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DISCUSSIONpao664/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 01:39 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?pao664/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:59 PM
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There was an episode about this on everybody loves Raymond a few years back. Men fake incompetence to get out of doing chores. Passive aggressive. I’ve experienced this with my ex husband also. It is exhausting to have to explain to a grown man how to do simple tasks properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:27 PM
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I like the “as little as possible” answer. Thank you. :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:37 PM
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I’ve noticed the same thing. Here’s a question- how do you ladies avoid answering the question of “what do you do?” When asked? I am in STEM and I have found men ask a ton of questions (no doubt sizing me up for $$). I now hate getting asked anything about my career and am not sure how to answer. I’ve tried “I do XYZ but my focus is my family.” I’ve tried “I don’t define myself by a career”. None of these tactics are effective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:29 AM
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Well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:34 PM
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If a man says his ex is “crazy,” there is a HIGH probability of one of two things: 1.) HE is the only who is actually crazy or 2.) HE did something to make her that way. This is a message to my younger self. I am ashamed I fell for this line of bullshit with my ex husband!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:33 PM
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A lot of men are like this. They just don’t feel they have to. Hard pass. Men are good for two things- providing and pleasure. If they cannot give you BOTH of those things, what are you getting out of the arrangement? Here’s a sex rule- no BJs until he pleases you orally several times. You want a BJ? You need to get on your knees before the goddess/ ask me to sit on your face before that is even considered. Don’t fuck scrotes that are stingy- in or out of the bedroom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:37 PM
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Honestly I feel the sex issue is an absolute no go these days. The chasm between what women want and desire and what men desire is far too great. It feels infinitely better to be celibate and to uphold one’s value and self worth than to degrade oneself by submitting to what men want. What they want is nothing of love or a true and deep connection. Instead, they seek only “kink,” and our debasement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:43 PM
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My response: “No thank you. I don’t fuck my friends.” And then I end the friendship. Immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:02 PM
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On the flip side, I really get incensed when men DO care about a woman’s career, financial status/ assets. I am VERY rude to men who ask me about my career or even allude to it early on. IT IS NONE OF THEIR GODDAMN BUSINESS. Men provide. Period. The end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:01 PM
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TV is maddening. Especially American TV- we truly have a gutter culture now. Everything is porn drenched. Yuck. The only shows I enjoy watching are period dramas. Many are Masterpiece/British produced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:58 PM
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My ex husband told me the same thing- no one will want a divorced mom. Like. A. Give. A. Shit. Really. The quality of men out there is so bad, being alone is preferable to being a stressed out, worn out, “do it all” mommy/wife/nurse/purse/bangmaid. I enjoy My peace!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:54 PM
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I take delight in reporting these types for body shaming and racism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:51 PM
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Honestly if choking and rough play is what constitutes sex these days, I’d rather stay celibate. The divide between what turns men on and women on has now become a chasm. We have escalating porn use to thank for that. To the male lurkers- we don’t want to have “kinky” sex with you. I can’t even bring myself to say what the majority of women want because we will only be mocked. “Good sex” is love making. And very few of you asshats are capable of that anymore. Celibacy is a better option. Women a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:29 PM
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Honestly it is the ugly men who are often the biggest assholes. I’ve made the mistake of dating down looks wise (even marrying down) and these men are always assholes. It’s like they resent you and think LESS of YOU for lowering your standards. Never settle. Stay firmly perched up on that pedestal, ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:05 AM
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I find their personalities to be repulsive. And lately I have noticed an uptick in men who are just rude. As soon as you stick up for yourself and hold your ground, they write “Bye”. It used to be they would at least apologize if they made a faux pas. They are too full of themselves. They still do not get the number of responses and level of interest that we do. Arrogant pricks are revolting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:03 AM
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Men simply no longer have to have a care for the way in which women enjoy sex. The porn and kink/abuse saturated culture has created this mess we are currently in. And the chasm between what these sick entitled men desire and what decent women desire is now far too great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:19 PM
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They want it all. What a joke. Pick two- outstanding mother, beautiful, career driven. It is NOT possible to achieve all three. It’s like the old paradigm of project management. You cannot have all three- cheap, fast, and good. Pick two. These men haven’t a goddamn clue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:03 PM
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I hate to break it to you, but we will eventually revert to the old ways of doing things. Our monetary system will eventually collapse. Much of the bubble is driven by central banks, but a large part of the reason why wages have been stagnant for decades now is because of women in the workplace. The pandemic has laid bare what many of us women have known for some time- we are weary and tired of “doing it all,” and the burden placed on us has been completely unfair. Truthfully, I think we were be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:00 PM
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I love this too. Lmao!!!🚀🚀🚀🚀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:53 PM
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Yup. This is the way it works now. A Trad situation is ideal IF the man abides by the part of providing and protecting but no men are willing to do that in this day and age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:42 PM
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There is nothing remotely attractive about this or in any way pleasing for the woman. Hard pass. Value your peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:39 PM
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I’m going to say something else- some of the BEST traders I have met have been women. Women are more consistent and are better able to follow a rules based/technical approach and are able to be HUMBLED by the market whereas men like to argue with the market. Usually the trading rooms are full of men, but I guarantee in every one there are women posting too. Listen, watch, learn. You will make mistakes, but it is part of the process. It’s not just a man’s game. Women can play the game well and wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:35 AM
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Stick most of your money in safe ETFs or funds. Like the ARK funds and maybe QQQ/SPY. But watch the overall market direction. When the VIX spikes, I dump everything, move to cash. If it feels like there will be a huge correction, I buy 3x inverse ETFs but don’t stay in these long. I did very well in the crash last year moving my portfolio to SDOW and SQQQ for a few days- also buying calls on the VIX or UVXY when the market is tanking. Take a portion of your money and put into Cryptos. And a port…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:31 AM
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You are spot on. Especially about #2. They know we can report them for any reason. And I do- if a man is rude/sexual/crass I don’t just unmatch I report. Oh and the hello again men- I laugh my ass off at those scrotes. Especially the ones who dropped contact and then expect to pick up the conversation right where he left off MONTHS ago. No thanks pal. I Block/delete that nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:19 AM
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Yup. It’s ironic, isn’t it? I’ve been married TWICE and both times were miserable. I love my children, my parents and MY peace. I don’t have the desire to be any man’s mommy/nurse/purse/bangmaid ever again. And most men suck at sex. All they can offer is porn tier sex and no romance. Why bother?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:15 AM
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Yes scrote I very much value my peace. Actually I value peace way more than having a negative interaction with a man. Peace out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:11 AM
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I’ve been saying this for a long time. Women who can do it all, get stuck doing it all. I am divorced. I was married to a man with a very good career, there was no reason why I couldn’t stay home with the children OTHER than he insisted I work and “do it all,” so that HE got “something out of the marriage”. So fuck you, pal. Guess what? I took my kids and moved in with my parents. I still work- but at least they see what a healthy family dynamic looks like with my parents. A healthy family dynam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:47 PM
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My response to that- “perhaps if you asked me something interesting and were otherwise engaging and revealed a personality, women would be happy to oblige you. But since you are otherwise a dullard, women take their conversation elsewhere.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:21 PM
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I would love to see this. There was a disgusting scrote who had a YouTube channel where he would go through female profiles on bumble and tinder and mock the women. Women should do the same for the men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:20 PM
