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| 113 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him? | DISCUSSION | palealien00 | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 02:48 PM |
| 16 | I am a masculine woman. How do I present myself as more feminine without betraying my personality? | SELF IMPROVEMENT | palealien00 | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/20 08:45 PM |
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| 6 | I am a masculine woman. How do I present myself as more feminine without betraying my personality?In order to be successful in life, I believe it's important to achieve full synch with both masculine and feminine energies. That goes for both genders | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/20 10:18 PM |
| 1 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?It's more that I'm currently selling myself short, so I won't be able to obtain commitment from the men who would be within my league if I maximised my potential | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/19 03:18 PM |
| 1 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?In terms of my own personal preference, yes. But if I were to list all their universally attractive traits e.g. good posture, tall they would be on the same level | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/19 03:28 AM |
| 0 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?It's possible to seduce a woman without treating her like crap. You catch more flies with honey than vinegar, it doesn't make you a pushover | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/19 02:43 AM |
| 2 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?I certainly don't want a partner whom I dominate. I maintain a feminine aesthetic and I have a strong "nurture" instinct. However, my "protect" instinct is stronger. As my masculine personality makes me more dominant, it significantly reduces my dating pool. I also have a much higher chance of attracting a guy who is submissive to me or an overly dominant douchebag like Guy #2 - neither of which would make me happy. My mother had masculine features and my father had feminine features. Even so, I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/19 02:33 AM |
| 1 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?In the rate game I usually get a rating of 7-9/10; dependant on personal taste. I'm very slim but could do with some muscle tone. I know that with my lifestyle and self confidence being how it currently is, there's no way the equivalent 7-9/10 male could ever love or respect me | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/19 01:23 AM |
| 2 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?Isn't the whole red pill theory based on gender roles? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/19 12:10 AM |
| 5 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?My father was predictably unreliable/distant/uncaring, but my mother was insanely unpredictable. She definitely wore the trousers. That's a neat idea. Put it this way, I have a perfect example of what NOT to look for | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/19 12:05 AM |
| 3 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?Someone's already said something similar, but it appears as if women with low self esteem like myself go for guys with "ultra-alpha" traits. The modern edition of a caveman clubbing you over the head and dragging you into his cave to reproduce. Ultra submissive needs ultra dominant as protection | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 10:36 PM |
| 0 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?A real alpha would never disrespect a woman to the extent Guy 2 did. It only results in the woman becoming emotionally worn out, more prone to acting "crazy" and more likely to try and take him for everything he has in the divorce if applicable | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 10:05 PM |
| 3 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?Early 20s. I'm very grateful to have learnt this lesson early instead of after multiple divorces and having children | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 09:50 PM |
| 7 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?Absolutely on point. His hot and cold thing drove me to the point of insanity | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 09:42 PM |
| 4 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?Hmm. I've always had a high sex drive. I've been described as having a masculine way of thinking, and a friend pointed out to me recently that I always go for men with feminine features. Maybe my testosterone is high and I seek out a partner the same way a man would - prioritising sexual attractiveness above all else | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 09:38 PM |
| 7 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?V good point | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 05:55 PM |
| 5 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?Hmmm I've heard them mentioned before. Thanks, I'll check them out! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?Would you mind DMing me? It'd be really helpful to know how you overcame those issues given your situation was similar to mine | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 05:46 PM |
| 2 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?He's unlikely to be a psychopath. Almost certainly a narcissist | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 05:44 PM |
| 12 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?They were attractive in different ways. Guy 1 was short average build, but had very masculine manner of way of holding himself, also masculine facial features. Guy 2 was an ex fashion model. Very tall, slim, but awkward in posture and feminine facial features. His eyes were terrifyingly beautiful. They usually had a seductive smirk with processors whirring away behind them. When he'd gotten what he wanted, his mask came off and they'd be filled with cold hatred. Edit: Honestly, I think Guy 2 wou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 05:37 PM |
| 15 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?When I was 8, I was dragged out of bed at 6am by my mother to be weaponised and taken to the hotel room where my father was in bed with another woman. When I was 11, my mother had a relationship with a married man. His wife turned up on our doorstep. Safe to say the kindest word she said to her was "whore". It's no wonder my perception of relationships is skewed and I chose poorly. But now I've recognised it, I can change my perception | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 04:29 PM |
| 9 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?They say 80% of the female orgasm is psychological. Physical foreplay was practically non existent with this guy, but he was very talented at mental foreplay, i.e. mind games that made me want to fuck the shit out of him. I'm not a psychiatrist by any means but I strongly suspect he was dark triad | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 03:47 PM |
| 85 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?You're right, I had an extremely unsettled childhood. Both my parents were narcs, domestic violence household. I've decided to give dating a break and work on myself, heal from past experiences and such | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 03:43 PM |
| 8 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?Damnnn, telling it like it is. Now it makes sense. Thanks | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 03:37 PM |
| 4 | Question about "going to his place"Oh damnnn sorry I misread lmao Ah well, my point still stands - women who know their worth have no place in a FWB relationship. You did the right thing by friend zoning x | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/19 12:42 PM |
| 4 | Question about "going to his place"If your initial intention was a LTR but he's managed to coerce you into FWB, trust me, you WILL end up catching feelings and getting hurt. I've seen it happen to far too many girls. You don't realise it yourself yet, but you're having sex with him not only for desire's sake, but to be "chill", i.e. the female trait of agreeability. Subconsciously, you want his commitment and so you're giving him sex. Get out fast sis Edit: Also, the guy straight up admitted to lying so he could get you to the po… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/19 02:57 AM |
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