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| 160 | I love it when these men reveal themselves right away;Five minutes after creating my profile I saw a profile that had a whole bunch of NV red flags, but he actually ended the NV schpiel with "#cheater" I blocked him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/22 11:18 AM |
| 3 | Saturday MotivationI will remember this for next time. Thank you Edited to add: I'm not sure Android has the ability to screen record, so for the videos I'll either save them, or look them up without my account | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 03:39 PM |
| 7 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Gotchya, thank you for respectfully enlightening 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 12:37 PM |
| 41 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Wasn't there an interview on like Dr. Phil between Jada & Will where she's confessing to cheating on him (while they were together or working on things or whatever) and he's crying? The infamous meme? Or was that when they were separated too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 07:48 AM |
| 29 | OnlyFans ... OnlyFakeIt's essentially a guy telling reddit that most of the women on OnlyFans (at least the high earners?) don't do their own messaging and the site hires people to talk to the men for the women. So they go and "fall in love" with a woman they've never met and who's not even talking to them. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 05:03 PM |
| 23 | Rape caseFirst of all. I work in law enforcement and am incredibly sorry this happened to you (the initial act AND their response). I know you can appeal a judge's decision. I am not sure if you can appeal a prosecuting attorney's so that may be something to look into, especially after obtaining the police report. If, for some reason, they deny you the police report, go through the channels to submit a FOIA request I believe. At that point its court ordered and they can't deny it. Hopefully it doesn't ge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 08:59 PM |
| 14 | Pickmes contributing to the idea that women should be low maintenanceIm starting to believe the only correct 50/50 is how chivalry is dying. 50 = lazy a$$ NV/LVM murder it; 50 = pickmeisha bullshyt buries it. 🤷🏼♀️💁🏼♀️ Edited to make an addition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 05:54 PM |
| 8 | Let’s hear your clever responses to “How are you still single?!”My favorite response to this, and mainly the question of, "How do you give out such great advice and you're single!?" Me: "Coaches don't play." 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 03:17 AM |
| 39 | Don’t ever let a man make you think you need him for ANYTHING. Women everywhere are raising their standards and LVM are getting desperate. This one in particular is trying to use fear and coercion to find himself a lower income wifeLol. I make under 50k a year at my full-time job. I got a 2nd job and started dating a guy. Guess which one stuck. 😉😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write a Bitchy ProfileThank you! You stay safe too sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 10:45 PM |
| -3 | Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write a Bitchy ProfileI appreciate your understanding and warnings. I'm in law enforcement so I don't post a lot of pictures / info anyway. And my location on Snapchat is always off. I've also found out and written down everything I need in case he pulls shady sh*t but I don't think he will. I've been stalked and almost raped too so I know it's not fun... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 09:30 PM |
| -3 | Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write a Bitchy ProfileJust curious to see how long he's going to keep this going. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write a Bitchy ProfileThis is almost exactly what I put on mine! I added I'm not interested in PenPals. I don't want to keep electronic communication if we're not meeting in person. I met a guy, but we've been trading selfies on Snapchat for 100+ days and had one (1!) date. 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 03:58 PM |
| 54 | Older does not mean wiser and they always use the "she's such an old soul" bsI just spat my food. Age does NOT equal wisdom. In fact, the older people get, the less they can fake it too. 😳😅😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 03:52 PM |
| 5 | How do you get exes to leave you alone for good?Okay so I'm really late to this party, but do everything you can to report the behavior, save all messages (ESPECIALLY ones where you can prove its him) and check the laws in your state because the law is trying to catch up with technology and there are some which are "harassment by phone or using telecommunication devices" something like that! In some states, since they're misdemeanor crimes, you can go request the warrants without the police/a report. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 02:40 AM |
| 4 | Oh goody, yet another way men are entirely too happy to deceive you.In all his scrotastic glory, I hope he changed the computer's difficulty ☕ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 02:34 AM |
| 7 | A HVM will WANT to plan a wedding with you a LVM will check outThis post hit so close to home for me. Except he and I are friends, and she and I are acquaintances. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 10:13 PM |
| 7 | Talk to your ex’s exA couple ex's of mine ago, his ex had been watching me for a little bit and after she noticed I changed all my stuff / deleted him on all my social media, she messaged me and told me she was proud of me for getting out of the relationship when I did. We had a full-blown conversation about him, his behaviors, and his abuse. It was cathartic for both of us, and this definitely needs to be normalized. We also shared a texting belly laugh after he got charged with a felony because we called that it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 10:07 PM |
| 54 | This is why it is important to vet and advocate for yourself, ladies. It's life or death for some of us. No one, neither progressive nor conservative, will speak on this because our lives don't matter.The first suspects in just about every true crime documentary when a woman is killed are not Johnny Appleseed walking down the street. They look at the men she knew/was close with. Or heck, even just acquaintances with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 09:51 PM |
| 27 | A joint Facebook account won’t stop him from cheatingI absolutely love this. LVM CHOOSE, yes, CHOOSE, to cheat! And there's nothing you can do to stop him. Plus if you try to "stop him" that is gonna turn into gaslighting in the future "yOu WeRe ToO cOnTrOlLiNg..." Like you stated above, just leave him in your dust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 09:49 PM |
| 6 | Your intuition as a woman is more powerful than you realisePREACH IT! I am a first responder and every single woman (person, but mostly women would report "little things" to me) who reported to me I took them seriously! I will NEVER ignore my intuition! And I tell others to do the same! On another note, I've been sucked into the world of "horror" stories on YouTube. It is unimaginable how many stories the narrator states, "Looking back I knew something was wrong and didn't do... [x, y, or z]." Hindsight is always 20/20. Stay alive to see it 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 01:46 PM |
| 36 | No hiking dates— everThe word "hiking" is basically equivalent to the word "the" in a guy's bio these days to be honest. I don't even read or ask about it if I do swipe on the guy. 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 02:10 AM |
| 10 | Tell all the men you know to get in on this class action to drive the payout down to pennies, then delete and let those who remain initiate messages to bots.So they whine because "tHeY hAvE tO dO aLl tHe WoRk" and now they're whining because ... these women aren't working for them 🤣🤣 Cry me a river 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 12:32 AM |
