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TL;DR Operating from your own mental point of origin is the essence of frame, not simply displaying external non-reactivity. To use one of the examples here, if a woman is wasting your time or behaving disrespectfully, remaining there to prove that you are unaffected is not “holding frame.” Acting from your own frame would mean recognizing that the interaction has no value and leaving. Simply being non-reactive does not demonstrate frame, and depending on the situation it could very well indicat…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/26 03:46 AM
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You’re the problem then, bitch nigga
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:22 PM
0

It's tedious, it feels awkward, it's long, you feel put on the spot, no one likes rejection, no one likes getting embarrassed, etc. Get the fuck over it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:46 PM
2

Pro tip: Alternate unpredictably between the look of judgement + pokerface + alpha smile with people you hate, and it'll drive them insane. What the fuck is this bitch shit
/r/TheRedPill14/12/23 11:18 PM
2

It is when it's strengthening your own knowledge applicable to the real world.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/22 10:28 PM
3

This was not enough to calm her fears and she responded with “Wait. What? No. I need you to tell me it’s ok.” I explained how stress is just in our heads,that we’ve prepared adequately, etc, etc. As you mentioned, this was a complete waste of time trying to explain to her. She just stared. This is called "DEERing". Keep it simple stupid. Women are children.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/22 10:12 PM
5

This shit is soft. Why are you looking for a handout from society? Neurotic/anxious/incapable men would previously be killed off, so you're already getting a damn good deal. Of course, no woman is going to be attracted to a self-doubting, anxious bitch of a man. I mean do you want her to sit down and cry with you? Why do you think anyone owes you shit? Fix the issue. Do it for yourself because being a constantly anxious self-doubting bitch is no way to live a good life, and no one gives a fuck e…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/22 10:07 PM
2

I'd say indestructibly confident moreso than positive. Confident is still non-neurotic. Neurotic just comes off as bitch behavior. The alpha male has no hesitation or anxiety - he has no qualms with himself, his desires, or his mission, no need for approval from others. Women can sense that. They can also sense a beta who is constantly in his head doubting himself, i.e. neuroticism. Women are attracted to power. External power comes from internal power. Internal power can't be faked. Aim for flo…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/22 09:48 PM
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Most useless post I’ve read in a bit
/r/TheRedPill03/07/21 03:22 PM
1

Fuck having the power over the woman. Have power over yourself. This comes naturally when you put YOURSELF and your own life first. If a bitch is shitty by all means that’s exactly what you should do.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/21 05:34 AM
1

This wouldn’t have been a problem if you didn’t dive into relationships with girls off the bat. This is why you vet.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/21 05:32 AM
3

Let’s get it. I’m in. DM me if you need help
/r/newTRP27/06/21 04:53 AM
3

It’s been parroted a lot on social media etc. Being your own boss sounds great. And if you’re crafty, there’s a chance you can. At the same time, it takes years and repeated failures to build a successful business/online business/etc. You gotta be smart. Build a skillset (degree/grad school/trade school), get some primary income first, then think about a business. The goal is financial freedom. You need to build wealth to get there, and that requires multiple steps over a long period. Play the g…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/21 06:27 PM
2

Dissolving of your ego is impossible and at best mental masturbation, only possible once you meet death. Your ego is fundamentally your existence on this planet. You have a body, therefore you have an ego. The “I” as OP calls it isn’t really your state of being, it’s a constructed identity aka another ball and chain that you need to break free from to be truly free and genuinely self-aligned. Becoming one with the moment and letting thoughts go is the general solution. But on a deeper level, wha…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/21 09:14 AM
2

Takes years of RP implementation, being at the top, and the bottom, and everything in between, before you come to this realization. You realize that letting go really is the only avenue to self-alignment, and therefore genuine self-actualization. It takes a ton of introspection, and adversity, to discover these truths. But the reward is immeasurable.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/21 09:04 AM
3

Yea, no excuses for being a complacent pussy.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 06:33 PM
19

Lol, I appreciate the “just do it” mentality but that can definitely fuck you over if you’re an idiot. Calculated risks is what you’re looking for.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 02:14 AM
4

You said “I feel lonely” but then two sentences later said “I don’t like hanging out with people.” Which is it? Seems like you’re overthinking shit, and you’re overthinking is keeping you in the same place. You can’t lift your way out of loneliness. If you’re lonely go out and hang out with people. They aren’t that bad.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 02:12 AM
3

Depressed/empty is not a normal standard of living for men. There’s something behind this state. You need to listen to your gut. What exactly about your current life fulfills you? You said you feel empty, that means something has to change. That said, your problems are your problems and there isn’t enough info here on what the cause is. Do some introspection and find that out for yourself.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 02:11 AM
7

I’ve been seeing you call out bullshit in these posts and you’re spot on. Just wanted to give kudos
/r/askTRP22/06/21 02:07 AM
3

“Me and my girlfriend” You’re cucked mentally. Make your own decisions. Your girlfriend doesn’t decide what you do. You do. Don’t post again till you read some basic shit, this post was a waste of everyone’s time.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:57 AM
1

They’re plates. A text will do just fine.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:54 AM
1

Let me get this straight. You just met this dude, and the whole time he has been trying to get at your girl. Yet you’re too much of a bitch to stop hanging out with him. Are you in love with this guy or something? Why not, stop inviting him out. Who gives a fuck if he’s a neighbor. Stop giving him plausible deniability to talk to your girl. If he continues after, and your girl isn’t into it, you are fully within your right to tell him to quit it.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:37 AM
1

If you want to add size you’re gonna have to add some fat. Just how it is unless you’re on gear. Bulk up then cut down. If you think you can get bigger, repeat.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:36 AM
1

Apartment
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:33 AM
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Let her initiate the LTR first off. The tinder messages and games; fuck that. Don’t LTR immature women. But as another comment said, you need to determine what you want. Do you even want an LTR? What do you expect out of an ideal woman? Whatever you do, don’t LTR out of a scarcity mindset. If you were fucking a couple other girls you’d in all likelihood end up just dropping this one.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 09:19 PM
1

People come and go.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 06:45 PM
1

If you’re not motivated the problem isn’t apparent enough, either because you’re dumbing yourself down with toxic activities or because you don’t really give much of a genuine fuck about those apparent issues in the first place. Determine which it is, determine why, fix it.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:38 AM
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Dude what are you, the grandmaster fucking patriarch? She’s not your fucking daughter. You can’t force her to do anything. If it’s a dealbreaker for you, next her. If not, ignore it. Whatever.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:35 AM
1

This is prime Red Pill overthinking autism.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:31 AM
1

Exposure is the only fix to anxiety. Everything else is masturbatory coping bullshit. “Face your fears”
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:31 AM
1

You think you’re gonna control what men women are attracted to? Are you not attracted to other women? Get over it. If she cheats so what, that just means she wasn’t worth the commitment. Most women aren’t.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:28 AM
1

Lol the fuck is this soap opera. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:26 AM
1

