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name an example where there is a younger women and older aged man dating where the women isn't benefitting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:44 AM
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ur argument is really weak. the analogy of buyer and seller isn't congruent and you are showing bias towards females.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:42 AM
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Caring so much about being alpha or beta can prove as to having a beta mindset. As the bitches say, live laugh love
/r/TheRedPill23/01/25 01:47 PM
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So you know nothing about trp. Yet you are so confident in a sub with red pilled men. Just proves to me you are an emotional debater
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:43 PM
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oldest teenager of the house This means that women act emotionally like children which trp does say. Although the message is wrong, it is correct women tend to act more emotionally due to hormonal imbalances such as periods, pregnancy Trp does believe that women have freedom or free will, in fact true trp people believe the term “leader of the household”/ the female is the strongest part of the family Trp does not teach you to hate women, it teaches you female and male dating strategies, ways to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:21 PM
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Throw misogyny around people forget the meaning of it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:24 PM
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Sure it adds sexism, but when you’re a community devoted to a dating lifestyle it is hard to not subject each gender with a specific dating strategy and cognitive pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:19 PM
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No I’m stating you don’t know shit about redpill because u literally though mgtow meant trp lifestyle. Ur just spewing nonsense and hamstering. How can you be so certain about what trp is if you don’t even know what mgtow stands for. Answer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:17 PM
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So how is that different from what redpill is teaching. You just reiterated ways to increase your smv which is praised by trp community. Maybe ur a trp women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:13 PM
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You know nothing about redpill yet this entire thread you claim to have a grasp on what it is MGTOW is the ultimate solo experience where the male does not interact or deal with women; hence the name men going their own way. Redpill men stay single, and spin plates. Redpill people like AMOS, Kevin samuels(rip), rappers mostly are red pill. Redpill =/= MGTOW completely two different life styles
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:12 PM
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Okay. List the things you want from a male
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:05 PM
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What does that have to do with the argument that you can’t make yourself more desirable by changing urself? I believe the human species is beautiful in which we can adapt and change ourselves to be something better. Every human being can improve themselves to make themself desirable. It’s only blue pill men like you that don’t pull women nor get laid- that tell people that it’s impossible for ugly men to become attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:39 PM
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No one in the world can be desirable to the person(s) they want. Man or women. And yes they can. Attaining good looks with diet, hygiene, wardrobe and also focusing on attaining wealth is the way. I didn’t say it’s easy, but not impossible for a man to become desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:38 AM
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You can decide to make yourself more desirable to the opposite gender. That’s where you’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:32 AM
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Relationship(s). Friends, family, those close around you
/r/TheRedPill24/11/24 02:06 PM
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You only argue with ur emotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:33 AM
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I don't know what this means and you're spamming it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:26 PM
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I know you are arguing the fact that its' hypocritical for men to want to date/marry a women that is chaste, yet still jack off to them and find them attractive. To put some perspective, men do not care about those things for initial attraction. Men only care mostly about looks. If a women is hot enough, men will flock and give them validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:12 PM
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To say the least, there's a lot of common misconception of what is good game/pua technique and bad technique. Being relateable to females and naturally holding a conversation where they can open up themselves is what I consider real pua advice. There might be some negativity surrounding what strategies pua promotes, but often many misconceptions. For example, I believe using the "Triangle method" such as looking at the girl's eyes and lips back and forth will actually help you escalate into kiss…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:09 PM
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If you think the only way to pickup hot women is money looks and luck, then you are definitely lacking charisma. You are claiming charisma and personality is a non factor when females are deciding their male partners
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:00 PM
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exactly, some men just are deprived of attention from women. only fans gives that attention to males in which males exchange for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:53 PM
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"women"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:51 PM
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Like I said, men do not care if a women is promiscuous if that said women isn’t in a ltr with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:43 PM
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I disagree, it’s a billion dollar industry for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:37 PM
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Exactly, people need to differentiate sexual needs and long term compatibility. Males most likely will have sex with a slut casually, but long term they are more hesitant since promiscuous women do not provide long term stability as much as less promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:35 PM
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You can argue for that point, sure. But that doesn’t dismiss the fact that men do not care that the girl they are jerking off to is a slut since they don’t have a connection to that women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:32 PM
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No because women don’t have similar issues as men in the dating marketplace. Females don’t need to go out their way and replicate sluts online that are getting validation/attention. Most females can naturally get validation by opening their dating app lol. This is because females in general don’t have issues getting sex compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:28 PM
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I don’t think men care about females that are sluts though. They would only care if their partners were/are. Imo women are just as judgy when it comes to women acting that way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:10 PM
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Because only fans is porn. The average male may Jack off to a porn star, but they will not engage/be in a relationship with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:03 PM
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If pua/ game didn’t work, it wouldn’t exist. Are you arguing the techniques pick up artists use aren’t effective? If not can you demonstrate or provide a better source to pick up women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:00 PM
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Started in h.s as an absolute fucking nerd. I’m talking about video gaming, no pssy, almost no friends that fuck with me. Once college started, formed a whole social circle, rotation, I was more charismatic. I couldn’t hold a convo with a girl in h.s, college comes I’m hosting parties talking to groups of random chicks, etc. overall changed my entire personality
/r/TheRedPill01/10/24 09:33 PM
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women arent blue or red pilled. They don't adopt the same mating strategy men's do.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/24 01:42 PM
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Women care about physical appearance but not as much as fucking guys do bro. The only reason guys settle for ugly chicks is because they can only get ugly chicks. Women want fucking status, money, the shit that puts the man at the top of the fucking table. Looks are a benefactor but tbh guys are the more shallow ones in that regard I bet you jeff bezos can host a fucking orgys of 10/10s than ricky whittle can
/r/TheRedPill19/09/24 01:39 PM
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id wear a different wig every day to keep the bitches surprised
/r/TheRedPill19/09/24 01:36 PM
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Just get a hair transplant bro. If girls can wear makeup and shit why can’t you get an enhancement
/r/TheRedPill18/09/24 10:55 PM
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I started rp in highschool, was really socially awkward esp with women. joined a frat the first year in college- life changing shit. Changed my whole personality and how to interact with women and network in general(they force you to interview fellow frat brothers and do stupid shit) Parties are insanely ratio'd where you are desired since you get sororities and college chicks going to your parties. Then I transitioned to hosting my own house parties with fellow frat brothers. IMO 100% worth it …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/24 02:55 PM
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For guys starting out college, join a frat.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/24 06:15 AM
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Not only is it overused, it’s misused. In packs, alpha handle the resources. In this case, you can guess who the resources are. Which is why the top 20% of males(alphas) are desired by the 80%. To fit the qualities of those 20% desired by the 80%, there are specific traits that may influence your smv, which determines if you truly are alpha in their eyes. Personality, looks, money… are the main contributors to your smv effectively determining if you are alpha
/r/TheRedPill13/09/24 06:13 AM
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U shouldn’t worry about women leaving you because there’s always another. Like I said, being in a relationship means knowing that there’s a possibility of her leaving you
/r/TheRedPill15/08/24 10:55 PM
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Yea bro but what I realize after a long time is that some shit is bs. You don’t need to go to the extremes to create attraction bro. U can nut and enjoy sex
/r/TheRedPill10/08/24 12:30 AM
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It’s a crazier form of push/pull in your eyes ig. But I’ve been on redpill for almost 6-7 years. I think not nutting when you have sex is overthinking it bro🤣🤣. Enjoy ur nut
/r/TheRedPill01/08/24 04:29 PM
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Bro why u bragging that you didn’t nut and now you have an unwanted girl for a year 😭😭😭
/r/TheRedPill01/08/24 11:03 AM
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Luck= circumstance
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:46 AM
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I’m sexually experienced and had thrown/hosted parties in college. Yes, we are insecure about a girl’s past. Because, a more promiscuous women isn’t suitable for long term commitment. I have been with girls that had been sexually more experienced, but they were considered more of casual hookups. If I’m committing to a women, I’d prefer they had a lower body count, life goals, and show motherly traits for my potential offspring in the future. A more promiscuous women displays that they have troub…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:35 PM
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U are correct
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:32 AM
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Chads are those who are attractive and also have personality. Op doesn’t realize most chads have better personalities than average men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:36 PM
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yes, i agree with all your points. what im trying to get out of this is that this whole "tall fit good looking disney chads", or what every other guy is replying here, is a false statement. Dressing yourself to be presentable to and similar to what females prefer and ideal as attractive is always the way to go. For example, as an asian guy, i tend to dress more like an asian fuckboy, the results have worked despite not being tall and not all that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:20 AM
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i mean, i had a girlfriend in high school, so personal experience and from my friends? i can say not everyone lives on disney channel
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:18 AM
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they ofc help 100%, but males now have a misconception of how to actually get women, acctrative or not. the most important thing is game, if you can hold a regular fucking convo with a women and not try this extra pick up shit thats try hard, 100% men would get laid more. lot of social media advice is wrong, some pua communities also fuck up on this matter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:11 AM
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guy just cant be a regular blud
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:21 PM
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i think you're not speaking to every women bro. each girl has different preferences ranging from kpop girlish looking guys, singers, basketball players, lanky tall dudes, etc. not all women are attracted to muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:20 PM
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bro, not every single high school is a disney special tv series. it's normal for normal average girls and guys to be attracted to one another. this overexaggeration that women want the tall and hot guy is a trash ass take. it's to a certain degree, but each individual women has personal preferences and SMV fluctuates based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:16 PM
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Hahahahhaa never joined the mile high club. Bathrooms too cramped. Shits fucking quiet so the moans will echo over the plane
/r/seduction30/10/22 04:51 AM
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Fucked in a porterpotty, in the woods(girl was fucking crazy and screamed like a Japanese av star), my backyard, near the river, at the beach, etc. the sky is the limit indeed
/r/seduction29/10/22 11:05 PM
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Why stop at toilets. In the alley way, in the club itself, just pretend she’s dancing 😂
/r/seduction29/10/22 11:03 PM
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Girls that act cocky tend to have high self-esteem, pushing her to her limits by bringing her down is a way to tease her or create an emotional spike with that women.
/r/seduction27/10/22 04:28 AM
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ya I didn't even get her number time to move on and just jack off to the thoughts
/r/askTRP03/05/21 02:32 PM
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Thanks man for the solid words and tips. She was absolutely stunning so I find it hard to just let go and get past her just yet when this just has happened yesterday
/r/askTRP03/05/21 12:57 AM
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That's smart. But, how do I bring it up without being creepy
/r/askTRP03/05/21 12:56 AM
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im an engineer major; so not the best at writing
/r/askTRP02/05/21 10:34 PM
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I was at your stage once. 1 month into redpill means that you have to give tough love to every person asking for advice. Sad how this subreddit has developed and hasn't changed with any veterans posting.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 10:25 PM
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Don't have a phone number, was using a phone without a sim
/r/askTRP02/05/21 10:24 PM
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7 words = 0 point made. stfu
/r/askTRP02/05/21 10:21 PM
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Make friends around your hobbies. At the gym, martial arts class, maybe at your little local esports team. Anything that involves a passion of yours will help you connect to more people.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 10:13 PM
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Imagine being so beta that you refuse to believe the westernized girls are sleeping anything over their age in n count Who the fuck cares?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 09:42 AM
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Holy shit you might be on to something. How often does she wear it and does the collar have to be my name
/r/askTRP08/07/20 07:17 PM
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Yes I have. But I feel like it has the same effect as pulling her hair and using that as a leash
/r/askTRP08/07/20 07:14 PM
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Because paying for sex isnt the same as being rewarded with sex with a female that has an attachment towards you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 06:12 PM
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the alpha is someone that has the ability to accept or reject individuals into their tribe. This includes caring/loving traits. The idea is that you keep it to a medium and provide a rollercoaster of emotions where you are sometimes the opposite. The ultimate alpha male is not congruent to a single depiction. He has ranges of qualities that females deem sexy based on their social blueprints.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 11:45 PM
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That's how preselection, dreadgame, and abundance works. How is OP certified to sell?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 03:05 PM
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Read into what factors into SMV. It's a broader term than what you imagine
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 03:01 PM
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I dont think creating an analogy between a synonymous term and a fucking disease is a plausible argument. But, I want to be open minded here. How is SMV a "plagued" term?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 02:02 PM
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SMV widely recognized in every progressive manosphere. Such as the pua community, trp, and many others. It's a synonymous term because it resembles the key aspects of what superficial and internal value is. If you were to improve your financial wealth, looks(through grooming, style,etc), and status; it will inherently make others perceive you as higher value than your previous self. Tigers cant hunt the prey if they lack the necessary skills to fucking hunt
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 01:57 PM
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Pussy is never thrown at you. That's a terrible mindset. Pussy is only thrown at you if you are perceived as high value from females. And the only way to do that is increasing your SMV and also by creating inner value.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 01:49 PM
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Less about testorone as opposed to shitty father figures. How women treat their men is respondent to how they treat their fathers. If they dont respect their fathers. It will be harder to respect you.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 05:42 PM
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Saying things shouldn't matter if you dont mean it. If you seen this hoe for a couple of months, saying "I love you" is merely a sweet nothing. You dont mean it at all. Esp. Saying it after sex since research has been done that women feel more "bonded" to the man as opposed to feeling accomplished. Saying sweet nothings is essential in giving the right amount of validation. Of course you should still push pull and say some other shit that makes her feel a bit insecure. Doing a mix of both is goo…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 05:25 PM
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El15 it's a mere analysis of an individual based on their repeated actions
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 05:36 AM
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Are we blaming the system or should we, as humans, adapt to the world that constantly revolves and changes. It's a form of entertainment that a lot of people enjoy. Caring too much about what is "beta" in a fucking movie? Cant people just enjoy the movie instead of creating some sub context out of everything?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 12:53 PM
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These guys just circle jerk without bringing an argument
/r/askTRP14/06/20 05:41 PM
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Read the sidebar of theredpill. It teaches you various techniques such as dread gaming, dealing with shit tests, tonality, subcommunication, etc. All these techniques are presented by experienced individuals within theredpill community. These are known as techniques. I believe that it's important to be purposeful, but you shouldnt leave a man dying in the desert. Let's take a look at a complete beginner in trp. His background is most likely pertained to his horrible experiences with women. Do yo…
/r/askTRP13/06/20 07:47 PM
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They're not answering the question. They're requesting that I do a paradigm shift. I want the public's opinion between the two, but all I got is some replies that I shouldnt be focused on these things.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 07:36 PM
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Search AMS on youtube. Hes the most popular redpilled dating coach that discusses this
/r/askTRP13/06/20 02:31 PM
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What the fuck is this. How much has this sub changed from a manosphere that discusses about female nature to primarily being 100% self development??? I've been on this sub for 2 years and female nature has always coincided with self development in TRP.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 02:29 PM
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Outcome indepence is most commonly misinterpreted. The idea is that you try your best possible techniques to adhere the best possible outcome with a female. It's only after the fact that it doesnt go in your favor, that you shouldnt care because you tried your best possible approach and it hasn't gone your way.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 07:22 AM
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Redpill focuses on the key aspects of female nature. It's a creates a realization of what it contains such as hypergamy,, the "wall, short-term and long-term mating partners, etc. The aspects of living without women are one of it's teachings. I agree with you within that aspect. But , I just want mere opinions on what they believe is the best possible answer within this situation. It's like AMS vs. StephisCold, where knowledge/wisdom clashes and you create the best possible situation based on yo…
/r/askTRP13/06/20 07:11 AM
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Good thing you are on a redpill forum that focuses on dealing with female nature. Oh wait. You dont care remember
/r/askTRP13/06/20 07:03 AM
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You are merely a novice at redpill. If you believe being too much of an alpha is in actuality redpill philosophies, you are also incorrect. The rational male also states a balance of alpha and beta traits is the most valuable male presented to females. Creating discussions like this, such as debating the philosophies of redpil, creates a healthy correction on what "wins" against female nature.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 06:57 AM
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I believe what you are saying is inherently correct. But, with dealing with women, we should have a outcome that creates the best possible scenario. You might see dreadgame as also giving in to female nature by "caring too much", and that you aren't building your value. I see it as how to appropriately deal with female nature.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 06:53 AM
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There are two friends in my circle. One guy is tall, lanky, and spins multiple plates. This guy always maintains frame during all situations and creates the most boundaries out all of us. The second guy is a short kid that gets less girls and never maintains "the frame" around us. Guess which kid tried to hit on the other's plate? If you guessed the short kid, you're right. If you constantly maintain your frame around friends, you aren't truly having fun and living the experience. Guys are also …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 03:38 AM
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Ahh, I get what you're saying. You use to agree to every compliance test your male friends have given you, so therefore it drops your value/place within your group. But, I believe most people have misunderstood what frame is. Frame is the "agreed perspective" within a situation. Politicians are amazing at frame control because they have to the ability to convince an audience to get on their side and fall into their "frame". This is more about doing favors for your friends and it causes them to a…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 03:20 AM
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Maintaining a frame around friends that you are close with should not be necessary. A close circle is meant to be a safe haven where you are suppose to share your thoughts and troubles around your male friends. Male friends are more prone in giving advice and logically answer your questions. Woujo also states that it should not be necessary to maintain a frame with males, unless it's in a setting where you are require to do so in order to maintain a hierarchy. E.g. your job, at the bar, at a soc…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 02:09 AM
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Okay, so I use to approach sets in public that are groups. The best way to disarm them is to create a "casual" vibe. Making sure your sub-communication is on point is also key. The best thing you can open with are situational non-direct openers. This means anything that applies to the environment, situations, etc.. that are currently resonating in concern. Example of situation non-direct openers for group sets: You: "Hey, have you girls seen a leather wallet laying around?" This brings in a high…
/r/askTRP10/06/20 01:17 AM
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SMV is subjective to the individual. If you are trying to get artsy bitches, then being "arsty" can be perceived as high value to them. This is because it is compatible with their interests and passion. And who the fuck cares if you are seen as a "fem boy". Raise your self-esteem and do whatever the fuck you want. The purpose of life is to be happy, not to make these bitches happy.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 12:58 AM
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It can be anthropology and what men subconsciously "desire". But, in this case, I believe men are too logical on what they like to disregard the idea the female is merely unattainable. They typically want a female because they appeal to what sexually arouses them. In this case, I believe OP is just a sadistic bastard that likes getting abused based on Freudian principles. He must've been abused in the past or dealt with females that are feisty in that regard The other day, I was in a PUA forum a…
/r/askTRP10/06/20 12:38 AM
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You care too much. When you are in High school, it is necessary to state that you are already dating other girls while you are trying to build a roster. This is due to the fact that females are not mature enough to know the aspects of the cock carousel and that they haven't fully experienced the 80/20 Rule. In college, female nature is more developed and they are more prone to creating rosters on their own. This means they most likely have short-term and long-term mating partners. If she's hidin…
/r/askTRP10/06/20 12:28 AM
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If you're fat and happy. Why complain about what he perceives as valuable? You're bitching about the wrong thing. If the guy is complaining how he doesn't have sex and that his life sucks, then being fat should be the problem. Logically, yes, it's unhealthy. But who the fuck are you to determine one's choices as unhealthy? If he's happy with what he has, then so be it. People come to this subreddit because they are unhappy with women, so the necessary steps to change it are laid out like a fucki…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 12:16 AM
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Men's method of conversation is mostly logical and serves the purpose of giving advice. Therefore, one can understand that maintaining a "frame" isn't necessary with male friends(except for setting boundaries). This doesn't go hand-in-hand in the work place, where you need a necessary frame to stand your place in the hierarchy. Women, on the other hand, create conversation and interactions in the process of it being an emotional foundation and also to create meaningful relationships. Therefore, …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/20 05:39 AM
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This put this in practical terms. Males exchange nonsexual attention for sexual attention. Getting a man's emotional investment, validation, and comfort is traded for just the basics of sex. If a man withholds more of those resources, it causes the female to chase for more since it is something you give away sparingly, it means more to the women.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 02:26 AM
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Once she sees that she can't be promoted, she just fucks off since that fantasy of locking down the "alpha male" is gone. There's no more carrot to chase. The shit tests she gives won't matter anymore since she realized that he won't commit either way.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 08:39 PM
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This post in itself was seeking validation from fellow "redpill guys". Yet OP realized that he was the one that fucked up with dealing with this nuclear shit test. The girl is hurting and you know she's asking for commitment. Show some vulnerability and give away some power so you can take it back later within the dynamic. There's no need to constantly think that you need to be the "Absolute Alpha" to fucking pass a shit test. This guy did the most alpha shit he can do, and what did it result in…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 08:29 PM
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Shirtless pic showing gym progress
/r/askTRP04/04/20 02:53 AM
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It shouldnt be the "goal", but a clear cut of how much a person is emotionally invested in you is based on those actions. For example, let's say a female constantly texts you and replies instantly to your snaps. It tells you that shes highly emotionally invested in you since her actions of neediness depict that she constantly is revolving her thoughts around you. Inversely, if she takes a while to respond and gives non-initiative texts, it indicates that her interest level is not high enough to …
/r/askTRP03/04/20 10:07 PM
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Make them more emotionally invested. Therefore, this means engage her emotions more(pulling her on a rollercoaster, new experiences, thrilling fun activities, etc) and also fucking her well is a good bonus as well. The thing is, emotional investment is the idea that fixates on a person constantly having their thoughts and emotions on a specific person. Thoughts and emotion create action and allow them to act accordingly to how they "feel". Remember, you cannot logically debate about sex, they ar…
/r/askTRP03/04/20 07:12 PM
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Personally, I set up shirtless photos as sex traps for a lot of female friends. A lot of the time, I have the benefit of them messaging me first and hooking up with me. I do not do this excessively however, but keep in mind that I use Tinder as well to keep my friends list on social media specifically for pulling girls through dating app game.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 07:10 PM
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I've dealt with a similar issue with one of my long-term plates. And by long-term, I mean we've been seeing each other for around 3 months. To give some context, she's not relatively that submissve and therefore contains a decent amount of alpha traits(she's the alpha female in a lot of her female friend groups). She would typically try to lead and suggest certain things, make sure you don't allow her to lead in any situation. She is not submissive because her interest level would not be high en…
/r/askTRP24/03/20 03:39 AM
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Emotional responses like these is what separates this community and creates these thread topics. Could you have not provided an argument that goes against his belief that most females practice solipsism? You cannot ever have a reasonable argument when the basis of both arguments stem from either logic or reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 03:03 PM
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He legit bought the drinks for her and has tolerated all her rude ass behavior. These are shit tests he could have passed but decided not to because he doesn't have the balls to set boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 02:54 PM
1

