniques" is the same reason people learn how to say please and tha…
/r/seduction13/04/16 07:37 PM
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All these responses are good. I am just gonna bandwagon on here to just mention something that has not been said yet: Kissing is supposed to be "primal" in a way. Especially once you get passed the whole first "awkward" kiss thing and get to more passionate making out. Very very few people I have kissed were actually terrible and I would imagine some of them were first time or inexperienced, so for the most part just follow what everyone said at first. But just remember: The whole point is that …
/r/seduction30/03/16 07:37 PM
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Just accept that it is an insecurity. You already realize this is true so to some extent that is good. If anything just focus on yourself and make yourself better. If you need a woman interested in you to "validate" your scenario and feel good then you are too focused on her/them. Just get into a position where you are actually comofrotable in your skin. Do your best. and in the end, some women will leave and others will stay and you will likely do the same. Point is: there are tons of fish in t…
/r/seduction29/03/16 06:29 PM
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YES. At the same time, I might throw this in there too: Do not always wait around for this "perfect" person. Some of the best relationships I have had were with women that I would NEVER end up with in the end, but I learned a LOT from them. Different people can teach you different things, about the world and life etc... I have had probably around 10-15 "girlfriends" in my life. Some I had a official title with, others were just fuck buddies others were weird combinations of both. My point is: Do…
/r/seduction28/03/16 07:19 PM
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AND MURDER THEM. jk jk . But really, worst case scenario: You lose the girl to them like you would have already. Best case scenario: you win over the girl and end up with another bro friend to go spit game with
/r/seduction11/03/16 08:02 PM
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Yes those are great examples! Just a subltle thing too: It helps if there is more time inbetween the fact and the teasing. So if she said the mario kart thing and driving thing in one sentence then when you did was absolutely spot on. But lets say, she said the mario kart thing, and then later she mentioned something about driving: boom now you say it. Something about the delay really works. It always gets good laughs. But as for the rest: just keep going. If it helps, dont feel the need to alwa…
/r/seduction11/03/16 07:58 PM
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I would say the answer lies in the "teasing" aspect of the conversation. You both are out at night, presumabley single or available. I hate to go with the dennis quote from its always sunny but "think of the implications". Women want to be seduced a little, not just have a conversation about their day. Be playful, try and tease them a little. Don't be so infatuated with them. Make good eye contact but also act interested in things other than her. Another HUGE one for me: try and remember details…
/r/seduction11/03/16 07:49 PM
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Think of it this way, when picking up a woman your goal is to be different, to catch them "off guard" in a good way. In the daytime they are NOT expecting to get politely hit on. Sure they are used to guys cat calling and staring at them etc.. but for the most part, well thought out and nice pickup attempts do not happen that much. That is why day game is all about being confident and forward without being creepy. In the nightime women are going out EXPECTING TO GET HIT ON. Yes, it may seem obvi…
/r/seduction11/03/16 03:52 PM
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I usually try to, as subtly as possible, assert dominance in the situation. If you are talking to a girl or group of girls and another guy comes up, there are two bad things you can do. Get quieter and shy away. Try and butt him out of the conversation. In my opinion, the best thing to do is to "welcome" him into the group. Acknowledge his presence and bring him into the conversation. By doing that you are showing that you have control of the conversation and the surroundings and are keen to the…
/r/seduction11/03/16 03:42 PM
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Well being good looking always helps. But I still stick with my words
/r/seduction29/02/16 04:24 PM
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No offense but you just have to quit being a pussy. You are being a little bitch. If this helps: Women are just as horny as men. If you are in a situation and getting all of those signals then all of those times those girls wanted to bang too. You can either let this continue to happen or you can do something about it, AND JUST FUCKING HAVE SEX. Its not like you are nervous about giving a speech and the advice is just suck it up. You literally get to stick your dick into a female. Its amazing an…
/r/seduction19/02/16 08:12 PM
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May i Just ask why? I do not think it is gross, just curious as to why.