Yeah but if you’re an autist they aren’t gonna do shit. Looks are only good if you got some game to back em up.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:23 AM
-1

I can literally see the effeminacy in your comment.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:18 AM
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She wasn’t worth your time, seriously. Now you’re free. LTRs can kiss your ass until you’re 30+.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:13 AM
2

Men are made. Lift. Read. Apply.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:11 AM
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Stop acting like a woman
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:10 AM
1

Lol, this is the gayest shit ive seen all day. Find some new bitches
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:09 AM
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Get two more and this is no longer an issue. By the way, fucking one chick is a sure fire way to oneitis. Expand your rotation
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:07 AM
2

Send him a link to this shit once then don’t mention anything again. Or TRM.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:03 AM
1

Probably just gonna come off autistic. Embrace your natural style.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:03 AM
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At 20 your voice should be well developed. The secret: Don’t try to have a deep voice. Speak at your natural frequency with presence. You want your voice to have presence, not deepness. Don’t go for deepness or you’ll just end up sounding croaky. And lift. If your voice sounds effeminate thats just your tonality. Remove effeminate stylings to your wording. Be clear, direct, loud. Listen to strongmen when they talk.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:00 AM
1

Stop being a pussy. Seriously, your answer is that simple.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:26 AM
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Fuckin sick bro
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:26 AM
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If you’re not going to listen why the fuck are you here? Next her.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:25 AM
1

Just fuckin do it. What do you want? Make that your focus. Meditate to stay focused. Caffeine can give you a boost.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:19 AM
1

Fuck hinge. Shit is open
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:18 AM
1

Plenty of shit on the sidebar
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:18 AM
0

Go with the flow, don’t think too much, focus on what needs to get done. Life is simple if you keep it simple. Have a vision for yourself long term, then short term goals in your head to keep yourself guided.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:17 AM
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Nigga why the fuck would you ask, just do it
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:16 AM
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Nah
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:15 AM
1

Do what the fuck you want, but lol 50 guys yeah next
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:15 AM
1

By caring less about passing shit tests
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:15 AM
1

Don’t got time for that shit, next
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:15 AM
14

Holy fuck. Lift
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:14 AM
1

^ enough autist BS
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:14 AM
1

Don’t pussy out
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:14 AM
1

LOL. Come on dude
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:13 AM
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Don’t overthink “mission” determine your current life standing and what you want to change then make that your focus
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:13 AM
1

Fuckin forget all that bullshit and focus on your exit
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:13 AM
1

Because it’s full of autists, take it or leave it
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:11 AM
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Here’s the thing; unicorns have never existed, they never will. The idea of finding a perfect woman is most definitely retarded. It always has been. Even back in “good ol day” you would never find a perfect woman. Why? Because just like a perfect job, or a perfect house, or a perfect car, or whatever, you have to 1. determine what you value and then 2. create your own according to your standards. If you find a woman with good foundational traits, you can then build her into your ideal LTR throug…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/21 08:05 PM
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Yup. And the thing about modern society is it attempts to condition you into things that are 1. outside of your concern because they are 2. outside of your control. Focusing on your own realm of influence is the stoic, and correct, approach.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/21 11:17 AM
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Defeatist mindset, preferential women do exist and it has nothing to do with being a virgin or superficial belief systems. That said, don't make that shit your goal because there's a good chance you won't come across one.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/21 11:14 AM
1

Yeah, crest strips are good.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 07:51 PM
0

You know, here is where you messed up. I am at least twice as old as you. I don't believe that social media is good or bad. I criticized YOUR post. And buddy, you wouldn't know honest self analysis if you were sucking your own cock. But it's cute when you boys want to argue with a grown man. You are super doooper alpha. You fucking twit. Oh wow we got Mr. Grown Man on here. Back up everybody. You hilariously just proved my point again. You couldn’t have sounded more insecure. Seriously. You shou…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 08:18 PM
1

Your multiple emotional responses to my indirect call-out of your insecure behaviors is doing none but proving my point. Re-read everything and engage in an honest self-analysis. You’re welcome.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 08:01 PM
2

I mean yeah, just look at the reaction to the post. So far I haven’t seen a reasonable counter argument I can agree with. However, nearly every response is engaging in reactionary ego-generated word-puke, akin to an angry feminist, or anyone with an illogical investment in a belief system that is fundamentally flawed. So, they attack with any bullshit they can, or have a collective dislike circlejerk (lol) because it feels good. Why does it feel good? Because it helps protect their fragile ego-i…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 06:13 PM
1

Reposted that comment, but yeah that’s the idea. It’s cancer if you use it as a tool to fuel a fucked up head. As is pretty much anything else.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 02:39 AM
0

You can leverage social proof using cool places, hot women, etc. I think u/LiveAFSTOV had a post about this a bit back
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 02:30 AM
1

Lol, that’s just how it is dude. My form of “expression” if you will. But yeah, you take care as well
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 02:09 AM
2

The audience of the post is in the title; fundamentally those who think them not being on social media makes them more “alpha” or whatever. Regardless of how many this one applies to, I’m fine with it applying to the select few. My goal is calling out bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 01:44 AM
6

Don’t be the guy who gets rejected by every girl in the place Keep it cool, do you thing, see IOIs, approach if you want. Go to enjoy yourself, not for women.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:39 AM
1

Have fun. Should be easy
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:39 AM
3

Dude just read the top 100 lol Posts: 50 shades of red 16 commandments of poon principles of game LTR 8 Part Guide (sidebar) Books: - TRM - Book of Pook - Models Your life, your job.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:35 AM
5

You gotta lead her. She needs you to make some decisions for her. If you think it would benefit her, and she’s asking for your guidance, tell her yes.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:34 AM
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Think about it this way: If you don’t find pleasure in gaining likes (aka not insecure) those likes don’t do anything for you. A confident dude isn’t going to be affected by the likes he gets on his photo, nor will he have any dependency on social media for his sense of self. For insecure people, sure, they become dependent on it. That’s because they’re insecure, and need those I’m accepted I’m accepted I’m accepted dopamine hits. Confident men don’t. Insecure people scapegoating social media as…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 01:18 AM
5

People are always gonna attack what they can’t earn themselves. I had 30k and you have no idea how many fake follower accusations I got. Ignore it.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:50 AM
5

You don’t have to do SM for validation, you use it as a tool to play the game and increase your social value. Why? To get lays, get social opportunities, and increase your quality of life. Drop the ego. You’re not special because you don’t have social media. You’re not better than the people on social media. You don’t matter that much, and I can assure you girls don’t give much of a shit. They’re still getting dicked down by the Chad with a dope life/girls on his IG. By not having social media, …
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:17 AM
1

Not if she stays exclusive
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:16 AM
9

Cool story How to let it go? Get off red pill and live IRL, using real world feedback as your source of learning, not words on your light square
/r/askTRP18/05/21 07:13 AM
2

Drop that bitch
/r/askTRP18/05/21 06:53 AM
1

Sounds like female bullshit
/r/askTRP18/05/21 06:53 AM
1

Fuckin hell What the fuck do you think? If you want to approach, do so. If not, don’t.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 06:52 AM
2

