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Yeah I agree. In this case I was way less of a stoner than the girl (I smoke weekly, she smokes daily) so wasn’t afraid she’d think I’m the idiot stoner. But I wouldn’t ever be high with someone who isn’t also. So did you permanently quit after 15 years?
/r/seduction07/08/21 04:58 PM
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Idk if it’s about the money tho, we’re in California where legal weed is cheaper than alcohol at bars so this was way less expensive than a regular date. Plus she had her own weed too, I just offered. But the weed killed the romantic vibe
/r/seduction07/08/21 01:03 AM
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I have my electric guitar hanging on the wall, so guests see that I'm musical. Whenever a girl has come over and asked me to play something and I take it down and hit some John Mayer or some blues, it's usually game over at that point lol. Also interesting books, if she asks about some of them you can discuss the ideas of a book for hours. I also have a periodic table of elements on the wall because I'm a nerd and proud of it. The key point here is that your place needs to be a good reflection o…
/r/seduction30/12/19 12:36 AM
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Say open ended statements, not questions
/r/seduction12/04/17 03:55 PM
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Dress well, not many other dudes will know how to do this at your age (check the male fashion advice Reddit). Make sure to join interesting groups or clubs that you'll love being a part of. Girls are attracted to passion/success
/r/seduction12/04/17 03:54 PM
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Hey bud, you sound similar to me. I'm 24, a giant nerd, extremely focused on my career/job/skills/education, and used to get laughed at by the girls in high school. I've slept with 2 escorts and 12 other unpaid girls and I'll try to tell you NOT to do it. This won't solve your intrinsic problems. You aren't upset that you're a virgin and simply haven't had sex. You're upset because you falsely believe women don't want to have sex with you. And after you sleep with an escort and you see first han…
/r/seduction12/01/17 09:43 PM
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i respectfully disagree having experienced both escorts and non. having sex with someone who intrinsically wants to do it with you (instead of just wanting the money) is a completely different experience
/r/seduction12/01/17 09:32 PM
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I know EXACTLY what you mean. My crew of best friends always makes me feel that way, like itd be terrible to mess up in front of them. My advice is, keep your friends as friends, but minimize going out with them at bars full of hot girls. Find other friends to sarge with. Different friends are good for different types of activities :)
/r/seduction30/12/16 04:24 AM
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I do strategic analytics (customer segmentation, market analysis) for one of the mega-startups in silicon valley. I just got the book a few hours ago and read the intro, seems like it's going to be an awesome read! I was actually just on a tinder date a few nights ago with a girl doing a PhD in sociology and we got into this deep discussion about data and the online dating world. So she recommended Christian Rudder's blog to me, and then I later also saw your post so I had to get the book myself…
/r/seduction08/05/16 12:51 AM
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Dataclysm seems like an awesome book! I'm actually in the data analytics world myself and am thinking about buying it for this weekend. What are some things you'd say you got out of reading it?
/r/seduction06/05/16 09:28 PM
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You're right man, thanks!
/r/seduction26/04/16 06:47 AM
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I ended up going for it and it worked! Might have a date with this chick in the next week. Thanks brotha
/r/seduction26/04/16 06:46 AM
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this is great!
/r/seduction23/04/16 05:06 AM
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Awesome story bro. I had such a similar experience with traveling around the world and opening up. Those experiences you had in Columbia and Panama are really what life is about. Cheers!
/r/seduction23/04/16 04:09 AM
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this man is right. focus on yourself 100% - then see how it is in 6 months or a year. you wont get anywhere by dwelling on it, only in a worse situation
/r/seduction01/12/15 09:42 PM
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one up her on the DGAF scale
/r/seduction01/12/15 09:40 PM
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no not really, but focus on what youre passionate about - probably computer programming or something. remember that the more you dwell on her the less attractive you will become it's too early. but could lead to you getting laid and less rent so fuck it, just do it. you need to get as much experience at this age as you can even if it will lead to heartbreak which will make you better good luck bro
/r/seduction01/12/15 09:40 PM
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There's no way you can possibly get her back by being needy/desperate to get her back. Right now you just need to 100% focus on improving yourself and get your confidence up. Whether that's gym, career, school, hobbies, just try to be a boss in everything you do right now and learn to love yourself. If you ever do get her back after this fucked up shit, the only way that would happen is if you truly moved on and improved yourself independently and things calmed down years later and it worked out…
/r/seduction20/04/15 06:52 PM
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agree, read models!
/r/seduction20/04/15 06:50 PM
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go to a bar close to your place for some drinks, be a good conversationalist and then back to your place!
