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Or nah?...Unlesss
/r/askTRP27/09/20 06:56 PM
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It was obviously Todd Packer
/r/MensRights13/06/20 12:27 AM
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When I was younger I bought a home workout set because I was too insecure to go to the gym. A year later when I finally got enough muscles I decided to join the gym and found out nobody gives a shit. If anything it’s the newbies that look around to see if any one is judging them. I’m not judging you, dude. I’m trying to get dibs on the machine/weights.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:13 PM
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They call my micro penis covid19mm cause it’s so small and it’s infected everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:55 PM
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I’m not sure what people mean when they say “it’s not her you’re missing of it’s the idea of her. When do I know if it’s actually the person I’m missing and not just the idea of them?
/r/askTRP10/02/20 10:03 AM
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When we’re aware of something the masses aren’t, it’s easy to fall into the trap that we know better than the masses. Sometimes we should put down the red pill glasses and put on actual glasses. There’s a lot of things we can learn from from blue pilled people. Might not be sexual strategy but there’s a lot
/r/askTRP18/01/20 08:38 PM
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Lol imagine looking in the mirror admiring your new tattoo then out of nowhere, a shed of tear pours out of your eye. You wonder what just happened and why you feel so sad. Then you realize it’s your subconscious telling you that you don’t have real value and that tattoo is just a lie to who you really are. A mask you hide behind in.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 07:09 PM
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I find it really fascinating also. I actually observed this phenomenon happening to my ex. It’s disgusting really, both on her part and me having an interest of observing it. I had a “plain” looking ex that got befriended by a hottie and her demeanor changed. She would be super quick to respond to her texts, became agreeable, etc. pretty much acting like a beta maIe. It’s not like her at all and if she was like that it would be because of me or how she naturally acted in the beginning of our rel…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 07:56 PM
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I had the same situation as OP 4 years ago when I first found out about TRP and started applying TRP. Then a few months later I stole a girl from her BF but I didn’t think I stole her, I thought it was just faith.... 2 years later she got stolen from me. Today is the the anniversary of the day she broke up with me lmao. I still think TRP is a little too much with their principles but two things I know for sure is that these hoes ain’t loyal and AWALT.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 11:07 AM
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Holy shit I'm watching "it follows" on Netflix right now.
/r/seduction24/11/18 07:59 AM
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Im not trying to defend her but I beielve this is why women are afraid to share what they're attracted to. They get judged so much.
/r/seduction14/11/18 08:19 PM
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All you can do is roll with it. If you acknowledge it, you will enter the BF frame and effectively paint yourself as a bad guy. You're right about that. You don't have to escalate w this chick but just pretend your use to getting attention from chicks to the point where she is just another brick in the wall I dont know man. From my experience most guys dont like it when they notice a lot of girls like me. My personality doesn't really compliment it. Just makes them salty rather than cheer me on …
/r/askTRP10/11/18 08:05 AM
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Yeah I tried to talk to him to make seem like were cool there no problem and he gave me bad vibes. I dont think hes gonna take it well when I try to talk to him about it. I think hes just a lost cause, but it's okay I'm just wondering what I should do for future reference. Also, I haven't been fully honest. Ive been kind of playing a part of the problem. I catch my self looking at her too. It's like my subconscious reticular activation system is focused on her and I'm trying to consciously stop …
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:57 AM
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Can you explain more about ADD or Autism? I've always thought there was something missing with my game. Girls have always liked me. I'm good looking, fit, socially savvy, applying what I've learned on TRP, but there was always something that would turn her off. For example, I would be talking to a girl that is showing lots of IOI then i would start to lose focus or easily get bored with the subject if it's not super interesting to me which then would interrupt the flow of the conversation and ca…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 05:01 AM
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It's crazy how easily we forget these values. Thanks for reminding us.