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THIS. Every interaction with a man should be easy and fun for the female. If he is not putting forth effort or making it easy on you, he is going to be horrible to you in a relationship and you will end up doing MORE than half of the emotional labor and upkeep in the relationship. This bullshit gets an instant UNMATCH from me. Seriously, out of 100 messages I receive only 1-2 men are worth responding to. Weed, weed, weed and then vet, vet, vet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:18 PM
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1 year is a good rule of thumb. Any less you don’t know him. Anymore- he’s dragging his feet. That’s old school advice though and I’m sure I’ll get down voted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:57 PM
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Did anyone else catch the “vag” day nonsense? All of Valentine’s Day was just about getting some. What a disgusting creature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:49 PM
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Any woman that goes for a “house husband arrangement” has NO grasp of economics. Men pay for pussy. If you support a man, you are not only giving him access to your pussy FOR FREE you are paying him for the privilege. Hard pass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:34 AM
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Sex is NOT A RIGHT. IT IS EARNED. What entitled pieces of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:32 AM
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Yup. There are men like this. They really are animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:31 AM
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Wow. I just can’t. It breaks my heart how typical this bullshit is. Men are scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:30 AM
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Lol. Sure I’ll cook after you prove your value many times over. Marry me AND 110% financially support me. Anything less than that, and I don’t go in the kitchen pal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:36 PM
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It’s not worth it. I’m 42. Divorced twice. Now for almost 10 years. I used to very actively date- they are all low value at this point. The issue for me is that I have NO DESIRE to have a man in my life if he is NOT GOING TO PROTECT AND PROVIDE FOR ME. And very few of them are open to this. They are all entitled and use women in every way possible until we are completely depleted. Every married woman I know is miserable. My sister does what ever her husband says- including working outside the ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:14 PM
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This. I have been saying this for years. My mother had it so much better than I do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:22 PM
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What a QUEEN!!! I love this. Right down to the “you can’t even wash between your ass cheeks!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:21 PM
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That is so accurate. Such audacity though. Date in your own age bracket you scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 01:29 PM
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That is accurate though. That’s about the best most millennial women (and most of gen xers) get offered. And many women accept this. The majority of Men aren’t going to change until women stick together like glue and refuse to accept anything less than queen level treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 01:26 PM
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How is this not banned? When I do OLD, I flag and report EVERYTHING that is even somewhat objectionable. I think this is one small thing we as women can do for each other. Try and clean out some of the scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:00 PM
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I am so depressed reading this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 01:10 AM
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Nope. No way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:16 AM
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Thank you for posting this. As someone who has been in this lifestyle in the very distant past, I agree 110% with what you said here. Bravo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:59 PM
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I wish the courts saw things this way. I’m lucky to have full custody. But I know many moms who were emotionally abused by their ex husbands who don’t. These men are all shit fathers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:28 PM
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I agree. And yet it is the MRAers and “father’s rights” advocates who scream that women are the ones who cause parental alienation. These men are a disgusting lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:27 PM
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This is a glaring indictment of being a “placeholder”. If he wanted to marry his first girlfriend, he would have. I feel bad that she wasted 6 years of her life on this low value trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 01:41 PM
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Honestly I think many women want to be SAHM (because they are burned out and tired from doing it all) but the men aren’t on board. The men all want more money for play and toys. I feel they should step up and get a second job so the woman could stay home if she wants that. Plus we have lost many protections we used to have in divorce thanks to MRA selfish fuckwits. Men don’t help around the house. It’s grossly unfair that we are expected to do all the child raising, house keeping, emotional labo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:10 PM
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MRA is not about men wanting to be equal parents and bond with their children and be good role models. It is simply a means for them to get out of financial responsibility for the women and children in their lives. It is disgraceful. The income shares model for child support had fucked over so many women. We need to change these laws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 06:50 PM
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So much word to this. I have example after example With my ex husband. Not just with My kids but with his son from his first marriage. Long story short- his son had pneumonia- kid had a high fever and was very sick. He would not take him to the hospital, so I did. After that I knew I could not trust him with our kids either. I have custody. So many fathers are completely clueless- or can’t be bothered to give a fuck. Now when THEY get sick, then it’s a big deal. But when their kid has a 103 feve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 06:44 PM
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Wow. When women pick the bucket up, men out theirs down. Men today are completely bereft of honor. An absolute disgrace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 10:11 PM
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The only way it is remotely fair is if he completely financially supports you. Sad but true. Women do so much “unpaid labor” in relationships. The least we should settle for is a man providing for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:25 PM
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Equal responsibilities at home will never happen. Even the most enlightened men still do far less in the home than women. That is why women who “do it all” get the rawest of all deals. We somehow end up with TWO more than full time jobs. And the men have less stress and responsibilities. I will never marry again unless I get to be a homemaker. It is the only way the workload is remotely fair. And I know we talk about how women who depend on a man get screwed over in divorce court, but women who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:22 PM
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This is my opinion does far more to HURT all women than help. Have you noticed how most men are now low/no value and have ZERO interest in doing anything to make women happy? This is because sex is so freely available to them because so many women give it up to them far too freely. That hurts all women. All women need to have standards. We need to go back to being the gatekeepers of sexual access. When women collectively do that, you will see men tripping over themselves again to treat us well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 02:21 PM
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So true. When I see anything about wanting someone with a career that’s code for expects you to pay for your own dinner. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:26 PM
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Lmao. He puts his Astro sign. Next up: “I’m very sexual bECaSE I aM a sCoRPiO!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:25 PM
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There are no girlfriend benefits. The best a man can hope for during that stage is my presence. And even that I am determining when and where. If a man wants additional access to me he needs to offer me something first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:21 PM
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This is so depressing. This is really how they think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:16 PM
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Scrotes don’t even have a cursory understanding of biology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:05 PM
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It’s not an apology if they put the word IF in the apology. I ignore. If had a nickel for every time I’ve heard “I’m sorry you Feel that way...” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:42 PM
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Gold digger is one of those words that have been overused to the point where it is now bereft of meaning. IDAF if men accuse me of being a gold digger. I expect the man in my life to provide. Period. The end. Get off your broke ass, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:40 PM
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Waiting for the TRP/MGTOW crowd to chant about how they all cook better than women. And yet they don’t even know how to properly use and clean an oven. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:38 PM
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🤣🤣🤣. Ok. This is one of my pet peeves too. Have y’all ever looked at some of the questions on OKC? There is a question about how often do you brush your teeth. The number of men who say ONCE a day is truly shocking. Just no. Gross. Meanwhile, us women have impeccable oral hygiene. We brush at least twice a day, floss, use mouthwash, water pick and usually whiten our teeth. And the men can’t even be bothered to BRUSH THEIR DAMN TEETH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:26 PM
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There are men that are into this. It’s a thing in BDSM also. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:44 AM
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One of many reasons. Yes. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 12:43 PM