sometimes touching the little snakey will do the trick.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 02:20 PM
1

Learn some reading comprehension. It states the Redpill are aware of female nature, but they also know male nature is not that much of a brighter light.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:06 PM
4

There's honestly a misconception with this idea. Women do prefer guys that invest in them in order for the females to consistently be emotionally invested in them. Guys just realize that it is more so a power dynamic and you need to invest in 2/3rd's of how much the female invests in(Rolio tommassi's rule)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:54 PM
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Supplicating, giving gifts, doing favors for females, etc-- They're all indicators that a man is able to become a beta-provider for the female. They are showcasing the "nice guy" in pop-culture since they genuinely believe in that form of technique. Don't tell me you haven't watched any movies or mainstream advice on dating. It's literally spoiled with ideas such as buying her flowers, taking her out on expensive dates(even as friends before a relationship), complimenting her, etc. These are all…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:49 PM
2

there is no relative "Blue-pill theory" in this comment and observation at all. In fact, it is a bit red-pill when you state that women are just not attracted to look but also what forms of value you provide. I would say your view-point on the 80-20 rule is kind of misinterpreted. The 80/20 would state that 20% of men would get 80% of women. But, this goes deeper than that because it just states that the top 20% of men have the potential to get 80% of the women. These include men that consist of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:43 PM
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They offer the ability to be in relationships with the women in hopes of attaining sex. Women offer the ability to give sex in hopes of attaining the relationship. Different biological needs. One is to spread as much seed through using tactics such as displaying he is a provider, nice guy, anything that is relative to appealing to a women's conscious desires. Females use tactics to screen out whether or not guys only just want sex from them by having rules such as the "3 date rule", which causes…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:37 PM
3

Because it is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 04:48 PM
2

I kind of agree with you. But, I feel men and women have different desires in what they want later on. Their biological clock starts ticking near the end. Males typically want to spread their seed as much as possible to ensure that their legacy continues. Females want to find the highest quality mate to ensure their reproduction and survivability for their offspring. I think the general rule is this. The current girl you are seeing is the baseline of what you can get. You do not settle for somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 04:46 PM
2

hahahahaa, god tier response of disagreeing and amplification
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:14 PM
4

