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peacemakerzzz/r/seduction06/01/16 01:44 PM
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/r/TheRedPill15/07/25 06:12 PM
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I respect TRP for what it’s done as it was a stepping stone to understanding relationships better. However I couldn’t live my life thinking all women are like that… I mean, they are all like that, but to come from the pretext of bitterness that TRP makes it seem is too much. To think that someone is selfish just because a woman’s feelings are her world (in TRP parlance it’s solipsism) above the reality of the situation is not gender selfishness but rather human nature. With that in mind, this wi…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/24 04:47 AM
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They will find a way to fuck, if the only intention is your physical attractiveness. If someone is interested in you, they will make it easier for you to approach them. But bear in mind that beyond the physical attractiveness of a person is the capacity to vet for long-term mating strategies, which goes beyond fuckboyhood.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/24 08:48 AM
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Fellas… not in this economy
/r/TheRedPill07/09/24 05:10 AM
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Everything Travis Scott
/r/TheRedPill20/02/24 06:13 AM
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Law 37: Make Compelling Spectacles
/r/seduction03/04/23 12:26 AM
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I used to be on the same boat as you. I used this method as training wheels to understand sex better. Now that I have improved on myself at least to a certain extent to where I was 3 years ago, I’m much better with Game. The best experiences are the ones that give you failure and lessons that allow you to become a better person.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 11:24 AM
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If you don't have anything to do, you will always tend to over-invest in girls, simply because you now have too much free time. I guess in other words, man's gotta withdraw attention and spend it wisely..
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 08:45 AM
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Thanks for giving perspective to things I already know but needed to be reminded of. To be honest, emotions cloud my judgment. I know what needs to be done but having "feelings" can sort of amplify my illogical reasoning. It's the oxytocin. I know that woman has/had feelings for me too but I was over-investing and that really sort of killed the attraction between us. I really know what I need to do but I'm clouded by the oneitis. I still want to continue playing the "game" with her but I suppose…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 08:06 AM
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Met someone on Bumble. Had good frame and a good mindset, fucked her twice. And because it was good, I felt zero abundance. Now I feel like I am overbearing towards her. Even if I have 3 plates on the side, I still think of plate # 1 as the best one. I am feeling the idealistic oneitis towards her just because she's a lawyer. Now she's trying to be repulsive towards me. What do I do? I could use some perspective. Because of the lockdown, there is nothing else to do at home and all I think about …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 05:52 AM
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No matter how many good books you read and how much it has changed other people, things will always be subjective. Why? Because personal experience will always be the best teacher.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 04:46 PM
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By bringing her girl friends over and me joining that group will seem intrusive since it is uninviting and not part of the entire plan.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:12 PM
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Great opinion/advice, thanks
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:11 PM
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There is someone in the group who makes the plans (just by default, it's always been him), and that's the reason why this thing happens.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 01:30 PM
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They will do what they can to get some pussy especially in this covid time. Guess Imma hang with some other friends for now.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 12:43 PM
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What's the best way to do here? The guys still want me around to hang out but then this woman comes in and ruins it, not for the group, but for me--because the group includes the woman in the conversations. I'm a little angry with my buddy because he doesn't know what to do to fix the situation. He's just glad they're together again.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 12:12 PM
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Now she’s securing me out of the group by manipulating my friends. She’s bringing some girl friends over to the group that I am no longer a part of. Best I move on?
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:39 AM
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Now she’s securing me out of the group by manipulating my friends. She’s bringing some girl friends over to the group that I am no longer a part of.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:38 AM
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Her cheating on him is a possibility but not any time soon. Now she’s securing me out of the group by manipulating my friends. She’s bringing some girl friends over to the group that I am no longer a part of. Any advice?
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:38 AM
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Now she’s securing me out of the group by manipulating my friends. She’s bringing some girl friends over to the group that I am no longer a part of. She really knows what she’s doing. Any advice?
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:35 AM
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Do you think so? I never entertained the idea my best bud would throw me under the bus
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:33 AM
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? You didn’t answer my question nor give any sound advice. Just said some masculine feminine alpha beta bullshit. You don’t get the point.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:31 AM
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You think that’s how that turned out? He flipped the script out of his own best buddy?
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:27 AM
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They’re back together. The group doesn’t hate me, they just don’t give a fuck about the drama. What I don’t like is the woman making said drama whenever I’m around, which makes everyone awkward and off putting. What I also don’t like is my friend not doing anything about it. Hence my distance from him as a friend as well
/r/askTRP15/01/21 08:03 PM
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I think daygame is more in demand more than ever now that people don't even know how to properly socialize. Might as well rewrite the script and reframe it as completely normal. There is no point feeling anxious about approaching anyway.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 10:19 AM
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I don’t understand it from a grammar nazi standpoint. Make your sentences coherent.....
/r/askTRP24/08/20 03:02 AM
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You're looking at it from a different perspective man. I know, it sucks, and I'm sorry things happen to be this way, really. There's only so much grief the world can offer. The only way to be above this whole conundrum is to develop a killer mindset. With or without cancer, focusing on the present moment helps you become a better version of yourself. 90% of the people continue to focus on the future and not really appreciating what they have right now. If you are able to master your mind and not…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 05:45 PM
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All boils down to “you”, bud. If you’re a people person, a natural extroverted go-getter, then you can easily make friends with anybody. It takes political dexterity and skill to maintain a large social circle because for one, it is taxing and tiring as hell to keep up with everybody you know. One way to keep a big circle is to be the center of the circle, to be a huge grab of attention. Remember law 24 of power: play the perfect courtier. Normally people that do these are in careers that requir…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 05:08 PM
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That’s like asking if you could meet women through your social circle. If you already exhausted your network, best way to meet them is to cold approach. It’s not necessary per se, but another way to expand horizons. It’s all about resourcefulness.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 11:24 AM
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Is cold calling worth it? Picking up the phone and just start dialling has zero opportunity loss. If anything it is just the ego not being able to handle rejections. However once the ego has been desensitised to doing it, it becomes second nature and you get better over time. Cold approach is no different from cold calling in the sales/business world. Cold approaching is just a small piece of the bigger pie. Women just want to feel sold to what you’re offering whether in seduction or whatever as…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 06:38 AM
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I grew up in the perspective of my mother, since my parents are separated. I never knew what a father should be like as a man. While growing up without the presence of a father’s social responsibility, he did provide everything I needed: a decent shelter, food, etc. While we were never close in my years growing up, he was there, just in a different language of love. I came to despise him for not being there emotionally, but I learned that a good man is there even when his sons do not appreciate …
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 10:11 AM
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People here are literally answering the question it’s funny but at the same time not great advice at all. It’s a joke. The best way to respond is to not answer and not take things seriously. Always agree and amplify or put the pressure back on her. Obvious shit test. If you really aren’t making as much as you’d want to fake it, at least act like you’re not bothered by it. Shit tests are there for a reason. It’s a subconscious way of identifying whether you’re insecure about a certain thing or no…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:36 PM
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I see beta bux from a mile away
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:28 PM
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Whack you sound like my hip uncle
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:25 PM
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It’s all about social calibration
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:06 PM
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Depends if it suits your personality you can pull it off. I wouldn’t say anything like it. Would rather say it without any cosmetic douche way to make my point clear and simple.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:25 AM
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Crinj with a J
/r/askTRP13/06/20 09:01 PM
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I think it helps to have a sense of frame here. Just know that you are operating in your own world and just do you. Not being polarised by how people behave just because the interesting guy isn’t around shows how much you believe in yourself. If you want to be interesting then show off things you find interesting even if they don’t feel the same way. Same principles apply. Selling yourself is the same as seducing a woman.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 05:43 AM
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Why would you not want to give a fuck? Accepting it for how the way things are, and accepting it and developing yourself to help others are totally different things. The reason why you do things for you is to help others. It’s what makes a person of high value. If you truly don’t want to give a fuck, then you wouldn’t be looked up to by people. Not giving a fuck as a be all end all is a trap.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 10:32 AM
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On the outset it may seem as such, but if you think about it, the things you mentioned are for your own benefit. Your mind will tell you otherwise if you’re not happy with what you’re doing. Also, validation is a natural part of life. That’s just how the way the world works.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 08:50 AM
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Nobody’s forcing you to change man. If you’re content with your life, then great. You should be happy for yourself. But if you start complaining about why you’re not getting any pussy, don’t blame it on them. Blame it on you. That’s just how the game works. “Have a great life, lift, hobbies.... “ find something you are passionate about. Doesn’t have to be lifting or whatever is the norm. If you are a master of something, whatever it is, it will bring you confidence as long as it brings value to …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 08:45 PM
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Not in that frame of mind you'd get pussy. Change how you think and it will change how you act.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 12:01 PM
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Ice cream parlor. Sweet, cheap, easy.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 08:10 AM
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Good that you are in progress. I’m a taiwanese guy and my height is 5’4, definitely smaller than you. Your post seems like it is still coming from the perspective of exiting the matrix, but you still seem like you’re in the frame of no-confidence. To a certain degree height matters, and you really can’t do anything about it. It’s just a matter of preference the same way you choose which car you want to buy. The best thing for us short guys is to always play to our strengths, never on weaknesses.…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 05:39 AM
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Those are hobbies set in stone. I do urge to take this time to be laidback, it’s the only time to appreciate the value of just chilling around. Let’s not be hypocrites. What’s important is we know what we value in ourselves and we continue on with those hobbies. It’s all about time management. Same shit, different scenario.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 08:10 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP04/04/20 08:43 PM
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I don't want to associate with him in that conversation per se, is what I meant. Sorry it was misunderstood.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/20 07:14 PM
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What does simp even mean? I’m missing out
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:23 PM
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There are other aspects of TRP that go beyond just fucking women. TRP is applied in all facets of man, may it be entrepreneurial, higher responsibilities, etc. It will always be there. Some people just level TRP to fucking women, and to me that's shallow.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/20 07:00 PM
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What do you mean by focusing on the winners?
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:59 AM
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Well I’m still in the zone when it comes to reading books. True enough this can be a time for self exploration and time spent to do things we wanted had we not have the leisure of time to do so. It’s just that my social media consumption has been higher than ever and I’m not very happy about that.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 10:02 AM
