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FDS HUMORphb2999/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:51 PM
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My ex and I booked a trip while we were tgt, he was so paranoid and demanded that I made sure I could travel w my visa evey two seconds for 3 months leading up to the trip. Two hours before the flight, he found out that his passport expired. After blaming me for not reminding him to check his passport and asking me to call for cancellation of his flight, he suggested that we could both cancel and do something else. It was a sky full of red flags, I was so speechless that my brain withdrew from t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:01 PM
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my bestfriend and I went thru our breakups six months apart from each other and our life has never been better. Showed this to her and we had a good laugh over beers after working on our garden. Forever grateful that I’m surrounded by HVWs and working on being one myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:01 AM
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Agree w the part abt being single and gaining the feeling that your body is your own and you dont have to push your body to fit anyone’s preferences!!! I have always had insecurities abt my body and I thought it was normal. But I noticed that those thoughts are more significant when i was in a relationship trying to appear attractive to partner or when I just broke up trying to attract potential partner/validation. Then one day, I asked myself why was I rushing to get in shape or to look a certa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:58 AM
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I think my eyes got lost in the back of my head due to excessive eye rolling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:54 AM
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Work has been stressful but then I rmb I always put the spoon in ☺️😌😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:06 AM
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Im a former maintenance gal learning to be high maintenance bc I realized that I need to maintain my standards in order to maintain my own worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:20 AM
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I used dating apps for a short bit two months after a ltr breakup. I didnt even realized I was sucked into the game and spent most my day thinking about the matches and convos. There was only ONE guy that I was interested in and had good conversation with. Not only did he ask me on a walk date ( in the name of being in this panorama 😷) but I also randomly saw him going on a “walk date” with a girl in the parc near by. I honestly believed that was a sign from the universe ( more like a slap) to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 09:15 PM
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I was not aware of this until later but apparently when I was the one who connected w him on social media first he thought I was super into him and he was the shit. I was adding the entire group of ppl I met that day cause I just moved to a new country and needed to know people. Dude turned out to have some sort of superiority complex and couldn’t deal that I wasn’t as attached and didnt worship him. Should have left right when I knew what he thought back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:07 AM
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I’ve never been so impressed!!!! Never really wanted a diamond ring but ngl you got me a little convinced. Congrats and well done ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:53 AM
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I read this post and proceed to cry in broom and dust pan knowing I wont get a dyson anytime soon 😢😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:55 AM
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Same, during my previous relationship I felt so nervous to express that I wanted to move around and experience life in different places bc my ex was settled to stay where we were. He later said this tendency of mine was proof that I wasnt committed while he admittedly flirted w other girls before the breakup 🤡. Now I’m planning my 5 years plan without an ounce of guilt and someone who doesn’t support me like I would for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:29 PM
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Facts tho, fetishizing homosexuality and sexualizing/objectifying real people are bad but only if its men cause women aren’t people. The moment I see that lesbian porn is so normalized for men of all age but then teenage girls are being demonized for shipping a couple 🙅🏻‍♀️🙅🏻‍♀️ I start to understand the agenda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:44 PM
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This is wild haha omg it is not just a “can’t trust no man no more” but also a “enough internet for the day” kind of moment. Cutting off her toes? Like how messed up is this guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:44 AM
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The title haha I wish I can have someone screaming that at me everytime I demonstrate pickme behaviours
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:35 PM
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Omg sometimes I thought about unblocking as well and started feeling guilty abt it but then I’m like nah I like my life how it is right now, drama free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:31 AM
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Omg im in love, what is this omg ❤️ thank you for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:54 AM
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And yet no one out there telling men to go clean their gf’s apartment and her vibrators and menstrual cups
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:24 AM
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Its the aggressive and mocking tone for me 😫🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:15 AM
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Did a kickboxing class w my ex and I was lazy to go talk to people so we sparred w each other (the lighter round like glove tap so nothing crazy). This instructor assistant dude kept making jokes about how my ex could finally hit me legally 🙃🙃 I didnt even know why I was feeling uncomfortable until it hit me now. The class and crew had such cult and gym bro vibe, I never want to be back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:12 AM