Dread game her. Show that you have other options available which increases her interest level. You also texted her everyday which means you lack abundance and the balls to walk out of situations that aren't favorable towards you. Set fucking boundaries with her, if she doesn't agree to them, she's not attracted to you anymore.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:11 PM
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Bro, they literally put you off center and saw you got emotional. Why couldn't you responded to that by saying, "You must be a big fan of blowing strong men".
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:10 PM
1

Drinking cold water can be known as "negative calories" since your metabolism speeds up a bit and it also makes you more full. Drink more cold water. And you already answered your question, you eat tons of bad food, and you have to stop. But a way you can counter that is doing cardio. You don't necessarily burn off fat when you do cardio, but you burn off calories. You can maintain the amount of food you eat, but if you incorporate cardio, you are actually in a fucking caloric deficit! Fucking c…
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:07 PM
3

Genuine question. Can you give us a case and point of a situation where they disrespected you? Like how was your response and how did the situation play out. It's better to understand your mistakes if you give us more context.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:00 PM
3

Looks fade. That's why this guy is swinging like a monkey as well. Bitch, we alphas are all hypergamous on bigger and nicer asses.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 02:58 PM
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You want something solid. That's your mistake. Women are never solid on what they find as attractive. One day your "unicorn" can find another high-value man and find him more attractive than you. Is that what being "solid" is? You understand female hypergamy. So why is this question so hard for you. She found your flaws and weaknesses, and she moved to another guy that lacked these flaws. No one is ever safe from women. You jumped from women to women so you know how fickle they are with what the…
/r/askTRP13/03/20 02:54 PM
2

The thing is there no specific way to be an "alpha male". Being alpha is merely the idea of having a healthy balance of alpha traits and also beta traits. Rolio's belief is that it is better to consist of more alpha traits anyway if you are unsure of how to balance it appropriately. Therefore, the idea isn't that you are an "alpha male", but rather contain certain alpha traits and beta traits that caters to create the maximum amount of attraction towards a female. Woujo's take is that females ha…
/r/askTRP13/03/20 02:40 PM
3

The only way you can raise your SMV is to do it for yourself, and not for her. If you get a breaking-point, you do not change your lifestyle because of what has happened. But rather, you are motivated to change because you dont want it to happen again. SMV is just not looks, wealth, status, etc. If your inner world/mentality is not congruent with your external value; it doesnt matter. You are already fretting about a girl that symbolizes a sun with all these fucking planets orbiting around her. …
/r/askTRP12/03/20 07:36 PM
1

You need to set boundaries with women you are looking for commitment with. Not because you lack the confidence of keeping her, but the idea is that you do not want YOUR TIME WASTED. For plates, you are promising non exclusivity, which causes for a non faithful committment from both parties. Is it that hard to create certain boundaries such as not letting her see her ex, dressing like a slut on GNO, etc? Boundaries keep her in check for her faithfulness, not in check with her female nature tenden…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 07:30 PM
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Wanna know a funny thing? Guys emotionally invest in females way quicker than females do. They tend to overthink every little text, message, interaction, encounter, etc. Whatever the fuck. But females are the complete opposite. They do not invest early in a guy since they are needed to screen you to digest your SMV/if you are high value or not. This goes hand-in-hand with hypergamy. And if the female is typically socially aware and good with people. Chances are there are plenty of guys out there…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 07:22 PM
1

We need more context. What do you think you are doing wrong that makes you emasculated/generate non-masculine frame?
/r/askTRP12/03/20 07:19 PM
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If you faithfully commit to a women which is perceived as "true love", but you are willing to satisfy you OR her desires of being fucked by other men. You are a cuck. You are not a cuck if you know about female nature and willing to not react to their promiscuous nature. However, if the female you are seeing promises exclusivity, but you still allow her to fuck other guys. It shows you have no balls as a man to create boundaries that goes against these situations. Abundance mentality is one thin…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 07:13 PM
1

You have experience with knowing dwarfs physical capabilities. Good to know you have a lively pornhub search history
/r/TheRedPill12/03/20 03:28 PM
1

Nice argument. Have fun curling 10 reps of 5lbs today at the gym
/r/TheRedPill12/03/20 01:17 PM
1

? It's a 10 pound fucking difference. Besides, I told you my main program for 2 years consisted of hypertrophy instead of strength building. If OP went on Nsuns his entire lifting career, he definitely could hit 275
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 09:16 PM
1

Okay. My stats when I was 5"7 and 165ish? lbs when I benched was around 265 lbs. I could rep 240 for 3 and can hit 225 for 5(6 reps if I'm feeling good that day). Have been lifting since 2017 on a consistent PPL first 2 years, then isolation, then Nsuns. It's doable, but my lifts are substantially lower than my bench press. e.g. only do 135 OHP for 5/4/3x3.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 07:13 PM
1

Hey OP, How did you manage her in your rotation? It seems that all that was provided and offered to her was sex. Even though women typically are the ones that offer sex after you give her non-sexual attention. Did you do anything to raise her interest and make her emotionally invest more like take her out on dates? IF you fucked her well, that's good. But if you offered her nothing besides sex, then you probably didn't help her maintain interest in you and she became a bit more rationale in dete…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 03:15 PM
1

Yeah. But do guys really watch porn for the story? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:06 PM
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I agree. Given the opportunity to, the man will cheat if not given enough sexual attention. They will even cheat if given the option of fucking a girl that's more attractive than their wives. It's just that they don't have the capability to. Men are selfish, Women are cutthroat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:42 PM
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High if she's into commitment/ finding a beta provider at an early stage of her life. Not high if she rode the cock carousel, hence it is obvious she is into dating. I believe it isn't that high in today's modern society of "not slut shaming" and alpha hunting at a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:33 PM
1

The research paper just concludes the idea that men consume much more porn than women. This is because men have much more response to visual sexual stimuli, which causes sexual arousal. "Specifically, men appear more influenced by the sex of the actors depicted in the stimuli while women’s response may differ with the context presented" Therefore, this enforces the idea that men are often attracted to women based on their sexual capabilities, looks, performance, etc. As opposed to women-- being …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:05 PM
2

Except it's not all sunshine and rainbows. It's not "marrying your class". It's having the potential to cheat on a partner in order to receive the resources from a "higher class".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 06:49 PM
1

I've already attracted her. The context is that I myself enjoy getting hickies on my body too. Not as a sign of ego, but it particularly feels enjoyable. I was wondering if theres any particular manipulation to the females hamster brain if they see these markings, that's all. Dread gaming is a form of raising a females interest. I am not more interested in her due to feelings, but rather how can I make her crazier for me
/r/askTRP11/02/20 05:35 PM
4

Good input, manipulation is just a women's social dynamic fun
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:49 PM
1

It's like in the grey zone. Are you an Alpha getting hickies by other girls or a beta? Some see it as getting marked, others see it as you having abundance
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:48 PM
1

They do decide SMV because it's all based on their preferences. Despite that, SMV is all forms of logical attraction. If the guy's relative honest signals are way "better" through the SMP; yes the girl will find you attractive. But, that attraction can overall diminish if it seems that there isn't a congruency with the guy between his internal and external values. AKA the guy is good with honest signals, but terrible game to seduce the female and therefore emotional attraction may be minimal/dec…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:10 AM
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Could have skipped all my mistakes. Your mistakes are all women mistakes(notice the word 'all' creates more impact than 'most'). AWALT You rode the cock carousel. You didn't want commitment early. You were more into the 'bad boy'; Brad pitt from Fight Club gave you tingles. This fixates the idea that media has pushed a fantasy setting in the female's brain where they are hardwired to chase down the alpha and lock him down for commitment. Younger girls are attracted to 'bad boys' because they liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 03:37 PM
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Nope. Lost my virginity as a highschool senior. Picked up Redpill, pua(rsd, dating coaches, etc), started self-development, read into evolutionary biology, practiced talking to girls at bars/clubs/college parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 02:07 PM
1

there are very strong ties between the TRP as it is defined here, and the alt right- which seeks to "red pill" its members on various topics such as "white genocide" or the "jewish question" or whatever Nazi shit they are peddling. You mention this point, but at no point in the red-pill community homophobia/anti semitism was a point of discussion. I've been vising Redpill for years and most of it's strategies involved the discussion of female nature, how to make yourself a "valued" man, and how …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 09:30 PM
1

When does correlation mean causation? How does a majority of redpill ideas correlate to political views? You're making illogical fallacies for your argument. Point in case, within the question is why do LGBT members lack Redpill qualities? Actually, a better question for you is why do most men lack Redpill views of female nature/social dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 08:55 PM
2

Nice straw man and nitpicking
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 08:49 PM
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Redpill men tend to be more stoic, rational, logical, etc. The general idea is that they tend to follow to rules of being consciously logical and not emotional. Traits that are feminine consists of being emotional, empathetic, etc. We preach principles of always handling our own shit over at TRP. That emotional decisions or actions that display that we are emotional openly displays that the man is not masculine, or better yet "alpha". To answer your question, gay, queer, trans people are mostly …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 08:35 PM
1

That's false, being alpha is playing by traits that cause for a women's subconscious desires. There are 2 selves to women: One self is the conscious self which desires a guy that is nice, funny, etc whatever the fuck they are socially programmed to like/attracted to at a younger age. At earlier stages, the women's conscious self could desire some more alpha traits since they are looking for less commitment. That's why there is the idea known as the "cock carousel" discussed in TRP. They tend to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 08:24 PM
1

Do you still have this study and may you share it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:01 PM
1

If you can get results with it, then it is effective. Most guys do get results like me, a socially awkward guy that picked up watching PUA content like RSD, AMS, etc. It's not about what the knowledge is necessarily, but how you use the knowledge is part of a person's adventure towards growth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 08:49 PM
1

We do know how effective pua is. Most of pua techniques consist of making your game, charisma, seduction better. It is mostly to get a female emotionally invested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 08:39 PM
1

No, I actually agree with you that men mostly just based looks for attraction and committment. But for females they look at bigger variety of things. And RSD is good in some aspects. If you're into female nature, male nature, social dynamics, evolutionary biology like me; you can filter out a lot of bull shit in their seminars
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 08:27 PM
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You are still arguing about logical attraction. Like I said, a guy's charisma, game, seduction can overall influence a women's overall attraction despite his given honest signals. That's why puas are successful at pulling model-like women. And you forgot most successful guys that are oriented to CEO positions/higher paying positions have more "alpha" traits which makes him more desired to be reproduced. A guy that is 5"8 but owns a small company that makes him around 6 figures will be more desir…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 08:23 PM
1

Then you are ignorant, read into evolutionary biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 08:14 PM
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This is black-pill theory. Women do not give a shit about your looks(height, masculine facial features, etc) as much as you think. If you were placed in the hierarchy, it would be dependent on your SMV as a man. A higher valued man has higher SMV, and thus placed higher in the social hierarchy which makes him more desired. You lack status and wealth too, so that's why most people preach that money and fame get's you laid. However, I'm not bullshitting you and saying you're at lost when you can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 08:03 PM
2

? You have this entire thing messed up. Attraction is just not based on looks. A women's attraction to a man can consist of other SMV qualities such as status and wealth. Looks is a major part of it, but attraction can gear women to focus on other qualities to see them as "the highest value." A beta-provider is not an Alpha-male that fucks plenty of women and then moves on without commitment. But, beta-males can just be an individual that is tired of the shit they have to deal with women. It's o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 07:53 PM
1

Jacking off you get off that excitement/arousal since it's triggering pleasure in your brain. You feel a sort of authenticity towards that orgasm since you have specifically chose to have a certain "feeling" from a video. Pity sex lacks creating the same arousal since there's not sort of "feeling" you expect rather than physical arousal from the penis. True true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:53 PM
5

Through LARPing
/r/askTRP03/02/20 05:45 PM
1

Vancouver Definitely visiting there now. Thanks
/r/askTRP03/02/20 05:36 PM
1

It's called a breaking point. Each breaking point you get, the bigger the learning experience you get and the more wise you become. Keep your head high
/r/askTRP27/01/20 05:06 AM
1

It lasted for a month. The only way I could have coped before I discovered this redpill shit was time. But looking back now with redpill knowledge, once you understand female nature and more about social dynamics it all changes your perspective on things. You constantly have subconscious thoughts telling you are beta if you fail. But, if you have redpill knowledge, you think more objectively about your mistakes. Such as "I was just needy and had a scarcity mindset". It ended since she told me we…
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:57 AM
1

Spent 7 hour skype sessions with her each fucking day. And also wasted a lot during the travel. Met her on omegle bro
/r/askTRP27/01/20 03:42 AM
2