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That poor child needs to be emancipated from her batshit parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:32 PM
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I can’t even bring myself to want to puke reading this . I want to crawl into a cave and never see another man again after reading that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:29 PM
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Never thought about it from that angle but that is a really good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:25 PM
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My ex husband used to say that women wearing makeup are perpetuating a fraud on men. 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:21 PM
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Scrotes say HOOTERS- “their wings are so good” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:18 PM
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Gross and depraved. These dudes need to spend some time in jail for rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:16 PM
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This is fantastic. Thanks for posting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:52 PM
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Be prepared. The Chris subreddit is full of people who like to trash Shannan. It has a misogynistic air about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:56 AM
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I have seen a few of a Dr Grande’s videos. I generally don’t like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:55 AM
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Is this made up? I have one word for her- DIVORCE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:29 AM
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Truth. I agree that the little Mermaid is by FAR the absolute worst. Even when that came out as a girl, I knew something was “off” with it. And watching it as an adult, literally made me cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:26 AM
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Yes. Disney movies are terrible and have so much pickme bullshit. Notice how many of the movies lack MOTHERS. So the confusing message girls get is that the stupid prince is the end all and be all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:25 AM
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This is all just noise and scare tactics to get women to settle. Plenty of women have babies in their 40s. Get the fuck over yourself Stefan!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:20 AM
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I know, right? This is total cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:18 AM
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Stefan should be the spokesboi (he’s not a man) for these disgusting scrotes. What an ugly human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:18 AM
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I love this. “No wife try outs!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:14 AM
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Flip the script. Be grateful you are no longer in a shitty relationship with a low value man. It takes some time to get there. And maybe therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:21 AM
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That whole family is mentally ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:43 AM
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Never dumb yourself down for a man. Ever. This is a mistake I made in the past. I did it to make my ex husband feel more than he is. Guess what happened- he started calling ME dumb when I am the one who finished college at 20. They really believe they are better than us. Audacity at its finest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:42 AM
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The other thing about this- what a wonderful friend Shannan had In Nikki! She instantly knew something was off. As women, we should lift each other up. The fact that Shannan had a friend who cared so much about her speaks volumes about her character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:16 PM
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Raises hand! I fell for this too. These low value insecure types will always try and drag you down to their miserable level. Never leave your throne, ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:12 PM
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110%!!!! So much this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:11 PM
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There is a series on YouTube called “Unmasking NK” that goes into all of this. Personally, I think there are some things that are off about her story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:53 PM
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Yes that is the profile. Another trigger is financial difficulties. We must be careful at all times with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:51 PM
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Yeah. I think him getting fit was the catalyst. Men change and not always for the better when they start getting fit. I experienced this with my ex husband as well. Learned many years later that he was cheating with a coworker. Honestly I think women always need to have “one foot out the door” at all times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:49 PM
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Agree. And honestly I think this is why we as women are brainwashed by society to “give him another chance” and “play nice”. Nope. We have the gift of intuition. We should ignore society and use it- we have been given that gift as protection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:46 PM
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I have watched a ton of docus about this case. I’m still confused by all of it. This is an unthinkable tragedy that breaks my heart. I think Shannan was in a bad place when she met Chris. If she had met that POS at any other point of time in her life, she would have kicked him to the curb. A takeaway for me is that women should not date until they are fully healed emotionally. Don’t get involved with a man when you are vulnerable- as you risk becoming a target for a sociopath. Also- Nichol- what…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:43 PM
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So many men are not fit to live on their alone, let alone have the privilege of living with a woman. Talk about no life skills. A 28 year old freaks out over a period. So many red flags here. Dump him and change the locks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:00 PM
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She could have COVID. How fucking callous of him to say “just breathe”. Awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:31 AM
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Thank you. I will hold my nose and look through some posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:30 PM
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The more shit I read like this, the more I am steadfast in my decision to remain celibate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:27 PM
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This!!!! I swear, the minute a man starts to argue with me about “how I feel,” I AM SO FUCKING DONE. This is a form of gaslighting and emotional abuse- by arguing with you he is diminishing your feelings. Scrotes that do this usually show it early. You can sniff it out in the first couple of phone calls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:38 AM
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I’ve seen this too. It’s disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:41 AM
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Men should provide. Period. The end. 50/50 benefits the scrote and not the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:40 AM
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Couple things to unpack here. They originally tried contraceptives ON MEN. The canned the idea because a small majority of men developed penis shrinkage. Meanwhile.... SEVERAL WOMEN died in the first oral contraceptive trials and it is well documented that oral contraceptives can cause stroke and death in some women. So, a man having some penis shrinkage is more of a concern than women dying. That’s misogyny off the charts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:37 AM
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Today is the day for this post- I’ve said it three other times on reddit today- men who have an extreme preference for fit/thin women view a woman’s body solely for their pleasure and do not see her as a whole fucking person. It’s a giant glaring asshole tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:32 AM
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This is disgusting 10 ways to Sunday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:28 AM
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This. We are not domino’s. We do not deliver.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:21 AM
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As a woman, I will tell you any time a man has a preference for fit/thin women, he views her as a vessel solely for his pleasure and does not respect her as a whole person. It is a huge asshole tell.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 02:01 AM
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This. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:35 AM
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His Broke ass can fuck right off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:42 AM
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Muh dick! So gross. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:41 AM
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I wish I could unsee this. Queens do not kneel before men. Men bow to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:44 AM
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He is likely infertile from having shot up all that testosterone. Total loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:42 AM
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His face! Looks like he HIT THE WALL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:40 AM
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I ignore “crazy ex” stories. They are simple too fucking prolific- there are not that many crazy women in the world- and the vast majority of dudes I’ve talked to have a “crazy ex”. Sure pal. Besides- USUALLY in this “crazy ex” situations, he did something to MAKE her crazy. Gaslighting and abuse more than likely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:38 AM
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This is common. I have run into many divorced dads with serious drama with their ex wives. I am a divorced mom. My kids are my priority. My ex is an extreme low value POS, but there is no drama. Mainly because I no. Longer. Give. A. Fuck. About him. People who stay embroiled in this kind of drama are not over their ex- period. The end. This scenario sounds like a trip to crazy town. Hard pass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:35 AM
6