Eh. LTRs have their benefits even if you know it’s probably going to end at some point.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 06:51 AM
-1

What the fuck is this bullshit and why are you thinking about it? This is what happens when you overthink shit instead of just do shit.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 06:50 AM
2

On to the next one dude, just low interest
/r/askTRP18/05/21 06:49 AM
3

Stop thinking start doing. You want friends. How exactly the fuck does lifting more get you friends? Go talk to people. Face your weaknesses with real action TOWARD fixing those weaknesses
/r/askTRP18/05/21 06:01 AM
3

Doesn’t matter how she acts if you got 3 more
/r/askTRP18/05/21 02:47 AM
2

Lead by example.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 02:47 AM
1

If you don’t like her, replace her
/r/askTRP18/05/21 02:47 AM
15

UK sounds like USA a year ago Shit here is opening up. And over there soon, maybe.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 09:50 PM
2

This sub isn’t some feelsy circle jerk bullshit You have a plan. Congrats. Act on it.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 09:10 PM
0

What you say nigga?
/r/askTRP15/05/21 09:08 PM
7

What I read: “I’m too much of a loser to do anything I want in life so I’ll rationalize it as playing it safe”
/r/askTRP15/05/21 09:07 PM
19

She’s trying to get your attention by any means possible. Women act like stupid little kids remember What you do is up to you
/r/askTRP15/05/21 09:06 PM
2

Not necessarily, but who considers tatted up girl wife material? Trust your gut.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 01:12 AM
0

You’re definitely less experienced
/r/askTRP15/05/21 01:11 AM
1

Congrats. u/TRPCops
/r/askTRP15/05/21 01:10 AM
1

Don’t date tinder sluts
/r/askTRP15/05/21 01:09 AM
1

u/TRPCops
/r/askTRP15/05/21 01:07 AM
3

Who cares
/r/askTRP15/05/21 12:37 AM
7

Doesn’t really fuckin matter does it? All that matters is real world results. Read: Don’t Bullshit Yourself
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:58 PM
7

Take it for a couple weeks, get your confidence up, then remove it. What you got it performance anxiety, you need to show yourself that you can fuck that ho to sleep. Quit the porn.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:57 PM
1

Next if you gotta next, no point in hesitating. Time passes whether you decide to pause
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:51 PM
1

Get new ones.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:50 PM
1

No, it makes you masculine.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:50 PM
1

Higher value, better frame, better looks, life experience
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:50 PM
1

Past saving
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:49 PM
2

Stop listening to women and watch what they do A bitch’ll say some shit then change with the wind
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:49 PM
1

He’s fucking with you
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:46 PM
9

Decide your priorities.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:43 PM
7

Lol, no. You need to shut the fuck up and listen to advice. There’s a reason you’re on askTRP youngin. Humble yourself.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:41 PM
1

What?
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:39 PM
1

Lol why the fuck would you associate yourself with these idiots?
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:39 PM
2

No you don’t do that bullshit. You pull back, chill for a bit, then retry If it’s still a no, then exit Side note; this applies to both sex and plate dynamics
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:38 PM
0

Improve your SMV and stop bitching Your path doesn’t get any shorter because others have it easier. Plenty of dudes on here who bust their ass and you don’t see them bitching. In short, shut the fuck up.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:36 PM
1

Because pussy is a commodity to weak men, who make up 80-90% of the population Supply and demand.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:35 PM
1

Why would you want to get married?
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:34 PM
1

GET YOUR OWN PLACE!
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:33 PM
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Stop reading fucking books. Go research the book summaries, watch a couple videos on the book, and you have now absorbed all information you will get out of the thing Books have a thing called publishing limits, that means they have to meet a certain character count to be publishable. The actual useful concepts are usually about 5-10% of the book, the rest is usually fluff/ “examples” meant to help meet the character limit. You’re welcome.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:32 PM
0

Because you’re a pussy
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:31 PM
2

Yeah, don’t react The dumb bitches just want a rise out of you. Ignore them
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:30 PM
1

Call her bluff
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:29 PM
1

Ego protection, obvious
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:29 PM
3

It means she wants to fuck you and wants you to look even hotter when you’re plowing her cheeks
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:26 PM
2

Why?
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:25 PM
1

This isn’t an LTR this is still a potential LTR because you have not developed the sufficient connection and/or game to be out of this autist phase You shouldn’t be asking situational questions on askTRP when you’re in an LTR
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:25 PM
1

Lift, meditate, eat right, sleep right Cut out bad shit
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:24 PM
1

Move. Why stay in a miserable area you don’t enjoy?
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:24 PM
1

If you want something done right do it yourself
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:23 PM
1

When you’re asking autistic questions like this
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:22 PM
1

Why the fuck would I think about that?
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:22 PM
1

Good.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:21 PM
11

It means you suck at reading women Which you do, because you’re taking what a woman says seriously
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:21 PM
-1

Lol; you insensitive fuck Women grow throw support
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:20 PM
1

Get some damn viagra and quit the porn you degenerate
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:19 PM
1

Who give a shit
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:18 PM
1

She’s looking for a strictly professional meetup
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:18 PM
3

Sound like a bitch. Be amused “That’s on you ;)”
/r/askTRP14/05/21 06:28 PM
1

Books are bullshit. They have a character limit to meet publishing standards so they’re filled with fluff. Save yourself the money and time, look up a book summary and just internalize the concepts.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 02:47 PM
1

My method: Flirt, just never escalate. Dangle the carrot - make that bitch chase the sex. Why? Because it’s fun, and boosts my social proof/power wherever I am.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 01:52 PM
1

Yup. Approach is a test of compatibility. If she don’t fit the bill, on to the next one.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 01:50 PM
-4

Should I prioritize her needs? Lol, no She’s satisfied from satisfying your needs
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:48 PM
4

Why do you think? Why do you care?
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:46 PM
1

As a man, you shouldn’t get riled up from petty shit. Stuff like this should be meaningless to you in the grand scope of things i.e. what you determine to be your purpose in life. Live for what’s important, not for petty ego stroking BS. Be the guy who’s bigger than that.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:45 PM
9

Read up on soft nexts
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:42 PM
1

Do what you want, stop asking for permission
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:41 PM
3

Don’t give a shit
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:41 PM
3

It’s meant as a reminder that women ‘love’ opportunistically and conditionally. AWALT.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:40 PM
2

You’re probably investing way too much way too fast. Stop focusing on how “much” to give, give what feels natural but make sure your game is on point. Read up on the 2/3 rule.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:37 PM
2

That has nothing to do with being important. You got a weak ass ego, you fall into the category I was talking about.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:22 PM
3

Lol, who the fuck cares about being big and important. Frats are to party and have a good ass time with bros n hoes. If you're joining to feel big and important you're joining for the wrong reasons. Also, no chance you're crashing a top house frat party at a big school, you wouldn't even be let in.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 09:18 PM
7

