| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | All women are the same. I just now realized that, the hard way, through personal experience. | Rant/Venting | panzerxiii | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 07:59 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Social circle game + natural game + nightclub game with one girl | Field Report | panzerxiii | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 09:49 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Can Asians be good at game?You do realize that K-Pop and shit is massive these days, right? | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 06:10 AM |
| 1 | I just cold approached at a bar and the rejection stung more than the appssounds like you were an annoying drunk bore desensitized to human interaction because of your over-reliance on digital methods would you have talked to you? | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 01:22 PM |
| 3 | How many girls have you met in your life with whom you shared intense emotional connection with?+1 to all of this. Beautiful write-up. | /r/seduction | 13/06/25 06:20 PM |
| 2 | If you DO need a manual for speaking to woman like it is rocket science …some certain politicians should read this | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 01:28 AM |
| 8 | Tinder girl says it's too soon to meet up in person and she's too shy to meet new peopleThis just reminds me why I hated dating in Asia lmao | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Is pulling hot girls at an older age something to be happy/excited about it?Go outside and touch some fucking grass holy shit | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 09:29 PM |
| 10 | Valentine’s Day just reminds me how lonely I am every yearThis isn't a pity party. Get therapy if you need it and focus on yourself. You don't need a $150 haircut to find love. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 07:42 AM |
| 1 | For any females out there, don't expect everyone you're into to approach you first.Look up the term hypergamy. Women naturally gravitate towards people with higher status. That's what game is for - if you have good game and are attractive, you're a higher status. | /r/seduction | 02/04/16 05:39 AM |
| 4 | For any females out there, don't expect everyone you're into to approach you first.You're right. You're not equal. And that's the point. | /r/seduction | 01/04/16 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Living in a fairly small city and always seeing the same people at night!Unfortunately, that is what happens when you live in a small town. There's a reason why many young people move to bigger, better cities. | /r/seduction | 29/11/15 04:29 PM |
| -2 | How I went from depressed/dumped to stud in 6 weeksCongratulations, you rehashed all the top posts. And for the record, H&M doesn't mean you're fashionable. Also maybe don't always tell women you own a business right away. | /r/seduction | 29/11/15 04:26 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Cute Asian Girl at the ClubUhh | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 08:37 AM |
| 1 | I just realized omegle (aside from dudes with their cocks out) can you a good place to chat up girls.Whatever happened to just going outside | /r/seduction | 24/05/15 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Closing Time QuestionApproach, build rapport, see if they're doing anything after, or you invite her to get some late night food or something. If not, say it was good meeting her and you'd like to see her again and get her number. | /r/seduction | 24/05/15 04:06 PM |
| 4 | I just converted a dead number into a date.pls respond | /r/seduction | 24/05/15 03:56 PM |
| 0 | Because of day game's now near mainstream status, I am apprehensive to approach during the day due to the fear of getting called out or experiencing annoyance/hostility. Any strategies to overcome this block?I don't know if I would say that it's quite mainstream, but the one thing I've heard from girls is that it doesn't matter if they know you're gaming them, as long as it works. | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 05:19 AM |
| 2 | Value scanning paradox?I do that too. But for me it's more me looking at people's fashion choices and trying to figure out who they are. I do this on some first dates too, just taking a girl people watching and making up stories about people. | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 05:18 AM |
| 1 | This girl just texted me she's in the bath. How can I escalate?I was recently talking with a girl I met (most recent FR if you care to read it) and today we were talking about swimming and I asked her if she likes to get wet. But I like making corny and crude jokes about sex haha. We have a date set up in a few weeks. I honestly do this to all girls, even my friends. It's funny and absurd, and shows that I really just don't care and sex is a natural part of who I am. | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 05:12 AM |
| 1 | This girl just texted me she's in the bath. How can I escalate?/r/askseddit Also, that depends on your style. If you're not comfortable saying it it'll probably come out awkward. I've replied to similar situations with things like, "So you're already wet, half the work is already done for me ;)" or you can make a crack about strategically placed soap bubbles. Just run with it, and have fun with it. | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 04:41 AM |
