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The beginning of my divorce (wife cheating) happened pretty close to the same way. Has anybody here reached out to the dude yet?
/r/MGTOW25/12/20 03:05 AM
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First of all - good for you brother! It makes me happy to see one of us living the way he wants to (as I sit here in 33 degree rain.....that's December in Tennessee.) Question out of curiosity, regarding the legal frameworks there: how do you show proof of ownership of the property? Is there something that is equivalent to the US system, like the deed held at the county courthouse? How does that work in Honduras?
/r/MGTOW21/12/20 03:56 AM
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How funny. My marriage was getting bad before, but it really accelerated when Obama was getting elected. My crazy ex did the same thing; got political, got woke, turned full feminist and even got bi - curious. It's like there's a playbook out there that they read.... Anyway - good for you brother! Keep up the good work!
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 04:48 PM
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Yes, you probably need to worry about a child support adjustment. Just because you have the child more that 60% of the time does not mean that given the swing in incomes, you couldn't come out having to pay her child support. It happens. Child support rates in the US are governed at the state level. Most states (if not all at this point) use something called an 'income shares' model to calculate the amount of support, based on both parents' income, number of days, health care expenses, etc. Also…
/r/MGTOW28/08/20 01:10 AM
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He didn't get himself in to this overnight, and he won't get himself out of it overnight. He needs a six month plan: First thing he needs to work on is getting his own transportation. That will clear up most of the dependency. Something...anything that drives... work on that for a few months. Then at 3 months, he need to announce to the leech that the landlord has given 90 days notice that he is raising the rent to an amount that can't be handled, and that they are all going to have to move out …
/r/MGTOW29/06/20 02:38 AM
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It does actually. This is pretty much the same thing that happened to me - my crazy ex filed an order of protection against me in the middle of my divorce. I was lucky though in that I had a friend who let me stay at his house, and so wasn't homeless. I was able to get out of the house with two suitcases of clothes and a couple of guitars. Everything else - clothes, books, tools, computers, etc. got sold in a 'divorce yard sale.' That's the kind of property he's talking about.
/r/MGTOW29/06/20 01:32 AM
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Sure. If you live in the US, then you see the downstream implications of it everywhere. Just google for domestic violence shelters in your area, and then look at the way that the advertise. You see, there's an EPIDEMIC of domestic violence in your town, and the only way to combat that is through educational programs and state government lobbying efforts by these non-profit groups that run the shelters. Where do you think the funding for all that comes from? From Federal grant money that is hande…
/r/MGTOW22/02/20 01:38 AM
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Child support falls under a category of law called 'domestic relations' or 'family law.' Family law is categorized as Civil Law, not Criminal Law. No state that I know of provides representation for free under civil law. There might be some exceptions if you're indigent, but I doubt it.
/r/MGTOW20/02/20 05:56 AM
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Brother I think you should relax and ignore her. First of all, you can't modify the amount of child support because of an entirely unrelated issue that has nothing to do with how child support is calculated. Secondly, your state works a lot like the state where I live - child support is calculated using the 'income shares' model. The OR statues are here: https://www.doj.state.or.us/child-support/for-professionals/child-support-laws/child-support-guideline-rules-137-050/ that means that there has…
/r/MGTOW20/02/20 05:32 AM
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I think that if I were in your situation I would try to find a way to take advantage of living in a university town. Have you thought about a condo or townhouse to start? Once you're in you could keep saving money for a free-standing house, and then make money by renting the condo. Maybe a duplex? Live in one side and rent the other?
/r/MGTOW18/01/20 11:33 PM
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Now that brings back some memories..... my grandparents lived in New Symrna. When I was a kid, I actually cut the hell out of my leg on that jetty you're standing on. Had to get 16 stitches at Fish Memorial hospital.
/r/MGTOW03/12/19 03:28 AM
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Brother, you have my sympathy. My marriage didn't last as long as yours, but it was the same. Hell, in the end they're all the same. It is about betrayal. But I think it is important for you to realize that anything that happened before really doesn't matter now. All that sadness you're feeling won't matter for anything going forward. And right now, you've got to start thinking about how to protect yourself. ​ Here are some suggestions, based on what I learned from my divorce: You need to educat…
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 01:26 AM
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I agree with this - reliability is a great skill to develop and will count greatly towards your long - term viability as an employee. A better way to handle it might be to schedule a vacation day a week or two in advance so that everyone knows not to bother you when you take your downtime. It also gives you something to look forward to, and I've found that usually helps me get out of the rut.