I think back before I discovered pickup/game and redpill; I was in a long distance relationship and only skyped the girl. I wasted 200 dollars to see her in another state and only managed to slap her ass. I also cried about her when I dated her for a month.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 03:33 AM
1

Fuck it bro. Imma make my own book one day about this shit
/r/askTRP26/01/20 01:56 AM
1

I will venture and tell you my experience
/r/askTRP26/01/20 01:53 AM
1

yo you play league. what rank are you
/r/askTRP26/01/20 01:41 AM
1

nahh. they too exensive tho
/r/askTRP26/01/20 01:40 AM
2

Ok I'll try bro
/r/askTRP26/01/20 01:38 AM
1

Going out and night-gaming as well. Good luck broskie to the both of us
/r/askTRP25/01/20 12:18 AM
1

Nah, it's fine. You shouldn't care about approaching these sets as it's just your form of having fun. You creating a challenge and making yourself more confident with people in general by doing these small approaches. You have nothing to lose at all. Only thing is you don't want to have an agenda of closing with these girls you know. It's good practice, but from my experience approaching these women just causes for a 30 second bad interaction. But who knows, they might still be into you and give…
/r/askTRP25/01/20 12:06 AM
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Why are you getting mad at females shit testing you? Shit tests are a form of challenge a female presents. Women live off Alpha male vicariously through them defeating challenges. Women present shit tests since they are often the root of their insecurities such as: anxiety, rejection, etc. Shit tests come as a form of challenge whether or not you have the ability to deal with your insecurities. It tests your mettle and seeing whether or not your inner frame is congruent with your outer frame(aka…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 08:40 PM
1

Sounds like a nice case of approach anxiety. Talk to more guys, then a single set, and then that 3 set. You need to up your state before you even feel confident enough to approach and challenge yourself. Besides, you are cold approaching 3 girls sitting at a diner. They are fucking eating. They have an agenda and you cannot possibly pull unless you have wings around you. Next time be more logical with your approach. Not every girl is willing to go home with you on the spot unless you are Brad Pi…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 08:28 PM
2

No problem. I had a similar problem back in the day with certain girls that won't stay in my rotation. It was only a ONS. A common trait I recognized with those females is that they are masculine as fuck. They either have insane abundance, or they try and force a relationship from you. You just have to manipulate them back and let them see you as a beta-provider at times. Take them out on these shit dates like happy hour every week or so. Part of a rotation is giving them a day of the week to ma…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 08:20 PM
2

The idea is that you want to create an emotional investment from the female first. Yes, girls on Tinder are looking for casual hook-ups. That's why it's harder to create more an attachment since there's this rule on dating sites on "no strings attached". If you want women to invest and commit more time to you, start approaching women through day-game/night-game instead of utilizing dating sites. Opposed to that, if you are seen as too "Alpha", there are certain issues that can be presented. An a…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 08:09 PM
1

Tough love and good advice. But you forgot most guys here are spergs that have no idea what to do with a women. If a girl spreads their legs wide open, they will still question it
/r/askTRP24/01/20 02:21 PM
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Mystery is a concept that is commonly recognized with a female not knowing your intent. But, there are some cases where mystery can be recognized as how "busy" you are. Alpha males are mostly known as mysterious as well. Being "busy" can be known as not being needy with the women. Since males have their emotions, thoughts, and time available. A person that is noted as mysterious gives it sparingly to the women hes seeing. That's why when you arent needy, women contain that attraction towards you…
/r/askTRP23/01/20 08:37 PM
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This advice is stupid as fuck. The main purpose of redpill is also learning how to manipulate women back. There are masculine women out there trying to force relationships. A key method is allowing them to believe that there's a relationship in place, but you covertly display that you have other options to allow them to catch on. Openly displaying that you have other women turns them off. For example stating "I am dating other women currently" or not mentioning at all. I learned from experience …
/r/askTRP23/01/20 08:13 PM
1

Frat guys have the highest status in terms of Smv in a college setting. They are basically a group of guys on a college campus that have their own house and throw their own inclusive parties. They also have sororities going to these parties and also mostly hot girls going to these parties. So the average ratio is 1:3 guy to girl ratio at these parties. It also helps that most of these girls look to hook up with a frat guy since they are deem as scarce and high value
/r/askTRP23/01/20 01:27 PM
1

Slim chances > no chances
/r/askTRP22/01/20 11:12 PM
1

Fact of the matter is. You text her anyway despite her interest in a week. She will not initate plans either way so you have nothing to lose despite her interest level
/r/askTRP22/01/20 10:40 PM
2

How will she show interest? Shes not going to initate contact unless you do. In fact most women dont unless they have high interest. You have nothing to lose if you ask her out again. Theres always that 10% chance she agrees on going out with you again. Either way, theres also a possibility she was actually busy that following day
/r/askTRP22/01/20 10:10 PM
1

Smv is not fully depicted by height first of all. Factors such as looks, physique, money, wealth, etc all go into that(wealth, status, looks). Females are not just attracted to people logically based on SMV anyway Other than that, if you cannot enjoy clubbing then why are you going in the first place? It seems like you are just trying to hunt ass instead which makes sense why you're complaining about clubbing.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 08:27 PM
4

I want you to reread what you just typed and make an inference on why she will reject your advances when you talk to her. You haven't talked to her for 6-7 months after the fact that she knows that you like her. You haven't even tried to keep your intent to yourself, and therefore it ruins any interest at her part since she already received your validation. You are writing a whole paragraph of a singular interaction that went nowhere. No sort of escalation at all. You have told your friends that…
/r/seduction22/01/20 08:21 PM
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That height shit is annoying. I'm roommates with a guy that's 6'3 and the other is 6'5, they both lift routinely. And for context, I'm 5'8. We always go out to clubs/bars/parties together and we do pickup and into redpill. It doesn't matter shit. I pulled more girls than the 6'5 at these venues yet I don't complain. And only then the 6'3 guy in our friend group pulled 1 more girl than me because he is in a frat!! Stop putting this height thing into your little fucking head. It's so annoying. And…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 08:02 PM
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Let her bring up the idea of being an LTR. You want to act high value by letting her know you have other options. If you are the one to ask her about a relationship, it destroys that fact. Also, it will come naturally if you just take her out on weekly "shit dates" and fucking her right after. These dates are just restaurants, happy hour, etc. You want to reward her with some non-sexual attention when the only interaction between you and her consist of sexual attention. She is not winning. Rewar…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 06:56 PM
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I had girls meet up with me when they were super sick/had a cold. You think that's a reasonable excuse to not meet up with you if she's high interest? She's making an excuse to avoid hanging out with you since she has better options(friends/family members,etc inviting her out)/people she's more attracted to asking her to hang out. Try again in a week. An indicator if she's interested or actually just not feeling well is if the female tries to reschedule for you. For example: I asked a girl out f…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 06:49 PM
3

He is the only PUA coach that properly peacocks though. His fucking magic tricks and scarves are fucking ridiculous. Also, if you see how you controls big sets/groups, you can tell his frame control is also crazy. Other than that, he really doesn't display his intent in a lot of his infields. He just DHVs constantly and residing little to no kino at all. In all honesty, it's hard to follow his model to escalate and full-close.
/r/seduction22/01/20 06:40 PM
2

You cannot create attraction through text. You can only formulate a conversation good enough to secure a date.(Through using DHV, closing, logistical planning, etc) You can never simply hook up just from texting a girl, unless you are using tinder. Even then, unless you are a 9 in the looks department, you will only hook up with 3/4s on tinder at best. Don't go the easy way out and try and hookup from a dm. If you cold approach a girl, and your first initial approach/interaction is good with her…
/r/seduction22/01/20 06:32 PM
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You should get a therapist rather than some armchair psychologists on reddit. This seems like a crazy mental problem that you are facing. I highly suggest you get therapy as opposed to asking something this serious on a subreddit that focuses on female nature.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 06:21 PM
2

You do a recommendation then. I'm speaking from experience
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:10 PM
1

OP also has similar stats as me(big chest, 5"8, 165, 12% bf) and I buy a shit ton of clothing from ASOS.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:03 PM
1

Depends on what you get. Certain materials are not that much tighter, but accentuate your physique even more
/r/askTRP21/01/20 08:54 PM
1

I have similar stats as you, I would highly recommend shopping at Asos. They have muscle fit shirts that look really good in size medium. Plain and basic looks and fairly inexpensive
/r/askTRP21/01/20 08:33 PM
1

At first, your body starts losing fat in a caloric deficit. However, your body adjusts to the new intake and your glycogen starts stabilizing at that new calorie intake. This means you have to keep dropping in calories in order to lose more fat. This goes the same way as gaining weight. You need to either re-feed your body in a surplus to make your body adjust to higher calories to maintain, and then drop your calorie intake again. Or just keep dropping in calories/add cardio to your routine.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 08:16 PM
4

I have a lot of acne scars and stretch marks too, same situation as you. As for acne scars, it's really hard to get rid of them unless it's just hyperpigmentation. Box scars and deep rooted acne scars require chemical peels, injecting the scars with a specific liquid, and other extremely expensive methods that dermatologists try and sell to you.(Health insurance does not cover these treatments, the base treatment that was recommended was around 2k) As for stretch marks, I highly recommend bio-oi…
/r/askTRP21/01/20 08:06 PM
1

That explains a lot of things. Thanks. I'll keep that in mind and just flake next time to regenerate my health
/r/askTRP19/01/20 12:57 AM
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Ehh, I think it's fine if you see them on a weekly basis. It doesnt hurt much just fucking them once a week as opposed to flaking and planning it another time. Girls that are plates have other guys too; unless the female is looking for a relationship/heavily emotionally invested, I dont see a reason to flaking if you're not needy with her
/r/askTRP19/01/20 12:31 AM
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Okay, I'll keep that in mind In the future. It is a weird dilemma you can create more investment if you're with her(creating attraction with her with alpha presence) vs. Dreadgaming/flaking off(displays you have other options and shes not your top priority)
/r/askTRP19/01/20 12:18 AM
2

Okay thanks bro. I just bought the pills
/r/askTRP19/01/20 12:11 AM
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Yeah it's been tough with that shit. Cause the sex god method basically prays that you fuck them good and make them orgasm. Only accomplished it this week just using my fingers which is pathetic
/r/askTRP19/01/20 12:02 AM
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I'll definitely give it a try. I have some beard growing pills that contain zinc and any other minerals. Would that work as well? Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP19/01/20 12:02 AM
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Wasnt my claim. I claimed that looks are not the solution and key to a females attraction. Females have emotional attraction and logical attraction towards males. Obviously looks accompany the idea of satisfying a females logical attraction due to the fact that it's a major honest signal and part of the indications of one's SMV. And I used the world "All" since it brings more impact on ones post. It's part of a writing strategy that I followed through one of Hotep Jesus' books But if you read th…
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:54 AM
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what did he comment. I want to laugh
/r/askTRP17/01/20 08:17 PM
4