So much this. POF is littered with human trash males. Disgusting, depraved, low IQ, no morals, no education, many unemployed. Hard pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:20 PM
5

Jesus. What a creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:19 PM
7

She drove 30 minutes for a walk date? That’s a hard pass. Demanding men come to YOUR side of town is how you weed out fuckbois like this dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:40 PM
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Covid is a god send for these low value scum. They don’t need to pay for anything. Just come to my place because I am too cheap to pay for hookers. We are not domino’s pizza! We don’t deliver.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:43 PM
50

I agree with this. I think it is far better to avoid dating right now. High value men care about others. They aren’t pushing to meet random girls off the Internet because “muh dick!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:42 PM
6

Damn. Yes it’s cringey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:57 PM
4

Lmao. I love when men announce that they are “alpha”. That tells me they are exactly the opposite. Alpha men don’t feel the need to advertise it. They show rather than tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:56 PM
34

Reddit is the place where “bargain basement” scrotes hang out online while playing video games in mommy’s basement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:55 PM
9

I have yet to meet a man my age (42) who doesn’t look like shit. Wrinkles, receding hairline/bald. I used to buy into that “wall” shit. As I have become more woke, I have learned it is the ultimate gaslighting tactic these scrotes use. MEN are the ones who “hit the wall”. Not women. A man over the age of 35 who looks good is rare. Look at their Skin! They have wrinkles in their 20s. Poor diet, lack of sunscreen/skincare and excessive drinking. They look much older than their biological age. And …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:49 PM
7

“Sits on his BROKE ass!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:04 PM
3

Lol. Always shit test. The trash takes itself out. I love how quick these scrotes flip from you are so wonderful and beautiful to “fuck you” And women are the overly emotional gender? I don’t think so!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:46 AM
9

My pet peeve are the scrotes that say “let me buy you tacos and touch your butt” in profiles. Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:55 AM
2

The fuck? Dude is a racist pos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:07 AM
19