/r/MGTOW08/08/19 02:05 AM
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Actually I think you'll find that a lot of us here are the same age or older than you. I am. Like you, I had everything that I had built my life upon - and the foundation of my identity - ripped out from underneath me. You tend to question your own worth in the world when that happens. ​ Regardless of how or who was responsible for you ending up at this point... it is over. What's past is past, you have to put all of that down, and carve out a new life for yourself going forward. Others here hav…
/r/MGTOW25/06/19 02:12 AM
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1 year living together 11 years married 2 years getting divorced = 14 years completely pissed away. ​ Learn from our mistakes.
/r/MGTOW25/06/19 01:14 AM
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Perhaps you've never had the 'opportunity' to be financially tied to a woman who tries to be an entrepreneur. Allow me to illustrate why this is completely apropos: ​ I work for a large corporation in IT. I earn a salary which is easily traceable. I make over six figures. ​ My X wife runs a business selling things on Amazon. Basically she will canvas the local area's stores, find things that are on sale, and then resell them on Amazon for a slight profit. Retail arbitrage if you will. She works …
/r/MGTOW25/05/19 02:45 PM
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Congrats Brother - enjoy your raise! I've got another five years of $1625 for two.
/r/MGTOW29/04/19 12:36 AM
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I'm not in Canada so this is not authoritative, but I can't imagine a family law attorney working on contingency. They don't do that in the States - they bill by the hour. And holy fuck how they bill. Almost all of them want a retainer up front to bill against, and when that's gone, they come asking for more before they proceed with your case. ​ I say this because if you have to litigate, I think you're going to have to have cash up front for representation. ​ That aside, what I hear you saying …
/r/MGTOW12/04/19 09:10 AM
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First of all - CONGRATULATIONS on coming through the first part of your journey so unscathed brother! You should be commended for your good sense. ​ Secondly - if you've not made that kind of money before, you're going to be absolutely pissed at the amount of taxes you're going to pay. I'm not saying you should do anything different, and it is a high-class problem to have, but just get ready to feel kinda fucked over by the government. It'll change the way you feel about socialism real quick. ​ …
/r/MGTOW09/04/19 01:34 AM
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Give TastyTrade a try. They are a led by a group of ex-CBOE floor traders, and live stream 8 hours of trading and educational content every day. It's led by a guy named Tom Sosnoff, who was a CBOE floor trader for 30 years. ​ https://www.tastytrade.com/tt/ ​
/r/MGTOW06/04/19 03:14 PM
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"I guess what you and Michelle are saying, is that when you're on your backs, the meter is running..." ​ Absolutely brilliant! Thanks for finding.
/r/MGTOW03/04/19 01:04 AM
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1 > If you've seen this behavior manifest itself with her parents, she will not change. She grew up witnessing the way that her mother treated her father, and that imprinted. She views the world through that lens. If you stick around, you're going to suffer the same fate for the next 30 years (if you're lucky) or until she finally gets pregnant and then divorces you. ​ 2 > A couple of things about the divorce process you'll want to know: 2a> The person who files first usually wins. Divorce is a …
/r/MGTOW14/03/19 10:51 PM
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There's more to it. Most people assume that a prenup addresses what will happen to assets and earnings during the marriage. It does not; it can only address assets acquired before the marriage. Anything acquired during the marriage are considered shared property, and are subject to the terms and conditions of the marriage contract, and the three parties to the marriage contract: you, your spouse and the state. ​ For example: you inherit a million dollars from your rich uncle at age 22. You put i…
/r/MGTOW02/03/19 04:01 PM
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While you're doing your research take a look at Huntsville Alabama.
/r/MGTOW02/03/19 02:38 PM
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I know what you mean. Don't bother with Charlotte or Durham. If you like North Carolina take a look at Winston Salem or Greensboro or Hickory. If you like Kentucky Lexington, Louisville or Bowling Green will work.
/r/MGTOW02/03/19 03:58 AM
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You mention consulting, so I would recommend you think about cities with airport hubs large enough to offer direct flights, like Charlotte / Atlanta / Nashville. ​ Remember though that unless you're thinking of South Florida, we do get seasons down here. Maybe not as bad as where you're from, but sometimes January can be brutal here in Tennessee. ​ Speaking of Florida, you might take a look at the Gulf coast - somewhere down around Fort Myers (look at the weather in Fort Myers right now - it'll …
/r/MGTOW02/03/19 12:05 AM
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Generally, if you mind your own business no one will bother you. Minding your own business is key. Where are you thinking of moving to?