| 20 | Post your block list statistics!Facebook: 7 Snapchat: 7 Instagram: 2 Messenger: 1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:15 PM |
| 2 | A couple of years ago, I wouldn’t even fully admit to being a feminist in a dating situation cause I didn’t want to scare men away. Today this quote is the only text I have on my dating profile.Preach it 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Danielle Bradbery - Friend Zone (thought some here might like it)I love her song "Worth It"!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Alexander LudwigHe is one of my favorite actors for sure! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 02:42 AM |
| 37 | What the frog just came across my timelineWhat the cinnamon toast frick is all them words 😂😂👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Nah sis 🤢🤢What the cinnamon toast pickmeisha shit is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Men are ‘getting away with murder’ by claiming they killed partners during rough sex in ’50 Shades of Grey defence’ (this is why you have to be so picky including with wealthy men.)This is a great idea, but in some US states, its illegal to tape without two party consent/knowledge. On the plus side of this though, if he refuses to be taped.. well, we might call that a 🚩. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 05:04 AM |
| 57 | He doesn’t own a vacuum and he doesn’t own a drain snake! Don’t clean up for him, your not his mom, just RUN! 😦I can tell you right now, just like those Facebook chain mails, this "tradition" will die with me. Period. Also, WTF IS IN THE DRAIN?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 09:29 PM |
| 23 | Male pickmes be like...🥴What the cinnamon toast Twilight f*** happened at the end. I dare a dude to do that nonsense to me. These knuckles come without warning 😳😳🤜🏼🤛🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 04:01 AM |
| 8 | Keep seeing this ad on FB and it really irks me. Why is it that women are asked to make even their most brutal suffering a "fun family ritual"? Where is this child's father? Can he not mind the child until she feels better?Have you looked into getting your daith pierced? I've had quite a few friends say that helped them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 04:46 PM |
| 62 | LADIES WTF: Homeless Millennial Man Survives By Picking Up Women Every Night. Every woman who fell for this dirty unwashed misogynist deserves to be in the Pickmeisha Hall of Shame.Revulsion. Definitely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 04:44 PM |
| 8 | Revenge storyI am whole heartedly not trying to attack you because I chuckled at this story for sure but ... just be careful doing this. This scrote knows where you live .. piss him off / embarrass him enough and no telling what he's capable of. Just my two cents! Stay safe. And again, LOL! 😉👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 12:33 PM |
| 103 | FDS helped me realize my client is a dangerous scroteI have that book! Excited to read it and nice to see its got good reviews. I had "The Gift of Fear" recommended to me by two people within the span of 2 weeks! So I was like, clearly this is a sign for me to read it. Great book as well! Stay safe out there, queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 12:15 PM |
| 7 | Morbidly obese pervert forces flight attendants to wipe his assI could be mistaken but I believe I read in the article they only hire female flight attendants anyway. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 06:40 PM |
| 6 | What's not clicking?Thanks for the recommendation! The Kindle edition is currently $3 right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 09:54 PM |
| 5 | A guy walked into my apartment & I realize to exist as a woman is to be constantly reminded of my own vulnerabilitySo I actually did this myself. I was living with my cousin at the time and we were on the 3rd floor. I was working 3 jobs, in school full time, barely sleeping and constantly exhausted. I had made it to the second floor, opened the door and walked in. I still distinctly remember all the red flags I received after opening the door (it was unlocked), how NOTHING looked familiar, and yet, I still ignored my own brain and walked in. The guy I saw looked completely and utterly horrified, and that's w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 09:50 PM |
| 3 | The “Blood in the Water” Test"Cutie patootie"?! How bout I deck you in your pecker and see how cute you think I am then. #TheAudacity #YIKES (For the record, being called cute is not one of my favorite nicknames. I would've gotten up and walked out). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 09:34 PM |
| 8 | Great example of healthy empathy on both ends, self respect and a man that respects you and your life with or without him. *If he is into you, you will know from the getgo*I just explosively laughed. I hope you're proud of yourself 😂👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:04 PM |
| 6 | Vice, a publication which supports sex work and advocates for it, also had this article up: Sex Worker Marylène Levesque Killed After Paroled Murderer Allowed to Satisfy 'Sexual Needs'. So tell us again how sexwork benefit women. Clearly getting murdered and/or raped empowers women.🤦♀️🙄Ugh. Thats some scrotetastic shyt right there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Instagram Gem 😘😅😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:41 PM |
| 0 | Instagram Gem 😘😅😂QueenShyt YYYEEESSSS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:40 PM |
| 5 | Vice, a publication which supports sex work and advocates for it, also had this article up: Sex Worker Marylène Levesque Killed After Paroled Murderer Allowed to Satisfy 'Sexual Needs'. So tell us again how sexwork benefit women. Clearly getting murdered and/or raped empowers women.🤦♀️🙄This makes sense, but still highly suspicious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:33 PM |
| 9 | Vice, a publication which supports sex work and advocates for it, also had this article up: Sex Worker Marylène Levesque Killed After Paroled Murderer Allowed to Satisfy 'Sexual Needs'. So tell us again how sexwork benefit women. Clearly getting murdered and/or raped empowers women.🤦♀️🙄Where the heck did he get that kind of money?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:20 PM |
| 36 | Vice, a publication which supports sex work and advocates for it, also had this article up: Sex Worker Marylène Levesque Killed After Paroled Murderer Allowed to Satisfy 'Sexual Needs'. So tell us again how sexwork benefit women. Clearly getting murdered and/or raped empowers women.🤦♀️🙄"According to several news reports, the erotic massage parlor that employed Levesque allegedly banned Eustachio Gallese, 51, after he had behaved violently with several masseuses. Levesque reportedly agreed to meet him at the hotel instead." Ugh. Queue the "well she should've never gone with him!" Why did she do it though? I can't imagine she was that in need of money. Gosh, this hurts. Also the amount of people screaming if sex work were legal this wouldn't have happened. Nah, based on informat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:15 PM |
| 7 | Instagram Gem 😘😅😂Yeah.. not sure who created the page and why the call it that but they have some good points. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 05:21 PM |
| 197 | Women are better parents even when they aren’t the parent.First of all. I love this movie. Second of all. I love her. Third of all JUST YES TO THIS PART. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 12:02 AM |
| 22 | I have no wordsI aim to please 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Came across this today I have no wordsI am so sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 11:44 AM |