| 1 | A little mental trick i use to help me overcome some approach anxiety.Did you even read the OP? | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 04:16 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Went to a club last night, need some guidance on club game and not coming off as a creep in clubsThe issue is that you're trying to hold conversations in a club. Club game is almost 100% body language game and showing dominance. You can't assume that girls are going to approach you. Just go up to a girl with a huge grin on your face, offer her your hand, and lead her on the dance floor next time. Keep escalating at that point. If you want to talk to her, you can tell her that you guys should get some air or something and do it then. | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 09:53 AM |
| 2 | What is the one piece of advice you would give, if you had 10 seconds?Are you an asshole? Do you want to be an asshole? No, right? Then why the fuck are you being a huge asshole by not giving that girl the pleasure of your presence? | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 02:37 PM |
| 2 | What is the one piece of advice you would give, if you had 10 seconds?I get what you're saying, but that's not what this does. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 02:36 PM |
| 1 | GO Train GirlOkay. You identified your problem. You identified the solution. But you're literally just bitching out and not doing it. Stop being a bitch and go ask her out you clown. What was the purpose of this post? Did you expect us to say, "good job, you found an attractive girl?" | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 01:10 AM |
| 4 | the essense of interaction, wisdom dispensed by a mad manHow high were you when you wrote this? | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Guys, do you have a texting "rule" that you live by?Nope. I am usually busy enough in my life that when I actually do get a chance to have a short convo over text I naturally just delay my responses. And when I text I'm usually just flirting a bit until my next meet with them. Basically, I do what I want because fuck the rules | /r/seduction | 06/04/15 07:51 AM |
| 1 | How do I become comfortable trying girls around my friends/roommates, how do I stop thinking of myself as the guy thats not good with girls in my social groups?Once you actually stop caring it won't be so hard. | /r/seduction | 28/03/15 12:31 AM |
| 3 | How do I become comfortable trying girls around my friends/roommates, how do I stop thinking of myself as the guy thats not good with girls in my social groups?The only answer is to truly stop caring. Easier said than done, yes, but once you reach a state of balance where nothing affects you is when you attain true outcome independence. | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 08:28 PM |
| 1 | The invention of the male contraceptive pill will change everything.Don't apple seeds have arsenic? Haha | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 02:07 PM |
| 1 | What to do about having no drive?It's not just about getting women to me. To me it's about becoming the best version of myself that I can possibly be, and when that all falls into place, women just naturally come with the other perks. | /r/seduction | 26/03/15 05:46 AM |
| 1 | How can I accept being different-looking/ugly in life & with girls? People's reaction to how I look hurting me insideJust don't give a shit. Who the fuck cares? It's going to be a self-fulfilling prophecy unless you truly just stop giving a shit about what you perceive others to think about you. | /r/seduction | 26/03/15 05:43 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "you look clever" or "how are you so smart?" without sounding like a pretentious twat or a nerd?Fuck the haters here. Absurdist humor is the shit. | /r/seduction | 26/03/15 05:41 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with a culture where kino is meaningless?Hahaha this is the best | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Longer-Term Couchsurf Escalation / CloseFirstly, this belongs in /r/askseddit. Second, don't shit where you eat. | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 04:21 AM |
| 1 | How does Seduction work with long time crush/oneitis kind of girls?You can and will find someone who will be even more, and mean even more to you. | /r/seduction | 08/03/15 09:44 PM |
| 6 | How does Seduction work with long time crush/oneitis kind of girls?I used to have lots of crushes and get hung up on many various girls. I was a standard AFC and found myself wondering if I'd ever even get to kiss a girl, much less date a girl. However, I put lots of work into bettering myself as a person (learning this stuff as well), and now I look back and laugh at the fact that I even had these doubts cross my mind. I haven't forgotten about my long time crushes, but instead of letting myself linger on them like I used to, I just have so many other women in… | /r/seduction | 08/03/15 06:23 PM |