The majority of guys weren’t in fraternities in college and their little egos are gonna hamster why fraternities are “gay” or “lame” no matter what you tell them. Like, lol, being in a top house fraternity is the best fucking experience ever. Anyone who tells you otherwise was either not in a fraternity (probably didn’t get a bid), in a bottom house fraternity, in one of those bullshit mixed gender “fraternities,” or is just gay. Edit: see below for examples
/r/askTRP06/03/21 07:22 PM
1

If you have experience, game comes naturally. Keep at it. It’s not exhausting once you get used to it.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 07:23 AM
1

She’s not putting out. Doesn’t matter what she thinks. And it’s not butthurt, it’s using your time wisely. Are you high value? Do some sidebar reading.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 10:15 AM
1

Abundance mindset. If she’s not ready to fuck you, you find another girl who will. Don’t stress it. Soft next and if she hits you up let her make it up to you. Remember, you are the prize and your time is your greatest asset. She isn’t so special you should let her waste your time.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 07:00 AM
2

Who cares
/r/askTRP12/12/19 04:21 AM
0

Big assumption. She will definitely lose respect for you, if not leave you altogether
/r/askTRP08/12/19 04:54 AM
9

Move on is what you should make of it. Never show weakness in front of a woman.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:56 PM
3

You’re too comfortable. You need to chase fear and discomfort. Your purpose as a newbie should be accomplishing excellence socially, sexually, and financially. Set goals that serve this purpose and accomplish them. For example, you’re avoiding social situations. This week, approach a random person in the gym and have a conversation with them. You now have a goal for the week, serving the purpose stated above. Now that you have a sense of purpose, keeping up your daily duties will become easy, as…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 06:09 AM
3

Yep.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 12:35 AM
2

Depends on your definition of bullying. The real bullying today is the imperative against masculinity. Old bullying was shitting on weak faggots. Which still happens, but less so because of society shitting on masculinity so everyone is scared to do it. Society has labeled old bullying as “toxic” and “insecure” behavior, strangely similar to how they label TRP, or anything masculine. The reality is that old bullying, as you said, created stronger males. If I see a weak faggot, it legitimately di…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 12:31 AM
15

Wash your damn hands
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:41 PM
5

Next time she makes a joke like that you remove all attention for a week and fuck other girls
/r/askTRP04/12/19 09:22 PM
8

Excerpt from How To Talk To Everyone You See. (a post from the top 100) TBH bros, I think that talking about "avoiding approach anxiety" is completely missing the point. That's like trying to put a band-aid on top of a cancerous tumor (the tumor = the subconscious belief that you do not deserve to talk to people, which stems from the subconscious desire to TAKE something from people instead of GIVE them something). You must travel deep inside yourself and flip an invisible switch. You are a pers…
/r/askTRP04/12/19 04:53 PM
6

You’re retarded
/r/askTRP04/12/19 08:14 AM
2

This is equivalent to a woman saying anal isn’t sex
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 07:23 AM
1

Meditate and practice mindfulness. Recognize self conscious thoughts are stupid and are not you. Let them go and move on.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 08:56 PM
0

Text for logistics
/r/askTRP02/12/19 08:25 AM
10

Because it is
/r/askTRP25/11/19 01:28 AM
5

No, you’re just fucking weird. Quit trying to fit in to phenotypes like an autist.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 01:26 AM
3

Pathetic.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 01:21 AM
1

Stop caring
/r/askTRP23/11/19 07:05 PM
1

Should have been another lion. C+
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:13 AM
1

Fair enough, I can agree with that.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 03:20 AM
1

Maybe, but maybe not. If she finds a man who is higher value than you or has something you don’t, even if you’re alpha super chad, there is still a real possibility she will cheat. You could be a business guy and she’s feeling surfer guy, etc. No one is saying follow her around. But not allowing her to go on vacations alone with her friends is a boundary just like not allowing her to hang out with other dudes is a boundary.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:36 AM
1

Demoting is a reaction isn’t it? By your logic this is breaking frame. The LTR is done when she makes that decision. Exactly. You next her because she violated a boundary of yours. People aren’t saying OP should mate guard. They’re saying he should next if she goes on the cock carousel vacation.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 11:54 PM
1

This logic is stupid. Women sometimes change their mind and do shit out of the blue. You can never fully predict or control their thoughts and motivations, regardless of how much “vetting” you do. You can try to predict and shape them by being a strong male, but you will never have 100% control because you are NOT them. Technically, nexting her is a reaction, but the reaction is not motivated by insecurity, it is motivated by OP’s principles/boundaries, meaning he is not within her frame. If som…
/r/askTRP13/11/19 11:01 PM
2

I’m not really sure what answer you’re looking for here. Bulking may make you ugly but that’s a sacrifice you have to make to achieve a goal YOU want. Fuck what bitches think. They will always be there. You’re clearly focusing on increasing your SMV which is the right thing to do, even if it makes you ugly temporarily. Also, there’s nothing stopping you from gaming bitches on the bulk. If anything it will make your game stronger and will pay off in the long run.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 07:45 AM
3

Learn how to not be an idiot through social exposure.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 09:29 AM
1

She’s not going to come over to straight up fuck the first time (in most cases). The first time it’s best to hang out with her outside the dorm/house, maybe bring her to a party/kickback or even just hang out on campus. When you invited her over to your place to smoke and indicated you just wanted her to come, she couldn’t rationalize that to herself without feeling like a slut. Once you get her in bed once or twice and you’ve established a sexual relationship, you can start inviting her over li…
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:39 AM
3

Plausible deniability. Never be overt about inviting her over for sex. More times than not it produces a less than desirable outcome. “Come see my guitar collection.”
/r/askTRP07/11/19 11:46 PM
1

If it got to you, you probably failed. It’s not about what you say but how you say it.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 11:46 PM
6

He failed your shit test and you proceeded to apologize to HIM. This is called being a bitch. If someone gets mad like that they don’t deserve your time. Apologizing showed how invested you were in a desired outcome.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 11:42 PM
26

At the end of the day it’s about what suits your frame. I’m the same way. Simple and gets the job done.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 11:17 PM
1

This. Keep it simple.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 08:01 PM
2

Why are you his friend?
/r/askTRP07/11/19 07:55 PM
1

Yeah I’m sure the carbs you’re eating to bulk are causing all your problems.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 06:57 PM
165

You’re outcome dependent and give too many fucks. Realize their approval of you doesn’t matter. Recognize self conscious thoughts and let them go. Meditation and mindfulness. Get out of the habit of getting in your head. Make your mission your focus and live a high value lifestyle. Other people will want to join in. Don’t make other people a priority. You’re going to do what you want/need to do, and they can either take it or leave it. Also recognize you’re not going to fit in with everybody. Do…
/r/askTRP07/11/19 04:33 PM
1

At first maybe, especially for people on TRP. But over time you develop your frame. Your rules, priorities, beliefs, persona, etc.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 09:25 AM
3