/r/MGTOW01/03/19 02:02 PM
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A couple of thoughts: Personally, my commentary here about divorce is based on my experiences and not others. However, literally 90% of all the men I know have been divorced. Some have remarried, some have not. But the outcome seems to have been the same for all of them. You seem to frame marriage as a spiritual contract between yourself, your spouse and God. However, in the United States, you have to get a marriage license to be considered married, because that 'marriage' is a legal entity. The…
/r/MGTOW21/02/19 05:49 AM
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Brother, you have my sympathy. I think you have two things working against you: ​ - general adolescent dumbassedness (that’s a built-in feature) - the inability to be a greater male influence to counter the bad influences of her mother ​ My advice to you is based on my experiences as a non-custodial parent to a girl (older) and a boy. I was a long-distance parent from the time they were young. ​ I found that my daughter had enough of an internal compass and influence from extended family (her gr…
/r/MGTOW20/02/19 01:46 AM
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Because feminism isn't 'solely a child of the left' anymore, and hasn't been for over 20 years. And I'm not fighting anything. I've checked out and I'm not coming back - regardless of who's in power.
/r/MGTOW08/12/18 04:50 AM
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For the love of God, PLEASE DON'T CO-HABITATE. If you want to date this woman, then put yourself in a position where you can GTFO whenever you need to, and STOP CARING WHAT SHE DOES. Really - stop caring about it. You're so invested in finding out if she's cheating, or about to cheat, or whatever that you're in a really vulnerable place emotionally, and in the end you're just going to end up getting stomped on. Again. Go read the story about the scorpion and the frog. Realize that it is just in …
/r/MGTOW08/12/18 04:30 AM
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Definitely check out TVA - they operate three nuclear plants: https://www.tva.gov/Energy/Our-Power-System/Nuclear ​ I think you'd find southeast Tennessee and north Alabama really enjoyable. ​
/r/MGTOW07/12/18 03:10 AM
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My crazy ex wife threw up a gofundme page to raise money to pay the lawyers she used to sue me and extend alimony. I found the page, filed a motion for contempt, and she had to take it down. ​ Brother, come back and let us know when you're ready. I'll be more than happy to contribute to your legal defense fund.
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 03:04 AM
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You are young, and so you will inevitably encounter and have relationships with women. It will happen eventually. Whether or not they are successful is completely subjective. Think about it like this - Sartre said: “Man is nothing else but what he purposes, he exists only in so far as he realizes himself, he is therefore nothing else but the sum of his actions, nothing else but what his life is.” ​ To state another way - your life is the sum of all the choices that you make. ​ In order to make g…
/r/MGTOW18/11/18 08:04 PM
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You need to get legal representation. Period. You cannot live on that amount of money, and you can't be expected to provide a decent place for your child to stay with you either. ​ This is going to suck, and to swallow your pride to do it, but you're going to have raise funds. SELL something - sell everything you can live without. If you have a relationship with your parents, ask them to help you with part of it. If you have any relatives or friends - ask them. Get the money to pay the retainer.…
/r/MGTOW26/09/18 12:54 AM
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Actually no. The article states that he was a federal administrative judge, and had dealt with social security disability cases for the last ten years. So he probably had had no experience with family law or domestic court. ​ Hell he was probably at more of a disadvantage than most people, because he thought (based on his experience with the law) that domestic court would be rational.
/r/MGTOW28/08/18 12:35 AM
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I'm right there with you brother. Mid 50's, with two boys in their teens that I pay for. Questions for you if you don't mind - I don't know where you are, and I know that different states have different regulations: 1 > how did a motion for change of custody turn into a recalculation of overnights from the current schedule? Did your ex-wife file a counter petition or something? Did the judge just take it upon them self to modify the current schedule? I ask because where I am there have been appe…
/r/MensRights15/08/18 02:09 AM
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You have a right to communicate with your children. You're going to have to make a legal case of it though. You're going to have to file a motion to modify your parenting plan. A judge in Knox County might not approve 'at will' communications, but they'll approve some type of scheduled communication. Something like every Wednesday night at 7 pm, or every Sunday at 4. You would probably want to ask for 'at will' first, or in the alternative on some schedule.
/r/MensRights08/08/18 02:24 AM
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To answer your question - yes you can go your own way with kids. I know, because I've done it. Brother, this is going to a long, hard march. There's no way around it, and you're going to have to come to grips with it. If I could offer some suggestions: 1> As others have mentioned here, spend some time creating a documentation system for all your interactions with this woman - both financially and as a co-parent. Google docs and Google voice work well. Get a Google voice number and make that your…
/r/MGTOW05/08/18 02:41 PM
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I'm a lot older than you are, and have had learned a lot about people since I've been an adult, so if you don't mind, let me speak to you as an older brother for a sec: - it has been my experience that the vast majority of people sort out their own sexuality pretty quickly past puberty. They are either hetero or homo, and they know it. - gender dysphoria (trans) has always existed in a _very_ limited set of the population. The recent over-the-top societal acceptance of trans is in a way trendy a…
/r/MGTOW03/08/18 02:56 AM
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Take a few hours and watch the live stream videos on tastytrade.com. It is great education. They have a brokerage and platform called tastyworks. Best I've found in platform stability and cost. Even if you stay with Ally, check the educational content on tastytrade.