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You want the simplest answer? Survival of the fittest. Easy access to the most premium of resources. Either be the shepherd or be the sheep. Lead to get the resource or be led to be resourced.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 02:49 AM
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Thank you for this reminder. I was moving strong prior to the lockdown and the mindset I developed since January, as a serious implementation of my New Years resolution to take things seriously, are slowly being lost. I’m slowly losing the developed habits I had and I’m glad this reminded me not to slack off. Just because everyone is slacking off doesn’t mean we should too.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/20 02:18 PM
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It's tougher to provide a general diet plan because each diet is different for each person. It depends on your current weight, goals, etc. Feel free to message if you want some recommendations.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:03 PM
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The pleasure is mine my dude
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 06:21 AM
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Lifting gallons of water as weights for exercises feels like I discovered fire.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 03:46 AM
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Thanks, im currently doing a workout now and doing Bulgarian split squats with no weight is tough as fuck. I can only do 10 a set. Let you know what I find from the program I wrote above.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 03:21 AM
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Yeah if I get to maintain my gainz from this home workout routine, who knows I might decide to not renew my gym membership and use the future funds for something else. This is a great opportunity!
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 01:41 AM
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As long as it fits your macros, there will be no problem with eating anything
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 01:38 AM
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I feel you bro on so many levels. That’s why I was asking for more pull recommendations. If it helps any further, check @richard_duchon on IG. His latest posts provide good exercises with creative ideas without gym equipment.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 01:19 AM
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Staying home alone forces you to stay creative. I highly think meeting your buddies isn’t a great idea. You underestimate the consequences based on the statistics for healthy individuals. Until there is a solid fix to this, I’d rather not risk it.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:54 AM
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Exactly. How can you lead if you’re not preparing yourself for the better? There’s no point going outside and infecting others if in case you catch it? The best you can do right now is to stay home, develop knowledge and work on something, instead of watching Netflix and playing video games. And once this is all over, you can be the best person people will look up to. Also, you don’t be a man just for women. You do it for higher purpose and that includes a whole group of people. You’ll get it in…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:46 AM
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Thanks buddy, I will do this
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:35 AM
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Hey we have all the time in the world, no need to complain
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:35 AM
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You take red pill too seriously bro, be cautious but not fearful. There’s a difference. It’s not about worrying. You still don’t get it.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:33 AM
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I got it from him. Wanted to write something so there’s that. Jeff Nippard is awesome
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:30 AM
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I’m considering getting a pair, as well as some power/resistance bands. Once this virus thing is over I’ll be glad to have learned some new techniques with these few equipments alone. It’s ok to lose a FEW gainz, just make sure we keep progressing on something.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:24 AM
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If you’re fat: eat less and stay hydrated. Avoid junk food and keep track of your caloric intake. Myfitnesspal is your friend, don’t be overwhelmed by it. If you’re skinny: depends. You can always dirty bulk to gain mass. But if you want to be lean, consider doing a lean bulk. Eat wholesome food and avoid processed food. Ramp up the protein intake. Less carbs but don’t neglect it because that is what’s essential in a workout. Drastically reduce fat intake. Do intermittent fasting. Check my progr…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:23 AM
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Don’t mind him, he doesn’t understand the repercussions it can take if it passes on to the elderly. Sometimes people are insensitively selfish and naive
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:19 AM
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I figure a gallon of water used in water dispensers is the best for rows! Not only is it heavy but it also tenses your grip. I’ll be trying this in a few once I start my workout
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:16 AM
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Chris Heria is good for fundamentals of basic exercises. If you wish to learn more about optimum nutrition, I highly suggest you look into Jeff Nippard’s videos. His videos are the most informative channel on YouTube, backed up by science and all. Of course... there is, Jeff Cavaliere.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:12 AM
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If you’re shredded then I’ll consider this comment valid, but until then this is just unnecessarily negative. Nobody needs that shit. Gtfo
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:07 AM
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It compensates for lack of intensity so you ramp up the volume instead. Hypertrophic movements give muscles that pump, increasing it to failure pushes the muscles to work until it cannot anymore. It’s the same logic as doing 8 reps of 200lbs on bench, but in this case you can do a personal max record of 200lbs for 8. Since we don’t have 200lbs, we meet the number of reps to match the boiling point of intensity.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:06 AM
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Passion comes in the absence of mindless distraction. For sure when we get back to our respective gyms we will love it more than ever and will realize that we have taken these things for granted.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/20 05:16 PM
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I see your perspective, but going to the gym has a lot of perks too. For instance, you meet like minded individuals who share the same goal as you. If you work out at 5am at a commercial gym, you wouldn’t see some fat dude working out at that time. That’s just mentally impossible. Instead, you will see and meet dedicated men who are disciplined to make progress, and translates to a better mindset - the reason why we are here on this sub. Another instance is that there is a potential to meet busi…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/20 04:55 PM
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Bro I lost friends during this journey and I know it’s for the better. Trust me, trust your instincts and increase your value. Sooner or later these simps will be wanting to be associated with you
/r/askTRP15/03/20 09:15 AM
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It will only feel natural only after you raise your value and have confidence in your self. Nothing screams confidence other than telling these hoes they ain’t worth my time and I value myself more than the rejection. Seriously
/r/askTRP15/03/20 04:05 AM
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Thanks buddy that’s actually what’s happening right now so let’s see what happens
/r/askTRP08/03/20 04:11 PM
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Well with my pal he kinda slipped back into blue pill and also chose his woman above his friends.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 03:52 PM
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I know but how? He’s a man but sometimes emotions can blind a fellow... I know it
/r/askTRP08/03/20 03:46 PM
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If we are at war, buddies make great allies. If people don't give a fuck about things they care about (no homo) then what a lonely place this world to live in without friends that care about you. I ask not because there are alphas and betas and chads in this world, I ask in light of judgment and rationale.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 02:24 PM
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and how did that turn around?
/r/askTRP08/03/20 02:06 PM
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thank you man, this is the best advice I've read so far in this thread. i know he is dead ass serious about her that's why i'm not doing anything about it, despite his interests to gaming other chicks in his mind.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:19 PM
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man no homo but if it applies to friendships as well then imma do just that.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:16 PM
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then fuck off idiot gtfo
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:15 PM
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bro don't be an idiot
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:00 PM
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Exactly. He accepts that TRP is unsustainable in itself and is a fantasy of modern day living. Sure, to an extent some theories are really crazily impractical, but voluntary acceptance of BP real world can really eat up one’s naivety for the worst. I really like this dude, he helped me become who I am. Best wingman in the world. But somehow, some way, I didn’t expect it will come to this. I’m pretty sure that if we meet again, his personality would be so much different now compared to when we we…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:54 AM
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I’m not so sure about that. He argues that some points in TRP aren’t suitable for him because in reality he must be practical and get into a relationship. I respect that but this dude and I both outgrew ourselves with TRP ideology. Just so happens his emotions got ahead of his brain because of his girlfriend. He values relationship management over personal mission TRP.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 10:53 AM
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I’m sorry for your loss brother. This goes beyond seeing the forest for the trees that is TRP. I’m in no position to give advice but if it helps, your friends and family are there to grieve with you. We are human after all. Write some shit. Write your emotions. Do something. To beat this at least half heartedly, uplifting your endorphins can surely help.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 11:50 AM
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You’re welcome, and thank you too for the podcast recommendation!
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 02:32 PM
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Would disagree. I’m asian and to some extent the techniques taught by this American salesman JB applies to where I live. It’s simple human psychology that goes beyond culture. It’s just how people are wired to think. Yes I understand from a cultural standpoint there may be mental differences but the end goal is the same which is to persuade. People buy based on emotions and that’s just the bottom line of selling.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 11:35 AM
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They’re just not shitting where they eat. That’s just it.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 01:47 AM
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Bro it’s called body language. I was not referring to verbal language. Advertising in body language. There’s a huge difference. To notify everybody’s subconscious through sheer body language (I.e. posting fit pics on IG, going topless, etc. These are all social cues that demonstrate peak fitness and genetics)
/r/askTRP10/02/20 01:23 AM
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Now is the time to advertise them. If you don't let the world know then what good are your talents? Justin Bieber wouldn't be where he is now if he did not promote himself on YouTube. We all have to start somewhere.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 07:25 AM
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Business mixed with the expression of art is called passion.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:20 AM
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Those things can be categorized under my second point which is art. Sales is an art. Programming is an art. Just a matter of perspective.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 12:51 AM
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Liking them is one thing, doing them because you know it will bring value to others is another. The latter thinks actively about the results. The former is passive.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 12:50 AM
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Lift weights – to advertise your genetic potential Learn an instrument/art/etc – to advertise your creative endeavors Read books – to advertise how much of an intellectual you are All of these three are all you need to develop VALUE to yourself. Proficiency is what turns them into HIGH VALUE.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 04:34 PM
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The Wolf’s Den (Jordan Belfort) - good salesmanship topics and some entries about success
/r/askTRP06/02/20 03:07 PM
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Wow I’ll take that as a compliment. You will learn much from the book, I guarantee you that!
/r/TheRedPill05/02/20 03:33 AM
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If ever you decide to sell something to someone, may be an idea or something tangible like a used car of yours or something, you will need some skills other than your natural ability to make conversation with someone. Imma let you in on a little secret. The equation to greatness is this: Natural ability + mindset + the right skill set = greatness You may have a natural ability to be charismatic. You may have the right mindset to be confident, but without the right skill set that this book will t…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/20 09:08 PM
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Because then don’t know how to raise a Man. Fundamentally they are not capable of understanding how the opposite gender works. It’s not because she doesn’t want a child to outgrow her, it’s because she just doesn’t have the mental capacity to fully channel that masculine energy. There are fair cases though, when a woman has been clearly impacted by her alpha father that she knows how a good Man should be like. Then and there she will try to emulate that behavior towards her son. But in most case…
/r/askTRP04/02/20 01:44 AM
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Better to hit the gym tired, yes. Because you are training consistently, you will develop more endurance and even if you have an erratic work schedule you will develop fitness over time. And once you see results you will become motivated more than ever.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 02:18 AM
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The number one lesson when it comes to reading is to disregard any author’s background and just read out of sheer curiosity. The second lesson is never to read reviews on Goodreads because that just spoils the purity of the reading experience. When I read Way of The Wolf I was so curious to check Goodreads but after reading it, everyone was just hating on Jordan Belfort (because he is a fraud). People’s perception of learning things are different. If you keep an open mind you’ll be able to appre…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/20 01:46 AM