High value men don’t need to sell. Their value is established. That being said, lying isn’t necessarily “wrong,” it’s just that if you’re lying to others to increases your value in their eyes, you’re putting them above you subconsciously. This can erode your mindset pretty quick.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 07:38 PM
1

Again the phrase is meant to pertain to their subconscious nature. You DO need to constantly keep your LTR in check. That’s why you establish boundaries, and when she violates them increase dread and remove attention.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 07:31 PM
5

The mentality behind “all girls are sluts” is to keep yourself grounded in reality. It pertains to their subconscious nature, not their actions. All girls are subconsciously sluts by nature. Their conscious mind may limit their nature or embrace it, but this isn’t your concern. If you want to LTR, you need to vet her for at least 6 months. And even if you do LTR, you must constantly check her behavior and keep her in line.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 09:12 AM
1

Kind of a gray area if you ask me. If I was your friend I would have at least talked to you first.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 08:59 AM
10

Less dopamine spikes = lower dopamine baseline = better functioning reward system = confidence
/r/askTRP05/11/19 02:55 AM
1

Without a strong father figure you’re going to lack in many areas. Psychologically, you’ll lack a sense of self-worth/self esteem and will be highly insecure, constantly looking for external validation. You will feel like you don’t stack up to others and will constantly put others on a pedestal who seemingly have it better. You will lack an understanding of what having a mission is and will likely have a victim mentality. You may also lack many life skills such as basic self-care, social skills,…
/r/askTRP03/11/19 04:37 PM
6

You give too many fucks. Step the fuck back, chill the fuck out. Don’t worry what others think. Also, fighting is fucking retarded. You got something to prove? You’re putting others above you. Quit being a chihuahua, be a wolf.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 06:47 AM
3

Be masculine, don’t be feminine. Other than that, act however the fuck feels natural
/r/askTRP03/11/19 06:46 AM
1

Quit trying to get her back. Focus on other women.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 06:39 AM
2

What’s done is done. Accept and move forward.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 04:10 AM
11

Funny how simple economics and RP principles have so much in common.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 04:09 AM
14

More commitment = less attraction. Increase your abundance and soft next her for 2 weeks. You’re developing oneitis. Kill it.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 04:06 AM
4

I don’t know what the fuck you’re on about but it definitely isn’t. Surround yourself with alpha friends and sloots (hint: all women are sloots and all of them love alpha cock)
/r/askTRP03/11/19 04:05 AM
23

That’s called having no sense of self-worth and basing your esteem on a sense of acceptance. Usually instilled into you by a weak or absent father figure. You’re using women as a means to make you feel you are worthy of being a man. In order to fix this issue you need to step the fuck back and build up a sense of self worth. Hit the gym. Find a mission. Build your confidence... not just in your specific abilities, but in you. Learn who you are by putting yourself into the shitter and back. Find …
/r/askTRP03/11/19 03:53 AM
6

As long as you’re not wasting your time you aren’t orbiting. Personally if a girl flirts with me and I try to escalate and she rejects it, it’s on to the next bitch.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 12:45 AM
1

Using “slut” doesn’t come out of spite, it comes from understanding female nature and not putting pump n’ dump hot dog down a hallway hos on a pedestal. Does that trigger you? You’re on the wrong subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 12:36 AM
40

Other men should not influence what you do. Don’t LTR in college. If you do, you’re losing.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 12:34 AM
6

They’re all sluts, don’t pedestalize
/r/askTRP02/11/19 08:16 PM
6

No it hasn’t worked, India is it’s own planet with its own species and none of the rules apply to it
/r/askTRP02/11/19 08:14 PM
3

It’s a sign you give too many fucks
/r/askTRP02/11/19 08:13 PM
4

Take Mk677 now before your growth plates close. If you’re over 18, it’s probably too late
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:35 PM
2

Having a passion or purpose is supposed to lead you into something bigger. Play an instrument? Start a band and enjoy doing so. Create graphic designs? Start a graphic design company and enjoy doing so. Be the master of your own domain. Make the world your bitch. You can either bitch and moan like a little pussy, or do something and give your OWN life meaning instead of waiting for it to be served to you on a silver platter. If “finding a woman and starting a family” are your ultimate goals in t…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 05:03 PM
1

If you want an LTR let her push for it. Never try to initiate commitment. However, I would say don’t LTR at all. Spin plates. It’s fine to get a little attached to your plates, but with an LTR you lose your abundance. Let her be the one who contacts you next. Spin other plates in the mean time. You’re missing an abundance mindset hence why you caught feels for a ho.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 07:18 AM
3

Try things and find a passion. It sounds stupid but that’s really what you need. You’re not gonna understand what passion is until you experience it. Learn an instrument. Travel. Start playing a sport. Whatever. Just try shit until you find something you’re good at and then make that your focus.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 07:15 AM
2

Who knows and who cares Ignore.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 04:29 PM
1

Maca powder and viagra. L citrulline if you can’t get viagra in time.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 04:27 PM
1

Maybe but you shouldn’t care. Focus on other women. Abundance.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 02:40 AM
6

Anything but boredom
/r/askTRP29/10/19 06:07 PM
1

Sidebar and top 100
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:25 AM
1

5x5
/r/askTRP27/10/19 08:43 PM
1

If your text could come off as defensive (which it does) don’t send it. Remember to never enter her frame. Her response was boring and didn’t deserve acknowledgement. Ignore and send another photo, or don’t respond at all.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 05:59 PM
2

With girls: “I know” With bros: “Thanks you ugly fuck” In a professional or small talk setting (not with PLs): “Thank you”
/r/askTRP27/10/19 05:45 PM
3

DGAF stems from actually not giving a fuck. If you’re butthurt, you give a fuck. Remember that it’s not about what you say but how you say it. If you get your ego invested in these bitches and how they treat you/what they think of you you’re going to give too many fucks and come off as butthurt. Kill your ego.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 08:31 AM
1

I’ve met and plated girls just by striking up conversation randomly in public. Make yourself attractive and look for IOIs.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 08:21 AM
5

Don’t comment anymore. Read the sidebar and top 100.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 08:10 AM
11

Papu Nigga’s Staples to Women: Assume attraction. You are the prize. http://archive.is/Zg0gk?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf. DGAF (about shit outside your control) and have a take it or leave it mindset. Separate the ego and frame. The ego is externally validated. Frame is internally validated. Dissolve the ego. The ego is the part of you that can’t take failure, can’t take rejection, refuses to exit the comfort zone, and makes you give too many fucks. Kill your ego. Be attr…
/r/askTRP27/10/19 08:05 AM
1

If you’re someone people feel they need to earn respect FROM/get validation FROM, they will respect you by default. It can be comparable to attraction. Lower SMV guys can still lay hot girls, but they will face a barrage of shit tests. High SMV guys can lay hot girls and maybe get shit tested a few times. High value men don’t get disrespected. People seek their respect. Low value men get disrespected whenever. They have nothing of value to offer. The best way to command respect is: Maximize your…
/r/askTRP25/10/19 07:15 PM
7

