Gauging sexual desire?

IXseed · 2020-01-13T05:03:15+00:00

Get her out on a date in person, isolate and escalate.

If she won't let you escalate or if you can't even get her isolated you have your answer.

Be upfront with your intentions. Don't waste time in small talk. If a girl finds you sexually attractive she wants something to happen right away.

Retstortion · 2020-01-13T04:58:55+00:00

If she’s repulsed that’s all you need to know..

They are open to fun with men they find attractive. They make betas wait

WIA20XX · 2020-01-13T06:04:47+00:00

I only do it in person. Online has too many problems.

Escalate, evaluate, calibrate.

RacistMuffin · 2020-01-13T06:08:55+00:00

For example I’ve been in small talk with a girl for a few days, displayed a little bit of sexual interest and today I asked her something sexual and she was repulsed.

In most cases, this is because the guy hasn't socially calibrated and escalated properly through either verbal escalation or physicality(kino).

First, think of it like this. If you somehow just begin with speaking to her in a rapport building way, and then jump into a sexual comment; it's like going to 0 to 100

Example:

"You seem like travel a lot and have crazy experiences".

(This is cold-reading and a form of rapport)

But then, jumping from that comment to something like:

"Babe, I believe I'm too experienced for you so we may never work out"

Form of flirting, highly emotionally engaging/sexual

It's from 0 to 100 and isn't fucking socially calibrated.

Here are some tips to making your flirting technique better so the female doesn't find it "repulsive":

1) Learn how to compliance test. Compliance tests are a way to see how much a female is invested in you. Bigger compliance tests such as asking her to change venue when you are interacting with her allows you to know how much investment she has with you

2) Make it more socially calibrated in terms of flirting. You going 0 to 100 is an issue. Instead, flirting should be a ladder of steps that go from a statement --> tease --> flirting

Of course the context of this ladder should be sentences that gauges the emotion

Statement: "You seem like you travel a shit ton, that's interesting."

Teasing: "You must be into crazy experiences since you've ventured across the fucking world."

Flirting: "Since you travel around a lot, our relationship wouldn't work because I love good girls that stay put."

3) Never ask something sexual to a female. Just like you never speak about sex, religion, politics, etc. Sexual questions displays your intent and is too logical. They also don't engage the emotions since it being logical can destroy sexual tension. That's why sexual innuendos and double entendres are good in teasing the female and getting her emotionally invested.

Example: "Are you good in bed?" or "How many sexual partners have you had?" BAD BAD BAD

Intent is the idea that it creates a man vs. women relationship between the set and you; but it destroys any sexual tension since she knows that you want to fuck her.

Instead, follow the idea of "premise" which is creating a man vs. female relationship through letting her guess whether or not you want to fuck her. This is evident through ideas of push/pull, emotional roller coasters, etc. Make sure she has to keep guessing whether or not you are actually interested in her or not. That's why supplication and validating females don't work. Because it ultimately allows the female to know that you are just doing simpy shit to fuck her which is the biggest reveal of your intent.

wtfdoiaskfor1 · 2020-01-13T06:43:00+00:00

I'm on mobile right now but I can't believe nobody has quoted Pook yet:

Trust the gut

When you're served a plate of a hot, delicious meal, all your senses scream "eat it". Same goes for the ladies. Trust the gut

Title	Gauging sexual desire?
Author	AboveAll2017
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	January 13, 2020 4:58 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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