Explain to me what tactics I should be using then since you're an expert with women
/r/askTRP17/01/20 03:13 PM
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Now I understand why you suck ass with women. Actually people in general. Better yet, can you describe to me how pussy feels?
/r/askTRP17/01/20 03:09 PM
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Get the fuck off this subreddit if you think looksmaxing is the solution. Better yet, the blackpill forum will gladly accept you. If you cannot change the fact that looks don't matter shit all and isn't correlate to an overall female's attraction to a male, you don't belong on the redpill. This fact is also supported by the fact that you are blaming your "youth" for your lack of personal development. If you sucked ass during your youth, great good for you. So did all of us, but the most successf…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 02:56 PM
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Desperate for human contact? Do you think people's opinion on someone with the charisma, charm, positive energy, etc(like the rock) is judged as that person being desperate? You are too pessimistic about that idea first of all. Second of all, you are caring too much about what others think which indicates low self-esteem. Who cares really, you develop yourself as more of an uplifting person if you just practice this quality of sparking conversations with strangers.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 08:46 PM
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Find an older senior at your school that is a bit outgoing and cool with everyone. Most likely he has a friend group at home that parties often. Even better if you screen and ask what he does during weekends. If it fits the criteria of him smoking weed, partying, going to clubs, etc. Get close with him and chill. Dont overly supplicate and be needy though
/r/askTRP16/01/20 08:38 PM
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I was in the same position as you when I was in highschool. My solution was to find a good social group that goes out often, but get a good fake with you at all times. Your homeboys that get close with you will allow you to fuck girls are their places and they will act as good mentors. Highschool was more difficult in terms of hooking up, but there should be no issue if you ask a girl out on a date. Just learn some game and escalate. You dont need nightlife to fuck chicks
/r/askTRP16/01/20 08:30 PM
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Just maintain and control the frame. How I usually handle situations where females try to make you pay for simple shit, is that I suggest them pay for shit back. "Sure, but the coffee we are getting after is your treat ;)."
/r/askTRP16/01/20 08:06 PM
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Okay, I'm actually going to give you solid advice since this "virgin"/drought phase actually fucks up your head a lot. I'm currently in college right now, but I balance my life based on rewards and achievements. If you're doing well already in school, reward yourself by going out and partying. Humans are naturally social creatures and require social interactions to develop happiness. You need in a sense to feel as though you're in a "tribe". Do not stop lifting and studying. But, going out for a…
/r/askTRP16/01/20 07:59 PM
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Are you a girl OP? Seems like she's push/pulling you and you're letting your emotions turn you on. Read some books about not giving a fuck. Most likely you are occupying your thoughts with her since you're not busy.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 07:53 PM
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First of all, she didn't fucking flake because she was scared a "bitch" was peeing on her floor. She most likely had another guy, preferably one that isn't a pussy bitch like you, making plans with her and dicking her down later that afternoon. Secondly, it's the 7th date and you still haven't managed to fuck, let alone make her comfortable with you making out with her? Girls are mostly socially programmed to have this idea of the "third date" rule. Where obviously if you haven't hit base by the…
/r/askTRP16/01/20 07:47 PM
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You can never create attraction through text. Learn how to DHV through text, don't openly flirt and be sexual, keep the conversation as short as possible through text, and plan a date. Most guys follow the method of just creating logistics through text. But, guys are only successful by this method if they have good "game" and created investment from the female during the IRL interaction. Next time, focus more on your past rather than the present. What I mean is it's not that you're fucking up th…
/r/askTRP16/01/20 07:42 PM
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Guys this is a case of example where you should not take people advice on this subreddit wholeheartedly. Stop reading after you saying "holding his frame". Theres no such thing as an individual frame first of all so your comment is already invalid and lacks experience. Frame is an agreed perspective of an interaction. No man has an individual frame first of all. 2nd what the fuck do you mean share your emotions with a female if you want to fuck? Tell the female you like her which gives away your…
/r/seduction14/01/20 10:36 PM
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There are a lot of pros and cons to the messages mainstream media gives/promotes: For example, media pushes the idea that men should be able to display their emotions and drop that "toxic masculinity" agenda. That you should inherently be open about your emotions since it's not an "unmanly thing to do. Yet, this is a form of manipulation since the idea of correlating "self" to emotions is a form of self-esteem. If you constantly correlate your thoughts to your emotions and openly express it, it …
/r/seduction14/01/20 07:25 PM
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You are a god-send from this subreddit. I've been trying to look for you forever but forgot your profile name. Anyways, do you have any recommendations for any forums that properly discusses about game?
/r/seduction14/01/20 05:39 PM
1

Look at the comment I made on this post
/r/askTRP13/01/20 08:20 PM
1

No such thing as "your frame"
/r/askTRP13/01/20 06:57 PM
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Frame is the agreed perspective within an interaction. There's no such thing as "your frame" within an interaction, there is always a frame present but you need to control that frame within that given situation. It's not something you constantly keep within "you". That is merely just your own idealized fantasy you constantly have and how masculine you are(aka your values as a man doesn't correlate to your frame since there's no such thing as an individual frame). Frame is something that is to be…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 06:41 PM
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Is all your life just sex and women? Who the fuck has the time an effort to stalk every fucking girl in the class and based their entire life on it. You literally say that your life is fucking improving based on this place, but you miss one of the KEY principles of Redpill philosophy which is being able to live without women.. Now you are this invested on which girls are in your classes so you can hit on over the semester? Focus on your fucking studies. If you want your dick to get hard, get on …
/r/askTRP13/01/20 07:57 AM
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You're in high school so it will be harder to maintain that confidence unless you are fairly popular/ in a high SMV social circle. But, the main issue is that you are just reading and not practicing. If you deal with many girls, you naturally develop an abundance mentality. You cannot just attain it through just reading. You need to practice through dealing with female nature and learning they are not shit. Your confidence is low because confidence is merely the idea of how good you are at a par…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 06:16 AM
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For example I’ve been in small talk with a girl for a few days, displayed a little bit of sexual interest and today I asked her something sexual and she was repulsed. In most cases, this is because the guy hasn't socially calibrated and escalated properly through either verbal escalation or physicality(kino). First, think of it like this. If you somehow just begin with speaking to her in a rapport building way, and then jump into a sexual comment; it's like going to 0 to 100 Example: "You seem l…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 06:08 AM
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Okay first, you want to know she's using you as an emotional tampon. And if you truly want to fuck her, learn how to lead the convo and stir the boyfriend shit away into your frame. It's unattractive to her deep down knowing that all you are being used for right now is to listen to her bull shit ass problems HOWEVER, a good thing from this is that you know she is in a very emotionally vulnerable state. Meaning it would be relatively easy to hook up with her, but she doesn't want any emotions dev…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 02:56 AM
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There are three methods of getting women; and I agree that he is wasting time using these dating apps; unless he is also day-gaming/night-gaming there shouldn't be an issue. I believe if your ultimate goal right now is to fuck chicks there are only three methods: 1) Day-gaming / night-gaming 2) Social Circle Gaming 3) Online Gaming (dating apps) If this guy is so worried about pussy, then I see no downside to using dating apps to expand his horizon. He just needs to make sure he is hitting all 3…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 02:48 AM
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Teases are unappealing when there is virtually no sexual tension present. Meaning, if the female is not comfortable and you created no verbal escalation and just teased, you just come out as too creepy/displaying too much intent(allows the girl know that you are interested in her, but makes it a man vs. women relationship). Besides that the main point is you want the female to invest back into you/the conversation first by creating more rapport. Displaying similar interests as her and having a c…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 02:40 AM
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No problem. A lot of guys are also too fixated on shit tests instead of following through with sub-communication as well. So make sure you also are authentic with your ways of passing it.
/r/seduction12/01/20 02:19 AM
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You're missing the absurdity of the amplification part. You fell into her frame without the amplification which means it seems like you are answering her question as opposed to passing it as a test. "I will seduce you because I am a playboy" Where in here do you see an absurdity which causes it to fall into your frame? What you want more is something that doesn't admit you're a playboy, but something greater in terms of the amplification. "I'm actually the top model in my playboy organization." …
/r/seduction12/01/20 02:15 AM
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Posted this in another thread, but the shit test in this context is "Are you a playboy or something?": Shit tests are an indicator that a female wants to fuck you since she sees you as a potential mating partner. Shit tests = congruence test, she sees you as attractive enough to fuck and also able to having a seductive convo, but she's testing your frame and seeing whether or not your inner frame matches with your outer frame. There are many ways to past it, the easiest ones are just to agree/am…
/r/seduction12/01/20 02:08 AM
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This is shit advice. You fell in her frame by answering her question directly Dont follow this advice if you're reading it
/r/seduction12/01/20 02:02 AM
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This is a fucking shit test bro, it's so easy to past. Shit tests are an indicator that a female wants to fuck you since she sees you as a potential mating partner. Shit tests = congruence test, she sees you as attractive enough to fuck and also able to having a seductive convo, but she's testing your frame and seeing whether or not your inner frame matches with your outer frame. There are many ways to past it, the easiest ones are just to agree/amplify or disagree/amplify. 1) Agree/amplify: "I …
/r/seduction12/01/20 01:54 AM
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They dont think they are jeopardizing the family line since it's their innate nature for them to find and chase the archetypal Alpha male(one that is a short-term mating partner). Its part of their biology(hormonal cycles) to find what is best for survival. There is a link on folio tomassi's book that explains a female hormonal cycle changes what they naturally desire.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:16 AM
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You will never feel like a natural. You are a learned natural that came from the harsh hitting breaking points that molded you to a man. Don Draper doesn't feel like a natural alpha in his workplace, he still lingers on and thinks about what he had in the past when he had nothing; but the difference is he doesn't miss it. Don't miss your beta emotions, all it has done in the past was push you down on your knees. You will never feel like a natural as long as you linger in the manosphere.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 07:59 PM
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Fair and strong points. Nice comment
/r/askTRP09/01/20 07:51 PM
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Why are you tired of indifference/having a healthy abundance mentality. You are in control of your emotions and being rational. A lot of guys would die for your mentality in this subreddit. Don't change that just because you miss your beta irrational emotions.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 07:43 PM
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Humans are social creatures. You need to go out and experience in order to maintain not having a burn-out. Unless you are going every day of the fucking week, then why would you drop doing something for 6 hours maximum a week. You need something to entertain yourself with, or something you enjoy to raise your dopamine/hormones, or you'll end up in a depressive state. You are doing good with school, reward yourself with the partying.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 07:40 PM
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May I also join in on this. I'm really curious as I am in college atm.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 07:35 PM
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It seems you want to master indifference because you are too invested in the female's opinion about you. You care too much about what they think. “Self” is a nebulous concept, so you can think of it as your ego, your rational mind, your command center. Part of your consciousness that makes final decisions and is also utilized to evaluate when you judge yourself or other evaluations". Self-esteem” is a concept that is fundamentally based on one’s “self” connection to their emotions. It is also co…
/r/askTRP09/01/20 07:04 PM
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They are not irrational. Rationality is objective to one's needs and their ensured ways of survival. Is a women looking for an beta-provider an irrational way of thinking when it's their best way to continue with their family line/production of offspring?
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:57 PM
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Haha, if you care that much about how much they think about you after all these years, just hire a really hot hooker for the wedding. On a serious note, don't think about it too much. If you are really the butt of the joke back then, you will get shit tested a lot from the guys/girls in your social circle. Just past those shit tests and maintain frame. Hell, even give some shit tests back to the alpha of the group to see how he responds. You might need to encounter his shit storm that comes righ…
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:54 PM
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The world is governed by cold, impersonal, objective, rational rules. These rules are freely available for anyone to understand, but has shaped every individual’s world in their own image. Rational thinking is one's perception of the world and how the rules are governed. Everyone has their way of rationality when encountering situations since rationality is explained as you controlling your emotions on any given situation. Rationality is therefore subjective based on that non-objective paradigm …
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:47 PM
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Here's a quick tip. People don't respect the grind, they only respect you when you shine. If you want to visibly indicate that you increased your SMV and value through congruence (inner/outer frame aligning), bring a really fucking hot chick with you to the wedding. Female companions compliment guys the most especially if they are really hot. It shows so much about you since it's a form of preselection. They will be much more surprised at that fact rather than you just speaking/looking more like…
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:43 PM
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You're overthinking this. Just set up the date and see how it goes. Is it your first time getting a female's number? It's all a numbers game in the end, you haven't thought of the possibilities of her flaking, you not being able to pull, her just using you as a form of supplication, etc. If you're worried about this already, you will just post 10 more times about shit you don't need to worry about.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:40 PM
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Woujo states that maintaining frame isn't necessary to males since your main objective is not to find an alpha male. However, there are several instances that maintaining frame with males is needed, such as in the work-place, bar fights, etc. The way you handle it is that maintain frame however in a broader sense. Such as you being in control of your tasks you are given. You don't need to impress him/her, but you should not be placed in a position where he has say over your job/position. In the …
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:35 PM
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Yes, it is possible. The idea of going monk mode and silent is form of self-development, developing time for yourself through changing values or outward appearance. Females will see that you have raised in SMV and will undoubtedly change their perspective of you. However, there is a key factor towards this. If their innate image of you has been shit since the beginning(say you use to not get laid or visibly obvious that you are social awkward), it will be hard to change that since they are alrea…
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:31 PM
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It's almost like he's stating weed itself has allowed him to make those achievements LMFAO.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:23 PM
1