/r/seduction07/08/18 03:38 PM
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I'm just ranting after a night of hanging out with these bros. I am trying to be better than these guys, but the loneliness I feel hanging out with them by not being able to relate makes rather just stay home and just invite my old beta friends and play some video games and play. Although my beta friends are closed of to red pill views, they are pretty opened minded about a lot of things in life. We can actually discuss the beauties in life, our emotions, and other shit we wouldn't want people t…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 08:38 AM
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Yeah that's pretty much how it goes. I was just wondering if thats how guys are in general In my experience in general it seems like all the beta dudes that I know have deeper view of life. Fuller spectrum of emotions in order to connect with me, unlike these dudes that are more alpha than the average joes. All they talk about is how they fucked some bitch and boring bro shit. Like yeah they're repilled, but it's like they got lucky with that world view and they're limited to only that.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 08:25 AM
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No I love gym talk. I just can't relate with bros talking about bro shit. I start to roll my eyes of how cliche all the shit they talk aboit. It's so fake and unoriginal.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 08:17 AM
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I met a girl a in east Asia and we dated for a week until I had to go back. She can't get over me now and now I feel bad. She still trying to contact me, telling me she lives me and misses me. I should've just pumped and dumped her after the first night.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 08:03 AM
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5'5" 155lb. I don't do them much anymore since I started working. Maybe my genetics also play a role. My dad is a wimp even though he's a hard working passionate dude.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 08:23 AM
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I've actually stopped working out since I started working 40 plus hours 2 months ago. What your saying is something I need to intregate in my lifestyle. I guess I just need a mentor/reminder to keep me on track on improving. So thanks trp for babysitting me. Call me a bitch, but I think I'm yearning for a father figure since I've never had it in my life.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 08:12 AM
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Haha everytime I try to post something on here I realize the answer to my own problems. I just need to work on my reflecting it and realizing.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 08:04 AM
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I think I'm doing it wrong. Maybe it's because I'm losing the weight too fast and not really doing it in a health way.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:40 AM
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How do you do it? I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:39 AM
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I feel like they've alpha'd up but they still seem out of touch.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 07:26 PM
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I know you're talking to an extreme to prove a point. What do you really mean? I've known plenty of whales that don't get laid.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 06:20 AM
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I just really want to learn about the social dynamics of women which is part of becoming more sexually successful.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 06:18 AM
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Okay you're right. I can recall reading about this in the past. What do mean by ignoring it? When I notice the IOI I can't help but register them in my reticular activation system. Maybe I'm insecure but I can't ignore when a girl gives me IOIs, it's too distracting.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:27 AM
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Had a tinder date a year ago that pulled the same shit test. Turns out she was on her period. Got blood all over my sheets when we got naked after I thought I "passed the lmr". Turns out she checked in the bathroom earlier. I lost my appetite after that.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 11:59 AM
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Can someone explain that second quote?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 06:59 PM
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Can I fuck them barefoot? Or with my Gucci flip flops?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 01:58 AM
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What kind of parties are we talking about here?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 07:51 PM
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I know that feeling. I begged for my ex back even though I knew in the back of my head she was already seeing some dude after she broke up with me. I didn't do no contact until I was sure she was seeing someone else. After confronting her about it and how bad of a person she is(lol), I finally ghosted but I also left my balls there.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 05:46 AM
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How do I do purpose and health outlook on life again? How do people find their purpose? How did you find yours?
/r/askTRP16/02/18 07:16 AM
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Ive been and can actually do pretty much everything you told me except "get a sense of your life and personal responsibility". That's what's usually discouraging me and prevents me to take actions again.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 07:08 AM
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If I ever wanted to end it with a girl and didn't want to break her heart or any trouble, would betafying myself be a good move?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 08:33 AM
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The cognitive dissonance is real when your self perception is flipped. I consider my appearance above average recently so I'm constantly getting attention from women. When I'm having a bad hair day, hungover, or cranky I start to get this ugly look on my face. Then the attention stop coming in and I start acting like an insecure girl. I know I can't depend on my looks, it's not always going to be there and one day I'm going to hit the wall too lol.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 08:28 AM
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you can do better I don't get what this means. She just acted from her hypergamy like any other women would.. Are the high quality women the ones that will stick around after something drastic happens to you and you become beta?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 12:08 AM
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A week ago I saw my first oneitis/ex from 6 years ago at a bar and she was all over me after I tried some kino on her. Initially I used to orbit her, emotionally validate, etc. And she wouldnt give me an ounce of intimacy. Now that I'm better looking, applying trp, she's all over me. I saw her again last night with her BF and she was a completely different person. She was acting like she we were good friends instead of being flirty. I think her BF knew something was up. He was acting funny and I…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 01:49 AM
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What about appearances and status? Sometimes I get the good kind of attention from it but sometime friends/family become insecure and jealous of me. They start developing this some sort resentment of me because I'm better looking and have better than them.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 10:54 PM
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I can't really cut these people off. They're my family and friends I've know most my life. They might not add "value" in my life but I love them. I can't just cut them off. There's something they provide, no sexual strategy, new high value friends, trp behaviors and lifestyle can provide. It's not really their fault they react negatively to me, it's just their insecurity lashing out unconsciously. Maybe there's a way to compromise/work with people like them? I'm gonna be dealing with beta people…
/r/askTRP10/11/17 06:23 PM
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I was mostly ranting. My question is what do you guys do guys do when you start getting the wrong kind of attention or reaction from people not liking your RP behavior? Do you have to disguise yourself as beta to some people for the sake of their fragile ego?