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I can relate to this. Though I am not the same person I was 2-5 years ago. I learned the value of individualism and self-reliance. It is much more comforting to think that you can be your own father should you know how to take care of yourself. No one can ever take the position of your biological father, but you can be the best man you can be by loving yourself for who you are. Develop your interests, hobbies, and discipline. You will find that you will love yourself despite these circumstances.…
/r/askTRP01/02/20 07:17 PM
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He went to jail for it. Did his time and learned from his mistakes. We don't know if it's faux or not but his intention now is to make a new name for himself. I find that inspiring. Sure he was a fraud, but that's not the point.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/20 06:39 PM
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I suggest you read 48 Laws of Power or The Art of War. They're very boring books to read but you will learn a lot. If you are in it for the long haul, read for knowledge, not just for entertainment! Not TRP related-ish, but I very much enjoyed this book called "The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up" by Marie Kondo. Simply put, she discusses how your room can be a reflection of your life and mindset. If a healthy mindset is within your TRP goals, then you'll enjoy this one as much as I did. If yo…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/20 06:33 PM
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Well... who doesn't want free advertisement? People in this sub look for good books to read to develop a healthier mindset. Reading shouldn't be only classified as strictly red pill. To my knowledge, TRP is a foundation of different concepts and topics that lead to the essence of positive masculinity and not only to relate them with women and chicks. Yes, I understand many of the people here are in it to seek the truth on women however there are also a lot of people here who see the red pill as …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/20 06:19 PM
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I get your point, but if you read it without the knowledge of his fraudulence and think of it as a selling book in itself, you'll see some great gems in it. Things you've known but haven't noticed on surface level. It's up to you to let your judgment of his past assume incredibility for his value to help people today.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/20 06:08 PM
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What are you going on about bro? Who said about following Jordan Belfort's road to being fraudulent? Nobody. He preaches effective salesmanship, not art of fraudulence. The Wolf of Wall Street is based on his life, so use the art of selling for better purpose. You are just attacking him because of his past, but what he did was natural selling regardless of whether or not he was fraudulent.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/20 06:04 PM
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This is a fallacy, you are arguing by attacking his credibility with information not related to helping people. Yes, he was a fraud that does not hide the fact that he has helped a lot of salespeople with his 'Straight Line Technique'. Ad Hominem bro....
/r/TheRedPill01/02/20 02:35 PM
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Selling is not a technique with lines to be memorized like PUA or game with a small G. He actually talks about selling in ways that you can use your own personality to connect and empathize with your buyer. I would rather not give a lengthy summary of the book because that would just spoil the fun of reading it. If you are not interested in buying, it's ok. It means you're not suited for it. But I suggest you give it a try because regardless whether it is a sales book or not, he writes it in a w…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/20 02:14 PM
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Funny, because in this book he addresses how much piece of shit he was. He cautions that his natural talent for selling should be used for the greater good. How shit he was, he learned the hard way. This book is a testament to that. Give it a read, man, before anything else. You will be surprised at how socially intelligent this man is.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/20 01:59 PM
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Words don't do shit my dude, especially for a kid. Walk the talk. Actions speak louder than words. Lead by example.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 01:51 PM
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Yes we do tease each other some times, but there are times when it is uncalled for the situation at hand. I mean, don’t get me wrong, I’m not offended because I’m a little pussy or what not. It’s actually an assuage of his own emotional needs that’s bothersome. Thanks for the insight.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 04:50 PM
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High smv means you have something that most people don’t, though high smv people don’t always have a strong frame. The thing Jordan mentioned in his book is that you can consciously alter your frame of mind in a given situation, but if you do it all the time you’ll just be an asshole and ingenuine, which people can smell from a mile off. Building a strong frame is developed from tons and tons of experience through all facets of life.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 07:18 AM
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I actually look up to Jordan Belfort. His book Way of The Wolf is the TRM of sales. Pretty red pilled material that I highly recommend. Personal value: meaning if you only have 2 nickels and have never touched a million dollars, and you are selling a million dollars worth of something, what you can offer is more important than how you perceive yourself. Your client does not care if you’re poor or had a bad childhood. What matters is how you can help him quick. So outside of sales it means that y…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:08 PM
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I recommend you figure out what your maintenance calories are. If you don’t know, you can always play it by ear since that’s a good place to start. You can start cutting first by eating less, but not too drastic because too little cals can have a bad impact on your hormones (testosterone). You are not in a hurry, so take your time. So do lifts as heavy as you can while eating less and make sure you maintain that weight you’re lifting. It’s possible that you can lift heavier and make PRs but don’…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:34 PM
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Ever notice that natural born salesmen tend to be like this? Exuding confidence, positivity, good body language and tonality. They’re present because they observe how their clients behave and react so they can further respond to those social cues to lead to the sale. It’s not so much different with women. If there’s one thing I learned from sales it’s that your personal value (whether you had a bad childhood, you’re poor, etc) does not reflect how you project yourself to map the world around you…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:21 PM
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You know the saying, if it works, then stick to it. To each his own so if it works for you then why not. Who cares if people think it's weird. The only way to know is if you try. Edit: also I found that going outside your comfort zone helps A LOT so as shiah labeaouf once said in a meme, JUST... DO IT!
/r/askTRP04/01/20 09:48 AM
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I learned this from John C. Maxwell. Read some of his materials, he focuses mainly on leadership and self-development.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:49 PM
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The best reaction to this is not to react at all. Part of being a leader yourself is being able to take shit as a subordinate, that’s how you rise above the ranks - by taking shit and being nonchalant of what they say. It’s probably a test to see how you would take it as a subordinate.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:38 AM
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Whenever I see myself improve, I always see myself get trapped in the decadence of complacency. I’m still trying to figure out how to beat this cycle.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 05:44 AM
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I don't think peacocking has to be extravagant to a point where it becomes outrageous. Peacocking works even as simple as sporting a hairstyle that is not the same as everyone else's. If you have longer hair that you maintain very well, like Tarzan style for example, you'll definitely get some special attention from women.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 02:26 PM
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Why is speaking English such a good SMV boost in non-english countries in Europe? When I was on holiday, I'd been complimented by European girls for speaking excellent English, as compared to some Europeans who speak English with a stiff accent. I never imagined the english language to be that much of an importance when it comes to SMV. (I'm Chinese by the way) Also, based from my experience, I find europeans more attractive because of their complexion as compared to women in the US. I guess som…
/r/askTRP26/10/19 08:36 PM
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I never picked this book up in the bookstore because I thought it would be the same as with 48 Laws and Art of Seduction. Based on what I’ve read on its synopsis, it’s about genius people and how they lived greatness. Didn’t know the book provides a guide to changing mentors.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 08:14 PM
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That’s brutal
/r/askTRP22/10/19 03:03 AM
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Assume attraction, but also assume that she just wants some male attention.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 02:18 PM
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Oh I’ve read the sidebar, it’s just that people like you tend to take things 100% in stone just cause Rollo said this and Rollo said that. Seeing things in black and white. Red pill blue pill. Who cares? Life is not monotonous that way. People are socially attached to connections that’s a given fact. What TRP teaches is how to socially glide the imperatives with finesse. Sad that people turnout to be nihilists about not making connections and shit. That is more hilarious. Connections are made in…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 07:09 AM
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It’s not about not caring dude. It’s about making connections with people. People in TRP should be aware about that and not shrug things off just because it’s ‘TRP mindset’
/r/askTRP28/09/19 09:45 PM
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Tell me something I don’t know
/r/askTRP20/09/19 06:03 PM
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“How many girls have you been with before me?” “Yes.”
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:58 PM
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I feel the same way as the guy above. I’ve been on an amazing holiday in Bali 2 months ago and been feeling down lately now that my life is back to normal. I don’t know why I feel this but prior to this vacation I’ve been so motivated to grind and work and hustle but now I feel that I’ve been taking things for granted. Now I indulge myself in material pleasures like excessive shopping, porn, video games and fucking fast food. One of the things that’s going on well for me at the moment is my grin…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 03:03 PM
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The only way to get abs is to go on a caloric deficit. To remove belly fat means your abs would pop out. Working out your abs at the gym is one thing which is very very easy to do, but are you driven enough to starve yourself on a deficit? It takes dedication and effort which I admit was a very hard experience!
/r/askTRP18/09/19 07:07 PM
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Man I am going to Paris next year and I will be doing what I mentioned in this post. I bet hostels have chicks that are looking for dicks
/r/askTRP18/09/19 04:28 PM
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Thanks. Tho I’m not going to Europe just to meet her. I am actually travelling with a buddy of mine and it just so happens that she’s down to tag along. If she flakes no problem I’d game chicks in Europe. However that is not the point of this discussion. I’m just wondering how it is possible to manage this type of relationship/friendship since obviously then she is not a plate to begin with.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 02:00 PM
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I was fucking a different girl at that time. But with her I only reached second base. Now she’s the most receptive for attention now that everybody is back to their respective homes
/r/askTRP18/09/19 01:52 PM
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I’m not traveling to Europe for the pussy if that is what everybody is thinking. If she doesn’t go with me it’s fine because I initially planned to go solo anyways. I don’t think my justifying is not convincing anybody but it is what it is really. However you may be right that it is oneitis... even if I manage to talk to diff kinds of women. Maybe I’m bored with local girls.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 01:34 PM
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I dont think this is the advice he is looking for
/r/askTRP18/09/19 09:23 AM
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Book a hostel. Don’t book a hotel room. That way you’ll find some chicks who are also wanting to get their pussies wet. Hostels also organize tourist events for parties among other things. It’s going to be a blast! Just taking it from experience in a different country and will be doing the same thing when I travel to Europe next year.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 07:16 AM
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Amen
/r/askTRP16/09/19 05:43 PM
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Why do they try to make you jealous tho in order to commit more? I’ve been in this experience just recently and I’m trying to figure out why. She says she ends things with this guy and now she’s asking me out on a date, after seeing me months later getting jacked up and red pilled all of a sudden. I used to like her but now it’s not the same case. Kind of the other way around now.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 05:36 PM
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I’m southeast Asian. My height is 5’4”. Father is from Hong Kong, mother from Philippines.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 11:42 AM
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Ok that seems fair. I’ve been told most Americans are racist, so are Australians. But that’s not my point. My point is that Game trumps both Looks and Status. Despite our so called “Asian deficiency”, if we keep shooting the shots we take sooner or later there will come a white pussy waiting for an Asian dick to thrust her. Note: I don’t believe in Asian racism, that mindset is what limits myself to do what I can.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 05:00 PM
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What’s the question? Where’s the lesson? If anything this is just a journal to yourself. No one seems to appreciate the story. I tried tho.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 02:34 PM
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Bro I’m a short Asian yet I get Western European girls. It’s not about the height, it’s about the body language and tonality. Sure, to an extent height and race matter but if you compensate in different ways, like say, getting a ripped body, then you’d still get some pussy nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 09:11 AM
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Yes. OP read this. It will give you some perspective.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 07:16 AM