The kid is failing his fucking classes
/r/askTRP07/01/20 10:33 PM
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I think that's what most guys are confused on "women will come to you naturally". They throw choosing signals like what you stated, but they wont directly approach you at all(maybe in rare cases). And I'll check out that book, so far I'm doing good with women but always want to add more to my rotation haha
/r/TheRedPill07/01/20 08:45 PM
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Enforces the idea that you're fucking retarded since you didnt read the context of the post
/r/askTRP07/01/20 08:39 PM
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Np, I recommend you check out the seduction community. Not the seduction subreddit, but pickupartist forum, rooshv, etc. There are better ways to deal with shit tests
/r/askTRP07/01/20 08:29 PM
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First, I'm going to say time will come and you will get more experienced with dealing with shit tests. You will be more quick-witted and will over develop your sense of humor people will find funny and attractive. But, besides that usual 'time will tell' advice, the best thing I would do is start doing head exercises. In the pua community, there are several games such as: 1) Starting a convo in your head; Begin with a sentence, and then using the last word of that sentence create a new sentence.…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 08:24 PM
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Hahahaha, all I'm getting from this is that you fully utilize dress game/peacocking or peacocking theory. In my case, I actually agree with you that peacocking works wonders. I've done it plenty of times at raves/festivals and I always manage to makeout or finger a bitch there. The problem I have with this whole context isn't against your idea of what you should dress. It's more so on how guys follow the idea that you shouldn't approach because you're "a man of high-value and abundance, females …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/20 08:19 PM
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Agree and amplifying is not the only way to past shit tests from guys/girls. Read the sidebar broskie.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 08:15 PM
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You're fucking stupid. It's one of the iron rules, stop LARPing like a maniac
/r/askTRP07/01/20 08:08 PM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #2: "NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover." Avoid it like a plague and treat it like a shit test.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 08:07 PM
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I haven't got that question in a long ass time in any of my sets. It's mostly just "when's your last relationship" or "do you do this often (hooking up)". I feel as though its a shit test from the female to ask for the n count. But it might be an indication that you gave away too much power for the female to be comfortable asking a question like that. Think about it, someone that follows the "mysterious" route always flays away these questions and brings it back to the female where she can answe…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 08:04 PM
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If you're in college right now, focus on your grades. Your social life can wait once you known that your career isn't fucked for the long-run. Fix your grades first. Once you have done that, I highly recommend you joining a frat. It forces you to be social when you're a pledge where you speak to every brother and get through that familiarity of shit tests from other guys. Believe it or not, guys can shit test you as well. Learn how to properly hold frame when you encounter those shit test situat…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 07:53 PM
2

Mark Manson follows the topic of vulnerability. Following the idea of giving away power first, and then taking it all back and even gaining more power along the way by DHVing. Yes, you are validating a female and showing interest to her when you approach which may seem as a 'low-value' move. But, you have to understand that in order for females to know you are of high-value that isn't simplified to just external value such as honest signals, you need to start an interaction. Who gives a shit abo…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/20 07:46 PM
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I would say PUA does follow a pattern that mimics a red-pill mindset which is only visible through a male-female interaction. Red-pill teaches you the value of abundance, non-reactivity, holding your ground, maintaining frame, etc. PUA on the other hand follows through several techniques that follow that ground but by no means enforces these rules into your day-to-day life. For example: A natural red-pilled man would constantly not feed and give a female validation, but will still put in 2/3rd o…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/20 06:58 PM
1

Where did you get this from?
/r/askTRP05/01/20 02:38 AM
0

Then watch some fucking sports lol
/r/askTRP05/01/20 01:57 AM
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Retarded primal topics. Chicks, how hot chicks are, how you fucked this one chick, etc. Alcohol, how fucking amazing this one drink is, how fucked up you've gotten the previous night, etc Cars, how shitty/amazing your car is, etc. A big one is sports, even better if you disagree with their favorite sports team and talk shit about it. You shit test them and see if they are "bro" enough to be around and if they would be emotional to some stupid shit like that. Good luck and don't overthink
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:53 PM
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I've read red-pill before. I accepted its teachings and the ideas of female nature and to never take it seriously. Yet.. I still wondered why the fuck would I get emotional over the most stupidest things. It didn't even apply to women. People around me would constantly give me shit and I would react emotionally, sometimes even aggressively. But, then I learned it the hard way. If you fall through a hole of manipulation, you get these things called "breaking points" that forces you to internalize…
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:39 PM
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You won't progress as much as you did if you went to an actual gym. Learn to lift heavy and your hormones will reward you. I've tried working out from home and you just get too lazy.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:31 PM
1

Then at this point just wait it out. Talk to other women and try and find your replacement I guess.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 08:40 PM
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Depends on her attraction. There's a possibility she's finding a replacement for you if you displayed you lowered in SMV through neediness.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 08:37 PM
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Funny thing is just clubbed alone tonight. It's really not as bad as it seems. Just get really drunk and generate some positive momentum with some of the guy groups first. I noticed an easy way to build up confidence is putting some shades on and just vibining with the music. Some person will be down to just dance and you wont really be in your head with the whole "oh fuck I'm alone".
/r/askTRP04/01/20 08:13 AM
1

Women cause unnecessary drama Fun fact
/r/askTRP04/01/20 06:49 AM
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At this point think of it as this way; If she doesn't come back, do you care? She started as a plate so you already know you can easily get women/pull. You have to have that abundance mindset that if she does leave, you don't give a shit. If you do try and be needy and text her back stating your sorry. Would the relationship be really favorable for you? Would you enjoy her constant nagging, bitching, and controlling nature within the relationship? Me personally, I would not care if i lose her at…
/r/askTRP04/01/20 03:21 AM
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Yet you listed some of your problems were based on your physical attractiveness on your post. I don't get that reasoning. Women cannot fucking detect low testosterone. They don't go around looking at guys and say "yeah his T levels are looking low, I'm not going to approach them". T levels correspond to your confidence/aggressive nature though. Tics and stuttering are not alpha. But not all females look for just alpha traits. There needs to be a healthy balance of alpha and beta traits when you …
/r/askTRP04/01/20 03:17 AM
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No it means you ignore that she exists for a good week. Don't answer her texts, don't text her first, dont set up plans. No nonsexual attention. Only stop the soft next if she comes back submissive. But be wary, because sometimes it might be a bait.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 03:14 AM
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I didn't consider sub-communication. Of course, your chances of pulling no matter if it's direct or indirect increases based on your tonality, body language, etc.
/r/seduction04/01/20 03:13 AM
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At this point I think the best option is to soft-next. She was put in her masculine and the moment you made her an LTR, she's trying to control the relationship. It's also highly obvious she's insecure. Soft next her for a week. Let her constantly text you and let her remind herself that you were in control of the relationship. When you come back, let her know that you didn't appreciate how she tried to control the relationship with her insecurity. She will come back more submissive.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 03:06 AM
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Have you gave her any non-sexual attention? Or was it mutually sex based for the most part when she was just a plate.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 03:03 AM
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You promoted her from a plate to LTR. What has she done to deserve that?
/r/askTRP04/01/20 03:01 AM
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She's an attention whore. If you set up plans and she doesn't comply, she just wants validation from you. I would say let her create plans and don't show immediate interest constantly when texting her
/r/askTRP04/01/20 02:59 AM
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The idea is that anxiety relates to similar emotions to excitement. The adrenaline rush, increased heart-rate, etc. The only difference is your mindset before approaching women. All it boils down to is Approach anxiety and the fear of rejection. A trick is tricking that mindset into thinking that you are actually excited to meet new people instead of being anxious. Repeat in your head "i'm excited i'm excited" before approaching women and your mindset will change from anxious to excitement. Over…
/r/askTRP04/01/20 02:57 AM
1

So what do you actually think your problem is? Like what have you actually encountered that turned off a lot of women you have approached.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 02:53 AM
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Honestly, at this point don't focus on spinning plates with women and just focus on an ltr. A lot of uglier guys tend to follow through the beta provider route and I think it's the way to go. There are a lot of negative cons to that such as the idea of her cheating, hypergamy, etc. But, going the beta male provider route still allows you to still get a chick. You have to deal with it through a purple-pill mindset and pray your frame is good enough for her not to cheat. It's really hard nowadays …
/r/askTRP04/01/20 02:51 AM
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It is stylistic. If you are direct, but then know how to play around it by building rapport instead of constantly being direct through supplication, neediness, complimenting, etc; it's a good way to go. Indirect I would say is for much more advanced people and increases your chances of pulling. You are honestly creating mystery with your intent and playing around a specific premise when you go indirect. For me, I believe direct is good if you are honestly have good honest signals and fit a lot o…
/r/seduction04/01/20 02:46 AM
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You're giving me shit tests. I'm passing by misdirecting. Have a good friday night my guy
/r/askTRP04/01/20 12:06 AM
0

Yeah bro. Teach me how to bang traps
/r/askTRP04/01/20 12:01 AM
0

I forgot you're a LARPer and dont know shit about what a masculine women identifies as.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 11:45 PM
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Speak from experience?
/r/askTRP03/01/20 11:03 PM
1

I'll definitely check it out.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 08:44 PM
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Try uploading your lifts on youtube, social media, etc. The hormonal rush won't be the same after accomplishing similar goals. If you broaden it and maybe gain something monetary from it, it goes into making your purpose stronger and as higher priority.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 07:37 PM
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First of all, in relating your comment to Neil Strauss, he was in the complete same position as you were. As with many great pickup artists such as Mystery. All fucking miserable guys that either blamed themselves on things that they can't change. Yet, early on they have always forgotten to focus on the things they can change. Listen, nothing is going to fix your baldness or height(source im 5"8). But, the first thing you should fix is your obsession with women. You named your height, but you ar…
/r/askTRP03/01/20 07:08 PM
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I'm a bit use to it now. I still do appreciate submissive woman. But, the issue is that a lot of woman that are masculine can also happen to be hot.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 06:56 PM
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It's overblown as an excuse on why they're not getting laid. In reality, most girls don't give two fucks or don't even mention it when you are approaching them.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 07:18 PM
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It's a tiny bit below average. But, i'm just putting things in perspective on how I was 5'6 and I still didn't blame it on my height. Plus, I live in a college area where the majority are tall white kids
/r/askTRP02/01/20 06:45 PM
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They are most likely just joking around. The ass eating thing is a reference to AMS. Popular redpilled youtuber that takes girl's soul's(women that are vulnerable and coming back with a submissive state) and makes them eat his ass.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 06:39 AM
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I'm not going to give you all that pep talk about just changing yourself to be better, overtime results will happen, its just a number's game, abundance mentality, etc. But, there's a clear factor that you are very highly insecure about yourself and it shows. First height doesn't as much as you think. You listing you're 5"5 doesn't mean shit. I've gotten laid when I was 5"6 and now i'm 5"8 and I still manage to pull. Don't put that height thing over your head likes it's the end of the fucking wo…
/r/askTRP02/01/20 06:28 AM
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Its because you're a protagonist for a Hulu special. The drama was specifically made because you and your solipsistic head has made it up. Life fucking happens. Do you think anyone else in this subreddit hasn't experienced what you havent? They have. But they dont bitch and moan and ask why shes doing it to you. Shes doing it to you because she sees you have a weak ass frame and how do I know? Because she constantly does it to you and it gets in your weak fucking head. Grow up and learn how to m…
/r/askTRP02/01/20 02:19 AM
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Ehh, it's all matter of perspective and lifestyle I guess. Whatever works for any of us. We can subjectively say which one is better based on our results so we are biased for one thing and it's hard to change that. Either way, good luck on your journey.
/r/seduction01/01/20 11:56 PM
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Sounds almost like a specific species
/r/askTRP01/01/20 11:47 PM
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Fair points. But heres the thing on why I find it way better to night game than day-game. First off I dont revolve myself around women. I dont day-game primarily because during the day I have shit to do. I have work, I have hobbies, I have my purpose aligned. You are putting so much investment on picking up women when you are day gaming. Think about it like this; when you day game you have to get multiple girls numbers, and out of all the numbers you have to plan dates, have to deal with their f…
/r/seduction01/01/20 11:33 PM
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No. But, there is less bullshit to handle and only requires your game on point and therefore less time is needed to fuck.
/r/seduction01/01/20 11:19 PM
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No girl is going to fuck you a couple of minutes after the initial interaction, especially if it's just a date.
/r/seduction01/01/20 11:17 PM
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Day game does not require less time. You have to put in the effort to get her number and also plan dates. Girls also have been socially calibrated to only have sex with you after several dates aka "3 date rule". Also you have to take account that during these dates you also have to spend money on the female(follows some people's blueprint). The main idea of day gaming is not hooking up on the spot as opposed to night gaming. Also, I dont mind paying to get in venues because I dont go in venues s…
/r/seduction01/01/20 11:13 PM
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Haha no. Investment isn't monetary. Investment itself means time you are spending on an individual set--- which is way less when you night game
/r/seduction01/01/20 11:08 PM
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The thing is that the idea of vulnerability should not be taken to the extent where you are giving away all your power. Its idea is giving away some power, but then you are displaying your value much more high than it seems after getting it all back For example: when you approach a set, a good opener that puas may use often that displays vulnerability is something along the lines of: "hey, I know this might be completely awkward for you and me, but I just want to approach you since we could make…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 09:53 PM
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As much as your points stand strong. I feel like you're making too many excuses for why night-game does not work. Yes, females are there for validation. But, females want to hook up as well. All the girls in the venue wont be twerking on eachother and seeking validation. There are girls that sit by the bar and are waiting to be approached and hook-up. Why do you think GNO are a popular reference to the girl cheating on their boyfriends? Yes in order to hook up you need to be on your A game durin…
/r/seduction01/01/20 08:10 PM
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In my opinion, I kinda half agree that they are easier than 7 and 8s. In a neutral setting where both females of different attraction levels have similar interest levels. The 10 will be easier to game for the listed reasons. But, I believe 7 and 8s can be easier to game since they most often give more iois/choosing signals. They want to actively getting approached by you, as an individual, so the set is so much easier
/r/seduction01/01/20 07:58 PM
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It's crazy that it is this way. If you ever did a dating site experiment where you made a profile with a hot chick. You get constant streams of guys matching with you and messaging with you. I guess guys dont approach hotter chicks because their fear of rejection spikes the fuck up when they do. They get more nervous and approach anxiety is at an all time high. From what I've noticed from other guys and what I've done is create the mentality of never putting them in a pedestal. I really just tal…
/r/seduction01/01/20 07:43 PM
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Haha, I'm 5"8 and most of these girls are atleast 2 inches taller than me. They don't feel as though shorter guys are intimidated, but most of them are. All they say in their head is "wow this guy is way shorter than me." But, they don't overlook that honest signal as much as people think. Also, I believe that it depends on what you mean as "approached less". I believe hotter girls have way more abundance and options than most girls due to the attention they get through social media(tinder, ig, …
/r/seduction01/01/20 07:32 PM
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You've already lost the battle when you haven't started the journey.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 06:53 PM
1

