| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | How to tell when you're making boring convo vs. the other person? | pertichor | /r/seduction | 23/03/14 06:26 PM | |
| 3 | How to develop an escalation situation? (college student) | pertichor | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 12:19 AM | |
| 1 | Alpha things to say in certain situations? | pertichor | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 05:44 AM | |
| 1 | Spinning plates vs. texting/Semi-field report | Field Report | pertichor | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 05:16 PM |
| 0 | Tinder - "So why are you on tinder?" avoided? | pertichor | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 08:57 PM | |
| 0 | Good response to some very annoying people? | pertichor | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 07:51 PM | |
| 0 | Negging vs. supplication in normal everyday interactions? | pertichor | /r/seduction | 23/02/14 01:29 AM |
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| 8 | Mark Manson: 6 healthy relationship habits most people think are toxicDamn does Mark have a way with words. Remember what made you you and what drew you to your partner in the first place. Without this space, without this oxygen to breathe, the fire between the two of you will die out and what were once sparks will become only friction. | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 05:17 AM |
| 1 | New to /r/seduction, need help on small topicWhat if you like lifting? Your logic says to go to a place where girls would lift like....a gym. But tons of posts on this subreddit talk about gyms being an anti-social space you shouldn't approach. | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 01:36 AM |
| 3 | I hate the way I sound when I speak...any tips for having a calmer, deeper, more confident drawl?Maybe it's all in your head (ba-dum tsss). Seriously. When I talk, to me it sounds like I'm a pre-pubescent boy. But when I hear recordings of my voice, I have a deeper than average voice. | /r/seduction | 30/05/14 09:04 PM |
| -1 | For the last damn timeBut that's a thinking trap for many of the low self-esteem guys on this sub. I don't think you realize how many guys here have low confidence, and genuinely deserve women to like them (they can be funny, good looking, talented, interesting, tall, muscular), even when they do dislike themselves. | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Depressed and confused...I honestly have no idea how people hook up, find girlfriends, get married etc.So #3...leave your possessions with a stranger? | /r/seduction | 17/04/14 04:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you react when girls that rejected you start patronizing you (and you work with them)Wow, I was the first post, and I think OP just skipped over my advice. | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 04:23 PM |
| 2 | How can I find a party/social event to meet people at?I agree with /u/BlueIsStylinOnYou...it's not a matter of decency. It's a matter of simply not caring enough about random strangers to have them at the top of priority list for parties. Unless you are really socially magnetic/charismatic (which OP doesn't sound like) then this isn't really dependable. (or unless you're a girl w/ or w/o big tits) | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Was hitting it off well, not sure what happened?This. She had OP's hat, and OP didn't have her number. There's a non-zero chance the girl actually took off with his hat, felt bad, and came back to return it. After OP failed the shit tests of course. | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Best place for day gameSerious question. Some of these places where you approach (like malls)...what if you happen upon a 15 year old girl but you can't tell? Girls are getting a LOT more developed, younger, these days. I'm only 19, but I don't want to be that guy hitting on HS freshmen. | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 07:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you react when girls that rejected you start patronizing you (and you work with them)There's a saying that goes, "If you're trying to win a specific girl over, then you've already lost." I'm still somewhat new to all this Seduction stuff, but lemme try to take a crack at it. You straight up told her you want to date? Like you verbally said that? That's kind of weird since you didn't even k-close her. This isn't middle school; you don't just tell a girl you want to date methinks. Nice to her? Or being a complete pushover to her? There's a difference. Nice but confident guys don't… | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 07:00 PM |
| 1 | What's the best way to respond to "Will you still love me when I'm fat?", "What would you do if I get chubby?", etcI'm trying to get used to having alpha answers. This is what I came up with: "Nah, I'd get a one million mile restraining order from you." WITH a playful tone and a smirk (I'm emphasizing the playful tone!) Good/bad? | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 06:51 PM |
| 1 | How I got a kiss close when she said "but we just met"If you go for a second kiss attempt "do you want to kiss me" becomes off limits to use again, right? | /r/seduction | 08/04/14 05:46 AM |
| 3 | How I got a kiss close when she said "but we just met"But that's not a riddle, it's a question :( | /r/seduction | 08/04/14 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone had a girl found out about, well...this?But it's so ironic. The people that demonize women for a natural desire, sex, and don't mind if men have sex, are the ones that call PUA's sexists. What a double standard. | /r/seduction | 08/04/14 05:28 AM |
| 3 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspectiveMen age like wine, but women age like milk. | /r/seduction | 03/04/14 06:13 AM |
| 33 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspectiveGod, that's why I love this sub. A while back, there was a post in /r/AskWomen shitting on guys for the saying "women don't know what they want." I made the mistake of actually replying and I said that in the realm of attracting women, that it's true. I gave a few arguments. As a final note, I also said that it's silly to ask the fish and not the fisherman how to fish. Lo and behold, I reached like -20 karma and had a bunch of replies focusing only on the analogy and how it objectified women...c… | /r/seduction | 03/04/14 06:06 AM |
| 1 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspectiveYour game can be terrible yet we will still want to fuck your brains out if you smell amazing. I don't believe this. I'm still not sure of whether to follow the scentless (or rather minimal body scent) route, or the cologne route. Women are genuinely drawn towards men with different major histocompatibility complexes (MHC) from their own. In other words, women are more attracted to men with different scents from themselves. How you should use that in seduction, I don't know, but it definitely pl… | /r/seduction | 03/04/14 05:55 AM |