| 1 | they love to tell on themselves😂Just for kicks and giggles I would've replied "I am LITERALLY blocking you rn boy bye!" Blocked and done. But damn. The dumbfoundedness on his end might have been worth the wait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 02:04 AM |
| 12 | Came across this today I have no wordsAnd yet they watch women shitting in cups as porn THIS IS A THING. WHY IS THIS A THING. 🤯🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 01:53 AM |
| 46 | Came across this today I have no wordsCame here to say this! No bodily function..so a doll. You want a doll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 01:50 AM |
| 175 | I have no wordsWhat the cinnamon toast fuck did I just read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 01:23 AM |
| 13 | If they run at the first sign of you not accepting their low effort dates and low value behavior, then they’re scared little boys. Don’t ever worry about people who ghost you.If they run at the first sign of you not accepting their low effort dates and low value behavior, then ...we consider that the trash taking itself out, and it may hurt, but consider the bullet you most likely dodged. 😁👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 06:00 PM |
| 44 | Trigger Warning ⚠️ This @$$wipe tried to slide into my DMs after giving me one of the worst sexual experiences of my life. Zero foreplay, shoved it in (I got flashbacks of my r@pe). After I took a pi$$, I saw some blood in the toilet........ he wants to be friends on Instagram now 😤I think you've replied enough times for us to know that FDS preaches block and delete, and we need to read the handbook. However, what OP is saying in her comment is true. It's not a waste if it's future evidence that can be used against him when/if his behavior escalates. Should it be a long, thought out response? No. Should she keep responding? No, once is definitely enough. But delete? Nah, or maybe, but only after an archived screenshot. Don't get rid of that evidence that tech companies (ru… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:53 PM |
| 2 | 😳🤢🤮😡 (At least most of the comments are on point 🙌🏼).Unfortunately it was not! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 08:24 PM |
| 3 | 😳🤢🤮😡 (At least most of the comments are on point 🙌🏼).My initial reaction right here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 08:24 PM |
| 124 | 😳🤢🤮😡 (At least most of the comments are on point 🙌🏼).For sure. Story doesn't make sense, and honestly... I would not be surprised if he was...reacting to it while writing it. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 03:57 PM |
| 18 | Why are men such assholes about women's muscles???I'm also in a rock climbing sub, and the muscles on some of those women 🔥🔥. I want to look like them. Side note: One time I did a closet clean out and was selling some boots I never wore and had only worn maybe 5x max. I ended up meeting a guy to sell them to (furry, knock-off Uggs, mind you, but to each their own) who said they were for "his sister." May have even been his wife. I don't remember. Irrelevant. I pull up in my truck - I drive a Chevy Silverado since I was and am in a transitional … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 05:00 PM |
| 7 | These guys are around us, ladies.Astronomically ridiculous! Like who made you judge and jury? 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 01:51 AM |
| 27 | These guys are around us, ladies.This is both comical and infuriating. Comical in the sense that the same dude going "MUH PENIS THO" is gonna turn around and slut shame the pickmeisha who has sex with him because she "has no standards," "slept with him too soon," etc. Infuriating because, as many of you mentioned above, they want us now to think all men are like this? Clowns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 12:29 AM |
| 8 | For the love of god please stop having their children. Twitch streamer threatens to break child’s neck for being in his roomMaybe this has already been said, but I wouldn't be surprised if there was some physical abuse in this video. That kid's screams... I've nannied/babysat/worked in a nursery before and those screams were not normal "I need help screams", they sounded more like "I believe my life is in danger." Absolutely terrified and terrifying to watch this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:48 AM |
| 3 | Pushing buttons on purposeThe last guy I dated "tested" me by doing this. He was poking me or something dumb like that. After a little bit I asked him to stop, and he just got this dumb smile on his face and continued to do it. I had to ask/tell him FOUR times to knock it off and when he finally listened he asked me why!!!! (BECAUSE I DON'T LIKE IT.) I gave another reason and he had the AUDACITY to look hurt. Like what. Then I went back and asked him, "You've bragged about 'always listening to me' but you didn't then. Wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Men giving you their number and expecting you to call them - How do you respond?Wow! This brought back a story. I was trying out OLD (first mistake) and met a guy on there who had a picture of him and his little brother. I recognized the little brother and he and I were acquainted at the very least, so I thought "can't be too bad, right?" (Second mistake). We match on OLD, and he started messaging me. We chat for a little bit. He's funny, interesting, I didn't see any immediate red flags. (I don't remember the conversation at this point. It's been a couple years now). Then … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 03:01 PM |
| 2 | How age-gap relationships look to meOh my goodness YES 🙌🏼👌🏼🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 02:28 PM |
| 62 | Society has conditioned women to keep mute and accept whatever crumbs we get from nvm/lvm. It’s time to speak up 👏Duuuuude. I was helping some kids who broke down on the side of the road and I asked the girl of the trio if she wanted me to call an Uber for her. The guy who she seemed close with (boyfriend maybe? I couldn't tell), piped up and said, "Or we could walk. It's not that far." She shot him a look. And he looked at her and stared blankly. So I said, "Dude, she's not going to say it but I will. She does not want to walk." She burst out laughing when he looked at her confused af. LADIES, USE YOUR VOI… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 12:58 AM |
| 3 | My first hate Mail! Anyone else get this message from this guy?I did! Earlier today. I didn't even read it, just ignored and deleted. 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 02:09 AM |
| 95 | 'I just follow her because....'ThingsScrotesSay 🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 02:37 AM |
| 5 | This was a reply to a woman asking for help bc her boyfriend ogles half naked Instagram photos of a woman in her friend group and even subscribed to her OF where she posts sex videosSooo true. Women are always at fault. No matter what. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 08:38 PM |
| 13 | This was a reply to a woman asking for help bc her boyfriend ogles half naked Instagram photos of a woman in her friend group and even subscribed to her OF where she posts sex videosAnd the commenter, Kate, is essentially telling OP to ignore all the red flags BUT "I would only find it acceptable if after he cheated on you, you decided to stay with him." (At least, thats what I understood from it). Like what? If she had listened to her intuition he wouldn't have cheated on her, she'd be long gone, but you told her not to do that AND THEN give your permission for her to be upset he cheated on her? Thanks but no thanks. 🤷🏼♀️✌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:16 AM |
| 25 | Being thoughtful, “just because”, without expecting anything in return is true HVM behaviour.This LITERALLY works!! That meme of meeting people in bookstores because you struck up a meaningful and intelligent conversation about an author I was looking at, and offering to buy me the book I'm looking at has a lot better chances of that working out than in the bars. If only....🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:02 AM |
