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Spot on.
/r/seduction06/12/17 04:58 AM
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I agree... but that particular conversation in the OP about Excel is not, because the guy doesn't actually care about it, but he's talking about it anyway.
/r/seduction06/11/17 01:24 AM
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Thanks for the feedback, man. Really appreciate it :) It came from a larger free course that I wrote. You can get it here: https://beardstrokings.com/stop-being-boring/
/r/seduction27/10/17 04:08 AM
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Sure.
/r/seduction11/07/17 03:21 PM
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Then work on that.
/r/seduction09/07/17 07:08 PM
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They're just examples. You can make your own steps, or squeeze other steps in-between.
/r/seduction09/07/17 07:08 PM
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Who says opening up is about baggage?
/r/seduction04/07/17 09:56 PM
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Sure, mate. Will try to remember to do that.
/r/seduction03/07/17 01:47 PM
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Correct. It's a guest post I wrote for Nick.
/r/seduction02/07/17 07:01 PM
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Alright. Give me one that you really enjoy and answer the same questions. Ideally one that you have difficulty explaining to someone else.
/r/seduction26/04/17 07:31 PM
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1- If you can't figure out what you enjoy about it, other people won't understand why you like it either and won't be able to connect with the topic. "What you enjoy about something" is one of the concepts that allows other people to be able to relate to your "weird" hobby. You have to find a way to connect your weird hobbies to concepts that anyone can relate to. Perhaps you like difficult challenges with many moving parts, which is a more universally relatable concept than "grand strategy empl…
/r/seduction26/04/17 05:13 AM
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Good response from righteouscool. But what about for when you don't have another topic (singing) to connect with. What do you enjoy about languages? What do you get out of learning them? Just to stick to one example.
/r/seduction25/04/17 12:23 AM
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But you understand the example, right?
/r/seduction25/04/17 12:14 AM
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Hey mate, let's go with the first hobby. What do you get out of origami? What do you enjoy about it?
/r/seduction25/04/17 12:11 AM
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Sure. What do you get out of art/drawing? What do you enjoy about it?
/r/seduction25/04/17 12:10 AM
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Let's go with the first hobby. What do you get out of thinking about grand strategy employed during warfare? What do you enjoy about it? I'm not sure I follow. In which part do you feel you were being dishonest?
/r/seduction25/04/17 12:09 AM
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Do you have an example of one of these inside jokes and the situation you'd use it in?
/r/seduction25/04/17 12:06 AM
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Cool. Let's go with the first one. What do you get out of anime? What do you enjoy about it?
/r/seduction25/04/17 12:01 AM
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What do you enjoy about guns and military? What do you get out of those hobbies?
/r/seduction24/04/17 11:57 PM
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Yep!
/r/seduction22/04/17 12:39 AM
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The "right way" meaning taking into consideration how the other person will receive what you say. So say your friend is like "Hey there's this awesome cruise next month that I've been thinking of going on." You hate cruises, so an inauthentic response would be "Yeah that sounds cool." (with no intention of actually going) An authentic response might be "I hate cruises", but all you want to do is avoid falsely communicating interest. You don't want to shit all over your friend's idea and kill his…
/r/seduction22/04/17 12:23 AM
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It's about LEARNING to use your thoughts, rather than simply hiding them. It takes time and trial & error, and there are different levels of mastery... it's not a binary thing. You'll think you understand it, then you'll hit a wall where you can't figure out how to use them, because they're too flamboyant... then later you figure out how to use your thoughts in that situation, and your understanding improves.
/r/seduction21/04/17 04:34 PM
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No prob. Glad you found it helpful :)
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:14 PM
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More like... "Do I seem..." (pause, with this face) "suspicious?" But more like a cross between that suspicious look and James Bond sex eyes.
/r/seduction06/04/17 04:24 PM
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"Are you always this anxious?" I agree. This is good too. But I disagree with your assessment of "do I seem suspicious" because it depends heavily on the way you say it. I wasn't asking her genuinely if I seemed suspicious. I delivered it in a way (with a matching facial expression) that made her realise she didn't have to have her guard up. So she dropped it. And another thing. If you're going to say "Are you always this anxious?", you have to deliver that the right way too. I'm not sure I can …
/r/seduction06/04/17 03:10 PM
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She dropped her guard, yeah. But I ended up sleeping with another girl.
/r/seduction06/04/17 02:38 PM
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You read it in a way that was cringey as fuck. Read it differently.
/r/seduction06/04/17 02:36 PM
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Most importantly it needs to be a genuine observation. 100%. Too many guys compliment women with "Nice (whatever)" without genuinely making an observation... and women can sense it. I've seen them say "What's nice about my handbag?" back, and the guy had no idea what to say haha.
