panthertome Archive

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3	How should to handle a girl giving you a compliment? Compliment back? I think this is age/situation/medium dependent. For example if your in your early 20s, it's early on and your on the phone, giving a compliment back about something that she does, is a good way to build a connection. If say your early 30s, it's a few dates in and your meeting in person, receiving that compliment genuinely and saying thank you would show me you have real confidence. When you aren't in person, I think you do have to work a bit harder. There's no problem with saying thank you and c…	/r/seduction	29/04/20 04:38 PM
1	Attitude vs Numbers game Perhaps there is a cultural divide then. There shouldn't be though! I like the idea of checking the attention to detail. I'm sure it won't ever happen as they've made dating apps so easy, but I genuinely think this is the reason so many lovely people on both sides miss out. It's not designed for those people.	/r/seduction	25/04/20 10:36 PM
1	Attitude vs Numbers game Firstly, yikes. That is shocking. On behalf of all those women, I'm sorry they did that to you and thank you for paying when you did not have to. I can't think of a single situation where I wouldn't offer and I wouldn't say thank you. Even if I wasn't interested, that's just straight up bad manners. Can I ask where you? This is not an excuse, but being from the UK I'm just wondering if there's a cultural difference? Thanks, after a number of first date surprises, I thought it would be an interes…	/r/seduction	25/04/20 03:53 PM
1	Attitude vs Numbers game I might be polite, but I'm sure I'm nightmare 😂	/r/seduction	25/04/20 01:22 PM
2	Attitude vs Numbers game Do you ever stop to consider that you get that response rate because women know that you've just swiped right on hers and 100 other profiles that night? So why should she give you the time of day? Also because we are getting so many matches, we can end up being unnecessarily picky about minor details, but if we didn't, we would end up with so many matches, where would we know how to start?! If I was to set up a dating app, it would be like bumble, but include a voice clip and a two questions, bo…	/r/seduction	25/04/20 08:42 AM
2	Attitude vs Numbers game I'm assuming you mean if it was the other way round and I was a guy? Obviously it's hard because I'm a girl trying to think like a guy, but I wouldn't be trying to match with every single girl out there. I'd be taking time to look through photos, reading bios, and only match ones I'm genuinely interested in. I also wouldn't spend hours on it swiping right 100 times. Instead I'd say yes to maybe 3? And leave it for a day, to see who responds. As a girl, if I knew a guy had actually done that befo…	/r/seduction	24/04/20 10:00 PM
1	What is the order of preference to seduce a girl? I'm a female! Number 3 by far out ranks anything else you've got up there!! You could be a broke guy, with no job, wearing clothes with holes in, but if you carry yourself with confidence and make me feel good. That's hands down a second date right there. Obviously confidence can be linked to other things, but I can't say what that would be for you as its personal. So you might feel confident after learning a new skill or buying a new shirt, but find what makes you feel good and just do more of …	/r/seduction	23/04/20 09:57 PM
1	Girlfriends shyness and weak eye contact pushes me out of my zone Ask her if she feels comfortable with you and act on the answer. If she says she's shy, ask her what things she enjoys doing and go and do that with her. I have no idea if anything else is happening with this girl, but I went on a date with a guy I found incredibly attractive and had a really hard time because I could barely look at him when I was talking to him. Needless to say no second date! Don't write her off just yet.	/r/seduction	23/04/20 09:55 PM
5	[deleted by user] This is a gift, there is literally a world of post covid-19 pick up lines waiting for you. You can ask any women if they got desperate enough during lockdown that they baked banana bread. You might have hit pause, but so has everyone else. Look back at all you've accomplished, be proud and get ready to come out stronger.	/r/seduction	23/04/20 09:51 PM
4	I need to re-attract my ex, there's still a chance, but I messed up and need help. Answering this from a female perspective, if she's asked you not to contact her, you need to respect that. If you're saying she's normally a chill girl and she was yelling at you down the phone for calling her, look at how much you're upsetting her. I think you need to leave it alone for a while. Like a good while, 6 weeks maybe? Then see what's happened in that time and how you feel. If after 6 weeks you want to reach out to her, it needs to be slow. Follow her on Instagram. If she let's that o…	/r/seduction	23/04/20 09:47 PM
5	Attitude vs Numbers game This comment may not be welcome, but from my own experience, girls receive a lot more attention than guys. I'm sure there's a post somewhere about the gender divide on dating apps and it's heavily male. Just doing the maths on that means girls end up getting more attention, whether they mean to or not. I'm not saying there aren't girls out there who just chat and won't meet, but there are also other girls wading through 100s of the same pick up lines, just trying to find someone genuine. When yo…	/r/seduction	23/04/20 09:36 PM
20	What are the green flags to look for in a person regardless of gender? One word - respect. Look for it in every area. Do they respect you, themselves, their elders, their friends, strangers, their boss, their time, your time, things that are important to them, things that are important to others, etc. I'm sure there may be exceptions, but if you find someone who has respect in all areas, I can't see them also having loads of red flags.	/r/seduction	23/04/20 09:28 PM