| 3 | This is why we don't respond - block and delete!Love this book!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Book recommendations that aren’t self-help? (Preferably fiction)I read mostly fiction because my career is so serious I want to be entertained in my free time so here are my recommendations: Sue Grafton alphabet series is BY FAR one of my favorites. Main female character has some FDS qualities in my opinion. She's great. James Patterson NYPD Red series is an entertaining read, and the male protagonist is an interesting character to see thought process wise. His internal struggles may lend some insight into the male thought process..since the books are writte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 03:53 PM |
| 46 | A question to FDS members: why do you think there are women who are against FDS?To me, this is honestly a loaded question. It has been my experience that the "boy-crazy" (what I called pickmeishas in high school 😂) pickmeishas are stuck in their ways. They don't want to change because they have male attention, "validation" whatever. And we can sit her and delve into why that is psychologically.. lack of attention from a father, insecure, etc. There are a lot. Then the others I've personally experienced are the old-fashioneds. The martyrs. "Women were meant to get married, d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Stop asking "Why" and start asking "Now what!"Yeah I read the handbook. Up until he ghosted me, I hadn't really noticed any warning signs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Stop asking "Why" and start asking "Now what!"He said it was his dad. Who knows 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 06:41 AM |
| 18 | Stop asking "Why" and start asking "Now what!"I needed this SO bad right now. I went on a non date last night where the restaurant i picked was closed and as we were walking to my second choice, he got a phone call (he had been on the phone more than talking to me during our walk) and had to leave due to a family emergency. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and when I mentioned something about figuring out a re-do later he gave non-committal answers and high-tailed it out of there. The next morning I texted him a hesitant "good morning?" … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 06:08 AM |
| 1 | I feel sorry for this women. She's being stalked and harassed by an older guy who used to be her boss!Depending on where/the state she lives in, she can look up the codes and laws herself and attempt to go to the Magistrate/Judge to obtain warrants/summonses for computer crimes. They aren't going to mean a whole lot on their own and he'll only be required to pay a fine most likely, but start stacking those and out comes a case for stalking, harassment, and a whole lot of other things those police officers may decide to act on. (I'm only saying go to the police in the event a felony has been comm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:55 AM |
| 1 | I feel sorry for this women. She's being stalked and harassed by an older guy who used to be her boss!Depending on the state, laws are trying to catch up in the technology world and there are more "computer crimes now." Where I am, they're mostly misdemeanors, but start getting him charged with them and then you can continue to build a case for stalking. (Once again, in my state, you can go to a Magistrate who is like a judge 24/7 and obtain your own misdemeanor summonses/warrants). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:51 AM |
| 4 | Misogynistic scrote wants neurosurgeon wife to do all the housework. Tired wife hires a maid with her own money. Scrote calls it financial abuses. You cannot make this shit up 🤦🏻♀️Maybe someone already did the math, but working around 115 hours 2 weeks of the month isn't part time! The audacity is REAL. Wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:43 AM |
| 17 | “My boyfriend thought we’d been engaged for two months. I had no idea.”"This guy was using a hair tie on his wrist as a reminder that he was engaged" This is some newfangled level of LV that I've never heard of. Nah, sis #BULLETDODGED | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:34 AM |
| 34 | NAH sis 🤢🤢🤢Yooooo Master's degree here and I am DYING 😂😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 10:16 AM |
| 9 | Texting adviceI don't consider it a waste of time and energy when I was curious to see how many FDS strikes he could obtain. I consider him a lesson learned. "Honestly who the fuck cares?" Those of us who learn by experiences, whether by our own or other's. Also, the establishment of a pattern. Maybe some other woman will see the first sign and go "This a waste of my time." Block and delete, I didn't. Sheesh. And I thought it was pretty funny that I had a current example for the thread posted. Guess not every… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 08:33 PM |
| 8 | Texting adviceThank you! My response ended up being "Lol yikes about your ex" because hey, maybe she did lie to him but I don't need to know and especially not this early in the relationship. I'm not your emotional dumping ground. I don't even know you.... 💁🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:48 AM |
| 19 | Texting adviceMy guess was he was trying to get me to say something like "Awww, I'm so sorry. Shes probably a bitch." Or just generic meaningless sympathy. No thanks. I don't talk shit about people I DO know, let alone those I don't. Plus I'm pretty sure he still had pictures of her up and if I'm correct, she's gorgeous SO.......there is that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:00 AM |
| 23 | Texting adviceReal life & CURRENT example time ☕ This guy added me on Facebook and we had a lot of mutual friends so I accepted. One of his early messages (Less than 20 messages in) was "Found what I thought was the Love of my life lol. But comes to find out, I found the Lying Ex love of my life..." (((COMPLETELY OUT OF THE BLUE! Unprompted! Common man! In my strategy of dating we call this a 🚩))) Second: Random requests to meet up WHILE. I. WAS. WORKING. (For the record I drive a car for work so it is possib… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:37 AM |
| 2 | I met this scrote SIX years ago while on a trip to Korea (before moving). He has blocked and unblocked me multiple times, belittle me after I (stupidly) told him about past trauma, and told me he would f*ck but not date me. Created to send future message from him straight to trash where he belongs.Go for it, it worked wonders for me 😁😉🥰😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:31 PM |
| 2 | I met this scrote SIX years ago while on a trip to Korea (before moving). He has blocked and unblocked me multiple times, belittle me after I (stupidly) told him about past trauma, and told me he would f*ck but not date me. Created to send future message from him straight to trash where he belongs.I appreciate your concern! hugs and I hope so too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:09 AM |
| 1 | I met this scrote SIX years ago while on a trip to Korea (before moving). He has blocked and unblocked me multiple times, belittle me after I (stupidly) told him about past trauma, and told me he would f*ck but not date me. Created to send future message from him straight to trash where he belongs.She's dating one of my best guy friends, and I don't want her to come in between us. She's got him way fooled though, and it's hard to watch but I'm not going to drop her just yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:56 AM |
| 1 | I met this scrote SIX years ago while on a trip to Korea (before moving). He has blocked and unblocked me multiple times, belittle me after I (stupidly) told him about past trauma, and told me he would f*ck but not date me. Created to send future message from him straight to trash where he belongs.Thank you! I typically have no problems dropping friends, especially female friends, but I know why I'm hanging onto this one. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:39 AM |