She’s not biologically related to the child so she doesn’t have maternal instinct for it. This is solely for her ego. She doesn’t give a fuck about the well being of the child. Let this be a reminder men of just how heartless and fucking stupid a scorned woman can get.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 02:32 AM
16

This may sound like bitching anger phase shit but it’s actually important for men to know. Recognize these patterns and don’t let yourself fall victim to them.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 02:29 AM
3

Purpose. You have a void you are looking to fill with women. Women will never fill your void. Only fulfillment can. Find something that you not only want the end results of, but truly enjoy the grind of it as well. Career doesn’t necessarily equal purpose.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 08:00 PM
2

The connections you’re going to establish from a fraternity are most likely going to be shitty and pale in comparison to connections that are directly related to your career, hence why joining a career-oriented club is a better idea. Pledge work takes up massive amounts of time and energy, and most fraternities also charge you out of the ass. It’s not worth the time, energy, and financial investment if all you’re looking for is friends. He has much better options here, and the fact that he disli…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:50 PM
3

Dude said in his post he hates nightclubs Join a fraternity Logic = 0 Not only that, but fraternities are highly demanding (at least the good ones are), both financially and time-wise, and can severely affect your education. If you’re investing in your future, they aren’t a good move. He SHOULD join an organization that builds around his interests, but SHOULD NOT join a fraternity out of a need for friends.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 04:26 AM
11

If you’re someone people feel they need to earn respect FROM/get validation FROM, they will respect you by default. It can be comparable to attraction. Lower SMV guys can still lay hot girls, but they will face a barrage of shit tests. High SMV guys can lay hot girls and maybe get shit tested a few times. High value men don’t get disrespected. People seek their respect. Low value men get disrespected whenever. They have nothing of value to offer. The best way to command respect is: Maximize your…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 02:38 AM
8

Scarcity mindset. Do you have any fucking self respect? Stop obsessing over this girl, maybe start trying to fuck the dude as well since you’re so obsessed with him too.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:22 PM
0

Don’t play her game.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:12 PM
13

You attached your sense of self-worth to her. This is oneitis. Find and attach yourself only to your purpose.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:11 PM
2

Just shit test. Deflect it and continue.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:07 PM
1

Get your testosterone checked and report back.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 06:40 AM
1

Well it depends. If it’s detracting from your purpose and/or not benefiting your purpose it is a waste of time. Everything you do should revolve around your purpose. You fuck to satisfy your sexual needs, which will make you better equipped for working on your purpose. You participate in vices in a controlled manner to reward yourself for hard work, training your mind to continue on your purpose. You sleep for your purpose, you eat for your purpose, you lift for your purpose, etc.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 06:34 AM
11

Comfort can give her the wrong idea and potentially end up in disaster. It’s a thin line to walk. If you’re not cautious it can turn out badly. Also it’s not bad to compliment her once in a while and take her out, but this should be limited.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 06:21 AM
1

No dining hall?
/r/askTRP03/10/19 09:05 PM
1

I’ve read the full sidebar but not the recommended books. I’ve dabbled a bit in the rational male and the book of pook but haven’t read them to completion.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 08:44 PM
14

Pointless post. Remember to never listen to what a woman says.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 08:41 PM
2

It just shows they aren’t to be taken seriously. Not something to be angry about.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:47 PM
4

Don’t LTR.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 02:06 AM
1

She’s just not that interested. Next.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 07:29 AM
2

Too needy. A man with abundance doesn’t act in this fashion.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 06:38 AM
2

The “one” and “purpose” are both illogical fallacies based on predestination. There will be multiple things that motivate you, just like there will be multiple girls that attract you. Choosing a mission is finding a good balance of motivation and reason. If your proposed mission involves quitting your job and moving to a war zone, it may not be the best mission to pursue. You’re taking things considered to be universally “good” and projecting them as a “purpose,” AKA projecting a moral compass t…
/r/askTRP29/09/19 03:38 PM
12

I’d love to be a werewolf alpha but I’m having trouble transforming... looks like the universal unconscious has failed me
/r/TheRedPill29/09/19 03:28 PM
2

Agreed. Too many autist spergs who lack free will and act like robots in their interactions.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 09:10 AM
2

Pedestalization from a deep belief you are lesser and not good enough If you are a man, you are good enough. You don’t need to be a badass alpha all the time. You just need to be a man.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 02:32 PM
1

Why do you give a fuck? If she isn’t mentioning a bf she is interested. If she isn’t interested anymore than you check her off the list and move on.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 03:42 PM
5

She has no need to fuck you if she can get validation this way.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 03:40 PM
5

Don’t shit where you eat and she clearly isn’t interested so move on. If she was attracted she wouldn’t have cared you were touching her and wouldn’t be avoiding you. If you keep pursuing you’re just going to look like a loser with a scarcity mindset. Sounds like you’ve been watching too many pornos buddy. Let go of that fantasy.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 02:58 PM
4

Let her show her value. If she entertains him, demote or next.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 02:09 PM
2

You want this too much, you’re gonna fuck it up. Develop and abundance mindset. It doesn’t matter how hot she is. The same rules apply.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 04:06 PM
7

Up to you. Having these friends can give you access to higher quality parties than unaffiliated, and from what I read they aren’t hindering your game even if they are a little jealous.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 03:39 PM
3

One girl. Abundance.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 06:59 AM
11

Are you targeting girls who already have a dude with them?
/r/askTRP08/09/19 06:59 AM
1

Would you give a 6 this attention?
/r/askTRP08/09/19 06:58 AM
8

They exist. Ignore them when you can. Don’t make yourself vulnerable like your friend did and have some street sense.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 06:55 AM
1

Yeah, as of now there aren’t too many studies on how long it takes to work so that was more anecdotally based. But hey if it’s working that fast for you more power to you.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 06:28 AM
4

Placebo. Ashwagandha takes 6-8 weeks of usage before noticeable effects kick in. That being said, Ashwagandha decreases cortisol levels up to 30%, and increases testosterone around 14% over time. Cortisol: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3573577/ Test and DHEA: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6438434/
/r/askTRP08/09/19 05:16 AM
31

Why do you care? Women don’t give a fuck what the average dude’s options are. They’re not even thinking about shit like that. They are attracted to attractive men because attractive men have options.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 12:09 AM
2

So you asked this question knowing there are probably posts for it on the main sub, and better yet asked someone to link a post for you. Quit being lazy, go to the main sub, and use the search button.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 08:30 PM
1

Watch her actions not her words. You answered your own question, she lost attraction because you gave away ‘commitment’ too fast. Make them earn any piece of attention you give them.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 08:26 PM
12

Don’t take her seriously. If you’re trying to find specific responses for shit tests you haven’t embraced the mindset yet. Delivery is much more important than what you say, and the way to master delivery is having an IDGAF attitude and abundance mindset.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 08:21 PM
6

No to the last one, first two are good
/r/askTRP07/09/19 08:20 PM
1

You can do whatever the fuck you want if you have an abundance mindset
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:50 PM
1

