This might be why the concept of "assume attraction" is thrown around a lot.

Leading, taking charge, logistics, being chill, and doing kino are WAY easier.

If she's a bit shy around you, it's so much easier to be your normal self and having them react to you. Ffs, you could literally go to bubble tea, tease them by suggesting playing chess, tell them to sit beside you so you can see how they play, then do kino and tease them just to troll. Like there's no fear involved and your frame is strong af. You assume it's in the bag. And this is even as an introvert.