| 2 | Sisters, reminder to be extremely careful about whomever you're exposing your vulnerabilities to. This leaves me speechless.What in the world is this defense lawyer smoking?! "His defence lawyers argued that the murders were "consensual" and should amount to the lesser charge of homicide with consent." Holy guacamole batman, this is a new all-time low. 🤬🤬🤬🤬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:29 AM |
| 8 | Don’t ever doubt your inner voiceThe gift of fear by Gavin de Becker is literally one of the best books I've ever read and discusses this very thing in multiple types/situations!!! Also for sure never doubt your intuition! I use my intuition for work...its been wrong maybe a handful of times, but right many, many more!! 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:18 AM |
| 3 | I met this scrote SIX years ago while on a trip to Korea (before moving). He has blocked and unblocked me multiple times, belittle me after I (stupidly) told him about past trauma, and told me he would f*ck but not date me. Created to send future message from him straight to trash where he belongs.Yes, I want to drop one of my female friends but... I just can't quite yet. Its not the right time, but there will come a day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:17 AM |
| 3 | I am disgusted.This times a thousand!!!! Never understood it. Throw the whole man out, not the other woman..unless it comes out she knew. Whole other ballgame there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:11 AM |
| 6 | I met this scrote SIX years ago while on a trip to Korea (before moving). He has blocked and unblocked me multiple times, belittle me after I (stupidly) told him about past trauma, and told me he would f*ck but not date me. Created to send future message from him straight to trash where he belongs.Aye I'm not gonna lie, his final disrespect was not taking my advice, like aight I'm done wasting time on you boy bye 😂😂 Trust me, I know the brain power thing.. but email. Oh hell no. Important lessons learned, glad to know he's out of your life too. #levelup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:00 AM |
| 47 | I met this scrote SIX years ago while on a trip to Korea (before moving). He has blocked and unblocked me multiple times, belittle me after I (stupidly) told him about past trauma, and told me he would f*ck but not date me. Created to send future message from him straight to trash where he belongs.Yooooo my ex pulled this shyt too. Blocked me (so I couldn't see his new gf 🙄😂) then unblocked me because he wanted advice on his new relationship 😂😂😂😂 I gave it to him, and I'm glad I did. He downgraded, once again refused to listen to my advice, and now has a record because of it. (Dodged a bullet, but I already knew it) Couple months ago, he reached back out with the "Haaaayyyyyyy" message. I responded with "Wtf you want now yo." He ain't said SHYT since. 😂😂😂 The audacity is (sometimes) just … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 05:54 AM |
| 3 | Pretty much the exact response I expected. That’s a no from me, dawg.PREACH. 🙌🏼👏🏼 I actually don't mind doing dishes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Underwear......why?Oh...my...freaking.....gosh 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 08:59 PM |
| 13 | Pretty much the exact response I expected. That’s a no from me, dawg.That too 💯💯🙌🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 02:29 AM |
| 66 | Pretty much the exact response I expected. That’s a no from me, dawg.My answer is straight up no. Not only does that weed them out but I do honestly hate cooking. And I swear, the next time I hear "You'll never get a man if you can't cook," from LVW old-thinking women. Its not a can't, its a don't like it. Geez. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 02:20 AM |
| 5 | Is it just me or would anyone else break up with this guy?Or at the very least there are feelings for each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:54 AM |
| 16 | Is it just me or would anyone else break up with this guy?Yes! She didn't call him her husband until her quoted phrase to the girl in the LAST paragraph!! Tells me she intuitively knows something is going on there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:48 AM |
| 4 | My heart is breaking for this woman.I was wondering about the condom on the handle!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:37 AM |
| 6 | Besides Jordan Peterson, what are the worst red-flag authors/books LVM/NVM read the most?Yeah no interest in the news, basically if it didn't have to do with social media.......... 🤷🏼♀️ I consider this a red flag now 😅🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:19 PM |
| 16 | Besides Jordan Peterson, what are the worst red-flag authors/books LVM/NVM read the most?To be honest with you, my NVM exes ... didn't read ... or at least, we never got far enough in the relationship to learn that about each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:03 PM |
| 11 | I’m not a child who is incapable of making decisions 🙄"Besides, imagine telling our children how you foolishly passed on our muzmatch..." Pro tip: that means he's gonna have no problem turning future kids against you. #redflag Nah, sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 05:57 AM |
| 4 | Just remember..AMEN. 👏🏼👏🏼💪🏼💪🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 04:17 AM |
| 8 | “I can’t stick my dick in your master’s degree”insert Leo DiCaprio drinking & laughing pic here WOW! BTW, I have a Masters too so congratulations!!! Not easy work! (I enjoyed mine except for the last class). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Latest narrative from Pickmeville 🤡insert bunny "Huh?" face GIF here Ain't got nothing to do on that date cause he LV and don't plan (or want to plan) shyt obviously 💁🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 10:59 PM |
| 11 | Another story that doesn't make sense on so many levels.So many questions. Maybe someone's mentioned this before my comment but as a psychology major myself I cannot get past the dissociation in the first paragraph then all of a sudden in the next and last she's "my (now ex) gf" Wat?. Sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 10:52 PM |
| 24 | "HVM" who only want sons?My dad was a lot harder on my brother than me, almost to the point of jealousy/hatred. And I've also met men who are incredibly excited about having daughters or are awesome dads to their daughters... so no, not all men are low value in this way..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 10:42 PM |
| 1 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)Yes to literally everything you said. And better late than never is what I've always figured. 💁🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Best way to try to approach girls you’ve ghosted before ?As someone who has been ghosted before, my best advice is let the past stay in the past. | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 05:51 PM |
| 5 | I called a girl friend stupid b*tch and we are no longer friendsHaving a vagina doesn’t automatically get you into the sisterhood. Literally a thousand times YES! I work in a male dominated field, and had a colleague who gave her work to another, new hire colleague of ours (we're all females) so I took it back to her and professionally called her on it. Great news, we were fine. Nine months later, yes you read that right Nine months! the senior colleagues manager found out about it and got pissed at ME. When we finally did have our meeting about it, which I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Men unloading unprocessed trauma on women: is therapy? 🥺👉👈Never got that line. I told an ex of mine he needed it and he wanted me to go WITH him. I said nah bruh, you need it..not me, but nice try 😅😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 07:48 PM |