Men that do this are narcissistic fucking pigs. He should be kissing her ass and treating her like a goddess because she is carrying their baby. It goes without saying, but she definitely should not marry that pig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:03 AM
6

Ewww.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:16 PM
36

The mother trash talk is very popular these days. I just can’t. My ex husband did that. That is a huge red flag. I would die if either one of my boys said what my ex husband said about his own mother. This “blame the mother” nonsense is very prolific and very misogynistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:02 PM
35

This!!! That is one of my triggers. If a man says his ex or exes are crazy- he likely did something to make her crazy. I have fallen for this before. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:01 PM
60

The men who push the submission thing... don’t realize the rest of that quote. It also says that men should love their wives like Christ loved the Church- meaning he DIED for it. I don’t see these “you must submit to me” scrotes so much as lifting boxes for their wives, let alone DYING for them, so they can STFU as far as I am concerned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:08 PM
1

That looks amazing! Very well done. I get the whole cooking thing. I enjoy it, but I have been burned too many times cooking for a man. It reeks of “wife tryouts” to me now- so I just do not do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:06 PM
18

So much this. I really want to see the studies on this. I am 42. I am burned out from all this. Divorced. I will say I run into way too many widowers! Men in their 40s whose “do it all” wives passed away. What. The. Hell???? Why isn’t this being addressed by the medical establishment? We are killing young women in this country with these bullshit “do it all” expectations. And yes GenX and millennial women have totally gotten the shaft. At least our boomer mothers were not expected to “do it all”…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:28 AM
3

The best are the men who get pissy when you want to verify what it in their profile. They say “read my profile” when you ask them questions. No shit dude! I am trying to verify what you wrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:17 AM
45

I’m so depressed reading this. This in no way should be normalized. Going to sound prudish, but men like this were once looked upon as deranged. Total Predators. Now everything is so “sex positive” these creeps get a pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:14 AM
17

Tacos... seems to be a thing with OLD. Scrotes day “let me buy you tacos and touch your butt”. I’ve seen that on a lot of profiles. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:36 AM
2

Because y’all suck in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:33 AM
9

I’ve noticed this too. They turn on you if you don’t respond like immediately. It may be rude, but this is why I deliberately do not respond immediately. I want to see how they react. And when they react like this- the trash takes itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:32 AM
10

Yeah I think you are onto something with this. Much easier for men to swallow it if women are down with being degraded and used sexually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:27 AM
7

Word. Well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:04 AM
9

This. 110% agree. I don’t care if someone says I am “judging,” but the VAST majority of BDSM IS ABUSE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:03 AM
9

Lmao. A feminist being ok with be a submissive wife? I can’t wrap my head around this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:01 AM
10

Second wave feminists had a severe distaste for Porn. It seems like third wave lib fems have gone completely OFF the rails in terms of sexuality. They have allowed the patriarchy to turn sex into an absolutely disgusting and degrading experience for most women. The vast majority of men are porn sick. And it is not just “vanilla” porn. It is very violent. I am becoming “asexual”. I’ve been married twice and have had enough horrible experiences in the bedroom. The worst was a man biting my nipple.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:00 AM
7

Porn. They all watch men throat raping women and think we enjoy this. Yeah no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:45 AM
5

I love how everyone shits on single and divorced mothers. You know the parent that is “doing it all” while the sperm donor runs off. So misogynistic. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:44 AM
12

I feel sick reading that. Men are evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:28 AM
1

Educated. Yet he went to trade school. Translation- he wants a high earning sugar momma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:55 PM
3

Lmao. Love that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:28 AM
57

He wants a FWB but with all the benefits of wifey. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:27 AM
43

I work in IT. Suffice to say I have had the pleasure of working with many Indian ladies. The men... well I don’t have anything nice to say! I am continually flabbergasted by how they will not listen to women’s opinions in meetings. They talk over women. Are dismissive. It is infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:24 AM
2

Always pass on a man that is a financial parasite. Always. These type of men are not just low or no value- they are NEGATIVE value. And if you get embroiled with one, it will hurt your bottom line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:04 PM
3

Excellent analysis. I never liked this show. Even in my pickme days. You hit the nail on the head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:17 PM
24

I’m sorry but the men who walk around saying “no fat chicks” are always misogynists. It is an instant tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:06 PM
6

Hey scrotes- you say “She can buy her own dinner!” We say-“ buy your own damn PS5!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 02:15 PM
15

Very good post. I agree this is a problem in both conservative and liberal circles. I’ve often said both liberal and conservative women have poor boundaries- albeit in somewhat different ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 02:10 PM
11

Can totally confirm. I’ve been married and subsequently divorced twice. I am 42 and this very much describes how I feel. I’d much rather spend my time with my children, parents, and friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:51 AM
37

Truthfully I do feel like they are the enemy. I wish I didn’t feel this way but experience is the best teacher. Two marriages for me. Two unbelievably horrible scrotes. The men I have dated have been no better. They just didn’t last as long as I became more adept at seeing their bullshit early and saying “No thanks.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 06:55 PM
4

I’d write back to this scrote- “I’m 5’8” without heels. Now GFO”. 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 04:34 PM
11

I think Disney princess movies are harmful. One thing that I feel is important to point out- notice how many of the movies have the MOTHER MISSING. That makes me feel uneasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 01:22 AM
2

36! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:52 PM
5

Notice the timeline. She was his girlfriend for just a year and his wife the following year. I have always said the timeline is HUGE. High value men marry. And they marry in a reasonable amount of time. He doesn’t make the woman wait it out for years. He is respectful of her time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:48 PM
27

This! And this is why I am single. I fell for this once. And it is hard to be a “ do it all woman”. Never again. The only way I will consider marriage again is if I get to be a stay at home wife. That is the only way I get something out of it. 50/50 benefits the man and not the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:43 PM
30