| 3 | What other subreddits do you recommend to complement /r/seduction?/r/frugalmalefashion | /r/seduction | 03/04/14 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Just went on the best date in months, and it cost me $0Bullshit. People like you are the reason that it's completely socially acceptable to read about things and learn to better yourself mentally, but as soon as a guy wants to lift to better himself physically, then he's narcissistic. | /r/seduction | 27/03/14 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Ladder of challengesGood stuff! Mental blocks are tough for me, but everything gets easier for me when I turn it into a challenge or a game! | /r/seduction | 27/03/14 06:34 AM |
| 2 | GUIDE: Kino (touching a girl) [Thijs Quality Post]I always read about kino in a club context. How about in broad daylight, for a college student? | /r/seduction | 26/03/14 07:15 AM |
| 0 | Spinning plates vs. texting/Semi-field reportGod dammit. I must've gotten the number from her at like noon, told her I'd text her my number, and like 10 hours later I texted her "Hey I just met you, and this is crazy..." And she hasn't texted back. | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Spinning plates vs. texting/Semi-field reportGod dammit. I must've gotten the number from her at like noon, told her I'd text her my number, and like 10 hours later I texted her "Hey I just met you, and this is crazy..." And she hasn't texted back. | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 03:55 AM |
| 2 | How to develop an escalation situation? (college student)And yes, I have read the sidebar and tons of posts here. Everything I read seems to not apply to [underage] college students without a car at a small school. | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Had an epiphany today I thought I'd share: Women don't want a guy who gets them, they want a man who is attractive and exciting.Most guys try to understand women to find an essence or weakness that they can attack. This in itself communicates neediness. Finding a weakness to attack? You mean teasing or negging? I don't see how that's needy though. | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Spinning plates vs. texting/Semi-field reportuse a phone Okay, that sounds good. A lot more time consuming than texting, but okay! . You did call her and go out with her. Avoid eye contact is typical in first meetings. ?? I met her once and I asked for her number. I still haven't called or even texted her. | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 08:15 PM |
| 2 | A Facebook trend I've noticedYeah, this. Going from one extreme to the other is still a bit try-hard. Just treat girls like guys--if their picture is actually really cool or their comment is really funny, then like it. But if it's some no talent shit like a picture of their titties, then while it's hot, it doesn't count for much in my book. | /r/seduction | 23/03/14 06:32 PM |
| -1 | A little hack to keep your head straightI don't understand any of this lol. What do you mean by "head straight"? And the top of your glasses? wtf | /r/seduction | 23/03/14 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Your Guide from the College Daygame MasterAm I right in assuming that's like game where you treat a girl like a little sister? To disarm them? Oh he's acting like I'm his little sister. No way he's trying to fuck me. Time to let my guard down. and Oh, he's just there to learn. No way he's trying to fuck me. Time to let my guard down. And then when a girl's guard is down, build rapport? | /r/seduction | 22/03/14 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Your Guide from the College Daygame MasterI never understood what to do once you do have their number though. Unless you're some sort of creep or repulsive person, like 99% of the time girls will give their number out like candy to someone they're in a common group with (like a class for example) | /r/seduction | 22/03/14 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Your Guide from the College Daygame MasterI'll still never completely understand the eye contact thing--especially the 5 second thing you said /u/LiftBodyUpThenDown. So you go up to a random girl and you stare at her for 5 seconds? Smiling? Expressionless? | /r/seduction | 22/03/14 07:16 PM |
| 2 | An AFC's Guide to TextingI wouldn't call a girl to tell a joke. I find your advice contradictory. | /r/seduction | 22/03/14 07:08 PM |
| 0 | Discussion: should you continue to chat up girls if you're starting to see someone?Spinning. Plates. | /r/seduction | 16/03/14 11:01 PM |
| 6 | Rejection doesn't have to be a sad or a neutral feeling, it can be a great feeling.How do you guys act if a girl rejects you? I know to definitely not act butthurt, desperate, or sad over it. Smile and change the conversation? Smile and leave? | /r/seduction | 04/03/14 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Article: Too Short, Too Ugly, Too [insert inadequacy here]Third, men erroneously assume that women place the same emphasis on physical appearance as men do. This leads men to place unnatural emphasis on men’s fashion, makeovers, bodybuilding, etc. None of these address the real issue hindering your attractiveness—your inability to create order. I'm sorry /r/malefashionadvice and /r/Fitness... | /r/seduction | 03/03/14 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Article: How to create attractionTonality: speak slower, deeper, avoid filter words (umm, you know, etc) have your voice under control. How about RSD Tyler? Dude always seems hyper as fuck, and he does great. His voice is sort of high too. | /r/seduction | 03/03/14 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Are some people genuinely more difficult to talk to or is it just a mindset issue?I think definitely. Someone who has have tons of interesting life experiences is probably more easy to talk to than someone who has been sheltered. | /r/seduction | 22/02/14 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Specifically, what's holding you back from being really good with women?The skill to be in a large environment. I'm at a college of 1100 people. You may not know everyone, but you sure as hell recognize the faces of everyone you see. I know that it takes practice to get good, but when your fuck-ups are hung-up for everyone to see, it's sort of disheartening. But on the other hand, it's even more disheartening when guys uglier, shorter, and less muscular than you are banging girls way hotter than you are. | /r/seduction | 22/02/14 10:42 PM |
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