| 21 | Men unloading unprocessed trauma on women: is therapy? 🥺👉👈Big time yikes 😳 Not even sure he wants therapy .. could be a ploy for sympathy/an emotional response. Trying to take advantage of our nurturing tendencies/empathy Gtfooooooo 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:58 PM |
| 16 | HVW Hitting Some Roadblocks, help me keep leveling up!Following this thread because I'm in pretty much the same boat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:57 PM |
| 10 | An ex hit me up to “check-in” with me and see how I am doing. Check-in for what? What am I, a fucking hotel?NiceForWhat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:55 PM |
| 3 | HVM actionsSo heart-warming to hear! Congratulations!!! 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 03:22 AM |
| 9 | When the LVM reveal their true face. Is this a reminder not to trust anyone? How can we build a life with someone who we believe to be HV when literally anyone could be lying to us for years? It’s really scary to hear about such stories.Siri an undercover FDS queen 🙌🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 06:33 AM |
| 8 | When the LVM reveal their true face. Is this a reminder not to trust anyone? How can we build a life with someone who we believe to be HV when literally anyone could be lying to us for years? It’s really scary to hear about such stories.I have since also stopped ignoring my intuition and now I literally am the biggest advocate for it. If you just know something is wrong - whether it's your location, a person, a circumstance, etc. - believe yourself and run, fast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:54 PM |
| 15 | When the LVM reveal their true face. Is this a reminder not to trust anyone? How can we build a life with someone who we believe to be HV when literally anyone could be lying to us for years? It’s really scary to hear about such stories.Busted by Siri?! That's incredible. I'm really sorry that happened though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:51 PM |
| 29 | When the LVM reveal their true face. Is this a reminder not to trust anyone? How can we build a life with someone who we believe to be HV when literally anyone could be lying to us for years? It’s really scary to hear about such stories.Well, one of the guys I dated previously was...something. Something in me just knew we weren't meant to be together but I chose to date him anyway. Definitely not my brightest moment. We weren't together longer than 3 months because he couldn't keep up the facade. To be honest, in the beginning with him it wasn't that great of a relationship anyway. He's 2 years younger younger than me but our maturity levels were more like 7 years apart. He started with mild irritation when I did/said something… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 02:06 PM |
| 51 | When the LVM reveal their true face. Is this a reminder not to trust anyone? How can we build a life with someone who we believe to be HV when literally anyone could be lying to us for years? It’s really scary to hear about such stories.I'm 120% not trying to victim blame here (because God knows I'm guilty of this too), but I wonder if there were any red flags that she ignored or thought weren't significant which could have led to somewhat explaining this behavior. I often see friends ignoring red flags, or downplaying them. It's such a dangerous thing to do, but it also seems to me society is conditioning us that there are levels of red flags. Nah, sis (and bro because females have red flags too!!!!!!!). A red flag is a red fl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 01:51 PM |
| 3 | how do we get rid of toxic friends?I knew a girl once who was codependent on me. I'd never even known that was a thing before her. She pissed me off a few times, and I was venting to a really good, wiser friend of mine who said to me, "She's codependent on you." When she explained, my jaw dropped. Girl A, Miss Codependent, literally considered my word/opinion/time/attention as gold. It was utterly, extremely exhausting. And it only got worse. She turned every conversation we had around to be about her. And she was legitimately cr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 10:25 PM |
| 4 | It’s not empowerment if your power lies in the hands of a manSex worker | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 09:47 PM |
| 8 | What would you do if a NVM took you to a grocery store and gave you $50 on your first date? I’d take the money and go straight home.Take his money Steak dinner ingredients Wine Flowers Finish & pay with MY OWN DAMN MONEY, walk up to him 4.5 "Here's your $__, lose my number." Wink and walk tf out Boy, bye 👋🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 06:48 AM |
| 23 | When a HVM messes upGirl that's amazing!! 💞💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 12:24 AM |
| 38 | Friendly reminderNeeded this one tonight 🙌🏼👌🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 01:24 AM |
| 61 | Never give men your passwords & always change them after a breakup. NVM will go to any lengths to get revenge. What can we do to help keep women safe?I work with sensitive information. My ex got SUPER pissed off when I wouldn't allow him access to my phone. He might as well have just screamed "I'm cheating on you but I'm gonna project my guilt onto you because I'm a scrote" Come to find out, he was cheating on me! Shocking 🙄😒🙄😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:56 AM |
| 11 | Standards? Whats that?Maximum pickmeisha effort right there. 👌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:35 AM |
| 5 | When the cost of repairing your car window > The life of your child. THIS IS WHY YOU NEED TO RUTHLESSLY VET THE FATHER OF YOUR CHILD. Trigger warning because this might ruin your dayWHATTHEEVERLOVINGHELL. This infuriates me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:33 AM |
| 15 | How on earth do you let it get this farDo what?? 🤯😱🤯😱🤯😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Radical Directness Feels AmazingHahaha I did not know that 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 12:16 PM |
| -8 | Radical Directness Feels AmazingI appreciate your advice, but I'm 120% not interested in him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 03:49 AM |
| -2 | Radical Directness Feels AmazingI met a guy on Tinder (my profile said no hookups, ONSs, FWB, etc.), we exchanged Snapchat usernames (I know, two strikes right there) So he's hella messaging me, showering me with attention. It was great... Until he stopped cold turkey and then started on and off. Finally I called him out on it. I'm trying to remember exactly what he said but it was something to the effect of "We're not in a relationship, I don't have to talk to you every day." My response, "Yeah and thanks to that, we'll never… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Need some HVW songs for my playlistI was LITERALLY just thinking about this!!! Lindsay Ell -wAnt me back Demi Lovato - I love me Reyna Robert's- Stompin Grounds Halsey - Nightmare Carrie Underwood - The Champion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 06:37 AM |
| 15 | Ladies, don't treat your boyfriend like he's your husbandYES YES YES!!! We need to change this "new normal" of giving husband benefits to boyfriends! It kills me when I see friends doing this. Like nah, sis, where is his incentive to marry you? He's already getting the benefits without the commitment. And then they wonder why I don't cry with them when he breaks up with her and dips. Like.... 🤷🏼♀️💁🏼♀️🧏🏼♀️ And at least it seems to me, men are starting that "wife material" comparison. Nah, bro. If you not husband, you not gettin the wife. Plain and s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 11:24 PM |
| 4 | It's about the right kind of work.YASSSS 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:25 AM |
