Alright everyone, so I've been familiar with TRP for quite some time now yet I am still very new to it. I'm looking to get some insight on a current SO I'm seeing.

I'm a 26 yo male, have had plenty of relationships in the past but it's been awhile since I've had a relationship like this. Making it hard not to revert to a beta mindset. I may be somewhat inexperienced with TRP but please be patient with me as I'm looking to learn.

I met a girl on tinder recently who I've grown a liking to. We first started by going on dates to a fancy restaurant and going on hikes but by the third date is when we started getting physical. If I truly followed the TRP method then I should've bedded her right away but I'm honestly looking for something a little more genuine. Yet I'm coming across some things about her that are a little confusing.. that I think requires more TRP knowledge.

She's 19, with a pretty busy lifestyle (going to school and working two jobs). Yet I know she genuinely wants to be with me, otherwise she wouldn't make the time for it. We meet normally once a week on Sundays and I rarely text her but on the days we hangout. Haven't really been with anyone this young before but we both have similar goals and interests and that's why I like her.

But now for the deeper part.. sex. I mentioned earlier that we've been physical but we haven't actually had sex yet. We've only dry humped and I've honestly never done that since high school yet it was still just as hot and sweaty. On our fourth date we became physical again but she's hesitant on actually having sex, which I'm ok with (I'm not going to throw a fit if she's not ready). Yet I'm a little confused.. she seems to have more sexual experience than me and she's mentioned that her last boyfriend was a couple months back and lasted for 4 months but in between then and meeting me she's been seeing multiple guys for just sex, even if the guy was a complete douche.

We've also both communicated how we want this to be something genuine and I definitely feel the same way but her past is confusing me.. I'm trying not to let her past bother me, but it's hard not to think about it sometimes. Sure, maybe she genuinely likes me, but she would still see these guys even if they treated her like shit? I mean honestly they must have been doing something right and they probably had great sex with the way she's been acting in the sack. Now it's my turn in the ballpark and I just want to make sure I hit a home run.

Now for the sex, we've both agreed that we're hesitant to do the dirty but we gone as far as oral on each other. My biggest issue is making sure I'm PLEASING her. I've read multiple articles back and forth about saying how it's important to please her or articles that say it's only important to focus on your pleasure.. and I mean both sides make sense, but it's hard to stick to one. During our dry humping, she's honestly made me cum twice, which has been very satisfying but she says she hasn't had an orgasm yet. I'm just hoping when the time is right that I can equally have her pleased as well as me. I mean I want her to stick around right?

So far I have not said anything about her past or that I'm feeling sexually insecure. Which I think is good because I know bringing up any of this could be a total buzzkill. Really the only sketch things that I have mentioned is that, I told I haven't had sex for a couple months, and I've asked her if she likes that (some move or oral I've performed on her). Really I just want to hear your guys feedback, where can I improve? How should I be treating her according to her past experiences, in order to keep around and sexually pleased?

For all I know this could be all be in my head, and really she is fine with the way things are going, and she only wants to wait because she is genuinely interested in me. But then again she could be withholding sex because she hasn't seen my alpha side yet. I just don't want to fuck this up when there could be subtle signs that are going right over my head.

EDIT: I understand that TRP is a lot different if not completely different to this kind of approach. But I'm not looking for only criticism but also constructive criticism. Please provide more than criticism to this post. If you're going to post criticism, I need to see/learn an alternative to this kind of approach.