Here are some examples to show my point. Is this lacking social calibration or is it just a matter of how confident you are in saying these things? Because when I remove my filter I become shameless af in a cocky way and literally don't care for any social repercussion.

Example 1: You cold approach a chick and you guys are having a convo. Then this is what she says.

Her: Oh yeah. Do I KNOW you?

You: Yeah.. in your fuckin dreams. That's where you know me from.

Example 2: You're in the middle of having sex with a chick and she calls your dick small to fuck with you (toxic af).

Her: I thought your dick would be bigger. It's kind of small.

You: Nice, well maybe you can find your big dick some other time. But for now, why don't you bend over for me

In the second example I'm aware that after the session, I would drop that chick like a fly because there's a difference between a shit test and purposeful digs to try to literally attack and disrespect you by someone toxic af.

But would these be appropriate well-socially calibrated responses or dgaf mentality, and how did you get to your answer?