So I am in my 40s. Back in the day, we ladies called this a “bookmark” and not a date. A date must meet ALL the criteria: 1.) day specified 2.) time specified 3.) location specified. Anything else is a “bookmark,” which means your calendar is still OPEN for another offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:44 PM
16

Again- it’s all about HIM. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:18 PM
10

Nail on the head here. Ever notice how EVERYTHING with a LVM is transactional? It’s like they view women as incubators, flesh lights, wallets, mommy and maid. It is always what is in it for HIM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:15 PM
22

This is why we always chat with multiple dudes at once. You never know when they will reveal themselves to be low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:45 PM
2

Lmao. Scrotes- careful what you wish for- you just may get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:41 PM
32

I’m so fucking sick of the weight shaming and bullshit. My ex husband’s reason for cheating was because I had gained weight and “he wanted to be with someone he wanted to fuck”. Almost 9 years later and that poison is still in my head and I haven’t been successful at weight loss. Meanwhile he had so many fucking scars from acne as a young person and a huge nose. He was not appealing at all. Fuck society and men’s insane standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:38 PM
3

I see someone found a wannabe Dom. Do these men have any idea how pathetic they sound. I used to try and be polite and say “I prefer being asked politely instead of hearing orders/ demands.” I’m so salty now that if a dude tried this I would say “Fuck off” and block/delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:33 AM
2

Unsolicited dick pics is the modern day version of being accosted by a pervert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:26 AM
19

This woman is a true queen! This is so true and it is one of the dumbest things red pill men say “single and divorced mothers are trash” I’ve even had men write to me on OLD and I clearly state I am divorced with young kids and they feel the need to tell me that I am a terrible person and derelict as a parent because I am no longer married. The fuck? I’m doing a damn good job raising my boys. I’m very proud of that. And I know there are millions of queens doing the same thing. Way to go ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:16 PM
18

It’s not a “brand of weird”-The mother is a racist. Imagine having such a vile woman as a MIL? She would make this poor woman’s life hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:07 PM
26

This makes me so sad. Pickmes going against other women like that. That is exactly what these abusive, low value men want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:04 PM
14

Porn is an absolute deal breaker. And I don’t give a shit if 99% of men watch it. Not. My. problem. If he watches porn the absolute best you can hope for it that he merely objectifies women and sees them as a source for HIS sexual pleasure. (🤮🤮) At worst- he is violent. Rape/physical abuse or worse. You don’t want to end up being the kinkmeisha he “accidentally killed” during sex because he likes to choke women during sex. Apologize if this triggered anyone. This is the risk. And I’m sick of wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:03 PM
34

This is an abuse tactic. They use this to devalue YOUR opinion. And also to make you think you are crazy if you don’t remember it being a “joint” decision.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 10:59 PM
15

I remember when feminists were against rape. Remember the “take back the night” rallies in the 90s? Now, they willingly indulge male “dominants” in their rape fantasies with kink culture. This is not progress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:47 PM
10

I think all libfems need to go for assertiveness training. A common trait they share is they have no backbone. Send them to kickboxing. That was one of the best things I ever did for myself as a woman. Kickboxing. My couch was a male. He made it his mission to turn these meek little women into fighting machines and gave them a sense of power. Just hitting a punching bag and saying “NO!” “Back off!” Gets you in touch with your power. Contrast that with the libfem kinkmeisha who lets men choke and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:45 PM
5

I watched the series. And I have to tell you, it has been a long time since I had such a visceral reaction to something on the TV. I was literally seething. John was a total POS and poor Betty was absolutely abused by the legal system. It was horrific.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:21 AM
16

This is so true. But it makes me sad that so many young girls internalize all of this garbage. This is how pickmes are created.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:09 AM
26

Rich dudes who are cheap deserve a special place in dating hell. I once had a very well off man ask me out for a date a McDonalds. He later admitted he was joking, but I told him I did not find it funny and wanted no further contact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:32 AM
25

I kind of agree. Tesla screams “scrote ride” to me. Especially the true believer- Elon fanboy types. They are almost always fuckbois.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:31 AM
3

Totally missed that lol. I don’t do IG but I like the scrote roasting here. :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:29 AM
2

Yes!!!! Totally agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:27 AM
9

I think you need to ask some questions to VET them. If a man will not give a clear cut answer on something or is cagey with his response- he is hiding something and I move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:27 AM
4

Yeah. Red flag right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:26 AM
4

Also what does “I’m doing management” Mean? When a man cannot give a straight, clear cut answer about his career- bye bye! They are trying to make a lousy job sound better than it really is. I am doing management. Cagey and tells me nothing Versus- I am an IT manager. I manage 5 developers working on end user applications... tells me very specifically what he does for a living.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:25 AM
26

I did that with my two. Youngest nursed for years. My ex husband HATED it. Grossed him out. I was a pickme, but I drew the line at my kids. I always did what I thought was best for them. Funny how when I started standing up to my ex, he wanted a divorce. Good riddance to bad garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:01 PM
42

Yes it’s common and it is still around because women must respond. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:56 PM
2

The comments in the article read like they are from red pill hell. And she deserves every bit of that money for sleeping with such an ugly scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:42 PM
8

I thought the same thing. I hope it is fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:35 PM
5

Never support a man financially. Never pay half. Never go 50/50. Never provide anything of value to a man. Always follow this rule.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:31 PM
27

❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:01 PM
56

Betty is who I immediately thought of with this. Never build up a man. He will never respect you afterwards. And he will trade you in for a younger woman after he makes it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:37 AM
2

