pillowpwner Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Desperately need help with TRP So what do I do about it? If you're really experienced in TRP, I would expect a little more feedback than just that.	/r/TheRedPill	05/09/17 04:28 AM
2	Desperately need help with TRP Right now it's definitely about balance. It'd be a lie if I said I haven't been needy in the past but this has been different. Usually with a girl I like, I've texted her repeatedly always wanting to hear from her but now I don't have no huge expectations. Right now I'm just worried I won't be enough in the sack and she'll go back to one those other guys, but I know this mindset won't help at all and I'm trying to change. I want to be vulnerable but at the same time, not be so open that I mentio…	/r/TheRedPill	04/09/17 11:54 PM
1	Desperately need help with TRP I understand where you're coming from and yeah maybe I haven't been assertive enough, although on our fourth dates I suggested sex but she was still hesitant. I think she was hesitant only when I mentioned that I'm not sure how I'd feel about us after we had done it when a lot of my past relationships have been like that (just a one night stand and then no contact). But still this is kinda new just because we're more focused on what we both want. I know it's not necessarily TRP but I'm a firm be…	/r/TheRedPill	04/09/17 10:53 PM
3	Desperately need help with TRP Yes! I love this, this is very constructive. Maybe she merely wants to please me and that is what sets her off. But it's hard for me to keep that mindset. I've always thought about what pleases her and her feelings as well, that's always been my personality so I understand how she is putting me in a beta orbiter place. But that last part you wrote has definitely hit home. No matter what I'm gonna try to stay alpha and focus on what pleases me.	/r/TheRedPill	04/09/17 10:45 PM
1	Need some more help guys.. You bring up some good points! You're right it is really hard not to get obsessed over it and at the same time I haven't even met the girl. This is a perspective I'm still trying to grasp, especially when the girl is absolutely gorgeous. Ever since I've started NoFap, this has slowly been getting better and I've been keeping my cool over how attractive a girl is and maintain my expectations while doing what's best for me. For all I know the girl could be completely self centered (or something el…	/r/seduction	27/06/17 11:46 PM
1	Gahhhhhhh I fucked up Wow man you really know your stuff! These are things I have never known about and it's really easy for me to come across as a 'nice guy'. I understand this isn't a good habit but for whatever reason I always revert to that.. I'm definitely saving this and looking it over in the future. Not only good advice but a huge confidence boost. After reading that last part I have a new respect for myself and what I do. It's been really hard for me to figure out what exactly I've been doing wrong and tryin…	/r/seduction	12/06/17 03:02 AM
1	Gahhhhhhh I fucked up I like that 'keep it simple and fun'. I always feel pressure from reading about the typical 'Hey' and 'What's up' openers that I try to stand out but I also get carried away with that. Still trying to find that balance and understand that less is more. Thanks for the advice, definitely helpful!	/r/seduction	11/06/17 05:36 PM
1	Gahhhhhhh I fucked up Ouch I can totally see that now..	/r/seduction	11/06/17 05:29 PM
1	Gahhhhhhh I fucked up No you're right, and why I'm so invested idk. This is something I've had trouble with for awhile now. I consider myself a pretty good looking dude but I'm still self conscious and somewhat self centered. Something I'm still working on but this is solid advice.	/r/seduction	11/06/17 05:28 PM
1	Gahhhhhhh I fucked up I hear ya, I appreciate the comment man I need to hear that just looking for ways to improve.	/r/seduction	11/06/17 02:10 PM