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Cheers. Will do. I’m planning on doing Muay Thai at least twice a week while I still focus on my split lift workouts at the gym.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 04:59 PM
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That makes sense. There’s nothing wrong with what I said. It’s just that my goals are not aligned with the athletic tough guy aesthetic. I just want to learn Muay Thai while staying incredibly lean. Well I guess I’ll give it a try.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 11:26 AM
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Well what about aesthetic physique? It’s definitely gonna slim down my figure
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 11:18 AM
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Hey man. I’ve been lifting for 4 years now. I’m still on the journey to Mount Olympus (sick cunts, anyone?) However I am taking an interest and curiosity for Muay Thai. I don’t want to mess with my lifting habits tho I would love to incorporate Muay Thai as a cardio program, but also to learn more about the martial art. I don’t know if doing so would lose my physical aesthetic in favor of Muay Thai.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 08:42 AM
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Totally fuck with metal at the gym. Slipknot’s Psychosocial always gets me going on my first set.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 08:38 AM
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An animal can reflect your frame but if it projects more aggression towards you, such as the one in Life of Pi, the animal is similar to that of a human being (woman for example) to tame and know its behavior before it devours you unconsciously. What I relate to based off the movie is that simple survival instincts determine how your opponent (Pi) would react to. Case in point, if you’re a pussy, you’d get taken advantage of. If you know how to survive, as a human (or as a male since this is TRP…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 07:43 PM
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It’s not always the case. Life of Pi taught us that animals can be tamed even in the wildest of kind. Ok that might have been a little spiritual, but my point here is that you, yourself, are more of a reflection to yourself than you are to your dog/pet/animal.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 02:08 PM
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I've had 3 white pussies prior to this girl, they didn't mean jack shit. It's this one that got to me. But you are right. There are more white girls out there. It's probably the first one that I've got to taste with blue eyes and blonde hair. To my taste, that was very exotic.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 08:15 PM
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Thanks buddy. Those words meant something. For all it’s worth, should I let it sulk in? My brain isn’t wired to feel normal on command. It needs time to let it figure through.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 02:50 PM
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I find it difficult to accept this fact man...
/r/askTRP02/08/19 02:31 PM
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Did I say something that irked you?
/r/askTRP02/08/19 02:16 PM
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Man this makes me feel sad.... despite the red pill perspective the emotions have gotten through me because it is so true.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 05:26 AM
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Why is it like that though?
/r/askTRP01/08/19 03:04 AM
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Saving for reference. I was in Bali 2 days ago. Made out with a Dutch girl and almost bedded her. For a lack of time she was giving me ASD, her friends arrived and now I am feeling sad for not having to push further. I’ll never see her again.... she was very awesome though.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 06:58 AM
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Yeah I know, I couldn’t control my emotions and now it feels shit. I knew from the start but it ended differently. It’s too late to change how I feel. Though I know emotions are temporary, a day or two of this feeling sucks.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 06:26 AM
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Even if we made out lots of times? I could have sworn I saw from her face that she was really enjoying my company. We could have had sex but I figured I needed more time to get the lay. The timing sucked when those guys came in at a time when we were about to have sex. Now I can't stop thinking about it even if I know I shouldn't.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 02:10 PM
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You have to be honest with yourself with what you want. If you want emotional connection with women, spin some plates. Don’t be their emotional tampon. They don’t want a man who’s emotional, at least on the outset.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 01:19 AM
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If you identify yourself too much with a woman, you become one of them. That doesn’t really work out if you’re building attraction. Female friends are okay I guess, but keep in mind that inter gender friendships don’t work well the same way male-male friendships work. No bullshit. Get a pet instead.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 01:14 AM
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Agree, I don’t mind having girl friends. The important thing to remember is that if they do things you don’t expect and are out of your control, always keep in mind that you still handle how you do things. I’m not bothered by it and they like it. Again, attention is the main currency of the female mind.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/19 05:01 PM
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This is machiavellianism at best
/r/askTRP27/04/19 09:14 PM
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Wat
/r/askTRP11/02/19 07:50 PM
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Building the mystery is what builds attraction. Attraction is rooted from emotion. Being mysterious creates that emotion of curiosity. Nice comment. Saving it.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/19 11:50 AM
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Bro, I feel you. I grew up with a single mom. My father left mom, I hated him but in hindsight he was alpha. I learned the beta way. It was really difficult. Being taught how to be a ‘nice guy’. Being told that you shouldn’t date women only when you’re old enough. Heck, my mother even asked if I could be a priest, in a joking manner of course. It was difficult not having a father figure. Only years later I found some good people that led me to the TRP knowledge that we have today. It helped me g…
/r/askTRP18/01/19 08:29 PM
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No I am not worried about it. For the lack of a better term, pedestalizing seems like an overstatement but I couldn’t think of a better way of saying it. I’m keeping my frame. Some guy below commented that her response might have been professional hence what you’re saying might not be appropriate. Reason why I posted was to develop some sort of creative way to display game.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 08:28 PM
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Local bands still have some form of DHV individually as it can boost their self esteem. They may be an opening act, still they have some higher value. It’s their junkyard when you’re a ‘fan’ watching a concert. The dynamic between celebrity and fan illustrates this value. I agree that her response was sort of professional, but really who knows? I’d like to believe my SMV is higher than her for both professional and personal reasons thanks to my knowledge and application of TRP, that’s why I know…
/r/askTRP16/01/19 08:24 PM
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Just give a man a bone. Kidding aside, I’ve no expectations of getting anything in return. Yet she replies so there’s that
/r/askTRP16/01/19 05:31 PM
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We haven’t introduced to each other yet so I don’t think that’s optimal, unless she’s into me already she will. So for now her basis would be my profile on Instagram
/r/askTRP16/01/19 04:36 PM
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Ang notable differences?
/r/askTRP15/01/19 05:45 AM
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Never apologize for something you intend to do. Assume dominance. If she pulls back, just act like it’s nothing and rebuild the tension.
/r/seduction14/01/19 04:23 PM
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Just beer? Or alcohol in general?
/r/askTRP14/01/19 03:27 PM
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I’d like to disbelieve the idea of bros over hoes. I think it’s a fallacy. I’d like to think that for bros that are hypergamy aware, it’s ‘may the best man win.’ We both know it. Unless he overtly says not to do what I’m about to do, then I will consciously avoid what I will do.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 09:52 PM
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Won’t argue with this, fair point
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 01:37 PM
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Then acquaintance is the term for it. I don’t tend to think of it in terms of binaries, but the point being is this, being friends with a woman opens you up to opportunities where you can get some value out of it (I.e. sex, social proof, etc.)
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 12:51 AM
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“Stop contacting her. Disappear.” Yeah I only learned of this recently that if she’s not giving you anything in return for your attention, then you’re at the bargaining side of the relationship. It’s simple economics, really. It angers me that I’ve been giving attention despite not seeing any positive stimulus that’s generated on her own accord. It’s either she’s oblivious or that the medium is the message. Either way, this has been a wonderful lesson. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 07:33 PM
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Then acquaintance is the term for it. I don’t tend to think of it in terms of binaries, but the point being is this, being friends with a woman opens you up to opportunities where you can get some value out of it (I.e. sex, social proof, etc.)
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 04:33 PM
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Women do it all the time as an excuse to meet the guy again. It’s happened so many times in the past that women leave their earring in a guy’s bedroom. Women leave shit in their guy’s territory as a way to subcommunicate that they want to see him again. If you are red pill aware and this happens, the medium is the message.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/19 12:52 PM
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Thanks, man. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 08:37 AM
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That saying simply dictates how you should view your life like a bullet train than as a car. You need to follow through with your goals (aka the twinkle), while women jump into that bullet train. They like a man who has a goal, a mission, but they never wanted to be the cream of the crop. Women dislike being a man's icing on the cake. What they want is a man who is ambitious. Bullet trains are linear that lead to a targeted destination. Cars, on the other hand, have no sense of direction. Most g…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 09:05 AM
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For mental stimulation: reading fiction, nonfiction, biographies, etc., writing, journaling For physical stimulation: working out, heavy lifting, studying proper diet and nutrition, etc., I also go out in bars to meet women. For spiritual stimulation: meditation in the morning, playing the ukulele, singing, psychedelics/microdosing I spend most of my time reading all in all. I'd say it has impacted my relationships with people, and how I've become a person of curiosity to a person who's connecte…
/r/askTRP24/12/18 04:48 PM
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Lame. Where’s your creativity?
/r/seduction16/12/18 05:04 PM
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All of us have regressed to beta frame at some point. Proceed by learning from it. Never commit the same mistake again.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:15 PM
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That's normal. Always remember that you are the prize. Keep going back to your own mental point of origin. If you look and find that you are the prize, you will get a shift in perspective. Game other women. There's no other way around it. Jealousy is an emotion. Emotions fuck up your game.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:13 PM
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Thank you for this reminder.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 09:26 AM
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Yes I did. With my newfound knowledge and application of game this time I can do better but that’s not to discredit all the other options I still have
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 10:49 AM
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In the same manner, your improvement on finance is an indicator of the level of discipline that you have when it comes to spending.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:38 PM
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-Rejection is better than regret. -Frame is game. -Women want a man who has a twinkle on his eye, but they don't want to be that twinkle. -Women would rather share a man than be saddled by a faithful beta.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 05:46 AM
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No, I think you just lack experience. Get rejected a lot and you'll reevaluate what you did wrong. That way, you could see the pattern of how to lead a conversation with women. It's not rocket science. It's simply being social.
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:13 PM
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Why would you flake? Just go. That way, you could display your game. Backing out would be a missed opportunity for rejection.
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:11 PM
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This is ironic: you get better at text game by limiting the amount of texts you're giving her. The shorter, the better. Texts are for scheduling dates; a couple of short chit chats here and there to create sexual tension. Nothing more, nothing less. Anything else would sound like you're not doing anything else to improve on yourself.
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:08 PM
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I met a German girl at a very small province in the Philippines. She was on tour to get inked by a 100 year old legendary tattoo artist. I happened to be on tour as well. We met there and I gamed her in my cottage. I continued gaming her along the way until we went back to Manila, a 13 hour bus trip. We went home to my place and we smoked some weed. I wasn't able to fuck her because I didn't know the societal customs of Germans... or maybe I just missed her cues. She wasn't a bitch, a pretty int…
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:05 PM
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I'm an introvert, INFP/INTP. I think you have to get to know yourself more first before you decide how you wish to game women. If you wish to game women naturally, you'd rather be creative and use your imagination so you can use your own methods and principles of game. If you wish to be more methodical, go with high energy, extroverted approach that you see from other people. I personally use my own style as opposed to going with the more popular approach of gaming, i.e. bar settings and loud ap…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 06:16 PM
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It's just a shift in perspective. You can turn that shy reserved personality into the strong silent type that women adore.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 06:10 PM
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Been doing this social media game intuitively, but thanks for laying it all out!
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 05:15 PM
11