/r/seduction18/02/16 03:45 PM
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this and some viagra. maybe viargra for both of you. that should really help get things going
/r/seduction17/02/16 09:19 PM
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I agree with a lot that has been said here, but my view is this. Keep in mind I went to a small school for my first 2 years: If you are that good at getting with that many girls, then you are just good with women in general. So do not be afraid to have some friends that are girls. Build your circle of "hookups" and friends. Keep being honest and straightforward but also have at-least 1/2 good friends that are girls and JUST friends. The logic is that they will have other friends and honestly bef…
/r/seduction17/02/16 08:43 PM
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This is all the advice you need. Just graduated not too long ago and had a lot of experience with picking up women in college. Do not pick up girls on campus. Do not pick up girls on campus. Edit: obviously this is only true if you do not go to school there. if you go there, it is normal and somewhat easy to do on campus. Go to bars, coffee shops etc.. also another good one is ALWAYS volunteering stuff. lots of beautiful and single girls anywhere you can volunteer. especially by college campus. …
/r/seduction17/02/16 08:37 PM
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You are welcome! As a somewhat side note It also helps that you come across as well spoken and thought out and clear. A lot of time people post in here and their post is absolutely garbage and riddled with errors and weird personal shit and it's obvious they do not have their shit together. So not that it matters that much but you do come across as professional and all that jazz. So that will only help you
/r/seduction05/02/16 11:18 PM
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See, what you are doing here? It is amazing. You are thinking, you are acting, you are reevaluating your decisions, you are changing...adapting...this is progress. This is change. You did something you were uncomfortable to do, but you even said it ...you listened to that voice inside your head that said JUST DO IT. You put aside your fears and concerns and you acted on impulse. That is what being a man is about. Developing a plan and acting on it. Go back to the lab (here, other forums, friends…
/r/seduction05/02/16 09:25 PM
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these are EVERYWHERE now days
/r/seduction27/01/16 02:24 PM
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It sounds like you are just stopping yourself in fear of failure. It is a lot easier for us to cope with things by not facing them. By avoiding the interaction and saying "next time" or "I could do that I just have to do it" you are essentially avoiding the possibility of failure by not allowing yourself to fail. It is a protection mechanism. Saying hi to a few girls does not count. That is not trying, that is staying in your comfort zone. You need to ask yourself, do you want to be comfortable …
/r/seduction15/01/16 09:03 PM
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The best advice I can give is to just do it. You are gonna mess up a lot but you just gotta get out there and do it. Your heart will race, you will say stupid things, you will bomb hard a few times at least, but it gets better. For me one of the most important things to remember is to slow down and have a good time. Just talk to girls and see how it goes. If it goes badly, that does not mean that YOU suck, it could mean a number of different things. The point is: just relax and have fun and talk…
/r/seduction15/01/16 08:26 PM
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Step 1. Tell female friends your plan to go out and hang out with them as wingmen Step 2. pregame at house/apartment/wherever and relax and have a few drinks with your friends. Step 3. go out with your friends and see what happens!
/r/seduction15/01/16 08:22 PM
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Your post took a rather interesting/dark twist at the end, but I dig it.
/r/seduction06/01/16 09:01 PM
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Woah, everyone calm down here. I think it is a positive sign that she wants to bring her friend. (Or could be at least) Its not like she said, "Oh no I do not want to do X with you, but I would be comfortable going to the movies with you but my friend has to come" She basically said, "I am already doing other things but I will change them so I can hang out with you, but I cant ditch my friend so she has to come" Those are two entirely different scenarios. I say: Go, be cool about it, be playful …
/r/seduction06/01/16 09:00 PM
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It sounds like you need to have something to do. You won't get very far without improving your day to day routine. You need to get some motivation and get on a personal tract to something better. A job, re enroll in school, volunteer, workout etc.. Once you start getting your shit together (no offense) girls will be more attracted and things will improve. Ask yourself this : if you were a woman, would you want to be with you in the current state you are in?
/r/seduction05/01/16 11:16 PM
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I would hope if you were talking to someone long enough to give your number you would be able to feel this out. Plus what public place would you be im a situation where if you gave your phone to someone they could easily just make a getaway? Plus who steals phones anymore? This just seems like you have some irrational fear.. Idk I guess it's not too ridiculous.. But maybe I have more faith in people
/r/seduction26/12/15 05:49 PM
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You sound fun
/r/seduction26/12/15 03:57 PM
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I know what you are trying to say and in a perfect world, you are correct. But do you really want that? "Hey /u/femtenkroner the sex was not that good and I kind of want to hook up with other people so lets not talk again" or whatever her reason is... That is not any better. My point: Maybe she has shit going on, maybe her grandma died, maybe she is fucking 10 dudes on tinder, maybe this maybe that maybe maybe maybe....just let it go for now. You had a nice time and maybe you will have more nice…
/r/seduction23/12/15 04:34 PM
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I mean the dude is probably in a wheelchair. Like he needs a wheelchair. Although I do not judge anyone for needing a wheelchair, I do agree that it was a decent "bomb" to just casually drop. Like " I wear a nice gold watch" casual
/r/seduction23/12/15 04:01 PM
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Of course this works! It is confident, straightforward, surprising, bold and all relatively simple. Everyone plays this game all the time and the end goal for most of us is the same. People are attracted to each other. This is a easy way to circumvent the rules and just go for the gold. Its like you are saying "hey, no one ever does this and this is pretty crazy, but we are all thinking it all the time so I am just going to say what is on my mind. and I am about to get on that train and go on wi…
/r/seduction22/12/15 07:15 PM
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eh, I see what /u/sinslayer said and although I do not disagree with it, I do not see the need to jump back in so quickly I think the most important thing is just do not be "weird" about it. If you get all uptight about the fact you went out once and try to talk to her all the time, that is bad. I think it COULD be a good idea to meet up again before christmas/new years but do not think that the connection you had will go away if you do not see her until then. If I were you: possibly consider te…
/r/seduction17/12/15 08:30 PM
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So I have never posted here but I have subscribed and have enjoyed reading a lot of these... I can definitely say I have "game" but I am not a player or just some guy that gets all the girls. But I certainly have some "tricks". After breaking up with my girlfriend (getting dumped) a few months ago I decided that I would just approach (almost) every girl I saw and just see how it went. Overall it has gone pretty well, but I just wanted to share my favorite "trick". I think I got it from: https://…
/r/seduction10/12/15 08:35 PM
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