| 1 | All women are the same. I just now realized that, the hard way, through personal experience.Truth. And this is one lesson that I will never forget. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 05:12 PM |
| 1 | All women are the same. I just now realized that, the hard way, through personal experience.Yes. Absolutely. I think that while my status didn't necessarily decrease, the way I carried myself did, which made it seem like my status went down. I just have to try and not falter like this next time. Looks wise, she always acted like she wanted to become better for me (since she did find me damn hot), but I don't think it really factored into much at the end. There is also a difference between what people say they want vs what they really want. Society and 1.5 million years of evolution som… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 05:11 PM |
| 4 | All women are the same. I just now realized that, the hard way, through personal experience.I feel like it would be exhausting to consistently keep up your frame 24/7 forever, just working against the tide of someone who is eventually going to fall out of attraction with you. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 05:04 PM |
| 2 | All women are the same. I just now realized that, the hard way, through personal experience.I just did again! Every one of the lessons are so obvious and I just completely put them aside, and it's done nothing good for me. Never again. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 05:02 PM |
| 1 | All women are the same. I just now realized that, the hard way, through personal experience.You're right. I let my standards falter, and that was my mistake. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 05:01 PM |
| 1 | All women are the same. I just now realized that, the hard way, through personal experience.Thanks for the motivational words! I actually am feeling pretty good today; I pushed myself to go out to a large party last night being thrown near my school and ended up getting a ton of numbers and brought a girl back as well. Definitely got my confidence soaring! I learned a while ago that life isn't going to hand you things. Anything that you want, you have to push for and work damn hard to achieve. This is no exception, and I plan to keep pushing and improving myself until I can get better. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 05:01 PM |
| 1 | All women are the same. I just now realized that, the hard way, through personal experience.She hated me long before we ever had any disagreement. I was nothing but completely courteous to her the whole time but I ended up caving from the pressure a bit. Which was my mistake. I do hope to eventually become better and can aim for more mature women. Thanks! | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 10:36 PM |
| 4 | All women are the same. I just now realized that, the hard way, through personal experience.That's so true. Everyone always says that mistakes teach you, but if you can learn from someone else and learn what not to do before you have to do it yourself, then you'll be more efficient in life and won't go through as many troubles. I know that if I went into this relationship without knowing anything it would have definitely been much, much worse. I just need to work on not losing sight of all of this stuff next time. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 08:28 PM |
| 1 | All women are the same. I just now realized that, the hard way, through personal experience.As I noted in my other reply, yes, you're right. I perhaps tried too hard to fit the language and tone of the phrase more than anything. My point is that I have learned that I shouldn't immediately be so quick to trust that I can be so open with someone. I learned that I can't waver so much to anyone, no matter how much I think that they may be different and that I can just throw the rules and learnings out the window. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 08:27 PM |
| 2 | All women are the same. I just now realized that, the hard way, through personal experience.Thanks for the advice! Yes, you're right. Perhaps I haven't truly understood the sense of the phrase, and was just trying to fit the tone and language a bit too much. I like to think that every girl is different, but the majority exhibit some behaviors that result in things like this happening, unfortunately. Which leads to me having to assume the worst. My goal is to find the one that doesn't need me to do that. As my RP mother (and my bros) told me, I just have to take this as a learning exper… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Seeking help abroad [M] virginWord, exactly this! Literally nothing to lose. | /r/seduction | 08/09/14 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Some questions about grinding...lol | /r/seduction | 08/09/14 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Acting like the biggest chode over text?LOL this is really true, it's hilarious how much shit you can get away with (especially since you know she finds you attractive). Most dudes will be polite and try to have a normal conversation over text. But here I am telling chicks that I'm a DPRK spy and that their phone number is the code to my drop and I need it or some shit. At first it may seem like you're being a chode or a fucking idiot but it's really fun haha | /r/seduction | 08/09/14 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Seeking help abroad [M] virginThe great thing about the US (don't know how it is in AUS, but at least compared to Asia) is that you can approach any random person on the street and they'll be friendly enough to talk to you. Just do it man! | /r/seduction | 08/09/14 03:48 PM |