/r/askTRP10/11/17 06:14 PM
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The brother in law of my ex actually get support from his ex wife for his kids. Sometimes you can get the upper hand.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 07:09 PM
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This one time my ex cheated on me so I ghosted her like Casper. Now she's reaching the great wall, like a Mongol. She's def alpha widow by now. Im best she eva had.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 06:04 PM
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Add mediation on there too. My whole perception if life changed momentarily. I remember that moment of clarity when I stepped out of my mind and witnessed all the noise it was producing. I realized that I wasn't some poor man that the world wants to bring down, I just had a stick up my ass.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 05:07 PM
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Good to hear these mediocre story about self development. Tbh, the stories of "then I ended up f closing her in the ass" are still currently out of my league.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 08:57 PM
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Never have a heart attack around your girl. Her hypergamy will run and look for the next live alpha.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 03:42 AM
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Uncle?
/r/seduction02/07/17 07:38 PM
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I tried but my vision is limited too.
/r/seduction02/07/17 07:36 PM
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I could literally see the interest in her eyes increase after that. I'm Asian too and white girls are way more receptive to me than Asian girls idk why. Maybe cause I cant see the interest in those little eyes.
/r/seduction02/07/17 12:34 AM
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Same here. Got anymore comebacks like that?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 09:38 PM
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One of my ex was a traditional and family oriented woman and she loved role playing. One time in bed I was whispering in her ear and telling her a story about how I was fucking her in front of her family and it turned her on so much. I decided to take it up a notch and introduce her hot sisters into the story. At first I was hesitant but she was so turned on I thought it wouldn't think of it too logically. About a minute later she came hard. We didn't really talk about what happened in bed. I th…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 03:24 AM
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It sucks that I'm starting to see them for who they really are. I want to cut then off and find better ones but it's not as easy to find ones that I actually want to be friends with and have a connection with.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 06:03 AM
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This post put me back on track. My ex knows better than to try to contact me but everytime I see her at school, traffic, etc. She goes out of her way to try to makes herself visible as possible to get my attention. First I thought she was doing it because she wanted me back and realized she made a mistake branch swinging, but now I realized she's probably doing it for the validation and will do a 180 as soon as I show any sign of interest. I was actually starting to feel relieved that she got th…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 06:59 AM
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I hate how most of the girls I'm attracted to are basic bitches. It's like the hotter they are the more basic they become.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 09:41 AM
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I have a similar situation. My best friend is not as bad as your but he was still really blue pill. For over a year I've pushed him and shoved red pill principles and truths down his throat. I know i wasn't doing it the right way as it only me frustration and him resentment, but overtime he it started to dawn on him after seeing my results and his failures. Although he's making progress slow progress he's still better than where he was last year. And to be honest he has slowed me down instead of…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 05:17 PM
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What's have you been doing to increase it?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:50 AM
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I kind of had the same experience 3 years ago before I discovered TR amd knew nothing about the modern gender norms. In my sociology class, my prof assigned us to do something out of the norm over the weekend and discuss it with the class when we came back. I didn't do anything over the weekend so I decided to make up something on the spot so I can a grade. When it was turn to tell the class what I did, my dumbass told them that I started acting like a girl in the relationship with my ex in fron…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 07:48 AM
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Thats good advice actually. I've forgotten a lot of my game after being in a an ltr. Ill use next time im in that situtation. Tbh It was late and I was tired, I didnt really want to put in the work of putting up with all that bullshit. I ended up becaming bitter that she would pull that shit when she's not even that hot. EDIT: words
/r/askTRP27/03/17 03:46 AM
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Thanks man. I was over thinking this. Maybe once I reach abundance mentality I won't even give that a date a thought. I'll be busy with other other things.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 01:17 AM
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Lol. That shit ticked me off.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 11:38 PM
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Now if we are talking about the women that go to the gym and go on the treadmills for 2hrs and do some light ab work for 3mins then yea, you want to avoid those. Huh? Why what's the difference?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 05:20 AM
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You need time. Living a shitty life is addictive and you'll probably be jumping up and down from "enlightened" to "loser" for a few months until you craft for yourself a new identity. That's true. I guess I just need to fake it until I make it for now.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 09:09 PM