Why are you taking what women say seriously? Are you really going to give your attention to that bullshit?
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:49 PM
1

Abundance
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:41 PM
8

Befriend everyone is a shitty mindset. Befriend high value people.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:34 PM
2

Time with bros =/= time with their girlfriends. If your bro kicks it less with you because of his girl then he clearly isn’t a high value friend and you should seek new ones.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:32 PM
1

Sidebar and top 100
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:29 PM
8

Get your priorities in check.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:27 PM
2

Giving drugs to girls in exchange for their attention = beta bux People will always flock to something that makes them feel more accepted.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:26 PM
2

Why should I Delivery is important.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:23 PM
1

Take what you want from the world. Find a purpose and focus on it. That’s your life after the red pill.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:22 PM
-1

Never explain yourself, never succumb to her frame Oh and don’t LTR
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:20 PM
1

Don’t LTR
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:16 PM
3

The fact that this is a sexual strategy forum doesn’t change the fact that a woman’s validation isn’t something you should prioritize. Make yourself high value because it improves your quality of life. That should be your motivation.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 08:27 PM
4

If acceptance or “adoration” is your highest priority, prepare to enter a life of constant self doubt, neuroticism, and depression. That being said, a woman’s “adoration” isn’t hard to get. It’s not rare if you’re high value. In fact, you start getting used to it pretty quick.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 06:57 PM
3

Make sure your sense of happiness/self-worth isn’t based off of her Accept that it’s just your turn
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 12:53 AM
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Our evolutionary psychology promotes advancement. Men have a drive in them to create and advance. Own a business, invent something, etc.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 02:49 PM
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Your standards can be as high as you want if you have the SMV and frame for it.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 02:41 PM
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I'd say use your best judgment on the impression you made with her. If she's likely to contact you, keep her as a contact for a little while. Like most things, this isn't a matter of black and white.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 01:08 AM
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Damn, I just saw this comment. Agreed. I'd say something like the gym is a good starting point which gets you into the mindset of being on your purpose. I believe this mindset embeds itself into your life slowly, but permanently. Once you get a real taste of it, you see how powerful a purpose really is. The gym is a great way to spark this.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 01:35 AM
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Post like this are equal in value to magazine gossip articles. Fundamentally useless and do nothing besides give an outlet to bitch and complain. Yes, the world is retarded sometimes. Accept and move the fuck on.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 04:56 PM
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This is a universal truth. You have to be somewhat knowledgeable about the red pill to see through this lie.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 12:32 AM
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Alabama is more red pilled than most states.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 08:55 PM
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By experiencing rejection so much it doesn’t matter to you anymore. By building a high sense of self worth.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 07:12 PM
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Haha. The part about falling t levels is probably true
/r/askTRP19/04/19 11:27 PM
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I think he’s asking if it’s a red flag if she likes tattoos. To answer his question, I don’t think so. Girls are naturally inclined to fall in love with “bad boys” and tattoos go against the tide. They show that the person with them has no fucks to give about stigma and does what they want.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 10:48 PM
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This, you don’t enter her frame, you set the frame and she orients to you. Set a calm vibe.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 10:31 PM
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Why would you date in college my guy? It’s asking to get fucked over. Focus on coursework and plate girls. Don’t LTR.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 10:30 PM
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Progressive overload.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 08:10 PM
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Your body CANNOT build muscle on 15 seconds of rest. 8 reps is within the ideal range, but without proper rest between sets, the work you are doing is more cardiovascular than anything else.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 08:10 PM
1