Omg. I just can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:05 AM
4

The sarcastic thing is everywhere. And I agree. It means he is a world class asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:57 AM
27

They don’t want prostitutes. They want FREE sex. And they have been getting it for years because so many women have low/no standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:13 AM
39

This. Thank you. I feel like we have completely lost sight of serious issues like basic safety. Let’s never forget- you are talking to some random guy on the internet in OLD. There is no way to know that he is not a rapist, murderer, violent or just generally crazy (sadly I have run into quite a few crazy men- thankfully none were violent but some were straight up crazy). Men need to realize that women risk A LOT just going on a date! And they need to plan dates in a different manner. This walki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:12 AM
23

Walk dates are for dogs. And I am referring to the men. Hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:08 AM
5

I have no words. Truly disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:04 AM
1

Love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:19 PM
31

To be fair, the love languages book is something heavily promoted amoung therapists and is standard reading fare for the newly divorced. And as someone who does express love through touch, you need to be VERY careful with a man. Honestly In terms of FDS, I would say gifts/ acts of service are what you are looking for in a high value man as those are the items that require the most effort on his behalf. Quality time- is natural in a relationship. Words- anyone can say words without action behind …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:14 PM
1

Most of them say “physical Touch”. Yeah just no. That means they want you to spread your legs within 5 minutes of meeting them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:10 PM
44

I really hate that book. It set women back 50 years. All of these women who now think abuse is sexy- really I want to 🤮.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:09 PM
49

This. Very well said. When I see a woman excuse bad behavior from and man and say it was a woman’s fault I cringe. Also- if a man ever says his ex was crazy, or all his exes were crazy- BRIGHT RED FLAG. Most likely he did things and abused her to the point where she became crazy. Also if he says his ex is a “bitch” red flag! That just means she has a backbone and didn’t want to put up with his crap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:08 PM
7

This sick scrote has the nerve to call society degenerate after admitting he hates all women (including his mother) and openly admitting his violent rape fantasies. The delusion. Ladies, I really think these red pill asshats are mentally ill. This guy sounds like he belongs in a straight jack in a psych ward- if not prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:40 PM
1

I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:03 PM
9

Alpha is not a pejorative ladies. Scarlett O’Hara was an alpha. Women who refuse to settle are alphas. Suzanne Venker is just a clueless pickme riding on the coattails of her crazy auntie. Next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:01 PM
7

Do you know who Suzanne Venker is? She is Phyllis Schlafy’s niece. That explains quite a bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:58 PM
4

This just makes me sad. How has this been normalized? Also- “ride or die” is an automatic block/delete. Hard pass on men that use that phrase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:19 PM
4

Someone should tell these nasty poly scrotes... they should be grateful ONE woman wants to fuck them- never mind worrying about getting multiple partners. The delusion of these scrotes is truly mind blowing. Total disconnect from reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:18 PM
5

Not only Gross. But horrid posture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:08 PM
24

Infuriating. Every one of those dudes is hideous and those girls are all attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:05 PM
18

Daily remember that the so called “sexual revolution” is what created this bullshit entitlement mentality we see in so many men. It used to be that a man had to OFFER something to get an average looking woman to even smile at him. Now, these men have not only been spoiled by cheap and easy sex, but their brains have been deformed by viewing massive amounts of pornography that they have lost touch with reality. Because they see all these “perfect porn” women, they FEEL ENTITLED to a “perfect 10” …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:47 PM
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I had a husband like this lol. Ex husband now. But those scars from the abuse take a long time to heal and I still struggle with my weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:23 AM
3

50/50 is never 50/50. It’s more like 90/10 with the woman running herself ragged. I chose to prioritize my self care over this 50/50 nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:38 AM
21

You know where no (or a cheap ring) gets you? It gets you married to a stingy scrote who expects you to pay half of everything and do all the housework. Hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:19 AM
1

Signed up. Guess I am awaiting my code?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:14 PM
5

I’ve noticed this too. Or, in every single picture in their profile they have a drink in their hands? Hard pass. Sadly I’ve met high functioning alcoholics. It’s easy to spot them when dating though- don’t drink at all on the first few dates. If they have to drink (even though you aren’t) that’s a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:53 PM
6

Just throwing this out there- if you ever have to resort to posting about your relationship in the “Am I the asshole” subreddit, you are 100% in a relationship WITH an asshole. All of those posts on “AITA” sound the same. It’s rinse, repeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:49 PM
26

Yup. I picked up on that immediately. Typical scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:52 PM
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Also dude in the post is extremely low value. He has dated the same woman for 7 years? Yep. He’s a scrote. A HVM would have made that woman his wife a long time ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:50 PM
16

Too bad dude. Men as a whole need to learn how to behave in a civilized manner towards women. Smart women live by “better safe than sorry.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:48 PM
39

Not to mention back in the day, most men provided. That is completely gone now. Now we are expected to do all the household work and contribute at least 50% of the income. Seems like we got swindled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:46 PM
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I am disgusted by polyamory but I do not agree with your assessment that men don’t have access to sex in a poly situation There are a lot of pick mes who would be happy to degrade themselves by being a “side chick”. I feel that because so many pick mes have little backbone and are very permissive of men’s bad behavior in general that good, decent women (who actually have backbone and standards) have lost a great deal of their sexual power over men. We mock pick mes (and rightfully so), but men b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:44 PM
45

Always Hard pass on men’s profiles that say any of the following: “Kinky” “Open minded” “Dominant” “Not vanilla” Another kink many of these dudes have is a breeding fetish. Run from this. These men just want to “own” your body and have no intention of protecting and providing for any offspring. Male sexual depravity is sadly bottomless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:09 PM
14