/r/seduction20/04/15 06:37 PM
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strongly agree with this. moving to different locations and seeing different things is always good. don't fuck up like i did last week by choosing a shitty neighborhood to walk around in though!
/r/seduction20/04/15 05:54 PM
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This was a great post for here. I feel the same way you feel about drawing when I play guitar, even when I'm just jamming alone. It's awesome to enjoy yourself when you know you're also being productive and improving yourself.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:51 PM
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once you bone the same girl many many times it becomes wayy better
/r/seduction22/03/15 11:02 PM
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You're talking straight House of Cards talk right now. I like it.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 11:44 PM
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I honestly think she acts like this sometimes because she is attracted to me though. Seriously. Just curious, how do you think getting female coworkers attracted to you can help in a professional goal-oriented way?
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:57 PM
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I'll beat her at this game, don't worry.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:53 PM
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Lol I got a solid laugh out of your interpretation of how she heard my request in her head (probably 100% true knowing this girl). All good advice though.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:52 PM
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Yeah definitely, I've been keeping all these messages (pings) in a word doc in case I ever need to defend myself with evidence haha. Good stuff
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:47 PM
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You're probably right about the phone thing, good advice.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:46 PM
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Jealous bitches, of course they would try to get them banned. Good strategy on your part though.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:40 PM
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First off, you should have banged the mom dude, would have been an epic story for the books. Secondly, thanks for your service (assuming you're American here?). Thirdly, I hope to have a lesbian friend like that one day. It's probably pretty cool to hang with a girl without the bullshit lol
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:39 PM
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Solid point man, thanks. I'm also keeping all the things she IMs me in a word doc in case I ever need evidence haha
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:35 PM
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e You're right. Although that quote is exactly what she deserves to hear, keeping it professional is always in our best interest in these situations.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:34 PM
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That's actually something that I brought up to her later. There's no way she would ignore our bosses and go on her phone when she had a meeting with them but she just treats me differently and it's bullshit. But then all she could talk about was the "tone" in which I told her to put the phone away. Thinking that disengaging the friendship might be my best route here. Thanks for the advice bro.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:32 PM
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I like that phone thing and will definitely use it sometime. The office switch trick would be good if anyone had offices around here but we work in an open seating setup haha
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:29 PM
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Very good point. I'm a little new to this Red Pill thing, but what is Powertalk? Other than my assumption that it means talking without emotions or personal matters.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:26 PM
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"Cold and clinical in your interactions" Reminds me of Frank Underwood. And when I act like Underwood it always leads to success.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:22 PM
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That's some golden advice, thanks brotha.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:17 PM
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person. One point in the context you are missing: the meeting was only me and her (our manager set it up so she would give me some info I needed). So when I was forced to be in a 1-1 meeting with her and she starts ignoring me to text people and then starts telling me about her texts, I felt the need to tell her to put the phone away. I probably should have just done it in a more professional way as others on here posted.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:13 PM
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This is what my friends and I call an asshole ripping
/r/seduction12/01/15 11:10 PM
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thanks for the really solid advice, you are absolutely right about this. a couple days after reading your comment i really applied it and realized this one instance isn't going to make or break me. time to work on that inner game
/r/seduction10/01/15 08:24 PM
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very good advice, thanks man. i will do this
/r/seduction10/01/15 07:55 PM
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don't worry about the haters man, i appreciated it!
/r/seduction10/01/15 07:34 PM
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Amen brotha. Thanks for the post, needed that right now
/r/seduction08/01/15 02:18 PM
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Interesting. I work at a consulting firm and hooked up with a female coworker this past weekend. She was very concerned that if people found out, she would be labeled as a slut and taken less seriously while I would be looked at as more of a boss. What do you guys think of this?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 06:21 AM
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Great point my man. I have a question for you though. Specifically, how did you change your behavior at the moment you realized you should be independent? Like, what did you do or say that you weren't doing or saying in the first part of the date?
/r/seduction16/10/14 05:13 PM
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It's true that there's very much a dichotomy between these two sides of the seduction community and I've also been a bit confused on which one to choose. Here's my advice, try both of them. As Manson suggests, invest in yourself, hit the gym, follow what you're passionate about, ect. As RSD suggests, apply an alpha male framework to your interactions with girls. Do what both campaigns tell you to do and ignore what they tell you NOT to do. Then after you've done both for a while you will know wh…
/r/seduction25/09/14 09:30 AM
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My man, that was excellent. I'm also about to start a business in a couple days and my buddy and I are working on it full time. I feel like, in general, the more you put into the things you are truly passionate about, the more attractive you are to everyone (guys and girls) and it naturally becomes easier to get girls. Follow your dreams, the most bullshit clique saying but it's really true.
/r/seduction14/08/14 08:18 PM
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