I think this is more if a blueprint for night gaming. It's almost nearly impossible to pull during day-game. Which is why most pua content consists of only getting numbers during day-game
/r/seduction30/12/19 08:45 PM
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Really indeph and first time I'm seeing content like this. Good job and please comment more my guy
/r/seduction30/12/19 08:43 PM
1

The idea is that cold-approaching is moreso a numbers game. When you day-game and cold-approach; most likely you will encounter girls with little interest/middle amount of interest towards you. The girl's attraction/interest level she has will not enable you to have sexual intercourse with her. Therefore, most day-game approaches causes you to follow through the number's game plan(approaching an abundant amount of women). And then, scheduling dates with them prior to getting their numbers. Most …
/r/seduction30/12/19 08:22 PM
1

water might be wet bro
/r/seduction30/12/19 08:13 PM
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You dont roll off those nights. You look forward to the next nights where you fuck up less. Each night never guarantees a success. Dont go into nights thinking success equates to just success with women. Your main point of going out is to have fun, getting Ls means your main point isnt having fun, but hunting ass. Change that.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 10:28 PM
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Okay, you had sex with a fat chick. We get it. Now stop bragging and focus on fucking hotter chicks
/r/askTRP27/12/19 09:08 PM
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No problem man. Best of luck on your journey
/r/askTRP26/12/19 06:09 AM
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The thing about pick-up and red-pill is that pick-up teaches you game and how you can enhance it. Red-pill is moreso developing a mindset of abundance, a healthier lifestyle, frame-control, stoicism, etc. You need both in my opinion if you started off as shit with women. Like for example, your format is good but could use some improvement or added qualities. Negging is a form of sexual tension technique, but so is push-pull, emotional spiking, utilizing silence, etc. You can add so much more to …
/r/askTRP26/12/19 06:02 AM
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Listen buddy. I'm only 19 and im platespinning right now. I picked up redpill when I was 17 and only then i dedicated 2 years in reading only redpill, pickup, and going out to night-game with my fake id. Age doesn't matter at all. There are guys who are 45 year old and struggling to keep their wife in check. Everything gets better as long as you put in the effort to learn and fucking fail. Also, Merry Christmas buddy.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 05:54 AM
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One of my closest friends is currently a virgin and I'm giving him tips. He's actually about to lose his virginity. Believe it or not, most guys that fuck a lot of women fall into two categories: they are naturals or they are learned naturals(most of which have learned red-pill knowledge). The best bet to losing your virginity at the moment is finding an LTR and committing to her for a couple of months. Get all lovey-dovey then you can come back after having a breaking point(either she cheats on…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 05:51 AM
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I find teasing a good way to weed out people that are shit. If a guy reacts well to a tease, it means that he is outgoing and cool enough to match your vibe. Especially if he teases you back. Such as guys "shit testing" each other to see if you're sensitive or aggressive. For teasing girls you need to follow a step-by-step rule: Teasing is part of the steps of giving out a statement and also flirting. Such as this; 1) Statement: "That dress has a really Italian fashionista vibe." It's stating so…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 05:47 AM
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It seems as though you lack redpill knowledge. First read the redpill side bar and you will learn that you are breaking so many fundamentals. First is porn. Porn is fine imo, but don't overdo it. I only watch porn when I'm platespinning or have a women I can conveniently fuck. Also, you are breaking the rules of self-development just because you can't get laid? If this sub has truly helped you, you will learn that sex is not that god all-mighty thing. Work on improving yourself and try cold appr…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 05:27 AM
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She's a class A attention whore. If she really wants you, she would try and make plans and see what you are doing.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 05:21 AM
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For me, I have two social circles. One is where I keep all my close friends and males. I know they are close because I taught them redpill, pickup, and helped with their relationships. They tell me everything including what they are doing, current goals, how their plates are spinning, the "breaking points" they have had. This is healthy because it keeps up discussion and also they track your progress and gives you feedback. This does not include jealousy in this group of mine since we are all pr…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 05:11 AM
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Yeah. Use it after she shit tests you. A female shit test is also a sign of positive momentum/feedback since shit tests covertly indicate that a female is interested in you or trying to sleep with you. Also, even though it might seem kind of beta and anti-alpha to show interest within a girl(building rapport). But, you have to learn to give away power and then take it back. Don't go too extreme of DGAF mentality, that only applies to abundance. For gaming techniques, I wouldn't just use redpill.…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 04:59 AM
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Do the rolio's 2/3rd rule. Give 2/3rd efforts as much as she's giving. It places you as higher value subconsciously. Negging is also like talking shit in a playful manner. In pua terms, it puts your value higher than hers since its the opposite of putting her on a pedestal. Example: You: "Wow, you have a terrible sense of fashion." It's kind of like a shit test for women. Don't neg when she isn't giving you positive momentum previously. As I said, negging is part of the sexual tension of game. I…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 04:17 AM
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Open it tomorrow, but it seems like she knows what she wants here. Club hook-ups typically mean she sees you as an "alpha fucks". Also, it's an indicator that she might be in a relationship with someone else. Think about it, sex creates intimacy and comfort with the female. Typically, they feel as though the created a connection after having sex. Therefore, if she lacks this connection with the guy she was just intimate with, it means her emotions are with someone else right now. She has no emot…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 04:10 AM
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Humans are naturally social creatures. They need time with other people to validate themselves to feel as if they're not lonely. This is your primal instinct calling that you are lacking a tribe, a group of friends you can depend on. Let me ask you this, were you friends really your friends the moment you lost them after attaining some success? Humans are naturally selfish people, hence the idea of the selfish gene. My best advice is to first focus on creating a new social circle that is similar…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 04:06 AM
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I assume the girl is giving you heavy iois/choosing signals. Typically when this happens, it's in indicator that she wants you to approach and try and make the move. Regarding the venue, if it's a night club, she wants you to approach and try and take her back home. If its during the day and in a non-adult environment, she wants to try and get a date from you. Typically, heavy iois also let's you know that she will be heavily responsive towards your actions. Meaning if you speak and ask her ques…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 03:49 AM
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I know she wants me to be her short-term mating partner and cheat. Bu the fact is this happened previously, but she flaked on the previous meetup. So I'm getting mixed signs from her.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 03:40 AM
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Theres nothing to learn from bull shit sadly.
/r/seduction24/12/19 12:52 PM
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What is your point exactly. I just stated that honesty displays intent, which in shows gives away power. This is because if the intent is present with the girl, it validates the female since your agenda of "hooking" up with her is prevalent with the conversation What is your point of your replies? You're like repeating nonsense
/r/seduction24/12/19 02:00 AM
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Daygame for beginners is mostly due to a numbers game. Always assume attraction within the approach and since it's your initial approach, try and emotionally escalate and hope for the best
/r/askTRP23/12/19 09:45 PM
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It's not about whiffing. Too much alpha isnt good and you have to learn some social dynamics. Giving away power and then taking it back is part of game, especially with women that arent of high interest(which are women you meet in a daily basis) Yes abundance mentality is healthy. But that shouldnt correlate to you fucking up your sets because you should still put in effort and try
/r/seduction23/12/19 09:37 PM
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I would say honesty to some degree. Being honest about your relationship status is good, such as stating "I'm dating multiple women atm", or "I'm just weighing out my options". But honestly gives away intent when you are approaching sets and therefore validates the female throwing away your power. Yes, it establishes a Male-female relationship between you and the set. But, it gives away the mystery from the female part of wondering whether or not you want to hookup with her.
/r/seduction23/12/19 08:40 PM
1

Confidence itself does not come from thin air, or most pickup artists say "within you". Confidence comes from experience and most importantly positive momentum. Say you go out one night and then managed to get a lay. Your confidence the next day will be tremendous because you had sex and the dopamine gives you that high on wanting to talk to more women. This doesn't just go for sex. Talking to other people and creating positive reactions gives you positive momentum which inturn makes you more co…
/r/seduction23/12/19 08:26 PM
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Hey man, Even though the results weren't the best, the main point is that you tried. If you didn't try, you wouldn't have learned since you have committed no mistakes. Best piece of advice is never hit on a women during work. Their coworkers are around and they are doing their job. Therefore, they aren't in "state". Unless a females giving you hard iois at their workplace, don't even attempt it. Especially if she's a cashier you can't hold up a line just to get her number. I would say that you s…
/r/seduction23/12/19 07:46 PM
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A good rule to know is that dating sites are mating sites. They are looking for sex specifically on these sites unless you are 40+ years old. Even then, if a girl is trying to know if you are a suitable relationship material, the first date wouldn't be at the bar. Next time, look at what she wants based on the logistical planning rather than her dating profile. Like how many women say "no hookups" on their bio, and then they still hookup. It's called ASD; bios are a sense of logical overt commun…
/r/seduction23/12/19 07:28 PM
1

She wanted to kiss you more and you denied her. What does this ring in the girl's head. It sounds like the girl was interested in you and then you rejected it. G Girls need plausible deniability when having sex with a male. The alcohol most likely helped with her deciding the decision on whether or not kissing you was the correct option. Now she doesn't have that deniability on top of the fact that she believes you've rejected her. She also has plenty of options and probably went on several date…
/r/seduction23/12/19 07:09 PM
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Why are you so invested in a girl that you haven't even directly asked out for contacts? Like you are overthinking about this girl and you haven't even went out on a date with her yet. Pretend you are a girl in this situation. A random guy goes into your store, purchases something, and then intently gives him his number after her checking you out. What does this mean to you if a guy does this. It sounds like you were creepy and that your only intention was to get her number this entire time. Lik…
/r/seduction23/12/19 07:05 PM
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I'm around your age group and I can tell you snap closing/number closing doesn't mean shit nowadays. I go to college parties/bars often, and most likely a snap close means a soft next from the female. A good indicator of whether or not something will come out of the snap is if the female asks for your snap first or offers to give hers. Think about it, females nowadays have dating apps, social media, and swarms of guys asking for their numbers on a daily basis. You won't stand out much at all. Fo…
/r/askTRP23/12/19 05:56 PM
2

Attraction from a female is not determined just through looks. In order for a females interest or attractiveness towards you to increase, your game has to also be on point as well as you meeting her criteria for her general looks requirement. Based on that fact, you having the ability to create a date with the female means that looks is not the issue. The issue is your game and how well you seduce women. Think about it for a second. Women most likely flake during the day of the date because of e…
/r/seduction23/12/19 02:35 PM
1

