| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 469 | It’s rough out there | FDS HUMOR | peanut-butter-vibes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 02:55 AM |
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| 48 | Any halfway decent Christmas films?yes! i love her realization when she kicks him out of the house and says, “I’ve got a life to start living…and you’re not going to be in it! :)” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 07:55 AM |
| 8 | This is why we block and delete, it’s as much about preventing our own harmful acts in a moment of weakness.honey, look at your life. look at your choices. was she able to recoupe the costs with tiktok views at least?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 04:13 AM |
| 41 | Break up songs by guys that make you laughme & ur ghost is another good one. he loves to make dramatic catchy break up songs lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 08:02 AM |
| 19 | Maid on Netflix - Breakdown and analyses of key ideas around women's experiences who flee DV - and how this related to FDSi agree with everything you said. it’s what makes it so hard for abuse victims to leave NVM too. especially when you’ve been deprived of love for so long. you don’t even realize it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 04:28 AM |
| 66 | Maid on Netflix - Breakdown and analyses of key ideas around women's experiences who flee DV - and how this related to FDSThis show WRECKED me. I suffer from chronic PTSD from growing up with abusive parents and dealing with an abusive brother and abusive boyfriends all throughout my 20’s. The scene where Alex sinks into the couch is the BEST example of dissociation I’ve ever seen on TV. It really hit home for me. Make sure you take breaks watching this show. It can be very triggering 🧡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 04:25 AM |
| 22 | Weekly FDS Check-Ini needed to share this with my sisters here. my ex who i’ve been NC with for a month just texted me asking to have sex bc he’s having “withdrawals”. the audacity. the disrespect. the void of empathy. i can’t believe i ever loved this person. i’m feeling sad though. this is not the first time an ex has come back trying to elicit NSA sex. my dating narrative of men being assholes continues to form. i know damn well i deserve better than being treated as a loser’s free prostitute. why are they like… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 03:38 AM |
| 39 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the Victimalthough it is widely to be believed she is dead, that is not yet confirmed. OP, i would update that part of your post. i watched the vid and this poor girl was blaming herself for everything. i can see my 22 year old self in her being in a toxic relationship. i pray she is found safely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 08:29 PM |
| 24 | The Top 10 Professions With the Most Psychopathsi was surprised finance bros was not listed given how many psychos work on wallstreet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 05:52 AM |
| 16 | Fuck boy is broken, gotta let him goyaaas sis. ugh whys there gotta be so many of them 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 03:11 AM |
| 13 | A Little Humor For Y’all :)why are there so many of them i’ve come across 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 02:52 AM |
| 822 | This is how you savagely troll an insecure egolmaoo why is he going around fishing for compliments in the first place? I was cringing along with her during the push ups moment 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 11:10 PM |
| 6 | The truth tea ☕️🐸I’m three months out of a relationship and I’ve already gotten a job promotion and a new car. Funny how that happens | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 11:32 PM |
| 104 | Vetting Men by their job positionYUP, my estranged narc brother was a bartender for over a decade. i lived with him for awhile and every girl he brought home was younger (so he can manipulate and cheat on them). last girl i knew he dated was 15 years younger than him. he went to jail for strangling her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 02:26 PM |
| 13 | Signs you have been benched or 'kept warm' and how to avoid it happening to youcompletely agree! i think we sometimes overestimate how much game most men actually have to be rotating women. you can be benched bc they are just prioritizing their time spent on their dog, work, mom, hobbies - everything else BUT YOU. definitely still bounce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 05:03 AM |
| 15 | THE CORE OF THE DATING WAR: Money.i’ve been shamed by my last two LVXes for making more money than them (uhh because I worked my damn ass OFF). they had the audacity to put me down to feel better about themselves. smh never again will i date someone who makes less than me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 06:50 AM |
| 4 | If he still uses Snapchat, lovebombs you in the talking stage, and/or attempts to triangulate you against his ex/gf while seeing you or otherwise uses EtHiCaL nOnMoNoGaMy to justify why he needs multiple women, DISCARD HIM. Do not be the unwitting participant in any scrote’s harem 🤮iTs bIoLogY sO iTs iN tHeIr dNa tO sPrEaD tHeIr sEeD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 05:51 AM |
| 28 | This should be engraved in the stonemy dad literally said this to me last night when he made a mean joke. i told him i didn’t appreciate those kind of jokes for the millionth time. no wonder i date shit men :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 05:00 AM |
| 32 | Remember, abuse starts slowly and grows.It’s SO true that it happens gradually. He would slowly get worse over time. It started with finding out his ex girlfriend’s parents absolutely despised him 🚩 He would be complimentary on my body and affectionate, but would throw me snide remarks about how I’m so “square” and that I’m not a very deep person like he thought I was. 🚩🚩 The first time we had the “what are we?” talk, he literally dodge it by walking away from me and got into the shower. Then a few days later he blamed me for HIM losi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 12:32 AM |
| 20 | Walk away!Me too. I get the 3 week free trial and then after that I’m paying for it big time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inI did it. I finally broke it off with a LVM I was seeing for 4 months [of hell]. All the sudden my anxiety has lessened. I’ve accepted he can’t give me what I deserve and I’m finally okay with being alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 05:01 AM |
| 30 | What to do when a man mansplains 😂I’ve done this and he got sooo defensive. He then went to Google the topic to try to further explain it to me 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 02:49 AM |
| 63 | Low effort meme but it's for LVM soOh my god my fitnessboi ex was EXACTLY the same. He boasted about his Italian genes and how great of a cook he was, all the while would just cook me dry chicken and asparagus then cover it with chic fil a Buffalo sauce ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 05:05 AM |
| 14 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!Ughhh I’m so sorry. That is just awful. I went through something so eerily similar. Your comment made me realize I’ve been repressing the memories and forgot how truly terrible the experiences were. Fucking hell I wish I stood up for myself better back then. I hate how society doesn’t condone this behavior more. I’m glad we are no longer putting up with the shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 05:36 AM |
| 6 | Is marriage really worth it ? Are men even worth the trouble ?It is beyond terrifying how normal that monster seemed in text messages and social media. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:01 AM |
| 47 | Say it louder for those LVMs in the backI swear almost every time I post on social media pics of food that I cooked, someone comments “damnnn wifey material” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:32 AM |
| 11 | Another addition to Stitched Strategies - “Actions express Priorities”Actions over time express priorities. Men will fake early on. Vetting is so important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:54 AM |
| 3 | CALL THEIR BLUFF 2020Back in my 🤡 days, the morning after I slept with a dude I decided to google his full name (he told me his last name the night before). Turns out he lied about his age and he had two mugshots on Google! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:27 AM |
| 32 | Helped someone learn they’re dating a LVM today. Sent her his dating profile and screenshots of our date plans for this weekend.and BEYONCE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 02:28 AM |
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