Yes. This is my price too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:04 AM
27

Totally. Been there and done that. And now because of the bs MRA laws on the books, you get screwed out of alimony and get less child support when your marriage falls apart after you killed yourself “doing it all”. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:03 AM
3

🤮 just gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:55 AM
16

They have this kind of shit lazy attitude and then they wonder why women want nothing to do with them! They have no self awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:54 AM
10

🤣🤣🤣. Hard pass on all that. I’ve worked enough in my first 42 years for My whole life. These scrotes can piss off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:52 AM
2

What a prince! He hates women, children and dogs. (I mean who hates dogs?). Dude is a mental case. Probably has homicidal tendencies too. Run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:52 PM
18

See if you can put it in a trust or put it in the name of a family member you trust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:49 PM
20

Jesus. So many men just abuse their soon to be ex wives with the legal system. Always hide away money. Never let a man control the purse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:48 PM
22

I just can’t with these men anymore. 99.99% of them on OLD are just a hard pass. They have insane standards (while they either look like total shit and/or have absolutely nothing to offer themselves). And I have not even gotten to the denigrating expectations they all have for easy/no strings attached sex or the entitlement mentality that they have because they think they are the prize. Just ick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:46 PM
20

Oh yeah I know who you are talking about. Red headed doctor with glasses. Her name starts with a “T”. Her opinions are totally disgusting. She is advocating for 50/50 and for men to take no financial liability for the women and children in their lives. Absolutely despicable. She is tight with one of the most misogynistic Men’s rights advocates also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 11:53 PM
30

Yes this. Seriously gross. Men with that fetish want to “own” you. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:49 AM
11

This guy is famous (I really should say infamous) in the MGTOW/ red pill world. I went down that rabbit hole after my divorce. My ex went “red pill”. Whatever. They are all losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:19 AM
3

His spelling sucks too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:55 PM
7

Honestly 90% of men fail at this. It’s been studied over and over again- women still do the lion’s share of housework and childcare. This is why the only way I would marry again would be if he agreed to a traditional set up. I’m not doing all of that stuff around the house AND working and contributing to the household. Eff that! You want me to cook dinner and keep house, fine but you are going to provide. And if I do choose to work, my money is my money. I’m not contributing a red cent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:22 PM
14

I’m so disgusted with the pervasiveness of 50/50 and related nonsense. Men just don’t have the nerve to admit what they really mean- they want us to give them sex with no effort, cost, or feeling required on their part. I’m just so turned off by men these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:12 PM
4

This was excellent and informative. I have to double down on the recommendation for collagen. I take the powdered form and put it in my coffee. That along with multivitamins, extra c/d, fish oil, and lipowheat- my skin looks amazing. I’m 42 and have no wrinkles. Great skin starts with the nutrition on the inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:53 PM
4

Many are slovenly. The unkempt bro beards really are disgusting. They all think they look “sexy” with these unkempt beards. They just look lazy, dirty and disgusting. No way I am kissing that bacteria encrusted rug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:51 PM
55

Lmao. This is just so delusional. Men peak at 50? Who are these men kidding? Take at look at the average woman in their 30s/40s and compare her to men in her same age cohort. The men look nasty! Wrinkles, balding etc. women take better care of their skin and many look at least 10 years younger. Funny story- I never changed my name after my divorce. So same last name as my ex husband. We go to the same dr. The doctor tells me he “saw my father yesterday.” I said what? He said I saw so and so. I l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:48 PM
14

Look at that shit eating grin on that man’s smug face. Really disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:44 PM
4

I absolutely adore this show. There is another episode early on with Blanche and her niece. Her niece is a total pickme- and Blanche explains the difference that while she enjoys the company of men- she is centered in her own pleasure. Her niece is engaging in sex with multiple men to try and please the men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:52 PM
12

Wow. Talk about over emotional and irrational about an item his girlfriend bought for herself! And men think WE are the emotional and irrational ones? That’s gaslighting on an epic scale
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:48 PM
10

Yup. Or women hate men because they are straight up tired of being completely depleted by men. This is how I feel. I feel that they benefit infinitely more than we do the way relationships are currently structured. I value myself and would rather be alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:43 PM
4

Honestly the reason for this (imo) is not so much about looks but about how easy it is for them to manipulate younger women. Older women have been through much of the bs and can spot it a mile away. We shut that nonsense down fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:40 PM
1

The only part of this I agree with is listening more on dates and being silent if he says something you don’t like. You do learn a lot about someone’s character when you really listen to what they say. The rest of this- I don’t like. If a man asks you to “come over” simply respond “No thank you”. He will either get the message and step up his game or he will reveal himself to be LVM and you should block/delete and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:38 PM
14

+1000 to this. I was married to a man like you describe that required me to “contribute” It was very hard (I have two kids- one with special needs) and was raising his son from his first marriage. He insisted I work, refused to get a housekeeper or help and he was a CFO!!!! I still have poor health, overweight (although I’m working on this) from years of putting myself LAST. And my career got unbearable the past year- 12 hour days plus weekends. I’m tired. And I’ve been divorced 8 years. I think…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:30 PM
13

That is called “cock worship”. I am ashamed I even know what that is. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:11 AM
15

BDSM mention is an automatic block. “dom, sub, training,” yuck. Who decided abuse is a sexual choice? It’s not. It’s violence. The fact that this gets portrayed as “sex” just speaks to the deep seeded misogyny in the culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:10 AM
1

Dump this man immediately AND get far away from him. Don’t take any food/drink from him. Never be alone with him ever again. He’s plotting on killing her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:07 AM
3

This is a joke, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:05 AM
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