Great post. I think women shit test men to determine how they will view you. It's a way to predetermine the nature of your masculinity. If you're the supplicating beta, she gets to control the frame. If you hold your own frame, she adjusts to your level. Hence, the one who's holding a larger frame has the most power.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 04:17 PM
2

Sadly, I was a beta when I was in university, but I still learned how to game before lol. If I was in uni now given my knowledge of the world today, I’d game women by joining extra curricular classes with chicks in them. I’m an introvert by heart so the only way to talk to them is to simply approach them. I find one on one conversations more powerful than group settings. It sets the tone for sexual isolation. Try joining a martial arts class. It’s easier to escalate kino.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 06:34 AM
1

I do social circle gaming. Women from work. Women who graduated from the same university as I. Women who graduated from a different university as my friends. They all somehow connect the dots to gaming.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 05:15 AM
1

Awareness is a form of learning. By acknowledging your beta behavior, the situation taught you to be a better person. Always keep frame, it's the only thing you have that can command power.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:42 PM
4

I used to be like you. I've read a lot of books, worked out, made a lot of mistakes with women. Eventually, all these things compounded and taught me how to invalidate women's opinion; to do my own thing. If you do you, coupled with game, you're gonna be better than most guys. Most of these men don't know much about game other than brag about their money and all that stuff. Frame is game. Game is the application of red pill knowledge. Therefore, (red pill) knowledge is power.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 12:03 PM
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It's a dog eat dog world. There are no rules. Fuck the bro code. Successful people make it by breaking the rules. Let him crash and burn. Allow him to make the mistakes. If you know you have better game, you wouldn't bother thinking about it. May the best man win.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:40 AM
2

Unattractive women tend to compensate for their personality since innately they know that they are below their competitors on the sexual marketplace. They already have the hot girls their age to compete with, then they have younger women to think about. I have girl friends who used to be fat, and now they're a little attractive and skinnier. They knew what it felt to be unattractive, so the personality was compensated. They still carry on that kind temperament they had when they were fat. It's w…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:32 AM
2

You’re sad because you got to lay a presumably hot woman who you think is out of your league? My friend, what you’re lacking is self respect and self confidence. Always refer back to your own needs should things go wrong outside your own control. You’re missing the poon? Get busy doing something else, game other women, and later on you’ll realize that chick you just snagged is just one of the many that you have been inside. It all boils down to how you view the situation. Change the mindset and …
/r/askTRP05/12/18 10:53 AM
2

Social status is where you are perceived to be of high value based on the people you associate with. If you associate with fitness junkies you’ll be labelled as such. If you associate with bibliophiles you’ll be labelled the same. If you associate with people who are also high value, then you’ll be labelled as such. It’s highly contextual. No, I think game is all about one’s ability to be independent of what others are thinking, to go what you want to do without thinking of the consequences, and…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 06:47 AM
1

Alpha fucks is determined by your fitness, your social status, and the most important--your game. Beta bucks is determined by your capacity to provide for a woman in the long term--without game. Some beta bucks are jacked but they know jack shit about game.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 05:11 AM
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The easiest date ideas that lead to lays, in my experience, are ice cream dates. It's cheap, gives the impression of romance--girls love it, and it's conducive to move on to the next location. Ideally that next location should be your place where you can watch a movie, play boardgames, then fuck. I don't drink and have found this method pretty consistent.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 05:09 AM
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Depends on your personality, the situation, and the woman you just passed by. Sometimes approaching a woman just because you feel like being friendly can seem genuine enough as a 'cold approach'. If you keep frame even when you are passively walking by, this makes it easier to talk to women. However, not a lot of people keep frame by themselves and only on social situations. It's highly contextual. It doesn't matter if any of these individuals are not in your social circle, make them! Doesn't ma…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 05:07 AM
1

Oneitis stems from not having to dominate your frame with this woman. There's nothing wrong with you. Try gaming her and keeping your own frame, if she submits to you, you'll realize that AWALT and your oneitis will be as gone as the wind. I challenge you this.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 05:01 AM
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Never command overtly, always dominate with your actions. Lead her to where you want her to be. Sex is a representation of your ability to lead on a more intimate level. Make sure she gets what she wants as well, it's what reciprocates your own desire.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:59 AM
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Because one indicator of interest for alpha fucks is genetic fitness. I used to be lanky as fuck 3 years ago, now I'm fit as a bull. It's part of self-improvement. Be careful not to be complacent though because what comes with fitness is a lot of shit testing to know if you're the real deal. That's why some people have better game than others despite the body.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:57 AM
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Keeping a mission and maintaining a frame, while gaming, is a perception in itself of high value. This in turn allows you to engage her on a minimal level and will assume you of better things.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 04:40 PM
1

We all used to be young once. Being young implies immaturity. 5-10 years ago during my academic years I had moments when I hated on people I don’t like just cause of their vibe. Sometimes there’s no reason. Perhaps it’s a form of aggression. I say move on and fuck that guy
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:31 PM
1

