Pretty much the exact response I expected. That’s a no from me, dawg.

NotSoSmartChick · 2020-12-12T01:13:12+00:00

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apple_cores · 2020-12-12T01:14:00+00:00

“That’s great news” lol.

I avoid anyone who comments about wanting to be fed or expect cooking. “The key to my heart is thru my stomach lol if you can cook I’ll love you”

LaptopBatteryLow · 2020-12-12T01:26:49+00:00

What's the chance he's actually a good cleaner upper?

purasangria · 2020-12-12T01:39:24+00:00

I stopped cooking for men. I may include someone I'm dating in a dinner party I'm giving for friends, but I'm no longer cooking just for a man.

NotSoSmartChick · 2020-12-12T01:12:26+00:00

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unbelyevable · 2020-12-12T02:20:57+00:00

My answer is straight up no. Not only does that weed them out but I do honestly hate cooking.

And I swear, the next time I hear "You'll never get a man if you can't cook," from LVW old-thinking women.

Its not a can't, its a don't like it. Geez.

Aocwannabe · 2020-12-12T01:23:22+00:00

Yeah, anyone who thinks I’m out to “win” their love by doing things for them 🤮🤮🤮🤮

frogchickenhorse · 2020-12-12T01:56:58+00:00

I tell people that I don’t cook. I’m not cleaning or cooking for any man. Only for myself thanks.

Confection_Efficient · 2020-12-12T03:21:13+00:00

I feel like if he said, “I love to cook too. What’s your favorite to make?” I’d be all over that. But already sitting down and licking his chops makes me want to 🤢

BashRunes · 2020-12-12T02:01:14+00:00

I've been with exactly one (1) man who didn't try to make me do all the cooking. Actually, he insisted on doing it all himself, even when he really didn't feel like it. He had a ton of really garbage traits, but he made me realize that not cooking at all is a dealbreaker.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-12-12T02:15:13+00:00

"good cleaner upper" doubt 🧐

Cool-Fill9819 · 2020-12-12T03:50:54+00:00

I unmatch them right away. And if they're a guy friend and ask that shit I say I do not cook, and that I like a man that cooks.

BAMMM.

hapahunnie · 2020-12-12T01:34:46+00:00

I would not tell anyone you can cook to weed these types of people out. I literally tell strangers that I would burn water if I could when in reality I took 4 years of culinary arts and restaurant management classes. Even when I get to know people I just tell them I learned from YouTube until I know what type of people they are because I don’t want to be asked for last minute favors for parties or gatherings.

Thattonertho · 2020-12-12T03:27:43+00:00

I absolutely hate it when guys ask if I can cook.

NotSoSmartChick · 2020-12-12T07:22:00+00:00

He cleans up.... his plate.

eatchickpeas · 2020-12-12T08:07:06+00:00

if we asked how much he earns, how tall he is, where is career is going, does he live alone, if we asked any of that suddenly we're being sexist and its misandry

frustratedmarxistfem · 2020-12-12T08:49:34+00:00

I stop talking at 'do you cook?'. Boy I'm not auditioning to be your nanny

2020-12-12T08:51:07+00:00

Me:"do you earn a lot of money?"

Him: "I do".

Me: "That's great news. I have en expensive taste and I like being spoiled".

PuthyOnAPlatter · 2020-12-12T04:58:44+00:00

I only enjoy cooking when I'm doing it for myself. 🙃

whokilledhydra · 2020-12-12T14:03:05+00:00

Always with the fking "haha" too

thinktwiceorelse · 2020-12-12T14:40:31+00:00

My ex said that he would marry me someday, if I cooked this one special meal he liked. I did, and guess what, he didn't marry me. Luckily.

poison_snacc · 2020-12-12T17:25:33+00:00

My eyes rolled up into my head and have not yet returned, pray for me

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2020-12-13T11:43:43+00:00

I hate this. Not just because of the way he’s expecting you to cook for him, as a woman. But also the future faking. Like, dude, we just met on a dating app... there’s a few more steps involved

slythergin23 · 2020-12-12T15:00:58+00:00

quick question - so i put up in my bio that i like baking, which i genuinely love as a hobby. i keep being told something along the lines of "that's great, i love cooking. i'll whip up dinner and you can do our dessert". is this a red flag? i'm not quite sure.

obviously, i'm not going to do at home dinner with strangers, don't worry. i'm just curious if it's problematic in general for when you know each other better.

pao664 · 2020-12-12T22:36:29+00:00

Lol. Sure I’ll cook after you prove your value many times over. Marry me AND 110% financially support me. Anything less than that, and I don’t go in the kitchen pal.

fairywakes · 2020-12-15T03:53:56+00:00

Men who literally think consuming and cleaning the plate is impressive

GamerGirlLinda · 2020-12-13T00:13:11+00:00

Good cleaner upper? You mean, like an adult? Anyways, he better be talking about something else when he says “he’s a good eater” 😉

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2020-12-13T06:28:00+00:00

Ugh this is the type of man who would eat all your kid’s snacks

Poggersisms · 2020-12-14T02:53:44+00:00

Wants mommy to cook for him, what a surprise.

MRgoudaonionspickles · 2020-12-12T15:31:35+00:00

“awww, that’s good for YOU, baby”

Wildestrose1988 · 2020-12-12T07:50:46+00:00

I'm confused did he not just offer to do the cleaning??

Is this some kind of double entender that went over my head???

Title	Pretty much the exact response I expected. That’s a no from me, dawg.
Author	NotSoSmartChick
Upvotes	293
Comments	57
Date	December 12, 2020 1:10 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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