| 2 | I just freeze whenever she comes close to me, or actually whenever beautiful women comes nearby. I feel intimidated, slightly anxious and very scared, how to fix?I remember some of my first approaches, I'd literally start trembling. Just keep at it, eventually it'll become second nature, since you're doing so much. If it helps, imagine them ripping a huge fart. | /r/seduction | 08/09/14 03:47 PM |
| 24 | Club dancing: should I be swinging my hips?Dude, stop caring so much. Just dance like you want and don't give a fuck. My issue is that I freestyle shuffle and jumpstyle and none of those styles lends itself to being able to dance with a girl intimately lol. | /r/seduction | 08/09/14 03:47 PM |
| 3 | How do you introduce yourself to an already established group of friends?You might be able to get more in-depth answers over at /r/SocialEngineering, but in general I like to go in and just bring energy to the group, and act like you're all old friends. Obviously if you're the type to crack dirty jokes or something you have to calibrate but overall I'd say its the standard way of bringing positive vibes to everybody. | /r/seduction | 08/09/14 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Thirsty?Ask yourself, have you had any water lately? Gotta stay hydrated, man. | /r/seduction | 28/08/14 06:28 PM |
| 2 | why i don't do 'friends' with girlsYou must be a thrill at parties with your constant social strategizing. I guess you won't have gay friends either since you're not attracted to them? | /r/seduction | 28/08/14 04:50 PM |
| 1 | I have trouble applying what I learned, need guidance.Just go out and actually do it. Even if you fail, then you still learn! And a lot of the stuff you read will make more sense when you see it happening in real time. | /r/seduction | 15/08/14 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Calling in the big guns, how to deal with this female AMOG?Just ignore it. Why should you care what anyone else thinks of you? | /r/seduction | 15/08/14 06:59 PM |
| 0 | Do you find that women of different ethnic groups form cliques within her ethnicity?Asians, especially those born in Asia can seem to be very close-minded towards socializing with those outside their ethnicity. This may be due to the fact that unlike a diverse country like America, the population is more naturally homogeneous, which can lead to anything else seeming unfamiliar. As an American-born Asian, it can be very frustrating at times, and I have always tended to hang out more with Asians born here as well. However, as a white guy, you have a massive amount of status when … | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 06:55 PM |
| 1 | You've got the girl, but how do you keep her? Here are some useful tips and ideas for the first, second and third dates.Just do it. It doesn't matter when. In the first date I went on with this girl, she asked me what qualities I wanted in a girl. I told her that "she would need to be a good kisser" and went for it. | /r/seduction | 19/06/14 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Long distance textingI personally don't like texting someone that's physically unable to see me easily (i.e. long distance). I'd perhaps wish them happy holidays etc. once in a while but unless I'm going back to town I won't text them. If I were you I'd find other girls to talk to at school. If you don't, this may turn into a oneitis situation. | /r/seduction | 28/01/14 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Dorm Life Interactions??Just talk to her like you would to a dude you met on your floor. He seems chill but you want to get to know him before you want to be friends right? It's the same thing. Don't imagine that talking to a girl should be any different. Of course, your frame should change based on whether or not you want to pursue something more, but in the beginning, getting to know someone better creates a connection. There's no cure for approach anxiety. Just go do it. | /r/seduction | 28/01/14 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Have a dilemma about approaching a few girls at my jobAll them bitches | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 10:13 AM |
| 1 | How to ask a girl out?Read this! http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1ds7wk/a_message_on_introverts_and_pickup/ Just because you're an introvert doesn't mean that you can't pickup girls. | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 07:08 AM |
| 3 | Listen to Her Actions, not Her WordsAh. I see the difference. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 09:26 PM |
| 16 | Listen to Her Actions, not Her WordsThis kind of seems like being really passive aggressive lol | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 07:19 PM |
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