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I’m probably one of the few that thinks a moratorium on sex and initiation can be productive. It does depend on the situation. My wife held a higher SMV than I when we married- I was a mess of unfocused Alpha and white knight beta. We married- had kids- DBR 10 years later- I found Athol Kay’s work and MRP like most of us. That has been 4 years now. I’m grateful every day I found AK/MRP and grateful for the struggle. I grinded to raise my SMV at or near hers. She is a gifted athlete and is blesse…
/r/askMRP26/12/17 09:59 PM
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I like it better when she wears no pants
/r/askMRP12/08/17 05:24 AM
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Yep- I figured schedules and quality sleep for the kids was the reason. Agree that is important and should be enforced. That said, did you decide this with her- then leave her to deliver the 'bad' news alone? If you knew this would be a point of contention, you LEAD her by planning out how you are going to deliver this message at the onset of the visit, with her standing by your side. You anticipate and prepare for your MIL's responses together. This serves two purposes- your MIL gets that you a…
/r/askMRP03/12/16 05:41 PM
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Why is her sleeping in the kids room such a big issue. There can certainly be lots of good reasons why but what are yours specifically and does/did the mrs agree? Maybe your MIL is bulldozing your wife too and needs you to lead her- not fight her.
/r/askMRP02/12/16 07:40 PM
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Do you have any data on the IUD? Better or worse for hormone meddling?
/r/askMRP14/11/16 11:05 PM
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If you STFU I think you're fine. It sounds more like a shit test to get you back into her frame and demonstrate some of that beta behavior you used to display.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 04:45 AM
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She'd relish this text from the right guy so I think you have a ways to go. Early stages text for logistics only. Not a huge misstep, just let it go and stfu.
/r/askMRP16/09/16 08:18 PM
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Good question. Maybe nothing. But after I finally decided I needed to understand this event and it's impact on her, I discovered how trauma, especially loss, at a young age can cause a person to build walls to protect themselves. You can't get behind these walls because getting behind them would potentially expose the person to that type of pain again should something go wrong. Different people have different coping mechanisms but keeping the world at arms length to protect yourself is a fairly …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/16 03:12 AM
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I don't think so. It's only been the past 4 years that I considered the suicide as a factor. Before that it was just something that happened. When I took a hard look at it I realize it is THE EVENT of her life. At a terrible time for a female. So I never considered her damaged goods when courting and marrying her. As stated RP has moved the needle so definitely worth keeping. Just wondering if therapy could be added to the mix to help. I think others have nailed it in that she needs to want to g…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 10:59 PM
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I don't know the number but I suspect it's minimal. She was very inexperienced when we met. We were definitely a mis match sexually but I thought she would come along. While she has, there is still that vunerability factor. She's down for anything but there's that hold back. Makes me think I'm not there yet but I may never get there either.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 10:52 PM
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Married 13 years. 2 kids. N over 20 lots fell in my lap as a military pilot. I will never take my foot off the RP gas. The results have been too good, both inside and outside my marriage. No off days.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 10:08 PM
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shit. Of course
/r/askMRP24/08/16 09:36 PM
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Yes lead. It's tricky though. I recognized this as a breakthrough moment. She showed vunerability and sensual energy without prodding and it was beautiful. Maybe the real lesson is to understand how she finally got there. I clearly need more make out time /game/keno well before any sex. Probably well away from the bedroom and evening. As with MRP in general it will probably take time. The absolute last thing I want to do is seem critical.
/r/askMRP24/08/16 09:07 PM
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winner
/r/askMRP18/01/16 05:09 AM
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