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Thanks man I needed to hear this. You really can't give up who you truly are, you can just be the best version of that.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 08:52 PM
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That's was a perfect explanation thanks. This makes a lot more sense and I can see this working for me. You should make a post elaborating more into this.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 01:16 AM
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How do i truly internalize the RP mindset when it comes to frame? I get get the whole frame control but it's mostly surface level. Everytime I start to "get it", I forget it the next week or I run out of willpower when shit tested too much.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 01:56 AM
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Luckily I had friends who dragged me out and hung out with me when I was a mopey piece of shit. It was a welcomed distraction as I figured my life out. Where can I get these kinds of friends. All the ones I have lost respect for me when became a money piece of shit when I got cheated on. To be honest it's harder for me to make real friends than get laid or get a gf.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 06:12 PM
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Hahahah no she's not really that tall. I'm just really short(5'5). I'm sure her height is not really a problem to her either. I've had multiple girls taller than me give me IOI I just never saw it going anywhere. Maybe if I see an example. Good points though. It's going to be a lot harder to game her than the girls I usually go for but it's gonna be worth the challenge and experience. I just can't let my insecurities get the best of me. I'm imagining it right now and I still find it comedic and …
/r/askTRP03/03/17 06:55 AM
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. I can't tell you how many times girls have thought I was hot but just wanted to be friends because I was shorter than them. So there's a girl that has a given me the IOI in my class a couple of times. The problem is she's like 4 inches taller than me and we probably weight the same since she's taller. I have no problem gaming chicks taller than me but I only so it for fun since I do t expect it to go anywhere. I've only been with girls shorter or my size and I think I would just be awkward get…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 06:37 AM
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That was a good explanation. I understand most part of AWALT but not fully since Im very lustful to other girls myself. I even pondered about branch swinging myself to another girl at one time. I just never acted on it because its wrong and I loved her. Also my friend has branch swung to few girls and its adding up to my confusion and doubt. So from what I understand is that men and women all have tendcencies to cheat/branch swing, but we dont because of society, our morals, etc. When I said "no…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 07:25 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/askTRP01/03/17 09:45 PM
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I'm not saying it's okay to cheat. But most trpers dismiss women's behaviour because apparently it's just her hypergamy at play.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 05:16 PM
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So what happens when you find out she actually had a happy ending with the guy she branch swings to?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 05:27 PM
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I agree with Number 6 and 5. When I vented to my friends and some of my family whom I thought were going to be supportive about my ex brunch swinging on me, I didn't not get the support that I expected. Although they gave their half ass symphaty and support, I can tell they've lost respect for me because I've shown my weakness. Lesson learned there.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 04:09 AM
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I still don't think this is the case with her. After she broke up with me I basically begged to get her back. My dumbass even cried like a baby in front of her to show her that I care. Most of the people on here told me that I basically became an omega to her eyes and there no turning that back. She blocked me on every social media and devices first and I'm not ready active on social media. You say that "she can't write that away" and "there's still ties she can't let go" yet there's people here…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 03:54 AM
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Damn that's harse but really worth the read. Ever since the break up my progress at the gym quadrupled and my beta traits are slowly dissapearing. Why does everyone say they always come back? I'm pretty sure mine won't come back to me. I showed her way to many of my beta traits and I think she's smart enough to try and get me back knowing I never will. So I keep seeing the dude at the gym she replaced me with. I recognized him back in high school as a some nice, popular, chill back dude. He keep…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 02:31 AM
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That article answered my question perfectly. Thanks.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 01:38 AM
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In high school I got into a rough playful fight with some hot girl after school. I was walking towards her and she said, " Do you want to fight me bitch?". I said, "yeah let's go". She ended up tackling me on my friends front lawn and slapping/ hitting the shit out of my face while she was on top of me. I was surprised by the whole thing and after she snapped out of it she started apologizing profusely. She really didn't beat my face, but it was pretty red from all the slapping and hitting. Her …
/r/askTRP26/01/17 10:15 PM
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This is true. I just need to expose myself to more pain. It's funny, everytime i get over some pain I was going through I look back at it as some bad trip I had and I almost laugh about it and don't take it seriously anymore. At the same time I appreciate that I went through it because I feel like a stronger and slightly different person now.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 06:41 PM
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Every day! I'm not sure how that's gonna make me redpill.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 06:36 PM