/r/seduction06/04/17 02:35 PM
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It's not so much about listening for knowledge or for information. Let me give you another example. On the weekend I approached a girl at a bar with the line "Hi". She said hi back, but kind of slowly. The "who are you?" kind of hi. So my response was "Woah, that was a really suspicious hi. Do I seem suspicious?" I was listening in the sense that my full attention was on her. And I asked that question in order to understand her experience. That's the kind of listening I'm talking about.
/r/seduction05/04/17 09:57 PM
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True that.
/r/seduction05/04/17 09:51 PM
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Give me a specific example of what you'd want to say to her, and I'll tell you if it's a good idea or not.
/r/seduction20/12/16 01:43 PM
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"You're making me nervous. I'm not usually this nervous." Can be sexy too ;)
/r/seduction20/12/16 01:42 PM
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Not sure what you mean?
/r/seduction20/12/16 06:52 AM
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You're assuming we can feel them all at the same time. I can't imagine feeling more than 2 or max. 3 at once. You wouldn't be able to comprehend it. And there are certain emotions that you would just never feel in combination with each other. And we can limit it further to combinations that we are all familiar with, that we feel relatively often.
/r/seduction12/12/16 04:50 AM
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See the title.
/r/seduction12/12/16 01:56 AM
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The conversation ends at some point, right? Make the end of the conversation the trigger that reminds you to get (not ask for) her number.
/r/seduction02/12/16 12:56 AM
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In the free session you'll find out why you’re stuck, what's holding you back and how we would go about solving that through coaching. There’s absolutely no obligation and no pressure to go ahead.
/r/seduction08/11/16 12:35 AM
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That, and looking at what she chooses to do with her time will give you some idea.
/r/seduction07/11/16 05:35 AM
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Stop filtering yourself means to speak, rather than not speak. Say what you're truly thinking and feeling. Don't overanalyse whether the other person will find your thoughts interesting enough, or smart enough, or whatever. But still choose the right words when you do speak, so that you articulate your thoughts clearly. The two points are complimentary to each other. Know what I mean?
/r/seduction07/11/16 03:53 AM
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Yeah give this a try... Do it while listening to music, and instead of focusing on the breath, just keep bringing your focus back to ONE instrument in the track.
/r/seduction31/10/16 02:17 AM
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Thumbs up, man!
/r/seduction18/10/16 11:11 PM
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Good question. I don't think it's a strict requirement to close your eyes actually. But it makes it more difficult because there are more distractions. I'd start with eyes closed. You can try eyes open once you get the hang of it if you like.
/r/seduction18/10/16 11:11 PM
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If that was your first time meditating, that's pretty impressive. Welcome to the present moment. I'm really happy it worked for you :) Just make sure you don't fall into the trap of chasing that feeling next time. I can be a pretty big distraction, and it prevents you from getting to that state of calm.
/r/seduction18/10/16 11:24 AM
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Are we both talking about the same "aware"? In the way it's described in this article?
/r/seduction18/10/16 08:25 AM
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Wish I could help mate, but I haven't had any experience with stuttering. I've heard good feedback about Roger Love's voice training, but not sure if he covers stuttering specifically.
/r/seduction12/10/16 12:45 AM
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Glad you got something out of it :) This might help you with freezing up: https://beardstrokings.com/2016/03/02/snap-out-of-anxious-mood/
/r/seduction10/10/16 04:41 AM
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Which link no worky? Works for me.
/r/seduction20/09/16 03:03 PM
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Damn, that was really well thought-out response. Nice walkthrough of what happens in a relationship where one or both people try too hard to be "perfect". Thanks.
/r/seduction19/08/16 12:02 PM
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In short: be playful too. Flirt, introduce sexual tension, touch them. Express your interest. You're not a doormat. You've got the hard part down. The rest is easier.
/r/seduction15/07/16 08:53 AM
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I agree that you shouldn't launch into level 10 openness from the get go. Start at level 1, then give her a chance to reciprocate. Then go to level 2. You still go first though.