Because he can and he knows you wouldn’t do shit
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:06 PM
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In general, no, but it would depend on the temperament of the woman. If she's the hoe type, she definitely won't. If she's the type who respects depth, she might. As a general rule of thumb, don't reveal misery. It destroys frame. Frame is game's pot of gold. If you lose it, even just the slightest bit, game over you just submitted to a higher power--that is, your emotions. To be rational is to be logical, and that include's the ability to hold back emotions to women.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 09:22 AM
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Lesson learned: -Even your sister AWALT lol -Look at it from the female imperative and you wouldn't hate that guy for doing what he did. You would have done the same should you perceive yourself as high value (admit it) -Never bring meat to a hungry young pack of wolves There is no deal with this guy. He's simply messing with you. Don't make such a fuss about it and work towards your goals. Should you wish to create drama out of it is on you and yours to think about, and not your sister's.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 07:44 AM
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Yes, but what I mean to say that it is more accepting then regardless of labels. Now that we have all the labels necessary to segregate genders, it is very easy to shun toxic masculinity as masculinity in itself. My point being, difference in old/new social orders allow man to express easier without being shunned as toxic. That’s not to say that it is much more difficult now to express game, it’s just more vilified nowadays, which result to ‘beta bucks’ gaming. It’s a truth we need to accept in …
/r/askTRP01/12/18 05:40 PM
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Exactly, game is what gets women on their toes. Couple it with social proof and you have a recipe for alpha fucks.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 02:37 PM
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Women want a man who has a twinkle in their eye, but they don't want to be that twinkle. That was a shit test for you to test if you held frame. You didn't. You seemed needy by consistently following up on her. It's always better to leave a bit of mystery. She will come back, if she knows her orbiters are not as good as her time spent with you. You'll know that you're high value if she does this. Women desire beta traits but they always come back to the alpha even if they don't like it. We have …
/r/askTRP01/12/18 10:45 AM
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Fear stems from a lack of knowledge of the opposite gender. Read books on red pill praxeology. Understand the female nature. Understand your own masculine nature. Get rejected. A lot. From there, you will develop your own self-confidence.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 10:34 AM
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Change your habits. Your current ones are not helping you live a happy life. By changing your habits, you start to develop a better mindset. Quit alcohol. It's a depressant, hence gets you on a depressed state while you are sober. Start reading. Since you have the time all to yourself, instead of jerking off, why not transmute the energy to something more positive? Once you develop this habit, your confidence will naturally build. Knowledge is power. Get some exercise. Jogging is the simplest wo…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 10:32 AM
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I wouldn't recommend it. It's not as practical as reading other books the manosphere has to offer. You have better options to read from. But hey, that's just my opinion. I liked 48 Laws of Power, but this one didn't really provide any positive insights to game.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 10:25 AM
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I think one factor is that your generation is more accepting of red pill at an age when you were at your sexual peak. Nowadays we have men who limit themselves to what they can snag based on capacity to provide and social affluence. Other than that, there is a limited amount of men who are sexually capable of snagging women at their peak just by game itself.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 10:19 AM
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What you’re saying is like stringing a spaghetti, when actually they are just pasta on the same plate.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/18 09:50 AM
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I’m 25, my game has improved since reading about red pill philosophy. I would say it’s better than my earlier 20s but it’s not enough to attract the top tiers. Still have a long way to go in terms of self improvement, affluence and capacity to provide. Women know this intuitively, yet they appreciate men who display good frame despite lack of said terms (affluence, status, etc.) Game-wise, I’m better than most of the men in my age group solely because my knowledge of red pill praxeology has prov…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 09:49 AM
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You're an awesome fella, thanks
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:27 PM
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Thanks, dude I needed this. I recently met with an old plate of mine whom ignited the swallowing of my red pill. She came back, noticed all the self improvement I have worked on and began acting like she is interested in me again. I almost fell for the trap. She only missed the attention, yet a part of me would want to game her still and see if something would come out of it. However, it's getting in my head and decided to prolong the monk mode.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 03:24 PM
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My concern is that I already did tell her that I would like to see her again. From there I stopped messaging her because I knew that was wrong. I have to recalibrate if I want to see this chick again, otherwise I'd rather just move on to the next. She knew my old beta self, but she's seen the red pill me when we met again. There's a remarkable difference, in mindset and body language.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 04:20 AM
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You are correct, at some point yes, but small wins account for progress. Though I think this thought of yours heavily outweigh the small wins, they are not worth celebrating. It's important to consider that you must have discipline to continue on--a habit I'm still trying to form.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 04:39 PM
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Rejection is better than regret. Take the opportunity, seize and lay. If there is none to seize, then the opportunity strikes as a lesson, at least for those who try.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 04:27 PM
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What is this so called ‘dangling the carrot’?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 09:40 AM
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I held frame. Told her in a joking manner, why don't you guys make out then? She didn't. I then flirted with another girl just across the table, while she was beside that girl, with the beta guy on her right. She was looking at me while I was hitting up with another girl. She then preceded to message me again, saying hello. I said I would like to see her again. I really would like to see how things go with her in a red pill perspective. P.S. 5-8 months ago she was the reason why I read The Ratio…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 04:40 PM
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I figured the same thing.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 04:03 PM
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Thanks, kind sir. I needed some rationale. I sort of agree with you.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 03:15 PM
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That is a really valid point you have there. Probably the reason why I'd like to keep her as my plate again is what she said to me that night. She said she's been thinking about me every day. I can tell she likes me, but what differed now is the shift in frame. I think she's operating in my world, it's been 5 months since I have read and acted upon the red pill ideologies. She was the catalyst to this change. I don't know why I would like to waste my time with this chick. Wish I could explain it…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 03:04 PM
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I actually befriended the beta guy in front of her, letting her know that I'm not bothered by it. Poor guy didn't know what to say lol
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:39 PM
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I soft nexted a woman for 5 months, met her again last night. Said she was sorry for whatever she did (she flaked on a date) and that she accused me of ignoring her for such a long time. Said she missed me every day for 5 months, yet she says she likes this guy as she points to the guy across the room. The guy is a beta. ​ Any analysis you can give? I can simply find other options, but I would still like her to be one of my plates.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 10:39 AM
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I'm not doing what anyone else is doing. I am simply describing what works for me. It's understood women dig a man with high SMV, that's just the reality of it. What's been purposely described here are my experiences of finding my own style. Being silent is a choice.. Being extremely social is another, there's a balance. What I did was work on myself, hence got extremely fit, became well read and in the process getting my finances in order. I feel valuable, just being in the room with a pool ful…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/18 01:19 PM
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James Bond may be a fictional character but he is based on human personalities of the past. It is possible to pull this off if you know you are valuable enough to women. That's why I keep reiterating to go monk mode and increase your SMV first, then everything will just start to make sense. You don't need to be good looking to be the person you want to be, you just need to be decent looking. Lift weights, read a lot of books, get your shit together, and the stars will align. Would you rather inc…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:24 PM
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Introversion is no label, but it's an indicator of how to better your game. If you know your temperament is on the low energy spectrum, might as well take advantage of it and use it to game women. It's not an obstacle, but rather another means to express yourself naturally. Introversion is not an excuse to justify not scoring a lot. There's just a different way of expressing masculinity with this type of personality, however fluid they may be. I find that introverts that know how to game have a …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:18 PM
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Remember, frame is game. If you maintain eye contact with someone, it should always feel natural, if not make it feel that it is. Look in the eye with intent, not with dread. Always command. Make your presence felt. Breaking eye contact is a sign of low self confidence. It all boils down to believing in your capacity to share your presence in the room. --Like a cat rubbing its fur on tabletops.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:07 PM
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I'm not the best person at game, but have really good knowledge of it. I also write well. So yes, I can concur with your opinion.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:04 PM
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Yes, if you keep your frame you just naturally command your own actions.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 04:44 PM
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Yes exactly and that’s why I learned that I work best gaming women on a low energy frequency
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 10:41 AM
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High SMV is critical indeed. It's either you work on yourself to reach a point where being silent can be attractive, or you lower your standards and attract women who are lower than your SMV. If you are confident in yourself without anyone's validation, people could really tell a lot about you even without deliberately saying it. Daygame is a number's game. One factor to consider is how good you are when approaching in the day. Normally, I just spark up a conversation with no goal to lay whatsoe…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 06:00 AM
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It's a challenge to find your own style, but once you do, everything just seems to flow naturally.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:52 AM
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I like to think of it that way too. Not much guys pull this type off.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:46 AM
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At the end of the day, it's still a number's game. It just boils down to how comfortable you are with your own style of meeting women.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:46 AM
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The silent types are better suited on day game approaches. Bar settings just doesn't do me any justice when it comes to expressing my own game. Been passively meeting women more on the day than at night. It just so happens that I was with my friends to drink and decided to express low energy game at a high energy location. It doesn't work for most women, but it's more comforting to myself.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:45 AM
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Thanks, appreciate it. Writing has been a passion of mine for years now, just never publicized my thoughts. Will definitely do.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:39 AM
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Well, it's all about frame.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:38 AM
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I watched his 21 Convention talk and also follow his Twitter handle. Haven't read his stuff, but yeah I find that his style is quite similar to mine.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:37 AM
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The strong silent type is quite inefficient in bar settings, but they are extremely efficient on daygame. Bar settings are very loud and would require a lot of energy to connect with women. They have high SMV provided that they work on themselves first. People need to accept that. I'd rather increase my SMV, than lower my standards. Hence, the monk mode and consistent focus on my business. Man's development is more important than gaming women. The 'successful ones' are confident because their ha…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:34 AM
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Well two nights later, the woman I spoke to asked to meet up with me. We made out but we didn't fuck. She was looking for the provider guy already, I on the other hand was just looking to fuck. So it didn't end well I guess lol, but it was alright because I still enjoyed the experience. Going back to your point, silent types won't sit silently in the corner if they have male friends who complement the 'sarging'. I've never been the best type to direct approach because I think it is stupid, yet i…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:09 AM
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Points 1, 2 and 3 can be learned. They formulate one's game. It takes a lot of self-awareness to keep this close to subconscious.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:04 AM
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Yeah, I find that personality types are not static, rather they show what you are in your natural state. People can adapt. Temperament is a different thing. Some people can be high energy, others on the low, but still operate on the same calibrated level.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:01 AM
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By HB10, I mean a girl who I think has a high sexual appeal. It's subjective.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 06:41 PM
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Think of it as an advantage to game. If you don't toke, you get to focus more on saying the right words at the right time, especially to women. It goes a long way. Toking occasionally is okay, just know that you lose frame when you're high.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/18 02:20 PM
1

Are there any links that serve as a guide to this?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/18 08:26 AM
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I hung out with the older guys (now my mentors) from my first corporate sales job. We have the same interests: mainly women. One day, this guy pitched an idea to start his own business and made me one of his business partners. While I am on my second job, I decided to quit and focus on the startup me and my business partners just launched. I've no money at the moment and now relying on my last commissioned sale. Went Monk Mode since I couldn't really spend the lifestyle that I want, therefore no…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/18 06:35 AM
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Yes, yes, I made a mistake with the terminology. Nonetheless, this monk mode has defined my new experiences with women. Sorry for the confusion.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/18 08:27 PM
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Yeah I noticed toking ruins my sharpness to think straight. It doesn’t really mend well will my goals for long term happiness as a man.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/18 07:59 PM
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Hey man, thanks for the correction. Monk mode is the right term, but I hope you get the point. Don’t toke. It ruins your sharpness. I’ve done it. It was good recreationally but it ruins your game.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/18 07:59 PM
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Yeah, monk mode is the right term.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/18 10:03 AM
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I’m exchanging words with a woman through email. I know the girl in person. It started when I messaged her about something which led to a constant back and forth of long emails about philosophy and in depth complex topics. My main objective for initiating this is to improve on my writing, because writing is one thing I love doing. Now, she’s wanting to meet in person. I figure it’s her language for saying “I want to know if you’re for real.” Then again keep in mind my objective is to improve on …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 03:41 AM
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Nice storytelling there! Really loved it. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 08:30 AM
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When I meant 'playing cards', I was sure of myself I was referring to the dating game and how we can further optimize it to our liking. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 06:13 PM
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Take caution, OP. This knowledge may allow yourself to feel hatred for women. They are simply to be appreciated for who they are, and what they are capable of. Playing our cards right is what allows us to have the upper hand. They are still wonderful creatures. With great knowledge, comes great responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 11:54 AM
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Always see the bad in every situation, very important to anticipate whatever outcome will come about. Keep frame and never submit to disappointments.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 02:58 PM
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Rejection is what turns a boy into a man.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 04:03 AM
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We've all been there. It all starts with that one painful mistake from that oneitis experience that awakens our inner red pilled un-snowflaked ideology. Ignorance is definitely not bliss.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 11:29 AM
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I get you man. One thing you need to consider though is the female imperative. We can always be who we are—the romantic, artistic, soulful guy—but we always have to remember that we are operating in a dehumanized feministic society. It is their way of prolonging their sexual market value. My suggestion: keep the soulful mind. Never let go of it, because that’s what makes life a more humanistic experience for us. What will only differ from here onwards is having to keep that soulful, romantic sel…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 09:34 AM
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Another example: Jordan Belfort. Man thought settling for a 6-7 was ideal, but once he began increasing his prime wealth, he settled for a 10. Great lesson in here: it’s better to learn the easy way (through TRP) than learn the hard way through personal experience.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 03:31 PM
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You’re welcome. I’ve learned a lot since I wrote this post. Let me share you another insight. Romance is a great way to express yourself, whether women like the approach or not. I am confident there’s a niche market of women who are into these kinds of things. With that in the way of things, it is very important to always consider the hypergamous ideal. Women will only appreciate it if they know you’re not pleasing them. They know if you’re trying too hard. It’s important to consider that while …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 02:19 AM
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You are welcome. It’s just one way to practice my writing. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 02:07 AM
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Answering your rhetorical questions go outside the realm of TRP, but let me give you my opinion on why being a romantic is important even for someone who indulges in positive masculinity. Romanticism is an art. It is an act of freedom--freedom to express. It is one's way of developing a personal style, and that goes hand in hand with self-expression, to oneself and to influencing others, women included. If going by the structure--the learned way of doing things The Game method--then it may act a…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 02:38 PM
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Thank you, I'm giving this INFP framework a rest and move on with progress and potential. I learned it's been holding me back, dictating what life should be like for me. It's quite an impediment and I've come to conclusion with it. I do agree it would take time. Rome wasn't built in a day.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 05:29 PM
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Thanks, I'll definitely take this into my account. From the amount of substantial comments I received in this post, I've come to the conclusion that MBTI (although not entirely bullshit), is nothing more than a guideline. Hence, I'll drop this in exchange for my growth and my going outside the box. Romanticism is not dead, but I've begun to believe that we are in a developing society. It is great for expressing depth, but it must be aided with practical reasoning as to why it should be used to w…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 04:11 PM
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Thanks for sharing the other side of the coin. I learned plenty from this. That's not to say that Romanticism is dead, it is within the depths of man to express it should the need arise for him to do so.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 04:07 PM
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Oh, I didn't mean it to be negative when I referred it as a stereotype. It becomes negative when women, unconsciously, find these behavior as the norm to which they can be wooed, as opposed to the depths of one's romantic sensitivities. We are in a disposition where the ideal is based on alcohol, clubs, etc. I'm not saying most follow this norm, but this is what we're seeing based off media and the likes which lead to an influence of behavior. I wouldn't say romanticism is dead as it is merely a…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 07:38 AM
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Now that you mentioned it, let me give you an example of my idealist belief versus the realist standard. I prefer my ways of flirting to be that of the romantic, as opposed to the stereotypically alpha approach (Justin Bieber fuckboy type of shit.) I believe poetry, painting, language will go far when it comes to wooing a woman. If the woman dislikes this approach, then it's on her, and not on my ideals. It's just not me to flirt what the standard seems acceptable in society. If I do it, it woul…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 04:55 AM
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Not necessarily. It's about understanding what women truly are, and reassessing your ideals to make things easier for you. If you want to conform, go ahead, but that would make you a textbook, structured man. You'll go far if you go your own way, so long as you stick to the principles and knowledge of TRP. After all, it's still your own life, might as well live it the way you want it. The real tragedy here is not knowing a woman's true nature sooner than expected. We're already lucky enough to k…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 04:51 AM
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I didn't mean it that way. I'm just sharing my views as an introvert, and (separately) my desire to being romantic. I'd rather keep my views on romance while having an RP mindset even if women prefer the more stereotypically alpha approach. If that's the case, it's on them and not on me.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 04:40 AM
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Yeah, I'm aware that frame is for us more than women, but at that time I was very authentic when I said I felt upset. I wasn't thinking about the consequences. Keeping frame should be aligned with one's authenticity, otherwise you'd end up making an act/fool of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 04:38 AM
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Yes, by default, I am an introvert. I can be an extrovert should it be necessary for me to be one however it would tire me out quick. I guess not all introverts spend their time theorizing, but here's what I can tell you: introverts always plan things out in their heads. It's up to them whether or not they put action to it--and it's not dependent on whether or not you are an introvert.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 04:27 AM
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I'm glad we share the same perspective. We only want what's best for ourselves.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 05:56 PM
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Care to expound on that fella?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 05:56 PM
1