/r/MGTOW25/06/18 02:04 AM
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I'm 55 and I would tell you the same. To be fair there were some good years to my marriage, but on balance they didn't begin to outweigh the bad ones, or the stupid suffering through the divorce. It really isn't worth what you end up risking, financially and emotionally.
/r/MGTOW03/05/18 01:46 AM
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He acknowledges his mistake, leaves advice for those coming after him (pretty good advice actually.) Then you take the piss out of him because he lives with his parents, and make declarations about what constitutes 'true MGTOW' in the process. And you do it in multiple comments through this thread. I'm not fucking dense at all; I can see your bullshit clearly. But indulge us...please. What's the cut-off age for living with your family and going your own way? 20? 24? 28? When exactly? You have no…
/r/MGTOW21/04/18 06:25 AM
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Really? Thanks so much for letting us all know that one of the rules of your MGTOW club was not living with your parents. Any other rules we need to know about? When I got divorced, and was evicted, and was homeless while working a full time job to pay ridiculous amounts of alimony and child support, I bounced back and forth between living at my parent's and friend's houses for over a year. I was 47. Does that mean I don't get to be in your MGTOW club either? What the fuck do you know about his …
/r/MGTOW21/04/18 12:59 AM
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Yes. Long story short - she started hooking up with an old boyfriend after finding him online. When I met her, she was a loser punk rock chick working in a bar. I helped her get her GED (she had dropped out of high school her senior year) and get a college degree. She worked in the same field that I did until the first child was born. We had a house at the end of a cul-de-sac, a minivan, she didn't have to work - the whole American dream. In the end she fucked up the whole thing because she was …
/r/MGTOW28/01/17 01:56 AM
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I'm right there with you. Married 12 years, 2 kids. She got the house, the equity in the house, $1600 / mo. alimony for four years, $1500 / mo CS.
/r/MGTOW27/01/17 02:15 PM
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Same thing happened to me. I didn't see it coming and was actually served by the police over the phone at work. I had no place to go, very little money, no extra clothes. It took four court motions just to get most of my personal belongings out of the house. And that was what was left over that she didn't manage to sell in a 'divorce garage sale.'
/r/MensRights20/07/16 03:15 AM
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I live in TN. I've had to deal with CS in Davidson and I feel your pain. Even if you didn't receive notice properly, if you are not in court they will proceed. They don't care. You can try to appeal it if they do, but there are appellate decisions you can search out that show that it isn't a black and white issue. The worst thing I had to deal with as an income tax refund intercept. CS had entered my divorce decree incorrectly (or on purpose) and showed me as being in arrears from the day the di…
/r/MensRights13/07/16 03:15 AM
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Actually they have. http://www.boston.com/news/local/new_hampshire/articles/2011/07/10/divorced_dad_leaves_clues_to_his_desperation/
/r/MensRights09/01/14 03:02 AM
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I have been in your situation (circumstances slightly different, since mine was in the middle of a divorce.) What you can expect is to be ejected from the home, and ordered to continue to pay for mortgage, utilities, insurance, etc. This is because VAWA (federal law) filters down into state law, and state law requires an action like this. Also, since there are small kids involved, a court is NOT going to remove the mom from the house. I would also venture to guess that what you're seeing is your…
/r/MensRights30/12/13 11:58 PM
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I think that it is important to keep in mind that we are talking about change over a long time. It took a few decades for feminism to integrate itself into our society's fabric as deeply as we see today. Also, think about the way that feminism works; feminism is about entitlement ("I want more cake because I deserve it - I have a vagina!"), and therefore much easier to convince others that feminism is desirable ("Hey! I have a vagina, I want that cake too!") MRA's are created by context and expe…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 02:15 AM
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Feminism increases social costs (and therefore taxes) because feminism has forced 'The State' to replace services that used to be provided by the family unit. Things like subsidized day care, aid for needy families (single mothers,) etc. Go to the Department of Justice website, look up the "Violence Against Women" sections. Look at the grants that are given. You're paying for those grants. Feminism forces other costs to go up as well. I can give you a direct example: in case you haven't read the…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 02:02 AM
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