I absolutely agree with you. The main part of going out to these venues is following the purpose of just having fun and living without women. How their validation should not constitute my night. Sorry, I was just emotional yesterday writing this post since I was at this venue where I received a decent amount of iois, but was wayy to hesitant to approach.
/r/seduction22/12/19 04:41 PM
1

The problem is also jealousy. I am lucky enough to have a friend group that also partakes in pickup with me and they all happen to be my roommates. Some nights I pull, they get depressed or also talk shit about how I got lucky. Other nights they pull, I dont express my jealousy, but deep down I'm like man that's so bullshit I tried my hsrdest. I believe it's all perspective. But yeah, it sucks some nights when you try so hard. I'm only 19 first of all and pickup journey has been amazing But I re…
/r/seduction22/12/19 04:38 PM
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Does it matter and why should you care? If she doesn't come back, are you going to drop all your values and stop gaming girls? You are not in a relationship with her. Even if you are, you losing her should not affect your mission in life and affect your happiness. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't happen and she doesn't come back, don't be faze by it.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 08:00 PM
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As much as I agree with most of the advice on moving on, not caring so much, etc. I feel as though its a bit repetitive. He asked a question, and yes the answer may be to move on. But, it still intrigues him and us(that's why there's so many upvotes). So why not just give a concrete answer rather than a simple move on and "you're just overthinking".
/r/askTRP20/12/19 07:46 PM
2

Definitely going to check that shit out. Thanks for the recommendation
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:29 PM
1

She has low interest in you
/r/seduction20/12/19 05:00 PM
2

Ehh. Most girls find emotional attachment to high value guys. In this case, OP is the high value guy since females will most likely only have sex with guys during the first date if he is perceived as high value. The female would be emotionally attached due to the fact that she believed she has found an Alpha male to secure. Someone that is relatively high SMV in her eyes and could by definition increase her value as well. Most cases, the female tries to force her short-term mating partner(one ni…
/r/seduction20/12/19 04:03 PM
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Nice comment history bro.
/r/seduction20/12/19 03:37 PM
1

There may be other reasons of course. But the forgetting the name part always fuck up my sets. It's so damn frustrating seeing you do so well, and then you forget the set's name. I might start incorporating remaining mysterious with the name part and only give it out later when successfully pulling.
/r/seduction20/12/19 03:35 PM
2

Definitely agree with the showing weakness part. If you show your emotions and lose that frame you have built with her. Her entire fantasy/reality of what she has perceived you drops. And so do her panties. This taming the beast archetype is so prevalent in female nature as well. That's why the most popular movies that females watch are those when the female has conquered a high valued male. However, that movie fantasy does not work in real life. If the women has "conquered" you, the chase is go…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 03:32 PM
1

There are too many posts on TRP that focus on hating women and female nature. It gets tons of upvotes and is over saturated.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 06:27 PM
1

It depends. Did she initiate or did you initiate holding her hand. How was her tonality when speaking with you? Did she shit test you and are you passing her tests? Have you known her for a while and have you taken her out on dates? IMO we need more info on whether or not she's generally attracted to you.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 06:19 PM
1

I feel as though the "major shit" you've listed should still allow you to forgive them. You will recognize that a female cheating is part of female nature. You do not solely forgive the female necessarily, but you should forgive and leave your resentment to the person. Moving on and learning your mistakes such as reading red flags, holding proper frame, creating submissiveness, etc is essential in relationships. If a women cheats, you must have lacked something and forgiving will enable you to b…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 08:21 PM
3

In your way of viewing the SMV, aka social market value; things such as looks, wealth, and career are all forms of external value. Things you obtain either through genetics, achievements, and hard work and dedication. However, SMV is not just determined through external value. Internal value consists of having character traits and an alpha mindset such as abundance mentality, discipline, and grinding for your purpose. When you are interacting with a female in particular; yes money, and looks pla…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 07:57 PM
1

I also find it to be possible if the girl is looking for a relationship/provider. Most females view the guy as a possible mating partner through nonverbal communication(iois, body language, kino). A logical discussion about partner interests does not turn a women on and usually just something that is platonic and friendly.
/r/seduction16/12/19 07:46 AM
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Yes these women are attention whores. They get a kick out of getting nonsexual attention from guys they arent interested in since they are addicted to validation. Most of these girls love teasing, have a bunch of sexy pictures on social media with thirsty guys in their comments, and usually have a lot of orbiters. I would say the best way to weed them out and be direct with your intentions on planning a date with them when they actually give you their number. If they flake, make up excuses not t…
/r/seduction16/12/19 07:44 AM
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For me, the best relationships in my opinion are when the female are really submissive to you. That way you can have sex whenever you want and kind of dictate the relationship. Most girls that become submissive for the relationship are usually girls I already have fucked and then begged me on multiple dates. So try and fuck a girl that has a high attraction level for you. It should be easy then and would require minimum effort in creating a relationship.
/r/seduction16/12/19 07:41 AM
1

What are you specifically looking for? Sleeping with multiple women,, one night stands, making more female friends? Attraction at its basis is an art of seduction. This art consists of many factors including internal and external development. External development consists of creating better honest signals, better charisma, and how well you spit game. Internal development consists of creating an abundance mindset,, the value of persistence and how key it is to your growth, and how willing you are…
/r/seduction16/12/19 07:23 AM
1

I fully agree that TRP is moreso a mindset that adapts the best possible way in dealing with female nature and a feminized society. It follows these stoic principles that enables men to be more rationale and living a life full of purpose. Most posts on the redpill now consist of men getting butthurt about women when the main principles of redpill is not letting a women put you off center.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 01:43 AM
1

Yeah I did fuck. I was just in this dilemma of whether or not to still reward her or not.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 01:05 AM
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Focus on just maintaining a non needy masculine frame. Seductive, tentative, and not talking too much. Last thing the female needs is some guy to blab on about their life and try and force an attachment even if you arent trying to. She is on tinder to fuck, and she recently broken up with her boyfriend. She doesnt need to deal with emotions right now and shes vulnerable. Just put on a movie, deepen your voice, and physically escalate.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 08:38 PM
3

They are ignorant because they dint have guidance. Media and society has pushed a more emasculated society, so it also causes the men to take less action and obtain more feminine traits. Redpill itself focuses on learning about female nature and adapting to it through have the best possible mindset and situation. The media being more of a feminine society doesnt like redpill because it follows emotional basis rather than a foundation of proven facts and human nature.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 08:36 PM
1

Yeah man it happens, you're young too so of course you are not use to making out with girls and talking to them yet. Getting drunk helps a lot with anxiety, as you get more comfortable you will need less and less alcohol to talk to chicks
/r/askTRP11/12/19 05:02 PM
1

It's just nervousness and anxiety. Anxiety is an emotion that is closely related to being excited. So when you encounter these anxious situations, repeat to yourself "I'm excited" over and over again. It will ready your state up. Also, talking to people helps a lot at parties. If you start talking to other guys, your confidence goes up because of the positive social momentum. Good luck broskie
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:54 PM
1

I dont care if I get dinner with her or not I'm fine with or without I'm trying to figure out is it worth giving her validation that night since it might depreciate the emotional investment
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:28 PM
0

This is the almost exact blueprint of AMS guide to club game
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 05:09 PM
1

Though its healthy to have that abundance mindset and to pullback when a girl gives you an ultimatum. I feel as though you could have kept spinning the plate and lead her on a bit more. Explaining your decisions on why you sleep with other women may have turned her off. You should have subjected to passing that committment test through giving maybe answers. As AMS says, "I'm looking to committ for a women. Just need to weigh out my options." I wonder how strong your frame was when you were with …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 03:13 PM
1

SMV is not solely just based on looks. You can determine your own SMV number through the basis on how you put yourself as a man. This is especially true through holding a frame within the female-male interaction. You shouldn't base getting laid and throwing boundaries just because the guy is more logically attractive.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 07:28 AM
0

Youte good. I cant differentiate the newbies and people who actually know their shit on this subreddit. Some guy didnt even know what a beta provider was and It questioned my insanity
/r/seduction22/05/19 07:22 PM
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Shes outright getting a kink out of making a mock of you as a man. She literally is validating herself for her own pleasure, making you elicit an emotional response. She got what she wanted. This is not a shit test. Shit test in pickup terms are vital in approaching women and one of the fundamentals of attraction. They are a test of a person sexual market value and specifically their frame(it goes broader than that). Examples include: "You're just a guy that sleeps around with everyone I bet." T…
/r/seduction22/05/19 07:09 PM
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Because you've never went out and talked go a girl before. Ask any guy that has intermediate success and has actually went out on a weekly basis to cold approach what shit tests are. Dont be ignorant and fucking downvote just because you're still a virgin at 27
/r/seduction22/05/19 07:02 PM
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That's not what a shit test necessarily is. Shit tests are one of the fundamentals of attraction.
/r/seduction22/05/19 06:31 PM
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Thank you so much for the exposure
/r/seduction22/05/19 06:00 PM
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Yeah it sucks how this upvote system works. While your post is good at powerbuilding, sometimes its frustrating when actual content that is posted here gets less recognition than it deserves.
/r/seduction22/05/19 05:49 PM
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At least you the abilities to acknowledge that this women is chaotic, even showing major red flags that you can point out. Try and secure your assets and save your ass before she fucks you over as well. Or, there can be methods where you drop her down as a plate and wont face the negative emotional effects. Best of luck with dealing that type of manipulative personality.
/r/seduction22/05/19 05:42 PM
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Sorry this took long to replay, but you are almost entirely correct. Within the Rational Male, Rollio Tommasi simplifies the idea that: Within both sexes, they often need an initial spark to create that soul-mate idealization For men, it can be the first woman to become sexual with him or the one who best exemplifies a woman he (mistakenly) believes can love him in a male definition of "love". Ideas such as iconography, or prototypes of what you believe is your ideal female companion heavily eff…
/r/seduction22/05/19 04:53 PM
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I'm a bit salty. The post I created which gives in depth detail about oneitis through hardcore research has no sort of pop at all. It's almost like seddit is filled with novices and newbies that get karma farm because they either approached a girl for the first time, or is power building after a girl ghosted them. No wonder reddit sucks shit with girls lmfao
/r/seduction22/05/19 04:37 PM
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What do you mean by win? Do you mean they win you ekotionally?
/r/seduction22/05/19 02:09 AM
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You first realized that there is a possibility to receive ONEitis from this particular girl again. That is a good step. But, you have to create steps for you to read into emotional investment. Then recognize that emotional investment in itself is the safety and comfort you receive from a girl through sex and high levels of hromones(Oxytocin, dopamine). Next specifically do activities that might either stimulate these emotions and hormones, create and talk to more girls that offer sex and intimac…
/r/seduction22/05/19 01:36 AM
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Ask yourself, are you gaining anything in the current relationship you're in. Like my post said, if the relationship is perfectly healthy and balanced, dont rid yourself of it. Otherwise, create this abundance mindset. Speak to more girls and distract yourself with other females in return. You arent just obligated to a specific girl which often is the root of oneitis. This scarcity mindset often occurs and validates your catch as a perfect emotional investment. Once you recognize that oneitis is…
/r/seduction21/05/19 11:32 PM
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Dress like a man with fashion sense and style. That is obvious advice that most men dont take and often women give. What most people dont realize is that women are attracted through their emotions. Dressing like a stud but acting like a fuckwit that cant escalate will give you the same results as dressing like a homeless person
/r/seduction15/05/19 05:38 PM
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Direct openers are the best for beginners. You can also however use observational or situational openers which often or not creates better rapport for the interaction in the beginning.
/r/seduction15/05/19 05:18 PM
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I agree. Women do not know what necessarily attracts them most of the time. Advice such as "wear a black shirt" will not get you laid
/r/seduction15/05/19 05:08 PM
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First and foremost, I believe many of the advice in this thread is good interms of slight bits of logistical attraction and proper subcommunication(wearing good clothes, eye contact, etc). What I want to differentiate is that you are most likely facing friendzoned or friendliness nature since women arent attracted to your frame. So to fix this, create a frame that is more masculine and sparks attraction within the female counter part. Emotional conquest is a big factor in achieving that masculin…
/r/seduction15/05/19 05:02 PM
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I feel most asian men are emasculated due to cultural differences. A more introverted lifestyle can often correlate to less masculine features, and therefore less attractive to women in general. Lifting, putting yourself out there, learning social dynamics, dressing well, and then putting yourself out there is attractive for all races and is not limited to just asians. Good post overall.
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:37 AM
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Indeed, I fully now believe that the most exploitable women are those that were hurt in the past. I was in the middle between reaching this conclusion. But, TRP was correct on this.
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