Yes I only figured it the moment I sent the message.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 07:53 AM
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Why is it bad practice? I cross posted and it didn't quite work at the other sub lol
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 05:46 AM
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That's not to disregard any external validation/influence/morals. It's more so being authentic to what I want, as compared to the constructed formula of what should be and what everyone else is doing. I mean both fall under the same umbrella of the pill, but if disregarding what I believe is would benefit my authentic self, that would be akin to someone selling his soul to the devil. Take this for example, wooing a woman. Most guys go the route of money/status/fame, yes they are important in thi…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 05:29 AM
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Yes, it's just a spectrum, but prior to testing the results, I have been this way and felt comfortable the way I am, even if it means improving myself for the better.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 05:05 AM
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I understand what you're saying, appreciate it more so. I wouldn't say I didn't see it that way, because prior to reading about this pop psychology bullshit, I've always been this way and felt authentic the way I am. If going outside the box means going against my poetic expression, to pursue a hypergamous relationship, then that would be a conflicting edge because that would mean stabbing my own back to something the world expects of me.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 05:03 AM
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Here's something to ponder on. Most guys go the traditional flirting strategy that is often done based on what they have learned from books, from society, from any kind of resource. I, on the other hand, as an idealist prefer my own way of getting the girl, no matter how much they dislike the approach. I prefer poetry, music, language--some old school Renaissance stuff. It's my individuality and I want to keep it that way. If going against these ideals mean for a hypergamous ideal and going the …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 05:01 AM
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Thanks, I only want what's best for people like me, the introverts, the ones who people mistake as shy and weird. Here are my list of books that I can recall that helped me through my journey, as an introvert: The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi Quiet: The Power of Introverts In a World That Can't Stop Talking by Susan Cain The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle The Way of The Superior Man by David Deida
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 04:57 AM
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I'm pretty sure you fell into a state of flow as you typed all those up, but I'm glad you did. Also sure you were authentic when you typed those, I feel like we would understand each other better because this is what we are made of. I wouldn't be surprised to see a lot of INFPs feeling the same way. This is the real dilemma most of us face, and this falls under the umbrella of men, because men have different types of personalities. It just so happens that we are the highly emotional ones. Those …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 04:49 AM
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It’s more of a guide to help you course through by getting to know what your personality is like based on your actions. Saying and believing what it says on the MBTI scale will definitely look like astrology if you don’t know your own behavior. I self identify myself as an INFP because I know in my heart that that’s my temperament.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 04:14 AM
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Thanks, kind stranger. I'm currently reading TRM, almost halfway through the book. Everything stated in it is pragmatic, real and sensible. It's a matter of adapting my personality to Tomassi's teachings. All four points you mentioned I've already swallowed, slowly, critically examining it for its subversive nature. I am not any one of the four points you mentioned, although prior to reading TRM and reading on TRP I was once, and so are most of the people here. When I meant about romantic ideals…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 07:55 PM
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Thank you, kind stranger, for allowing me to view realism more as a goal than a setback.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 07:11 PM
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I'm no special snowflake. I get that we are what we bring to the table, fully aware of that. All I'm saying is that it's conflicting to go against my beliefs, while also accepting the TRP knowledge (such is what you've mentioned on status/money/looks which I totally accept.) My beliefs include: being authentic, genuine, and overly compassionate. These are what make me such an idealist. That's not being a special snowflake as it is part of one's personality. Do you think it's only mental masturba…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 07:04 PM
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Thank you, thank you, thank you for sharing this insight. I completely agree that ideals should be thoroughly reviewed upon learning through the journey of life. This may stray away from the heavy RP terminology as it is going beyond positive masculinity, and more so on the dichotomy, but I figured it is under the umbrella of its knowledge. However, to be more specific on the idealistic approach, it is my ideal to remain youthful (and by that I mean authentic, innocent, genuine) on romance, comm…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 06:53 PM
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Very well said, fellow introvert. I just find it conflicting to give up our youthful perspective on love and commitment, especially when it is engraved on our own personalized skin, in exchange for knowing the TRP mindset. I appreciate what TRP has given me, but I also respect my own idealistic beliefs (that being romantic is a part of who I am.) I accept the TRP knowledge, with all my heart. But sometimes even if the truth sets us free, it's not necessarily so, because youthful idealism is stil…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 06:37 PM
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Hahaha, I wasn't able to catch up to the humor. Thanks for reassuring.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 05:56 PM
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MBTI is actually a framework, a tool to see how the world is like from that certain personality type. It is not a horoscope or some sort of magical reasoning. It's pretty much backed up by good research.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 05:48 PM
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I like how everyone in this sub emphasizes on keeping frame. I lost frame when an intimate friend flaked on me at a time when I was trying to make her my plate. I told her I felt upset and that felt like the end of it. It hurt a while, but now I'm bouncing back.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 05:38 PM
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If any of you kill yourselves over a girl I will personally travel to the afterlife, pull your ass back into the realm of the living and knock some fucking sense into you. This is wise, red-pilled, afterlife, mystical knowledge I have yet to do should a friend of mine ever decide to do such gibberish. Let's hope it doesn't lead to that.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 07:23 AM
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This is spot on. I've been following this habit of only meeting with people if there is something to gain from it. Not necessarily material things, but learning and experiences in general, especially about life. Hunting packs come together when they feel like there is a mutual symbiosis between men when it comes to learning RP related stuff.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 04:14 AM
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Yeah, I get the point. Money is just a means to enjoy the leisures in this world that we're in. Problem is, the experiences that I want in life require an amount of money, such as traveling and creating my own fashion industry. Even on a smaller ratio, I'd love to travel even just on a national scale. I'd love to make a fashion label also on a national scale. Despite the large/small ratio, both require money. I just resigned from work because I was not happy with what I was doing. Now I am unemp…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 03:45 AM
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It's hard not to be depressed when you know that life has no purpose, and is using experiences as a means to enjoy existence. I'm sick of my office job, and going flat broke alone.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 05:11 PM
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Nice read because it makes total sense.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 01:53 PM
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Me and my friend went out as Cheech and Chong just last night. It was a good night. Chicks digged the costume and were taking photos with us. Instant turn on that they know the reference.
/r/seduction30/10/16 03:48 AM
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This is nice, but without infusing your own personality to the said "cheat codes", it would be difficult to apply these techniques.
/r/seduction24/08/16 02:48 AM
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I have an officemate right now who displayed through body language that she's attracted to me. She was very touchy and playful with how things went. Whenever I ask her to come join me for lunch, she would go. I wasn't quite reciprocating with her emotions, just steady body language. Not too friendly, not too seductive. So, one day she stopped being playful and currently has this bitch shield. How do I break it and spark the emotions back?
/r/seduction13/07/16 07:36 AM
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The headphones part is so real. I've been listening to music on most time when I was still in college to give myself a reason not to socialize with people I know who walk pass by me on the hallways. That must have sucked for my college me. Now that I'm working I still feel the same in being the least confident man in the room. Well, mostly because of the beliefs you have shared: that I am a skinny, non-attractive, (still a) non-financially independent, human being.
/r/seduction25/04/16 06:58 AM
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What did he say? Missed the comment.
/r/seduction12/04/16 10:06 AM
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James Bond films imo
/r/seduction28/02/16 06:55 AM
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Thanks for this
/r/seduction27/02/16 01:14 PM
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Totally agree. In my country, the norm here is to still live with the parents even at a working age, so I find it difficult to suck it all up by saying I have a healthy sex life. It just feels awkward talking about it.
/r/seduction29/01/16 06:15 PM
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wat
/r/seduction25/01/16 04:12 PM
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But I guess it still works, and fairly depends on the person being messaged.
/r/seduction25/01/16 04:11 PM
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Well said, OP. Upvoted.
/r/seduction25/01/16 04:10 PM
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Really do need your advice on anything Tinder related as of late. Will message you. Hope you reply mate!
/r/seduction24/01/16 04:59 AM
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Date got rescheduled. She thought we're meeting in the afternoon, while I thought we're meeting during night time. Probably my fault for the poor logistics. Hopefully we get to meet next week though
/r/seduction23/01/16 05:04 AM
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You're a good dude, man. Thanks.
/r/seduction22/01/16 04:45 PM
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If you don't mind keeping posted on my situation, and I would gladly appreciate if you do, here's what happened. I texted her an hour ago regarding the supposed date tonight and this is how the conversation came about. Was she straightforward or were there any shit tests that occurred? I'm using a Facebook image link rather than imgur cause imgur isn't working at the moment. 1: https://z-1-scontent-hkg3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xla1/v/t34.0-12/12606711_10153572123902851_1559481267_n.jpg?oh=8187dce…
/r/seduction22/01/16 08:37 AM
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I have a date tonight with a girl I met through Tinder. To be honest, I'm quite nervous as to what I would say for the mere fact that I might screw things up. I can talk about random things all night but combining kino with it is what I still need practicing.
/r/seduction22/01/16 05:01 AM
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Does it show more assertion if I just reply to her the name of the bar, or is "You good with _____?" any better? Does it really matter though? Either way in the end we're meeting anyway.
/r/seduction21/01/16 06:49 AM
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Hey, just an update. She replied by saying "Sure. You have a place in mind?" Does that still count as hedging? Do I just respond directly by giving an answer cause that's what I would do if I fail to analyze the meaning behind the texts. Your help would be gladly appreciated.
/r/seduction21/01/16 03:56 AM
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Well said. Thank you!
/r/seduction20/01/16 04:18 PM
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Very informative. I appreciate it. I went with option #1. One thing is in my mind though. If she affirms, assuming that she's free on said date, do I get her number only for when the date gets closer or what?
/r/seduction20/01/16 03:45 PM
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Here. Forgive me it isn't in imgur format. I actually responded by saying "Friday?" Also take note she's studying in a different university although 70% of my friends study there too. Around 50 mutual friends. Not sure if that information is important. https://z-1-scontent-hkg3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xtf1/v/t34.0-12/12576009_10153569007407851_1764877768_n.jpg?oh=0d6d636841db41d3602a0e9fbb87fd50&oe=56A1881F
/r/seduction20/01/16 03:13 PM
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I'm not trying to argue with you here. Like I said, I'm new to this. I'm still testing the waters as to what's good and what's not. Not giving a fuck doesn't do the trick because it doesn't allow me to learn new stuff. Just my two cents.
/r/seduction20/01/16 02:32 PM
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You think that would be enough?
/r/seduction20/01/16 02:07 PM
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How do you respond to women who don't like it when you touch them? Do you feel awkward? Cause I know I do
/r/seduction13/01/16 07:07 AM
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For now I've been building comfort with her through Snapchat. We've been casually chatting but we still haven't met in person.
/r/seduction11/01/16 03:30 PM
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Yes, I completely understand what you said, but to me it's kinda hard to act when she's responding negatively to kino. I'm gonna be like, oh shit she doesn't like me touching her, what do I do now? So, I become clueless as to what to do next because she doesn't comply with it, which eventually doesn't look natural at all.
/r/seduction11/01/16 02:47 PM
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Some girls in general though do not seem to respond positively towards kino. How do men respond to it afterwards?
/r/seduction09/01/16 03:00 PM
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How do you make kino look natural though?
/r/seduction09/01/16 11:48 AM
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Are resources (money, looks, social proof) important in game? Because to me it seems that women value these things for someone to be of interest.
/r/seduction09/01/16 11:45 AM
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But what about OP's financial problem? That made him feel inferior and that totally affected his social skills. People often judge those who are at a low point financially, and their interaction towards these people are skewed to a point that their values have diminished as an individual. Take my situation for example. I too have a financial-family problem and that totally skews my relationship with my peers.
/r/seduction17/12/15 06:28 AM
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I can't believe we share exactly the same sentiments, especially the coming from a lower middle class part. That always made me feel inferior to my peers, which totally affected my social skills.
/r/seduction17/12/15 06:00 AM
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Got it!
/r/seduction29/11/15 03:14 PM
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What should I do in my situation? I sort of had an interaction with this woman in a college bar. I was able to establish rapport and super minimal kino during that night. The week after I saw her again at that same place, and funny how we couldn't remember each other's names but still she gave it, and that's how we became friends on Facebook. Upon semi-stalking her page, I noticed that she is in a relationship with another woman. Yes, another woman. So, the week after that I saw her again and sa…
/r/seduction08/11/15 10:27 AM
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So are you subconsciously telling me to game with the less attractive ones for the mere reason of gaining experience? Hope I caught your drift.
/r/seduction02/11/15 01:03 PM
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I don't see the analogy
/r/seduction02/11/15 12:28 PM
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If you were a woman, you wouldn't notice that since most interaction are focused on kino and nonverbal communication lmao
/r/seduction02/11/15 10:27 AM
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Holy shit. I'm about to feel the same thing. I only have at least 2 months left til I'm done with college. Haven't been laid the entire 5 years in college. Been hoping I'd make a personal difference in the remaining months left. The ones that are actually into me in college bars are the ugly ones, and I know I wouldn't stoop down so as to break my boundaries for these women, beer goggles or not.
/r/seduction02/11/15 10:24 AM
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Whatever comes to mind, specifically?
/r/seduction23/10/15 07:26 PM
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What to say once you approach that random girl?
/r/seduction23/10/15 11:45 AM
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I've been trying to internalize that "don't give a fuck if she rejects you" mentality. Like, I've read about it based on the many posts I've read on AA, but it's just so hard to apply when given the situation first hand -- as many of the readers of this post feel. I don't think the mentality happens in a snap and say "oh from this day forward I will not give a fuck about rejection". I think it's a long term process.
/r/seduction21/10/15 12:08 PM
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Well, that's what I feel every time I see a pretty woman, and I think about fucking the moment up. For me, it depends on the type of woman I'm about to interact with.
/r/seduction21/10/15 11:29 AM
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Well, what if the girl is really pretty as compared to the other women you've approached? Just something to think about.
/r/seduction21/10/15 09:01 AM
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I sent you a PM dude!
/r/seduction19/10/15 07:17 AM
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I'm on the same boat as you, man. From what I think, we lose interest because we feel that if we let this investment of hers continue, it might end up with us getting hurt in the end. Or maybe in my case, I don't know what to do from that point onwards, so I resort to fucking up the situation. Hope this helps.
/r/seduction10/10/15 09:29 AM
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That is what I do whenever I feel like I'm having second thoughts on approaching. I have to read something powerful, but ends up fucking it up in the end. :(
/r/seduction26/09/15 04:34 AM
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You think it's okay to include "HAHAHA" in texts? All caps is what people usually do here from where I'm at.
/r/seduction26/09/15 04:34 AM
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It actually didn't come off a book, nonetheless still a good quote. "The absence of desire leaves one free to pursue other things." -Varys
/r/seduction26/09/15 03:59 AM
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He compensated through his talent in acting.
/r/seduction20/09/15 02:56 PM
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I'm 5"4' and have never gone on a successful attempt to seduction. Is my height the sole cause of it? Probably.
/r/seduction20/09/15 07:12 AM
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Thanks for the insight, but I was referring to girl friends in general not relationship wise :-)
/r/seduction17/09/15 08:21 AM
1