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I thought I was safe and on year 3 when he started to loose interest he would bring out just abt anything he could to attack me while fighting and being stressed out from work. Never share your difficulties/vulnerabilities if you’re not ready for it being used against you while you’re working on it ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:54 AM
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I dont think he did ( fact check me pls) but in general sing about passing pussies around so 🚩🚩 Edit: jk he did lol I guess I didn’t read the full article when news came out, thought they went out and both got shot at
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:43 PM
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Forever my queen, I grow up with her music and now listening to all the new songs w a new lens of maturity is incredible. If a man talk shit I dont owe him nothing. Like how can you not relate to music like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:47 PM
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Ahaha, i was rewatching season 1 last night and joe was even worse than i rmb especially after watching season 2.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:10 PM
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Exactly. I was super into eco friendly and off grid living at one point and totally dream up about moving back to my mom hometown and work remotely (preferably freelancing or having my own biz) while living in a small farm ish. I know it might not be possible anytime soon but still. My ex hated the idea and want to remain in a first world capitalist city/country and told me I should be realistic and that he would never move there w me. On the other hand, he also hated the fact that I’m a workaho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 01:40 AM
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Put being butt hurt on the side. How are people supposed to behave? Cant complain abt capitalism if you’re benefitting from it? My bro, capitalism is the fcking system there is no escape. Is his logic really you can only complain against capitalism if you’re 100% off grid self suistaining. So condescending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:26 AM
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This, I know idk wtf Im talking about ( not that much experience) but as a young adult like OP I find that goals and life plan compatibility, independence and emotional maturity are important. Lots guys are nice and funny and “progressive” and clean (cause the bar is that low), but if he is not meeting the other criteria, it’s not worth the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 05:01 PM
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Omg this is epic! Imagine being so bitter and entitled you try to shade the woman you are dating to her own boss?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:05 PM
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Soooooo trueeeeeee omg i need a comprehensive handbook on flaw vs bs. I know its different for everyone and also different kind of boundaries but often time the line is so blurred and especially when we are taught to be kind and be selfless all the time. Thats why so many women go on AIT trying to justifying bs given to them not just in romantic relationship but any type of relationship really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:58 PM
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Me rn being bored out of my mind working on my school project and tempted to go on old app just to get some attention 🙃🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 12:32 AM
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What a quality piece!!! Thank you very much for writing this. I totally agree with number 4 and suggested that to my ex when he mentioned moving in together. He then told me during the break up that he was hurt by that and would rather me being “honest” and admitting that I was not ready to move in bc of my culture/parents than me lying and giving some bs excuse. He also threw some blanket statement that I had commitment issues. To sum it up I was completely bamboozled. I moved out from home sin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:22 PM
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Lol men act like they can take care of you and then get mad when you dont trust them and build your own safety net. I believe if they are evil enough they would even manipulate you into being so dependent on them like they got off of it or something. Meanwhile they can and would drop you in a heartbeat with all the excuses in the world. It’s ridiculous and evil like really. Always put yourself first!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:26 PM
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“Why are you mad, why are you crying? I could be mad and I could be crying too but how is that gonna help the situation? Stop being like this you are just making me feel bad and guilty, dont ruin the good time.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 06:23 PM
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I know, how sad! Donna would never 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:49 AM
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Omg same, I was obsessed w Mama Mia here we go again and was so inspired to start living my life in a more fun perspective. Completely disappointed! The man is completely trash I dont even need to think twice but damn, gotta go unfollow her on insta now 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:50 PM
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Honestly, I used to have the same mindset for the saying no halfway scenario, even though I know it is wrong, that because I agree to sex I guess it makes sense to go through with it. But then I imagine, if I am having sex with someone, and then they say no. Not in a billion years would I keep going and act like they own me sex. Like never. And consent works both ways, so if I can stop they can stop as well. No excuse to be a mf rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:17 PM
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