| 4 | Young queens that are new to the dating scene. Learn the rules of the game before you get taken advantage of!Mhmmmm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:22 AM |
| 4 | Young queens that are new to the dating scene. Learn the rules of the game before you get taken advantage of!That explains why I couldn't find your last comment. Drugs will do that to a person. It's such a shame. Ive been getting hit on by a dude into drugs. Sorry but it's gonna be a no from me dawg. He also didn't care last time we talked that I was seeing someone, and (jokingly 🙄) talked about how I should have two boyfriends since I'm so pretty. 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:19 AM |
| 5 | Young queens that are new to the dating scene. Learn the rules of the game before you get taken advantage of!I am legit speechless 😳😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:02 AM |
| 10 | Young queens that are new to the dating scene. Learn the rules of the game before you get taken advantage of!That's..... wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:49 AM |
| 39 | Young queens that are new to the dating scene. Learn the rules of the game before you get taken advantage of!The way I've experienced, it's possible two other ways exist: 1). The one mentioned above, 2). The guy says "Yeah, let's just be friends" keeps up the image for a little while and FCKN GHOSTS YOU Or 3). (And my personal favorite 🙄) They start treating you like shit AND THEN ghost you. Bitch. Bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:03 AM |
| 18 | Young queens that are new to the dating scene. Learn the rules of the game before you get taken advantage of!Spits out drink Um whut? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:01 AM |
| 6 | The venn diagram of things LVM do and things babies do is almost a circle😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Why do men think I want to be their friend? When I refuse dates, they say they just want to hangout "as friends"... Um my friends are comical geniuses, who are empathetic and have so much wisdom to share. These men are dull, sheltered and boring.It's possibly because they think that by sticking around in your life as a "friend" you'll change your mind eventually (let's all laugh together) OR even worse, when your next guy doesn't work out you'll run back to them with your tail tucked between your legs. I've YET to meet a dude who ACTUALLY WANTS TO REMAIN FRIENDS after saying this shit to me. Freaking obnoxious. Again, let's all laugh together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:02 AM |
| 21 | Upon learning that a close friend of mine had died, I get this dm from a scrote🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:26 PM |
| 1 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)Thanks! Good luck with yours too!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:37 PM |
| 2 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)That makes sense. My friend and I didn't date either really and we have mutual friends too. I don't know that I'd cut him off..he might do it if he gets rejected enough. People think I’m a bitter, unreasonable bitch when I cut people off. I don’t understand why they care what I’m doing YES. I don't understand why they care either. I have the same thing happen to me. It's whack. 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:34 PM |
| 2 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)Hey, we were all young and dumb pre FDS. Thankfully we've seen the light 😅🤣 And hahahahaha I have a friend-ish who's somewhat LV. I can't exactly tell whether he's LV or HV, but considering the fact that he's in a new relationship every time I change socks is.... frightening. I always know when he's single because he starts texting me/liking my posts/watching my stories. I'll never date him though. I think he's figured it out. Hopefully. Otherwise I'll hurt his feelings 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:28 PM |
| 1 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)The bashing at this point is inadvertent. We want all women to have higher standards and be better for themselves and those around them. We're not saying anything that's untrue, and maybe...just maybe, if they stopped looking through the pickmeisha lense and opened their eyes...they'd see what they're doing to themselves and ultimately...us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:17 PM |
| 1 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)Omg 😂😂😂😂 yikes. Yeah, it's funny how the trash takes itself out sometimes, tbh. And typically not long after they disappear you realize you dodged a huge bullet and they did you a favor since LVM only change when/if they WANT to change! 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:08 PM |
| 3 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)Yesssss!!! Thank you 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:38 PM |
| 2 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)Exactly right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:37 PM |
| 6 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)Thank you for the encouraging words! I'm starting to come around. The problem lies with them, not me. I'm a great person...just gotta put the time and effort in to get to know me. They don't want to put in the effort and time and that's their personal problem not mine. Sometimes I think of it as the trash taking itself out 😅😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:28 PM |
| 3 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)Ugh. You just described a really good friend to me and it hurts watching him go through the pickmeishas but...that's what/who he claims he wants so I'm not going to stand in his way. It's unfortunately gonna end in heartbreak for him, i believe, but a whole lotta nothing I can do about it. 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:26 PM |
| 7 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)Preach it!!!! I completely agree with you! It's ridiculous how true the psychology of your statement is. People/Hen house watching is incredibly entertaining when your own self-esteem is strong enough to endure it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:22 PM |
| 1 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)Ayeeeee I agree with you! Unfortunately I think some are so LV that they still send them thinking maybe I'll change my mind. 😂😂 They get insulted more than I get impressed, and then they're deleted & blocked before they truly realize what happened. I will NEVER understand the unsolicited dick pic 🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)Thank you! It does take a lot out of me. But I try to take it a day at a time and go from there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:17 PM |
| 3 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)You're so welcome, and I'm grateful I'm not alone in this either! Trust me..this is just..... ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:25 AM |
| 6 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)I like that. Unfortunately, where I am is like some type of messed up hen house battle and even though I'm not involved, and that was not even on my list of reasons I'm in my career...sh** has a way of sucking me in. I think I do pretty well staying out of drama. My problem is the other hens who love drama can't leave me to my business | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:24 AM |
| 5 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)I've only heard a select few friends successful on making the first move. Probably why I'm incredibly skeptical. 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:29 AM |
| 4 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)They truly need to put more effort into it. But then you get the scrotes who put slightly more effort into originality and then BAM when you point it out, their heads grow infinitely larger in a miniscule amount of time. 🙄 insofar, that they don't even bother washing their assholes properly Thats 🤢🤮 I no longer give the botd either. Just so not worth it 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:50 AM |