So how do I escalate from there?
/r/seduction16/09/15 03:40 PM
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But aren't girls tired of hearing the same questions over and over? Why not talk about something else to which I have no idea where to start from.
/r/seduction16/09/15 01:58 PM
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Flexing streetwear fashion, collecting sneakers, smoking weed, watching South Park Am I living a boring life?
/r/seduction11/09/15 05:58 AM
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Street smart. Let me try this.
/r/seduction11/09/15 05:02 AM
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How do you spark up sexual tension?
/r/seduction26/08/15 02:30 PM
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Is it okay to chat her out of the most random moment? What if we haven't talked in a very long time?
/r/seduction26/08/15 09:25 AM
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This post is solid dude. I'm at my super senior year, which means that I'm at my 5th year in college and that all my mates have already graduated and now working. I don't know anyone in the university anymore except maybe for a couple of familiar faces. I plan to do day game on the freshmen, but I do not have a medium to spark up a neat conversation given the fact that these freshmen come in cliques. I used to be a college drinker back in my prime days as a college student. The funny thing back …
/r/seduction26/08/15 09:19 AM
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Does this approach apply regardless of culture? I live in a country where most women are conservative.
/r/seduction28/07/15 08:59 AM
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To answer your question, yes she is a friend, but not the type of friend whom I get to hang out with on a daily basis. More of like an acquaintance as a result of having a lot of mutual friends. Thank you for your insightful response.
/r/seduction23/07/15 04:36 AM
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What about pre-game prior to or after watching the movie? Will I be able to use kino then? Your argument seems valid enough for me to think that, although not impossible: to just enjoy the movie with a friend due to the limitations of the situation. I'm not giving a "I really like this girl" card, but I do want to practice kino on her, and at the same time enjoy the movie. My kino is far from excellent, you see. I also find it difficult to make kino seem natural to my personality. It has been a …
/r/seduction22/07/15 05:47 PM
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Thank you for enlightening me. I will use tomorrow as an avenue for practicing kino, and also just have a fun time with her. I will try not to be outcome dependent and just be natural. If you ask for a field report, I'd gladly give you one.
/r/seduction22/07/15 10:25 AM
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I just read both your articles. Nice work by the way. I've known the concept of outcome dependence since back then, but fail to actually apply this mentality in person. Is it wrong to say that being carefree on the outcome is the same as being outcome dependent? For example, being reckless and doing whatever the fuck I want, not caring how she would react to it. Is that being outcome dependent? Or in a more situational setting, keep touching her and not giving a fuck about what would happen when…
/r/seduction22/07/15 09:41 AM
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Hi there. I would like to leave some pressing questions before reading your article. I feel weird about myself for touching her because I am upholding my self limiting beliefs like, "Oh, I feel like this girl would not respond well if I touch her" or "Am I doing this right?" In other words, I feel like I am too concerned with the outcome. Yes, it is easy to understand such concepts of kino, but applying it is an entirely different thing. I feel like I am not good enough. I don't know, I just rea…
/r/seduction22/07/15 08:41 AM
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