/r/seduction14/07/16 10:35 PM
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No prob. Glad you liked it :)
/r/seduction14/04/16 10:45 AM
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She has a boyfriend and lives in another city, so nothing... yet :P
/r/seduction12/04/16 03:05 PM
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Haha good on you. No prob :)
/r/seduction12/04/16 11:15 AM
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Interesting. Though I think it was probably more the fact that my ex-girlfriend was an architect :)
/r/seduction12/04/16 10:42 AM
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Cheers, buddy. Yep, there are more here: https://gumroad.com/l/bigtalk
/r/seduction12/04/16 08:10 AM
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Here you go: http://beardstrokings.com/conversation-hacks-guide/
/r/seduction12/04/16 08:08 AM
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Does it? I read that like 15 years ago so I don't remember :)
/r/seduction12/04/16 08:07 AM
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Cheers, buddy :)
/r/seduction11/04/16 08:49 PM
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Thanks :) The reason I couldn't last long in bed was because tension would build up in all the different parts of my body during sex. My muscles would tense up, my breathing quickened, my head had thoughts about coming quickly flying through it, etc. And before I did the exercises I was never really aware of all the individual things happening with my body. I just knew I was stressed in my head, and couldn't pinpoint why. Once I learned to break that stress down by noticing all of the individual…
/r/seduction08/04/16 02:43 PM
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Hah, glad you enjoyed it mate :)
/r/seduction23/03/16 02:04 PM
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There absolutely are. You just have to actually go out, meet them and show them you're interested.
/r/seduction23/03/16 10:30 AM
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Agreed.
/r/seduction23/03/16 10:27 AM
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It sounds like she's not actually interested in economics & logistics and doesn't want to tell you the actual reason she chose it ;) Perhaps she thinks the actual reason is boring. I'd change the topic.
/r/seduction23/03/16 10:25 AM
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There are so many other things to consider when you're talking about social interaction: body language, posture, rhythm/speed of speech, tone of voice, gestures, facial expressions, style, etc. Maybe it's one of those that you haven't got quite right yet, or even something else?
/r/seduction23/03/16 10:21 AM
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No probs!
/r/seduction23/03/16 10:19 AM
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^ This!
/r/seduction23/03/16 10:19 AM
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No prob :)
/r/seduction22/03/16 11:18 PM
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Sure, PM me. Sounds like it could be fun.
/r/seduction22/03/16 09:11 PM
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Sorry mate! No idea why it's broken but I've just added a workaround. Try using the welcome mat that drops down :) There's a trick in there for never running out of things to say that might've come in handy with Walmart girl.
/r/seduction22/03/16 09:05 PM
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"Stop filtering yourself" means to speak, rather than not speak. Don't overanalyse whether the other person will find your thoughts interesting enough, or smart enough, or whatever. But still choose the right words when you do speak (which is the other dot point). So they are complimentary to each other. Know what I mean?
/r/seduction22/03/16 07:52 PM
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No prob :)
/r/seduction22/03/16 05:47 PM
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No prob. Go get 'em ;)
/r/seduction22/03/16 01:30 PM
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My pleasure :)
/r/seduction22/03/16 01:29 PM
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Passion is the result of taking action. Not the cause of it. - Mark Manson
/r/seduction22/03/16 01:29 PM
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No prob :)
/r/seduction22/03/16 01:28 PM
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I started BeardStrokings to share my own journey of personal growth with other people. I'm incredibly lucky to have learned what I have learned and it feels good to teach others. So I decided to make it my job to help others achieve similar changes. Still working out how I'm going to make a living from it though.
/r/seduction22/03/16 01:27 PM
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No prob ;)
/r/seduction21/03/16 04:44 PM
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I wrote that guide.
/r/seduction21/03/16 02:44 PM
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Hey my pleasure, man :)
/r/seduction15/03/16 04:34 PM
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Haha that's awesome. Great quote too :)
/r/seduction13/03/16 10:43 AM
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For sure man, sounds good :)
/r/seduction13/03/16 10:38 AM
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Awesome! I love hearing that kind of thing. No prob :)
/r/seduction13/03/16 10:37 AM
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That's awesome. Can you tell us what you said? I'd love to hear it.
/r/seduction09/03/16 01:21 PM
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Wow. I just googled it. Total coincidence. Nice find!
/r/seduction09/03/16 12:53 PM
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There's a definitely a balance you need to find between "sharing everything" and "sharing nothing".
/r/seduction09/03/16 12:50 PM
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What's complicated about saying what's on your mind? "Lowering your expectations" is much harder to accomplish.
/r/seduction09/03/16 12:48 PM
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I have a terrible memory for actual dialogue but the sentiment of each story comes from personal experience. The first one wasn't one particular experience, but rather the residue of having experienced something like that many times. To be honest the setting of the grocery store probably came from you on a subconscious level, because I read your own grocery store story recently, haha.
/r/seduction09/03/16 12:46 PM
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Cheers :)
/r/seduction09/03/16 12:35 PM
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No prob!
/r/seduction09/03/16 12:35 PM
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Thanks, mate. How to start a conversation with a stranger when you don't have anything to say is actually the #1 thing my audience have been asking me for lately. I've come up with a fun solution and I'm testing it out in the streets first before I write about it.
/r/seduction09/03/16 12:34 PM
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Interesting. That sounds similar to something I wrote about a little while back. I called my "shadow-friend" Mr. Anxiety ;) Thanks! And I'm happy you're enjoying my stuff!