| 12 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)Thank you, queen! And excellent points!! Their compliments, generic - overused and obnoxious pick up lines, are usually awful. I like that experiment with the profile! Thats hilariously sad. LVM are predators in every sense of the word. They can smell desperation, insecurity, with ease. And they exploit it. Yes, they absolutely do!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:37 AM |
| 9 | LVM Giving Attention to LVW Over You (Mix of stuff learned from this subreddit & what I've picked up on my own)Agreed! It's ridiculous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else not find this funny? This is just immature.Right! I was like tf just happened 😳🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Not all women are our allies and can be detrimental to us.A THOUSAND TIMES YES. I was out with a group of friends and one of the girls was talking to/starting to date one of my really good friends. We were at a fast food restaurant that had a kids play area and the only seats available were next to one of the windows. Well, the kids kept coming up and knocking on the windows and whatnot. Suddenly, she turns to look at them and says, "Gross, children." In a serious voice. Now I happen to know my friend does want kids. So I texted him, jokingly, about he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 05:23 PM |
| 7 | Anyone else not find this funny? This is just immature.Did this guy eat a lot of paint chips as a child? Honestly, probably It was wild to me. I don't play games. I'm not a child. I don't NEED to play games..but thanks for showing me who you really are. I won 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 05:12 PM |
| 1 | So this woman has been sleeping on this scrotes brown pillows prior to this?!!!My jaw is legit on the ground... this is so sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:59 PM |
| 12 | Anyone else not find this funny? This is just immature.Yeah, he was testing me. Like WHAT. And when I had to ask him to stop FOUR times, on the fourth I started freaking out. He claimed I freaked out too quick. #loser 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:41 PM |
| 2 | When a LVM says he is "loyal"I've only had one LVM say that to me...and he cheated on me, lied about it, attempted to gaslight me, accuse me of cheating on him, etc. If they were to say that to me now.. I'd just tell them to go be loyal somewhere else 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Told "too intimidating"You should absolutely document everything that occurs with him from now on. As one of my mentors says, "Play chess, not checkers." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:15 PM |
| 7 | Anyone else not find this funny? This is just immature.His last name starts with an F. It's so wild. LVM are LVM no matter what they look like...the actions just mirror each other 🥴 Now if it was a guy I didn't know all that well touching me, he'd probably have made it to the ground 😅😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:00 PM |
| 14 | Anyone else not find this funny? This is just immature.Hahahaa oooof even if it is extra idgaf! Not having to rush was FANTASTIC. 😂😂 I can't deal with clingers either. I had a friend once who was codependent on me. HELL NAW. Most of my best friends and I don't talk every day. And we're completely and totally 1000000% okay with that. If friends of mine aren't okay with that...bye. ✌🏼 #AintNobodyGotTimeForThat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:55 PM |
| 2 | When the LV ex comes back (as they do) ...👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 My line was "Tf do you want now yo" He didn't respond 🤣😂🤣😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:49 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else not find this funny? This is just immature.For sure! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:43 PM |
| 30 | Anyone else not find this funny? This is just immature.Yup!!! That wasn't even the worst flag. He knew I was moving, and the first day I had off work, I was busy (I paid 2 rents so I had time to move stuff without being rushed) so I was at the old place packing and cleaning and whatnot. I barely ate that day, hardly talked to anyone, etc. (I think you can already see where this is going) I got home at 10:30PM, and looked at my roommate and said "I haven't texted X...i should probably do that." NOT EVEN 2 SECONDS LATER I got a text that said, "So gue… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:42 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else not find this funny? This is just immature.Agreed!!!! We decided to remain friends (😂😂) and he's now ignoring me! What a scrote! Probably thinking I'll beg him to talk to me! Not today, or any day Satan 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:36 PM |
| 82 | Anyone else not find this funny? This is just immature.YES! I just ended a 3 month relationship with a guy for red flags!! We were at work one day, and he was touching my neck. So I asked him to stop (even though we were alone). I asked him THREE times to stop before finally getting serious and then he asked me why I wanted him to stop. I said "Because I need to remain professional" he got incredibly offended and stormed away from me. I took a break and after a few hours, went back to talk it out. He said he was testing me because he has a daughter … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:31 PM |
| 1 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!Well, helllllllll yyyyaaassssss queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Who says romance is dead?This honestly sounds like one of my best guy friends and his gf 😂🤣 I don't think he roasted her specifically, but he did make a sassy comment to her when that whole "nurses don't work, they sit around playing card games" bs went down. They started talking, and now they have a baby and a house together...and couldn't be happier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 01:35 AM |
| 1 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!I treated myself to breakfast downtown with coffee and a book! It was amazing!!! 👑 Edited to add: I'm going to start making that a regular date thing 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:54 AM |
| 8 | Liberal feminism is a joke.PREACHHHH 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:26 AM |
| 1 | For those of you still on OLD, set up a fake profile along with your real one to weed out scammers, etc.This is utterly hilarious. 😂😂 I did OLD for a short period of time, but I don't want casual & quick, so I deleted it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:19 PM |
| 3 | I hope she peed after sex, because if a man lives like this, he for SURE doesn’t wash his dickSounds more to me like he left this mess purposefully to see if she would clean it up! HELL no! I wouldn't have stayed the night if his kitchen looked like this. Hopefully she didn't see it until morning but yoooooo. That's gonna be a no from me dog. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:58 PM |
| 2 | If he wants you he would tell you - PERIOD🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:03 PM |
| 4 | Only 1 couple in 24 Seasons of the Bachelor is still together. For the Bachelorette, it's 5 for 15.They may think they want the woman to do the chasing, and sure it feels nice when the woman pursues first but....long term that's not how it works, and how quick is she gonna turn those tables around and say you're no longer pursuing her? (Cause in recent relationships I've seen where she's pursued the guy...she gets upset she's not being pursued. THAT'S NOT HOW THE RELATIONSHIP STARTED. WHAT DID YOU EXPECT?!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:29 PM |
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