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A similar situation happened to me a month ago except she dumped me for chad. Holy shit it was a shitty month. For the past week I've been getting a lot better by working on myself. My advice to you is to just let it out. I bottled up my emotions because I didn't want to seem like a little bitch to myself, family, and friends. I drove myself crazy becasue of it. Think of it like peeing. You need to pee otherwise you'll damage your bladder and that's not healthy. Just make sure you don't wallow i…
/r/askTRP16/01/17 12:08 PM
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I do t remember where but I read somewhere that lesbians couples aren't as sexually active a heterosexual couples.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 06:16 PM
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That was actually really informative. Thanks again and have a good one.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 09:51 PM
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We are all allowed one victim puke and I empathize Thanks. Women have no remorse or accountability for their actions. I don't get this. I was asking whether she had remorse after branch swinging. She was a decent enough girl and was actually a good person. When I was dating her she showed qualities of a good person. She (caring, emphathetic, family oriented, had guilt when she did something bad, etc.) So my question is: are all the good qualities she had dissapear or hamstered away when her hype…
/r/askTRP08/01/17 10:20 PM
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That my ex is fucking chad right now and having no remorse of what she left behind. I'm over here losing sleep over what she did and she's apparently(according to asktrp) on her honeymoon phase with chad having the time of her life. I just thought we had some kind of human connection. Not even as lovers but just human being connecting to a deep level. I have a connection with my best friend right now who's a male and I expectated the same from her. I apologize for the vent it's all coming out fo…
/r/askTRP08/01/17 08:11 PM
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There's two type of pain in this world. You have to suffer either one. The pain of discipline or the pain of regret and disappointment. Thanks for the input. I've actually never thought of it like that. Got to thank him personally.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 08:22 AM
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Thanks for the reply. I will look into monk mode.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 08:20 AM
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Trp for me is like that group of friends I ditched so can be with my new found girl. They all warned me about her and to spend more time with trp but I didn't listen. Now I'm back trying to make amends with trp because I left them for my ex.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 12:31 AM
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The switched flipped with my ex of 2 years 2 weeks ago. It is really something unbelievable to witness. I'm still trying to wrap my head around it.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 03:58 AM
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I'm confused. A WALT and they all love the carousel but there's better women..
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 07:30 PM
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My ex befor this one cheated on me too. It was what drove me here. I subconsciously don't want to swallow but life is making me do it. Im never getting in a relationship again.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 05:52 PM
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I actually did this but not on purpose. It worked out for me in the end though.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 10:51 AM
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Just gonna copy and paste what I told another redditor. Hey I remembered your comments and just wanted to update you. So I've been working on everything you've been talking about. For two weeks I've been reflecting on myself and I've realized all the things I was doing wrong in the ltr. Everyday I think of ways to get her back and the things I'm going to change if we got back together. I listened to her about all the things I did wrong(we were still talking when we broke up) and made a set plan …
/r/askTRP29/12/16 10:07 AM
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Ding ding ding. You were right.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 09:46 AM
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Hey I remembered your comments and just wanted to update you. So I've been working on everything you've been talking about. For two weeks I've been reflecting on myself and I've realized all the things I was doing wrong in the ltr. Everyday I think of ways to get her back and the things I'm going to change if we got back together. I listened to her about all the things I did wrong(we were still talking when we broke up) and made a set plan of how I was going to change things. I felt like an assh…
/r/askTRP29/12/16 09:33 AM
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My first ex said the same thing to me then got I a new girl that's better looking. Then the new girl told me the same thing before we broke up. Pretty excited about the next one.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 08:47 AM
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Shit I can't keep my frame on this post.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 02:34 AM
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This is what I want hear. Yes I do have oneitis. I'm currently slowly preparing myself from losing her. Everything else I read on here are pretty negative. Like there's a one size fits all answer to all these problems. Don't get me wrong I love all the tough love and insults, I actually try to take it as a constructive criticism, but it's just putting me off sometimes. It's what made me doubt this sub in the first place even though I see more a lot of good content. I have a lot of work to do. I'…
/r/askTRP09/12/16 02:31 AM
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What happens happens. Thanks for that.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 10:00 PM
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Haha I get it I don't know how to be manly. Im learning and I've come so far from where. People come over here for help so stop ridiculing them it's discouraging. Or maybe I'm just being sensitive again. Watever.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 08:03 PM