Alphas create. Betas seek validation.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/19 05:15 PM
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Do what you want and what fits your frame. If saying “babe” isn’t natural to you then don’t say it.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 04:00 PM
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lmao
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 05:03 PM
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Your entire statement is based on an idea that people must be impressed with you. This is insecurity. Why must people know you are the shit? Do their opinions define who you are? You will never find a solid foundation or inner peace if you live life with this mindset. An applause always fades. An alpha doesn’t need to impress. He doesn’t need validation. He just is. His motivations are not based on validation. They are based on his own principles and values. He does not give a shit what anyone t…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 04:45 AM
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Women prioritize self-protection Men prioritize creation
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 11:36 PM
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Why the fuck would I waste my time on a girl who isn't interested? Give attention when it is deserved.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 08:39 PM
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You're not wrong. It's a painful cycle.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 08:21 PM
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Ease of life =/= quality of life. Sure they have more 'fun' but 'fun' has diminishing returns. Fulfillment is forever.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 08:20 PM
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Do what works for you. This is TRP, not PUA.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 09:55 PM
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Alphas take away privilege by withholding attention and validation. The goal isn’t to take away privilege, it is just done indirectly in favor of personal pursuits. Moreover, it’s not so much that we’re taking something away from them. We’re just not giving them something they have been programmed (by weak men) to expect.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/19 07:23 PM
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There is no one to blame for that mindset in women other than the weak men who let it get to this point. Women are raised believing they are goddesses. They truly believe they are above anyone and everyone solely due to the sheer amounts of validation and support they constantly receive. From who? Weak men. Men who were raised by other weak men or single mothers. Men who believe their purpose is to get married, have children, and support their wives, even if it means life castration. Men who con…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/19 05:34 PM
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Agreed. The reason feminism exists is because men pay attention to it. Why do men pay attention to it? Because they’re women. Why do men pay attention to women? Because vagina. Sex bots will change the game. That is, as long as sex bots don’t become self-aware and start doing marches.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 04:08 AM
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So it shouldn’t be a problem if you ignore it like they didn’t say it or say the same thing back to them/throw it back.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 10:18 PM
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Write down core principles to remember and read them daily.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 12:35 AM
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Continue to meet your priorities regardless of external influence. So if you were going to do something in the first place, do it, regardless of the conversation. This is how you hold frame. Make people enter your reality/chase you, not the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 08:08 PM
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So be a listener. It’s much more beneficial for you if you’re a listener instead of a talker. You never look like a fool and you gather tons of information about others. Plus it makes you more likable. Just don’t be a tampon. Don’t let people waste your time.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 05:53 PM
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Yep. It’s funny, when I bulk I become fat around the face which makes me look like a retarded chipmunk. The difference in how people treat me when I’m cut vs when I’m bulked is crazy. People will go out their way to do favors for you when you’re attractive. Everything you say is funny or charming when you’re attractive. You can get away with anything when you’re attractive. When you’re unattractive, it’s the opposite. Be attractive.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 05:51 PM
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it depends what you’re looking for. I have a certain preference in women that I expect them to meet. If just looking to smash, brushing it off would have been the best choice.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:01 PM
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What you did was wrong. Never call her out. As with any other shit test: Ignore, pressure flip, A&A You could just tease her and continue the date. This goes against my personal principles so I will tell you what I would have done. I personally would have ignored and removed all attention ASAP. Just consider this: It’s a worse version of her talking about other men. Do you give this your attention? No. You ignore her when she does this. So her flat out talking to another dude and giving him her …
/r/askTRP19/03/19 04:46 PM
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Mini shit test. Ignore it or throw it back.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 12:54 AM
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Outcome independence. Become the prize and build an abundance mentality and high sense of self-worth, along with a rock-solid frame. Then rejection doesn’t do anything to you. Also recognize you are LEARNING, even when you are rejected. So you are always getting something out of it.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/19 05:45 PM
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“Never argue with an idiot, they’ll drag you down to their level, then win through experience.”
/r/TheRedPill17/03/19 05:20 PM
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This is a very interesting point. It is definitely easier now for those in control to manipulate our perceptions. If happiness is at our fingertips at all times, control is at their fingertips at all times.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/19 07:02 AM
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If you’re having self-conscious thoughts, accept them at let them go. This is part of how you get rid of validation seeking behavior. MEDITATE. The second part is FINDING A MISSION and making that your focus instead of focusing on social status/acceptance. This is why lifting is a recommended priority on this sub. It not only makes you look and feel great, but it also gives you something to focus on that solely has to do with you. “The key to not giving a fuck isn’t trying to not give a fuck. Th…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 08:26 PM
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True. But we managed to get out of it, didn’t we? Wouldn’t be surprised if there is a link between lower mental capability and the social media boom.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 05:09 PM
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Jesus Christ. I’m not saying I take women seriously, but the emojis don’t help her case at all, lmao Ignore. If the plate breaks it breaks. Nothing lasts forever.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 04:08 AM
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Law 38: Think as you like but behave like others. Pride comes before the fall. Don’t be the man who falls fighting for his pride. Edit: Never mind, it was just an online suspension. Who cares dude?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 02:57 AM
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Women can make their own decisions, yes, but they will be insecure about these decisions unless they are externally validated. Women do not trust their own intuition. This is why they are constantly on the hunt for validation/attention.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 08:05 PM
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Locking down an alpha is part of their biological imperative. Women want two things 1) Alpha genes 2) Commitment/a provider When you give them a slight taste of #2 (your soft side) while constantly exhibiting #1, it can make them obsessed with you and earning your commitment (which you will obviously never give). Being alpha all the time will work for only so long with plates. If you want to stop them from breaking, or at least extend their duration, this is a good way to do so. Women have a pri…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 03:41 PM
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Become high quality yourself and you will be naturally drawn together. Alphas respect other alphas when we’re living in a sea of betas. Being in social situations a lot helps, so this is why it’s good to put yourself out there. If you’re in high school join a club. If you’re in college, join an established club or organization (I personally joined a fraternity which was a decision I’m very glad I made). If those two aren’t your situation, pick up a hobby and meet people through that. Hell you ca…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 03:26 PM
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I agree. This requires experience and a very good ability to read women, but doing this correctly makes them obsessed with you. Do it wrong and she will lose attraction. You have to make her earn it.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 03:12 PM
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When a man is calm at all times regardless of what a woman says or does, it signals that they can remain calm in situations of threat. For example if another tribe is raiding your tribe, you will remain calm and collected and protect your woman and maybe children instead of panicking and leaving them up for slaughter.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 01:21 AM
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We are more primal than you think. It’s not conscious manipulation. Just as you do not consciously decide to get a boner when you see a hot bitch.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 01:05 AM
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It’s evolution. Women are naturally Machiavellian and manipulate for their benefit/safety. Offending the other person in this case serves no benefit to them, and creates potential for danger. A man can defend himself much better than a woman. That coupled with the necessity for men to maximize productive efficiency makes them much more honest in situations such as this one. Honest feedback is necessary to improve something. Men create. Women protect themselves.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 01:03 AM
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It’s evolution. Women are naturally Machiavellian and manipulate for their benefit/safety. Offending the other person in this case serves no benefit to them, and creates potential for danger. A man can defend himself much better than a woman. That coupled with the necessity for men to maximize productive efficiency makes them much more honest in situations such as this one. Honest feedback is necessary to improve something. Men create. Women protect themselves.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 01:02 AM
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Just ask yourself “if I had another girl just as hot who would be down to fuck right now, would I be doing this?” This will usually give you what you need to do
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 10:00 PM
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“Some lives are just plain better than others.” In whose eyes? That’s an opinion, not a fact. Maybe someone would rather live like a Cheeto crusted gamer than Dan Bilzerian. Not that I’m promoting this lifestyle, but maybe it’s a lifestyle someone values. I never claimed that living on your own terms has inherent value. I’m just claiming that not everyone values the same things or lives by the same rules you do. You’re viewing value through the frame society has given you and a social construct …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 02:32 PM
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What if you don’t value any of the three things you stated? Not everyone operates under the same terms you do. Don’t be so egocentric. I’m not going to tell you what to value. So don’t tell me. Live on your own terms, that is how you become a true alpha
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 07:51 AM
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how am i in the anger phase nigga ​ Women arent anything but bitches. When you learn this maybe youll get some puss and wont get cucked anymore ;(
/r/askTRP11/03/19 11:53 PM
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Frame is key, my nigga
/r/askTRP11/03/19 04:58 PM
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By definition it will. And productivity will become entertaining.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 06:45 PM
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I too love to watch hamsters running on their wheels. It's entertaining.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 04:16 AM
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This is because your brain has formed an attachment to that source of dopamine (YouTube). You need to deprive yourself/take time away from YouTube so your brain can heal. Think about a drug addict. An addict must take time away from a drug (rehab) before they can put themselves back into the world and actually enjoy the world again. Take a break from YouTube for a while. Force yourself to do other things. Read before bed instead. At first it will be hard/boring, but over time you will get used t…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 04:16 AM
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Yes you do. I've done it. It's called challenging yourself and not expecting things to be handed to you.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 10:54 PM
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That's not why cold approach works. The reason cold approach works is because you're showing your confidence when you do so. 99% of dudes don't have the balls/self-confidence/IDGAF mentality to approach a woman out of nowhere. It's a fallacy that giving women validation makes them desire you. In most cases it is quite the opposite.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 09:58 PM
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I don't like this title, but I agree with the post. Women want validation, but they sexually desire men who withhold it.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 09:56 PM
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Porn is a complete waste. Video games are also a complete waste. What people need to do is get off of all of these useless sources so they fix their fucking heads. Then naturally they'll start enjoying doing more human, productive things. Down time is necessary, but my point is when the mind is no longer battered by huge synthetic dopamine spikes, it'll start enjoying productive things. Reading books, learning an instrument, learning a language, will eventually become fun, and that'll be what th…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 09:52 PM
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Become high value Secure plates Secure extremely high quality male friends ​ problem solved
/r/TheRedPill02/03/19 10:00 PM
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yeah. I view women literally as forms of dopamine. Like a drug or alcohol, or video games or something else. Just another form of pleasure for me to have when I have spare time for it.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 10:19 PM
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yeah i still wonder why dudes choose to be in LTRs ​ It's honestly retarded. Sure, have the experience if you haven't had it yet but too much of a pain in my ass for me to do it multiple times
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 04:42 AM
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