/r/seduction09/03/16 12:31 PM
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No prob :) do you have an example of something you said? That'd be cool.
/r/seduction09/03/16 12:21 PM
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Do you have adblock enabled? That message sometimes pops up when your adblock settings are high. Either way it should work if you try it on your phone :)
/r/seduction29/02/16 07:18 AM
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Good call. Will do. Cheers :)
/r/seduction29/02/16 07:17 AM
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Glad you liked it. No prob!
/r/seduction29/02/16 07:17 AM
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I just send you my new articles about connecting with other humans. I usually write one or two a month.
/r/seduction27/02/16 09:23 AM
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Glad you liked it, no worries :)
/r/seduction27/02/16 09:19 AM
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Pleasure :)
/r/seduction27/02/16 09:19 AM
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No prob :)
/r/seduction27/02/16 09:18 AM
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Thanks :) Yeah, they'll let you in once they feel acknowledged. Just like you let people in when you feel acknowledged. When you've got 2 people in a conversation both fighting for acknowledgement, you have a shit conversation. Someone has to listen first. It may as well be you.
/r/seduction26/02/16 05:40 PM
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Yep, it's kinda funny, because I think they do care about the other person. I think people who put themselves out there like that are desperate to connect. They think that shoving themselves down other people's throats is the best way to do it, when in fact it has the opposite effect.
/r/seduction26/02/16 05:10 PM
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No prob :) Sounds a bit like "Groundhog Day".
/r/seduction11/02/16 09:46 AM
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No prob :) Do you have some kind of meditative practice? It sounds like you could use something that'll help get you out of your head a bit. I've found it incredibly helpful.
/r/seduction10/02/16 11:01 PM
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Agreed. As long as HOW you're talking about the weather is not boring, as you said ;)
/r/seduction06/02/16 10:46 AM
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I'm all for meditation and mindfulness but I'm not sure this fits into that category. See my response to Peckerdick's comment.
/r/seduction06/02/16 10:42 AM
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Glad you enjoyed it :) Before I knew how to talk to girls, years ago, I used to do it in bed before I went to sleep every night. Especially if I'd embarrassed myself in some conversation that day. Now I only do it after I stuff up a conversation, which is pretty rare. It's like training a muscle. It gets you out of your left-brain (analytical mind) and starts using your right-brain (creative mind), so you can run conversations based on feeling rather than logic. After you work out how to tap int…
/r/seduction06/02/16 10:41 AM
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Hey mate, I've javascript problems pop up sometimes when you have adblock enabled. Try it in a different browser, or on your phone. Should work :)
/r/seduction06/02/16 10:29 AM
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Great tip! Thanks :)
/r/seduction06/02/16 10:24 AM
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It's a matter of training. Once upon a time you trained your mind to be Boring Boris and killed Fuck It Felicity. If you want her back you have to start small and build on it. What's one thing you do often, like every day, that could be classified as Boring Boris? Start with just changing that.
/r/seduction04/02/16 03:35 PM
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No probs :) The "fuck it" attitude is about taking risks and embracing your weirdness. It's your weirdness that makes you interesting. From the list you wrote the "weirdest" thing you do is working out, because it's the only thing there that not every single person does... although it's not really that weird, and therefore not really that interesting. If you're really into it you could develop that weirdness and become a workout junkie... but if you're not THAT into it then the first step is dev…
/r/seduction04/02/16 12:43 PM
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I politely disagree. This is my attitude for getting a job: https://www.reddit.com/r/GetEmployed/comments/440cqg/this_cover_letter_got_me_flown_from_london_to/
/r/seduction04/02/16 10:58 AM
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That's kind of the point of the article.
/r/seduction04/02/16 10:57 AM
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Go get 'em! ;)
/r/seduction04/02/16 10:55 AM
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:D
/r/seduction04/02/16 10:52 AM
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No probs. You're on your way, sir!
/r/seduction04/02/16 10:52 AM
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Good summary. Love it. Felicity was the first name I thought of that started with 'F' for 'Fuck it' ;)
/r/seduction04/02/16 10:52 AM
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No prob. Glad you enjoyed it :)
/r/seduction04/02/16 10:49 AM
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You're welcome :)
/r/seduction04/02/16 10:49 AM
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Happy to stir up your shit, guys. Don't stop there ;)
/r/seduction04/02/16 10:47 AM
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The funny this is that what most people call "safe" is actually the dangerous option. It kinda kills you, no? Falling on your arse and building resilience is the truly safe option.
/r/seduction04/02/16 10:43 AM
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Love it! My pleasure.
/r/seduction03/02/16 06:08 PM
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No prob ;) Glad you enjoyed it.
/r/seduction03/02/16 05:51 PM
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