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I wish you can too
/r/askTRP08/12/16 05:39 PM
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When we broke up I basically told her that I want to be single and sleep with other girls while she was asking for me back and trying work things out. No person can forgive someone who said that and forget about it including me. So I'm not literally going to beg. I'm going to make it even for the both us. If it doesn't work. It's going to be fine. As long as she doesn't think that I went above and beyond to get her back.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 05:39 PM
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Wow dude great response. i feel like you know me more than I do. I guess who I am leaked through that sad wall of text. "Who put a loved one else through stress and strain, I bet over some petty shit". "He could manipulate his love and turn her into a toy". These hit me pretty hard. Im actually am starting to realize all the manipulative things I've been doing to her, overdreading being the biggest one. And yeah I went through stress and pain with our LTR too ,but not as much as I put her throug…
/r/askTRP08/12/16 05:30 PM
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Haha pretty much. She tested me lots of times and I've passed them. But today I slipped. My state really left me vunerable. I'm sure on a good day I would've walked out of there and she would've ran after me.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 04:26 PM
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About 3 times. For about a week each.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 04:23 PM
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I live in a place where it's freezing in the winter and my house isn't heated. The temperature is only about 10 degrees higher than it is outside. My question, how long do I need to shower cold? Can I take a cold shower for 10 minutes then warm myself up with warm water so when I get out I don't get sick?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 08:23 PM
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Your story reminded me of this song by Flight Facilites. "Why can't you want me like the other boys do, they stare at me while I stare at you". Spilling some rep pill truth in the lyrics. https://youtu.be/r0bS-YnLf4s
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 07:06 PM
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Something similar happened to me a long time ago when my I was in camp keep with all of the 6th grade classmates. During the night after all the hiking and adventures we would have plays about saving the forest and be given all kinds of costumes in which I decided to dress up as Britney Spears. Every one just dressed up as something simple but for reason my undeveloped brain decided to dress up as Brittney. When I went up on new stage all the kids were laughing hysterically and thought that I wa…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 04:50 PM
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I've been reading TRP for a long time and I've been implementing a lot of it's teaching. What I don't understand is the AWALT saying. I mean it's fair to say that AMALT? Is there a percentage of who will most likely do unfaithful things? Or is it just a cautionary saying in TRP because men usually think women are these angels that wouldn't never do anything wrong?
/r/askTRP11/08/16 10:21 PM
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Wow were really on the same boat. I caught my girl acting a little too friendly with my best friend a couple of times. I called her out on it and she completely denies it. Now I've done my homework when it comes to attraction. That's actually got a girl in her league. I know when she acts differently. Apparently it's because he's weird to talk to and she's just trying to be polite. But I know there's a little bit of attraction there and she completely denies it. It fucking bothered me for a long…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 11:36 AM
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The thing I never fully understood is the AWALT saying. I've never experienced it to where it was proven right. I mean I've gotten cheated on but I kind of saw it coming I dont mean ro put the girl im with on the pedestal but she's like closest thing to a saint I've ever known. So when I suspect that shes lying it's really hard to know if she actually is. Do you mind telling me what happened with her?
/r/askTRP11/08/16 08:03 AM
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That's good advice. I agree I am being very beta with her. Maybe it's because I'm approaching our relationship as a place where we can just talk about our concern and problems and solve them. I guess I forgot that if you want to communicate with your woman about getting what you want, you do it with dread, self amusement, and physical attraction. I fucking hate women. When it comes to relationship with them I've always wanted a companion, best friend, and lover. Not some child I have to discipli…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 07:56 AM
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"Cause girls only say i hate you to the guys that they love" -big sean
/r/askTRP14/05/16 03:29 AM
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Well put dude. I guess what I'm afraid of is being an asshole and hurting her with my words, she's a really nice girl. I cant just call her out for being too dramatic. That never really worked out for me cause theyre looking for emotional validation and it usually just triggers them even more or maybe I can't pull it of like you can. I feel like changing the subject or the mood will work better though so I'll try that. Thanks.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:35 AM
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Thanks man. Ill check it out.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:19 AM
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You lucky bastard. I wish I had found TRP and started self development when I was in high school. Theres so much opportunities I could've taken advantage of. But oh well that's in the past now. Just be comfortable around them. Tone down your energy to their level and match it. Or maybe try doing something goofy or silly to show that dorky side of you while being completely comfortable with yourself. After that they should be able to see that your cool but also approachable.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 08:12 AM
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